thrwawayaaa Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
136	Desperation		thrwawayaaa	/r/seduction	01/11/14 12:29 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Desperation Just like walking up to random women in public? I'm not sure if I'm comfortable with that, and I don't want to make other people uncomfortable.	/r/seduction	02/11/14 02:27 PM
1	Desperation I don't do 1rms. I guess that'd be an option but I don't drink since I'm in recovery.	/r/seduction	02/11/14 02:25 PM
1	Desperation Tried that it doesn't really work for me.	/r/seduction	02/11/14 02:14 PM
2	Desperation I would start here. When you go out into the world, practice assuming everybody is your friend. In your head, tell yourself that. Just start there. You are probably introverted which means you're a little low on energy right now. But when you start from your inner core and tell yourself the right things, it will start to effect your body language, and then things like eye contact and saying "hello" to people will come. You've got to give a little magic a little chance. I'll try. Thanks for the a…	/r/seduction	02/11/14 02:13 PM
1	Desperation 1a) Just know that having a woman like you enough to sleep with you is like being a salesman with you as the product. You have to sell yourself, be confident and close the deal. This may sound silly but it is how it works. Playing a role can work just to bust the cherry but yeah it will fade in the long run. Again focus on a goal Maybe I'm just being naive but that sounds pretty cold and almost like lying which I'm not for. But you're saying pick something specific and pursue it? 2a) Take pics (…	/r/seduction	02/11/14 02:11 PM
1	Desperation Tried it, hadn't helped man	/r/seduction	02/11/14 02:06 PM
1	Desperation I'm a bad actor then	/r/seduction	02/11/14 02:06 PM
1	Desperation You've already signed your death certificate with that kind of attitude. I used to think I'd never overcome my crippling social anxiety. I isolated myself for 5 years and lived with my crack-addicted mum. I understand the power and pull of sadness, loneliness and depression. It's PTSD, a TBI and alcoholism. There isn't a cure for any of those things. All those other things you mentioned are just piled on top of it. Your sadness may turn some people away, but put on a strong face and try to enjoy…	/r/seduction	02/11/14 02:05 PM
1	Desperation I have been for a couple years.	/r/seduction	01/11/14 10:04 PM
1	Desperation The only real solution is to overcome it. Why are you desperate? What is lacking in your life that is making you feel this way? Probably the complete lack of human interaction in my life. Work on yourself first, and wait until you're happy and comfortable with who you are and know that you are worthy of love and respect. Yeah that's unlikely for me. I have a lot of mental issues that aren't ever going to go away. For me I think it's like a chicken and egg scenario. I won't be able to think that …	/r/seduction	01/11/14 09:54 PM
1	Desperation Yeah I know what you mean about them being guarded. That's how it goes for me too.I don't like making people uncomfortable so I usually give up. Wish I had the looks down Au last though, I'm ugly.	/r/seduction	01/11/14 09:42 PM
2	Desperation Here is how to fake confidence: talk slow and have a begining of a smile on your face. I'll try it. I just need to figure out how to meet women now.	/r/seduction	01/11/14 09:40 PM
1	Desperation 1) what are you looking for? Anything to be honest. It just depends on the other person. I don't necessarily want a committed relationship right now but at some point yeah. The whole playing a role thing isn't my string suit. I've tried the whole faking confidence thing before and I can't get it down. I can't just pretend to be sometime I'm not forever. 2) Where and how are you meeting girls? I'm not at all right now. When I was trying to it was online or bars/clubs but I never even got any date…	/r/seduction	01/11/14 09:37 PM
1	Desperation I'll try the posture thing for sure. I don't know about all that other stuff.	/r/seduction	01/11/14 09:33 PM
1	Desperation I've tried but I don't think I'm very good at hiding it. I don't know if it's something I can practice doing since the desperation just keeps getting worse	/r/seduction	01/11/14 03:05 PM