| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | She was killed for saying no.. | MALE DEPRAVITY | thyroidcrp | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/21 05:06 AM |
| 1 | Why do men who you haven’t even MET from OLD think they are owed anything? | RANT | thyroidcrp | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 02:41 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 2 | Pickmeisha hall of fame 😂🤦🏻♀️Why? What did he do to deserve being treated like a king? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/22 04:46 AM |
| 16 | Reminder: Please don’t be like this 37 year old woman on a blind date.So true! Thank you for this contribution; more women need to see it! There is NO clock not anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/22 04:45 AM |
| 11 | Which one of you is this aboutThank you for starting off my morning with laughter! Whoever this woman is bravo and hats off to you!! I can’t wait to try this myself eventually! Gotta vet till o meet the possible HVM until then. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/21 07:04 PM |
| 59 | Finally ready to date again thanks to FDS!!😂😂👇🏽 this made my stomach hurt from laughing so much. Spot on! Preach sis! “Also - wtf is up with all these unsuccessful nerds giving "advice" in OLD subs?? Why would I take advice on how to build a house from someone who's never been let inside one?? Get outta here with that 🤡nonsense.” FDS helped me realize I don’t need to give anyone the benefit of the doubt. If something makes me uncomfortable I’m out the door and never look back. As far as gifts for oneself I love boozy beach days so maybe … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/21 04:24 PM |
| 22 | Cancelled a date today 😌 My first unmatch block delete!!You saved yourself the time, effort, and energy that a low effort, low value, and insecure ahole would have sucked out of you. I know it hurts at first you do feel that twinge of “why” but it gets so much easier as time goes on because you realize how amazing you are and how it is a privilege for someone to have access to you and your time! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/21 09:49 PM |
| 29 | How to recognize a narcissist. If you’re in this type of relationship, run! I promise you, it’s never going to get better. (Emotional Abuse Short Film - Gaslighting)This is dead on accurate. The start of insidious kind of “love” where you no longer recognize yourself anymore; rob you of your confidence, you can never do anything right, don’t trust your own thought process, makes you question your very existence. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/21 06:02 AM |
| 16 | Make sure you are his first option. Men can fake and pretend you’re his #1 because they’re lonely, when in fact you aren’t the one they want.All of my girlfriends have been telling me to date “younger” guys 25-30. I am 33 for reference and I always found the idea weird as my LVM ex was 5 years older than me, most dates 3-7 years older than me but I truly believe they are onto something. Younger guys seem less intimidated, less sexist, and more open to a partnership vs caveman bs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/21 06:17 AM |
| 119 | Watched a man be who he was when he thought no one was watching IRL. There are far more tricks to hide activity than I ever knew.I never trust or date any man who “travels,” for work anymore. Been there, done that. Huge mistake. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/21 06:00 AM |
| 7 | Treat relationships with men like they are temporaryThank you for posting this ❤️ I needed to read it. Trying to limit the chasing my mind is doing for a more than likely LVM. I don’t know why the hope of a futile future starts but it’s so hard pulling myself back because of that stupid hope. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 04:54 AM |
| 10 | How do you avoid turning into a LVW when you’re at a point where you want to start a family?Honestly, its a struggle all women who want marriage and kids face when that invisible clock starts ticking in the mind. You start feeling “he wasn’t that bad, I could push through it for next 30 at least I’d have my kids etc” so the first thing I do is I look at the unhappily married people I know who have settled for LVM and hate their lives at the moment. I tell myself being alone (for the time being) saves me the stress of having a husband who cheats or verbally abuses me. The second thing I… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 05:22 PM |
| 76 | It disgusts me to see how men are dressed in public.I burst out laughing reading your comment!! 100%. My ex was British and every successful date (guys I liked enough for a second) after him were abroad. American men are so lazy with everything including appearance. Like yay I should reward you for looking halfway decent? Gtfoh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 02:38 AM |
| 127 | How do you deal with gaining less interest in dating and men overall?You aren’t losing interest in men. You’ve lost interest in dating due to the number of LVM you’ve likely encountered. Now it bores you. You’re jaded. Lol welcome to the club! Same exact boat and don’t plan to do anything to change it currently. I am taking a break from dating after 2 months of being on an app where people made me yawn or question why I even bothered to OLD. Reset yourself and then go back into dating once you’re inclined to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 12:03 AM |
| 74 | “20/20 Report - Are Short Men at a Disadvantage in Romance?” Spoiler alert: yes, they are!I prefer tall men but I tried once with a short guy and on the second date he made a face and asked, “do you really need to wear heels.” Lol yep one and done. No thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 07:16 PM |
| 65 | “20/20 Report - Are Short Men at a Disadvantage in Romance?” Spoiler alert: yes, they are!😂😂😂😂 no mercy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 07:15 PM |
| 27 | Don’t save his number in your phone.I laughed out loud reading this and I really just went into my phone and did exactly that! Completely spot on why am I naming someone in my phone when I haven’t even decided if I’m going to date him? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/21 10:05 PM |
| 28 | Why? Just why?It’s a tactic from that stupid male dating handbook. They believe by giving you details of what “freaks” the exes were that you’ll go above and beyond to please them in the bedroom. It’s laughable. I told one guy “that’s nice she sounds amazing I think you should go back.” He looked at me like I had a screw loose. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/21 05:14 PM |
| 31 | Reasons why exes come backAlso, adding in coming back for validation that he can “still get it.” My demented ex won’t grow and change his sub par behavior but somehow year after year he thinks checking in on me will magically open the gates for him. Like no. Go away and never come back. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/21 04:30 AM |
| 8 | In every interaction with a man, you should be asking yourself "what do I get out of this?"Just a freaking big ass thank you to the redditor sister who invited me to this sub! I agree wholeheartedly with this post and am so thankful there’s a safe space for women to actually support women without being bashed! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/21 04:25 AM |
| 33 | Apparently having an emergency savings fund as a woman and not explicitly saying so to your male partner is “financial infidelity.” 🤨🙄My GRANDMA has always encouraged me and my cousins to have a back-up account “just in case.” She even does the obligatory check in on the wedding day lol. It’s bullshit that a woman making herself secure is making men INSECURE. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/21 04:20 AM |
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