thundabot Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	For all the guys out there if you lock eyes with a girl and she smiles approach her please! This happened to me last weekend - girl at a table with another guy & girl, girl locks eyes with me and smiles. I didn’t approach because as far as I knew the guy could have been her husband. Later on she seeks me out and introduces herself. We then spent two hours talking and have been on two dates already. *edit - the girl was with an additional girl and a guy, turned out they were all just friends.	/r/seduction	12/09/20 10:20 PM
1	YOU'RE HOT THEN YOU'RE COLD, YOU'RE YES THEN YOU'RE NO Haha. If a girl come over your place and is in your bed...that’s all the hints she’s going to give you.	/r/seduction	25/08/20 11:49 AM
1	From a woman: how on earth do you tell if a man is flirting with you? When he is looking at you	/r/seduction	17/07/20 12:49 AM
7	One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 43 Progress Report I’m sorry but cold approach is bollocks. I have not heard any positive stories or results from cold approach in real life or reddit...Just let shit happen naturally. Get over it all. All these bullshit techniques...just do whatever you feel comfortable with, OLD, cold approach, meet ups, friends introducing etc..	/r/seduction	10/07/20 04:11 PM
3	Help Haha 3 min is being optimistic there buddy.	/r/seduction	07/07/20 12:47 PM
2	Learnings after my 50th approach I approach when I’m out and socialising but won’t go out of my way with random people for 2% hit rate. Much better hit rate with online dating for me and my lifestyle.	/r/seduction	01/07/20 12:43 PM
8	Learnings after my 50th approach Sorry to be this guy again but how is a 2% hit rate any good? One date from 50 girls. Those numbers in any setting or circumstance are not good odds and would considered a failure and would require a change of strategy. Good on you for having the courage, you’re doing better than me but those results will never inspire me to try cold approach. I am under the impression that this approaching challenges is something that the younger generation only do. For me - Between working, hobbies, catching u…	/r/seduction	01/07/20 10:17 AM
1	One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 2 Progress Report Good points. I don’t need a date every week so I’m happy to wait and filter.	/r/seduction	30/05/20 02:48 PM
2	One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 2 Progress Report I’m not convinced that it’s not BS. Maybe I will take up the challenge one day but I just have this feeling that it’s a waste of time.	/r/seduction	30/05/20 02:47 PM
1	One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 2 Progress Report I’m not talking Tinder, there’s other apps with more robust profile requirements such as kids, dogs, suburb they live, height etc. plus you can find out their financial situation like if they own a house or rent etc, what job they have. By cold approaching any random attractive girl the odds of ticking a lot of my boxes would be very low. That’s all. Sure I may have walked past my perfect woman, but it’s literally impossible to approach every single lady walking around the city for example. I’m …	/r/seduction	30/05/20 02:45 PM
1	One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 2 Progress Report Girl of my dreams isn’t just someone that is gorgeous and attractive. So approaching any attractive girl is just not feasible.	/r/seduction	30/05/20 02:41 PM
1	One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 2 Progress Report Maybe. I just feel like you would come across like creep encroaching into peoples alone time. Online dating is good for filtering and then you always meet up in person anyway to see how you click in person so it’s just a shortcut to a date in my opinion. You both know what you want, found each other attractive enough, chat about interests so you are half way there. I feel like even at bars, it’s 50/50 whether the lady has a boyfriend or would be after a relationship for a start. With online dati…	/r/seduction	30/05/20 12:19 PM
3	One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 2 Progress Report Apparently a lot of guys on these subs. Yet I don’t see any difference in their long term success. I’m just saying this cold approach tactic is overrated.	/r/seduction	30/05/20 10:24 AM
2	One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 2 Progress Report Cold approach is such BS. I’m sorry but I don’t know anyone that has ended up in a long term relationship because a random guy came up to her in the street. People are not in the headspace of looking for a date, finding attractive people or someone to hang out or for a date when they are out and about by themselves. If you are at a bar or pub or at a party or social gathering, different story. Sorry to be the negative one but as I said, I’m in sales and know hundreds of people that I talk to reg…	/r/seduction	30/05/20 07:58 AM
2	6 dates now. Do tactics change? Amazes me how guys in this age group complicate things so much and have this perception that to get ‘x’ you must do ‘y’. Every girl is different and every relationship is different. You should be communicating with each other to find out what you both want. There’s no set ‘rules’ to follow. Things should evolve naturally and if one person wants more/less it should be talked about. And go from there.	/r/seduction	28/05/20 12:11 AM
1	Dating apps are bullshit Disagree, every single person is on an app these day. It’s just too convenient. Don’t have to wait for a weekend and go out anymore.	/r/seduction	18/05/20 11:19 PM
1	It's not you, women just don't like to be approached in public There’s one...but that’s just a normal conversation that turned into something. There’s guys that purposely do this to pick up.	/r/seduction	14/11/19 11:56 AM
-3	It's not you, women just don't like to be approached in public I challenge anyone that has approached a stranger during the day, got a phone number, a date and is now in a long term relationship to post here. Even if it happens, the odds would be so minuscule because, yes it’s creepy...	/r/seduction	14/11/19 04:58 AM
3	Trying to do the “build an active social life” thing but running into one major problem. This sounds weird, I find it hard to believe you are not into anything...what do you when you are home from work, just stare at the ceiling...? Sorry, but you also sound lazy, you need to use your brain to think about new experiences and realise you don’t need to be in a buzz during each activity. Learn to be content and soak in a new experience and just be in the moment. There must be something that stimulates your brain...	/r/seduction	13/04/19 11:30 AM
1	How people have sex so easy nowdays? Sex in first date will generally happen more often after a drinks at a bar date, not after a coffee date. Alcohol will loosen up both parties and be less nervous. After that if you both enjoyed yourselves, sex will happen any time.	/r/seduction	24/01/19 12:50 AM
2	Remember. Give her time to reply. Infinite patience. I sent a message asking her what day works for her for dinner. I didn’t even get an acknowledgement text. But I did 3 days later... I will never understand how some people take this long to reply...it takes 30sec. There’s no way anyone in this world doesn’t have 30sec in 3 days to send a text. NO WAY!	/r/seduction	11/05/18 10:04 AM
1	She doesn't want anything serious. Sorry but you've got a flaker there, happens often, don't even try to figure out a reason. Just be prepared to move on.	/r/seduction	14/04/18 10:15 AM