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| 1 | How do I deal with the emotional and mental costs of being more successful with women.On the note about becoming awestruck by the girl you weren't into because she wasn't into- you have a scarcity mentality and you feel like you need someone now so this girl is suddenly "perfect" because she's a girl and you probably think you won't find a better one soon. I had the EXACT same problem after my first k-close, so don't get the idea I'm talking down to you. She lost interest, and I suddenly gained interest. What I did was take a day and literally think and remind myself why I didn't… | /r/seduction | 05/06/13 11:55 AM |
| 1 | What is the lesson to be learnt here?"You know pickup isn't about ticking 4 boxes and taking her home" Absolutely love this quote. I feel like people can misinterpret some of the posts on seddit and try to use exactly what the post says to. Especially when reading guides. Then they wonder why the thing they read didnt work in a situation. And that's because people are different. Some girls take more work than others.Now don't get me wrong, the guides here are fantastic (including the speech guide you started) but they're the buildi… | /r/seduction | 05/06/13 11:34 AM |
| 2 | What do you do DURING the approach?I used to have some anxiety because I'd feel awkward by just walking up to a girl that is a ways from me, but it really doesn't matter. Do you like it when people come and talk to you? So do other people. If you're afraid you'll embarrass yourself by while trying, warm up by opening to lower HBs (like 4 or 5s) and just have a friendly conversation. ALSO! It's important when you're putting in work to become a PUA, you shouldn't worry about what goofy face you make because it'll show you're confid… | /r/seduction | 05/06/13 11:17 AM |
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