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People need to know when to stop. The hustle culture is making us think we get to have everything everyone else can, even celebrities. That’s just not how it works for normal people. Imagine being willing to walk away from it all just because the relationship has some issues. Why didn’t you think of that before you had a kid with him? Why aren’t you willing to work it out for the welfare of your child? This is incredibly selfish. It’s all about her. So sad
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/11/21 04:03 AM
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Right. I think people need to have a come to Jesus moment with themselves. It’s great that she is successful in her career, that means she has something to bring to the table, you need two incomes in most situations nowadays. But her expectations far outweigh what she’s bringing to the table herself. As a 47 year old.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/10/21 05:36 PM
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Men and women aren’t equal. Physiologically. We’re just built different. The scenario you’re describing ends with those women single alone surrounded by a bunch of cats. That’s the challenge nowadays is finding someone where your values are aligned. Their outlook on other people like exs or even perfect strangers (sometimes even members of their own family) can tell you how they’re going to treat you. As a man, avoid bitter women like the plague. If they attribute external causes to their misery…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/10/21 05:15 PM
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I’m not measuring success by the number of dates someone gets though. She can’t keep anyone around and that’s more telling.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/10/21 02:05 PM
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Someone to get old with. A promise to take care of each other when the rest of the world doesn’t really want us or care for us anymore. Knowing that you share moral values (helps to share religion and culture) will allow you to structure your lives together in a way that’s fulfilling for both of you. And goes without saying but my SO is the one with the high powered career and makes a good amount of the decisions for us which is what I wanted.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/10/21 01:43 PM
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Long lasting relationships are about so much more than feeling the ‘feels’. This is one extremely immature 46 year old. Sure it took me till I was 26 to recognize what was important in a relationship but 46 is way too old to be acting this way. Also I don’t think she understands that men literally don’t give an F what you make or how ‘high-powered’ your job is. You would think her real-life results aka being single at 46 would have taught her that.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/10/21 04:46 AM
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It makes sense. You spend so much time giving so much love to something that won’t love you back like a man can. It would drive anyone insane.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/07/21 05:03 AM
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It’s the copper IUD. And she’s dumb. You can get pregnant almost right away after taking it out
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/07/21 11:22 PM
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This is just sad. It’s unfortunate that this becomes a generational curse. That’s why it’s important to make sound decisions when choosing a partner. Get married then have as many kids as you want! It’s not hard. But in these situations, the kids go on to make the same mistakes.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/07/21 03:48 AM
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Just have to call these micro aggressions out. It doesn’t just happen to minorities and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 04:04 PM
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Ok. This is a prostitute. Covids been hard on the industry.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/05/21 02:09 AM
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I agree. Have you ever seen “My 600 lb life”? 8 times out of 10 it’s sexual abuse that occurred in childhood. I have all the sympathies in the world for people like this. They just need to get off the “body positivity/health at every size” train and see that they are eating as a way to cope with unresolved trauma and handle it in a healthy way.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/05/21 03:48 AM
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If you’re having THAT bad of a time on dating apps, maybe it’s you?? I don’t understand lumping a whole gender into one group and making broad generalizations like this. I guess it’s hard to admit that you’re doing something wrong.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/05/21 05:39 AM
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At first I thought you were doing a depressing version of the “Live. Love. Laugh” thing 😆
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/05/21 01:15 AM
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Education/job- Be eager to pursue advancement in your career, if that advancement only happens with a degree, then be willing to go for it. Preferably has a bachelors or has the plans to get one. Looks- Don’t matter too much. Just be clean cut and presentable Age-Preferably 2-5 years older but younger within a year is okay. This really depends on the maturity level. My greatest relationship to date has been with the only guy I’ve dated who has been younger than me (by 8 months) and he has his va…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 12:59 PM
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These poor kids on dating apps and they have no idea. What the fuck.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/05/21 01:58 AM
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The issue is I feel like most people don’t officially come out and ask “want to be my girlfriend?” You just feel out the vibe and it’s an unspoken thing if the chemistry is right. I’m sure this poor guy wasn’t thinking she’s out banging other guys. Isn’t the fact that you’ve been out on 7 dates any kind of clue? I mean I don’t hang out with people 7 times unless there’s some sort of exclusivity or they are straight up a friend...... if you really are that dumb, then you probably aren’t emotional…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/05/21 01:56 AM
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That’s not attractive
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/05/21 01:49 AM
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Girl. That dress is not for you.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/04/21 04:49 AM
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It is so sad that we have just accepted as a society that it’s totally okay to be a single mother. It went from being totally unheard of to extremely frowned upon to the quiet disdain/sympathy for them to now where it’s some sort of a badge of honor? Does nobody care about these fucking kids??? I grew up in a very conservative household, my dad wasn’t around for a couple of years on/off during my childhood (working overseas) and I still remember that. As a young girl, you need your dad. Young bo…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/21 04:48 AM
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Totally agree. Something about their “conservative” values tells them to keep their baby. But they conveniently forget the conservative stance on not being on food stamps or welfare and being able to support yourself through meaningful employment.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/03/21 11:13 PM
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If I judged a man SO wrongly that he was to leave me after having a child with him or behaved so badly in the relationship that caused him to cut ties with both me and his flesh and blood, I don’t think I’d ever date again. I don’t understand what goes through these Womens heads. God forbid trapping a childless man and asking him to treat my children like his own.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/03/21 04:16 AM
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This is probably more common than people would like to admit. CYA always if you are out in the dating world.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/03/21 04:54 AM
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I can only comment on the orgasm part- are you on hormonal BC by any chance? I found that I really had a hard time getting to the big finish when I was on hormonal BC no matter how good the sex was or how into it I was. It wasn’t till I switched to paraguard IUD that I realized it wasn’t me at all. All those hormones were interfering with my sex life. Maybe that’s what’s going on with you?
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/21 04:55 AM
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Or the fact that you are not safe from HIV/AIDS even with a condom. That’s why I’m always horrified when sex workers and the like try to date and ask “Hey, do I have to disclose my past to future dates” are you fucking kidding me??? Wtf. And that’s what’s scary. Not just that society is going to shit because of the proliferation of only fans and normalization of sex work. It’s that you could date someone and have no idea they used to do that. And people have decided you have no right to know tha…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/03/21 06:24 PM
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😂 why would she ask you for bad stories and then shut you down for being negative. I can’t make sense of this one. Also is she fishing for a K-1 visa?!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/03/21 04:48 AM
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Not on dating apps but it’s honestly dumb. It’s the apps effort to seem “woke” and these people are falling for it by using the tags to virtue signal. While paying little attention to how it comes off to potential mates. They should be treating their profile like a resume thinking “what’s going to make someone swipe right on me” instead they make it a vessel for their own narcissism. Having the mental health awareness tag could potentially make a future match think twice wondering maybe you have…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/03/21 08:25 AM
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I don’t think they’re beneficial to women at all. As a woman I can’t imagine what possible benefit I could get from multiple men....sex is not a benefit in my eyes in that type of arrangement because sex is only worthwhile in a long term committed relationship. They think they are getting the world but really they’re missing out on having that deep meaningful connection with one person. That’s not a good trade off
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/03/21 03:51 PM
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I’m a woman. And I live in a major metropolitan area of the US so cultures mixing is more common than it may be in other spaces. I am a minority myself. And you could say it’s because I am female that I’ve never encountered the negative reactions you are describing but I truly think it’s because I wear my culture on my sleeve. Idgaf if someone looks down on people of my background and focus on the talents, and progress I am making in my own life. People are attracted to movers and shakers.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 04:16 AM
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You cannot control that!!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 04:13 AM
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You can’t be open minded if you hate your culture and community. I hate to say it. But it’s mostly in your head. I’ve met women who will exclusively date brown dudes. It’s all about what you bring to the table that can entice others to want to be around you. Be a good person, have self confidence. You can’t change your identity. Your physical appearance denotes your heritage and that can’t be changed. Learn to embrace who you are. Surely there are cultural things you like about yourself that mak…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 03:26 AM
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I feel like sexual education programs in high schools around the country should have the students do a project on the realities of single motherhood and it’s effect on children. The teen pregnancy rates would drop pretty fast. It’s been so glamorized and become insanely normalized.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/03/21 10:48 PM
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I have actually commented this on posts like that and I get downvoted to oblivion. For some reason people seem very hesitant to question a grown adults decisions in life.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/02/21 02:47 AM
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I’d say most people* don’t act like they care for their sexual health. Takes two to tango
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 07:13 PM
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Because everyone is different and maybe doesn’t recognize the fwb situation as something they’re willing to do. You describe it as this free utopia situation lol. That person is going to sleep with whoever they want. Not all STDs are 100% preventable by using condoms. We each get tested before we get into a relationship And that’s all. Whereas if it’s an open relationship I’d have to do that every time we met up. No. Being in a relationship offers me security that they’re with me for more than m…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 02:26 PM
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What makes your kid so special though ?! People with kids should be with other people with kids. Or ya know choose baby daddies better?? Stop coming after innocent single men with no attachments when you are a liability.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/02/21 09:47 PM
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It wasn’t till I read the subtle art of not giving a fuck (don’t judge) that I realized how ridiculous it was that love had become so glorified. Our ancestors survived and lived relatively happy lives in nuclear families for generations and didn’t bounce because they ‘fell out of love’. Now it’s like the be all end all. Fuck the consequences.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/09/20 05:09 AM
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This is super depressing. I wish I could talk to this chick in real life. A man like this is someone to be treasured and she’s acting like an immature little child. But honestly, breaking up with him would the biggest favor she could do him. No one deserves to be with someone who thinks “butterflies” in relationships last forever. It’s literally a biological response. It isn’t logical or rational. And neither is she.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/09/20 05:06 AM
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Congrats! Yeah my family is the same. A distant family member impregnated a girl out of wedlock and his family pressured him to marry her to do the right thing. It’s not the ideal situation by any means as he has a kid now before he’s even able to bring anything to the table as husband or father. You’re talking about subjecting your kids to generational poverty at that point. But people want to get laid and don’t think beyond that. I feel bad for him.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/09/20 04:53 PM
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I think it’s great that you know what you want.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/09/20 04:50 PM
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The idea that women have all the control when it comes to family planning is depressing. The total control to end a life or start one
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/09/20 08:21 PM
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Cuz I’ve had personal experience with some shitty women and quickly realized that society in general is awarding these women for mistreating their husband/boyfriend. So this sub is kind of like a reminder that and it’s entertaining.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/09/20 05:26 PM
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I think we need to get back to courting and dating with the intent to marry. I believe that if you’re comfortable enough to have sex with them, you should be comfortable enough to marry them. Period. Stop giving up on people and leaving children with broken homes. Stop having children outside of marriage. This world is fucked up enough.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/09/20 05:17 PM
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I actually am a lurker on this sub and have found a ridiculous amount of similarities between women posted here and a family friends wife. Got pregnant first chance she could and he is trapped. Now making his life a living nightmare. Before that I honestly didn’t know any woman could have intentions like that. I’ve been very naive in my life. I go out of my way now to show my boyfriend that he’s appreciated and loved.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/09/20 05:14 PM
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Nah man. It’s not always like that. My guy was an absolute gentleman from the start and it’s been 6 months together, I like to believe I treat him very well and vice versa. Some people are just absolute dumpster fires.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/09/20 06:43 AM
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How are you comfortable enough to FUCK somebody but get uncomfortable when they are walking next to you in public??
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/09/20 06:40 AM
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There are a MILLION reasons to hate the government. But jobs with the government are some of the most stable out there. The pandemic kind of made that more clear. I don’t blame people for wanting the stability. They are on average more lazy than private industry workers.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/09/20 01:02 AM
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Executive assistants with the fed gov out here making 6 figures no lie.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/09/20 12:24 AM
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Guys, if you MUST date a single mom, make sure you dig and find out why they ended up that way. Chances are they haven’t ‘grown’ since the experience and will bring the same bullshit to your relationship. It SHOULD take a lot for a man to walk away from his child and the mother of his child. It goes against every instinct. If she wasn’t to willing to work for that, is she going to work for your relationship?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/09/20 03:09 PM
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My brother got a chick pregnant and while my parents are greatly against pre marital sex, they strongly pressured him to marry her and make things right. THATS how it should be.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/09/20 09:20 PM
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Jesus Christ. Fuck me. I’d have never kept a kid that didn’t get conceived within a marriage. What kind of life is that for a kid? Getting tossed around with mommy from one daddy to the next?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/09/20 04:36 AM
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Unless her credit is fucked, you can use a medical credit card to pay for a boob job, if you’re that desperate. It doesn’t have to come to begging.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/09/20 01:13 PM
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She’s way too old to not know how to manage money. Just shows me that she had 0 financial responsibilities in her marriage.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/09/20 01:12 PM
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It’s also partly a ‘rebel’ against the parents thing I’m guessing. Since it so often is young women. Lol idk about anyone else, but I wouldn’t risk having a whole ass child just to be rebellious.
/r/MGTOW29/04/20 03:02 AM
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First time I saw a lady post on Facebook under a picture of her 3 kids, “Happy Father’s Day. I’m so blessed all my kids have the best daddies” Three dudes tagged Where is the embarrassment?? Do people just not give a fuck anymore??
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/04/20 06:17 AM
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Wtf. No fuckin way I’d get pregnant by a guy who wouldn’t be there for me the whole pregnancy. As in I wouldn’t get pregnant till I got married. Do these women have even an ounce of sense??
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/04/20 04:35 AM
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Lol this is why I’ll never date anyone with a kid. I assume people’s children do come first in their lives which is the right thing so I don’t want to get in the middle of that. No thanks. But I don’t agree with you on the serious relationship only point. She put it very obnoxiously but it’s better to know up front because tinder is full of people looking for hookups. Nothing wrong with it just how it is. Like every dating site. Edit: Got banned from female dating strategy 2 mins after this comm…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/04/20 02:11 AM
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My parents are in a good marriage. My aunts and uncles are all in great marriages. So while yeah I get tired of dating, I know finding the right one is possible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 02:13 PM
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I mean this happens? Can’t really get too upset because it’s a compliment in a way. All you can really do is say you’re not interested and keep it moving
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 05:41 AM
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Yeah. At this point “husband material” is just a guy who wants to get married. Man the standards are so low for men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 06:06 PM
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I feel like I’ve gotten beyond tired of sleeping with men I thought I was in love with only to have it fall apart in a matter of months. This is my first post here. I have decided to be abstinent until there is real conversation about the future and not one that’s had in the honeymoon phase of the relationship where you are blinded by the excitement and hormones of falling for someone new.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 12:54 PM
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