ticklemyfat17 Archive

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6	Need some advice/encouragement on how to approach girls while I’m alone at a bar tonight.		ticklemyfat17	/r/seduction	14/12/19 03:10 AM

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17	Beating yourself up is actually far more damaging than we’re led to believe... Yes yes yes and YES. I’ve had this same exact problem all my life and still very much do. The Inner Critic is another good read on this topic, as well as The Artists Way which talks about this more from the creative point of view. For me, I criticize myself endlessly for not being further along as a filmmaker, and lo and behold, that mindset keeps me from making films. I finally pushed through and finished my first short, but still I had those voices saying it’s not good enough. But I’m happy an…	/r/seduction	23/12/19 01:55 AM
2	I feel like my Humor never progresses Yeah bro. That’s it bro. Full send always. Never hold back for no bitch. Excuse me	/r/seduction	18/12/19 04:08 AM
4	I feel like my Humor never progresses I have no idea. I would say if you’re making other people laugh and not women, perhaps you care too much whether the joke delivers whereas you’re comfortable delivering it around others. Maybe the advice then would be to not give a fuck what girls think of you. How to actually accomplish this feat? Fuck. Damn man. Idk. That’s why I’m here anyhow. Hey good luck man	/r/seduction	18/12/19 04:02 AM
1	I've stopped giving a fuck these days and I don't know if there's more holes in my social/flirting/texting game but at this point I'm taking more risks and it's either the chick or dude is going to join my reality and be appreciative of my value, or they don't exist. Simple as that. Dude I’m in the same exact boat. A girl slid into my DMs after I took some videos of her at a festival. She’s so good looking and we have so much in common that it drives me crazy thinking about her. I’m from NY and she’s from FL but I’m seeing her at a festival in March. This is one of those things that I haven’t been able to get over yet. I’ve come so far in so many ways, but man, beautiful girls destroy me. It’s my main insecurity and I so want to have this part of my life handled. It’s not e…	/r/seduction	16/12/19 04:37 AM
5	I've stopped giving a fuck these days and I don't know if there's more holes in my social/flirting/texting game but at this point I'm taking more risks and it's either the chick or dude is going to join my reality and be appreciative of my value, or they don't exist. Simple as that. I feel this. All this shit I’ve been reading and studying and what not is overthinking and logical and fucked because what is it for? Learning. Ok. Sure. I love learning. But what’s better is a gut check. Fuck everybody. You have to go for what makes you feel good. Fuck the rest and I’ll do what I know I have to do regardless of what other people say. They aren’t living my life. They have no idea what I’ve been through or am going through. They have NO say to judge anything that happens. That’s …	/r/seduction	15/12/19 06:20 AM
45	Matt Damon's Insight On Why You Should Not Fear Rejection Another perspective I liked, but this is great too and I’m trying to figure out how to merge them, but that when you approach someone you are doing it for YOU. You are approaching them because you want to and their reaction to that is none of your business. You are doing this because it makes you feel good.	/r/seduction	14/12/19 05:30 PM
3	Need some advice/encouragement on how to approach girls while I’m alone at a bar tonight. Hey thank you so much!!! I am there now and by myself and haven’t really talked to people much. It’s nice to know I’m not the only one who enjoys spending time on they own and isn’t sure how to navigate this social space lol. I’m here though and I’m trying and just don’t want to be hard on myself. I’m dancing alone in the floor and not having a bad time. I hope I talk to someone by the end of the night but if not, hey, I’m here! Haha. Thanks so much for responding I needed to hear that right now…	/r/seduction	14/12/19 05:05 AM
2	Need some advice/encouragement on how to approach girls while I’m alone at a bar tonight. Thank you! I figure if I say anything at all to a female tonight that’s great but I’m going to try to just be lighter on myself in general and see how that goes. I’m here to have fun.	/r/seduction	14/12/19 03:36 AM
3	Need some advice/encouragement on how to approach girls while I’m alone at a bar tonight. Thank you for this!! This is fantastic advice man. The last 2 times and others in the past I’ve been fixated on this “I have to talk to girls I have to talk to girls” idea that it just sets me up for failure and, more importantly, I’m not enjoying myself! I’m here to have fun. Best mindset to be in man. Women are attracted naturally to that and even if they aren’t, screw it man. We’re going out tonight for us. Good luck have fun stay safe my dude lmk how it goes	/r/seduction	14/12/19 03:35 AM
4	The Stylelife Challenge Day 5-30 Can we turn this into a full thread for everyone to participate in lol. I have to get in on this. Regardless keep posting updates this is great!!	/r/seduction	09/12/19 10:31 PM
2	Don’t hesitate Saw this girl at college a few times who was just like me, grabbing lunch alone and going off by herself. Saw her first in a theatre class and before I dropped out saw her one last time sitting by herself in the main dorm area as we were all listening to a student sing. I told myself this is my chance, I’m going to do it, go up and introduce myself. But I didn’t. And that girl always stayed in my mind. Don’t hesitate.	/r/seduction	09/12/19 06:52 PM
2	First date from irl pickup Thank you for the inspiration! I have this same problem. I know once I get over the barrier of approaching/getting to know a girl that I can do it. But that first step... it’s paralyzing. I have a question because I’ve started to do this to force my hand, and I’ve gone out to the bar 2 weeks in a row by myself to try to do this. So far, I haven’t approached anyone. First week I sat along the wall the whole night. Second week I casually talked to a couple guys. It’s progress for me, and I want to…	/r/seduction	09/12/19 05:12 PM
1	Cold Approach VS Online Game - The Best Way Meet Women Eh idk. Through friends for sure but meeting someone randomly in person is quite romantic and courageous. Still seems the best route imo but to each his own. I just have tried and failed enough online to make in person a priority	/r/seduction	06/12/19 04:00 AM
2	Cold Approach VS Online Game - The Best Way Meet Women I’m no expert in game but have a hard time believing this. Online game is forced. Women must appreciate the boldness of a cold approach and they’re hardwired to think in terms of body language which is impossible to gauge online. Girls that are seeking men online are out there to be sure, but as the other poster said the ROI just doesn’t seem worth it. Real social skills seems to me the best way to go, but again, I’m far from an expert at this lol. Very much learning from everyone here I just do…	/r/seduction	06/12/19 02:30 AM
10	I would like to share a very small technique that made a huge positive change when approaching someone Lmaoooo	/r/seduction	05/12/19 03:22 PM
2	How To Get Women To Invest In You I’m really glad you were here to offer the female perspective on this! Appreciate that. The general point in the post I learned a lot from, as I come off as too available when I’m talking to girls and want to learn how to correct this. The point of setting boundaries and having your own value hit home for me. I have a lot of ambition in life but when I’m around a pretty girl, I’m hopeless. I turned to this sort of “game” material as a way to try to get myself out of this. I don’t want to need th…	/r/seduction	04/12/19 10:25 PM
1	How To Get Women To Invest In You That part was one I cringed at as well, but it doesn’t detract from the subject and point of the post, which is really quite great tbh. I learned a lot from it. That part itself, as another poster said, was just bad writing. Doesn’t detract from the points made and how well they were thought out. I thank OP for sharing and taking the time to write all that. Maybe that particular event didn’t happen and another example could have been used, but it doesn’t matter. Great work OP	/r/seduction	04/12/19 10:09 PM
6	I'm starting to get that creeping feeling of entitlement Nothing wrong with feeling that you deserve something, but if you are turning girls away with conceited tendencies, it might be wise to look more inward than at the attractive outward appearances. There is nothing stronger than when you give up your reliance on these things.	/r/seduction	03/12/19 02:33 AM