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All the men who received these benefits from me were stingy and kept a tally of everything they ever paid for ("when we next go out it's your turn to pay." or "I paid for this coffee and that coffee so you need to pay for this now.") When I paid, they wouldn't thank me. I'm so embarrassed how long I put up with this exact behavior from my ex. He makes a great salary (he's still always broke because he's terrible with money) and yet he felt completely entitled to me bringing him treats and paying…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 04:07 PM
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Ooof it's past me. In my last relationship at the end when I was totally checked out and planning my exit I even started saying shit to him like "You can't act like that toward your next GF if you want her to stay." 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 05:57 PM
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And when they actually aren't lying the ex usually has a very good reason to keep them away (eg. Physical and/or Sexual abuse of her or the children.)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 07:10 PM
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Sounds like a romance scammer who is very bad at their job lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 06:53 PM
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This is entirely dependent on who their mom is as a person, and there are plenty of still married moms who have the same gross dynamics with their sons as you described here. I'd say the problem here that she was a narcissistic mother, not a that she was a single one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 06:52 AM
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This whole attitude/piece of propaganda is how we ended with an entire generation of men (millennials) who think they "deserve" a 10/10 conventionally attractive hottie no matter what they look like. This is why some men get SO PISSED when women express any kind of physical preferences for the men they date. They were socialized to believe that women aren't supposed to be "shallow" and should always "give the nice guy a chance!" while also believing that "men are visual creatures who need to be …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 10:00 PM
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Well you're very lucky then! That's extremely uncommon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 01:58 AM
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Women are literally socialized from birth to do this though. It can be really hard to break all of that social conditioning.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 10:15 PM
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A week is short enough for him to still be on his best behavior though, better make it at least a month imo lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 06:54 PM
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Okay this actually really cheered me up 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 04:47 AM
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Omg that entire account... Fix it Jesus! I really hope everything on there is satire, because if not this girl is 100% getting played by a narcissist who is most likely on the DL. Like I'm sorry but no straight dude, no matter how Christian, is gonna post tiktok with a shit eating grin about how they haven't even KISSED in a year 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 12:14 AM
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Guys like this love to tell on themselves. Like dude 99.9% of the time women starfish it's because you didn't turn them on enough and probably skipped all the fun foreplay and kissing that gets us into it. Like if you're just gonna stick it in with no foreplay and basically use a girl as a fleshlight then why would she put effort in...? So you can cum even faster and be even more disappointing? It's awkward af when you get in bed with a man you think you like and he's not trying to connect with …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 12:01 AM
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Yup! On the same note, DO NOT entertain men of other races who put you on a pedestal but can't get along with women of their own race.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 09:58 PM
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This attitude is a great way to get cheated on and taken advantage of 👍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 09:57 PM
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Now that I think about it, nope! But honestly most breakups I've witnessed in my life have been finally initiated by the woman after years of being disrespected and unsatisfied, with just a small sprinkling of those scandalous breakups where the man blows up his life for a shiny new toy he'll be bored of within a couple years. This is why we have to be so, so careful about who we get serious with. Men not wanting serious relationships is a myth used to gaslight us into rushing commitment with me…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 06:17 PM
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I saw it and thought the same thing. It's hard for me to feel pure happiness for them without knowing more context about the relationship. I've just seen too much shit. For her sake I hope that he's a good man and that she has the funds to make a gesture like that without it hurting her own financial situation at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 08:41 AM
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I'd bet all the money in my bank account that what was really so "hard" about that marriage for him is the forced self reflection that takes place when you are partnered with someone more emotionally mature than you. Guys like him will fight against self awareness with every fiber of their being, and blame everyone else around them for being sooo difficult by simply pointing out all the ways in which they are failing their marriage and family. In fact often their families don't even directly add…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 02:44 PM
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Bless his little brother for managing to be decent with nothing but shitty examples to follow <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 02:24 PM
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I could date someone who only worked seasonally IF they were stable in all other aspects, and were willing to do the bulk of the house work on their off months. Hell if I could find something seasonal to live off of I would. This guy sounds like a mess though, you made the right choice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 02:05 PM
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Embarrassing for her life and soul 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 12:31 AM
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I just say "Because I'm very picky." 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 02:58 PM
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> What were their reactions to me being a sugar baby? “God, don’t I wish I could have a hot MILF pay me for sex and give me gifts,” They are so delusional and self centered they immediately imagine a scenario where a hot older woman is somehow interested in paying for sex with them. I like to remind them that attractive young men can be sugar babies also, but they have also have nasty old sugar DADDIES. Because old rich men will always exploit young desperate people sexually whether they are str…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 04:06 AM
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Ugh my ex literally would not go to the store without me, and it was the most annoying thing in the world. Like if I didn't agree to go on whatever errand with him (to tag along like a sad fucking puppy while he walked way off ahead of me and completely ignored me) he would literally pout and not go. Then it was somehow my fault that he didn't get the errand done. And just guess how he acted whenever he came on one of my errands? Literally like a rude pouty child who wanted his mom to hurry up b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 03:47 PM
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The only way I would ever change my last name is if my partner and I were BOTH changing our names to something we chose together. If a guy wasn't willing to do that, but wanted me to change my last name that would be a complete dealbreaker.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 03:25 PM
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Megan's verse slaps tho
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 08:42 PM
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I think that book may hold some helpful insights, but the framing is problematic and out of date. The tone of the book to me is very much "Hey but did you ever think maybe it's your fault men treat you like trash?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 02:21 PM
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I literally yelled "GIRL GET IT" when I heard they were dating, so apparently I do more that give the benefit of the doubt 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 04:37 PM
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