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What really interests me here... How did you comfort her when she started crying because she cheated on her bf? I can't really imagine telling her anything positive about this situation.
/r/seduction14/11/17 12:53 PM
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So what do I tell them what I did on this weekends then? I mean, they would be my only group of friends.
/r/seduction23/10/17 04:56 PM
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I always wondered about the advice of going volunteering. Isn't it the wrong mindset to go volunteering just for the sake of meeting people? Because that would be the reason why I would do it. I have better stuff to do then giving out soup to homeless people.
/r/seduction23/10/17 02:59 PM
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What do you mean with, that I should not always talk to them? Do you mean for example I should not invite them out every weekend?
/r/seduction23/10/17 02:56 PM
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This is a theoretical question, but totally possible. I mean, after a couple of months of meeting up only with the same group, the thought may come up. Or what would you think if you were part of the hobby group and the new guy is only inviting out the same people of the group?
/r/seduction23/10/17 02:52 PM
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But what if you start from the scratch and don't have any friends. Let's say you got to know a certain group of people from a hobby and you invited them out a few times with you. Don't they think it's weird that you don't have any other friends?
/r/seduction21/10/17 11:18 AM
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How did it come you eventually lost your virginity? Did you approach without hesitation or did you find someone via online dating?
/r/seduction16/10/17 02:08 PM
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I will try that. Theses are some little goals I can achieve throughout the day.
/r/seduction16/10/17 09:05 AM
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Thank you for your answer. I'm indeed closed up and not proud of who I am. It probably comes all down how I present myself and how I'm comfortable with myself. I will keep that in mind.
/r/seduction16/10/17 09:05 AM
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Ok, I'll try it.
/r/seduction15/10/17 09:15 PM
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Dude, I'm a 23yo virgin with almost no friends. Let's just say I'm not too content with my life... (depressed) Yeah, I know Tyler. His videos are really inspiring. The thing is he was not just some autistic kid. He was the autistic kid, who did the unbelievable. He's probably the only one in the world that's capable of doing a achange this big. He's super intelligent. But it's okay. I will keep on taking action. If I don't do anything nothing will ever happen.
/r/seduction15/10/17 09:13 PM
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Yeah, I thought that's the norm for dating. No social proof = no girl
/r/seduction15/10/17 08:35 PM
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Good comparison. But easier said than done. Do you really think a guy can get laid without having a solid social group or interesting hobbies? Becuase these things are a standard for every "normal person". How do you know I'm not a hard case?
/r/seduction15/10/17 08:33 PM
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So I just fake it and pretend I'm totally content with life and that's it's totally awesome? That people have success without having the knowledge og game is certainly true. The goal is to become natural like the people, who don't know about it.
/r/seduction15/10/17 08:27 PM
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Building an attractive lifestyle takes time and in the time, where I'm in the progress of bettering it or even fail at bettering it (not that easy), I won't have any social proof. So I'm just prone to fail with women (if Mark Manson is right). That's why I'm asking, if it's even worth.
/r/seduction15/10/17 08:10 PM
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Ok good tip. Then there's at least something I can be proud of. The thing is, for having an attractive life it probably takes years, if you count in travel experience or finding the right hobby
/r/seduction15/10/17 08:04 PM
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So you slayed that pussy? ;)
/r/seduction15/10/17 07:48 PM
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Building an attractive lifestyle takes time and in the time, where I'm in the progress of bettering it or even fail at bettering it (not that easy), I won't have any no social proof. So I'm just prone to fail with women (I guess... if Mark Manson is right). That's why I'm asking if it's even worth.
/r/seduction15/10/17 07:14 PM
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I usually take on the role of organizer That probably helped OP a lot...
/r/seduction14/10/17 08:14 PM
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Wow, you had a lot of courage. Probs to you. Keep me updated of how friday went.
/r/seduction13/10/17 10:58 PM
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So how did it go?
/r/seduction12/10/17 05:07 PM
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If you go to college there might be a free therapist service at your college. Someone told me about it, that it changed his life talking to that therapist.
/r/seduction12/10/17 02:24 PM
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Are you serious? That sounds crazy. "I live at home because I love the vibe of my family" and "Not much of a hobby guy, just love coding, being social, and loving life". Are girls really buying this? No offense, but that sounds so lame ^ ^
/r/seduction08/10/17 02:21 AM
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Aha ok, so how do you make your life seem fun then?
/r/seduction07/10/17 10:15 AM
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Of what consist your "fun life"? (I ask because mines not fun...)
/r/seduction06/10/17 04:10 PM
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I checked him out. I read a thread were he analyzed a guys FR. Damn, he really was writing pages analyzing stuff. He said instead of trying to be cool like james bond, you rather say what's on your mind and show your personality. So you're congruent with yourself. THis really opened my eyes kinda. I was always torn between try to be cool and be outgoing. Now I will go the full outgoing road. But still have to find what to say, apart from small talk...
/r/seduction06/10/17 01:23 PM
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I totally agree with "agree and amplifiy", when put on a spot. But how can you use it to get numbers? I say "always" hit her with a white knight compliment, followed by a double neg after she replies to my wk comment and boom I have her digits. Can you give an specific example about that?
/r/seduction06/10/17 11:41 AM
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I kind of feel as though the thing that lots of 'confident' people have is just the ability to talk!!! I know it sounds weird, but those of us who haven't got that gift and who run out of things to say haven't really got that ability. It really can't seem to be taught!! I've been cold approaching for about 1 year now and my ability to keep a conversation going really doesn't seem to have improved much. That's the same theory I have too. Look at every PUA. Each of them can just talk for hours wit…
/r/seduction04/10/17 10:04 PM
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I suck at both, but I would really like to read it.
/r/seduction02/10/17 08:01 AM
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What kind of sports? Sports often times incorporporate other people.
/r/seduction04/09/17 07:58 AM
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So your only passion is your work? I just ask, because I'm pretty insecure with my passions being boring.
/r/seduction03/09/17 11:36 PM
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Ah ok, still a big change.
/r/seduction03/09/17 11:34 PM
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What was your progress before the "hot girl" dumped you? Some girlfriends, not experienced etc.
/r/seduction03/09/17 09:00 AM
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Duh...
/r/seduction26/08/17 07:52 AM
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Ok, thank you man
/r/seduction24/08/17 09:03 PM
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I really want to have someone, who I can talk about this and approach with. The thing is, I'm a bloody beginner. I still have anxiety and I can't even talk properly when approaching. Do you think anyone would want to work with that? I thought about getting some experience first and then getting in touch with people of the RSD Inner Circle. But god knows, when I'm actually comfortable approaching...
/r/seduction24/08/17 05:22 PM
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I'm in Hamburg. As you know I'm not experienced, but I saw some german pickup videos. I don't know other people who do PU unfortunatley. Berlin should be the best. The people are more open in general. It has a reputation like that in germany. Also like 70% of german PUAs are in Berlin. So there must be something going on. I would say night game is the same as in every other western country. Drunk chicks want sex if you're cool enough. For daygame it's a little bit harder than in america or canad…
/r/seduction24/08/17 04:56 PM
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You're wrong. I asked "approximatley" how many. So I'm good ;) Of course, that's different for everyone. I just wanted to see how everyone else went their way, becuase before I had no reference at all. Yes, you become more natural and implement the stuff in your unconcious mind. But for learning to become natural you have to that bang your head against the wall quite some time, so it seems to me.
/r/seduction24/08/17 09:13 AM
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Then go to the streets. That's what I'm doing. It's discret. You can fuck up as many times as you want.
/r/seduction24/08/17 08:15 AM
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Damn great tip. Thanks for that. There is one.
/r/seduction24/08/17 08:09 AM
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You're not the first one having success with the first/first few approaches here. That's so crazy. I on the other hand probably sounded like a retard.
/r/seduction23/08/17 08:32 PM
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One pickup coach got in his precoach times an improv course payed from his company. Seduction seems to be heavily based on improv.
/r/seduction23/08/17 08:04 PM
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I see, yeah that makes sense. But for now I want to stay away from approaching in college, because I have to get my vibe handled first. So that I don't get known as the weird approach guy.
/r/seduction23/08/17 07:48 PM
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So what now? Kill myself? ^ ^
/r/seduction23/08/17 07:43 PM
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Less exciting, but more successful, what leads it to be more exciting :P
/r/seduction23/08/17 07:42 PM
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I started today and read theory for 3 years. I'm the same guy with of the other post you answered. Unfortunatley I live in germany. I would be glad to have someone helping me out. Yeah, I know what you mean wiht the first few compliment and eject approaches. Simple pickup call that getting into god mode and RSD have a term for that too, but it doesn't come to my mind. I will keep that in mind.
/r/seduction23/08/17 07:29 PM
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So what would be an example for that? I'm in college too.
/r/seduction23/08/17 07:12 PM
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I don't think most people have so much success like you do 3 of 4 in the first approaches is crazy. You probably had your shit together and look decent for that to happen. Totally true that, you can't hardly tell if they're over 18 or not. I believe nightgame is harder. As you said every guy is approaching. So much more competition and also you have to be so high energy.
/r/seduction23/08/17 06:32 PM
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Oh yeah, the " you were cute" is taken out of context. The typical line would be: I saw you walking and thought you were cute. SO I had to approach you. I'm not english and in my language I said actually: I think you are cute. So don't worry :)
/r/seduction23/08/17 06:23 PM
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How long did you only compliment girls till you started to do the full approach with opener, introduction and conversation?
/r/seduction23/08/17 06:21 PM
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Are we actually really talk about indirect or situational here. Making a comment about the surroundings or the situation, would be a situational opener, what is the smoothest one. But indirect is actually asking a question as opener, like "what time is it?" or "where is the next coffee shop?" and then starting a conversation. Do you actually use these kind of questions and if yes what do you ask them?
/r/seduction23/08/17 05:21 PM
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The easiest is thing giving a compliment and then just run away. I think that's easier for everyone ;)
/r/seduction23/08/17 04:53 PM
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Oh yeah, that's totally my mindset. I know I will have no success for the first hunded approaches, becuase I have to get used to it. A pickup coach said, that on average, students of him need 500 approaches till they get laid. So I'm orientate on this. You seemed to started really early. I'm 23 right now...
/r/seduction23/08/17 03:44 PM
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Yeah, direct is full risk and either reward or nothing. So even today you don't go direct?
/r/seduction23/08/17 03:33 PM
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That's really inspiring, that you succeeded, despite having so much nervousness. On the other hand, thousand approaches (obviously exaggerating) to get comfortable sounds hard. So did you start out as a virgin and eventually got laid? Becuase, that's the case for me...
/r/seduction23/08/17 03:33 PM
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