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Yes, I browse when I'm bored. At some point you stop talking about all this stuff and just do whatever you want.
/r/seduction18/02/15 02:48 PM
3

Yes it's weird. But if you like her enough, you can do it and admit you're weird. I've done this sort of thing a number of times in the past. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't. "Hey this is Loru. I basically just like stalked you and found your phone number because I think you're cute. What's up?" **EDIT: It's wayyy weirder if you try to pretend like you're chill and cool when you actually stalked her
/r/seduction29/01/15 11:26 PM
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Everyone is good at different things. For me, electronics and physics come naturally to me. I used to wonder how other people didn't have the same intuition as I did about manipulating the laws of the universe to do cool shit. Every person has some things that come more naturally to them than other people. This sub is for people who don't naturally succeed in social settings with women. Your post is akin to telling a fat guy to get the hell out of the gym...or telling a student studying to just …
/r/seduction28/11/14 06:11 PM
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This gentleman is awesome and we should all be a little more like him
/r/seduction16/09/14 12:10 AM
1

Look - you're asking me for advice but my ONLY source of information is YOU. If you tell me you're playing her - you're playing her. If you tell me you're not playing her - you're not playing her. Decide for yourself what your morals are and what you think is the appropriate way to treat people, then be upfront, honest, and consistent and accept whatever consequences come along - good or bad.
/r/seduction06/07/14 04:18 AM
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Really? How do you know that? Why does she "obviously" think you are playing her? Maybe she "obviously" found another guy? Maybe she "obviously" lost her phone? Maybe she "obviously" hasn't gotten around to texting you back? There are 100 reasons that she didn't text you back, and probably none of them have anything to do with you, and probably nothing you can do about it. Keep doing what you do and just move on to the next one. Not everything is in your control.
/r/seduction06/07/14 03:11 AM
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"Wow, you're good! Brad Pitt is actually my cousin!"
/r/seduction14/06/14 05:28 AM
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Right. Expressing these things will lead her to do the same. Then the connecting occurs when you realize 'Oh my gosh this girl is EXACTLY like me in this specific way...how cool is that!' It seems formulaic (although with good conversation skills it won't be) until you find one or two of these things. Then it becomes more exciting. There's more passion in both your eyes in conversation, etc...thats connection.
/r/seduction13/06/14 11:53 PM
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Share yourself honestly. Have deeper conversations. Spend a little more time getting to know her and letting her know you. Develop a standard for what "connection" feels like. If you hit that threshold, take her home. If not, don't sleep with her, maybe friendzone or something. Honestly (and I have nowhere near slept with 60 people), I've gotten to where I feel a connection with just about anyone I take on a first date (which isn't a high standard for me) - just because I consistently find mysel…
/r/seduction13/06/14 03:44 PM
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I suppose I'll have to disagree with you. Rihanna likely thinks she's hot shit, and is gonna turn you down if you blink at the wrong time because she's been told her whole life she's special and pretty and perfect and she has a line of guys. You hit on a hobo and you could be the first attractive sexual attention he/she has received in a much longer time. It's reasonable to think they'll be less likely to turn you down - allowing your smaller mistakes to slip by. In other words. A hobo might com…
/r/seduction03/04/14 07:23 PM
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First one is the hardest. I could never kiss girls, until one day one just kissed me. After that, it was totally different. Now I'll go for a make out after saying 12 words to a girl, get rejected, laugh at myself and realize that I had completely forgotten I have to attract them first. Just get the first few over with. Sooner you do, sooner it gets good. Don't worry about making it good or perfect - you likely won't be talking to them in a few months anyway unless you're the relationship type.
/r/seduction03/04/14 07:19 PM
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Maybe we're arguing different things. It's harder to go on a date w/ Rihanna than with a hobo. The reason is because Rihanna, in the eyes of society, is worth more than the hobo. Whether or not you like Rihanna more than a hobo (what you're arguing) is completely up for debate. Rihanna could be a massive fucking bitch for all I know. Still harder to lay her than a hobo.
/r/seduction29/03/14 09:04 PM
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Right, but you're talking about the value that someone has as a person. Like in the sense of morality and "what's a human life worth" type of ethical discussion. The fact IS: society values some people over others. There are high performers in our world and low performers in our world. I think both astrophysicists AND models happen to be considered high-performers. However, it's a little bit of a stretch to take the ethical "everyone is equal" argument to say that it's the same accomplishment to…
/r/seduction26/03/14 09:56 PM
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Do whatever the fuck you want. If you want to be sleeping with women, then yeah it's bad. If you want to be playing starcraft and masturbating, then you're doing great!
/r/seduction25/01/14 01:48 AM
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For me, it varies. Usually I try to keep meeting people/getting numbers/having conversations. Then, I'll either really want to go on a date, or have a day where I'm totally free. Then I just ask them one at a time (a few days in advance) over a couple days until somebody says yes. So I end up going on about 1 date a week. Maybe 25% of the time I ask I get a "yes" and 50% of the girls I ask end up going on a date with me at some point (it's even been years later).
/r/seduction04/01/14 09:44 PM
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I'd like to see more discussion about this topic on Seddit. I think you might be right but I don't want to admit it. Lol
/r/seduction31/12/13 02:56 PM
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This is a good response. My thing is just I have a really pretty bland social life. I don't like excessive drinking, I'm under 21, highly focused in my career and in academia. I don't really do anything cool enough that I'd actually want to invite someone along to. And I'm OK with that. I'm the type of guy who is content with mostly routine and only the occasional adventure. Top it all of with the fact that I'm an introvert, and prefer spending time alone instead of large groups...and dates beco…
/r/seduction31/12/13 04:06 AM
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But I want them to know AHEAD of time that I am probably interested and will probably escalate and I want them to say no if we aren't on the same page!! That's why I love calling it a "date." I love being upfront. I love straight forward. I don't mind rejection. What I do mind is wasting time. I don't want to "hang out" and attempt to escalate only to get a "uh...what are you doing?" Not that I mind the rejection. Not at all. But I don't have time for that. Calling it a date and getting rejected…
/r/seduction31/12/13 02:06 AM
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Fuck. I've been doing this for a long time. Ask her on a "date," go to dinner, take her home if we like each other. Plenty of make-outs and f-closes this way. Invariably, the ones that DO drop out always at some point make some comment about how I seemed "serious" (when it's the last thing I am right now) I guess this is it. I'm not excited for this news. I like calling it a date. I like nice dinners. I think that's casual. Damn.
/r/seduction30/12/13 11:43 PM
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I actually think it wouldn't work so well for "Do you have a crush on me?" Do girls even ask that? That seems really weird. I've never been asked that but I wouldn't take it seriously at all. I'd agree & amplify that one. "Yeah, so you're my girlfriend now, right?" said jokingly.
/r/seduction30/12/13 08:45 PM
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Absolutely. childish grin Be incredibly forward yet self-amused about it. You aren't serious. You might not actually even like her. You're just having a good time.
/r/seduction30/12/13 06:41 PM
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Really, it matters less what you do outwardly, and more what you do inwardly. This is about you. Do whatever you need to do to emotionally move on yourself. If this means never speak to her again, well thats suboptimal, but do it. If you can 100% move on emotionally while slowly pulling away from her, that might be even better! You gotta decide what you can handle. I know sometimes a girl does a number on me and I just have to move the fuck on. Sometimes I think I can move on and yet still try t…
/r/seduction30/12/13 08:28 AM
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said that shes not looking for anything like fuck buddies or like LTR. She isn't interested. Next.
/r/seduction29/12/13 02:11 PM
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1) Fair point. I amend my view to "same-sex friendships are generally less volatile". 2) I wasn't attempting to prove my point. I was just stating my opinion. You escalated it to an argument/discussion. 3) Ad hominem. Just because I hadn't kissed a girl 5 months ago doesn't mean my view is incorrect. (Besides, if you had read my post history, a large factor to that was a very, very religious upbringing. About 5 months ago I also decided it wasn't wrong to kiss a girl before marriage.) EDIT: In t…
/r/seduction28/12/13 07:02 AM
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The relationship dynamic between male and female friends will often fluctuate as they both enter and leave their own separate relationships. Also the level of attraction between them will also fluctuate. This fluctuation produces the volatility I mentioned. Between two males, this factor is not present, and the volatility is also not present. I did not say it wasn't possible to have your closest friends as female. I've done it before. I said same-sex friendships are less volatile than opposite s…
/r/seduction28/12/13 06:44 AM
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You're so clever
/r/seduction28/12/13 03:16 AM
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It's not misogynistic in the least. If you were a woman, I would suggest that you weigh heavily upon other women for your friendships. Same-sex friendships will always be less volatile. It is a limited perspective that would say that is misogynistic, when the complications between platonic, opposite sex relationships are evident.
/r/seduction28/12/13 03:03 AM
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I think you are wrong
/r/seduction28/12/13 01:53 AM
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Words have more than one definition, and can usually be used in many different ways, with different meanings based upon context and connotation.
/r/seduction28/12/13 01:47 AM
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Perhaps. But then again I'd be surprised if you knew how many women I sleep with.
/r/seduction28/12/13 01:44 AM
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"Performed or undertaken by only one side" Guy friendships being one side, girl friendships being the other side.
/r/seduction28/12/13 01:41 AM
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I suppose its semantics. If we are "more than friends" than we have some sort of sexual relationship. If we are "just friends" then we do not. If a woman says "Let's just be friends" she does not want a sexual relationship.
/r/seduction28/12/13 01:39 AM
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Maybe I'm just a sex addict. I don't call a girl attractive unless I want to sleep with her.
/r/seduction28/12/13 01:37 AM
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Being friends with a woman by definition means a relationship that does not include sleeping with her. Being attracted to a woman by definition means wanting to sleep with her. You're suggesting, by definition, that even though I want to sleep with her, I should pursue a relationship based upon not sleeping with her. Maybe we just have different views - but this does NOT appeal to me, and it surprises me that it appeals to you.
/r/seduction28/12/13 01:26 AM
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I think it works great. It eliminates all of the guesswork. Now I have TONS of female acquaintances. But I don't keep in touch with them on a regular basis, I don't hang out with them one-on-one, I don't look to them for emotional support. If I'm hanging out with you one-on-one, its a date. And everyone who knows me, knows that about me. Many girls respect that a lot, and I've found the ones who DON'T respect it are the really manipulative ones. They wanted another orbiter and you don't want to …
/r/seduction28/12/13 01:23 AM
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I'd rather sleep with an attractive woman than not sleep with an attractive woman. Besides, guys unilaterally make better friends. EDIT: But I suppose our goals could be different. If your goal is NOT to sleep with attractive women, then yes, be friends with them. If you want to sleep with her -- don't be her friend.
/r/seduction27/12/13 11:25 PM
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I mean, I suppose you can be friends with a girl if you don't find her attractive. But why would you want to spend time with unattractive people? And if she is attractive, and you pretend like you just want to be friends...then you sure aren't communicating honestly. Instead learn to pony up and show your intentions like a confident man should.
/r/seduction27/12/13 10:43 PM
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I receive all 10 of these benefits by NOT being friends with ANY women. Any women, even if only moderately attractive, receives sexual attention and intention from me. They can reciprocate or not. The ones that don't I keep at arms length - they know what I want (and respect me for my straightforwardness) but just aren't interested. I don't become friends with them, but they notice how I'm always surrounded by fun and attractive women and want a part of it. They either come to the table with a r…
/r/seduction27/12/13 09:57 PM
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http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/1sk3sq/what_to_do_if_a_girl_pulls_out_her_cell_phone/
/r/seduction24/12/13 06:32 PM
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I have this exact problem. I'm not interested in every girl I meet, and I can be casual acquitances with anyone, but I just have no interest in and generally cannot be in communication with girls I am/have been interested in who don't reciprocate. I often tell them point blank if they say they want to be friends I'll say "Well I don't." I don't want to text them, call them, or hang out with them one-on-one. If I run into them casually - cool, no problem. But I just don't have the time or the emo…
/r/seduction16/12/13 08:06 PM
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I think there is a huge upside. It allows you to set boundaries from day 1. After you set a boundary here - you use the exact same tone of voice, method, everything on any other topic you wanna set a boundary on. When you abruptly become serious in the same way that she remembers - she'll know you aren't joking around.
/r/seduction10/12/13 11:49 PM
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Hasn't ever happened to me, but I'd take it seriously, call her bluff on it and make it clear I expect her to leave and handle her emergency. If I liked her, I'd reschedule. If not, the end.
/r/seduction10/12/13 11:47 PM
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It's not about selling out, dressing nicer, or any bag of tricks to help you get women. It's about deciding for yourself what kind of person you want to be, and working hard to improve in that direction. Your problem is you are complacent. You seem to think improvement is "compromising" yourself. If you truly think you can't be improved then you wouldn't be here with a clear desire to get better results. You don't have to compromise who you are to get better. But being good with women is a skill…
/r/seduction10/12/13 11:45 PM
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I absolutely love it when this happens - let me explain. There are two characteristics commonly found in attractive women: a little bitchy, and busy. If you're on a date for several hours with one, she's getting texts, and at some point she's going to look at her phone. When this happens I immediately stop the conversation, and just stare at her for about 3 seconds as she looks at her phone. Then I say "You know, it's incredibly rude to pull out your phone on a date." She responds whatever - usu…
/r/seduction10/12/13 05:38 PM
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Ask her on a date.
/r/seduction12/11/13 03:54 AM
1

Over the long term engineering can breed confidence, but engineering students are commonly very, very depressed. For example, I know someone who attended Georgia Tech (highly ranked engineering school) and the suicide rate there is much higher than other institutions. The intense workout and difficult exams leads students to think they are the "only ones not getting it" and basically constantly receive negative feedback. At some point you sort of "break out of the matrix" and realize that everyo…
/r/seduction12/11/13 02:16 AM
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I don't know if I agree with this. For instance, I'm an engineering student. How well I do on an exam has nothing to do with my PERCEPTION of how well I will do - it has only to do with how much I know and how well I have prepared. The difference is...when I turn in that test, it's done. I don't know what grade I got yet, but whatever it is, it's already been determined. At that point I can either feel GOOD about it, or feel BAD about it. I can't change it. In conclusion, I don't believe positiv…
/r/seduction12/11/13 01:26 AM
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Break it off. It's not cool to toss a girl back and forth. You communicated that you wanted more, and now you don't. Next time decide what you want BEFORE you go get it. Unfortunately with relationships its not very feasible to jump back and forth from casual/serious if you change your mind.
/r/seduction12/11/13 12:32 AM
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I'm willing to be vulnerable with my close platonic friends and vice versa all the time. The only difference between friends and lovers is having sex. How do you have sex? Escalate.
/r/seduction12/11/13 12:23 AM
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Maybe. But most guys don't ever make them choose sexual relationship vs friendship. They just let themselves get thrown in friend zone as a DEFAULT. I may not always be super successful, but one thing I do REALLY well is polarizing myself. I force women to see me a potential sexual partner immediately. I have women try occasionally to become friends with me and watch them give up in under a week. You might wonder why I'm proud of this - and it's because I'm not a big fan of female friends. Anyti…
/r/seduction09/11/13 06:14 PM
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I have found that this approach - treating her like a beautiful person, while masking the fact that you want to fuck her - lands you in the friend zone. Every time, regardless of how hot she is. Unless you go for close friends ----> serious relationship. This method will not work. If you go for fuck ----> FWB or relationship you must be clear with intentions.
/r/seduction08/11/13 08:24 PM
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The longer you wait the harder it is. You'll get the least resistance when you paint yourself as as potential sexual partner immediately after meeting her. Try kino, see what the reaction is.
/r/seduction07/11/13 04:51 AM
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Are you asking them on dates? Are 100% of the women you are asking on dates telling you no? If I had to bet, I'd say you aren't escalating. You're talking to women, you're meeting them...but you aren't making any moves of any kind. And you're wasting your time. When you meet women be flirty. Touch them. Get their number. Ask them on a date the first time you text them. Be polarizing. Make them see you as a potential sex partner - then get rejected by 95% of them. Now, go out and do this for 20 w…
/r/seduction04/11/13 02:26 AM
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Sometimes rejection hits me hard, and sometimes I barely even notice. I've noticed this: how bad you feel about rejection is DIRECTLY correlated with how much YOU decided to put into it. For example, I met this one girl, got her number, and then talked to her, looked at her pictures on facebook etc. I felt kinda bad when she stopped responding. Another girl, I may just get her number from the street, 5 texts later I ask her on a date. She doesn't respond. I literally forget about it in a second.…
/r/seduction28/10/13 01:18 AM
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I never push through LMR. You should be teasing her to the point where she almost begs for it. Progress physically (no words) until she physically or verbally stops you. If she physically stops you, back off, try again later. If she verbally stops you, say anything along the lines of "Ok, we won't do anything you aren't comfortable with" and start to back off (try to back off MORE than she wants you to! Don't take what she's willing to give you...make her WANT more. If she wants to make out, ram…
/r/seduction27/10/13 09:06 AM
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I wouldn't even mention it. Option A would have been to go with it while you were drunk, hold your ground, and make it a joke. Option B is to not even mention it. Text her in a few days/weeks/whenever you were gonna make date plans. If she brings it up, I wouldn't even pretend you didn't remember. Just make it a joke.
/r/seduction27/10/13 09:02 AM
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Fix your attitude. If she told me that I would have said "Boy, too bad you weren't more persistent...then maybe you could have had me!" She "chose" another guy over you? Cool. So you moved on 5 minutes later and found someone else, right? Work on self-confidence and self-esteem. Stop giving women as much power as you sound like you do.
/r/seduction27/10/13 08:59 AM
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This is what I would have done: 1) Read the situation. Look at her and determine if she wants you to take care of this or not. If she does, ask "should I handle this?" and handle it. 2) If not (which sounds like the vibe she was throwing out) I would have stayed cool as a cucumber, said my goodbye, and walked straight out the door. Likely she would have stopped you there, apologized profusely later, or she wasn't interested anyway and you walked away with your dignity. EDIT: Also, would not have…
/r/seduction18/10/13 05:07 AM
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I don't think it matters -- but either way don't OFFER to pay ahead of time. It telegraphs some insecurity/neediness ("my company isn't enough, but I'll give you a treat if you come with me? please?") I almost always pay if a woman is with me, but more because I have the money and it's often just an afterthought like "oh, I suppose it would be convenient if I pay for this cheap item." If you're pressed for cash, expect her to pay, or even treat. Bottom line, it doesn't matter, but look at the at…
/r/seduction08/10/13 02:09 AM
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This method is a straight-shot to failure 95% of the time. If you want a relationship, be direct in your intentions and pursue a relationship, but putting a woman on a pedestal at any time will wreck attraction. The best place to be is where she knows you can walk away anytime and get someone as good -- or better -- than her. Then, she stays.
/r/seduction04/10/13 02:04 AM
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Could go either way. I'd ask her again in a week or two, but in the mean time focus on other people - this one may or may not happen. EDIT: Don't ask her when she is free. Just wait a while and ask again
/r/seduction27/09/13 12:02 AM
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Good stuff. They dated for 2 years and broke up. Were 100% over for 3 months or so, she said she was over him, had slept with lots of people etc. They started talking again recently. I'm gonna start to give her the cold shoulder a little, while still maintaining that I'd love to see her, and in the conversations that we do have (presumably her asking me why we aren't talking so much or something), I'll throw out some of the comments you mentioned. Maybe like "Well I'd love to see you, but honest…
/r/seduction14/09/13 10:14 PM
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I'm really identifying with a lot of this. Thanks so much for the insight. You're absolutely right about the value thing. I've talked to her several times about this. The problem is she has some mobility issues (a car she shares with her sister, her schedule is a little tighter than mine, etc). I know that if she's motivated enough, she'll make it happen though. As of now though, she's making excuses and doesn't really want to make the effort. How should I handle this? Draw a line and say I'm no…
/r/seduction14/09/13 06:00 PM
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Give me more info. Of all my friends I've asked, and people on here, you're the only one to say this. This is kindof what I was thinking. She is also fucking her ex-boyfriend though. This guy probably is ahead of me just in terms of familiarity with her. I don't expect to beat him out. Also she's already been clear she doesn't want to do long distance. You think I can turn her towards it? In all honesty, there have been lots of instances where I've turned her around with game. For example: 1) fi…
/r/seduction14/09/13 05:06 PM
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I guess this is where my personal convictions kinda differ. I don't really want sex to lose it's power. I want it to be what it is to me now, important, valuable, emotional, etc, and just share it with the right person. I do understand what you're saying though. EDIT: in other words, I feel like not having sex right away keeps me unemotional, rather than trying to transform sex into something that's unemotional. But even if I wanted to remove emotion from sex -- wouldn't this girl be a good one …
/r/seduction14/09/13 04:17 PM
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I do have oneitis in the sense that I would choose her over the other girls I'm seeing. But that's where I want to be eventually - a committed relationship with 1 girl. Talk to me more about that quote. I feel like I become REALLY emotionally invested once I sleep with them, but not before. I slept with this girl the first day I met her, and I think that was the wrong way to go. I was thinking next time I'd be significantly more careful and wait longer to have sex. Because I went so far so quick…
/r/seduction14/09/13 03:37 PM
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I'm not exclusive with her, seeing and interested in other people, but I'm also not interested in sleeping with anyone else (not interested in going this route with relationships ever again). I would love for that last thing to happen. But obviously, I should make my decision expecting that it won't. Easy enough to move on. Difficult to live the next year or so knowing I could have fucked her anytime I wanted and turned it down. Definitely never even talked to anyone I felt so strongly about or …
/r/seduction14/09/13 03:12 PM
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I totally understand this, and honestly agree with it. Here's my problem: the reason I had sex with her in the first place was because I knew if I chose not to, I would forever kick myself for not doing it (wonder how it could have been, etc). In the same way, I've only slept with her once (and no one else), and while I understand there will be more women of her calibre, I don't know when that will come along. One side of me wants to just wants to get it all out of my system, and have as much ex…
/r/seduction14/09/13 02:54 PM
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My go-to in competition type scenarios is to take SERIOUS initiative, be VERY straightforward, VERY sexual, go for the shock & awe technique. Her natural response to this, as an attractive woman, will be to turn to the other men that are interested in her. When she does this, stay very non-reactionary and very self-amused as you continue to enjoy whatever event you are at. Likely, she won't be impressed by any other guys, as she continues to think (WTF is holidayplays deal? How is he comfortable…
/r/seduction19/07/13 05:00 PM
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That sounds a little strange and bordering rapey. If i didnt have a lot of rapport built with the guy, it would be a few points in the creepy column. Also, she did know I was a virgin at this point.
/r/seduction17/07/13 09:00 PM
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I stole that line from a TofuTofu guide. I think its great
/r/seduction17/07/13 08:50 PM
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An FR I recently posted is a great example of how I used this tactic. It's really a big part of my game. Check my post history.
/r/seduction16/07/13 09:52 PM
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No problem. It falls under being nonreactionary. You say what you think and feel...and aren't affected by how she responds, verbally or non verbally (in this case with silence). Its basically an incidental shit test
/r/seduction16/07/13 08:33 PM
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Well regardless of whether you are right or not, you can't change it. So stop worrying, be as attractive as possible with what you can change, and realize you only cripple yourself if you have low self esteem or are insecure about it. Pretend if you must.
/r/seduction16/07/13 08:31 PM
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When you can sustain silence without being awkward, after asking a sexual question or breaching a risky topic, it conveys a strong sense of control and confidence. Breaking the silence or changing the subject or answering your own question is almost like apologizing for it - big turn off.
/r/seduction16/07/13 04:41 PM
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I used to be too. Work on doing it over text first. This girl was the first I had ever said that too in person.
/r/seduction16/07/13 04:18 PM
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Yeah I feel like the situation was a huge part. Which stunts? I've always had a very "shock & awe" type of game. I find its polarizing and allows the freaky girls to be able to be freaky without feeling judged (as in, no matter how sexual she is, I am ALWAYS more forward. Makes them comfortable showing their sexual side if you are comfortable)
/r/seduction16/07/13 03:13 PM
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Well if it helps I looked like a lobster the whole night...
/r/seduction16/07/13 02:32 PM
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Sounds good.
/r/seduction16/07/13 12:22 PM
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I wouldn't feel intimidated. Just the day before this I was super nervous about kino-ing a different girl. It went great and the adrenaline rush was awesome. But the HB9 was different entirely. No nervousness or anything. I could tell she wanted me, and I was prepared (through techniques I learned here) to handle anything. Before I kinda felt like an armchair PUA, but I realized that even just keeping seddit as a light hobby, you pick up a lot. Success is when preparation meets opportunity.
/r/seduction16/07/13 12:21 PM
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All true. Unfortunately it may take a while until I learn that. I'm gonna try to see her again and we'll see what happens. I don't really want a LDR, but it'd be cool if we were FWB that hook up occasionally.
/r/seduction16/07/13 12:19 PM
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I actually waited a day or two to post it. I wasn't planning on it, but as I didn't talk to any of my friends about this, it ended up being a great experience for me to be able to write it all out. It helped me straighten everything out when before my weekend was a blur. I'm sorry you didn't find it helpful or enjoyable. I think you are a minority in this opinion.
/r/seduction16/07/13 12:18 PM
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Okay, I'll do it. One last question: Am I interested at all in sexting, talking about sex, or exchanging (hot) pictures? Does this also count against me?
/r/seduction16/07/13 02:14 AM
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Wow. See, I felt like shit because I've always had anxiety that girls wouldn't be as attractive as I imagined. She was gorgeous. I think I just need to stop masturbating......
/r/seduction16/07/13 02:04 AM
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Understood and I'm familiar with seddit's general text advice. It just kinda worries me. It just seems like given the distance, and the one-night thing, if I do not maintain contact of some level, she will assume I'm not interested and quickly move on. Do I not need to foster some level of emotional dependence/interest so she's ready to go next time?
/r/seduction16/07/13 01:59 AM
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Christianity. A slow change to agnosticism as I realized my beliefs were mostly from my parents. I slowly questioned most of my beliefs and didn't find answers so I gave up. The morality change took even longer.
/r/seduction16/07/13 01:57 AM
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She avoided me, but definitely kept coming back. I focused really hard on being self amused and giving other girls attention. Everytime she came to me, she'd leave pretty quickly again (until we were both on the floor) She flirted with several other guys, one of them so much that I had thought she had entirely moved on. I even walked up to him later (close friend) and said he could have her if he was interested. He declined, as a good friend should. I think the IOI--->turn downs was a slut defen…
/r/seduction16/07/13 01:50 AM
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It honestly came from other guys coming on to me as a joke. I realized I could either get pissy and awkward about it, or play along and step it up a further notch.
/r/seduction16/07/13 01:47 AM
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See other response to this: I tried to include as many details as possible so it would be obvious it wasn't fake. Not sure if I can help past that. But I spend a lot of time trying to get better with women without sex. For religious reasons, I was waiting for marriage. That's since changed, which left me with a solid amount of confidence (at least up 'til the kiss) and little experience.
/r/seduction16/07/13 01:46 AM
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I meant that I didn't finish
/r/seduction16/07/13 01:44 AM
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Don't text her until then or do I ever small talk? EDIT: Until now she had asked me to hang the next day, I said I couldn't, and we've also exchanged several short joking/situational texts.
/r/seduction16/07/13 01:44 AM
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Well technically, the entire night.
/r/seduction15/07/13 11:21 PM
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Shit that's exactly how I feel.
/r/seduction15/07/13 11:19 PM
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I think I did make it clear. She didn't ask me to go down on her, which she later admitted "because you were having so much trouble, I didn't want to pressure you." I thought that was nice. I guess I'll have to practice.
/r/seduction15/07/13 11:15 PM
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You're spot on
/r/seduction15/07/13 11:11 PM
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I tried to include as many details as possible so it would be obvious it wasn't fake. Not sure if I can help past that. EDIT: But I spend a lot of time trying to get better with women without sex. For religious reasons, I was waiting for marriage. That's since changed, which left me with a solid amount of confidence (at least up 'til the kiss) and little experience.
/r/seduction15/07/13 11:08 PM
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Good thoughts. I thought of that after but I think it was okay in this situation. I handed out tons of compliments and she knew I thought she was gorgeous. I don't regret it, I just don't want all my friends knowing my sex life. If she would have told the guy she was staying with, the entire town would have known after a few days. As I told her, I value privacy. Is there a better way for me to handle this without hurting her ego? And yeah, I really don't want that many sexual partners. I'd much …
/r/seduction15/07/13 10:05 PM
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Yeah. I often playfully flirt with guys. I find its both pretty funny and opens lots of doors. Lots of things to do with this. Girls often ask if I'm gay and although I hadn't kissed any I could say: "Oh yeah. Really gay." ---> go for kiss, or "Huh? Thats just me being friendly...this is what happens when I like someone" ---> go for kiss It's a personal style thing I think is funny as I'm pretty confident in my sexuality. It's also easy for me to get away with as I am so forward with women, it's…
/r/seduction15/07/13 09:55 PM
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Thanks! I told her to tell anyone who asked that we just made out, and I'm not gonna tell anyone...so it's nice to get some internet feedback
/r/seduction15/07/13 05:19 PM
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It's just that she was so perfect and the situation was so perfect that I almost don't want to keep improving. I just feel content. I've always wanted more and better, but now I'm just like "Yep. That was all I wanted. I wanted to be able to do that." So what now? I mean I guess I just focus on finding a girl I want to marry. I don't really want to have lots of meaningless sex, I just wanted to see how good I could get and how far I could go. Now I understand that with the effort there aren't re…
/r/seduction15/07/13 05:17 PM
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They both go to the same university...I may have another FR coming up lol
/r/seduction15/07/13 04:20 PM
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