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“Grew $200 boots out of my feet” this made me laugh a lot. Outstanding! My older sister helped raise me and my brothers. As a teenager, I remember her making my brothers walk around in pairs of her high heels because she said they needed to understand what women go thru to look nice. Love her!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 09:54 AM
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This! My girlfriends and I go on coffee dates. It all makes sense. Next dude who asks me, I’m gonna reply like I do with my friends “Heyyy Gurrll”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 08:12 PM
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To be fair, he IS a Butt of a bad boy. 😂🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 07:11 PM
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Whenever a guy asks me out for drinks, coffee, walk, to “hangout” “chill” “meet n see what happens” or any of that other no effort type shit, I always say either ”No thank you. That’s not my scene”. “No. That’s not for me” Best part is, I learned these phrases from a women here who uses it and it’s effective. They know what they are doing and this lets them know your onto them, lets them know who they are dealing with, and that they are clearly shopping outside their price(effort)range. Thank yo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 08:23 PM
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Exactly! That’s why I laughed a lot. He decided I was a murderer because I made him leave when he was terrible at foreplay. I think he was used to women just being like “well I’m already here, might as well”.I wonder if murdering egos is news worthy? I would proudly be a headline for that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 08:09 PM
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This right here is why I hold the “oral first and only” policy. And I’m harsh with criticism. I will openly laugh at them when they are fiddling around cause it tickles and doesn’t pleasure. Also, I will grab their head and move it where I want and give step by step instructions. From my experience, the guy realizes it’s not gonna fly and steps it up. Only one time did the guy keep trying to just be terrible and i told him he was terrible and to get out of my house. He said something like “what …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 07:48 PM
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This. I am this. I try not to dwell but very very much wish I had FDS when I was a teenager.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 05:40 AM
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The age here is amazing. I’m hoping to one day hear even the youngest of girls talking about and taking on the FDS values. If we get to them young, we can save them so much energy and they will have a higher quality of life as a result.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 08:26 PM
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I wish I would find this where I live. The men at my gym hog all the bigger weight lifting areas and I feel like I have a hole being stared thru me whenever I go over there. It’s annoying and I can’t focus on my form properly when I’m so uncomfortable. I quit going over there and my results have suffered.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 08:25 AM
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1 time. It’s oral and if he can’t pass, there is no second time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 04:54 AM
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A “Field” date is just the natural regression of a “Walk” date. Up next will be a “Freshly dug open grave” date. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 10:53 PM
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I was raped earlier this year by my now ex fiancé right after a major surgery when I was so weak I could hardly walk. I called the police, I spent days in the hospital and I blamed myself for allowing him around me when I couldn’t defend myself and started drinking a lot and eating constantly and almost lost my job because I couldn’t make myself leave the house. I did the following: Went to intense therapy for ptsd. Was put on several medications for ptsd, anxiety, depression, to sleep etc. Cut …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 09:33 PM
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I wish every post like his, had a call out like hers to go along with it. Outstanding!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 07:26 AM
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He literally just asked you to risk your life for his dick. Bbl is one of the most dangerous plastic surgeries and has a insane complication and death rate. I had one when I was in a very dark time in my life and didn’t care if I lived or died. I did the research and knew. I was one of the lucky ones who came out fine but looking back, I’m shocked and scared for myself. He doesn’t care if you die in order to make his sea slug happy. I’m so happy you left and are safe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 11:45 PM
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I actually had something in this vein happen last night and then continue into this morning. We had a very interesting looking sun set yesterday where the sun looked like a blood orange flame. I was out in my front yard taking pictures of it and a car drove past and slowed way down and like 5 guy stuck their heads out and started yelling and whistling. It made me very uncomfortable cause this is my home and I immediately went inside. I told my BF and he agreed it was inappropriate and we kinda b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 07:56 PM
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Whenever anyone invites me to “hangout” I always say this exact line “ I only hangout with my girlfriends and my family “ that shuts it down for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 10:32 PM
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Josh. Every single individual I have met named Josh has been a LVM/NVM. And I personally have meet 7.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 02:35 AM
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You are the type of friend every girl and woman should have. 👸
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 03:08 PM
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“Tits “ always sounds red neck trashy to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 02:41 PM
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“Fit”?! In what delusional universe? He literally has a double chin. 🤮Balding. Yeah that’s sooooo sexy I can’t even breathe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 02:34 PM
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Getting my hair trimmed and styled costs 3x that amount. That’s a NO.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 12:37 PM
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She should leave him immediately. if she doesn’t, at the very least, get a iud.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 04:35 PM
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Agreed. I have had stuff like that happen at the grocery store where a guy followed me thru the whole store and then he got stuck in a line longer than mine so I gratefully and quickly made my way out to my car and he tried following me to my car. I was also accosted outside a maverick while trying to get gas by a suv of guys who yelled at me asking if I wanted to party. Wtf. Also at the gym a guy came and got on the equipment next to me and tried to force a conversation. He said he was a traine…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 01:17 AM
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What you did here is basically my fantasy regarding unsolicited dick pics. If I could I would do it every time. Outstanding!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 11:37 PM
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Anytime. You ladies here have helped me more than you know. Just reading your advice and feeling understood and supported has helped me rebuild inside. Love you ladies!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 03:52 AM
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I am on 3. Lexapro, Seroquel, and Trazodone. They do need to be taken in combination with a therapy session at least one a week or they will just delay the damage. They basically make you feel less horrible inside so you can concentrate on repairing and healing thru therapy. I could feel almost like a physical ball of anger in my chest and I would cry very easily over nothing. I had constant replay of what had happened in my head but when I started on the meds, the ball was gone and the replay a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 03:37 AM
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Please encourage her to start therapy and meds for the ptsd as soon as possible . I was raped 7 months ago and I almost lost everything including my mind until I got proper treatment for the trauma I experienced. The therapy will help her not blame herself and the meds will help the ptsd not eat her away inside.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 02:25 AM
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Did you tell him he can expect to be single? 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 10:52 AM
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Whenever I ask a guy to do something simple and they fail to do it correctly, when I know they are capable, I don’t ask them to do it again. I’m not a broken record. I just immediately lose respect and attraction towards them and it’s never repaired for me. I start canceling any plans I have with them and when they ask why, I mention it and then cut them off completely. No room for a discussion about how their stupid game or inability to give a shit is now a “innocent mistake“ since it didn’t wo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 06:32 PM
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Pumpkinheart😂 outstanding!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 12:49 PM
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That’s the feeling I got since he hadn’t used my name once.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 12:40 PM
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He had called me “hun” earlier and I had questioned it, so when he said “sweetheart “ I felt it was intentionally disrespectful and that he was shit testing me to see if I would let it slide.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 12:20 PM
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He has a degree in criminal justice and psychology. I know he has friends in the DAs office but not in this state that I know of. The card said “don’t let one sexual misadventure ruin what we have “. He made it sound like he did something on the level of drinking the last of the orange juice. It made me feel even more awful because he acted like destroying my mind and the life I worked so hard to build was such a small ridiculous thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 11:46 PM
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They said since we were already assumed to be having sex since we were in a relationship, any dna evidence is out because they can’t prove which came from where or when. At least that’s how I understood it. The issue was we hadn’t had sex in over 2 months cause I had complications from the surgery and my blood pressure was dangerously low for weeks. I told them that we hadn’t and they said it can’t be proven so it won’t hold up in court. Idk. It just felt like no one wanted to help me and it bec…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 05:50 PM
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I called the police and was taken to the hospital. They said they couldn’t press rape charges since we were engaged and they couldn’t prove what was consensual and what wasn’t. They did try for Domestic Violence but so far, it has gone nowhere. I never thought I would be in a situation like this and I want to prevent others from being in it if I can.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 02:30 PM
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Please leave. If I had left my fiance when he had started this exact type of sexual coercion behavior, instead of telling myself I was being overly sensitive, I wouldn't have been a victim of him violently raping me months later when I just had major surgery and couldn't defend myself even tho I fought tooth and nail. This happened 4 1/2 months ago. I would never wish where my mental health is at now on anyone. I have to take pills just to not constantly have panic attacks. I break down crying r…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 12:57 AM
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Lol me too. Also, if they say something pervy, I will be like “I’m aight herr bro” n they always get so mad🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 08:14 PM
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I know right!? I really wanted to type the correction but had to stop myself and not reply 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 03:38 PM
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I first did this in highschool. A dude took me on 2 boring dates before I found out he had a girlfriend. I went and found her at school and told her n showed her texts. She was like "wtf he said he wanted a break for a few weeks" I found out he thought I would be a easy lay because I would openly make dirty jokes in our friend group. Joke was on him since I remained a virgin all throughout highschool due to seriously dating only women 😂 sadly she took him back and I just felt bad for her everyti…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 01:35 PM
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I totally missed that neg in the opening line! Ewwww.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 11:56 AM
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Exactly! Mentally stable adults understand that people sleep as a normal bodily function, instead of believing it's a personal attack on them.😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 11:52 AM
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I would be willing to bet he didn't match with anyone else. He's doing the equivalent to " you're ugly anyways" type butthurt stuff. It smacks heavily of "nice guy" bullshit. He's a pathetic sadsack and not worth your second thoughts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 11:44 AM
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Her bf is a selfish waste of time and space. Also his ignorance on birth control is pathetic, that being said, the copper iud causes Excessive bleeding. Like 2 weeks straight, heavy like having to change every hour or you will leak type heavy. I had it. She shouldn't get it and she should dump the lv fuckface. Call it Spring Cleaning 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 12:26 AM
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LDS men are some of the worst I have encountered in terms of hypocrisy, perversion, double standards and sexism towards women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 05:26 PM
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/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 03:12 PM
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I bet the original anal caused the injury. when she tried to fix the injury HE caused, he divorced her for it? Disgusting, subhuman, waste of skin type garbage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 10:10 PM
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Imo, you need to find out what they are looking for before you tell them what you are looking for because if you tell them first, they can lie to you in order to get into your pants or life. Ask them and if it's anything like " oh I just wanna chill and see where it goes" that's code for casual sex. If a man wants a relationship, he will have no problem letting you know that. One the other hand, if he thinks you want one but he doesn't, you will hear things like "open-minded, hangout, chill, see…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 07:33 PM
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Freaking out like that is a red flag for me. I bet he's either ashamed to be seen with you (player etc), or a cheater. Either way, you dont need that. If you clearly stated that you were looking for a relationship and he said he wasn't, that should have been the end of the interaction. The saying " listen when someone tells you who they are/what they want" applies here. He won't change and letting him think there is "wiggle room" when it comes to what YOU are looking for, is setting yourself up …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 06:59 PM
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I love that I have a natural talent for taking care of plants and that any pet I meet loves me. I love my leadership skills and how they have helped me in my career. I love my resilience and no matter what happens to me, I fight, bounce back, and improve. I love my hard work ethic and how it has improved my life overall and enabled me to live my life on my own terms, dependant on no one. I love my long waist length hair that makes me feel like a beautiful cat when it's down and flowing around li…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 06:40 PM
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This is a excellent break down 👌💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 07:26 PM
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This "manipulation" is pure amateur hour😂 he's so obvious and bad at it, it hurts to read LMAO🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 05:06 PM
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I lost it at " summer sausages" 😂😱🤣😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 03:59 AM
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He is scared that if she learns how to really pleasure herself, she will realize he doesn't bring much to that particular table and will have no need or want for his subpar "services" 😂😹
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 12:50 PM
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This is relatable. When I tried to reconcile the person I thought he was, to what he suddenly turned into and what he chose to do to me, it felt like someone had reached inside my head and tried to break my brain in half. I still haven't found a way to process it and the meds they put me on for the panic attacks etc kinda block me from doing so now. Hopefully it gets easier with time cause right now, when I think about it, I feel like a massive walking wound that won't heal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 06:07 AM
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I have experienced this FIRST HAND. He called it a " sexual misadventure" when asking to get back together. Misadventure?? Who does he think he is? Dora the explorer? Getting lost while trying to find a campsite is a misadventure. The police don't arrest you for that. It made me feel so small and so much worse than I already did at the time. I still have all the texts of him trying to explain to me why what I remember is wrong since I was sick and recovering from surgery (not brain surgery mind …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 02:35 AM
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Reading this made me tear up and so happy at the same time. You are amazingly and beautifully resilitant! You deserve the very best!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 08:23 PM
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I bet when she takes him up on his offer to throw it away, he's gonna freak out 😂 he is not the brightest bulb tho because he has placed her in a position to say " I'm giving you what you asked for. Bye"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 04:31 AM
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There is not enough uncomplimentary things for me to say regarding the ill effects of a strict and smothering religious upbringing. I was born and raised in the FLDS, left home when I was 15, am now 27, and am still trying to fix/undo the damage. It's usually particularly damaging to women on a massive physical, mental, and emotional scale. Most religions I have heard of or looked into, cater to men at the expense of the women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 12:26 AM
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He is actually dead wrong. If I insist on paying, it's because I have Zero romantic interest in said person and want the lines to be very clear.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 04:22 AM
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I just finished watching a bunch of his videos. Some good stuff! Thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 03:05 AM
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I don't think you are being extra sensitive. Touching someone's boobs is NOT first date behavior. You aren't being a baby. It wasn't a mistake. He did it on purpose and will try to do more if given the chance. Being tall or a Dr doesn't make a HVM and lots of times those types get away with abusing their SO for years because they can hide behind their looks or money or careers. Please be careful and safe. Hearing that he drove you, worried me a lot. You never want to be around someone who doesn'…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 09:53 PM
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You said you wanted to go slow and he agreed but his actions didn't match. He sounds very disrespectful of stated boundaries, and that is a big red flag. Don't buy the whole " I'm just kissing your collar bone. . .ooppps" if your breast came out, your collar bone was easily accessable without pulling your shirt down that far. Its manipulative to pretend you accidentally did something when you did it on purpose. He will try again next time you are around him. I wouldn't put myself in that situati…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 06:21 PM
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So proud of you !!! You deserve to be happy and the best!🤗💪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 07:24 PM
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You are right. I got a hormonal IUD in an attempt to control massive bleeding I would experience for 14 days each month. I never tell a man I have it. An IUD isn't a form of safe sex imo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 01:31 PM
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gym for extra time and try new exercises a nice bubble bath or hot tub with a glass of wine and music Spend time with pets(at the shelter if you don't have pets) Look up, practice, and perfect new makeup techniques Learn new dance steps or styles Spa time(Mani, pedi, hair, skin care etc) Puzzles (I find puzzles relaxing) Quality time with family/friends Deep cleaning Baking a new recipe Basically anything that makes you happy, loved, relaxed, successful, powerful, or skilled. The list can go on …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 11:39 PM
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Ha! This was my first thought! I thought about it. . . It's like even the nail knows getting engaged to him is a fuck up and is trying to leave😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 10:47 PM
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Being available for sex will do the opposite of what you need. You need to feel beautiful, valuable, and exclusive. The dude is disgusting but, he taught you a lesson which is men use and lie a lot. Now take it and keep it in mind when dealing with any man. Think " what is in this for me? " More often than not, the answer will be absolutely nothing. Dick is abundant and LOW value. Men associate value with something they had to earn a lot to spend on, or work hard for, to get. Men don't value fre…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 08:31 PM
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I see the whole "I told my students and friends about you and showed them your picture " as a manipulation. If it was me, this would make me very uncomfortable because it reeks of what I like to call "false commitment" which is usually a ploy to get laid. like "look! I am SO invested, we should have sex since you are such a big part of my life now" when in reality, he shows off every flavor of the month in a brag about his sexual exploits to his friends etc. The tickling is juvenile, ill mannere…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 05:16 PM
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This movement needs a tee-shirt . I would wear one every day of the week.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 12:23 AM
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Have you ever said anything less than complimentary to a man about his body and saw how they totally fall apart/lash out ? I have. asked me to rate him and told me to be brutally honest. I was bored so I was like "sure bro" I said 1 word. "Gym" and he freaked out, seemed appalled that he was overweight and accused me of being a man😂 I laughed a LOT! Point being ? They cannot take even 1/10th of what they dish out daily. They are mentally/emotionally WEAK and INSECURE. Their opinions of our bodie…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 12:22 AM
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That dude looks like he took a dive into a bin of pubic hair with glue on his face. I can smell his bo thru the screen. Who the fuck was rating that girl?! Completely inaccurate. I like how they went into detail with bs about her, but no one bothered letting bub over there know that he should shave his pube face.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 10:44 PM
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I feel like he's setting you up to put it on you when he does something that hurts you like "well I told you not to be shallow so you asked for this" type vibe. Personally I would either block him, or tell him exactly how ridiculous he is for attempting this manipulation and then block him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 02:56 PM
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This oddly gave me hope. Thank you. I'm sorry you are feeling bummed right now. You deserve the best!🤗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 02:59 AM
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This is a classic move I have seen many times. I like to call it " the Dodge " they know they are being disgusting and inappropriate before they even do it, but dont care enough to refrain from doing it, so they try to dodge responsibility for their nastiness proactively like " oh well I said I was sorry " or " I told you it was a weird question and you said I could ask" fucking HATE guys🤮🤧💩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 03:38 AM
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That was my thought because he was almost explaining the night like I wasn't there. He has a degree in criminal justice so he would know how to help himself like that .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 11:59 PM
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If it wasn't free I have really good health insurance so I think it will be covered.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 10:35 PM
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I showed them to the police but they don't admit anything. He said " you aren't remembering what happened correctly because of the meds"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 06:40 PM
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I did but they aren't worded in a way that admits to anything. he said " you aren't remembering what happened correctly because of your meds"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 06:08 PM
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I know even tho it doesn't feel ok right now, it will be. I love and appreciate all of you here and how y'all support me and the outstanding advice that improves my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 05:51 PM
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The police told me from a prosecution stand point, the lack of evidence is a problem because it is now a "he said she said"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 05:45 PM
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I did but there wasn't much evidence left. When I got to my brother's house I was still freaking out and had a shower. I know I shouldn't have but I didn't think about it and just felt gross. The hospital did an exam and took swabs but idk if they got anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 05:38 PM
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Ohhhh gurrll! I love this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 02:56 AM
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That take down was on point! I couldn’t stop smiling at the end. 😁🙌🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 05:14 AM
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It’s a instagram video link.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 12:29 AM
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You are right and I really appreciate all of you and your advice and support everyday.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 11:28 PM
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Idk. In the back of my mind I know. I guess I was just hoping to hear a take on the situation I hadn’t thought of. It just hurts I guess so I tried reasoning my way away from it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 11:21 PM
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I have recommended this sub to many ladies at my work and am constantly quoting the rules to them when they ask for dating advice or experiences. It works! This group is amazing and life improving!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 10:55 PM
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His lack of respect when you said what you would prefer is a huge red flag . I wouldn’t allow that man in my home. You will be in a weakened state and in danger from a selfish person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 07:26 PM
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My ex used my height as an excuse as to why he cheated. . Like I had gained height since we met or something. Pathetic. I laughed myself out of his life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/19 01:30 PM
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I have always requested papers and gotten them. It’s not as weird as they would want you to believe and when guys would argue against it, I would leave. I can self serve. Don’t need your crotch goblins dude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/19 01:01 PM
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This was amazing!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 11:12 PM
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Ha! Dudes a dumbass straight up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 03:59 PM
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Idk why but I laughed a lot reading this. Outstanding! Proud of you☝🏻🤣🤗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 01:05 PM
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From my experience, Men who are really invested in you will pay without it even being a question, no matter how much you make etc he will spend his last dime on you. Men invest in what they really care about. You don’t have to “justify “ it because if he’s not paying, he’s not worth your time because he’s not invested in you and is stringing you along, seeing what he can get from you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 09:00 PM
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I had one of my guy friends who was a trucker ask if he could come over for 1 hour and hangout because he was in town and waiting for his truck to be loaded and was “bored “ I said yes because he was a good friend and I knew his daughter etc and was trying to be nice. I already have huge issues with people being in my home because I feel like I can smell them after they leave, it’s my personal space etc but I told myself “ just an hour. Everything will be fine” I was doing laundry and weekend cl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 08:00 PM
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Yes!! He had basically been hinting he was above average for a bit. First time he dropped his pants and I just couldn’t!!! He had a clit. I am bi and have personally seen clits bigger than this mans penis. I was so annoyed that he had lied to me I just screamed “Get Out”. He left and then texted me and said he wouldn’t be surprised if he saw me in a news for being a serial killer. I didn’t respond but thought to myself “yeah sure dude, you being a micropenised liar doesn’t make me a serial kille…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 08:30 AM
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This is 100% accurate and ever since I was in high school I have had a problem with it. I would always say “I am no a pet or a baby. Pets and babies are “cute”. I would use it as a quick measure of maturity because from my experience, no mature man has ever called me “cute”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/19 07:56 PM
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Did you see the twitter comment that said “well maybe if she had nicely rejected him this wouldn’t have happened “ ? when I read it, I threw up in my mouth. Ignoring WAS the nice rejection in my opinion. Disgusting!! They think it can’t get worse than being ignored? Oh it can. This is why I CC.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/19 02:39 AM
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This seems like the adult version of a tantrum to me. Part of being a mature and HV person is being understanding that adults lead busy lives and they have plenty of things in their day that need to get done that don't involve him. If he can't understand or accept that, he is childish/needy and should probably work on himself before trying to date someone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/19 01:11 AM
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I saw a elderly lady struggling at the grocery store. My guy got out and offered help. Turns out, she was from out of town and didn't know how to open the trunk of her rental to put her groceries in. He loaded them for her, and then showed her how to do it so she could get them out. Kindness with no selfish agenda. I was so proud of him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/19 11:28 PM
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Never feel guilty or allow someone to make you feel guilty for setting boundaries or standards. You teach people how they can treat you and you deserve to be treated well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/19 01:39 AM
1

You should be proud of yourself. You deserve positive attention if you enjoy it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/19 01:22 AM
25

Yyeeaahh dude I'm gonna pass on that challenge. I have more productive things to be doing with my time, like watching paint dry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 01:34 PM
3

Well said!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 07:05 PM
5

I would let him know my stance on it i.e. not going to tolerate it, it being how a child behaves, etc and clearly request he not do it again. If it happens again, I would start to take things away (make gaming systems get "lost", no sex, no homemade meals etc) almost like you would take away a toy or fun activity from a child for their bad behavior. I would made it clear why I did it like " I don't find childish behavior attractive" or "I can make you dinner when you choose to act like an adult"…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 07:05 PM
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In my view, the ST is a very immature way of dealing with things. Adults communicate. Children throw tantrums and pout. ST=pouting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 06:54 PM
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Very well said. Love your username BTW 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 05:04 PM
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"She said she didn't want a relationship with me so obviously that means she isn't going to be having sex because women don't have a libido. I know she doesn't owe me anything but I'm sooo betrayed because secretly I believe she does owe me. What a grade A Niceguy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 05:00 PM
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I want to genuinely say thank you for this. I have never considered this and it's so accurate it's scary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 12:30 AM
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This post should be a wake-up call to us women. We should be on notice about any type of using or parasitic behavior from men and when we see it, cut them off COMPLETELY. We work hard to be successful. Someone who puts in less than maximum effort into making themselves successful, should not be allowed to drain us of our resources.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/19 07:07 PM
5

Hahaha! I literally laughed out loud 😂 thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/19 01:23 PM
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This is accurate. It's also why they are so upset about this subs existence. We are making that pool of women smaller and smaller by the day and they have been idiotic enough to admit and detail what they are doing while thinking we wouldn't use that information to recognize and shed boys like them sooner rather than later. They have really dug their own graves here and only have themselves to blame.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/19 01:11 PM
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I tend to hold a firm policy of "if you want me to do it, you do it first" if eat pussy is "gross", surprise surprise! So is sucking dick. I dated women for a few years and I can say, it's effort sometimes, but never was it actually "gross". This dude is a selfish fucker. You get what you give with me. . . In this case, that would be nothing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/19 01:03 PM
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They wanted someone who isn't a totally awful, loser of a person to project their ideology onto. . . Now that he openly has a girlfriend, they can no longer sustain that delusion and are butthurt 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/19 04:51 AM
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Jesus! You have a lot more patience than I. If it makes you feel happy and helps you shed him once and for all, you should do it. Hopefully it gets good results. I would just hate for him to feel like he was supported or justified in any way with his treatment of you. You are a kind soul because personally, I wouldn't warn her. I would let Bekka or Hoeever rot in the bed she made. Hmmm rereading that. . .I may have slight revenge issues🤔. I will be sending good vibes your way and hoping everyone…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/19 01:34 AM
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this is not a good idea. It would make you feel good for a little bit, but it would let him feel like he "won". When his friends/family see you going off, there will be the whole "oh you dodged a bullet bro" and it will make him feel even more justified in his terrible behavior. If it was me, I would ghost. Completely. Remove him and his ability to see or follow your life/activities. Don't give him any more of your time or energy than he has already wasted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/19 12:55 AM
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This is true. Can't take a dose of their own shitty behavior. I suggested a classic shitty move guys pull, to someone here, but flipped back onto the guy and I got messaged by a butthurt dude, so upset that I would say something like that, asking me "wtf is wrong with you?! Etc etc etc" I laughed a LOT.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/19 11:02 PM
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Lol yes! The trash took itself out and then got sad when she was happy without it and it wasn't retrieved from the bin🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/19 10:55 PM
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Very well said! Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/19 08:47 PM
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We are SO Trendy!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 02:23 AM
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I have done basically everything you listed and worse. That is a big part of what lead me here and this sub with so many smart and supportive ladies is a big blessing to me personally. You are strong and resilient and deserve the best!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 02:17 AM
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Exactly!! "I am so shocked and betrayed that my wife isn't interested in babysitting my penis!😱 She has been home cooking and cleaning and tending to the kids all day so she should be all rested up and relaxed!😌 I have been at work sitting in my office playing solitaire, pretending to replying to work emails for 8 hours!😥 I deserve better!😡"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 09:08 PM
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This is great! He seems sooo hurt that he can't comment here, and that no one finds his input relevant enough to allow it to even exist. It's like he can't accept it so he has turned to the 5 stages of grief to cope 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 08:47 PM
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So he starts by being mad that we are "lumping all men together" and saying we shouldn't do that, but then directly follows it up with " you are prostitutes and gold diggers one and all" oh and he has the idiocy to point out things that he deems as "contradictory" in this sub. Can someone die of hypocrisy ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 08:43 PM
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This was my thought exactly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 08:32 PM
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Are you getting some type of large gain out of it? Like a large allowance, debts paid, house, etc? If so, I would hang onto it while I looked for something more long term and when I found it or no longer felt the gain justified the effort expended, I would drop it. It's a classic one guys do, just flipped.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 08:26 PM
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Reading that made my heart hurt for you. You handled things much better than I would have and I sincerely hope you are able heal from the pain you were caused.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 08:20 PM
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I had this happen. The new guy I was dating happened to be a cop and I showed him the call logs of my ex calling me literally 27 times in 1 hour. He paid him a visit. Never heard from him since. Men have proved to be useful weapons against each other in my experience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 08:11 PM
1

Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 08:04 PM
2

I too would like to know this. I have combination oily/dry skin which seems like a contradiction but I have a real hard time finding moisturizer and products that I'm not allergic to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 08:03 PM
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This is so brilliant! I wish I would have done this starting 10 years ago. Would have saved me so much time, energy, money, stress etc. Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/19 03:37 PM
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Oh God! I have sooo many friends who would benefit/need to read this. It's a excellent breakdown and advice. Thank you for posting!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/19 03:18 PM
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Inaccurate. I'm allergic to most makeup. I could jump in a pool and everything would look the same except my hair. Your ignorance is embarrassing and people like you are ruining a once fun and interesting sub. Go be a incel somewhere else.
/r/PussyPassDenied03/10/19 07:45 PM
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