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I don't think we need to conclude that "things have gone far enough" or that "We have gone so far in promoting women's equality that we are discriminating against men". Everybody just needs to recognize what the word equality means. It's not logically possible to go so far in promoting equality that we are discriminating more against someone, because then we are not promoting equality in the first place. We need to keep working for improving the situation for women and other disadvantaged groups…
/r/MensRights23/04/23 09:57 AM
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I don't see how any of that is relevant to the discussion?
/r/MensRights09/11/22 01:51 PM
4

But men have been forbidden from leaving the country, separating them from their children and wives.
/r/MensRights09/11/22 10:05 AM
3

Why would it get more people killed? They still send the same number of soldiers to war.
/r/MensRights06/11/22 04:02 PM
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There are various statistics to be found on the internet but here's one saying nearly 50% have had affairs. That's just about the act of cheating though. On top of that you need to add many other more morally ambiguous ways of betraying trust.
/r/MensRights13/05/22 09:34 AM
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You're in for a world of pain when she cheats on you. You think you trust her all the way up to the point when you realize she never intended to reciprocate that trust with loyalty or honesty. I'm not trying to be misogynistic here, men betray trust too. It's human. But if you're not prepared it will destroy you.
/r/MensRights13/05/22 07:16 AM
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I don't trust myself to be able to know who I can trust. Should I just never get married? My strategy is to risk trusting people when it's necessary, but there's no legitimate need for my wife to have my phone code. If she asks for it then that's a red flag IMO.
/r/MensRights13/05/22 06:57 AM
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I see only a single comment about her looks (one saying she has too much testosterone) and it has currently been downvoted to zero points. If people believe the picture to be serious then it's because it's entirely plausible that it would be, and it is nuts that this is the world we live in. I mean just look at shit like this.
/r/MensRights08/05/22 08:27 PM
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I wouldn't say cowardice is their primary defining trait. They are just cold-blooded, calculating businessmen with empathy for no one except their shareholders. It's not "I have to fire you cause you're unethical", it's "I have to fire you cause you're not profitable".
/r/MensRights04/05/22 09:47 PM
5

Hard to tell. I felt unable to convey to her how serious my issues were, the nature of her responses was just "it'll be alright". It felt like pats on the back and she didn't dig deeper or ask more questions about it. My sense is that it was due to her prejudice about me for being a man, that she thought I'd be able to just take it. If I was a woman she'd consider me more fragile and would probably have followed up more. I'm sure the underlying cause is social attitudes but a consequence of them…
/r/MensRights02/05/22 06:58 AM
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“A lot of therapists I saw said, ‘I never thought about it like that.’ I’m paying for them to help me, and a lot of times, I would be opening their eyes to the whole situation.” This echoes how I felt seeing a therapist. She had no idea what I was talking about. It wasn't about height but other issues that men face, and she just couldn't believe that they were real problems. Complete lack of empathy. It's one of those things that I really feel have to change to achieve gender equality. Therapist…
/r/MensRights01/05/22 10:40 PM
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I don't follow the logic if there is any. Evolutionary psychologists say that women tend to be more attracted to men who are more highly educated and/or out-earn them because sex can bring great costs for women How is fixing the college gap going to solve the fact that women are looking for men who earn more than them, unless we are willing to accept a pay gap? I doubt saying "sure I earn less than you but I'm very educated" is going to cut it when she's looking for someone to support her financ…
/r/MensRights18/04/22 07:45 AM
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... right here?
/r/MensRights11/04/22 04:53 AM
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I never said it was my reasoning. OP asked why people get upset by the word.
/r/MensRights10/04/22 09:28 PM
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Go figure, I didn't know that
/r/MensRights10/04/22 09:27 PM
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This is the explanation OP was asking for. Why is it at -2 points? Just because you don't like it doesn't make it the wrong answer to the question.
/r/MensRights10/04/22 02:27 PM
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"Female" has been and is still intentionally used by some people who want to put down women as some thing that isn't quite human or something that deserves empathy (e.g. pickup artists). It's the word a scientist would use when describing his laboratory specimens. Among some people who make this cold scientific-sounding choice of words there's this idea that the "female" owes us sex because that what it was made to do. So yeah, it gives off bad associations. It doesn't necessarily mean that you …
/r/MensRights10/04/22 02:25 PM
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In the long term, this transational approach would backfire on women History has shown that people like this are unable to consider long term consequences of their ideas. And when things go bad they can always find a way to blame everyone with a penis.
/r/MensRights06/04/22 05:16 AM
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Also, more men than women are being pushed out of the workforce so don't try to make this sound as if it's primarily a problem for women.
/r/MensRights06/04/22 05:13 AM
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As far as I can recall it's actually more common among women than men to hold traditionalist views, but regardless of the specific numbers it is roughly equal between genders. Counting people at women's rights marches is not a good measure of this. Women with traditionalist views won't say no to "more rights" on the face of it, and will gladly go to a "women's rights" march. But it's lopsided. They still want their men to pay their bills, go to war for them, stay out of the laundry room, and so …
/r/MensRights04/04/22 07:28 AM
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Don't assume malice when ignorance is a sufficient explanation. I believe this is the effect of people not understanding or caring about the long term consequences of their agenda. They only see what's in front of them, are influenced by selfish motives, their world view is distorted by spending too much time in echo chambers and they suffer from tribalism. This sub also suffers to a certain extent from these problems btw, and if we were to take over the world I think we would overcorrect in the…
/r/MensRights03/04/22 09:11 AM
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Sounds like a great chance to make new friends to me. The best thing you can invest in is other people.
/r/MensRights30/03/22 05:54 AM
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I'd say anyone whose self worth is unfazed even though the entire opposite sex considers them undesirable, is either a sociopath or not human.
/r/MensRights07/03/22 06:36 AM
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My ex wife specifically said when she divorced me that she was turned off because I always just accepted when she said no to sex.
/r/MensRights06/03/22 12:30 PM
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I don't care about the karma but the implication of the downvotes still makes me sad. To me they indicate that the majority of people here have their minds fixed on a prejudiced "women bad, men good" doctrine, just like FDS and TwoX but opposite. I wish people in both camps would understand that they're making the same mistakes that they accuse each other of, and that it's just making the situation worse. (Had to repost this comment since i I wasn't even allowed to link to those subreddits)
/r/MensRights02/03/22 06:55 AM
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In this sub there's a lot of "man can't find girlfriend, women to blame" type of talk though. We all have issues to deal with. The solution isn't to just put blame on the other sex but try to understand each other.
/r/MensRights01/03/22 09:13 PM
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The lion, the witch
/r/MensRights22/02/22 01:29 PM
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Please explain. What is fake about what I said? I'm sorry if it ignored your point, but I think it gives an opinionated and dishonest impression when you pick and choose among facts to produce an unbalanced narrative. This often seems to happen with feminists and I felt that I saw some of the same rhetoric here, which is why I wanted to speak up about it. We need to be better than that. If I've got the facts wrong then I'm happy to learn.
/r/MensRights06/02/22 08:11 PM
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Equality is a complex multivariate issue and I agree that the typical self-proclaimed feminist vastly oversimplifies it to the point where it becomes destructive and hypocritical. It's never just "all men" or just "all women" that are victims of abuse of power. But are you really going to act as if women weren't forbidden from voting, couldn't divorce (but the husband could), were discouraged from making their own living, and so on? That seems to me like making that same mistake of not being hon…
/r/MensRights06/02/22 12:22 PM
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No man don't do that, just leave it and OP can make his own judgement based on the discussion.
/r/MensRights03/02/22 06:11 PM
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Where "old enough" would be something like 25. Otherwise I would only suggest this as a last resort, as the kid really won't want to risk putting either parent in prison or similar. And if his parents split up because of this he's going to blame himself.
/r/MensRights03/02/22 05:07 PM
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They are a jerk, just ignore them and check the other help that more rational people have offered.
/r/MensRights03/02/22 05:04 PM
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That sounds like a generalization
/r/MensRights18/01/22 06:52 AM
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School really shouldn't act judge, jury and executioner when there are actual crime accusations. They ought to notify the police and let the justice system handle it. In this case it's either rape or libel (or both, depending on local laws).
/r/MensRights08/01/22 08:21 AM
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OP, you should make that a no-participation link.
/r/MensRights28/12/21 12:43 PM
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Very well put. I can think of three components in "punishment": revenge for the victim, rehabilitation for the perpetrator, and protection for the next would-be victim. I don't think the first helps anyone. Therapy for the victim would be better. The other two conflict with each other to some extent. If we were only interested in protection and not rehabilitation we would just lock all dangerous people up. Letting them back out in society again means taking a risk that they will relapse, but on …
/r/MensRights27/12/21 09:27 AM
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That's because they become more interested in revenge than in a better society. Typically you're better fit to make the right choice when you're not up to your neck in feelings. What concerns me though is that not enough is being done to prevent her from doing the same to someone else. She should be locked up until she's rehabilitated enough to be among people safely.
/r/MensRights27/12/21 07:34 AM
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Those women aren't worth your time or effort anyway. Just keep looking. Like men, women come in all sorts and varieties. I got ghosted recently because I didn't pay for her coffee on the first date, and I'm just glad she showed her colors right away so I could move on.
/r/MensRights18/12/21 04:35 PM
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No
/r/MensRights05/12/21 08:07 AM
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I stand corrected. I was about to say exactly what you said a while ago and was sure I found writing on Wikipedia and in other places saying that the law was changed around 2015-ish, so I had to drop that argument at that time. But now I can't find it.
/r/MensRights04/12/21 08:27 AM
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Not in the UK anymore
/r/MensRights04/12/21 07:03 AM
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So what do you suggest we do?
/r/MensRights29/11/21 10:23 PM
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Misandry in music can totally be a problem but come on, this video is polarizing and disingenuous. It literally tells the viewer to choose between two imaginary camps. It's a false dichotomy. There's plenty of misogyny in music as well, and tons of love songs by women that celebrate men. Stop trying to turn women as a group into the enemy, that's not what men's rights is about.
/r/MensRights14/11/21 07:27 AM
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Oh, also they'll look down upon you if you make less. I think this part doesn't get enough attention even in egalitarian discussions. Why are men more likely to work more overtime, take more risks, strive to make a lot of money? My theory is that ultimately, most men are motivated by a desire to be attractive to the opposite sex because guess what, those are the people who will spread their genes to the next generation of men. If there's an earnings gap then it was created by women who desire me…
/r/MensRights26/10/21 09:36 AM
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I think by "wage" most people mean just "what comes into my account every month" not "how much i get for a specific task over a specific unit of time".
/r/MensRights26/10/21 09:21 AM
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This subreddit contains way too much generalization about women. It's extremely important to stick with discussing the issues men face, call out specific individuals who feed into the problems, but not blame an entire gender for men's issues. IMO it would help if the sub was moderated harder to get rid of blatant prejudice / misogyny. Everybody here knows that not all men are alike and the same is true about women. Even naming feminists as the enemy is bad faith and counterproductive. There are …
/r/MensRights21/10/21 08:52 AM
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I wish they would rather have changed it to teach about consent and self-defense to both boys and girls, though. But if she was going to be the teacher then it's probably for the best to that nothing came of it.
/r/MensRights10/10/21 09:36 AM
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More like pedophile apologist, judging by their comment history
/r/MensRights05/10/21 02:50 PM
1

It's really not that simple. You make sacrifices when you love someone because you want to help them fulfill their dreams. Also there may be practical considerations like "we can't feed our kids unless the person with the higher salary works more." In an ideal relationship you're a team and do selfless things (but in an ideal relationship you also don't separate).
/r/MensRights05/10/21 11:39 AM
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Alimony could theoretically boost equality if it was equally and fairly applied to both men and women. The idea is that if you've forsaken some of your career to help your partner's career then you should get some of that sacrifice back if you part ways. In practice though I think it's too hard to make a fair judgement about it. How can anyone know what a career would have looked like if you didn't enter a particular relationship?
/r/MensRights05/10/21 08:16 AM
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I'm on OP's side in this of course, but... what's happening here is exactly what this sub typically argues should happen when genders are reversed. It's what needs to happen to protect people against false accusations. Not saying it's a false accusation here, but it's word against word except for that email. That's what the judge has to go on. It sucks to be in the situation, but how else do we care both for victims of abuse and the falsely accused?
/r/MensRights17/09/21 05:28 AM
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No, men don't want anything consistently as a group.
/r/MensRights11/09/21 09:54 AM
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Shit can happen regardless if you provide a consent form. If you try to avoid trouble this way you're just going to lose your mind and/or become depressed about how nonsensical society is. I'm not going to say the legal system is anywhere near perfect because it is clearly not. But in your private sex life, it's a self-destructive battle to fight. No matter how the legal system works, dangerous people (both men and women) will always exist, so you should strive for reasonable habits that reduce …
/r/MensRights10/09/21 02:42 PM
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This may be to protect the teacher more than the kid. They need an alibi in case some parent throws accusations at them.
/r/MensRights27/08/21 04:38 PM
-1

You must be fun at parties
/r/MensRights29/07/21 07:11 PM
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But those aren't the only two options! This is the right answer. It's a logical fallacy called a false dichotomy, and should be called out as such.
/r/MensRights29/07/21 06:15 AM
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Disregarding the rape discussion, not having your first sex with someone when she's intoxicated is probably a good idea. Two beers is enough to affect the judgment of both of you, and besides, sex while drunk usually isn't very good anyway. Just get her number and call the next day. If she's not an asshole she may even be impressed. You will feel better about yourself, and there's less risk of false rape accusations.
/r/MensRights29/07/21 06:12 AM
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"I'm a rapist!? No you are! Two can play at this game sister."
/r/MensRights29/07/21 06:00 AM
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That woman in the first article is probably not just emotionally abusing her husband. She's also abusing her son. "He looked eerily like our son does when he gets chastised." If she is following her son around always telling him how he does things wrong, he'll grow up insecure and unable to take his own initiative at home. I worry that this is what my ex wife is doing to my children. If I ask them to do something, they are afraid to just try, they always have to check with me exactly how to do i…
/r/MensRights04/07/21 03:24 PM
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A Sarpy County sheriff's deputy testified that he interviewed a 13-year-old boy who admitted to having sex with Greer on three occasions at her home near the Chalco Hills Recreation Area. The boy admitted to having sex. Jesus the way they phrase this is a disgrace. The boy was not admitting anything, he's not the one at fault. And it was rape, not having sex. Imagine the outrage if that phrasing was used with genders reversed.
/r/MensRights30/06/21 11:58 PM
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This is one of the things that felt most unfixable about divorcing. Even if I find a new relationship, I will never be able to reach the level of love and respect that you can get from learning about each other for 50 years.
/r/MensRights25/06/21 08:05 PM
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Good point. If there were a subreddit named womenrights though, do you think it would have made any difference? Even if the point of the new sub was only to be against that particular subreddit.
/r/MensRights24/06/21 06:01 AM
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Realistically opting out through abortion is only an option for a short period in the early pregnancy. I think there's a valid and important argument that an abortion takes a heavier toll on the woman at least in the short term. It is an invasion of her body, disrupts an emotionally extremely overwhelming hormonal change, and having fetal remains come out of your body can be traumatizing. It's not something done lightly unless perhaps if you're a psychopath. So depending on what you mean by the …
/r/MensRights10/06/21 09:11 AM
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The points that bother me most are when they just seem to lack the capacity or willingness to understand. For example someone says "Men CAN opt out of becoming parents. It's called BIRTH CONTROL". Of course you use birth control if you don't want kids. The issue is that when someone tricks you by saying they're on the pill or damaging the condoms, or plain just says you are the father when you're not, there are no legal consequences. The system still acts as if you are a voluntary father with al…
/r/MensRights10/06/21 05:25 AM
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I wonder if it is really constructive to use women as a reference for whether we are in a good place or not wrt male suicide? As you point out, we are biologically different so it might not even be meaningful to compare. Who knows what complex chemistry affects suicide rates - if we knew that then maybe we'd already have pills that prevent suicide. Sure, if we know something that tends to help women that would also help men but society doesn't do, that's useful information. But the important thi…
/r/MensRights07/06/21 06:11 PM
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Regardless of how we interpret it, calling him spineless and saying "you deserve it" is not going to improve the situation.
/r/MensRights04/06/21 07:43 AM
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Maybe he came here looking for support? Try offering some advice on how to approach her about it, if you have it.
/r/MensRights04/06/21 06:49 AM
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Why do you think it tries to feminize men?
/r/MensRights01/06/21 03:59 PM
1

Date younger women with less baggage. I'm a guy getting a few years past 40 and, sure, the baggage from old relationships keeps building up. But I also deal with that baggage and learn from it. I've gone to therapists to talk about it, I've done a lot of soul searching and self-reflection, and I've changed a lot in the areas where I think I should do better. So, I like to think that my age means that I make for a much better, more stable partner. I know my good sides and my bad sides, and I have…
/r/MensRights28/05/21 01:22 PM
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You don't have to "raise another man's sperm." I was seeing a single mother for almost two years recently and we almost exclusively spent time together when her kids were with their dad. It was never about me providing for her - I had my home and she had hers, we paid for our own meals at restaurants, etc. It was about spending time together, supporting each other and, incidentally, amazing sex. And the thing is, the sex wouldn't have been what it was without the emotional attachment, understand…
/r/MensRights28/05/21 11:30 AM
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They wouldn't flirt with you if they didn't find you attractive, would they? The idea here is to read the cues and understand if someone finds you attractive, and not act if they don't. That way you won't be the creep. But also, that's the part that is nearly impossible to get right for a lot of people. Actually, perhaps it's impossible for all people. The ones that get it right a lot just happen to be attractive so they don't need to worry about reading the cues.
/r/MensRights28/05/21 10:15 AM
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That's way too general a statement. If you are 40 years old, almost every woman your age is a mother. Should you just stop dating at that point? IMO women who did not already have children are worse because, guess what, they are looking for someone to have children with. If you feel like you already had your share of children that's a problem. Also, fucking isn't the be all end all. If you're just looking to ejaculate you can take care of that on your own.
/r/MensRights28/05/21 10:07 AM
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I wish we lived in a world where she would just ask if she could kiss you instead of telling you to kiss her.
/r/MensRights28/05/21 10:03 AM
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Reading the hints is not that hard That's not an objective fact. It can be very hard depending on where you are on the spectrum and how self-confident you are. Historically I have tended to subconsciously dismiss any hints because I would believe I couldn't possibly be attractive to her. Once you have that problem it's easy to overcompensate by acting on anything that could be hints even though you never intuitively feel that they are. Which in turn leads to a lot of rejection, which gives you w…
/r/MensRights28/05/21 09:58 AM
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