tikva77 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
39	Red Pill Husband		tikva77	/r/ExRedPill	04/01/19 04:27 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Red Pill Husband I made a commitment to him. If he's having a problem I want to help, even if it hurt me. He's my best friend and everyone makes mistakes and have regrets in life. If he refuses to change/goes full red pill I'd have to leave, but I have to give this a fighting chance. He's worth the fight.	/r/ExRedPill	06/01/19 07:49 PM
2	Red Pill Husband Interesting points. It's hard to argue him. He's very smart, large vocabulary and an out of the box thinker. Most people really enjoy the unique conversations they have with him. He makes you grow as a person. But these traits also make him really good at twisting conversation back at you, so it's hard to know what's happening in our conversations in regards to this subject. If I'm right, he's right or he's manipulating.	/r/ExRedPill	06/01/19 07:44 PM
1	Red Pill Husband Thank you for this perspective. I think you are correct on many points. People change and needs change, so I'm hoping we can hit reset and make each other happy in a healthy way. Now that I know what has been going on, a healthy way is the only way our marriage will work. I cannot be tricked or manipulated anymore because I'm seeing through it now. Before I was just confused and felt something was wrong with me, so I was quiet and just focused on making him as happy as I possibly could, but I wa…	/r/ExRedPill	06/01/19 07:07 PM
2	Red Pill Husband No therapy. He gets very upset if I mention it. I'm going to try to talk to him again tonight. I want to connect with him so badly.	/r/ExRedPill	06/01/19 01:20 AM
1	Red Pill Husband I let it go this long because I was so confused as to what was going on. I thought he was depressed with work, or because we're getting older and I just needed to support and love him through it no matter how depressed I was. That we'd work through it and things would be happy again. Little did I know he was actually changing how he views life and relationships permanently.	/r/ExRedPill	05/01/19 11:35 PM
1	Red Pill Husband He said I use tears as a weapon, he does not think it's because I'm hurt. Which is not true, but how do you argue feelings?	/r/ExRedPill	05/01/19 11:32 PM
2	Red Pill Husband He seems unsure if I am the unicorn they say doesn't exist or if I'm like all other women. He's said as much. This does not apply to men because men are logical and women operate on emotion, therefore easier to figure out is what seems to be the idea? Am I right?	/r/ExRedPill	05/01/19 11:31 PM
2	Red Pill Husband I'm focusing on how our relationship used to be and who I know he is at his core. I believe he's confused and making bad choices that can change and be forgiven. And I want to meet him where he felt something was lacking. I want us to work openly with each other, not by manipulation. He is both conservative and traditional. I am too and I loved the dynamic we had until now. He used to be very attentive to my emotions and meet my needs of communication.	/r/ExRedPill	05/01/19 01:49 PM
1	Red Pill Husband This is what sucks. Red pill works because now I want to make him happier because he was unhappy, but I don't want to act how red pill says I will and reinforce his belief, even if that's how I'd act with or without the manipulation. It's so confusing!	/r/ExRedPill	05/01/19 02:39 AM
1	Red Pill Husband Yes I told him that. He said he knows I'm thankful. He said my happiness was higher than his though, so now it's his time. That's why he has dropped the attention and time spent with me. He wants more time for himself and even more sex. I don't want to get into all the details and bash him. It's very confusing. I understand he felt he was missing something. That makes me sad as we've always been so open with each other. I'd do anything to make him happy and he said he knows that, but found this …	/r/ExRedPill	05/01/19 02:33 AM
6	Red Pill Husband I only say that because I'm very grateful and am so thankful for what he does for our family. He does a lot. Since dating he said he wanted to provide well for me. I've never had high expectations, always thankful and tell him often. I managed the home and care for the children almost 100 percent of the time. We had a happy balance and our sex life was great. Way above the average. I'm still very much in love with him, that's why it hurts that he is distancing himself now.	/r/ExRedPill	04/01/19 11:23 PM
6	Red Pill Husband He is defensive, but agrees with me that a lot of it, especially the main redpill is wrong. I've told him how this philosophy treats women as numbers, not individuals. He said they are right and all women are pretty much the same and I've responded exactly the way it says I would. If I get very upset with my voice or cry he walks away or tells me to stop before we continue discussing. He continually says he only cares about my actions not my words.	/r/ExRedPill	04/01/19 07:15 PM
5	Red Pill Husband He said he doesn't agree with all of it and I see where he is and isn't following that they say, so I know he's not totally gone. I've tried calm discussions, probably not enough or too accusatory after my initial findings and being so appalled at what I read. Feeling betrayed as though I'm a social experiment to manipulate is hard to digest because he's always been so good to me.	/r/ExRedPill	04/01/19 07:02 PM
12	Red Pill Husband I don't want to be divorced. I want us both happy and hope it's still possible.	/r/ExRedPill	04/01/19 06:25 PM
11	Red Pill Husband I'm doing research. It's so confusing. He's a good man, he's been an amazing, supportive husband. Provides me the lifestyle I want, all material things I want or need. The emotional distance and mental confusion is what is killing me. I'm scared I'm too messed up in my own head now to even see this clearly and it's actually me that has the problem. Guess I need to just keep researching.....	/r/ExRedPill	04/01/19 06:24 PM