time_waste_quicksand Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	Women who lurk in the Men's Divorce subreddit, why are you here? Hey girl….	/r/Divorce_Men	01/01/23 12:11 AM
1	Women who lurk in the Men's Divorce subreddit, why are you here? Well, rationally, that argument requires emotionalism to be weighed along with logic … :)	/r/Divorce_Men	01/01/23 12:09 AM
1	Women who lurk in the Men's Divorce subreddit, why are you here? Finances are critical obv but mostly here bc of the custody fight discussions. Short summary is that ex refused to leave until “custody was settled” but refused to actually settle custody, accused me of ever escalating insanity (she’s drunk all the time! She can’t function as a parent! She gets happy endings at massages! Serious on that last one. Wish I had.) Then she started to secretly record I believe bc her voice got all weird and she would say’ OW you are HURTING me’ over the recording, as …	/r/Divorce_Men	31/12/22 11:55 PM
2	Women who lurk in the Men's Divorce subreddit, why are you here? (And actually we were never legally married so it was ‘just’ an all out bloodbath over getting her out of my house and custody of our 2 kids. Decimated me - financially, emotionally - took years, and best thing I finally faced and got through)	/r/Divorce_Men	31/12/22 11:46 PM
1	Women who lurk in the Men's Divorce subreddit, why are you here? TY! You have no idea how thrilled I am….	/r/Divorce_Men	31/12/22 11:42 PM
15	Women who lurk in the Men's Divorce subreddit, why are you here? Bc i am divorced from a woman. Great question!	/r/Divorce_Men	31/12/22 08:08 AM
1	Struggles with getting in the moment and getting a boner with a new women? Ask.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/12/22 01:49 AM
2	Post-parenting-time Depression Oh one thing that helped me a lot in the Early Times that i didn’t realize until recently was kind of helpful - including really close friends or family member or two (never more than two, one was perfect) in some of my time with my girls. Over for take out dinner. Drag one to the park with us, whatever. It helped me a bit with the suddenly not having another parent to tell the minutia about them to (“ha she said this funny thing” “christ is she gonna jump off that thing omg” etx ha) but even mo…	/r/Divorce_Men	30/10/22 03:01 AM
2	Post-parenting-time Depression I am so sorry and so feel you. Hope it’s ok to respond bc I am a female but divorced from a female, thus i get a lot if help from this. When it first happened the feeling when they weren’t with me I still honestly can’t properly describe. Best I had was like a limb was cut off, but the limb was still out there but I was locked down to even look for it. It’s just … the most unnatural and horrible thing i have ever experienced. I absolutely feel you. It really really does ease with time, though it…	/r/Divorce_Men	30/10/22 02:44 AM
2	I have hard times being alone Def in US the birth mother is the legal mother/parent. I’ve done the fertility road and have not heard otherwise to be true in any other countries but SO NOT an expert. What country was the implantation done in, the birth happen in, and where she and your son live now? Did you use a known egg donor or was it through an agency? You and she must have signed agreements at least with the clinic who retrieved the egg and the clinic (same or not) who implanted the embryo into your ex. I’d be very very…	/r/Divorce_Men	20/10/22 03:28 AM
2	Is this sub only for men that have been screwed over by their ex? Reading these I just thought of this - when people say one person or the other “initiated” the divorce what do you mean? Reason I ask - I would say that I did (I did) - hired an attorney while still living together, had to get a court to have her move out almost 1.5 years later. I have heard that she (and all of our formerly shared social circles) believes she did because she is the Plaintiff in the court proceedings. Am i stupid to think that most people know that it doesn’t matter who is Plain…	/r/Divorce_Men	14/04/22 03:43 AM
1	My neighbor has wanted to go on a bike ride with me ?	/r/Divorce_Men	08/11/21 11:27 PM
3	My neighbor has wanted to go on a bike ride with me Just saying this as a woman who went through hell divorcing another woman - yes. I do have lots of female friends with husbands also experiencing the opposite. And female friends doing this to their husbands and I will never be able to stomach being around it no matter the gender. I just have to have balance in my next relations, if I have one Jesus.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/11/21 12:46 AM
3	Moving Forward i am a lurker - but want to say thinking of you!	/r/Divorce_Men	05/06/19 06:06 AM