| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 2 | How can people get hook ups or FWB relationship relationships without being manipulative or hurting?Be confident, be assertive but most of all transparent. Don't come at it from any other angle than you find them attractive and you'd love to fuck them. You come at it any other angle than that you'll come off as creepy or sleazy. | /r/seduction | 15/04/26 04:41 PM |
| -2 | Was having a good time with a girl last night, flirting the whole time, but she said she had a boyfriend. She wouldn’t let me kiss her on the lips, but we kissed on the cheeks/neck the whole night. How do I escalate better next time?If she's willing to act like that with you across her boyfriend, she sure as shit will act like that with other men across you. Taken women at best are fun and nothing more than that. | /r/seduction | 30/10/25 09:16 AM |
| 5 | How to initiate physical contact at a party?Playful way of initiating touch and boundary testing is if there's a game or something going on, root for them if you're standing next to them and just casual hip bump as if to "Go on". That tends to break barriers pretty quickly | /r/seduction | 16/10/25 12:50 PM |
| 7 | Is being a nice guy really that bad?The difference between being a nice guy and a good man is boundaries. You have to be sure of yourself, don't apologise for saying things that you mean. Don't be afraid of offending or upsetting anyone, but at the same time don't be a cunt with it. Women love a man who is confident in his decisions and assertive in his actions | /r/seduction | 14/10/25 10:58 AM |
| 7 | Is being a nice guy really that bad?This. Just this. | /r/seduction | 14/10/25 10:56 AM |
| 1 | What are some changes you made in your physical appearance that significantly improved your game?I do an 18/6 fast, I sometimes do a 36 fast from Thursday 6pm to Saturday midday. Longest I've done is 72 hours, it was fantastic. Just had a massive mixed grill to break it, felt amazing. | /r/seduction | 14/10/25 08:59 AM |
| 2 | What are some changes you made in your physical appearance that significantly improved your game?This. Intermittent fasting is a game changer | /r/seduction | 14/10/25 08:52 AM |
| 2 | Why do women lose interest when I start actively pursuing them?Stop pursuing. Soon as you do, you're changing your energy. The initial mystery and intrigue is replaced with "Oh, that's just (insert name". If I message and I don't hear anything back, I don't lose sleep over it. Guarantee a couple of days, if not the day after that little bit of intrigue will get them messaging me. Stay mysterious, don't put it all out there | /r/seduction | 01/10/25 08:42 AM |
| 1 | Why do women wanna “fix” a manSome women are healers at heart, spending a life time nurturing families and friends that they don't know any differently. Woman I'm currently sleeping with is a healer, and she has got some emotions out of me that have been buried which I'm eternally thankful for. But she knows I'm not committing, she's just helping. The toxicity of this kind of relationship comes from when women start TELLING you there's something wrong and then start getting defensive because you're not opening up to them. Th… | /r/seduction | 06/03/25 10:12 AM |
| 2 | For guys who got a vasectomy, how has it affected your game?Here's my experience. Women who particularly have daddy issues or are in to things like cream pies/breeding fantasy love it. They can have all the excitement and climax whilst zero risk of getting pregnant. I was seeing a mum for a bit who didn't want more kids, but was mad in to the whole getting pregnant fantasy. Mind blowing sex. She was a genuinely fun woman to be around and we could talk for hours because we knew what we wanted and it was gonna be nothing more than that. If it puts off a wo… | /r/seduction | 25/01/25 05:29 PM |
| 1 | How do you get a girl to have sex with you?Escalation/breaking barriers. There's loads of posts on this, but touch is a powerful thing. Now I'm not saying going full Trmp and grab her by the pussy. It's touch of skin like hands etc. Just search this sub Reddit | /r/seduction | 08/01/25 04:20 PM |
| 0 | How to convert from the lay to regular FWB?Second this. Spontaneous meetups are the key to FWB. Don't set anything in concrete or even hint at availability as this sets expectations and can lead to disappointment. | /r/seduction | 10/11/24 04:18 PM |
| 2 | How do I leave her?Speaking bluntly, if you strung her along into a relationship that you yourself weren't sure of in the beginning, that's your own fault. You owe that woman the decency to be upfront and honest to her face. You're gonna have to tread very carefully to minimise the shit storm that's about to unfold on you. "Love is like a fart, if you have to force it, it's probably shit" | /r/seduction | 09/11/24 10:38 AM |
| 1 | How to you guys maintain your confidence when shit goes wrongClosed loop interactions. Every conversation or date or interaction in general, treat it as a closed loop. Did it go well, great then the loop keeps going. Did it go badly? Ah well, learn from it and then "Close the loop", as in don't dwell on "Ah shit I'm such an idiot". Turn it in to "That was going well until xyz, I'm not gonna do that next time". Positive reinforcement rather than dwelling on the bad interaction and bringing yourself down | /r/seduction | 05/11/24 02:38 PM |
| 1 | How to give her the best sex of her life?Attentiveness. Make her feel like she's the last woman on earth. Every part of her skin is a path for your fingertips and lips to kiss. | /r/seduction | 05/11/24 11:31 AM |
| 61 | Full texting analysis - Getting laid with a goth chick from TinderGoth/alternative girls are where it's at. I don't know about the smoking thing though lol, known a lot of goth girls in my time, very few smoked. But goth/alternative girls are definitely kinkier and down for some more adventurous stuff than normal women. | /r/seduction | 31/10/24 03:42 PM |
| 21 | I developed strong stoicism in fieldI second this, and this doesn't sound like stoic philosophy, it just sounds like willful ignorance and complacency. Stoic mentality isn't something you just switch on when you want to, it's a way of living your life according to being the best person you can be. | /r/seduction | 27/10/24 08:29 AM |
| 1 | She is USING you if you are in the friendzone, this is why...Some women are just friends. There's a stark difference between the whole casual sex thing with someone who wants it, to just full on objectifying women as these vessels to procreate with. Appreciate someone for who they are and you'll have a lot of fulfilling moments with them. If you start seeing them in your minds eye with a certain expectation then you'll only breed resentment of that person's time when they're not like that. The amount of women I just talk to, and they're well aware of my h… | /r/seduction | 12/10/24 01:32 PM |
| 13 | Are same day lays possible in 2024?Absolutely! Met a woman for coffee at midday, in a hotel room that same night! | /r/seduction | 11/10/24 06:11 PM |
| 1 | Living with housemates with thin walls - what can be done?Housemates should be happy for you, I certainly would be if my housemate was getting some. | /r/seduction | 09/10/24 06:08 AM |
| 6 | How to touch a girl during a hookupYou put oil infused plant in the top of her, cover her head in foil and then a little charcoal on top of her? That's a weird warmup... | /r/seduction | 25/09/24 07:18 AM |
| 1 | How do you make a conversation emotional, instead technical?That's a better response to be fair 👌 | /r/seduction | 13/08/24 06:34 PM |
| 7 | How do you make a conversation emotional, instead technical?That's a perfect time to start getting into deep territory. Make them think about it. So if a woman said to me "Yeah, my ex bf was a bit of a dick because he gaslit me all the time", my response would be "I'm sorry to hear that, what do you feel is the most important lesson you learnt from that?" | /r/seduction | 13/08/24 05:29 PM |
| 3 | How do you make a conversation emotional, instead technical?Say for example, you get chatting about music and they say "Oh, I've seen XYZ band, they were great!". A follow up to that could be "When did you see them? Was there anyone else playing?". That's just an example, but it gets THEM talking and you listening | /r/seduction | 13/08/24 05:14 PM |
| 25 | How do you make a conversation emotional, instead technical?You need open ended questions. They make a comment about something they're going through or experiencing, just be inviting and don't give them any judgement. I'm the guy at the party that all the women offload there shit onto, can confirm | /r/seduction | 13/08/24 08:56 AM |
| 2 | I want to hookup with my neighbourNo, UK. | /r/seduction | 13/02/24 10:28 AM |
| 2 | I want to hookup with my neighbourYeah it's a big issue to be fair. Humongous turds everywhere. We have to pay the barrow man to take it away | /r/seduction | 13/02/24 10:24 AM |
| 1 | I want to hookup with my neighbourIt's a figure of speech | /r/seduction | 13/02/24 09:57 AM |
| 44 | I want to hookup with my neighbourDon't shit on your own doorstep 👍 | /r/seduction | 12/02/24 04:11 PM |
| 3 | 8 years of relationship and My Gf Cheated on me. 23MI'm speaking as someone who got out of a 9 year relationship last June. You don't sound ready by the comments on here. You honestly sound like you need to heal a bit first. I was sleeping with someone two weeks after I left my wife, and while it was great, it was just masking the trauma. Only now am I getting myself in the frame to go and cold approach and look after myself. Time is a healer, let time happen before you push yourself into doing something that sounds like you're not comfortable do… | /r/seduction | 12/02/24 05:45 AM |
| 4 | How to have masculine “energy” in a charismatic way?Think about the way you end your sentences/ questions. If you listen to a lot of people, they tend to leave on a higher pitch which puts across insecurity and doubt into what you're saying. End it on a lower tone, portrays a lot more confidence. | /r/seduction | 27/01/24 12:00 AM |
| 2 | 11 Panty-dropping Date IdeasSwing! And a miss... You want "panty dropping", you need peril. You need something truly exilerating for both people involved. "Dangerous" situations are proven to increase the sexual tension between two people and feelings of intimacy. | /r/seduction | 09/05/23 11:42 PM |
| 2 | Thoughts on DrDisRespect situation?Cheating is a shitty was thing. No two ways about it. But we have no clue to his home life or anythingvelse that may have swayed him into doing whatever it is that he did. There's a lot of people to quickly jump on the bandwagon and say the man is a pile of shit for what he did, and they feel self certified for taking that angle. Doing a shitty thing does not make you a generally shitty person. Even good Samaritans do bad things. Doesn't make them a bad person inherently. Also, this guy has a li… | /r/MGTOW | 16/12/17 12:00 PM |
| 1 | What is the source of loneliness? How did you get over the feeling?Enjoy being in your own skin and start to do things you enjoy. It might take you a few tries, some hobbies and things to pass time might not be your cup of tea. Once you are happy doing something on your own, you'll slowly learn to relax and just enjoy being you. Eventually, you'll realise yes, I am alone, but I don't feel lonely | /r/seduction | 01/09/17 09:04 PM |
| 1 | Why Nice Guys & Gals Finish Last in Love | Psychology Today (x-post from Psychology)That was a fucking good read! Thanks OP! | /r/seduction | 12/02/14 06:39 PM |
© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter