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| 466 | The Fact They Even Have To Ask... | NAH, SIS | throwwfarfarawayyyy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/20 11:55 AM |
| 139 | A Friend Posted This Conversation She Had With Her BF To Instagram. The Blatant Lack Of Respect For Her Boundaries Is Disgusting And You Can Smell The Porn Sickness From Miles Away. | #JustLVMThings | throwwfarfarawayyyy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 04:53 AM |
| 73 | Is There A Way To Tell If A Guy Is Going To Pay Before Going On A Date? | SEEKING ADVICE | throwwfarfarawayyyy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/20 10:52 PM |
| 52 | My Sister’s Low Value Boyfriend And How LVM Drag Down HVW | SEEKING ADVICE | throwwfarfarawayyyy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 07:12 PM |
| 1 | Entertaining A LVM? | SEEKING ADVICE | throwwfarfarawayyyy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 04:56 AM |
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| 6 | LADIES, fucking vet the men you have children with! The absolute evil they can do is insaneYou are really not making this look any better. Genuinely don't see how not being able to eat for weeks on end because you can't see your boyfriend isn't the most whiny teenage girl thing to do. I'm not even criticizing your actions because you were acting like a normal teenager around your age. Because that's what you were. You're comparing adults who marry their first boyfriend to you're, who was a preteen and engaged before you even reached high school. I don't think I need to wven point out … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 05:29 PM |
| 19 | How LVM will treat you when you behave like a pickme... Pickmesha gets played, ladies...Tbh there's a strong possibility that he's lying. Looks like he's selling courses to desperate men | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 04:22 PM |
| 18 | How LVM will treat you when you behave like a pickme... Pickmesha gets played, ladies...Kinda hilarious how to sub gets so much hate and said that it teaches women to manipulate men when literally all it's doing is helping women avoid men like THIS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 04:21 PM |
| 17 | Not telling him that I will have unprotected sex with him to have a child?This seems like the worst possible thing you could do and genuinely a really awful thing to do to another person. I understand that you want a child but legally the father is entitled to be around his kid. This man could be low value and now you and this child have to deal with a low value man for the rest of your life. This could set you up for a lot of headache in the future as well as it isn't really a good situation to put your potential child in. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 04:13 PM |
| 13 | I’m sorryShe's also pretty libfem tbh. I get not hating on othet women but some criticism is warranted. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 04:07 PM |
| 8 | LADIES, fucking vet the men you have children with! The absolute evil they can do is insaneChrist it literally just keeps getting worse. She has reaffirmed multiple times that they didn't have sex (I don't know if she meant until after marriage which is horrible consider they were engaged at 14 or until after she was 18), but I genuinely wonder if OP's parents would of even given a shit if they did. It really doesn't seem like it. Tbh seems like the parents ARE pro pedophila or just normalize it and that they encouraged OP to get married to cover their asses. Literally I've met Libfem… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 03:56 PM |
| 8 | LADIES, fucking vet the men you have children with! The absolute evil they can do is insaneSis you're literally making yourself sound MORE immature than I initially thought. At 13 you knew you found your life partner? Genuinely how the hell can you know that if you have had so little experience dating? You can theorize about things all day lonf but it's so much different from when you actually live it. I'm not even saying you should of slept around and had a million boyfriends. But this was your ONE boyfriend and it was when you were 13! Literally no 13 year old has the perspective to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 02:51 PM |
| 17 | LADIES, fucking vet the men you have children with! The absolute evil they can do is insaneKnown better than to date a 13 year old of course! Like genuinely you're going to tell me there were no other 20 year olds he connected with? That says A LOT about him if the only person he can feel that with doesn't even have a fully developed brain. Like I am such a difference person than I was when I was 13. So many important factors of myself have changed to the point I can't really connect much to ny 13 year old self and that was only 6 years ago. Of course at 13 you think you're going to b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 01:05 PM |
| 21 | LADIES, fucking vet the men you have children with! The absolute evil they can do is insaneSweetheart this is absolutely horrible. This man groomed you. He was 20 and should of known better. There is no such thing as life partners and maybe if you were able to figure that out. I'm not surprised people thought you guyswere pro pedophila because it sure as hell sounds like it tbh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 12:51 PM |
| 99 | LADIES, fucking vet the men you have children with! The absolute evil they can do is insaneIt turns degenerates like that to do stuff like that. They love the idea that their victims will aways carry what they did with them. He probably wanted to remind her because she was so young and might have not remembered it. It's a power thing. I really hope she reported his ass | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 12:43 PM |
| 1 | Trevor Noah's and Desi Lydic's normalization of porn on The Daily Show is no jokeOkay so I somehow cannot find the full interview now but I remember him making jokes about her being very pretty at least twice and it made me uncomfortable. I may be misremembering but I am very confident that he did | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 11:36 AM |
| -1 | Pickmeisha’s LVM refers to their adopted child as the N word to his friends, Pickmeisha makes excuses for him and wonders if she should even confront himI'm black myself and have seen people do that which is why I asked. Again. I did say both were bad but I have seen a normalization of using the word in my community even to children. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 11:28 AM |
| 1 | Is There A Way To Tell If A Guy Is Going To Pay Before Going On A Date?Yes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 11:26 AM |
| 1 | Is There A Way To Tell If A Guy Is Going To Pay Before Going On A Date?I am from Ontario | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 11:25 AM |
| 2 | Is There A Way To Tell If A Guy Is Going To Pay Before Going On A Date?You have a great point. I didn't see it that way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 04:10 AM |
| 10 | Pickmeisha’s LVM refers to their adopted child as the N word to his friends, Pickmeisha makes excuses for him and wonders if she should even confront himLmao people on r/ relationships tell people to leave their husbands for much less. How is this not an unforgivable act. Hopefully a friend of theirs calls CPS because dads a racist and mom literally doesn't care about the daughter's well-being | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 03:39 AM |
| -7 | Pickmeisha’s LVM refers to their adopted child as the N word to his friends, Pickmeisha makes excuses for him and wonders if she should even confront himOkay context: is OP and their partner black? Because although I still think it is incredibly toxic ans horrible and OP needs to get that baby away as soon as possible, I do know some really really low class black people who have referred to their children by that word so maybe that explains why OP doesn't seem to think it's a big deal🙃 If not than OP is literally literally being racist to their own kid. Not to mention the weird comment the friend made about having the little girl call him mastee… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 03:37 AM |
| 6 | Trevor Noah's and Desi Lydic's normalization of porn on The Daily Show is no jokeOnly watched his interview with Tomi Lauren and the fact he kept complementing her apparence excessive and flirting with her made me soo uncomfortable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 03:32 AM |
| 5 | Is There A Way To Tell If A Guy Is Going To Pay Before Going On A Date?cheesecake is kinda viewed as fancy here because there's only one in the entire province and its fairly new | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 03:08 AM |
| -1 | Is There A Way To Tell If A Guy Is Going To Pay Before Going On A Date?sorry no I meant I didn't want to waste more money on food. I also have issues with eating as well soit just gave me an excuse not to eat. But yes I do agree that I should of left | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 03:01 AM |
| 5 | Is There A Way To Tell If A Guy Is Going To Pay Before Going On A Date?lmao thank you for the advice. He offered at Taco Bell but by that point honestly I was not feeling it at all. I did have money. Sorry for not clarifying. I just didn't want to spend it on a date with someone I didn't plan to see again | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 02:39 AM |
| 5 | Is There A Way To Tell If A Guy Is Going To Pay Before Going On A Date?definitely agreed. This was way too embarassing and uncomfortable for me to ever want to do again | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 02:37 AM |
| 9 | Is There A Way To Tell If A Guy Is Going To Pay Before Going On A Date?so how do I find men to date? Any time guys ask me out irl they're creeps. I've only exclusively been on dates with guys from dating apps and every other date I've had has been really good. This is the only flop I've been on so far. (Tbh this is my first Tinder date) Thank you for the advice tho I've make sure to vet more carefully next time | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 02:35 AM |
| 20 | Is There A Way To Tell If A Guy Is Going To Pay Before Going On A Date?I was prepared to pay. I just didn't want to. It seemed like a waste at that point because I knew I didn't want to date him again. when we were at starbucks and it was our time to order I walked up thinking we was with me only to see he wasn't. So I walked back to him and I asked him "are you still thinking?" And that's when he tells me I can order first and I realized that he wasn't paying. Really embarassing for me actually. I'll definitely keep your method in mind. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 02:31 AM |
| 16 | Is There A Way To Tell If A Guy Is Going To Pay Before Going On A Date?There's only one Cheesecake factory in my state and you can't make reservations unfortunately. Yeah I agreenI should of left. Kinda hard to completely erase that female socialisation that tells me I shouldn't hurt his feelings. I do regret not leaving right away looking back. He told me he was a firefighter but apparently he had to do this course and while doing it he wasn't making any money; that last part I wasn't aware of before going out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 02:25 AM |
| 2 | Is There A Way To Tell If A Guy Is Going To Pay Before Going On A Date?In hindsight I should of left. I do agree with that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 02:20 AM |
| 4 | Is There A Way To Tell If A Guy Is Going To Pay Before Going On A Date?I had money definitely but I didn't feel like I should of paid because he asked me out so I didn't really want to waste anymore of my money. Honestly I didn't think it was going to be that long and thought that we'd talk for a bit, I'd leave, and never message him again. But while we walked around we saw the Taco Bell and apparently they have some special drink so I tagged along. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 02:17 AM |
| 6 | Porn degrading women is NOT “sex positive”Christ me too. I started watching porn at 9 and genuinely up until Inwas 17 I didn't know that you can have sex where one person isn't hurting someone else in some form. When I was in highschool "vanilla" was an insult. My first relationship was a crazy abusive dd/lg relationship with some guy much older than me. Wasn't till maybe last year that I gained some self confidence and now I don't want any of it at all. Hell, it kinda disgusts me now | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/20 02:09 PM |
| 8 | How to let a man know if they date he suggests is not appropriateAre you referring to the section about drink dates? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/20 05:03 PM |
| 39 | End Result of Pick Me Behavior: Paulina Porizkova got with Ric Ocasek when she was an 18 year old supermodel and he was 40 and married; 30 years of marriage later he cuts her out of his will and leaves her with nothingShe was 18 years old. He probably was talking to her even before she was 18. Cut her a break. We all know what it's like tk be 18 and naive. She probably hadn't had much romantic experience outside of him since she was so young when their relationship started. We all know what it's like to be preyed upon by an much older man, made a lot worse by the fact that some people still push to this day that young women should date older men because "they're more mature and more financially stable". I don… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/20 08:52 AM |
| 28 | If you have to propose he isn't the oneHe doesn't know if he wants to have a child with HIS WIFE. That's honestly just sad. Hopefully she can find a HVM and somehow have a child with him instead of this loser. Honestly to me it seems like he is working on himself so he can leave her and have kids with someone he veiws as better than her (because men really think their sperm is alive and kicking up until the day they day). I mean, the fact that he even is telling her to "give him more time" when she's in her damn mid 30s should be a s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/20 07:50 AM |
| 1 | If the mother of your children isn't interesting to you then what isI was referring to him being a gamer but that is even worse | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/02/20 08:41 AM |
| 1 | If the mother of your children isn't interesting to you then what isChrist, how did he hide it?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 07:01 AM |
| 5 | "Real Men" need to look in the mirror before opening their mouths smhAlso give blowjobs 24/7 like a fucking vacuum | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 05:53 AM |
| 1 | This guy has been hinting for weeks that he hopes we can get together soon but never offers any ideas. It finally made me snap.Lmao I had a guy just like this. Thank god it was on the cusp of me finding this Reddit because I cut it off quickly. He'd always allude to wanting to meet but never give a specific date or out right ask me out. Worst of all we started talking like a month before Valentine's Day so literally no excuse | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 05:34 AM |
| 30 | A Friend Posted This Conversation She Had With Her BF To Instagram. The Blatant Lack Of Respect For Her Boundaries Is Disgusting And You Can Smell The Porn Sickness From Miles Away.I think it's like "kisses" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 05:30 AM |
| 2 | My Sister’s Low Value Boyfriend And How LVM Drag Down HVWThank you everyone for the comments. It helped quite a bit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 09:02 PM |
| 2 | My Sister’s Low Value Boyfriend And How LVM Drag Down HVWI would assume you would ruin your clothes by walking to shoppers with no protection. Not trying to make excuses but I do understand why she didn't I don't know what she's using. Maybe toilet paper, a tampon, or the diva cup. I didn't ask | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 09:55 PM |
| 10 | My Sister’s Low Value Boyfriend And How LVM Drag Down HVWOkay well she is still my sister so I'm not in the habit of trash talking family and I do think she deserves so much better as well as from what I know of her; I mean I've known her for 19 years. I mean she cleaned regularly before (out of the two of us she was more organized), kept up with her apparence before, as well as was a lot more social before, was dedicated to her job and her schooling. Maybe she wasn't the highest value female but she wasn't trash like this guy she is dating now. I've … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 09:50 PM |
| 12 | My Sister’s Low Value Boyfriend And How LVM Drag Down HVWI want to very badly. Hell I want to link her to this post but I don't want to argue with her anymore and have them gaslight me into being the bad guy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 09:34 PM |
| 6 | My Sister’s Low Value Boyfriend And How LVM Drag Down HVWI meant it's a 5min drive. It's an hour walk and it's pretty cold out right now. I've never seen her drive his car so I'm not sure what the deal is it that. As for her cleaning up, again she used to but idk she works a lot and he just adds to the mess. EDIT: The shoppers is a 7 min drive and 49 min walk. Also I do agree she needs to be more in charge with her menstrual cycle but it's quite appalling to me that he lacks empathy towards her. I just feel like it's the basic thing to go out and buy … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 09:32 PM |
| 9 | My Sister’s Low Value Boyfriend And How LVM Drag Down HVWShe was definitely higher value than she is right now | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 07:42 PM |
| 1 | Entertaining A LVM?Fair. I do understand how I come off that way and how it isn't fair to him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 05:35 AM |
| 2 | Entertaining A LVM?"What about talking to him entertains you?" I guess I just like the company from time to time. It's nice to have someone to talk on the phone with and we've had similar lives (just I'm not as mentally fucked from my upbringing) "Why is spending time and energy on him a better idea than spending that time on someone who isn't a loser?" I don't know to be quiet honest. I have many HVW friends and even HVM friends (gay so I know it's not a sexual thing) but they're usually busy. This guy is usually… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 05:33 AM |
| 0 | Entertaining A LVM?I do have HVW friends but they're mostly busy when I am not and I guess I like the company of someone to speak to as well | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 05:28 AM |
| 36 | Pretty Much All of Reddit Whenever We Post about Porn being a recurring and pervasive problem in sex and relationship quality.They really do think they'll get cancer if they don't jerk it to teenage futa gangbang 3x a day | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 05:35 PM |
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