tidalgrief Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
8	Women are getting it now. Slowly but surely. his behaviour is completely unacceptable. it's his responsibility to take care of his own child?? like wtf. anyway, I'm so happy to be childfree forever (and I'm glad that I don't date men in general lmao)	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/06/21 09:49 AM
19	Dad is a creepy LVM yes yes yes I fully agree!!!! the top priority is safety!!! I was horribly abused by my entire 'family'. I now have cptsd. it's hell. I suffer constantly and my physical health is in ruins too from all the stress. I'm now living alone and working (which is very hard to do as a chronically ill person). I am a very ambitious person and it HURTS that I couldn't go straight to college. but I would not have survived without making my own money!!! I'll probably go to college in my thirties. so be it. …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/04/21 03:24 PM
13	Dad is a creepy LVM I was sexually harassed by my birthgiver. I was in denial for a long time and it ruined my health (mentally and physically bc this kind of constant stress hurts your body too). PLEASE GET OUT AS SOON AS POSSIBLE!!!!! oh and I hate being oversexualized and stared at by creepy men too. that's understandable. I've started rolling my eyes at men who stare at me on the subway. I don't owe them anything. they can go f themselves.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/04/21 03:14 PM
2	We are the main characters of our lives. Yup this is why I'm planning on going no contact with my entire family. I'm tired of making excuses for abusers. I deserve love and safety.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/03/21 09:18 AM
29	Saw this on Twitter — horrifying I had a stalker as a teenager and I always asked myself why he became obsessed with me. I didn't even know this man. Today I would scream at him. My best friend did that when a man followed her. That pathetic POS got scared, shrieked and ran away lmao. Men like that are clowns who usually get easily intimidated when you fight back. I understand if other women would rather just run away (that's very reasonable) but I'm tall and filled with rage.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/03/21 09:14 AM
35	"The sheer amount of traffic a woman's body experiences..." I instantly knew where this was from, just from the title alone. I love how Gillian Flynn writes about women. She doesn't sugarcoat our suffering. I've devoured all of her books and I've been waiting for new ones for YEARS!! also I highly recommend watching sharp objects. It's an amazing tv show that accurately portrays trauma and transgenerational abuse and what it's like to grow up in a sexist and toxic af small town. Also.... I don't let any men near my body anymore and my life has improved b…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/03/21 10:19 PM
21	Davina McCall everyone - Pickmeisha supreme This stuff isn't extremely rare. I've lived in a bunch of places that were all very different from each other (a small town, a village, a major city etc). All those places had one thing in common: the violence against women. I am from a small town and violence against women was sth that happened very often. I got stalked, my best friend got followed and harassed by some worthless disgusting guy, a POS followed random young women and tried to drag them into his car etc etc etc. The things I just …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/03/21 04:01 PM
9	What wall? 70yo woman credits her beautiful life to staying single and falling in love with yourself. She's amazing!!! I definitely prefer to be single and I'll probably never date again. I love it when single women talk about their amazing lives. Self love is the best kind of love.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/03/21 01:33 PM
10	Pickminique is acting all smug and basking in the attention she's getting from the backlash. FDS mods over here like 😐 It annoys me that people like her call themselves 'journalists'. She has zero integrity and it's so easy to look through her bs. I don't know why anyone would take her seriously. Her journalism skills are complete 'ass garbage'. And that isn't abuse. That's just a fair assessment of her so-called work.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/03/21 09:38 PM
19	They're working overtime to take our rights. Please keep yourself aware and fight this shit! My heart goes out to the women in Arkansas. It's disgusting that men decide what happens to the bodies of women. They don't own us, their opinion should not matter at all. Imagine how much they'd whine if we took bodily autonomy away from men. I'm so angry. And some men actually think they are 'OpPreSsEd'. Ridiculous.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/03/21 12:38 PM
6	I would give my child my maiden name as their last name after this. Wtf he is supposed to support her instead of insulting her. I hope she left him.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/03/21 12:08 PM
13	What have you been spending your money on since you’re no longer wasting it on a terrible relationship/dating? I spent it on therapy that actually helps instead of having to depend on shitty unempathetic therapists who get paid by my insurance. A bad therapist does so much damage. A good therapist strenghtens you so much.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/03/21 07:43 AM
10	I've noticed that a lot of women here have toxic mothers. While it's true that mothers are often unfairly scapegoated for all of society's woes, it's important to remember that mothers also socialize their children to perpetuate patriarchy. (tw for severe child abuse. Nobody has to read this. I just woke up from nightmares like every single night and this post resonates with me) My 'mother' is an extremely evil form of a pickme. She's worse than the average dumbass douchebag we talk about on here. 'Mothers' like that groom their children to get violently destroyed and to develop stockholm syndroms etc. She punished and shamed me for doing healthy things for myself. I still feel guilty for wanting to make enough money to be independ…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/03/21 02:31 AM
7	Big thanks to this sub, and the issue with other dating subs I also don't agree with everything on here but with most of it. I am not interested in dating men but this subreddit is still very useful to me. I was abused by men and by my misogynistic 'family'. I'm now healing from that. FDS helps me to respect myself more and set strong boundaries.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/03/21 08:52 AM
9	Is this really how little society/men value women ? Yes. Last year I had a flatmate who told me he wanted to do very similar things to me and other women (rape, torture, murder). He also said that he doesn't need psychological help. It's scary that men like this exist. I need to take another self defense class.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/01/21 10:56 AM