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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
4	My situation		timetochange50	/r/Divorce_Men	10/02/20 08:07 PM

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1	My situation It's the way she acts when she drinks. I have tried to help her. Told her I would help. Her whole family has tried to help. It affects my son and have seen what it can do. You can't make them get help. We have had serious talks many times. I offered to go with her to an out patient rehab and she won't do it. I told her come to me when she is trying to stop and she feels like she needs a drink and we can talk or go do something. She won't go to counseling either. We have been twice together and o…	/r/Divorce_Men	10/02/20 10:05 PM
1	My situation That's the part I am afraid of.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/02/20 09:00 PM
1	My situation Well when someone looks at you in the eye and says I am not going to stop, I can't make her. She is very firm with the fact she does not need help. The first thing anyone with knowledge of alcoholism will tell you is that you can't change the person they have to do it themselves. and today I found a letter I wrote to her 10 years ago concerning her drinking so this isn't something that just started.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/02/20 08:49 PM
2	My situation Nothing horrible like a DUI. She does most drinking at home. Just conversation with her mother on text and phone talking about it. And I have recording of her admitting to me she needs to stop. I think son would live with me but like lawyer told me sons may feel like they need to take care of Mom. I do Everything!! She has cooked less than 5 meals in 2 years. I do all of his clothes shopping ect.. But how do you prove that. She can say anything she wants.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/02/20 08:22 PM

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