tilerwalltears Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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5	Can someone PLEASE help me with kino He's not wrong, you're worried about failing. But saying "change how you think about failure" is about as helpful as telling a fish to "just breathe" while its flopping around on the sand. That being said, why worry about failure my friend? What do you have to lose? You've made it this far, she's definitely into you. The only thing you could do at this point to mess things up is nothing. Back in high school, whenever I was stuck on a problem, my calculus teacher would tell me to "do something." …	/r/seduction	19/11/14 03:25 AM
2	Shaved VS beard? To a girl, it probably won't matter. If you feel inferior because you aren't perfectly shaved or have a little stubble or have a full-blow, gnarly-ass beard (no, not an ass-beard), then it definitely does matter. It matters because it's not the baby-face/stubble/beard that's holding you back. It's your lack of confidence that's holding you back. Do whatever makes you the most comfortable. I prefer a little bit of stubble. But that's just me. When people say, "looks matter," they're not lying. Bu…	/r/seduction	11/11/14 06:15 PM
7	Nice Guy Syndrome There's nothing wrong with being a nice guy. The problem with being a nice guy only occurs when that's all you are: a nice, guy. You need to strike a balance with being a nice guy, respecting yourself before others and being sexual. I think of myself as a nice, funny guy. My two favorite things in the world are helping people and making them laugh. But, for a long long time, that's all I was. I realized that being this person wasn't giving me the results that I wanted, I couldn't flirt with girl…	/r/seduction	10/11/14 12:46 AM
1	All the girls in my class think I'm a player but at the same time think I'm the sweetest guy.... With a smirk: "I'm not as nice as I look." ;)	/r/seduction	09/11/14 11:20 PM
16	Girls lacking eye contact Forgive me for judging you solely on this post, but I would guess that you're fixating on this a little too much. It sounds like you're desiring eye contact from girls. To me, that sounds like the tip of the iceberg of neediness, "outcome dependency." Relax your jaw, keep a little smirk on your face and walk around like you know who you are. Better yet, figure out who you are. None of that fake it till you make it shit. Make it, then be it. Anyways, tone down the intensity. If girls are actively…	/r/seduction	09/11/14 11:10 PM
2	Worried about bumping into EX There's nothing wrong with having that fear. If that were to happen, it would definitely be scary. But don't let that possibility rule your life. Go out and only be concerned about having fun. Tell yourself, "I am going to have fun." It's a powerful thought, instantly brings a smile to your face. How would you rather be seen by your girlfriend? As the dude sitting on his phone in the corner, or the guy laughing, chatting with people and having fun?	/r/seduction	09/11/14 03:00 AM
1	How do you socialize in large group gatherings? How you say things is far more important that what you're saying. I've noticed this more and more. When you're genuinely interested in the words coming from your mouth, the people hearing them will also be interested. So practice being GENUINELY interested in what you and other people are saying. I still have yet to figure out exactly how to do this, but I've noticed when I walk into a place with a positive, optimistic outlook, it's much easier to get into a genuinely interested frame of mind.	/r/seduction	11/10/14 06:07 PM
2	Tonight I finally got "That girl" that we all have. I just want to thank you guys, so, so god damn much Congratulations man! Hope everything goes well. Just have to say though, I died laughing at "Oneitits." That extra 't' in there completely changes that phrase!	/r/seduction	07/09/13 06:47 PM