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And here is the answer 🤢 NSF-HVW https://youtu.be/DDJ11QNfTIw I wouldn't even stay in a house with a septic tank 😷
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 10:54 AM
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No. In my culture, it doesn't happen anyway. I never understood why this is even still a thing. Its stupid
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 12:44 AM
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Omgggg yesss. I had a marriage covenant (religious ceremony, not legal) with a guy that was almost 30 when I was 19 🤮 I was young and dumb and somehow realized the generation gap before he did! I think some guys just lack self awareness that they're not fresh out of college anymore but think they are because they still have the same friends from that time. I guess eventually they realize they're the creepy old guy when they find out how big the generational gap is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 06:02 PM
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He has no desire to manage finances. He's working for us and I manage for us. Works sooo well for our relationship as we are truly partners, not independently living seperate lives together 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 05:34 PM
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Thats why its important to have a social network. I have family with businesses who we helped in their time of need and no doubt, they would help me in my time of need. Our culture isn't like yours where if you need help, your family abandons you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 02:37 PM
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Women who are busy with work don't get cheated and divorced? It is possible he could cheat but he is highly likely to get caught. He works with my dad, we live with my parents, and he goes out to the gym with my brother every other day so if he cheats/wants a divorce, he loses his job, family, and home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 02:32 PM
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He just arrived to the US so he doesn't understand alot of things about the financial system here so he doesn't even trust himself. That's why I do it. Taking care of your family is likely a justified reason. Its not like your answer is "I was in prison."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 02:25 PM
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I want to eventually start a retirement plan for us but we just got married and he's still trying to bring his mom and siblings. In our culture, the husband makes the money and the wife manages it. If something happens to him, the rest of the family is expected to help while I get myself on my feet. I have a degree but I'm choosing to be a wife first because building a stable family is important to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 08:11 AM
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Woah rude.... who said anything about divorce/bailing? I'm saying just in case he gets injured or something. I shouldn't tell him because if he sees cash, he'll want to use it on family back home instead of on us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 08:04 AM
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I disagree. I'm a stay at home wife and my husband brings home the money and I manage it. He has no clue where his salary goes because I'm responsible for bills, savings, and giving him pocket money for emergencies. I put whatever is left over into a personal account he doesn't know about just in case. As the other poster said, I think the years of unemployment on your resume being a roadblock is overexaggerated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 06:22 AM
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Yes, you already responded. Any person with 2 brain cells gets the conversation is over
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 05:43 AM
3

I have a friend who went on vacation and realized she didn't miss her partner while she was away and didn't want to waste his time. Maybe thats what happened? Block, delete, forget second chances is how I would handle it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 03:01 PM
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Speak for yourself. My (South Asian) hubby (also South Asian) is great. I still have A LOT to teach him because he just arrived but he's so wonderful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 01:05 AM
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Everyone is dressed so formal and he's in a hoodie 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 09:18 PM
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Taking your phone to the bathroom for any reason except in case of an emergency is classless. It's disrespectful to talk on the phone while doing personal hygiene
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 10:53 AM
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This is exactly what I was thinking
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 07:33 AM
3

Am I the only one who noticed he walked out of the bathroom talking on the phone 😷 and he left the light on 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 07:20 AM
7

Lol. Thats all I can say
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 06:45 AM
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Shes tired and falling asleep but hes going to go "watch TV." If my husband isn't exhausted by the end of the day, he's not ambitious enough for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 06:38 AM
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Even in my pickme days, I wouldn't have put up with that. 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 04:23 PM
6

Of course I got paid too. But thats not the point
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 03:16 PM
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He thought going and doing a psychology experiement together would be fun. Back in my pickme days, I didn't realize not only did he not spend money on that date, we got paid for being subjects. Should've been a huge red flag
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 06:47 AM
5

We took a long drive to the other side of town so we could get a cable from Big Lots instead of just getting it from the best buy next to his house
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 02:23 AM
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I started feeling this way when I decided I wanted out of my first marriage. When I started realizing we weren't compatible and wanted to end things, I realized what a horrible position I put myself in. He tried to do whatever he could to destroy me and I reached out for help. Everyone just blamed me, even on reddit. I don't remember how I found this subreddit but I finally found a community where people understand what we deserve
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 02:47 PM
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I never had it. I grew up in a culture that my parents give me choices and I choose a man from those. I thought I wanted to break free from that and thought I found a guy who was a HVM but he had no idea how to treat a woman. My parents are in the process of picking a guy for me and I'll choose a HVM from their choices. I just need to learn the signs on how to sniff out a LVM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 02:17 PM
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Society doesn’t expect women to have standards and insist on them lowering or negating them despite their preferences or desires. Yes, a woman is allowed to have standards. Yes, a woman is allowed to have preferences. Yes, a woman is allowed to change her mind. Yes, a woman is allowed to express her standards, preferences, thoughts, and boundaries. It’s not wrong!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 12:50 AM
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Thank you for the suggestion :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 02:12 PM
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What do you do when your support system consists of people who just say “do whatever makes you happy” 😓
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 07:41 PM
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The problem with men like this is that they usually get entitled making them a LVM and eventual poor husband/father. Just because a grown man does what a man is supposed to do doesn’t mean he can hold it over your head which most of these types eventually do. tl;dnr Don’t let men do everything around the house. They’ll use it as a method of control.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 01:25 PM
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“I’m sorry you feel that way” is serious? 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 05:14 PM
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