timeForRanch Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
6	How does one accept a compliment 🤔	Conversation	timeForRanch	/r/seduction	23/07/20 11:39 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	You attract the qualities you admire in yourself... Solid speech	/r/seduction	28/07/20 08:18 PM
1	Getting someone back to your place? I like the advice to ask her to hit another bar with you. That’s good stuff. But once you’re at the second bar (or not, but still a very good tidbit) the best method I’ve seen and executed is pretty simple. Ask the girl to go back to your place for a drink This does a few things It gives you a chance to demonstrate more value by showing her your place and by showing her your drink-making skills (make sure you can easily make a drink or two. I recommend a Moscow mule and a simple marg. Also have …	/r/seduction	27/07/20 12:13 AM
1	First day of approaching girls - Failed It’s all good dude. Like others have mentioned: you’re taking steps forward regardless of how much progress you make on any given day. Keep it up Let us know how it goes tomorrow!	/r/seduction	25/07/20 09:45 PM
18	I performed my first Cold Approach and it was a success! FYSA there’s nothing wrong with Snapchat these days Good work though homie	/r/seduction	25/07/20 01:17 AM
3	How does one accept a compliment 🤔 Yeah I was thinking about implementing a pause into any received compliment. Although I don’t really act shocked, my brain sort of is and my default response has the same effect as if I were frozen That’s a great recommendation, thanks. What’s the best way to practice that? Or do you think just keeping that in the back of my brain will basically force me to take that pause?	/r/seduction	24/07/20 02:07 AM
1	Should I be up front about wanting a family? Lmao	/r/seduction	24/07/20 01:27 AM
1	Should I be up front about wanting a family? “At least I can throw my pussy at desperate dudes who don’t want to date me at all” Nice comeback	/r/seduction	24/07/20 01:24 AM
1	Should I be up front about wanting a family? This right here ^ is why you’ve been single for 3 years lol	/r/seduction	24/07/20 01:21 AM
1	Should I be up front about wanting a family? It sounds like you literally cannot read and refuse to accept the point that you’re going to end up miserable in 10 years with a man you married because you didn’t want to end up alone	/r/seduction	24/07/20 01:17 AM
1	Should I be up front about wanting a family? Not at all lol My example was: if you say you’re looking for something specific, and others aren’t looking for that thing, some guys will say “I don’t want that” and won’t even start to go after you Your example was: if you say something sleazy, you’ll probably still find what you’re looking for Totally different. Also, totally irrelevant to my main point, which is still: Don’t just chase marriage itself or you’ll end up with the wrong person.	/r/seduction	24/07/20 01:12 AM
1	Should I be up front about wanting a family? That’s totally aside from the point I’m not here to argue that you won’t find a husband. If you put that on your profile, you will definitely find a husband. But it’s more important to marry the right person, not the one who wants to get married just as badly as you. Those two things are absolutely not automatically synonymous	/r/seduction	24/07/20 01:04 AM
1	Should I be up front about wanting a family? I understand and sympathize with your point, but I think that sentiment would go both ways If a guy posted “looking for a fuck buddy only,” there are enough women who would say “no thanks” immediately. You might call it “sleazy.” A guy might call your “marriage only” clause to be “controlling” or some other term—but the baseline is that it’d probably be a turnoff All of that ^ doesn’t even matter though. You don’t need to convince me of why you’d do that: statistically speaking, you’re probably …	/r/seduction	24/07/20 12:55 AM
2	Should I be up front about wanting a family? This is my opinion. Take what you will of it: I don’t think it’s problematic to tell guys you want a family I just think it’s problematic to prioritize wanting a family over finding the right person The right person might be swiping through and say “she’s too specific about wanting a family as if we’re about to just get married” and might skip you because of it. Vice versa could occur too, but I think it’s much less likely, given male culture and our preponderance to feel weird about someone bas…	/r/seduction	24/07/20 12:18 AM
2	Need an opinion! Yes But don’t text her until 3 days have passed or she texts you back. You can ask how she’s doing and then either A: confirm the date if her test came back negative or B: suggest you facetime	/r/seduction	23/07/20 11:09 PM
3	Need an opinion! If you’ve already got a date, you could probably FaceTime. That’s becoming less and less weird—but definitely don’t do it randomly. Plan that shit, yo	/r/seduction	23/07/20 09:34 PM
2	Cockblocked by Makeup. They're another person's face. Openers advised. Then refer to my first comment. That’ll make you two familiar. From there, the next few times you see her you can think about engaging a little bit more	/r/seduction	23/07/20 06:37 PM
2	Cockblocked by Makeup. They're another person's face. Openers advised. Okay well that doesn’t matter. Her feeling safe while being around or talking to you takes precedence over you wanting to spit game to her In that setting (the place y’all live), there are no magic words in the world that would make her want to just spontaneously hook up with you	/r/seduction	23/07/20 06:26 PM
1	Cockblocked by Makeup. They're another person's face. Openers advised. Dude what the fuck? I seriously hope you’re not insinuating you’re going to sexually assault or harass this person	/r/seduction	23/07/20 06:21 PM
1	Cockblocked by Makeup. They're another person's face. Openers advised. No, that’s not a good opener in this situation. Please don’t say that Also, the ”perky tits” comment has me a bit thrown off. That’s not really something you should focus on or comment on; that comment is beyond your standard physical attraction description and dips into sexually deviant/creepy Anyway. You should open with something that’s natural; to a point where you could say it to a random guy in your apartment complex (assuming you’re a guy and not attracted to men). Neighbors necessitate t…	/r/seduction	23/07/20 06:11 PM
1	Mixed signals You’re on the right track; you just need some encouragement to move forward You do need to hang out alone. Next time there’s a gap in your texts (like, a conversation ran dry and now you’re not talking for a day or two), hit her up and be decisive about it. Straight up just go for it: suggest that you two go for a walk in a park, get ice cream, come over to your place for drinks and a movie, or just out somewhere for drinks. Don’t go for “Netflix and Chill.” That shit is starting not to work at …	/r/seduction	22/07/20 04:22 PM
1	100 approaches and still nothing Cool man. How big of a city do you live in? Also, are you just approaching women on the street/in parks? Or at specific locations like cafes, gyms, stores, etc? Or both? Separately, what is their usual initial response? And is there a certain type of woman you’re looking for (do you tend to approach women who look like they’re coming from work?)	/r/seduction	22/07/20 03:57 PM
1	How can I get her talking? Suggest me a good reply and some tips Yeah I’d say break contact for a week and then you’ll be good to spit game again (but I’d say avoid being over the top like that unless she’s being just as goofy)	/r/seduction	22/07/20 02:49 PM
1	How can I get her talking? Suggest me a good reply and some tips You can save it with a “Maybe I will” and then fucking off for a full week or two before reengaging with more normal conversation “Hey how’ve you been?” If she doesn’t respond, you’ll have your answer. If she does, continue mission	/r/seduction	22/07/20 01:28 PM
4	Just learnt that while drunk I lent in for a kiss twice. Am I a bad person? She’ll eventually accept. You should eventually apologize. That’s about it Good on you for recognizing that it’s wrong to blame it on alcohol	/r/seduction	22/07/20 01:26 PM
2	How Do I detach myself from someone? This is a tough road and you have to choose it. Otherwise, you will get sucked back in and she will take advantage of your past commitment. It seems like she’s realizing how much you cared about her and somewhat regrets the decision (but is still more interested in meeting guys there than committing to you) You have to put yourself out there. You just have to. Commit to dating apps, pump thought and effort into them. Hell—you might even consider doing a little photo shoot with a friend. Post an …	/r/seduction	22/07/20 01:22 PM
3	Am I being given a “shit test” or just general disinterest? It honestly just sounds like she’s not interested. Generally speaking, women seem to post on their stories for attention, not to get dates She undoubtedly knows you’re interested in her and hasn’t been genuinely intrigued by what you’ve said so far. Although she may seem open, because she expects contact, she probably doesn’t take initiative to speak with you because she doesn’t care about the contact you’ve brought to the table I would reset this whole thing by backing off for a month or two an…	/r/seduction	22/07/20 01:11 PM
2	[24M] What does it mean if a girl consistently replies to my text late? Yeah all good homie. Good luck to you	/r/seduction	21/07/20 04:42 AM
2	[24M] What does it mean if a girl consistently replies to my text late? Ah, gotcha And not quite. You should pretty much finish up whatever topic you two are currently on and then ask her out again. Take control of the situation and get her to commit to a time and day—otherwise you risk falling into obscurity OR EVEN WORSE you risk her taking control Look, I know your goal right now is “get a date with this girl.” But if that’s how your mind navigates this, she won’t go for it. I mean, she might, but you’re probably gonna end up expending way too much energy on her …	/r/seduction	21/07/20 04:26 AM
2	[24M] What does it mean if a girl consistently replies to my text late? It’s probably a combination of things. Probably everything you think it is (busy, trying to make you want her, isn’t taking the conversation very seriously, etc). But you also have to know: shes probably talking to like 3 other dudes at the same time. It seems like you’ve already failed at being the most interesting dude she’s talking to—BUT THAT’S OKAY This will more than likely result in a “lesson learned” but you can either 1: continue to grovel after this chick or 2: make a decisive move. Do…	/r/seduction	21/07/20 03:36 AM
5	I (26 f) have never been approached by a guys in public Short of you just approaching guys, I think there’s very little you can do to make yourself seem approachable other than being approachable I think the typical advice will be something along the lines of “positively respond to a nearby guy’s presence!!” But normal, unpracticed dudes (I’d say like 85% of dudes are unpracticed) tend to freeze up if you just respond to their presence without more evidence that you’re open to them approaching. Example: if you’re in line at a coffee shop and a guy st…	/r/seduction	21/07/20 03:09 AM
1	100 approaches and still nothing I’m super impressed, as I’m sure most people visiting this thread and upvoting you are. To be honest, I don’t think anyone here who’s giving you advice has ever approached 100 women—especially not in such a short period of time (what, 40 days?). Even more impressive is that you’re pulling this off during COVID. Kudos —— What locations are you attempting? What time of day? Those are the things I struggle finding motivation to figure out. I’m pretty good at approaching women, but I don’t do/never …	/r/seduction	20/07/20 11:14 PM
1	How many times should a girl get to notice you before an Appr approach is creepy? I’m more so being dismissive of the content, rather than OP’s asking a question But that’s fair	/r/seduction	20/07/20 06:58 AM
2	Told her "hey, pretty lady" I think that’s an okay first step but I wouldn’t get carried away with your second step. She probably thought that was a nice sentiment but probably doesn’t want to hear that from you more than once a month Women don’t want you to grovel at their feet. More importantly: women don’t want to have to deal with that bullshit at work. Moving forward, you’ll demonstrate some value by being nice but not making advances. You called her pretty—great. Now, show restraint and she’ll more than likely start …	/r/seduction	20/07/20 04:56 AM
0	How many times should a girl get to notice you before an Appr approach is creepy? Or just ask the whole ass subreddit dedicated to seducing people. OP this was a fair question. vardarac: you’re 100% right but I think that was slightly too dismissive of a response OP don’t fuckin do that though, for real. Shoot your shots before either of you have to switch trains	/r/seduction	20/07/20 04:29 AM