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2	Children need Dads and Fathers. My 47F neighbor is hiring a 29M to come over and attempt to impregnate her on a monthly basis. Am I old fashion or is this crazy? You are joking I assume.. dads die, divorce happens. Women don't need a man to well parent a child.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/25 03:02 PM
1	Women in third world countries would behave the same as western women if they had the opportunity to So young men don't care about attractiveness in their female partners either? Most hysterical thing i have ever heard in my life. F56	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/24 07:56 AM
1	Women in third world countries would behave the same as western women if they had the opportunity to Hysterical... especially seeing young women's lives destroyed by parents still insisting on marriage for their 18 yr old daughters. Girls rescued from countries with war and oppression brought to new countries for safety. They see the opportunities available here, dream of university but during high school introduced to " nice young Muslim men". Married at 19, mothers at 20, University getting smaller and smaller possibility. Moving to modern EU countries hasn't helped these young women at all. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/24 07:52 AM
1	Women in third world countries would behave the same as western women if they had the opportunity to Oh the irony.. its almost time to remember these events, but not a millisecond of thought for what is going on in these regions of the world. Men and women with no status based on one days actions from just a few men... murdered women and babies blamed fir the actions and beliefs of men. 2024 yrs ago and he sharing of one man's life matters more than the current situation of women and children in the areas Jesus's was to walk and care for all. Things haven't improved much at all	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/24 07:39 AM
1	Women in third world countries would behave the same as western women if they had the opportunity to And men aren't attracted to plain looking women without personalities either. It works both ways!	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/24 07:33 AM
1	Women in third world countries would behave the same as western women if they had the opportunity to There tribes in isolated lands where beauty and appearance are so important that women alter their bodies by elongating necks, inserting flat ceramic platters in to their mouth to increase lip/ mouth area; where young men must prove themselves able to hunt, to cope with extreme circumstances... not much different in overall thought patterns as in modern countries surely.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/24 07:32 AM
-1	You are not oppressed for being a woman, or a victim LMAO.. women today not oppressed, give me a break! Lower salaries, discrimination in job, inequality in work place, to health care access where women not taken as seriously as men.. And this "western world you speak of, does it not also include Muslim families following their own social norms. If you moved to Middle East you wouldn't suddenly change your thoughts about women's roles and rights. I'm watching my daughter's peers allowed to apply to university.. but then married before they could f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/24 03:59 PM
1	Why do women dress provocatively if they don't like most men? Not in my part of the world .. people don't tend to brag about their accessories like it makes one person better than another. Much more likely to be valued for what they bring to a job role rather than whether they have a trendy bag or watch. If it means someone was spent $5-10k on a decorative item it doesn't mean more than that. My partner owns an expensive watch... purchased because like liked the features, not to make other people think he was a better person in any way! I have beautiful je…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/24 02:23 AM
5	Why do women dress provocatively if they don't like most men? Not at all imo.. a man wearing a nice watch might have been a gift from an ex, a fake etc. The outer clothes or accessories do not link directly to anyone's personality type or attractiveness. Not in world I live in anyway and it's not what my teenagers daughters have learnt They don't need to be covered in make up showing off their breats or buttocks to look beautiful.. but the have classmates that do. Those girls all seem to lack confidence and are scared to be seen au natural. They think that…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/24 01:30 PM
1	Why do women dress provocatively if they don't like most men? What does provocatively mean..in the scheme of things? That they wear the clothing items they see in stores that look good on their body should be the only answer to this. We don't wear clothes to deliberately appeal to a mans view if us, we wear clothing we like. It might seem silly in cold countries but when you dance in a nightclub or go to a bar with friends it often gets too hot..Add on fees and waiting times to store coats I see them only appear now, around November when we drop to 0 Celsi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/24 01:20 PM
2	Boycotting sex with men won't work.. Just to add, many couples only discover terminal issues out their babies quite late in pregnancy, after 20 week anomaly scan detects concerns that then need further exam. I was a paediatric RN, did 13 months of my midwifery trying before I spinal injury ended by career. So I understand what is involved in ending these pregnancies. Despite being mother to 3 and being fully in support of abortion rights for all, I do not think I could endure the technical side of a late term termination and delive…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/24 01:38 PM
1	Boycotting sex with men won't work.. No need to, the showed me they were true.. all I needed to know. I wasn't about to argue about this horrific treatment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/24 12:51 PM
1	Boycotting sex with men won't work.. These drs need to lose their precious licences.. they misinterpret the law to protect licence. They don't deserve a licence! And people re- elected Trump. I sure hope this gets sorted out, I don't know how men with granddaughters can support this change in any way. Its just barbaric yo do this to any woman,.. and child victims of rape. I hope they all die in pain and rot in hell!	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/24 10:48 AM
1	Boycotting sex with men won't work.. Thanks.. Just heartbreaking!	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/24 10:43 AM
4	Boycotting sex with men won't work.. Source for that that 9 yr old rape victims forced to have baby.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/24 01:08 PM
2	Boycotting sex with men won't work.. None of those women died though..people are claiming women are dying because refused pregnancy termination. Its not happening in reality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/24 01:05 PM
1	Do you think men should ever show emotion in front of a woman? Of course he should.. who wants a cold soul less man?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/24 02:49 PM
–	Women accept being alone better than men I hope you find someone you are compatible with... even my born in 1904 grandmother reiterated the importance of living with someone before you marry. She learnt the hard way that my grandad wanted sex all the time and on his bakers sleep schedule too. They had 6 daughters, 2 miscarriages and she told us after his death in late 1980s from motor neurone disease that many times it was practically rape from her viewpoint.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/24 03:34 PM
–	Women accept being alone better than men You don't necessarily know that at the time. I didn't marry my first boyfriend but we spent 7 yrs together. He dumped me . Best decision ever!	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/24 03:30 PM
–	Women accept being alone better than men Its not an either/ or. You don't be with someone you don't love. You meet someone else to have sex with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/24 03:29 PM
–	Disappointed in misleading articles about childless women recently, does anybody why these are being pumped out recently? Absolute rubbish! I hate everything about the BS spouted by Thatcher.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/24 10:42 PM
4	Disappointed in misleading articles about childless women recently, does anybody why these are being pumped out recently? Lmao.. cos gen z know everything about life and relationships. Hysterical concept as a woman who's approach and feelings towards relationships changed at least once a decade. Am 55yr now with 18yr old daughter. ... she has no clue about the real life of relationships, just as I didn't start that age. What I thought was ideal then changed at 22, 28, 31, 33.. 50. Laughable comment tbh.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/24 06:49 AM
1	Disappointed in misleading articles about childless women recently, does anybody why these are being pumped out recently? But that somehow doesn't also happen to men too?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/24 06:44 AM
2	The real wall is menopause What would be wrong with European made drugs, Germany, UK, France etc? On exact same level as US made ones. Those from India, Mexico and China might be suspicious, but European does not mean dodgy in any way. You should check how many of your meds come from Bayer and Pfizer, both German. Majority of my generics are EU produced.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/24 07:32 AM
2	It’s become socially acceptable in America for women to lie about sexual abuse My next door neighbour's daughter did it twice.. and was prosecuted and fined. She was then 19, legal age of consent here is 15. On the opposing side.. I do not know anyone personally that has been raped or sexually assaulted. Don't know how to do flairs. PPWoman in 50s.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/24 04:43 PM
2	Highly unethical advice from a semi retired man whore, that is the true one pill And they all dead or fvcked up now.. so why even suggest this to immature pathetic desperate people on it that just want to rape women rather than create relationships first. Beyond unethical.. it's criminal suggesting young men take this approach thinking it has legit worked for you in OP. Only to discover you might as well be quoting from crime dramas or bad porn.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/23 05:26 AM
-1	Highly unethical advice from a semi retired man whore, that is the true one pill That isn't consent, it's being too pathetic to interact with a normal woman. It's not real consent if you drugged them first.. rape all the way!	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/23 05:21 AM
1	Highly unethical advice from a semi retired man whore, that is the true one pill It's not a game just to get laid.. it is real life! Most pathetic way to suggest getting a woman, to drug her first... sadder than sad, you must be such a loser to have no skills to attract a woman in real life. Truly pathetic!	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/23 05:19 AM
2	Would you break up with your partner if she put on 25-30kgs/55-66lbs? Medication made me gain 15kg.. I can't shift it unless I reduce pain medication. Gained me some Drs tho so my man quite happy. Lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/23 04:54 PM
1	What women in their 30s seem to ignore is that the biological imperative for a man is slighty more forgiving than a woman and a man can get his shit together in his 30s or 40s, a woman who is 35 and is still holding out for a high tier man is absolutely done for. Yet statistic's have long supported my experience, its not just anecdotal. Per USA divorce statistics 48 percent of those who marry before the age of 18 are likely to divorce within 10 years, compared to 25 percent of those who marry after the age of 25. 60 percent of couples married between the age of 20 -25 will end in divorce. Those who wait to marry until they are over 25 years old are 24 percent less likely to get divorced. 20 yrs ago when i was your age it seemed better to me too. Experi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/23 11:48 AM
1	What women in their 30s seem to ignore is that the biological imperative for a man is slighty more forgiving than a woman and a man can get his shit together in his 30s or 40s, a woman who is 35 and is still holding out for a high tier man is absolutely done for. At 18/20 i believe it's impossible to know 'the situation is right', there hasn't been time to grow as an individual, to live a life, have adult freedom and responsibilities. I was engaged at that age, to bf i had from 16, then i left home to study, lived in dorm type accomodation, was responsible for myself. He stayed at home, relying on mom to wait on him, and ultimately expected that once i qualified I would work full time and play the role of housekeeper/cook 'wifey' in his words. We split w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/23 06:15 PM
1	What women in their 30s seem to ignore is that the biological imperative for a man is slighty more forgiving than a woman and a man can get his shit together in his 30s or 40s, a woman who is 35 and is still holding out for a high tier man is absolutely done for. So.. they aren't the only 40+ and 25yr old men out there. I know many young men in their 20s with a body way nicer than the 40 yr old, my daughter swims, her teenage peers spend hours in the gym working on their physique.. And for women, i guess all 20 yr olds look like supermodels and all 40 yr olds are overweight. Would be easy to find a few images to 'prove a point.'	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/23 02:08 PM
1	What women in their 30s seem to ignore is that the biological imperative for a man is slighty more forgiving than a woman and a man can get his shit together in his 30s or 40s, a woman who is 35 and is still holding out for a high tier man is absolutely done for. I understand what you mean, mostly this conversation has come up in discussions about Drs refusing permanent sterilization in 18/20 yr olds, and they have no concept of why the Dr has to refuse. If someone is sure enough they return, they bother the Dr and don't accept it. But of course the same Dr then sees how many return with regrets, yes i agree, many having already had children will be the majority, but there are women that 'knew they never wanted children'.. i met some during my trying to …	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/23 01:10 PM
1	What women in their 30s seem to ignore is that the biological imperative for a man is slighty more forgiving than a woman and a man can get his shit together in his 30s or 40s, a woman who is 35 and is still holding out for a high tier man is absolutely done for. And sad to say but 33 is still incredibly young.. my friends were still married at that age, only time will tell. Maybe the delaying marriage until 26 has helped you, knowing someone for 8 years of course a bonus vs marrying straight out of school. My daughter has her first real boyfriend now at 16/17.. they started talking marriage and future as distant events, but already i see fundamental differences that i doubt will stand the test of time. Thankfully she isn't in a rush, wants a life of her…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/23 12:58 PM
1	What women in their 30s seem to ignore is that the biological imperative for a man is slighty more forgiving than a woman and a man can get his shit together in his 30s or 40s, a woman who is 35 and is still holding out for a high tier man is absolutely done for. Now that is sad.. my partner's dad lived in another country entirely, his parents never had a relationship beyond his being 18m old. But he had an amazing mum and an amazing life. He met up with his dad at 23, ironcially the same year as my dad died. It changed nothing about his day to day life. Maybe you should find someone to talk to these things about. Your dad dying doesn't mean that you would, you can't live a life thinking that way to be honest.. you have to live with what you have. I've h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/23 12:52 PM
1	What women in their 30s seem to ignore is that the biological imperative for a man is slighty more forgiving than a woman and a man can get his shit together in his 30s or 40s, a woman who is 35 and is still holding out for a high tier man is absolutely done for. A very young 'girl'.. says it all!	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/23 12:38 PM
1	What women in their 30s seem to ignore is that the biological imperative for a man is slighty more forgiving than a woman and a man can get his shit together in his 30s or 40s, a woman who is 35 and is still holding out for a high tier man is absolutely done for. Cos that happens 'all the time' of course.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/23 12:33 PM
0	What women in their 30s seem to ignore is that the biological imperative for a man is slighty more forgiving than a woman and a man can get his shit together in his 30s or 40s, a woman who is 35 and is still holding out for a high tier man is absolutely done for. So premature death doesn't mean children need new dads in their lives? You wouldn't be worthy of being a step father imo.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/23 12:31 PM
0	What women in their 30s seem to ignore is that the biological imperative for a man is slighty more forgiving than a woman and a man can get his shit together in his 30s or 40s, a woman who is 35 and is still holding out for a high tier man is absolutely done for. 'Step dummy'.. disgusting term, makes me doubt you could find a woman that would respect you in any way. So a widow's child would mean you would be a dummy, a child abandoned by its father, that would make THEM the dummy, not the person stepping it to love it as its father.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/23 12:30 PM
1	What women in their 30s seem to ignore is that the biological imperative for a man is slighty more forgiving than a woman and a man can get his shit together in his 30s or 40s, a woman who is 35 and is still holding out for a high tier man is absolutely done for. So a woman you are attracted to, that has children alone because her spouse died in an accident.. you'd just walk away, regardless of attraction? Its not always as simple as it seems when you are young. I hope you never experience infertility, men discover they cannot have children almost as often as women do. Biological nature isn't set in stone! And how many women do you think try to 'trick' someone in to parenting their lovers child. The need to cheat would mean you were failing somehow anywa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/23 12:27 PM
1	What women in their 30s seem to ignore is that the biological imperative for a man is slighty more forgiving than a woman and a man can get his shit together in his 30s or 40s, a woman who is 35 and is still holding out for a high tier man is absolutely done for. Not everyone 'has to adopt'.. many people 'choose to adopt.' They also become loving parents to another persons children when they fall in love with a now single parent. Excluding someone because they happened to have a child could mean you exclude a chance to have an awesome partner. Never say never!	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/23 12:23 PM
1	What women in their 30s seem to ignore is that the biological imperative for a man is slighty more forgiving than a woman and a man can get his shit together in his 30s or 40s, a woman who is 35 and is still holding out for a high tier man is absolutely done for. Or just bad genetics, things we cannot change. Cancer doesn't always pick the unhealthy lifestyle people to attack, ALS doesn't, accidents don't.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/23 12:20 PM
0	What women in their 30s seem to ignore is that the biological imperative for a man is slighty more forgiving than a woman and a man can get his shit together in his 30s or 40s, a woman who is 35 and is still holding out for a high tier man is absolutely done for. Who says you will be alive at 70 to have grandchildren.. my sister died at 42, her eldest was 16, her youngest of 6 turned 4 days before her death from cancer. And I haven't been able to lift my own children without pain once they reached about 12lb, and i've been this way since my mid 20s. Age is far from the only thing that affects your ability to parent, and these things could change tomorrow. I'm mid 50s now, my kids 17 and 15.. i assume i should push them to have children before i am 60.. f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/23 12:17 PM
1	What women in their 30s seem to ignore is that the biological imperative for a man is slighty more forgiving than a woman and a man can get his shit together in his 30s or 40s, a woman who is 35 and is still holding out for a high tier man is absolutely done for. LMAo, what utter rubbish.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/23 12:12 PM
1	What women in their 30s seem to ignore is that the biological imperative for a man is slighty more forgiving than a woman and a man can get his shit together in his 30s or 40s, a woman who is 35 and is still holding out for a high tier man is absolutely done for. You never have to wake 'several times to feed a child'.. usually once or twice. and that lasts 6 weeks or so, then only once a night at best. I assume you not planning to be a solo parent either, even with twins my sister and her partner managed to get some sleep. When i stayed over it would mean 40 minutes to deal with both, their single babies less than 20. You don't wake up anyway, you function on semi awake status. I breastfed my kids, slept with them in my room and a light sleeper. Nursed, …	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/23 12:09 PM
1	What women in their 30s seem to ignore is that the biological imperative for a man is slighty more forgiving than a woman and a man can get his shit together in his 30s or 40s, a woman who is 35 and is still holding out for a high tier man is absolutely done for. No one needs to stay awake for 36 hours, not even parents.. you sleep when they sleep, be active when they are active. You are normal, what you did in 20s wasn't normal, you were excelling. Every other person in the world copes without staying awake 36 hours, parents too amazingly. No one naturally needs that ability. Given tests all okay, trust that this is normal, even for people in their 20s.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/23 12:02 PM
1	What women in their 30s seem to ignore is that the biological imperative for a man is slighty more forgiving than a woman and a man can get his shit together in his 30s or 40s, a woman who is 35 and is still holding out for a high tier man is absolutely done for. How much energy do you think children need? I have chronic pain, haven't worked in almost 30 yrs, take medication every day. I'm still a good mother, i use the time they aren't around to catch up on nighttime sleep mostly, but now they understand anyway. Their dad has epilepsy and occasionally needs to sleep for 12 hours after a seizure.. given what i hear about some of their friends parents I think mine are incredibly happy and content with their lives. They've shared us with enough of their fr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/23 11:59 AM
2	What women in their 30s seem to ignore is that the biological imperative for a man is slighty more forgiving than a woman and a man can get his shit together in his 30s or 40s, a woman who is 35 and is still holding out for a high tier man is absolutely done for. Well obviously not lacking that much energy then.. life changes, our energy levels change, it doesn't make it bad. In another 10 or 20 yrs you will realise that your 30's were incredible too, but then it will be too late. If you had children those hours in the gym would be parenting time, its honestly not that energy consuming, especially when you consider how much care goes on outside of home, at daycare, at school, with their friends and peers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/23 11:52 AM
1	What women in their 30s seem to ignore is that the biological imperative for a man is slighty more forgiving than a woman and a man can get his shit together in his 30s or 40s, a woman who is 35 and is still holding out for a high tier man is absolutely done for. Not at all.. this type of BS is honestly pathetic. What about those of us that will never have the energy of a 100% healthy person, does that mean we shouldn't have children. Fertility doesn't matter one iota once you have a child, women at 22 can experience infertility too you realise, could be diagnosed with cancer at 24, undergo treatments for 5 years while their child is the most 'demanding' of energy. They don't know any better, children need love, not energy! My lack of energy and chronic …	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/23 11:49 AM
1	What women in their 30s seem to ignore is that the biological imperative for a man is slighty more forgiving than a woman and a man can get his shit together in his 30s or 40s, a woman who is 35 and is still holding out for a high tier man is absolutely done for. Please say this is a joke... all downhill from 34?? LMAO My dad died when i was 25, he was 50, my sister died in 2014.. she was 42. Her oldest child was about to be 16, her youngest was 4. Its a ridiculous comment, are you really suggesting my kids have lacked something because i was 37/9 when they were born and my partner 34/5. Dare i share that we both have neurological health issues that affect our lives too, he had epilepsy, I have chronic neuropathic pain. My kids are now 15 and 17 and comp…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/23 11:38 AM
2	What women in their 30s seem to ignore is that the biological imperative for a man is slighty more forgiving than a woman and a man can get his shit together in his 30s or 40s, a woman who is 35 and is still holding out for a high tier man is absolutely done for. Many men do this, especially after a few months of trying to get pregnant. The only reason women need to pre plan things is because of folic acid being significant from day one. You'd be surprised how many men have perfectly messed up sperm in spite of healthy living, and those that have no issues when they are careful about these factors. Sperm production is ongoing too, changes every 6-8 weeks, issues easily remedied, our eggs are always aging, not much we can do to change that other than goin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/23 11:22 AM
1	What women in their 30s seem to ignore is that the biological imperative for a man is slighty more forgiving than a woman and a man can get his shit together in his 30s or 40s, a woman who is 35 and is still holding out for a high tier man is absolutely done for. You have evidence of that? I kind of doubt it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/23 11:13 AM
2	What women in their 30s seem to ignore is that the biological imperative for a man is slighty more forgiving than a woman and a man can get his shit together in his 30s or 40s, a woman who is 35 and is still holding out for a high tier man is absolutely done for. 35 is not 'even late'! Over 44/45 perhaps but you're deluded if you think only women over 30 need treatment for fertility issues. In my experience I met just as many women in their 20s needing IVF as in their 30s or even 40s. We needed IVF because of my partners infertility, because of his medication, my fertility at 36+ was perfectly normal, and we also conceived an unexpected second child when i was 39 in spite of his lowered fertility.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/23 11:12 AM
1	What women in their 30s seem to ignore is that the biological imperative for a man is slighty more forgiving than a woman and a man can get his shit together in his 30s or 40s, a woman who is 35 and is still holding out for a high tier man is absolutely done for. What a pathetic comment.. seen many friends meet lifetime partners even though they were mothers to another man's child. It's not about her being a mother, it's about who she is as a person! If her child's father had died would it still mean the man was 'desperate' somehow. I kind of doubt it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/23 11:04 AM
1	What women in their 30s seem to ignore is that the biological imperative for a man is slighty more forgiving than a woman and a man can get his shit together in his 30s or 40s, a woman who is 35 and is still holding out for a high tier man is absolutely done for. But don't ever mention that.. can't tell you the number of times I've said to teenagers that not all women can be 100% sure when they are that young. They argue that Drs should just perform permanent procedures on women all the time, because they always know if they don't want children. So much changes as you grow.. and while i agree that some absolutely know, many don't. Look at how many women get their permanent sterilization reversed after 5 or 10 yrs. My own sister never wanted her own baby …	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/23 10:47 AM
1	What women in their 30s seem to ignore is that the biological imperative for a man is slighty more forgiving than a woman and a man can get his shit together in his 30s or 40s, a woman who is 35 and is still holding out for a high tier man is absolutely done for. You don't have to listen to what medical professionals claim.. i was just as fertile in my late 30s, had two daughters at 37 and 39. First took IVF because of my partners medication affecting his fertility, and then a massive surprise during my second fertile month after that baby was born. Needless to say I didn't take chances after that. My sister had 3 pregnancies in her 20's, all straight off bcp, she divorced at 32. Met someone new, eventually planned another baby, pregnant again first cycl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/23 10:38 AM
1	What women in their 30s seem to ignore is that the biological imperative for a man is slighty more forgiving than a woman and a man can get his shit together in his 30s or 40s, a woman who is 35 and is still holding out for a high tier man is absolutely done for. Being in 30s and single by no means is only because we don't want kids.. I always said it would be my biggest regret ever if i died young, that i hadn't been a mother. I had an entire career planned too, an injury at work led to a complicated neuropathic pain journey that changed everything when i was in my mid 20s. I was left single by men unable to cope with my struggling.. when i stopped struggling and accepted my life i met someone when I was 33 that wasn't phased by my chronic illness, he s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/23 10:15 AM
2	What women in their 30s seem to ignore is that the biological imperative for a man is slighty more forgiving than a woman and a man can get his shit together in his 30s or 40s, a woman who is 35 and is still holding out for a high tier man is absolutely done for. Not an exception by far.. met love of my life at 33, now have almost all I ever wanted, someone that respected and loved me, 2 adorable kids (teens now that also respect me and speak to me more deeply than i ever could with my own young mother), and a happy life. Still miss a career and no chronic illness/pain.. but i tried changing that and its failed me and medical professionals. But it's what made me who I was when i met my partner at 33, the partner I am, the mother I am and who i am today a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/23 10:09 AM
1	What women in their 30s seem to ignore is that the biological imperative for a man is slighty more forgiving than a woman and a man can get his shit together in his 30s or 40s, a woman who is 35 and is still holding out for a high tier man is absolutely done for. But they can be a stand in for decision making.. when you need to discuss every decision in life with them before making it. Should i date this man, should i cut off friendships etc. Growing stronger is good, but its down to individuals to make the decisions, and not to run to the therapist again if it goes wrong. I was seeing one after chronic illness changed my life.. but did the major stuff alone. I am certain had i told him I was travelling across Europe to meet a man i met online he'd have …	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/23 10:04 AM
1	What women in their 30s seem to ignore is that the biological imperative for a man is slighty more forgiving than a woman and a man can get his shit together in his 30s or 40s, a woman who is 35 and is still holding out for a high tier man is absolutely done for. Its bad when almost everyone thinks they cannot live a life without one! No one living a regular working life should need a therapist to hold their hand and tell them they are making the right choices. Make them, any mistakes are just learning, help develop your personality. Friends and family generally better than a therapist. (and yes, i have experience with a therapist, after struggling with chronic illness destroying my career and what i thought my life was going to be. But not everyone had …	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/23 10:00 AM
1	What women in their 30s seem to ignore is that the biological imperative for a man is slighty more forgiving than a woman and a man can get his shit together in his 30s or 40s, a woman who is 35 and is still holding out for a high tier man is absolutely done for. But women aren't, we're just past it when we reach our 30's.. major hypocrisy!	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/23 09:56 AM
1	What women in their 30s seem to ignore is that the biological imperative for a man is slighty more forgiving than a woman and a man can get his shit together in his 30s or 40s, a woman who is 35 and is still holding out for a high tier man is absolutely done for. Prioritize getting married young?.. and of those friends i know that married young at least 50% got divorced in time. One alone at 40, with a disability, her husband had been cheating for years. But she still found the love of her life, just as my own mother did at 45, as my partners mother did at 50. I met my partner at 33, had two children at 37 and 39 and still as happy as day one after 22 yrs. Would much rather meet someone as the person i became in my mid/late 20s than rush to marry as a 20…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/23 09:55 AM
1	What women in their 30s seem to ignore is that the biological imperative for a man is slighty more forgiving than a woman and a man can get his shit together in his 30s or 40s, a woman who is 35 and is still holding out for a high tier man is absolutely done for. Well said!	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/23 09:47 AM
1	How do straight guys feel about dating someone who would like to use a surrogate to have kids? The point is that women in USA are being convinced that over 35 means doom and gloom, highly monitored and scary pregnancies, that our babies won't survive, that they will have abnormalities and we will never be the same again. But look at other countries, with lower mortality and intervention rates. Our professional don't automatically say OMG she's 35, she should be monitored excessively, they don't scare us in to thinking our age automatically means we will stay in bed, with develop high bloo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/22 06:55 PM
2	How do straight guys feel about dating someone who would like to use a surrogate to have kids? It isn't that high a risk to have a child over 40, look around the world.. USA likes to scare women in to thinking everything will go wrong. The vast majority of my friends had children in later 30's, my own born at 37 and 39 without a single age related issue at all. My sister's healthiest of 5 pregnancies was her last when she was 39. We wouldn't be capable of conceiving at 45 or even 48 if our bodies were not able to carry the child to term. I had a C section with my first, unfortunately she …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/22 09:42 PM
1	Question for Red Pill: How do you explain women who don’t date “bad men”, never cheat, have male friends that aren’t interested romantically or only date average men? It works both ways, people meet online and fall in love without ever being subject to hormonal levels. Attraction can include things this subtle, just as make up wearing adds to attraction, clothing, perfumes and to the million other factors involved. Even without birth control our bodies hormone level fluctuate quite dramatically, it doesn't hinder love or attraction. Think of a woman in pregnancy, in majority f situations the love grows stronger, not lessens while her oestrogen levels are soar…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/22 08:55 PM
2	Unpopular opinion: For people on the spectrum, moving abroad helps a great deal in terms of dating My 'mental problems'..? I don't have any that i know of.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/22 08:50 PM
6	Unpopular opinion: For people on the spectrum, moving abroad helps a great deal in terms of dating well put... my long time partner is a native of my new country, but that helped me adjust to the new cultures and raise children with a better concept of life here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/22 06:15 PM
5	Unpopular opinion: For people on the spectrum, moving abroad helps a great deal in terms of dating Sorry but given i live in Sweden now this seems like such a copout.. the poor men couldn't cope with strong equal woman that wouldn't mother them, so they chose to bring submissive women here from Thailand so they could continue to be pampered as adults. Their wives will never leave them because many do not allow them to become educated, merely wanting a wife and mother figure.. not an equal in any way. I am so glad my daughters are strong young women that will live with men that anticipate equa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/22 06:08 PM
6	Unpopular opinion: For people on the spectrum, moving abroad helps a great deal in terms of dating text her with autistic gifs? Are you a person with autism or an autistic person? Do you make the autism more significant than the rest of 'you'. With anything that makes us different, I think its important not to overemphasize that aspect of yourself. I have lived with significant health issues that affect my day to day life for many years now, and while of course it is an important aspect of my life, it isn't more important than who 'I am'. If i started out speaking to people as me i create muc…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/22 05:59 PM
16	Unpopular opinion: For people on the spectrum, moving abroad helps a great deal in terms of dating Having lived it.. moved abroad i mean, dated abroad with new languages and in my homeland, and being settled with a native speaker in the country i now live in, it makes not one iota of a difference. more nervous and less natural.. 'not a great way to begin a relationship in any way. Why put extra pressure on people, why make it harder to express their true feelings, true desires and expectations. It was way easier dating in my homeland speaking with people that knew every aspect of my society, …	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/22 05:51 PM
2	Question for Red Pill: How do you explain women who don’t date “bad men”, never cheat, have male friends that aren’t interested romantically or only date average men? SO you view a couple.. how do you know whether she considers her partner sexy as hell vs 'below average'.? How we perceive the opposite sex is personal, what i find attractive in men my sister wouldn't like, same other way around. Outsiders don't get to decide if i consider my partner average or not, just as they cannot decide how i judge myself in those terms either.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/22 05:43 PM
1	Question for Red Pill: How do you explain women who don’t date “bad men”, never cheat, have male friends that aren’t interested romantically or only date average men? ho wants to get married should be sure his hypothetical fiance isn't taking hormonal birth control for their entire relationship before he proposes. Huh? What does birth control have to do with anything? Or you suggesting it changes women's ability to love? to communicate, be truthful etc?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/22 05:40 PM
4	Question for Red Pill: How do you explain women who don’t date “bad men”, never cheat, have male friends that aren’t interested romantically or only date average men? So how many 'exceptions' do you need to hear from to realise you might be wrong? You aren't meeting every single woman that is single, your friends aren't finding the one and only exception.. your concept is flawed because of bad experiences. Life is way too short to go in to relationships expecting the worst outcomes, try and view women more favourably and you might discover that in reality there are many nice women in the world too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/22 05:38 PM
4	Question for Red Pill: How do you explain women who don’t date “bad men”, never cheat, have male friends that aren’t interested romantically or only date average men? The 'only' exception.. unless you ask another happily engaged or married man?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/22 05:33 PM
0	Question for Red Pill: How do you explain women who don’t date “bad men”, never cheat, have male friends that aren’t interested romantically or only date average men? My thoughts entirely.. the majority of women in my life are like this. Very rarely come across anyone that isn't considered decent and kind by the OPs criteria. Am now in my 50's, live in Europe.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/22 05:32 PM
2	q4w: For all the strong, independent females, why is it so bad to be dependent on one man for the rest of your life? Because no human being ever needs to be dependent on anyone for our lives to be fulfilled, happy and rewarding! If I lost my partner of 22yrs I don't have to seek out another male to help me survive and enjoy the remain 20/30 yrs of life I have left! My life would be just fine with or without a man, however special this ones helps it to be right now! Life is not about dependency.. I learnt that before my teens.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/22 12:27 AM
2	Small/Big Dick Energy: what personality traits do women associate with penis size? 'perceived' size the saddest part of any research done.. (this article mentions dates only, i need to see sample sizes, ages, any bias from researchers etc before i make judgement on 'research findings'. (Research study creation was part of my degree education 20 yrs ago, just being published doesn't make it faultless research) Should women be affected because the models we see are nearly 6ft tall, that underwear models have perfect natural busts, perfect waist to hip ratio.. Or should we accept…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/22 11:10 AM
2	Small/Big Dick Energy: what personality traits do women associate with penis size? That cancelled out for everything else that could improve perceived confidence? All sounds like utter BS to me.. I am in my 50s now, had experience with men with all but tiny ones. Outwardly their confidence on outside not correlated in my experience. The one guy with extreme size was incredibly anxious because he'd had years if relationship failures because of it. Too much girth and sexual activity is impossible without pain, even oral impossible. it affected his confidence big time. He would s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/22 12:14 PM