thusspakethecatlady Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
8	Just another day on twitter where women openly talk about murdering men - how is this allowed to go on? This would be lambasted as hate speech if they were talking about another group. Sickens me.	/r/MensRights	27/11/17 01:43 PM
3	To post on your social media tomorrow If I still had Facebook, I'd post it! I hope this really gets around.	/r/MensRights	19/11/17 02:41 PM
22	What were the most striking RP truths to you? How important sex/physical intimacy is for my husband to feel connected. I thought that emotional intimacy had to come first until I realized that I was treating sex like a bargaining tool. Little did I know, the pendulum swung in the opposite direction. Consistent physical intimacy naturally led to fulfilling emotional intimacy (at least in our case).	/r/RedPillWomen	13/11/17 11:32 AM
4	What is the value of femininity? My embrace of my natural femininity has complemented my husband's masculine qualities, like the yin to his yang. I know that this is not a scientific answer. Essentially, embracing my true nature (e.g., NOT trying to be like him -- which is what I'd done for a majority of our relationship) offered a healthy balance for us both. My softness brings a balance to our relationship, and the same goes for his qualities. His strength allows me to share my emotions with him and know that they won't throw…	/r/RedPillWomen	12/11/17 11:44 PM
2	Little Things (LTR and Married RPW, Please) Haha, you're a charging superstar then!	/r/RedPillWomen	12/11/17 11:33 PM
2	A Hygge Winter This is a lovely post! I've gotten a few good ideas :) Just today my husband and I created a nook out of a large closet in our living room. For anyone who is a Harry Potter fan, think of the closet Harry grew up in. We cleared out the unnecessary junk, strung up some Christmas lights (my husband's grown to like them like I do :P), and put our big Lovesac in there. It's so cozy!	/r/RedPillWomen	12/11/17 11:32 PM
3	Little Things (LTR and Married RPW, Please) I haven't considered ensuring his phone was charged. You gave me an idea ;) Thanks.	/r/RedPillWomen	12/11/17 11:21 PM
4	Little Things (LTR and Married RPW, Please) So spot on about the pressure to take offense! I have been struggling on how to put that into words. I experienced this earlier today when I met up with a (very non-RP) friend of mine. Good for you!	/r/RedPillWomen	12/11/17 11:19 PM
7	Little Things (LTR and Married RPW, Please) That's a really sweet idea! One of the best "little things" (which is also a work in progress!) is practicing mindfulness and STFU'ing when I want to complain or be negative. When he has said a new idea or plan for the future, I've begun to say "I believe in you" and hear him out. Consequently, just today he thanked me that I did not judge him for sharing something that he's been thinking about. I also have been looking for the best, instead of assuming the worst, which has been a life-long habi…	/r/RedPillWomen	12/11/17 11:16 PM
3	What would you do for marriage? What would you do for a happy relationship? That is a good idea! I will work on one :) Have a good day!	/r/RedPillWomen	12/11/17 06:04 PM
5	How is social media effecting your life and relationships? Good for you! I got rid of FB about a month ago and have not looked back. I feel much better mentally. I am disconnected from a lot of event invites now, but honestly, I don't consider people close friends if that is the only way we communicate. I still have Instagram because I'm an amateur photographer, but sometimes I find myself mindlessly scrolling through pictures of people IDGAF about. I think it will be a work in progress for me. I agree with you about how much time has opened up with FB!…	/r/RedPillWomen	12/11/17 01:41 PM
3	Starting to feel bored, slightly indifferent, don't want to feel this way? If you want a more interesting life, do something interesting.> This! Took me a long time to learn, but it's true and great advice.	/r/RedPillWomen	12/11/17 01:36 PM
3	What would you do for marriage? What would you do for a happy relationship? Thank you!! I know I have a ways to go, but I am really shocked so far! I think focusing on self-improvement has been the most important factor for me.	/r/RedPillWomen	12/11/17 01:33 PM
5	Jordan Peterson's advice to young women choosing careers over children I love JP!	/r/RedPillWives	11/11/17 06:31 PM
15	What would you do for marriage? What would you do for a happy relationship? Married here. I have to say, before I learned about RP I probably did the opposite of what you mentioned (the exception being saying sorry first -- that seems to have always been in my nature). Keep the house clean? Psh, not unless he does his part! Never nag? But he should do XYZ because I'm clearly right! Bite my tongue? Hell no, I deserve the last word! Now, I still slip up, but my behaviors and demeanor have radically shifted overall. I clean, I listen more, and I give him space instead of b…	/r/RedPillWomen	11/11/17 01:35 PM
0	Question for everyone: How do you feel about a man being the king of his castle? Exactly! Many people, it seems, misunderstand this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/17 05:44 PM
1	These Louis CK allegations are interesting and I don’t know what to make of them Intimidation? Are you denying that the women had no sense of agency in this situation? They were adults. With freedom comes responsibility.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/17 12:18 PM
4	These Louis CK allegations are interesting and I don’t know what to make of them Okay. He asked them if he could do it. Don't you think it's in the realm of possibility that he interpreted their laughs as a green light? (I'm sure I am going to get shit because, God forbid, they did not explicitly utter the word "yes."). Body language can signal a yes. There is nuance to sex, but this seems to get thrown out of the window. Now, it sounds like they were not interested. Fine. They very well could have immediately left before things escalated. There was no force. How can anyone …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/17 12:09 PM
2	Good advice from a book I'm reading Thank you for sharing! Good stuff. I have historically tended toward interpreting things in a negative light or thinking the worst, but it makes a big difference to know that we actually have the power to interpret things differently. It really illustrates the shift, to me, from a victim mentality to that of empowerment. What a difference it has made in my marriage!	/r/RedPillWives	10/11/17 11:37 AM
4	Feminist Jessica Valenti thinks it's good that innocent men are afraid of false accusations, and she wants to spread even more fear EXACTLY.	/r/MensRights	09/11/17 01:12 PM
2	CMV: 'Red Pill' men would be 'happiest' if they were born Muslim Lol thanks!	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/17 04:28 PM
1	CMV: 'Red Pill' men would be 'happiest' if they were born Muslim Fair point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/17 12:14 PM
1	CMV: 'Red Pill' men would be 'happiest' if they were born Muslim This seems less of a "CMV" and more of an ill-informed soapbox. Decent humans -- yes, even RP men -- do not "hate women." I think it's about navigating biological and societal realities and working within those frameworks to attain your goals. I think I see where your thought process began by comparing the two, but I think it's a superficial comparison that does not hold up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/17 12:02 PM
2	[Ask RPW] Required reading, and further books... ? New here! Thank you for sharing those titles. I read the 5 Love Languages. I started Doyle's other book First Kill All the Marriage Counselors (so far, so good btw). Looking forward to checking the others out and reading the others' responses!	/r/RedPillWives	04/11/17 01:18 PM
2	Cosmo says it's bad that men get turned on during sex... What is wrong with female (and male) orgasms being enjoyed by BOTH partners? I can't with this article's garbage.	/r/MensRights	04/11/17 01:12 PM
2	Only unsuccessful men think that women's attractiveness is all physical looks I agree with that. I just disagree that attractiveness is all physical looks, as stated above.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/17 07:33 PM
1	Only unsuccessful men think that women's attractiveness is all physical looks TRP claims that a woman's attraction only comes from her looks and that her personality doesn't matter. I'm new to the RP sphere, so forgive me if I'm wildly off-base. However, I don't think that's true. Maybe some jerks espoused that information, but I'm pretty sure other RP men care more about more than physical looks. That seems a little too simplistic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/17 07:01 PM
2	Q4women: have you ever been hit by a boyfriend/husband/partner Yes. My high school boyfriend (7 years together -- ugh, we should have ended it after year 2!) punched me in the leg. It left a terrible bruise and made walking difficult for a few days. I was never able to look at him the same way afterward. I find the question of provocation an interesting one. Let's take an example. I live in a far left, nearly 100% liberal area. I have heard some members of the community say that others should be punched or worse for SAYING certain things that they did not l…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/17 12:28 PM
1	As a woman I find this absolutely detestable. Reprehensible. No wonder so many men feel disillusioned.	/r/MensRights	02/11/17 04:30 PM
1	Women do not want to be objectified, but they do want to feel sexy I think women don't mind (I'd go so far as to say want) to be objectified IF they find the man appealing. If not, then it's a no-go. This is solely based on personal experience with my female friends.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/17 12:58 PM
5	Where do intelligent young women hang out? Probably not a bar. Try bookstore, cafe, something where women are looking to do more than just get hammered.	/r/askTRP	02/11/17 12:22 PM