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That too. But still if you're ugly get a short ugly woman and be happy and ugly together.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 09:13 PM
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I never attacked you once, i asked a question then gave my opinion. Let me reverse the question. Would more women be attracted to a wealthy single 28 year old with a six pack than a poor overweight 50 year old with 3 kids from a divorce? I'll also say i think it's great you care about these fictional people's feelings. Empathy is greatly needed in the world. But i think everyone (especially online) gets mixed up between how they want things to work and how they actually do.
/r/ExRedPill17/08/22 09:07 PM
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Woah chill i just asked a question it's not that serious. All I'm saying is that it's called the dating market for a reason and some people (men and women) are more desirable. Doesn't mean you can't find love or you'll be alone just means if you're not one of those more desirable people you will have less options and will have a harder time is all. Plus you should never attack your partner for their short comings in my opinion. That's a different story. I'm talking about the logistics of the str…
/r/ExRedPill16/08/22 02:11 AM
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This is just the in evitable progression of our ad centric culture making people feel like shit to make them buy the "solution". It's hard to sell anything but food, water, and housing to people with high self esteem.
/r/ExRedPill15/08/22 10:47 PM
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It helps sure. Not just with women either attractive people are much more likely to be successful. But there's tons of ugly guys who get laid. How do you think those ugly genetics got here?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 10:42 PM
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Do you think more men would want a fit, 24 year old, with no kids?
/r/ExRedPill15/08/22 10:38 PM
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Some women do that. Brittney Reiner, black chyna, amber rose, so on. It's a viable strategy but none of them seem that happy to me. You're basically stating the female equivalent of "fuck bitches, get money".
/r/ExRedPill15/08/22 10:36 PM
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Think about it from his point of view. He thought she was very conservative and respected that. What does he get for his respect? 3 months of blue balls. While some random guy at a party fucked her and her friend after not spending any effort, time, or money. Seems to me like he got the raw end of the deal. You must be a woman because this idea that you only fuck guys you don't like is ass backwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 10:37 PM
0

Idk about the EU or UK but in the US the single mother households are usually low income families which statistically don't fair well in one of the most high cost of living countries. At least from my late millennial generation, we'll see how things go in ten years.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 12:02 AM
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Eh sure if you want to look at it that way. War and slavery still exist. It is what it is. Some dudes are born with crazy genetics to a well off, two parent low child family, in a first world country, and have every statistical advantage. For most dudes that's not the case so you have to get in where you fit in, being upset about it won't make the world magically fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 11:28 PM
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Us guys are visual at first for sex but for a partner id argue any guy with options and morals is more concerned with personality than women. I'd say put some effort into looking nice with makeup and clothes. Then just be kind and caring towards one guy. As long as you're not shooting for someone waaay out of your league he'll notice you're not superficial and long term relationship material.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 11:05 PM
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I don't think there's anything wrong with those feelings. Being angry is a natural emotion and aggressiveness is a valuable trait in sports or physical confrontations. Those guys just haven't learned to control their emotions and apply the appropriate response to the current situation. I think a lot of them are fatherless men without mentors to teach them healthy masculinity.
/r/ExRedPill25/07/22 10:54 PM
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In the areas with the most two parent households yeah. In areas with mostly single moms i don't think thats the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 10:41 PM
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Meh if you like someone and you let them know you're interested i don't think it's a problem to be friends. Could make things awkward at times but life is awkward.
/r/ExRedPill25/07/22 09:20 PM
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I can see you just want to argue and ive got other stuff to do so i can't keep going back and forth. You can either decide to understand the point in my comment or not up to you but I'm not going to keep trying to explain myself on the internet. Main point is marriage is more serious than dating, and my principle as a man is not to be overly emotionally invested till marriage. You're only setting yourself up to be exploited if you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 01:14 AM
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Yes because there isn't a legally binding contract. Dating is some form of commitment in my opinion. Relationships usually follow some form of Getting to know someone > romantically involved > Dating > engagement > marriage. And each progression should require more commitment and investment. There's no reason to date if there's no commitment requirements. Key word there is "shouldn't". I also said it's better to break up if you are entertaining other people. You're allowed to break up with anyon…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 12:49 AM
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I work in software development and most guys are married or in a relationship but not smashing girls left and right even if their same salary in another field would guarantee them more attention. I can say from experience comp sci guys are usually seen as a safe bet by women and you'll get some attention by your late twenties early thirties.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 12:37 AM
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Marriage is a strong emotional bond. Breaking that emotional trust would be fucked up and warrant a response like some of these guys are saying because of the seriousness of the relationship. You sign a contract saying you want to be with this person till one of you dies. Dating on the other hand isn't that serious. You don't need lawyers to break up you can do it on a whim if you really want to. Imo your only obligation while dating is to not to have sex with anyone else. You shouldn't be enter…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 12:24 AM
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Fuck that dude. You can't make everyone happy all the time and trying to is just going to make your life a living hell. You should really check out the book "no more mr nice guy".
/r/ExRedPill20/07/22 11:46 PM
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That's kind of fucked up to call people trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 01:04 AM
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On some level yeah that's true but your ancestors had the same competition and you're here so they did alright. And it's usually a competition between men in the area they have access to. Just be up to par with the social standards in your area and you'll be fine. Also hang around and get to know women off of the internet. Bts, the rock, henry cavill, etc are on the internet. We all look like shit comparatively. But compared to the the dude who works at 5 guys and sells nickel bags on the side y…
/r/ExRedPill11/07/22 11:47 PM
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I think the point op was making is that there are tons of guys who don't have their shit together by those standards and are reproducing the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 10:55 PM
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This post made reflect a lot. If you want a decent quality woman you have to build a life a decent quality woman would want to take part in. Trying with nothing to show for it doesn't cut it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 12:52 AM
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Seems to me the guy hasn't even finished the process before he's giving up. He said he's "trying" to be more outgoing, he's "trying" to get a six pack, he's "tried" going to a social club. But he hasn't actually fully committed to any of these things. I'm sure if he was the resident funny, out going, ripped guy at his local dnd club or whatever, he could at least get a date. He's going to have to be more patient, more disciplined, and more confident in himself. Also not go for women taller than …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 12:49 AM
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Events that guys would never go to normally. For example this nerd bar i go to sometimes had some party for BTS that korean boyband and there was no shit a 40 to 1 women to man ratio. I'd recommend going to mixed events for hobbies you like though unless you have serious game. You'll make real friends hopefully in a co-ed group where you can ease into a good relationship instead of trying to force something in one night.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 12:35 AM
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I personally think women on this sub just like to argue and don't care about logistics, or implications. It's all feelings no facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 12:28 AM
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That's the difference, we do. How else are we gonna lie to you about how we can fix them if you just sleep with us.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 12:22 AM
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Yeah but they're not shamed for doing it. People want to do shit they shouldn't all the time. For example if the IRS didn't hunt people down almost no one would pay taxes just because "it's the right thing to do".
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 12:19 AM
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MTR is that man. He's part of the reason I'm not out here just chasing viscosity.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 12:06 AM
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Exactly if this is just a questionnaire then it's irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 01:56 PM
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Men care in different ways than women for one. The studies are vastly outdated (1998 and 2009), and if a guy is going to marry or date you and give up his romantic freedom, 9/10 times he cares about you. Glad to see most women on here don't believe this bs. Bro it's crazy how people on Reddit will try and ruin people's happy lives just to prove a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 01:47 PM
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Fuck thank you!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 01:40 PM
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Yeah average women should accept men for being average because that's most men. If you're an above average woman you should get an above average man. The issue is women are undervaluing men and overvaluing themselves. They also think they have forever to choose the perfect partner then have the surprised pikachu face when they end up 40 alone with 5 cats. All of our time here is limited so you better cash out of the dating game while you can still get a decent guy. Also i get the notion that mos…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 01:38 PM
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I don't think being feminine means you're not equal to your partner. Especially in a family dynamic. Mom's play just as an important role as Dad's, if not more so sometimes. I really think you should talk to a counselor or therapist about your issues though. Reddit is not a very nuanced place when it comes to advice so i recommend everyone takes anything said here with a healthy dose of skepticism. These faceless people on the internet will fuck up your life just to feel better about themselves …
/r/ExRedPill05/07/22 01:20 PM
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Not sure if this is a troll but if not. You're not an object you are a person. There's nothing wrong with dressing to be attractive just don't overly sexualize yourself. A lot of guys myself included like smart women, present that side of yourself. You also may want to talk to a healthcare professional regarding low self esteem. Women aren't inherently below or above men that's determined from person to person. I'm probably in the minority here but i don't think there's anything wrong with wanti…
/r/ExRedPill05/07/22 02:34 AM
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For the most part women are. There are exceptions to every rule but if we're being real here the average woman isn't on reddit. I didn't mean anything negative by my comment you just took it that way. All i said is don't try and socially manipulate women because that's a loosing game and be the best version of yourself. Great men aren't born they're made and not everyone has mentors, good fathers, brothers, or other role models to learn from. My advice is better than telling op he's fucked and t…
/r/ExRedPill05/07/22 01:03 AM
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You can't overthink women too much. Women are fucking virtuosos when it comes to social situations and you will never beat them at their own game. Just be you man as cliche as it sounds. Use your autism and attention to detail on something you enjoy. Try and get a good group of friends around you and at least keep up your appearance. Be the best version of yourself and I'm sure a good woman will come along. They always complain about where the good men have gone if you become that good man then …
/r/ExRedPill30/06/22 07:27 AM
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It's simple women aren't as hung up on looks as guys. Plus there's more attractive women than men probably by human nature. For millions of years the most attractive women had children with capable men most of whom probably weren't the most aesthetically attractive. I also think the 80/20 only applies to people's base instincts in a vacuum, social context plays a factor too. If let's say there's a group of 10 people 5 men 5 women. 4/5 of those women are considered very attractive while 2/5 guys …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 07:18 AM
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Nah i used to think like this. Cnnecting with other people is the whole point to life imho. Life's pretty lonely and depressing otherwise. Unless your a narcissist and in that case hey have fun being lonely and rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 03:27 AM
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Emotional damage! Lmao but seriously bro fuck that bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 03:23 AM
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Never said it wasn't bad. But I'd feel worse if she fucked the guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 03:21 AM
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I'm not married so idk how I'd feel later on about my wife. But as far as girlfriends, I'd think hey at least she didn't fuck the guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 03:18 AM
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I think it's guys know that if a woman has feelings for another guy but there's no sexual chemistry his position isn't really threatened. The whole nice guy best friend trope proves that. On the reverse women maybe innately know that guys would smash just about anything to an extent but we don't settle down or get emotionally attached easily. So even though it's all cheating, once it gets past a certain point it hits worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 12:43 AM
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Idk man unless we've been married for 20 years or something i don't care about "emotional" cheating. I personally would be a little upset but it wouldn't bother me nearly as much as my girlfriend sleeping with another guy. Let me put it to you this way. If your partner had to cheat for whatever reason, freaky terrorist we're gonna blow up an orphanage if not, and you had to choose between your girl getting her cheeks clapped or going on a trip to paris with some romantic dude with no sex guarant…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 12:37 AM
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Yeah america has always been a first world country. You said there's never been a better time to be a man in the west. I'd disagree. Those parents were men and women so don't make that a battle between the sexes. With the abortion thing i disagree with the ban on principle but let's be honest abortions aren't common for most women. And they have actually been on the decline. https://www.guttmacher.org/gpr/2019/09/us-abortion-rate-continues-drop-once-again-state-abortion-restrictions-are-not-main
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 11:58 PM
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Exactly. Some of it isn't pretty but it's the truth. My only issue is the community can sometimes take it to the extreme. I have sisters who don't play into the whole branch swinging hypergamous thing. But they also have literally never been interested in dating. I take the red pill stuff more as templates or suggestions on what will probably work. You still have to make your own decisions on whether it applies to whatever situation you're in at the time. Context is everything.
/r/ExRedPill11/06/22 10:48 PM
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That's a big assumption on women selling themselves because a man pays for everything. If a woman pays for everything is the man selling himself? If a man pays sometimes and she pays sometimes, is she only half selling herself? Relationships are and should be transactional by nature. It's give and take by both parties to be healthy. It's only when you start score keeping or giving no effort that becomes a problem. You shouldn't be with someone that doesn't add value to your life and vice versa. …
/r/ExRedPill11/06/22 10:39 PM
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Meh i think an unattractive women and an average man have about the same level of struggle. If you're an unattractive, Muslim man, with no valuable skills, you probably have it the worst in America.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 08:48 PM
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Yes this is partially correct. Only pushback I'll give is that the social climate is currently way more women friendly than man friendly. In that context the 1900s were probably better for the average man. I think a lot of men today are lost and without a purpose. But i think the point is that the "patriarchy" in America/the west is the most progressive place on the planet for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 08:46 PM
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You might be going to much in the opposite direction to spite the red pill mentality. The opposite of crazy is still crazy. Don't be fake and manipulative but also to devalue your own time and effort. I think there's a balance my guy.
/r/ExRedPill11/06/22 08:37 PM
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I get that but i don't think you're going about fixing that correctly, especially if you live in the United States. You'll end up with what's called toxic shame and be far worse off. I think the issues with sex aren't your problem but a bi product of your issue. You should really check out the book "no more mr nice guy" and if you watch online porn on a daily or regular basis r/nofap. Just give those 3 months and you'll pick up good habits which will make you more confident and more attractive. …
/r/ExRedPill05/06/22 11:05 PM
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That's almost every dude at 23. It was definitely me and most guys i know. As far as women providing for themselves they can but that just means their requirements for a guy are higher than being able to just provide for them. They either want someone abundantly wealthy if they are on the more shallow side, someone with high respect in the social hierarchy (usually at their job) most common probably, or someone very interesting/exciting (bad boys, tortured artist, so on so forth) usually very ca…
/r/ExRedPill05/06/22 10:55 PM
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I don't see any referenced data sources
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 03:28 PM
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And yours wasn't?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 02:53 PM
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Or hear me out, it's common sense. Unless you're in school, military, or somewhere the dating pool is mostly regulated to broke immature guys like yourself, at that age especially with the internet you're probably not anyone's best option. What do you mean neo-primitivism? Look in your own life at your father, grandfather, uncle, etc. They are more than likely older than their wives. Think about why that is? Imo the red pill is on the right track, just too binary and doesn't take into account pe…
/r/ExRedPill03/06/22 02:18 PM
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Wow so insightful thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 02:01 PM
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50% of school these days is online learning so that's not true.
/r/ExRedPill03/06/22 01:06 AM
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Single women are either at the club or at school/work. Women actively on Instagram and TikTok are fishing for attention and usually have a significant other.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 12:59 AM
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I like the honesty
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 12:56 AM
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A lot myself included don't want to be. Men are relationship hypergamous. I may have sex with you but I'm holding out for that becky that will let me play xbox, and go to the gym all day without texting back for days on end.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 12:55 AM
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You can get education outside of school especially with the internet. Nothing wrong with it unless it's someone you actually care about seeing them, got you. You're doing some real mental gymnastics to help your cognitive dissonance. I think your adding context to what I'm saying. Like that I'm insinuating sex workers are bad people, which I'm not. I'm saying making the choice to see a sex worker is a bad choice with only one pro : sex, which you can have in alot of other ways, and a lot of cons…
/r/ExRedPill03/06/22 12:42 AM
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I know plenty of people who never went to college making over 6 figures with good lives so no its not. I don't know shit about this kids life but i do know getting involved with "sex workers" is only going to make things worse if anything. Especially if his problem is women don't find him attractive, he would either have to hide it and kill his confidence or tell them and become even less attractive. Everything else he needs to figure out for himself or get advice from someone who knows him.
/r/ExRedPill03/06/22 12:27 AM
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Maybe if he was a 40 year old virgin in his mom's basement sure, this kid is 20. College is debatable wouldn't be a bad idea but may not be the right one. Military, college, trade school, all are good ideas. Escorts are hands down the worst though.
/r/ExRedPill02/06/22 07:44 PM
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Not what I asked but that seems like a no so i rest my case.
/r/ExRedPill02/06/22 07:35 PM
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Let me ask this then would you recommend your teen, in the future when they are of age, go see an escort?
/r/ExRedPill02/06/22 07:12 PM
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Your therapist can't give you an std. Why are you trying to pressure this man into seeing an escort? We get it you're progressive but he's obviously uncomfortable with having sex with a stranger for money.
/r/ExRedPill02/06/22 06:27 PM
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I mean it's your life you can do what you want. But i highly recommend against it under any circumstances. Definitely do the 90 days nofap though. After awhile you stop caring about just sex. I'm on a good streak after a minor slip up and sure some ass would be nice but only under terms I 100% want. That time i used to spend on dating apps or at the bar worrying about what to say so i can sleep with a woman I'm not even that into i spend working towards what i really want for myself. You're 20 i…
/r/ExRedPill02/06/22 06:22 PM
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Sure you say one time now. But what happens next time you feel like no woman wants you but you want sex? You'd go right back and that turns into a habit. Seriously bro i hate to sound sexist but don't listen to the women here. They mean well but practically their advice will leave you with a potentially very expensive habit that has the possibility of ruining your whole life. You're better of putting time and money towards fixing your underlying problem of why you feel like escorts are your only…
/r/ExRedPill02/06/22 06:05 PM
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Don't go to a sex worker. It will ruin your brains reward system when it comes to dating. It's a waste of money and easy unfulfilling sex is not a good pattern to get into trust me. If you want advice that will really help you and not just someone reinforcing their own ideals to make themselves feel righteous, check out r/nofap and search for post on escorts. Sex isn't that important and not worth ruining your finances, your reputation, and potentially your criminal record depending on the count…
/r/ExRedPill02/06/22 05:57 PM
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I agree about the universal behavior. Anyone can be shitty. I'm referring to online though, which i know mostly displays artificial extremes. But the general consensus on left leaning sites is men bad 99 percent of the time, women good 99 percent of the time. Maybe there's a correlation between the type of women who are the most active on social media and that thought process. Same as dudes who post on 4chan all day probably don't have much social skills and are incels. Question though if by you…
/r/ExRedPill01/06/22 04:00 PM
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I don't get this. This dude is acting like he isn't a man. Men are the only sex who consistently shit on their own gender for a pat on the back. Most women stick together even if they are wrong.
/r/ExRedPill01/06/22 03:36 AM
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I work in IT too and as a minority i get what you're saying. On the other hand there are women I've known who don't know anything technically but are good talkers and or look good so no one questions it. To be fair there are white men who do the same but that's the majority (to a lesser degree Men from asia and india) in the space so there's a bigger sample group. Ive learned to not take it personal and not everyone will like you. The people who still hate after you've proved yourself are the on…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 02:00 PM
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As a poc, i disagree. Maybe my family was lucky in the sense that many of them achieved it and passed on those values. But okay I've first hand experienced women who want that traditional family but not yet. So they try to hang onto men who fit that mold as friends, while having hot girl summers on trips to Europe or miami. I find that perspective entitled. If you're committed to a non traditional relationship and it works for you, hey more power to you. Everyone has the right to choose how they…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 10:20 PM
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All relationships are transactional, or you are getting taken advantage of. People just like them to be inherent and not forced.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 10:05 PM
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I get it when you put it like that. But guys can have the reverse situation happen to them. Where a woman likes all the non sexual attention from their boyfriend then have sex with other guys on the side. There's a middle ground and both parties have to be somewhat vulnerable in the context of a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 10:02 PM
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When did i ever say force anyone to do anything? I didn't so fuck off and learn how to write proper sentences.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 01:58 PM
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It was the dream for everyone. And alot of minorities achieved despite popular belief, it was just always sabotaged. Look up red lining, and black wall street. But you just made my point. You feel entitled to what was the ideal life not too long ago. You're not entitled to it you'd have to work towards and on a stable secure relationship and find a partner who wants that who also wants you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 07:33 AM
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Sure that happened unfortunately, still happens to this day, but i don't think that was the norm. I think people back in the day had less expectations. The "American dream" was to have a family with a white picket fence, so that's what they worked towards and it was very attainable for most people. I'll ask you as a woman do you think if you choose to right now you could have a traditional family easily?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 07:17 AM
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Well those marriages have a low divorce rate, you can make up your own mind on why that is. But I'm talking about traditional American free will situations. I know friends, and family with solid relationships that for the most part incorporate those values, so they still exist. It's in the dating marketplace, just like everything else turned into a commodity, fast low effort satisfaction is the name of the game. Why invest the time to become a strong capable leader as a man if i can go to pornhu…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 07:02 AM
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You can have a relationship without it but i think that's the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 01:23 AM
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Did you just refer to yourself as her?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 12:42 AM
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7 5 7 Meh, hit or miss. I'm a black dude so i do much better in person.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 12:40 AM
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I mean that's real love though right. Through sacrifice, obligation, duty, and having kids you build a very strong connection. That takes time and struggle though. The first paragraph is more about passion. Which to OP's point could be attributed to Hollywood stereotypes like love at first sight.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 12:38 AM
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I think internet porn and sites like tinder killed it but you're on the right track.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 12:33 AM
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I agree we need men and women but if we are one upping each other now. • most doctors are men • most pharmaceutical companies are ran by men • most principals are dudes • society really doesn't care about old, sick, and poor people that much • every janitor I've ever seen has been a man • refer two statements above • the most famous designers are gay dudes, still men • you got me on vets • Gordon Ramsay
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 12:27 AM
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You're proving OP's point. If a man finds being around attractive women valuable then that is positive value. Some men will pay money and not even be able to be around those women like cams or onlyfans. That's a net negative. No sex, no dates, not even a picture to post on social media. And they are investing resources into that. What the value is isn't important, it's if you are getting what you really value. Women are more likely to not settle with getting what they personally don't value, eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 12:19 AM
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What do you think onlyfans is? They're just crowdfunding their lifestyle from simps.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 12:07 AM
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Exhibit A. And since you're talking about history how many women soldiers died in ww2? Or even now in Ukraine men are literally barred from leaving and have to fight. Conveniently forget about that part. Or the officers who arrest rapist, or guys at the bar who chase off creepy guys, they all must love rape culture too right? I got too much shit going on to deal with this nonsense that's why i stopped commenting on this sub. I don't trust any woman who plays the victim all the time and that's al…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 12:05 AM
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Some girls don't. They are in the minority though and all that's relative anyway. Girls have standards for guys they think are around their level. None of the girls Drake slept with on tour have any expectation he will text them back or anything. But also now that girl has higher requirements of guys on her level because she got smashed out by someone way out of her league. I'm a decent looking guy probably give myself a 7 all around on looks, personality, and finances and i have had a similar e…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 05:57 PM
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Now that's true. But you have to ask yourself why is that. I knew a couple guys with cerebral palsy that got women. It wasn't often or tons but they met someone. I think focusing too much on women and getting frustrated causes a self fulfilling prophecy. If you become very good at something, almost anything, you will impress some women. After that just don't be scared to show interest and don't force it, you'll be fine. Men and women on this sub focus too much on the superficial aspects of datin…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 05:35 PM
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You're talking about looks. That's not as important for men. The woman who played precious probably gets less sexual attention from guys than a cute hooters waitress. But I'm 100% sure there are Danny Devito fan girls in the hundreds. That dad bod guy might be the funniest guy in the room, or the smartest, or made a good bet on crypto. Also that guy could be being used and had to idolize that women just to get a chance. It all depends on the situation but overall it's been shown women date up, w…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 05:21 PM
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That may be your personal belief about high value, and i personally agree. But to be objective being a good person really isn't a factor in being a HVM. Donald Trump, Floyd Mayweather, Putin, are all subjectively bad men but very high value. Now i don't think being a HVM is everything, the highest value men almost always end up divorced, but that's a different conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 05:06 PM
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Sounds to me you're in the wrong social environment. Sure being a man has high criteria but it's also very freeing as in as long as you're good at something, you're very valuable. If i were you I'd go somewhere like new york or near a liberal college where artistry is the social hierarchy. Now there will be higher competition but also more collaboration and you'd probably be happier around more people like yourself. Also it's 2022 you don't have to embrace every masculine trait if that's not in …
/r/ExRedPill08/05/22 03:10 PM
1

Seems like a terrible relationship but according to Internet logic totally fair. Not just red pill ideologies either, there's places push the ideology that women should be financially independent and leaders anyway. I'm personally cool with some modern implementations in my relationship like my significant other working some form of a job even if it's part time, and having conversations about life changing events like moving and how it affects her. But the whole jay z and Beyonce power couple re…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 01:19 AM
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I don't think that's the demographic OP was talking about when he mentioned "women". If you had a group of 100 women over he age of 21 and your chose one at random chances are she would find Henry Cavill more attractive than a k pop star. Trust me i was skinny, pretty attractive, and nice in highschool, i had no problems with women then. After about 22 that cute shy guy shit did nothing for me, except for with overbearing women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 11:36 PM
1

There's plenty of government support for low income families. It's not easy mind you but definitely possible. We're heading more into a generation with lots of single mothers in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 11:29 PM
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That's usually teenage girls or masculine women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 08:37 PM
2

I mean think about it logically the word cute isn't something you'd use to describe a man in most people's minds. It's usually for children or women. Straight women are mostly attracted to masculine traits, that's what makes them straight. The internet will make you think being "cute" and "wholesome" all the time is a good thing but in the real world, things can be ruthless so you need to have at least the potential to be if needed. What if someone smacks your girls ass or tries to rob you. I th…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 08:35 PM
3

Eh to each his own man just don't fuck my wife and I'll do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 07:56 PM
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It's uncomfortable to me. I've had a hard time fucking a couple dudes girlfriends while they weren't around and felt like a dick after. Fucking someone's wife while they are there feels either really fucked up and/or mildly homoerotic, like bro go in the other room or something don't stare down my dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 07:49 PM
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I don't think they're ready for that truth bomb. Subconsciously i think they know it though that's why social proof is very important to women they form opinions as a group so that individual vetting muscle isn't used. Makes sense 8 times out of 10, a group of women stand a better chance at fighting off a rapist than a woman alone. But narcissist feed off of looking perfect to the group but being horrible behind closed doors.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 07:32 PM
1

Again i agree with 90% of what you said lol Men if they decide to go MGTOW/red pill need to do it for a love of themselves and not a resentment of women. Women can be great they can enrich your life just as easily as they can destroy it. We as men need to be the best versions of ourselves so we bring out the best in people around us, or so we can have the self confidence to leave a bad situation. Only thing i disagree with is that a more people living the singles life is not good. In my opinion …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 07:06 PM
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I think that's the best way to handle traditions. Some if them make sense and/or are fun depending on how we grew up. Don't throw the baby out with the bath water.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 12:15 AM
1

You literally described jealousy with an explanation. I get what you're saying it's not that simple, i know women no action is ever simple. But the result is the same. One woman is getting the attention her friends want so they go cock kamikaze.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 12:11 AM
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I agree with everything but relationships and sex are just as risky for men. False rape accusations and divorce settlements aren't a walk in the park. You basically just told guys to go red pill though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 12:04 AM
1

Not necessarily true depends on the social circle your looking in. Women who go after athletic guys love black dudes because black guys are usually the best athletes and are at the top of that social hierarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 11:20 PM
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Thank you for having a balanced opinion on the internet. Conservatives and progressives have too much of a you're either with us or you're against us mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 11:11 PM
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The wedding thing is because of exactly what you said, the general idea is that it's the woman's special day. I think most dudes would rather save a few grand and just get married at the courthouse if we had our way. So we stay out of the way for your sake.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 11:07 PM
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Nah still happens the other one will just do it out of jealousy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 10:52 PM
1

Life is coercive. No one chose to exist. It is what it is, things really aren't bad if you are middle class in America.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 10:46 PM
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My issue is you're complaining about the best economical solution we have right now like you're being exploited to the worst degree when that's factually not the case. Sure things could be better but that comes by improvements to the system not tearing it down.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 01:44 AM
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Ah and there's the real issue it's not easy. I got you. Go ask Indians, chinese factory workers, and child soldiers in Africa how easy their life is. I'm sure they will feel very sorry for you and agree america is a bad bad place.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 12:59 AM
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There also was rampant disease war and rape. I'll take the 40 hour work week. You're definitely romanticizing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 12:53 AM
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That's a complicated issue with lots of factors but I'll give my take. On the optimistic side the government is trying to entice those companies to keep their operations in America and provide jobs. If you tax rich people to shit it's been proven time and time again (tax haven countries, swiss bank accounts, mass migration from California) they will move their money elsewhere especially in the global economy we have now with remote work. On the more cynical side there are lobbyist in Washington …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 12:51 AM
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I think there's a real issue in this sub with people lumping up incels and red pill as the same thing. All that sounds like incel logic. Or maybe TRP on Reddit/Facebook is different than YouTube, where i got my content from. Look up red pill avengers on YouTube, those guys don't idolize anything from the past in fact they push taking advantage of the current dating market and "fucking these bitches to sleep".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 12:36 AM
1

I literally have been apart of a class action lawsuit. Got a nice bit of money from it. That's what the average American does crowdfunds legal action. If you hate capitalism so much move to some where that isn't capitalist. Easy fix.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 12:30 AM
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What are you talking about? Profit is made from the sale minus cost of materials, labor cost, and overhead. More money for everyone just equals less valuable money. That's the text book definition of inflation. Trust me American citizens aren't usually being exploited because you can sue anyone for anything in this country and that's a lawsuit waiting to happen. Extreme profit is made from overcharging the consumer if anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 01:51 AM
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You described exactly what i said. The only difference now with capitalism is patty exchanges money for her sweater instead of other goods. In your example what if patty needs vegetables for dinner tonight and the bob doesn't want a sweater because he got one last week? Fiat currency standardizes the reward for your labor so you can trade it for whatever you want and keeps it's value at a manageable level. The side effect of some having vastly more economic power than they need is offset by them…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 08:51 PM
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Pretty sure no black red pilled man is glorifying the 1950s bro. The point of TRP is to take responsibility, how is taking responsibility putting you in a victimized state?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 08:30 PM
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I disagree with that capitalism is the closest we have to a economy based on the exchange of goods and services to one another. Which correct me if I'm wrong, is how tribal societies functioned and that's as close to "biologically wired" as you can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 08:25 PM
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Yes it cost money to live because the things you need to live are the results of someone else's labor. Why should the carpenter who built your house, the electrician who wired it, the architect who designed it, and so on, have to work but not you? Capitalism incentivises exceptional work which creates exceptional services and as a whole brings up the quality of living for everyone. You mention the average American doesn't have 500 dollars but also the average American has a better quality of lif…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 08:20 PM
2

Lowkey i feel like the extreme left tries to emasculate men of color the most. TRP like everything online should be taken with a healthy dose of scepticism but at the very least it will teach you to not behave like a victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 08:10 PM
2

Why are gender norms a bad thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 08:02 PM
2

This is vastly over generalized but i think it's men are more incentivised to stay in a marriage, men are less likely to retain custody of their children and pay child/spousal support. So unless a situation is really bad like constant cheating, or extreme physical abuse, the negative effects of divorce aren't worth it to a man. It's cheaper to keep her
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 07:59 PM
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Yes and i do. But you can't get them to actually change with hate right back at them. It's impossible to expect them to be empathetic to women's issues if you're not empathetic to men's issues and what drove them to such extremes.
/r/ExRedPill28/04/22 07:45 PM
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I always think people are entitled to their opinions but this is objectively incorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 07:37 PM
2

So you think Drake or Henry Cavill would have to try for sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 08:02 PM
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That's not true. Depends on the woman but also the man. On the extreme side i know you have seen first hand or through videos women throwing their bra/panties on stage at a concert, that's them practically begging to get some. At a certain level of status you don't need to work for it at all. How easy it is and how many partners you have is almost always directly correlated. Unless you're abstaining for a specific reason and men are less likely to do so. You're looking at the results when I'm ta…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 07:13 PM
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Sure, my point was they aren't intimidating guys. These are emotionally and physically weak men who need guidance more than anything. Having the mental and physical strength to know you can defend yourself against what life throws at you can be a great boost to confidence for a man, and as a result you stop seeing yourself as a victim of everything and everyone else.
/r/ExRedPill26/04/22 06:58 PM
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That's a worldwide problem there's a reason the creepy uncle stereotype exists. I agree though, demonizing sex isn't the way either. Things should land somewhere in the middle depending on how kinky you and your partner are.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 06:45 PM
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I'm not saying overlook it, more like be open to those guys becoming better people. Let me ask you this, do you think an incel can become a contributing member of society after letting go of incel ideals?
/r/ExRedPill26/04/22 06:37 PM
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Maybe compared to the middle of the road average guy but that's why i said top 30%. Im usually given a chance but i still have to bring my A game. That's not the case for those top 20 or 10 percent guys where girls seek them out.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 05:35 PM
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We already have racism was wildly popular 100 to 150 years ago. You think all those white people were ostracized from society and died off once apartheid ended? No alot of them just played nice in public and still had their beliefs. I think condemning a whole group of people for the extreme actions of a small minority just creates more extremist because you're not giving the people who want to change the opportunity to do so. That just reinforces the ideas that brought them to that toxic group. …
/r/ExRedPill26/04/22 05:31 PM
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That's the easiest lol but you could also meet a girl who just got out of a very long term relationship and just wants some dick, or a bridesmaid at a bachelorette party. Really depends on the vibe you're giving out on who you attract, but that's the most common.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 09:14 AM
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I'd need to see proof either way to make a definitive opinion on the matter. I think you're making an assumption based on what you like in sex and I'm doing the same. The amish may be an extreme but i do think to the OP's point over sexualization has been negative.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 09:05 AM
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This was actually very balanced. They made a point that both men and women are biologically predisposed to cheating but making a commitment to stay with one person should overrule that predisposition.
/r/ExRedPill26/04/22 08:53 AM
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That's one group could be they left because the sex was bad. While the women having good sex stayed. I'm pretty sure they don't use any contraceptive so the constant pregnancies make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 08:40 AM
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No it's about sexual market value. Population doesn't matter because one man can have kids with almost an infinite amount of women. Again women would rather be single cat ladys than be with a man she doesn't really want. I wish it was relative to population that would balance out the dating market, but hate to break it to you it's not. Mens value is not 1 to 1 with women it's some weird equation that starts lower but exponentially is greater the more successful you are that's why we can have ton…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 08:32 AM
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You're definitely on to something my boy. But i think all we can do as men is lead by example.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 08:15 AM
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Yeah but we're talking about the single dating market and men's value in the US. Population size is irrelevant I've seen plenty of women comment they would rather be single than with a guy they think is not up to their standard. You're right in that those guys are rare but because of social media and dating apps alot of those guys are accessable at least for one night. You have to think of it from a woman's perspective. If she sleeps with one of those guys that's now the barometer that every fut…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 08:05 AM
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You can meet tons of women at bars. Now are these the type of women you want to have extended relations with probably not because you've met them in a very shallow environment. If you're average looking, dress kind of nice, have some charisma, and catch the right woman on the right night most guys could hook up. You'll be shut down more often than not but that's the rules of the game. Again though from my experience I'd recommend trying to meet women through organic situations anyway. You'll pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 07:48 AM
3

You're right. It's a response to the unbalanced dating game but for most guys the only way to win is to be very purposeful.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 07:39 AM
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This is all speculation. You could argue because there's less sexual stimulation on a day to day basis they are having more passionate sex. But again this is all conjecture, amish people don't upload to pornhub.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 07:32 AM
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You never know Abraham could be tearing it up. There's no cameras in amish country.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 07:25 AM
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Highly doubt that, it's too conservative. I'd consider myself about top 30% in the dating market and I've had sex with maybe 25 women. So a top 20% or 10% has to be exponentially above that. I'm talking about rappers, D1 athletes, investment bankers, dudes with 100k followers on Instagram. Remember now having a one night stand isn't taboo. These dudes are in some guts trust me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 07:19 AM
5

Damn bro glad you came out on the other side a better person.
/r/ExRedPill26/04/22 07:06 AM
0

There have been numerous catholic priest who molest children, so by your logic all Catholics support pedophiles? Or it's more likely that the very extreme minority is more interesting for lack of a better term. What those murderers did is very wrong but you have bad examples of any group. I still feel bad for incels, most don't have the upper body strength to hurt a fly and in real life are too scared to talk to women.
/r/ExRedPill26/04/22 07:05 AM
1

Whoosh
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 11:51 PM
2

Don't overthink it and don't be afraid of rejection. Seems to me like you're doubting yourself because you're afraid she will say no, don't it happens to all of us. As long as you went with your gut and gave it your best shot you have nothing to worry about either way.
/r/ExRedPill22/04/22 07:16 PM
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It's not that complicated sex isn't used for procreation these days. It's more of a recreational activity now. More sex = more babies, it's a simple algorithm. Plus the there are less people getting married and most people plan a baby with their marriage partner so that explains the unplanned part.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 07:12 PM
0

What's online dating age and how is it terminal?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 06:57 PM
1

Depends on the guy. I can see it going either way. I think the guys who find someone eventually focus on something else like work or a hobby. If they're good at something eventually they'll get some female attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 06:40 AM
3

Sure if that makes you feel better.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 06:37 AM
3

I mean hopefully, that's the end goal for everyone right?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 06:35 AM
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I think of online dating more like the fast food of relationships. It's just more convenient, those guys can find people but it's going to take time and/or effort. Plus online dating is only worth it for a guy if you're at the top of the dating pool otherwise you're not much more than a digital confidence boost.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 06:32 AM
1

Let me ask who made your phone? Or your clothes? Probably underpaid workers from china or another country. Get off your moral high horse. Plus that's exactly how i want to be treated im not a baby, I'm a grown ass man.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 11:42 PM
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Re read what i said. Someone else's compassion is irrelevant and a luxury. That includes giving it. To sum up what i said sucks for them but they can fix it themselves. If not oh well not my or yours, or anyone else's problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 11:01 PM
1

25 - 35 is a wide range, i think men are more on the 35 peak and women on the 25 with some variables. As someone said below i believe it has mostly to do with fertility. Women go through menopause around 40 so the closer they are to that age the less sexually attractive they are. Weirdly this seemed to be common knowledge in most cultures till recently. I short term dated a girl from Egypt and she was basically ready to get married because she was 23 and 27 (if i remember correctly) was the age …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 10:54 PM
1

Sounds like a them problem. It sucks and is unfair but to be honest the world sucks and is unfair. If a man has problems he needs to bury and ignore them (old school) or fix them (himself or with a licensed professional, new school) so they're not anyone else's problem. We all have issues and unless you're a woman or a child no one really cares unless you can help them solve theirs. Mental health is a serious issue but it's everyone's personal issue to fix (especially men). Don't let women or co…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 10:30 PM
1

Yeah because driving is a necessity. Talking to stalkers isn't. That's a straw man argument my boy. Plus if they aren't concerned with how uncomfortable they are making other these women feel and change their habits, why should anyone care about their feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 04:03 PM
1

If it's regulated in your country it's the regulatory body's job to verify there's no human trafficking not yours. But I'd still personally recommend against it even if ethically I don't see the problem from a grand scheme of things. You'll only lose money and potentially gain a sex addiction. Sex isn't as important as modern society makes it seem. I'd recommend going through a few dey spells, investing your escort money, and picking up some social skills with non professional women, especially …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 12:46 PM
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Nah better to be safe than sorry in that scenario. Most aren't but when they are someone usually ends up raped and or murdered, so I'd recommend airing on the side of caution.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 12:33 PM
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No it matters. Men need to know how to act like men and not boys. Masculinity in itself is not bad, there are good masculine men like JFK, Abraham Lincoln, the US soldiers in WW2. Sometimes you have to be scary and aggressive, in sports, or if someone breaks into your house you can't share your feelings and get them to leave. Hell even right now in Ukraine, if peace talks don't work you have to be able to defend your country otherwise real bad men who don't care about anybody's feelings would ta…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 12:25 PM
1

Doesn't make sense because as a whole the population split was 51% female 49% male in the US last time i checked. So it appears most men feel the need to use online dating while most women do not. I agree it's a women's market but that's all social media. Women are told they are perfect, they don't have to loose weight, beauty is a social construct, and no matter what they have done to others they deserve the best. Men are told they are toxic, support rape culture, and even in the most male posi…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 10:09 PM
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I agree only thing i push back on is that you implied masculine traits are negative. Just like there is toxic feminine traits there are positive masculine traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 09:57 PM
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The truth they give is worst case scenario. I think there's some good lessons from TRP that every man should be aware of, but not all women are branch swinging gold diggers. If anything i learned the more i acted like smv was the only thing that matters the more i attracted women who reinforced that belief. I lost out on a couple good women with that attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 09:55 PM
1

Yeah you're 100% correct. Plus women are just as competitive as men just more indirect. I literally had my ex in high school tell me after her friend caught me snuggled up with another girl (i was young) "why should she win".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 09:50 PM
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Being bi isn't the status quo and thus is abnormal. He wasn't saying anything was wrong with it. In my opinion if someone is "normal" in all aspects they are boring, everyone is abnormal and that's what makes us unique blah blah blah. Anyway from a person who plays for both teams what's your perspective on not only the differences but similarities between men and women from a romantic standpoint.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 09:41 PM
1

Now you're just reaching. My personal rule is the classic half your age plus 8 algorithm. I was saying averages can be misleading because the extreme cases can skew the data.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 07:02 PM
1

That's the average, so that's including relationships where both people are the same age and where the woman is older. According to your data it still trends towards the man being older by up to 4 year's so a guy being 7, 8, 9 years older may be uncommon but not too outrageous.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 06:22 PM
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I'm sorry you had to a guy doing that stalking is never okay and please report him to authorities or a man you trust can help you if you feel he is or has the potential to be dangerous. On the other hand context is key. Just because that guy was a stalker doesn't mean every guy that's not conventionally attractive is. I think if you or any woman is having trouble finding long term relationships, giving those types of guys a chance could work out really well, as long as there's some things you fi…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 06:18 PM
2

I think you mean well but being genuinely nice isn't going to get you a girlfriend more than being fake nice. A lot of guys are genuinely nice and end up just where you said, as the best friend not the boyfriend. Guys need to say some not nice things sometimes to make sure their needs are met or at the very least heard.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 06:09 PM
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Exactly being "nice" is just the icing on the cake. Being high value or at least higher than the woman you're courting is the cake.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 08:07 PM
1

I agree with you, as a man if I'm interested enough to date you I'd rather focus on just our dating situation because I'm looking for a long term relationship and that takes individual investment. Some men, including myself in the past, date multiple women because they aren't looking for anything long term and women accept it. The bigger question is why do (alot of) women accept dating someone who is also dating other people?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 08:51 AM
1

You sound like a female neckbeard
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 08:31 AM
1

Stop simping the whole point of the post is that both sexes are the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 06:37 AM
1

Lol I'm not going to waste any of my limited time on earth reading a sex book i know how sex works everyone does that's how literally every sentient being is made. You're over complicating a basic topic. That's like reading a book on how to walk. I like how you just glossed over any evidence contrary to your deeply held belief men "oppress" women. Unlike you i actually fact checked myself and learned these "patriarchal" cultures and laws mostly protect women from the way things used to be. Just …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 03:54 PM
1

Be the best you can. Height is the only thing you can't fix (yet). You can hit the gym a couple times a week, you don't need a six pack just an average body type. You can try keeps or something for your hair loss or just embrace the bald and go for a joe rogan look he's apparently short. And for money get better at financial literacy and try for a higher paying job that you'll like. Personality depends on your type, different women like different guys so i wouldn't worry too much about that and …
/r/ExRedPill07/04/22 07:18 PM
1

Yup context is everything. I recommend checking out the purple pill sub reddit. It's reddit so there is some tribalism going on there but most of the time you'll see different takes in the comments from men and women.
/r/ExRedPill06/04/22 11:41 PM
1

It's not a concern to me so im not going to waste my time with that book. I read books i like. I'll admit from what i researched most pre western societies were Polygynous (ie. The male has multiple partners). "Humans are a diverse lot, but before Western imperialism, 83 percent of indigenous societies were polygynous, 16 percent monogamous, and 1 percent polyandrous (where women have multiple husbands).". So monogamy seems to have been more or less an unnatural compromise through culture for wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 11:37 PM
1

99% of cultures are monogamous so seems to be more of a human nature thing to have sex intertwined with attachment. Don't try to push your sex agenda on me. I've been single and in the dating market and that sex > everything mindset has only caused problems from my experience. You can do whatever you want, that's the beauty of freedom, but you can't force me into liking it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 08:35 PM
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I agree relationships need to be founded on emotional connections but sex is one of the biggest accelerators of that connection. If a person has sex with someone more than once they like them to some degree. My main point is that i know a lot of women who don't offer much in a relationship besides consistent sex, however if i as a man can get the sex without a relationship , and staying out of a relationship can get me more sex without any emotional responsibility, why would i get into a relatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 07:41 PM
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Depends on what red pill content you're consuming. Some are balanced and tell you to become better. I still like that content only reason i left is because it's like masturbation virtual extremes of the real thing. Life is much more grey pill than anything it always depends on the situation.
/r/ExRedPill06/04/22 07:17 PM
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Exactly i was about to say "Welcome to reddit"
/r/ExRedPill06/04/22 07:11 PM
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It is but be picky when it comes to approaching at least romantically. I'll see if i can find the video if you want but Alexander Grace has one where he talks about the best way to meet quality women and it's through friend groups. Cold approaching and talking to women is a good way to improve your social skills but you're taking a gamble on if she's a good woman especially at bars. From experience i can tell you quality is much better than quantity when it comes to a romantic partner.
/r/ExRedPill06/04/22 01:53 PM
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I'd recommend just being heavily involved in his life and helping him work for a goal outside of women(or men). I have the belief most guys naturally want to be successful at something if you from a young age give them that something and help them along the way then they won't have time or the desire to chase women. I'm going to model my parenting after nba athletes parents. Start them young in something productive and as long as they have a passion for it, push them as far as they can go. As a …
/r/ExRedPill05/04/22 08:45 PM
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It's tough i get being an actual "nice guy" seems to be the "right" thing to do. I had the same problem. But as you become a man it's less about the "right" thing to do and more about what you want to do. I don't know about you but my biggest problem was fear. Fear of "what if i go with my gut and I'm wrong, say or do the wrong thing?". What i realized is that alot of "confident" assertive types made the wrong choice alot but either didn't care or couldn't grasp the idea of being wrong. i have a…
/r/ExRedPill04/04/22 12:05 AM
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Yeah that's what I'm saying, still too much. The red pill has good ideas internally for men and self improvement, terrible ideas externally about women. Just don't throw the baby out with the bath water and go too far in the opposite direction is all im saying.
/r/ExRedPill23/02/22 12:51 AM
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Nah if anything do purple pill. The opposite of crazy is still crazy.
/r/ExRedPill23/02/22 12:26 AM
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