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I’m 21, I would also like to know about this also. But the consensus on here is to lock down a good man to be your captain before hitting the wall to spend your life with. Men get “wife goggles” I have heard and will want to stay with you and also for the sake of the kids and being a good RPW (if you choose to have them).
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/21 07:48 AM
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I am working on a degree in college (I'll be going into my fourth year), and am looking for a partner there (although it's hard due to the hookup culture). I taught myself how to cook and clean and my mom taught me how to sew. I have been learning proper grooming since I had mistakenly thought that looks don't matter and did not do it in the past. I now know that looks do. I have been going to therapy to resolve past trauma and to be the best version of myself and not a SIW or SJW.
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/20 01:29 AM
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My goal is finding a husband and getting married.
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/20 11:27 PM
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How do I get over the fact that he did not want to marry me? I am in college and had a committed boyfriend for 9 months that I was intimate with. However, he told me that he wanted to travel after college and did not see us settling down in the near future so I broke it off with him. I am 21 now and am scared of dating another man that wants to travel. Where can I meet commitment friendly men that want to settle down?
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/20 11:25 PM
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I’ve bought some colorful animal onesies for my self! I feel very happy in them! I found some good deals, so they’ll be good for winter. I have also ordered some jade rollers/Gua sha for the face and it makes me feel very relaxed.
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/20 10:03 PM
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Most of the Victoria’s Secret models I’d say are feminine with feminine personalities. Some have YouTube channels. (Being as skinny as them isn’t necessary though) Doutzen Kross, Romee Strijd, I enjoy watching their videos. Both are really sweet and handle their fame well. Hillary Duff, Jessica Alba I also like watching vogue and watching the makeup videos. I find it interesting because feminine women from all over the world are feautured on the channel and most of the looks and makeup routines …
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/20 06:27 AM
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What helped me with this is deleting Instagram, many photos are photoshopped and women know certain angles/lighting and have probably taken many many pictures in order to get one that looks that good (or/and hired a professional photographer). Also, most of these “influencers” and models seem to rely heavily on their looks to get by and might be more insecure about their looks than you. Most people are too busy worrying about their own looks, to have time to judge/care about how you look. Men (a…
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/20 07:02 PM
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Upvoted, I like their embraceable bras
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/20 05:58 AM
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I strongly agree with Kara’s comment
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/20 11:46 PM
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Tell him calmly that you don’t feel comfortable that he is talking to this other girl and your reasons like you fear him cheating. If he is a good man, and loves you, he will listen to you and how it’s making you feel. Since you mentioned that the relationship has been 5 years, I suggest that you spice things up for a while, perhaps in the bedroom, cooking, wearing makeup (whatever his preference), working out. It will make you feel healthier and happier from bringing out your feminine energy, a…
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/20 11:45 PM
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He wanted to travel alone, without me for a few years or more.
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/20 12:34 AM
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Update: Thank you ladies for your advice! I have finally met a decent man online with a good career and has been showing strong beta and alpha traits and is also taller than me (I’m a tall woman). He seems like he is secure in his masculinity and in who he is. I have been texting him for the past few days and he called me and he has asked me on a date for this weekend! (We might have to sit 6 feet apart though but that’s okay and I will inform my family members on where, when, and who I am with …
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/20 04:21 AM
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Is it possible for men to want to protect you if you’re tall?
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/20 03:05 PM
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I like to buy my lingerie from Soma
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/19 03:10 PM
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I’m 20F, I also agree with another commenter that college is a toxic place in this day and age. I remember sulking about not having one and worried that I would never find a good man when I was 18 and 19. I met my now boyfriend (19m) in class last year and we are still together and plan on living together and buy a house when we graduate and are all done with school. (It started when I asked him on a study date :) I am also somewhat stressed out about my future although I have figured out finall…
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/19 05:21 PM
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You need to make sure that the man is a good man by vetting in order to not get abused. Also, you can still be competitive and ambitious in a feminine way.
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/19 09:04 PM
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I personally think that men and women are “equal” in a relationship, in that they contribute equally, but in different ways. The woman submits to the man’s lead. The man provides security (at least emotionally & physically & maybe financially) and the woman provides caring (emotionally, physically, & maybe domestically). I personally would not want to be involved in a relationship in which the man views women as inferior.
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/19 08:15 PM
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I have been dating him for a few months and am very much in love, but am wondering about the general consensus on here
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/19 09:37 PM
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I have been dating him for a few months and am very much in love, but am wondering about the general consensus on here
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/19 09:37 PM
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There’s a big hookup culture and no one thinks about or talks about marriage, so unfortunately I don’t think he’d stick with me without putting out.
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/19 09:30 PM
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I would have to join a dating site and find one, I haven't found one yet
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/19 08:51 PM
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You definitely need an abundance mentality
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/19 04:45 PM
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Oh, ok, thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/19 05:13 PM
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Oh how? I didn’t link to them
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/19 03:51 PM
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I’m a woman...
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/19 02:30 PM
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Like lifting storage boxes and groceries to the car. I wouldn’t allow a man that’s not my boyfriend to be in my house or room. Also, I politely decline gifts that are not from my boyfriend.
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/19 09:23 PM
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I used to be like that and I agree with another user in that it was CPTSD. I studied hard, was extremely athletic, and was overly competitive. I think I just had some FLEAS from my household and was very influenced on feminist and blue pill ideas. What worked for me was to think “How would a man that I desire want me to be/act like?” So I started and faked it until I made it. Wearing skirts, dresses, etc. Feminine and modest. Smiling to men (don’t have to smile to all men, maybe just pleasant on…
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/19 01:12 AM
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This reminds me of my current SO! Comes from a lower socioeconomic class, but is smart and works hard in college to be able to provide for his future family. I think I got the best of both worlds and feel extremely lucky to have him.
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/19 12:50 AM
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I think it’s mainly to get sex or a short term relationship. It won’t always work in an ltr though, which is what most of us focus on here. Some techniques absolutely won’t work in an ltr such as dread game, & “spinning plates”
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/19 02:04 PM
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He asked me where I want to live after college & what size house & sends me memes of proposals haha. (We’re one of those couples that sends cute memes to each other). And that we both wanted to live in the same area with same size house.
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/19 09:13 PM
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I feel like he’s all in in the relationship. I definitely don’t feel like he’s about to leave me or leave me over the summer. We talk about our plans a lot for when I return. It’s also unheard of getting married during college at my college, so I feel like he is as committed as can be without being married (because I don’t really want to be married during college either, maybe after college).
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/19 07:56 PM
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How much commitment? He told his friends about me, told me plans in the future such as V-Day, my birthday, his birthday, etc. He also asked if I told my parents about him & I said yes & that he told his parents about me as well. I also introduced him to my friends.
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/19 07:52 PM
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