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For a first tinder meet up I think I did well. But, given the location I couldn't really escalate like I wanted. But, it was a great time. We just talked and walked around her campus for awhile. Did I mess up by not going somewhere to escalate? Should I just meet her again?
/r/TheRedPill09/11/17 10:35 PM
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Thank you for the elaborate explanation. Personally I told all LTRs in the past kids were a NO. Marriage was also extremely unlikely. I would like it but only after many years of screening and evaluation. I haven't found one who I think is truly worth it tbh. Because like you said it's like walking over a chasm on a bridge made out of paper. Which isn't a walk I need rn in my life lol. But I'll keep that in mind if I ever think about it.
/r/askTRP05/11/17 03:55 PM
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So no marriage but kids are ok? Could you elaborate on it? I always thought it was best to raise kids together.
/r/askTRP05/11/17 02:20 PM
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It's definitely not
/r/askTRP04/11/17 07:56 PM
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Why 6 months exactly? I was only thinking of marriage after a year or 2 of living together.
/r/askTRP04/11/17 07:56 PM
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I wouldn't say I need to. But, I wanted to at one point. I was raised in a conservative religious home. That's the only reasoning I can give you. I was raised in a home where marriage was successful and view as a holy sacrament. But, this doesn't match up with reality. I guess it's just a preference thing. Which I'll have to get over.
/r/askTRP04/11/17 07:53 PM
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Basically marriage was a possibility. As much as I read here on why not to do it. This LTR didn't present the same red flags. So, I was going to use moving in to test the waters. As she had promise. Stupid? Maybe. But, she showed me it's not worth it.
/r/askTRP04/11/17 07:49 PM
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Good idea. Just get it in my name lol. I'm definitely not this time though. No point.
/r/askTRP04/11/17 07:42 PM
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I'm not ignoring anything. I clearly said no lol. Plus, I was asking everyone about their opinion on moving in with an LTR.
/r/askTRP04/11/17 07:41 PM
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Yeah I was looking to save money. She has been good with money. We usually split everything so I thought it could work out here. But, after that temper tantrum I'm out.
/r/askTRP04/11/17 07:40 PM
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I guess you're right. My reasons are logical too
/r/askTRP04/11/17 01:49 PM
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I saw the video interview of Rollo and he wasn't opposed to it. Tbh I wouldn't mind getting married in the future. But after I've perished my dreams and figured out what I want. My father has never married and he said because he doesn't believe in divorce. So I guess there's that.
/r/askTRP04/11/17 01:06 PM
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Doing that now. It's pointless tbh I feel like she's using me to leave her moms house lol f that
/r/askTRP04/11/17 01:01 PM
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What habits do you think create the ideal man? I'm trying to pick some good habits up to practice throughout November
/r/TheRedPill02/11/17 05:21 AM
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In comparison to my city those are both amazing haha. I would definitely go with the cheaper one and living alone. I wish I had that problem lol.
/r/askTRP30/10/17 01:59 PM
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Respected obviously. I'm deleting tinder.
/r/askTRP18/10/17 10:55 PM
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I guess I didn't look at it like that. Lately I have been feeling like it's a waste. But, every interaction good or bad leads to some new understanding. I guess that's what it's all about.
/r/askTRP18/10/17 07:10 PM
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I got you.
/r/askTRP18/10/17 07:08 PM
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Yup, I get exactly what you mean. It's important to talk to as many girls as possible. Right now it's about 5 for me. So letting them sit is easy.
/r/askTRP18/10/17 06:09 PM
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I guess I should be thankful. I don't need to waste any more time. Especially on women.
/r/askTRP18/10/17 06:07 PM
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That's what I'm saying. So I just mentioned a meet up to not waste time. A call sounds good. I've had little success with it recently though.
/r/askTRP18/10/17 06:06 PM
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Question is how to get them interested 🤔
/r/askTRP18/10/17 06:01 PM
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For the one I met irl she was very responsive. Initiation? The convos never exactly stopped. Unless one person went to sleep. And we'd be talking lightly throughout the day. But, yeah she just fell off at the mention of a possible meet up. Which I don't understand since everything else was good. But it could just be validation/attention like you mentioned. I just don't like this trend
/r/askTRP18/10/17 03:46 PM
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I did I'm saying she ghosted after agreeing to it lol. I guess I'll hard next.
/r/askTRP18/10/17 03:20 PM
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lol I like that
/r/askTRP17/10/17 12:20 AM
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I guess you're right I'll just unfollow and not approach unless it's unavoidable.
/r/askTRP16/10/17 09:11 PM
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Yeah I meant "don't I now you from somewhere?" Too lol. That zipper statement almost made me spit my out my drink Tbh when I meet ppl from social media. I usually let them find out. One coworker was on my friends list but I didn't know. A friend actually told me. I just didn't say nothing. She found out and told me that she stalked my FB. So usually I just let them find out organically because my name stands out. But I was thinking maybe telling them would be cool like with guys. But I'll not do…
/r/askTRP16/10/17 08:59 PM
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my ex tried to play me and said it's not "that big" lmao that fcked me up. We good tho ✊🏾
/r/askTRP16/10/17 07:23 PM
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As a black man I want to say I hope you don't resent us over this. It sounds like you're a little salty/bitter over it. Which is reasonable. I'll say just ghost this bih immediately. You are definitely worth more than that. Plus her treating us like a fun "bucket list" event is corny. I'm assuming she's white? Tbh white girls do this often. They always emphasize my blackness. It's annoying. Run nigga run.
/r/askTRP16/10/17 07:13 PM
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I'm black too is 7.5 really top 2%? I'm 7 something lol 6'2. I thought something like 9in would be top 2%
/r/askTRP16/10/17 07:08 PM
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Bro I TRY to get rejected at least 5 times a day lol
/r/askTRP16/10/17 05:44 PM
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Just focus on details of your life. You'll be changing frames throughout the day. Just focus and enjoy the details. Stay on track and be mindful of your environment.
/r/askTRP16/10/17 05:11 PM
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I was sick a lot in high school. Alone at 3 months at a time. But, I never let it get to me. I bounced back. Kept in touch with my irl friends. Made some new ones online.
/r/askTRP16/10/17 11:16 AM
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Yea ik lol
/r/askTRP13/10/17 09:22 PM
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Lol no way
/r/askTRP13/10/17 09:18 PM
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She's a former co worker who always seemed to have an interest in me. We bumped into each other and I suggested it. Then got her number. So not exactly a random on tinder. But not someone I've been with. It would be date 1
/r/askTRP13/10/17 09:18 PM
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Yeah that was my mistake.
/r/askTRP13/10/17 09:15 PM
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We used to work together and she's always given me IOIs. She doesn't work at my job anymore obviously. I should've said Saturday at 2pm meet me at _____. But I wasn't sure about my own schedule. She does have a kid too so with that and gaming others like you said I believe it. She's very attractive so I assume she has a phone full of people. It's no biggie really. I'll just keep it moving.
/r/askTRP13/10/17 07:59 PM
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Agreed. No response is a response
/r/askTRP13/10/17 05:43 PM
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I had other stuff to do. But, it was a traditional "hey let's get ramen date". Idec she's SOL imo.
/r/askTRP13/10/17 05:43 PM
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I like it. I've been meaning to read that. I will after models. And yeah she didn't respond to a simple Hey. So Ima cut it
/r/askTRP13/10/17 05:41 PM
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Yeah, I wouldn't LTR her anyway she has a kid lol. Thanks again mate.
/r/askTRP13/10/17 05:39 PM
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Thank you for this I saved it. I'll walk away from this because it's disrespectful. Even if she's busy.
/r/askTRP13/10/17 02:33 PM
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Done
/r/askTRP13/10/17 02:31 PM
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Perfect response! I guess I was thinking why not try her again. But, really she blew her chance so it's no use wasting my time. I usually have high standards. I can't make exceptions even if they're pretty or seem interesting. I won't tolerate anything less than great from them. Thank you for the reminder I've been slipping. I'll remember that last line.
/r/askTRP13/10/17 02:30 PM
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I wasn't there but it seems like you should've escalated. She showed you an ass tatt? And you didn't escalate right there??? I would've took that opportunity. I'm not sure about your second question. Just go with your gut.
/r/askTRP13/10/17 01:53 PM
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I just ignore them.
/r/askTRP12/10/17 08:08 AM
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I keep hearing about that opener. I'll remember for tomorrow and this weekend! Congrats on your success too bro
/r/askTRP12/10/17 08:06 AM
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I never thought about that. It's a race. Very well said sir.
/r/askTRP11/10/17 10:25 PM
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The only time I had a call was when she asked to call me. That resulted in a meet up the next day. I guess that's the reason why. I haven't tried calling anyone irl or online. Maybe I should try? How do I go about that without looking creepy? I have a few well taken photos. Maybe I need new pictures though.
/r/askTRP11/10/17 03:41 PM
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I try different openers. No retarded catch phrases though. I try to get a number as soon as possible. After getting the number I go for a meet up. Which I only did once.
/r/askTRP11/10/17 02:43 PM
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You're right ig. I won't bother then unless it's really obvious.
/r/askTRP04/10/17 02:46 PM
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Would only getting like a glass of water also count? Or just literally walk in and sit there? That sounds interesting it'll let her make the first move.
/r/askTRP04/10/17 02:44 PM
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What do you mean I have to let them game me? I'll keep working on my SMV. So, I'll have a higher success rate.
/r/askTRP04/10/17 12:20 AM
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This is good. I noticed the ones I had conversations with ended up giving me a number. So, for now on I'll build rapport and if it goes well I'll ask them out like you said. Then contact info. Sounds like I got work to do this weekend.
/r/askTRP04/10/17 12:19 AM
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You say that like I was harassing the woman. I just asked and went about my business. I was respectful to her of course. But, is rather ask than regret later.
/r/askTRP04/10/17 12:17 AM
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Yeah I wasn't even bothered. But, I wanted to know if bartenders was off limits. Now, since you told me that Ik. I'll work on my SMV and try them anyway. If they're not down fuck it.
/r/askTRP03/10/17 09:38 PM
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Hmm... I guess lift? Aside from that I'm lost. Maybe a new hairstyle
/r/askTRP03/10/17 09:14 PM
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I'll do just that. I have it downloaded. And ty I thought I was doing terrible
/r/askTRP03/10/17 09:13 PM
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That's the hard part for me tbh. Differentiating her being friendly and real ioi's. There was one time at a restaurant this girl gave me the biggest smile and did a weird head tilt lol. So my boy was like "BRO YOU COULD'VE GOTTEN HER NUMBER THAT WAS I WANT THE DICK SMILE" I was puzzled tbh. I didn't see it like that and kept it moving. Maybe that was an ioi but my problem is identifying them
/r/askTRP03/10/17 08:58 PM
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I'll keep this in mind. You're right. That's why I shrugged it off.
/r/askTRP03/10/17 08:55 PM
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Right. I'll do that then.
/r/askTRP02/10/17 02:09 PM
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This
/r/askTRP23/09/17 01:50 PM
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I'll try for pushing for more than a number. I feel like it could be lack of SMV. But, I'm tall and handsome. Dress really nice too. It could honestly be me being awkward in conversation. Or texting without much purpose too. There was a few that hit it off with me well so I'll suggest a nearby place. Going to work harder on my SMV in the meantime.
/r/askTRP23/09/17 01:02 PM
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Run away bro
/r/askTRP22/09/17 10:43 PM
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I agree with you 100%. Women are everywhere. You don't HAVE to meet them in a bar.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/17 12:28 AM
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How would you react when your plate starts talking kinda disrespectful. Like cursing at you in a playful/disrespectful way.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/17 04:51 PM
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Is the bar/club any better than those sites? Ik ppl who only go to bars lol
/r/TheRedPill14/09/17 04:48 PM
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I gotta work on the looking at their actions and not words. This was a great example. Whetstone reminded me of MH lol
/r/TheRedPill13/09/17 01:48 PM
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Ok, thank you for the response. Its definitely helpful. I've never been to a club but I'm giving it a whirl this weekend. Social circles are the same for me. I definitely need to expand in that area though. That's true though I'm far from the Rock. I'm more of "The Stick" lol. 6'2, but really thin. Working on bulking now though. I have nothing to lose especially since I'm changing gyms soon. You are right though it is purely looks. So, I'll continue to optimize my looks. Social circles are a bet…
/r/askTRP22/08/17 07:25 PM
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Where do you look for women? I'm only asking because one in particular caught my eye I see often. She's a solid 8/9. So I'll try anyway why not?
/r/askTRP22/08/17 06:49 PM
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Right, thank you I'll do the same
/r/askTRP22/08/17 03:24 AM
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That's what I was thinking. Just wanted to confirm here. I'm new to the gym and I'll just keep it about growth.
/r/askTRP22/08/17 02:53 AM
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Trying to snake her way back in it sounds.
/r/askTRP30/07/17 03:40 PM
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Thank you brother this was very insightful. My confidence fell this year, but I'm bringing it back. I do need some abundance in my life.
/r/askTRP03/07/17 12:40 AM
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Lmao I'm js my understanding of it. I guess there were a lot of other issues that I have to work on. Thanks for the video I appreciate it. What would you do if you were me? Aside lifting and sidebar.
/r/askTRP02/07/17 11:10 PM
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I definitely can do infinitely better. But, I won't lie lately my confidence has been low... I tried not to show it but maybe she felt that.
/r/askTRP02/07/17 10:45 PM
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It was great for years though. Problems only started to arise when after I refused to buy her a n engagement ring. Can you give me some more detail? She started to look at my shortcomings such as not driving. Was that enough? Can you over dread? Women at my job, school, and social media constantly provided that. I feel like it made things worse.
/r/askTRP02/07/17 10:44 PM
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What exactly is the right way to handle a loss of attraction? Or losing control of a relationship that was otherwise successful?
/r/askTRP02/07/17 10:28 PM
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So just be focused on myself and improvement? I'm striving better for me but I guess I miss and crave a LTR. That's all I've known for the last few years. Besides lifting and sidebar what should I do now? I want to just restart.
/r/askTRP02/07/17 10:27 PM
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The cheating was at the very end. More like a branch swing. We were done. Idk if she cheated but I'm not ruling it out.
/r/askTRP02/07/17 10:25 PM
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You'll cringe at your first attempts. Just learn from them. Try again. But this time better. I personally would just go talk And not buy her anything.
/r/askTRP29/06/17 11:59 PM
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Yeah, that sounds way better than staring at a screen. That idea is actually brilliant! Escalation in a good way. Taking photos would be cool for my portfolio too.
/r/askTRP15/06/17 03:27 PM
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I mentioned food too. But, yeah you're right that was a dumb suggestion. I'll reserve movies for family and bros. I'm glad I asked lol I'm doing this all wrong
/r/askTRP15/06/17 03:12 PM
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It has been awhile since I saw her like middle school lol but I guess you're right.
/r/askTRP15/06/17 03:09 PM
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Good advice, thank you ^
/r/askTRP15/06/17 03:08 PM
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I'll check what's coming up. There's not too much going on this or next week. But, July has a few Festivals. Do you have any favorite date ideas? I'll do just that. I'm aware you can't win em all. There's too many out there to stress over one
/r/askTRP15/06/17 03:07 PM
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I say pick up hobbies and projects that'll either give something of value to the world or better yourself. I'm currently learning an instrument and music overall. Which is very exciting and I can express myself. Hope that helps.
/r/askTRP15/06/17 02:54 PM
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Right, They're just joining us for the ride. Not the other way around. I've recently got into photography. That's a good start.
/r/askTRP15/06/17 02:50 PM
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True true. I haven't been on a regular date in like 2 years outside of my last LTR. The city sounds cool. I do know a few cool shops and places to eat nearby.
/r/askTRP15/06/17 02:48 PM
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Thank you this helps. I'll wait awhile. We're mainly talking because there's a party she's having in a few weeks. I was planning on not talking until then.
/r/askTRP15/06/17 02:46 PM
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Yeah, I just thought up something random. It's been awhile so idek what she likes tbh lol mm
/r/askTRP15/06/17 02:40 PM
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Bro, just go out there and do it. Enjoy yourself. Don't take any of it too serious. You've did the training and see results. So test out different strategies and approaches. See what makes you more comfortable and gives the best results.
/r/askTRP29/04/17 02:52 AM
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I am going through this now. I'm super invested in one girl so I get timid in approaching her. This is actually kinda weird for me. But the way I see it is. I have to talk to her and fast. Or else some other guy who I'm better than will get her and I'll regret. So instead of regret let's just do it!
/r/askTRP29/04/17 02:50 AM
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