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| 2 | First Date Topics? | tigermax42 | /r/seduction | 28/05/22 07:10 PM |
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| 1 | Mean but sexyDawg if you want it go get it. Worst case friendzone her but still hit on and who knows what will happen | /r/seduction | 25/07/26 07:19 AM |
| 1 | How do i portray myself as non needy?It’s a philosophical question because it’s a true signal that cannot be hidden. This is a long term project where the goal is to make yourself the prize. Not that “be the buyer” frame. It’s deep we than that and involves becoming the prize TO YOURSELF. Loving yourself. Choosing yourself. Becoming your own beloved. How to do it? It’s a process that can take a while. I suggest journaling your traumas and talking about it in therapy. Learning the “Letting go” process in the book of the same name by… | /r/seduction | 26/06/26 02:00 PM |
| 1 | How do you handle the 'friends trying to save her from you'?I had a girl hit on me and her friend was rude and insulting and the girl told her straight up “stop it I like this guy”. Then she behaved perfectly normal. These girls know what they’re doing. If she gets legit pulled away cuz they’re leaving or something, get a number or social contract and then you’ll know if she was just being nice | /r/seduction | 13/05/26 01:41 PM |
| 5 | Is the life of promiscuity worth it?Yeah if you develop the wandering eye, I think it caused me to lose attraction in relationships because I’m programmed to look for the next and to act on that | /r/seduction | 13/04/26 03:47 PM |
| 1 | What was your experience hiring a dating coach?This guy is the most talented I’ve ever seen at explaining and understanding attraction, his advice has gotten me great results: https://youtu.be/s5GF_8YfLY8?si=iPfBerVvEl21-JwM A lot of “coaches” out there just rehash outdated concepts, so there’s a wide variance in quality | /r/seduction | 29/12/25 05:33 PM |
| 21 | What are some subtle ways you can come off as needy without realizing it?I think there is a look in the face that signals “ please be nice to me” that gets immediately rejected | /r/seduction | 18/12/25 06:27 PM |
| 12 | how do i have sex in the car with an FWB?Front passenger seat is actually better. I f you want to go down do it while he’s still in the driver seat | /r/seduction | 10/12/25 02:17 PM |
| 1 | Are Owen Cook's bootcamps worth it?No | /r/seduction | 04/08/25 08:52 PM |
| 0 | go raw + pull out in hookup with IUD?Skeet it and yeet it | /r/seduction | 25/06/25 02:10 AM |
| 1 | go raw + pull out in hookup with IUD?Haha yeah it’s pretty noticeable if you are a certain type of guy | /r/seduction | 25/06/25 02:09 AM |
| 8 | Confidence isn't built in the gym or in the bank, it's build in the morrorShe hit it and quit it | /r/seduction | 05/05/25 01:17 AM |
| 4 | Dating apps have always been rigged, here is how you can still be successfulWhy Australia, I’m curious. They just love the yanks there? | /r/seduction | 09/02/25 10:35 PM |
| 1 | Does it help being arrogant / having a superiority complex?How did you fix the pleasing | /r/seduction | 07/02/25 12:43 PM |
| 4 | Club fundamentalsWhat do you do during the time between “hey I like your xyz..” and “cmon let’s go” Talking? Dancing? Teasing? Eye contact/kino games? | /r/seduction | 24/10/24 04:06 AM |
| 2 | The Most Underrated Way to Skyrocket Your Physical Attractiveness (Most Men Ignore This!)You’ve answered the what question but not how to fix | /r/seduction | 24/10/24 03:24 AM |
| 12 | Ran some night game with 2 RedditorsMen who don’t abandon and undercut each other are rare. I live in nyc, I’d like to join the group chat if possible | /r/seduction | 04/09/24 06:08 PM |
| 3 | Guys who pull..How common is it for women to equally keep the flow of conversation going.Sick advice, I think you’re on point | /r/seduction | 06/06/24 03:33 AM |
| 3 | Guys who pull..How common is it for women to equally keep the flow of conversation going.If she is down, how long do you spend on average before bouncing out together? If it’s early in the night I feel some unspoken expectation to stay at the bar for a few drinks. Or do you just get out of there immediately? | /r/seduction | 06/06/24 02:31 AM |
| 7 | Today I saw what they call Naturals at work in SeductionI think this guys advice is nihilistic. Of course you can change by learning to regulate emotion | /r/seduction | 03/06/24 05:05 PM |
| -4 | Why girls you meet in high energy, social environment like parties or clubs tend to ghost or flake the day after, even if there was good chemistry the night before.How about providing solutions rather than pointing out problems | /r/seduction | 05/03/24 06:06 PM |
| -1 | How do I sexualize a conversation?Ease into it with some light flirts: “where you from?..Wow they sure grow them pretty there..” etc Sprinkle in physical compliments: “damn have you been working out?? You look great. Her: “yeah I go to the gym” You: “Well it’s working, you gotta get that bootylicious..” Then overt hitting on, but FUNNY: “Legs, I’m a sucker for long legs. I’d like to shinny up one of those legs like a native boy looking for coconuts” (credit Phil Hartman) If she’s laughing, you’re in. Escalate physically | /r/seduction | 18/08/22 02:19 AM |
| 3 | Okay I’m getting riskier in the dms fuck it’s risky and feels like a risk but maybe it pays offCan you suggest a good opener? | /r/seduction | 07/08/22 03:19 AM |
| 5 | I need your guy's insight on beginning game.Hi fives are lame. Maybe try low five. | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 02:02 AM |
| 281 | Am I a Simp for this?Don’t think about it too much, I’d take it as a compliment. If you hadn’t already hooked up it would be sus but you good playa. | /r/seduction | 19/07/22 08:59 PM |
| 1 | Have you ever messed up your perfect tinder matchJust wait a couple days and send her a value giving text, pretend like it never happened | /r/seduction | 08/03/22 03:16 AM |
| 1 | Tips to be able to hold conversation longer?Cold reads can lead to interesting places | /r/seduction | 01/03/22 05:13 AM |
| 4 | Got the number of a housekeeper (cleaning lady) in a hotel. Pursue it?Change hotels before you show her all your stacks of money | /r/seduction | 25/01/22 03:08 AM |
| 1 | I hate Condoms - Does anyone have a Recommendation for Ones that Feel like You're Wearing Nothing At All?Bareback condoms | /r/seduction | 07/01/22 07:13 PM |
| 10 | [deleted by user]I've had good results by offering this day or that day: Thursday or Friday for example. Kind of a middle ground | /r/seduction | 15/10/21 11:12 PM |
| 4 | What are traits that make a man sexually attractive to women?It's called Banter | /r/seduction | 14/10/21 03:10 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Richest man in Babylon | /r/seduction | 22/09/21 03:54 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Always look your best. Go early and have a coffee or tea every day in the most visible public table available. Make eye contact, give an almost imperceptible warm smirk. Then go back to your drink and study material. Get your face out there and they’ll know you belong. Then throw a BANGER party and invite them all. The party is the place to run game bro | /r/seduction | 15/09/21 02:03 AM |
| 0 | Am I being stalked ?I think you showing up at his place of work doesn’t qualify as stalking. Still kinda creepy tho. At least he got the courage to come up and talk to you instead of just staring. Maybe he’s just awkward | /r/seduction | 01/11/19 09:16 PM |
| 0 | Am I being stalked ?I think you showing up at his place of work doesn’t qualify as stalking. Still kinda creepy tho. At least he got the courage to come up and talk to you instead of just staring. Maybe he’s just awkward | /r/seduction | 01/11/19 09:16 PM |
| 0 | Am I being stalked ?I think you showing up at his place of work doesn’t qualify as stalking. Still kinda creepy tho. At least he got the courage to come up and talk to you instead of just staring. Maybe he’s just awkward | /r/seduction | 01/11/19 09:16 PM |
| 1 | Why do her friends also want in on the action?Just go with it man | /r/seduction | 22/10/19 10:32 AM |
| 1 | As an introverted empath in my 30s who's failed a lot at learning game, how do I succeed?If you are empathic and waiting for her emotions to lift you up, realize that as a man it’s YOUR job to provide good emotions to HER and not the other way around. So instead of receiving nonverbal and emotional cues, you need to be the one PROJECTING them. Alpha male body language (warm dominance), an easy smile, and send out the vibe of relaxed, intrigued, and maybe playful or even horny. Realize that your first impression can take up to 3-5 minutes where you need to keep talking and build up t… | /r/seduction | 20/10/19 02:29 AM |
| 2 | Making the move Bars, clubs and other placesAsking for a kiss is dumb. Try something like “if I want something, I go for it. And I’m going for it” and just pull the trigger. You could also try the speed kiss which is a super fast kiss right on the lips (after you’ve done a palm read or brushed her hair off her face or tapped her on the knees and hips) After you pull off the move say “look what you made me do” or whatever funny line you use to apologize/flirt | /r/seduction | 15/10/19 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Anyone ever try I’m surprised you seem single as an opener?I wouldn’t even bother with that. It actually sounds like an insult | /r/seduction | 17/09/19 02:44 AM |
| 1 | my text game is badMake up a fantastic adventure story, or just start telling fanciful lies that are obviously untrue which makes them funny. “I had a dirty dream about you” “We were camping and it started raining, it was sooo dirty” Shit like that | /r/seduction | 24/08/19 08:32 PM |
| 5 | Do you guys ever feel like every lone girl you see out in nightgame is just waiting for her bf to come back from the bathroom?I thought of a line for this, and field tested it with success: “Is there someone you came with, who, if he saw me talking with you, would just come flying out of nowhere fist-first to just punch me in the face. Basically are you on a date or something?” You can sub “talking” for “dancing”, “drinking” “flirting” etc. To be used early in the conversation Thank me later | /r/seduction | 22/08/19 11:48 PM |
| 1 | How do smart people get girls?Use your brain to make monetary gain. Also learn to flirt and banter. And turn them on using great body language and small touches like the escalation ladder | /r/seduction | 12/08/19 01:38 PM |
| 3 | Best Approach to Dating in Grad SchoolJust play it cool and get them over to study then suggest a nightcap. You can always sneak a kiss and blame it on the alcohol, that’s what they will be doing. Strong eye contact during daytime activities is great but coming in direct on the first day will get around, and not in the way you want to | /r/seduction | 04/08/19 06:20 AM |
| 5 | She doesn't want to commitJust hang in there man and keep being awesome with her. If you remain dominant and give her just the right amount of space she won’t go looking elsewhere | /r/seduction | 26/07/19 05:18 PM |
| 3 | Girl on tinder wants to meet me but do I look different on the tinder pic?Guess he got his answer | /r/seduction | 26/06/19 11:23 PM |
| 1 | Is it my appearance?Nah you a solid 8.5 | /r/seduction | 20/06/19 02:53 PM |
| 2 | What’s the best response to ,,i have a boyfriend” ?Actually there is a black magic response: Oh really? When’s the wedding? Then you know it’s serious or just a time killer relationship. Use with caution | /r/seduction | 20/05/19 08:26 PM |
| 6 | How to you guys feel about the notion that you can't entertain guests until you pay your own rent?He who pays the gold makes the rules | /r/seduction | 03/05/19 02:07 AM |
| 1 | Girl leaves soon. Keeps showing interest and talking about me with her friends. I just can’t seem to seal the deal And isolate for sexYou gotta touch her hair when you two are alone, stroke it back behind her ear. If she just lets it happen that means you are good to go in for the kiss | /r/seduction | 08/04/19 01:23 PM |
| 2 | Can't even utter a soundSay meow. Then if they respond, say it slower, then faster, or twice like a really cute meow, meow. If they laugh, give a wink while you say provocatively, “Meoowwwww..” | /r/seduction | 18/03/19 07:11 PM |
| 1 | What is wrong with meI still think she is game, since she said she has no bf and gave you her number. It’s still a green light to me. | /r/seduction | 08/03/19 05:57 PM |
| 4 | What is wrong with meTake the initiative man. You ever seen a girl decide what they want on a menu? Just take the next step and say hi or send a funny meme. Have a funny incident in your day to tell her about. If a girl likes you, she will allow the next step to happen. That’s about all you can expect so it’s up to you to move forward | /r/seduction | 07/03/19 10:13 PM |
| 1 | Guys I have been interviewing and talking to women about the problems they face while dating. I wish I hadn't (vent)My experience is that men still have the initiative on deciding what direction the relationship takes. And the women kind of sit back and either go along with it or bail out. I think women’s appearances do more to attract men than the personality traits. I know women who have tried to “learn game” and it doesn’t seem to have an effect. Interesting study though | /r/seduction | 18/02/19 04:37 PM |
| 4 | Guys I have been interviewing and talking to women about the problems they face while dating. I wish I hadn't (vent)Are you testing for women who want to be players vs women who want a committed relationship? | /r/seduction | 18/02/19 04:26 PM |
| 0 | The person who moves less in the conversation usually has more powerIt’s a root chakra thing, definitely noticeable | /r/seduction | 08/11/18 06:26 AM |
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