Also what pissed me off was "Endure" the jokes? What a loser. He can't even put his "friends" in their place by clapping back or, simply defending his girl. All he could do was "endure" it. Cringiest LVM behaviour ever. Then he blames the girl! 🙄
As a WOC, there are super LVM in our communities too. I really do think this is a cross-cultural issue now. Just please continue vetting men with immigrant parents too. It's definitely not a fail safe litmus check for HVM.