| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 27 | Is there even any society set expectations left on women anymore? | Discussion | timetraveller5000 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 05:45 PM |
| 14 | Feels like everyone is in relationships | Discussion | timetraveller5000 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 09:25 PM |
| 10 | The expections on males is still much higher than females | Discussion | timetraveller5000 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/24 01:06 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 2 | Do women expect men to present more "manly" as they age?I've also seen that the ideal sadly seems to be a more rugged bearded look recent years sadly, It's also weird how similar people look today. I watch a lot of movies from 00 and I miss all the different styles, I also remember how different people looked in style in school then, from hair colors to clothing. I wish people could start to have their own styles again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/25 09:05 PM |
| 2 | “The bar is on the floor” for the men women consider their dating pool, which is always men above themYes because women's faces are generally more or less always considered attractive in my opinion, male faces has to be stereotypical masculine to be attractive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/24 05:01 PM |
| 1 | Do you think women are also treated better due to their prettiness?Not from (straight) women tho | /r/MensRights | 08/09/24 12:26 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Your wife is not your mommy. Wives should stop enabling husbands.Why should he provide, he's not her daddy right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/24 08:02 AM |
| 8 | Why do many women seem to take pleasure in rejecting certain men?Because many women don't have any sympathy for men, they seem to only care for other women and babies | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/24 01:19 PM |
| – | The expections on males is still much higher than femalesYes but you feels lied to when you have heard your whole life that it's females who have it harder and suffering so much, also reduces much of the exciting feelings about dating and girls | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/24 01:21 PM |
| 1 | Women tell men to look for subtle signs to approach, then say those are just women being niceProbably bcs they often want everything better than what they're/have themselves | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/24 06:49 PM |
| 1 | Women tell men to look for subtle signs to approach, then say those are just women being niceWomen don’t have an incentive to go after men Sometimes you read about females who raise the babies on their own but I hope and believe that the majority want to live together with someone, we as humans need each other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/24 09:59 AM |
| 3 | Women tell men to look for subtle signs to approach, then say those are just women being niceYes but where's the talk about equality now? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/24 01:31 AM |
| 10 | Women tell men to look for subtle signs to approach, then say those are just women being niceEasy for you to say who doesn't have to do anything just because you're born female | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/24 07:25 PM |
| 0 | Women face no significant penalty when dating in their 30sIt's probably harder when they reach 40+ though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/24 01:31 PM |
| – | I feel like women cannot understand the male experienceEasy for you to say who don't have to lift a finger if you're a woman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/24 09:49 AM |
| 0 | What advice would you give a "high value man" who is struggling with dating?I'm not a feminist but I'm for gender equality. If no gender issues should be addressed ever, do you think it was okay when women wasn't able to vote? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/24 12:43 AM |
| 5 | What advice would you give a "high value man" who is struggling with dating?You woman only want gender equality when it benefits you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/24 12:29 AM |
| 1 | Looking for your opinions or comments on a poll I conducted at a university. Could you share your honest thoughts?I wish women for a day just could drop that unnecessary height requirement and see the person instead | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/24 09:25 AM |
| 2 | Are men accepting far less these days or has it always been like this?In my opinion, the problem is not that you can now own your own property and money, get education etc, but that women generally will require even more from their partners: a partner who have even more money than themselves, looks better and have even better education, that's why so many are single today. In a fair world women would think that okay, today we have got these benefit we didn't had before, so now we don't have to expect all the traditional things we did before | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/24 05:26 PM |
| 3 | Who are the ones enforcing specific gender expectations and norms again?And meanwhile u often see more or less masculine women with men who accept them for who they are, women are picky with everything... | /r/MensRights | 04/12/23 08:00 PM |
| 11 | Man gets caught looking at a woman in public, gets his face posted on TikTok with thousands now labeling him a "creep"Reminds me of a situation two days ago, a girl together with a guy put her headphones on a chair in a full restaurant and there was one chair left, I asked in a polite way if it was free and she said only one of the chairs was free. Fine I thought, probably some other gonna sit there later. 30 min later they left and nobody sat at the "reserved" seat, so entitled behavior. If I had been there with another person, she would probably not remove the things from that chair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/23 06:57 PM |
| 1 | This story illustrates the ego pumping that online dating apps can give women:Everything in society is in favor of women to make it easier for them: makeup, high heels shoes, big support groups, support from society etc. Would be more fair if makeup wasn't allowed on dating apps actually. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/23 11:10 AM |
| 0 | Meanwhile...in Germany and Switzerland...next to the entrance/exits of shops, and safe from the misogynistic element known as rain..Imagine the reactions if the situation were the opposite, "male only parking lots" | /r/MensRights | 14/11/23 06:34 PM |
| 1 | The core importance of the blackpill and why attempts from normies at "deradicalization" or "deconversion" from the blackpill is futile.If he had been a woman I'm sure that person would do just fine, the baseline is just so much higher for males. In my opinion as guy, he's not a 10 but not hideous in any way. | /r/AllPillDebate | 11/11/23 10:13 PM |
| – | Men don't get it. Women have moved onYes but you're born with a pussy right, not everyone of us is 6'2" tho | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/23 10:02 PM |
| 3 | People blame the fish pic, his personality, etc. but the reality is being average for a man isn’t enough anymore.Read many of the comments and I don't think he looks that bad either, some older women answered that he looks under average, I wonder how she looks? Btw, people only look at the first profile pic during swiping. Women or chads can literally have whatever bio like "I pooped today" and still get unlimited matches because the bio more or less don't matter. When I change my bio, I don't get more or less swipes, it only varies slightly when I change picture | /r/AllPillDebate | 02/11/23 07:41 PM |
| – | Men don't get it. Women have moved onYou miss the point, we don't have that hard limits like you have to be x height, earn that much and have x tits size to be considered | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/23 05:45 PM |
| – | Men don't get it. Women have moved onThis would disappoint me before but reveals the fact that women don't like us guys as people or who we actually are like we love women. We can love an obese poor woman for her. You can only love them for what they provide in terms of money, status, physical strength. We assume you want a partner, don't need a partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/23 04:25 PM |
| 7 | Is this the ideal relationship? When women is so much into you?Mark Zuckerberg's wife looks better, cringe | /r/AllPillDebate | 26/10/23 04:33 PM |
| 1 | Being Asian and having a sister is rope fuelBut I mean all those privileges, can get jobs easier and so on, no employees a guy because he's a guy for ex | /r/AllPillDebate | 20/10/23 02:18 PM |
| 3 | Being Asian and having a sister is rope fuelYes, it's probably the best era to be a young woman today, yet they are seen as victims | /r/AllPillDebate | 17/10/23 05:59 PM |
| 1 | Why are women allowed to be so horrible and hypocritical?Exactly the same reasons we also find most cats, dogs and other animals cute and adorable actually, that's why women more or less are loved unconditionally in my opinion | /r/AllPillDebate | 29/09/23 07:27 PM |
| 5 | CMV : If you’re the guy she had to lower her “unrealistic” standards for the you’re forever on thin iceIf all women though that way back in the days, many including you wouldn't even be here today. Internet dating have raised the standards out of the boundaries. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 07:50 PM |
| 5 | CMV : If you’re the guy she had to lower her “unrealistic” standards for the you’re forever on thin iceWhy do all women expect a chad? It's realistic to get a partner around your own level, also for women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 06:38 PM |
| 1 | Ladies, imagine a man with a list of no-no's this big. Yet for women this is TUESDAY! Yet why do you get so mad when men do this too?🚩 Basically the same things every women do, more or less, but when they do it's okay...? | /r/AllPillDebate | 24/09/23 08:33 AM |
| 9 | Why men are (rightfully) bitter.Tho, when women have any problems it's always seen as a society problem and they get empathy and resources from everywhere. When males have problems, they always have to solve it by themselves or accept it, nobody deeply cares. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/23 12:10 AM |
| 5 | Why men are (rightfully) bitter.But it's a lot harder to looksmax for men compared to women. We rarely use make-up ofc. Besides a new haircut and some gym we cannot change our jaws, body height or grow a full beard if you don't have the genes for that, it's a night and day difference. Those things are the only things that matter by today's standards. As a woman u can just put on some make-up (optional) and nice clothing and you're fine as you are then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 11:53 PM |
| 2 | Women admitting the crushing reality for most men in dating, would not change anythingMaybe because we care about women so we expect the same empathy back? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/23 04:47 AM |
| 1 | Listening to older women is actually beneficial to younger women when it comes to datingWell they also use Tinder but when I think about it I might got a few more matches there than home when I visited over a day | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 10:15 AM |
| 1 | Listening to older women is actually beneficial to younger women when it comes to datingMy parents think so too, my dad also tells me every now and then to find a girl in Poland (just because he did) 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 06:15 AM |
| 2 | My (M30) Girlfriend (F37) questioned wether I am a 'real man' or notImagine how people would react if a male questioned if a women is a real women but the opposite is always okay for some reason... | /r/MensRights | 02/09/23 05:34 AM |
| 1 | I've had 40 Hinge dates. I firmly believe a woman's initial interest in a man has a window of time to it.Where? Not in public media. I don't count reddit communities as public media. The only thing you hear is how women is victims and how high beauty standards is for them (from other women in reality). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 04:36 PM |
| 5 | Have you ever seen a couple in real life that DOESN’T fit your pill views?A few times I've seen males shorter than me (5'7) with girls but they had all full beards and perfect faces, it's a strange world we live in. | /r/AllPillDebate | 14/08/23 03:29 PM |
| 0 | The problem with online dating is women's selectiveness, not the ratio of men to womenYes because as you say, they tend to choose violent men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/23 08:03 AM |
| 1 | How often do you see relationships where the man is significantly more attractive than the woman?I didn't know there were many blonde people in Germany, mostly in Scandinavia in my experience. But I live in Sweden and not many guys are even blonde here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 02:44 PM |
| – | Height is the most influencing factor to a man's SMVI wish women with small boobs were rejected as well so they understood how it feels to be a bit shorter as a guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/23 11:36 PM |
| 0 | Most relationships are transactional and aren't based on real love.I believe cute entities gets more love, isn't why animals and babies looks pretty? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 03:00 PM |
| -1 | Most relationships are transactional and aren't based on real love.I would say women, pets, babies and children are loved unconditionally, as most women are attractive by default and don't have to initiate anything or pay more than having a remotely attractive face/body, or more like if you're not totally deformed you're fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 02:37 PM |
| 3 | The crime of being a virgin over 20Women are entitled as fuck like small children. But don't tell them anything of the past, just say you have had 2-3 relationships. In a normal world the women would have been glad to be the first but as they have 0 understanding or empathy for guys problems they do this. They only have empathy for women and children/babies | /r/AllPillDebate | 28/06/23 12:35 PM |
| 1 | Ever notice when people try and debunk the looks halo theory they always bring up examples of attractive people with bad personalities but never unattractive people with good personalities?No way Bezos is a 3, he's a 5-6. At least average looking. | /r/AllPillDebate | 26/06/23 12:56 PM |
| 14 | Why are most men (and their issues) invisible to women?Yeah but we men are also human beings. I believe women treated normal, average looking men better back in the days tho. Social media, internet and feminism destroyed it. I'm not against equality but feminism only care for women. | /r/MensRights | 24/06/23 05:22 PM |
| 4 | Most women can’t admit that they care about looks just/nearly as much as men because they see themselves as the sophisticated and non-primitive gender as opposed to men.Yes, idk all details but my neighbors who are in their 50s divorced (married since about 20 years) and the husband has to move out because he's deeply depressed and had to quite his job as train driver. After about a year without a job the women divorced and he has to move out. I don't think the women would have to move out if the situation was flipped. And he's a lot taller and she's obese but still do this. It's pretty obvious women don't care for the person, just what you provide (and just lo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/23 01:31 PM |
| 5 | "You are not your job, you're not how much money you have in the bank. You are not the car you drive. You're not the contents of your wallet."I would say women are loved for who they are too. Pets and babies too, by just existing. Us men only seems to be valued for what we provides direct or indirect. | /r/MensRights | 22/06/23 08:50 PM |
| 5 | WHAT IS SOMETHING THE OPPOSITE SEX USUALLY HATES ABOUT THEIR BODIES THAT YOU ACTUALLY LOVE? Discussion ThreadI find thicker/curvy women hot, for some reason many seems to think they should be thinner... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/23 06:51 PM |
| 13 | Is "trying" overrated?No women have ever heard that they're not cut out for romance so why do you say this to guys? Women don't even have to do anything, no initiatives, not paying, no planning, just some makeup if they want. It's like a billionaire tells you you don't need any money. Why should women be entitled to everything 2023? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/23 09:10 AM |
| 3 | I regularly see women say on here that men overrate their own appearance, but women are guilty of this to a significantly higher degree.Especially since women only have to be women to get (good) partners. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/23 07:11 PM |
| 1 | How many men have you told that "looks don't matter?"But in hard times it wasn't a lie, they had to have a partner to survive long time ago. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 11:32 PM |
| 1 | How many men have you told that "looks don't matter?"I believe it was somewhat true around that time, they probably valued providing (money) over looks before social media which have raised the minimum standards. Nowadays women in the west rely on the state for money and are more educated and then value looks more because they can. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 09:04 PM |
| 1 | Most women aren't on dating apps. So how are they getting relationships or having sex?When they go to shops, on the train, bus, the street, library and so on. What a dream if women just started to talk from nowhere... Definitely life on easy mode. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 08:42 PM |
| 1 | Is there even any society set expectations left on women anymore?What's wrong with my username?? It's common to hear guys say they want a virgin women ideally like women want an experienced partner ideally. Not something I've come up with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/23 06:30 AM |
| 1 | TikTok gender swap pill: Women surprised that most of them look like unattractive menRealityPill | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 05:02 PM |
| 8 | A lot of dating advice given by women here only works for womenBlue pil advice must be made by women's thoughts, "just be yourself, personality matter more, just be nice..." which probably works for women but not the opposite. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/23 09:16 PM |
| 1 | From my observation, the standard of beauty for men is a lot higher than the standard of beauty for women.But tall girls are still seen as attractive, it's not even comparable. I'm a guy 5'7 and ofc a girl around 6'+ get a partner easier than in my case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/23 11:27 AM |
| 2 | Beauty standards for men are far more unrealistic when it comes down to datingIt's not uncommon here in northern Europe to see couples where the guy is way taller, 2-3 dm diff. I'm 5'7 and don't have much success even if I have an okay face and a good job, only meet kinda odd girls without jobs etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/23 11:11 AM |
| 2 | Beauty standards for men are far more unrealistic when it comes down to datingExactly! It's a crazy up side down world we live in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/23 11:00 AM |
| 4 | Should men still cold approach women?What they mean: Only approach if you're a Chad™. Many women wanna keep the cake and eat it too, all benefits without any responsibilities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/23 11:57 AM |
| 13 | I've had 40 Hinge dates. I firmly believe a woman's initial interest in a man has a window of time to it.It's crazy but still in 2023 we have to do everything to move the date forward and women only have to relax and exist. Why nobody talks about this? It's so inequal when the women's roles have changed so much since the beginning. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/23 11:38 AM |
| 0 | People dating need to be realistic with their expectationsYou either have a feeling for rythms or not but ofc anyone can learn to dance if they have that interest. In a relationship u have to give and take, and have realistic expections. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/22 03:55 PM |
| 1 | People dating need to be realistic with their expectationsWhy can't you just teach him how to dance if he can't? For me it seems like a minor issue | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/22 01:55 PM |
| 12 | Women can easily find relationships within online datingThey don't exist, every women is successful there when the ratios is like 70 / 30 if not even worse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/22 12:11 AM |
| 8 | Women can easily find relationships within online datingWomen and girls have it too easy, only have to exist, choose from a never ending bunch of people all day and pick the winner out of the cake. And yet they complain about "there's no good guys". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/22 12:03 AM |
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