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So, lifting is not totally about getting shredded. Thats a result of the effort you put in. Which may be the end goal for some. But its really about challenging yourself to reach goals you cant currently get to. Challenging yourself and overcoming that challenge bleeds over a self confidence that applies to other aspects of your life. If you are not seeing a benefit to working out, its not because there isnt one. Its your perspective. You get out what you put in.
/r/seduction25/11/17 03:01 PM
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For starters, you gotta step your grammar up.
/r/seduction20/11/17 02:17 AM
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Idk. Do you have any meaningful reason to engage with her? What is it exactly you are trying to accomplish? Are you trying to fuck her? Are you trying to date her? Befriend her? Whats the goal here
/r/seduction16/11/17 03:03 PM
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No. There was nothing wrong with it. But you have to realize that once that original conversation was complete and you shifted subjects..her priority was no longer that conversation. You went from engaging with her for a purpose....to small talk..
/r/seduction16/11/17 02:58 PM
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How do you not understand it? You changed to the topic in a direction she didnt want to go in. Therefore she didnt respond. Seems pretty simple to me.
/r/seduction16/11/17 02:52 PM
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I dont think there is any special way for you to act. "Act" is not a good way for you to look at going about this. The conversation you had with her didnt lead any any particular direction to insinuate anything. So there is no need, reason, or logic behind changing your behavior for the sake of her. If its her you are interested in, then you approach her in person to gauge her interest. If there is nothing either of you plan on contributing to each other for this class or test or whatever then t…
/r/seduction16/11/17 02:29 PM
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I wouldnt send her another message until she replies to you. Else itll be creepy af. You're gonna come off as needy
/r/seduction16/11/17 02:16 PM
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You've posted about this 4 times in the last 20 hours in 3 different subreddits....so you are either trolling. or the advice you're getting from people who take their time to respond, you dont want to take heed of and listen to.
/r/seduction13/11/17 07:30 PM
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there is absolutely no way to gauge her attraction without physically being there to read her body language, mannerisms and actually have dialog with her.
/r/seduction13/11/17 07:06 PM
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you came off way to needy there hot sauce. chock it up to life and keep it moving. dont get hung up over one person. its all trial and error
/r/seduction13/11/17 06:57 PM
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If you arent out for validation or approval, i must ask....why are you posting this message...in this exact subreddit? this is awfully contradictory to the validation you are not seeking. what exactly is the context of the message you are trying to get across here?
/r/seduction13/11/17 03:58 PM
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ya know....you're not wrong
/r/seduction13/11/17 01:45 AM
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i guess....long as yall dont mind bonding over the shits later
/r/seduction13/11/17 01:35 AM
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well text her. acknowledge that it was a unique way of trying to get your attention and that you would like to get together with her to get to know her... something like that. i mean do you even want to get to know her? if you do. contact her. if not, ditch the number. even though its unknown for you. that doesnt mean you have to have deer in the headlights about you. go for something. try something. do something. see what happens.
/r/seduction12/11/17 05:41 PM
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well...start with talking to her....everything should answer itself after that
/r/seduction12/11/17 05:30 PM
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no comment is more valid than this lol
/r/seduction12/11/17 12:06 AM
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It sounds like it was an intentional tease. something that she thought would keep you interested in chasing after her. no huge red flag here, but moving forward i wouldnt expect it to happen again. proceed as normal but i think if she is trying for that again, you might wanna hit the brakes on it. a little teasing is all good and well. but if you're gonna be seeing each other on a regular basis, it would be better for you to have some expectations set and agreed on. and either you're on the same…
/r/seduction11/11/17 05:42 PM
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Well..thoughts become things. So you not considering yourself "good enough" for having a woman of your own merit is the problem. If you start there, and then start advocating for yourself. Start building and living a life you love. Then you will naturally and organically attract people who will add value and fulfillment to your life. Among those will be women. Or....you can go buy a hooker. And not practice the development of yourself
/r/seduction09/11/17 07:16 PM
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This is an absolutely fucking horrible idea. You will learn nothing about how to enjoy or learn from the experience because for a hooker....its business. Its not pleasure. She's going to tell you whatever you want to hear and this and that and you arent gonna know any wiser. You will get more out of organically experiencing sex with a woman who isnt fucking you for your money. But. Eh. Its your money man. Spend it how you want. in my opinion thats among the worst fucking things you can spend you…
/r/seduction09/11/17 06:05 PM
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I think biting your lip has becone a bit common nowadays. There are a lot of people i notice who do so out of anxiety. So i think that may have something to do with it maybe not being taken in as a signal of interest. Then again. It also depends on if the guy is paying any attention to you. I notice that ive been able to recognize subtle eye contact and some sort of playing with hair (assuming your hair is long enough). But it really depends on the setting. When i take interest in a woman. I try…
/r/seduction09/11/17 03:35 AM
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Okay. I stand corrected then. It seemed like a decent suggestion. However i did make this recommendation before my morning coffee. So there's that.
/r/seduction09/11/17 02:38 AM
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This post is probably better suited for /r/deadbedrooms
/r/seduction08/11/17 12:50 PM
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Fuck it man. Go for it then
/r/seduction07/11/17 09:31 PM
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Depends man. Is it gonna be worth it? I mean ex's are ex's for a reason. What are you looking for out of it?
/r/seduction07/11/17 09:26 PM
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Yea dude. She is trying to reopen that connection
/r/seduction07/11/17 09:21 PM
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Valid
/r/seduction07/11/17 08:43 PM
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Thats an interesting point you make. "Difficulty" is a subjective description. But think of it like this. If it is necessary, (meaning if you deem a task necessary in your mind) then the difficulty is null and void. This subconsciously removes the necessity for equating difficulty into your logical thought process. "Necessity" being logical thought process. "Difficulty" being emotional thought process. You dont necessarily have to change the nature of thought to conform to logic. You can simply …
/r/seduction07/11/17 06:20 PM
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Thats the thing. You are never going to know for sure. But thats also the fun part. Thats the adrenaline rush isnt it. We imagine its like this gigantic mountain to climb, but all your really doing is crossing the street.
/r/seduction07/11/17 05:35 PM
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Pretty decent assessment of the situation and environment. Id say all signs point to the green light then man. Go for it.
/r/seduction07/11/17 05:07 PM
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Eh.. thats subjective. It depends on her. Specifically how receptive she is of you approaching and initiating a conversation. Her eye contact, mannerisms, body language, etc. I mean anything is worth a shot. But only you would be able to tell in that environment since you are there.
/r/seduction07/11/17 04:25 PM
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Try to catch her before or after her workout. We all know the way it is when your mid set...so you dont want to come off wrong. Probably after her workout. Get her attention and let her know that you've eyed a couple of her movements and they dont look like she is going about it the safest way, and she could end up getting an injury if she isnt careful. The focus should be on her recognition of the exercises and the movements. But let her respond as to whether or not she would be cool with you c…
/r/seduction07/11/17 04:13 PM
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This^
/r/seduction07/11/17 04:03 PM
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best of luck my dude!
/r/seduction06/11/17 10:17 PM
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LOL oh God no...i was being sarcastic. something along the lines of ya know...hey its been a while, wanted to drop a line a and say hey, maybe catch up over coffee or something. ya know something thats casual...but also is throwing a line out to gauge some possible interest.
/r/seduction06/11/17 10:07 PM
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Start with a Hey
/r/seduction06/11/17 10:05 PM
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well....im pretty sure she was being sarcastic. but if you feel like you are in the zone. only way out of it is to make a bold ass move. sink or swim man. but go for it.
/r/seduction05/11/17 05:36 PM
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valid as that may be. its subjective....and its never going to be beneficial to operate off of "what if". Better to do and then know...than to wonder.
/r/seduction05/11/17 04:08 PM
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Well...firstly im assuming your a guy. You haven't specifically stated that. But i feel like for the point you are at, texting should be used to schedule meetups, dates, or some interaction in person. Its my belief that if your texting a girl out of boredom or with nothing to really say, she will notice that and it may be a turn off. Continue with your everyday life. Dont create this need for someones satisfaction or make yourself too available. Also might be a put off. Any "getting to know" the…
/r/seduction05/11/17 03:37 PM
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Just. Fucking. Do. It. In all seriousness, she hasnt friendzoned you. you are friend zoning yourself with you over-analysis of perceptive chess moves that you make in your head but not in reality... you have 2 choices...you can continue to be afraid. or you can be brave about it. Just make a choice and stick with it.....reach down. grab your balls and man up. you got this, you can do it dude. i fucking believe in you.
/r/seduction05/11/17 12:31 AM
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She keeps giving you a shot, keep taking it until you either get it right, or she stops giving you chances. texting should be left for arranging meetups, etc. girls know when your texting them out of boredom. shits a turn off to some women.
/r/seduction04/11/17 06:13 PM
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That kind of attention is not a bad thing at all. Go with it.
/r/seduction02/11/17 10:17 PM
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Because its subjective. I mean... in and of itself, if you have "no personality", would that not be an incompatibility? Think about it. The girl drew her conclusion because its her perspective.
/r/seduction02/11/17 06:25 PM
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Some things you do, or some ways that you are, will appeal to some woman. And it wont appeal to others. If you're being yourself..then you are being yourself. There is no recover....she either likes you or she doesn't. It's pretty straight forward. Keep it moving. If you get hung up on this one girl. Thats not going to help you understand how dynamic you need to be to attract a lot if different women. Nothing is cookie cutter about dating. So get out there and fail, then succeed, then repeat.
/r/seduction02/11/17 01:29 PM
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How is this even a question...she literally said if you want to get with her.. smash her friend. No one gets that kind of a deal. Thats some unicorn shit right there. Smash her friend and quit worrying about the moral aptitude of the situation.
/r/seduction02/11/17 02:05 AM
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Pop your parachute for a second hot sauce. You're already past the hard part. No need of making it hard on yourself now. Remember that she has a life as well. And although you made it to getting her number, she isnt going to suddenly make you the number one thing on her list. You guys just met. If your gonna get to know her. Do it in person. You got her number so there is slight interest. If you're gonna text, use it to arrange a meetup or schedule some time together. Women know if your making s…
/r/seduction01/11/17 06:56 PM
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Here is my advice to you. Build and live the life you love. And love the life you live. Focus on building yourself into the person you want to be. You already know that. But as you build and live that life.. genuinely, you will naturally have people that equal the caliber of the life you love, cross your path. Among those will be women that you will attract. Women dont need to be the focal point of your expectations and goals. Women need to be an addition (a very welcone one at that) to a fulfil…
/r/seduction01/11/17 06:13 PM
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I dont really think you need anything man. Its natural for us men to question ourselves. To question our fulfillment of life. Doubt leads to change, change leads to growth. But i dont think you need any physical manifestation of change. Its your perception of yourself that first needs to be addressed. Only you can choose what you find fulfillment in. Then, after that. If physical characteristics of your everyday life need alteing, you can do so in clear concious. In whatever you do in life. Alwa…
/r/seduction01/11/17 05:24 PM
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That's fair. I can agree that using "violation" has deterred from the context of my statement. That was not at all the intent for implication.
/r/seduction01/11/17 02:05 PM
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My reasoning makes no such implications whatsoever. It is purely by personal preference that i choose not to insert myself into a situation to coerce, or otherwise affect the stability and/or outcome of a relationship. I have made no such implication that a girl herself is incapable of making her own decisions. Or that she is somehow property. I fail greatly to understand how you drew these outlandish conclusions from my previous statement, and somehow managed to completely change the context. A…
/r/seduction01/11/17 11:44 AM
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Thats muddy waters right there man. While attraction is attraction. I am never one for inserting myself into the fold, while someone is not on the market. Thats just a violation man.
/r/seduction01/11/17 03:29 AM
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Before or after her workout is best. She seems like one of those rare gems of a woman who goes in there to fuck up weights. Not being about any nonsense or small talk in the process. I would definitely not interrupt that.
/r/seduction31/10/17 04:04 PM
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This guy nailed it. You gotta build and live the life you love. And in that, the caliber of people you need, will cross your path. Woman will cross your path. Its undoubtedly inevitable. But you have to always be working towards furthing yourself, your goals. Your expectations. You gotta have something to bring to the table. Start trading out some old habits for new ones. Instead of sitting around at home, jacking off and busting nuts all over yourself, get in the gym and challenge yourself to g…
/r/seduction31/10/17 12:33 PM
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Absolutely. Gotta go for it
/r/seduction31/10/17 02:14 AM
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hats off to you good sir. about 7 years ago i had a similar experience with a woman about 14 years older than me. i dont regret a single second of it.
/r/seduction31/10/17 01:30 AM
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This.......EXACTLY THIS. you missed the window. but unless you run into her again. pop smoke. keep it moving.
/r/seduction30/10/17 08:46 PM
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you both need to take that time to learn each other. learn what works, learn what doesnt. you have to have patience with each other. who cares that you dont know what your doing. your about to know what to do so no sense worrying about it. you need to enjoy exploring each other. you need her to enjoy the exploration of what keeps her in the moment. you dont need to be worrying about her experience matching yours. you guys are there to experience each other. So help her enjoy it. a woman never fo…
/r/seduction30/10/17 08:36 PM
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This is an interesting one....i'm taking this in as she of course was not expecting to recognize you. This is a egg shell kind of situation. it really depends on how her body language and mannerisms were when she saw you...like was she embarrassed? did she get suddenly intimidated by seeing you? those kinds of things along with the nature of the pictures on IG that she liked, should maybe give you an indication of if she has interest in you. If you think its likely you will see her in person. Cr…
/r/seduction30/10/17 06:33 PM
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I'm going to copy and paste from some advice i gave to a similar post from not long ago. i feel like these words apply and can benefit you. these are my words, i just dont want to type them again, and i feel like the contexts delivers the message you should heed. i will tell you what has worked for me my friend. And i try to live by these words every day. "Build and live the life you love". As men. our development is primarily based off of our thriving masculine energy. This is focused through o…
/r/seduction30/10/17 05:36 PM
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Without kissing her to establish the emotional connection? good luck. your outlook on this is setting you up for failure big time. "Wouldn't be against some kissing". this just throws all kinds of red flags up man. you need to be reading her body language and mannerisms. pay attention to her non-verbal communication and you will know what to do.
/r/seduction30/10/17 04:52 PM
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The next time you are at that place....(and not level 50 wastey cakes)...find out when she is off the clock. approach her sober. so she knows your genuinely interested in her...and not drunk and horny for anyone. your first impression wasnt all that great....of course she is gonna smile a lot. she's on the clock at a public establishment. she isnt going to be unprofessional. you cant walk into her element and make it your show. if you plan to pursue her.. you put yourself behind the 8 ball to st…
/r/seduction30/10/17 04:34 PM
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Where? everywhere and all around you man. College town is almost the perfect place too. As far as what would be ideal? that depends on you and your personality. what is the caliber of woman your looking for? the places of interest that you frequent? The gym, local library, mom and pop burrito place? etc. what matters is are you building and living a life you love to live. and in that, the places you go will have the caliber of women to fit that place. You also said "good" girls...that descriptio…
/r/seduction30/10/17 04:02 PM
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i fully understand. but yea, you guys will be good as long as you can agree on some common ground.
/r/seduction30/10/17 03:15 PM
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well...you gotta set expectations and boundries with your FWB. is she aware that you're still seeking some additional women? the etiquette has to first come from you both being on the same page about your intentions. This is a prime example of when it would apply. this likely puts a dent into your efforts with the potential witnesses to the behavior at said party. in the future, you're gonna run into this again as long as there are no boundaries set. And if she is going to do that. you might as …
/r/seduction30/10/17 03:06 PM
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This is pretty much the nail on the head. You're keeping your interest. Making your intent known. But not changing your expectations. This way, whether she decides to continue to initiate contact between you two, your giving her the choice. Which frees you up to go back to focusing on you, and letting her come to you if she chooses. Spot on my dude!
/r/seduction30/10/17 10:32 AM
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Well. The point of it is to establish and keep a connection. The girl seems genuinely interested in you. So its not a bad thing at all. If the flow of it dictates some conversation, take it in and go with it. She is trying to learn you as well
/r/seduction30/10/17 02:44 AM
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Your expectations and perception of what you want your reality to be, are not matching with what you have built for yourself to be ready for. You're in your second year of college...i presume right around coming close to or just past the legal age of drinking. if you want to set yourself up for success, you need to build and life a life you love. You need to chase your goals and aspirations. Seek growth as a man. relationships will come and go during this time, and will be frivolous compared to …
/r/seduction30/10/17 12:26 AM
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i gotcha. well. i think wait a day or so. then shoot her a message and see if she wants to go dancing again. or possible meet at another venue. I mean she may not check her tinder all that often or gets flooded with messages so she may not bother with it for a while. but for sure throw a line out there. Keep it moving though, dont put too much emphasis and focus on solely her. let her get back to you if she is feeling it.
/r/seduction30/10/17 12:15 AM
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has she made the correlation that you are the guy she has matched with those numerous times? Did you get her number? A kiss could very well mean a great deal. i feel like there is a bit of context from your encounter that is missing, in order to be able to gauge how to go forward from here. I mean even the most subtle of things can make a huge difference. like...what were her mannerisms? how was her body language? Were you even taking the time to read her at all?
/r/seduction29/10/17 11:51 PM
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i hear ya. In my case, there is no stonewalling. And neither of us are considering any reconciliation. Its something we both have agreed is necessary for us, before we grow any resentment. And its no contesting of anything. we have already decided on how the property is being split, etc.
/r/seduction29/10/17 05:08 PM
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Firstly congrats on getting out of that shell and pushing yourself to move forward. its not easy. be proud of that. my next point is this, texting is best used for arranging meetups and get togethers. if you use it for small talk, then yea it will fizzle out. women will know if you are talking to them out of boredom, and that will put them off. put a little time and space in-between reaching out to her. but the next time you do, let it be for meeting up. do your "getting to know each other" in p…
/r/seduction29/10/17 04:14 PM
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Not a problem.
/r/seduction29/10/17 03:41 PM
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So firstly....do not apologize. not for being you. you're a man. you do things, if they turn out to be mistakes. you learn you move forward. but you never apologize. Create and make your expectations known. To yourself, and to her. but dont create a need to include this girl in your life. creating a need for her will make you submissive to her satisfaction. Keep yourself in a good head space to concentrate on what you are after. having a few drinks is all good and what not. but you dont need to …
/r/seduction29/10/17 03:11 PM
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always read her body language. her mannerisms. if she's giving you the green light. go for it. best of luck my dude!
/r/seduction29/10/17 02:46 PM
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well yea, there was nothing really for her to say back after that. the subject met its climax and came to a conclusion. I do agree with spacing out some time until you feel you want to make an arrangement with her. texting for small talk will give her a feeling that you are creating a need for her...not the best move to make. save texting for arranging a meet up, or recapping a meetup and setting another one.
/r/seduction29/10/17 02:42 PM
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Okay...so she's into things that require direct input for a result, vs indirect (movies, watching tv, etc) So are there direct input activities that you feel you'd both enjoy? that creates your conversational pieces right there. board games/ video games tell me that she is into things that make her apply herself, challenge herself in a fun way
/r/seduction29/10/17 02:36 PM
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i see. Okay. what about her do you know already. as far as her interests or her personality? do those give you any indications of what she might be interested in?
/r/seduction29/10/17 02:15 PM
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eh....First things first. Clean your place up. If your pad is trashed, she is gonna think you live a messy life. girls dont want that in a guy. At all... especially around the environment you're in. Another thing. DO NOT chase her. wait a while and let that negative impression of your place not be so fresh in her mind. If you message her. tell her you had fun hanging out and that you apologize for the messy conditions. (never give excuses) just leave it as an apology. If you say you weren't expe…
/r/seduction29/10/17 02:11 PM
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Hard to scope out an answer that will fulfill the situation. i mean usually locations are based off of what you feel would be a place that you can grow a connection. You have yourself a very curious set of circumstances to work with. irregardless i guess....what is in your area? is the location of this based off of what you feel like would be fun. or what you feel like she might think is fun...the fact that she isnt into you, works both for you and against you. it works for you because it takes …
/r/seduction29/10/17 01:50 PM
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That indeed was a shit test. You performed perfectly. and most importantly...naturally. You kept it calm, cool and confident. Never lost your composure. never phased. took the situation for what it was and still accomplished what you wanted based on the expectations you set for yourself. - The Good - You had a plan to initiate contact with her. You just didnt fly in there with your balls hanging out begging for attention. You left an impression with that young lady you got the picture with. that…
/r/seduction29/10/17 01:28 PM
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nailed it. Its just setting expectations so everyone is comfortable and nothing gets out of hand.
/r/seduction29/10/17 01:14 PM
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I personally feel for you man. I also find myself at the beginning stages of a divorce. Although my situation is more amicable, i also find myself wondering about proceeding with attracting other woman. So i guess what i will say is do what feels right for you. Like, i know my marriage is ending. and the sooner the better. But until then, i am still a husband so i'll still operate as such. Thats just because for me, its the right thing to do. I still know and have the ability to go meet and attr…
/r/seduction29/10/17 01:05 PM
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brush it off and keep it moving. You've set your expectations and purpose. her response is uncertainty and/or played her cards for whomever will submit to her satisfaction. Dont spend your time chasing her affections. let her come to you if she chooses. But you should be continuing with your priorities.
/r/seduction29/10/17 12:22 PM
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Drugs did do this. However the drugs gave you something that you did not organically create for your self before hand. And that was a confidence about yourself. you are organically rebuilding yourself and i gotta say dude. My hat is off to you for making such a commitment to yourself. i know that wasnt easy. i will tell you what has worked for me my friend. And i try to live by these words every day. "Build and live the life you love". As men. our development is primarily based off of our thrivi…
/r/seduction29/10/17 12:12 PM
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Good topic that doesnt often get brought up for most men. From personal experience, there is a lot of stigma that goes along with the mention of marriage. Its not something that appeals to most younger men. Of course at that point in your life, the concentration is going out and getting the most out of life, to further your purpose or goals. I, speaking from experience got married at a very young age, to a woman 4 years older than me. We are great friends. Friendship is the most important thing …
/r/seduction29/10/17 12:01 PM
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This, Couldn't agree more. Dont be discouraged because you didnt make a move. Although she got upset and left. Afterwards, she now probably thinks of you as someone who isnt gonna make a move on anything that walks by. This can work in your favor. Dont over think things. Read and learn what every moment gives you. She is wanting you to be assertive. She wants to know where your confidence is. So show her. She is obviously into you. But make a good balance of push and pull. Push too much onto her…
/r/seduction29/10/17 11:35 AM
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Best of luck my dude!
/r/seduction29/10/17 02:45 AM
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Honestly man. Nothing really to do. You've set your expectations and you've made your intent known. Continue with your focus and daily life. If she wants there to be a connection. She will make room for one.
/r/seduction29/10/17 02:16 AM
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She is testing you. You've made known your expectations and intentions. Now she is testing your confidence. She wants you to chase her, hang on by a thread for her. This is exactly where you need to stop yourself. take a step back and look at yourself. the situation. I think you've hit the point where you not go after her like she wants. Go back to focusing on your priorities and not her. If she is interested, she will try to fit her way into your life. If you create the pedestal for her to graz…
/r/seduction29/10/17 12:28 AM
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Thanks! i appreciate that it has meaning for you.
/r/seduction28/10/17 11:58 PM
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She may feel some apprehension about the age difference. If you want to pursue her......or rather her to pursue you, then give her confidence, maturity, reassurance. next time she says that. tell her you can be whatever age she wants you to be. she may not be expecting that. but its just forward enough to let her know you'll go there if she wants to go there.
/r/seduction28/10/17 11:54 PM
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LOL thats a new one....what was the context in which this was delivered?
/r/seduction28/10/17 11:34 PM
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Never fear rejection. Seek it. Pain is growth. Failure is growth. It builds character. Whom are we to call ourselves strong if we've not been tested. Let it empower you, not deter you. Get back out there and keep swinging. Learn from everything you do. Success and failure combined. And be better for it. Best of luck!
/r/seduction28/10/17 11:13 PM
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Not at all. What you have to offer is what you have. What matters is if YOU feel its enough. Only you have control of that ship
/r/seduction28/10/17 10:56 PM
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i will tell you what has worked for me my friend. And i try to live by these words every day. "Build and live the life you love". As men. our development is primarily based off of our thriving masculine energy. This is focused through our purpose, our expectations, our goals. The challenges we set for ourselves. Those of whom we surround ourselves with. Its these aspects of our lives that give us the masculine fulfillment we need to grow as men. Now, in saying that. Improving success with women …
/r/seduction28/10/17 10:22 PM
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Take it for what it is. She didnt bail on you completely. And she still wants to have dinner with you. Just go enjoy the time with her. Her plans after are irrelevant unless she advertises them with you. However, at the same time. Wanting to save time on her schedule, i can see how working out would fill in the time she is otherwise just waiting. But be mindful. If she has dinner then bails on you. I wouldnt offer that to her in the future. To prevent her from just using you. For now. Just take …
/r/seduction28/10/17 08:14 PM
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i feel like texts are better suited for arrangements, making plans etc. if its for small talk/boredom. she might be put off by that. if nothing = nothing, than anything = better. so if you wanna throw a subtle hint out there for her to let her know the door is open. eh....why not. but i think it should be a set it and forget it.
/r/seduction28/10/17 06:58 PM
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This, Way of the Superior Man is by far and large one of the best pieces of knowledge you can read. highly recommend that book.
/r/seduction28/10/17 06:46 PM
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mmmm tough call here man. It seems she wanted the distance for a reason. I would honor that. If she wants to re-frame that picture, let her be the one to come to you, since she was the one who wanted separation. With this time frame being so short. This makes it seem like you have more a need for this than her. Idk man.....my advice. pop smoke and keep it moving. If there is anything there for her, let her recognize it and then come to you.
/r/seduction28/10/17 06:41 PM
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Can you elaborate a little further? i mean i think i know what you're asking. but not totally sure
/r/seduction28/10/17 06:25 PM
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Best of luck my dude!
/r/seduction28/10/17 05:24 PM
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well, sounds to me like you're fine. as long as you arent deviating from what your expectations are, i think you are fine. Have fun, see where it goes. It looks as if your enjoying the interaction and just taking it for what it is. which is the way to go. everything seems to be naturally just flowing. its not gonna be flawless with every girl you come across, but hey, you're having a good time about it. i say you're fine as is.
/r/seduction28/10/17 04:38 PM
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You gotta do you man. You are setting the expectations of what it is you want. And thats exactly what you need to do. If her reasoning for being hesitant is due to her self consciousness, that's entirely different that if she feels you are maybe moving too fast for how she is comfortable. Regardless, as long as you are up front about it. Let her make her move. But, i will say dont linger around like your on a hook. You need to look at this as if she will be an addition to your life. That means e…
/r/seduction28/10/17 04:17 PM
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(ah....the good old days) Okay, so 20. you're fairly fresh out in the adult world. And you are still very much a sponge for taking in your experiences. idk if taking risks is the right or wrong thing for you. But what you have to first determine is what are your expectations for yourself. You are going to come across a literal plethora of women in your life. What you have to dedicate yourself to early and make a habit out of, is building and living a life you love. Women can be a great addition …
/r/seduction28/10/17 03:43 PM
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From the context of your message. i must ask. how old are you. Not to knock on you or anything. But more of a "how much life experience do you have?" If you can answer that, it would really help in trying to gauge what would be most beneficial for you moving forward.
/r/seduction28/10/17 02:59 PM
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Okay. So first off, that's pretty remarkable for you to have the patience in noticing your takeaways so immediately. With the first woman, i think that vibe came from your focus of the conversation being directly on her. instead of the casual hello or how are you this morning and then keep it moving. I think in that situation, running is something she probably does regularly, so you of course dont want to be intrusive about it. If you see her running often, and you yourself run and you cross pat…
/r/seduction28/10/17 01:43 PM
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"Quality" is subjective. If you are going to move. Do it for a better reason. You will find yourself disapointed otherwise. Something i always try to live by is this "Build and live the life you love". If you focus on that, then "quality" people will introduce themselves into that life. Including women. Not knocking your motive though, a poor number of possible women to introduce to your life is despiriting indeed. But your goals and asperations should drive you to the major decisions such as mo…
/r/seduction28/10/17 12:16 PM
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Great question. I guess the first thing is noticing the setting. Im always aware of my surroundings. If i see an attractive woman out for a walk with her dog or morning run, etc. Am i somewhere being still. Also. Am i in passing as well? The next thing is do i have any intentions of pursuing a line of communication. Is it an inconvenience to speak to her in the present setting. I never want communication to be intrusive, but rather an addition to the setting. Based off of that would be me simply…
/r/seduction28/10/17 11:00 AM
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I hear ya. Just go with the flow of it.
/r/seduction28/10/17 12:08 AM
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Why not? As long as the expectation is set my man
/r/seduction27/10/17 11:58 PM
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There is a lot of unknowns to that. Mainly the gaps in communicating. Scheduling and what not it seems. But so long as you have expectations set for yourself. You'll get out what you put into it. Its quite possible that she may have other options on the table. I dont think its really about playing games or competing with anyone else. You've progressed enough to get her number. I say there is nothing to lose by continuing with your current pace. See if she is letting you in any more, or leading y…
/r/seduction27/10/17 09:08 PM
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Dont make too much if it. You've been up front with your expectations by going for it. Probably more of a reaction from her by stopping you more than anything. But pay attention to the details more, now after you've done that. Body language, mannerisms, etc. If she keeps stopping you, you may need to move on if you feel like she is leading you on. But chances are she will start showing signs of interest or not soon. Best of luck my dude.
/r/seduction27/10/17 09:00 PM
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She's making that eye contact because she knows you noticed her. She's expecting now to know your intentions. From my experience, and anyone please feel free to correct me if this is not the case. But if she is making eye contact like that, then she's acknowledged you notice her, so its your move. If she made eye contact then quickly looked down or away, its a sign of either submission, she became self concious, or she didnt want to become embarrassed by locking eyes with you. If she kept eye co…
/r/seduction27/10/17 08:54 PM
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I think what would help you is some baby steps. Take your results currently as the baseline. Doing nothing = nothing. So start small. Set some attainable expectations for yourself. Get some confidence under you. When yoir out an about. Speak to those women in passing. You see a girl walking her dog. Start with a hi, hey, or a compliment of the dog. Whatever it is. Start with mannerisms. Learn to read body language. A lot of women would want someone to approach them with kindness and something th…
/r/seduction27/10/17 08:42 PM
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However it is you go about it. You have to set your expectations. Set the pace of your expectations. And most importantly, communicate your expectations to her. What you need to do is read her. Her body language, mannerisms. You will know when she is comfortable with going there. If you clam up...then just dive in and go for it. She may feel violated by the lack of communication and trust. Its okay to be upfront about your intentions. The more you communicate with her (verbally and non verbally)…
/r/seduction27/10/17 08:25 PM
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I think its a regular thing. She's point out something specific. And eyes are more often than not described as pretty, regardless of who says it
/r/seduction27/10/17 07:57 PM
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Agreed. Simple and to the point. Like "Hey, are you free around this time? I'd like to call and talk for a bit". Let it be natural
/r/seduction27/10/17 07:45 PM
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Hell yea! Keep it goin. One day at a time until its habitually natural for you. You got this
/r/seduction27/10/17 05:04 PM
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Some of these things i have found myself in the habit of already. Very detailed. Very informative for some guys out there looking to develop or improve themselves. Well founded information. Nice job putting this together
/r/seduction25/10/17 05:26 PM
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Lol i didnt know there was a different to be honest. My opinion. "Daygame" "nightgame" are a bit shallow. But never the less man. Day or night. Its all about setting the expectations of what you want. Are you trying to just hook up with some women? Or you looking for someone who is down for the long haul. I dont ever look at it like day game or night game cause i approach everything the same. If im interested in a girl, im doin my homework before i open my mouth. Notice her. Her mannerisms, body…
/r/seduction25/10/17 11:59 AM
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Help me out here my dude. Daygame?
/r/seduction25/10/17 11:51 AM
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Excuse the typos. Its not even 8 and im having coffee now.
/r/seduction25/10/17 11:45 AM
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You gotta have that tough conversation with yourself man. You guys broke it off because you were growing apart. So im assuming a friendship wanted to be maintained at the least. So you guys wouldnt grow to resent each other while living together. Smart way to go. But. You gotta be real with yourself. Breaking off the relationship means she is not emotionally oblogated to you. And that perception of not being okay with what she does? Thats selfish. If you guys are friends, you would want her to b…
/r/seduction25/10/17 11:44 AM
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From the sound of it. It seems you are conflicted with your priorities. Career or women. And really its going to come down to which is more fulfilling to you. It sounds like the other aspects of your life are lacking because you are not somewhere that you are happy being. I personally would never sacrifice my career for anything less than the chance at a better career. Thats not a knock on women by any means. But think about it. If you add a woman to your life. Or are looking to add, she should …
/r/seduction25/10/17 11:29 AM
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Thumbs up my man. Live the life you love, and it will shape around you. Keep making progress.
/r/seduction25/10/17 11:07 AM
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I get where your coming from man. But i think the "advice" you are alluding to has mainly been from a narrow perspective. Confidence is not Everything.....that statement is misinterpreted. So let me elaborate. Confidence is the basis for setting expectations. For yourself, career, body, mind, relationships, etc. Its where it starts. Its not the all encompassing aspect. Its more like the root from which everything grows. It controls the rate of growth for the aspects of your life. If you look at …
/r/seduction25/10/17 11:01 AM
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