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| 6 | Even when it comes to relationships hot guys have this "premium" version of it the average guy just doesn't get to experienceI would say that the happiest are when the man is higher value and the woman thinks she scored. If the woman naturally wants her man to have authority over her, everyone is happy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 06:37 AM |
| 1 | Do you think it’s true that dating gets easier for men and harder for women in their 30s?Depends what you call dating. Casual sex or serious relationship ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 06:15 PM |
| 1 | Being called a "fuckboy" is the biggest compliment you can get as a manNot everything but almost. Healthy sex life -> confidence -> More bandwidth to focus on other matters -> progress -> attracting healthier people -> positive spiral. Of course, if you are bad at everything, sex won’t change it. But again, people bad at everything usually do not get sex either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 08:39 AM |
| 7 | Do women actually marry the men they aren't really that sexually attracted to?Average men don’t get to settle or choose. They get what is given to them, that’s the only “action” they get. Which ends up with a divorce/break up anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 10:26 AM |
| 2 | Do women actually marry the men they aren't really that sexually attracted to?Mature? What do you mean by that? Does it mean that having fun with sexy guys is immature? As opposed to starting a family? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 10:21 AM |
| 0 | Do women actually marry the men they aren't really that sexually attracted to?THANK YOU for your honesty, we appreciate! Btw, it is highly possible that when you quit the emancipation game at 22-23, your (future) husband might have been a virgin around that age (maybe 2 3 girls max). He will not even experience 1% of what you had. And even if he does, supposing he is single and learned game, it will be around his late 30’s with a society that is viewing like a creep because he hasn’t made a family. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 10:06 AM |
| 1 | The Red Pill is dying and RP influencers are killing it.Red pill is an approach to men/women relationships. It doesn’t die, live or whatever. It’s simply a tool that helps to interpret. No morality, goodVSevil, shame, politics or emotions involved. It’s like saying surrealism or Newtonian physics is dead, it doesn’t make sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 03:01 PM |
| 1 | Women of Reddit, what is your actual body count vs. the body count you tell the men you're with when they ask?He never said it’s hypocritical or unfair. It’s just the way we are. Women want the best masculine man she can get with (tall symmetric resourceful bold strong etc). Men want sexy submissive EXCLUSIVE women. Probably it goes down to the fear of not raising your own child or something, but whatever it is, that’s how things go | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/23 10:57 PM |
| 4 | How do redpillers justify sleeping around if they diminish the worth of women?The guy who isn’t “remarkable”. Maybe he is short, average looking or doesn’t have a super interesting hobby, maybe not making enough money to travel, have a cool flat and do fun stuff. Maybe he is simply an introvert (a real one), or doesn’t do sport regularly. Basically most guys if you check all these things. These things have nothing to do with being nice but it’s irrelevant since most guys are nice (empathetic) enough to have a human relationship. Psychopaths are less than 2% in society. So… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/23 03:42 PM |
| 10 | How do redpillers justify sleeping around if they diminish the worth of women?Exactly. But they don’t see it as a reward, they see it as “well we had chemistry but that was only for fun, I got bored, he was immature, didn’t wanna change etc”. And what about the “nice guy” ? Usually the answer is karma-spiritual-style like “everyone has someone waiting for them. Twin flames find each other at the end. Love finds a way”. Nope, sorry, that guy that is invisible to you is also invisible to 99% of women. Same works for men, but in different proportions. If a woman is really an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/23 11:00 AM |
| 2 | "Be her friend first" or "Make your intentions known" - Which is it?The success rate depends on how many orbiters are there and your “ranking” amongst them. Yes it’s horrible and imho not worth it even if you get some action once or twice, you lose so much more in resources, time and especially self esteem. In Early 20’s and younger you can only be the devil with strangers because girls will see you as an adventure and let themselves go, no judgment. The way to go is trips (even alone), festivals, hang out with “players”, cold approach to keep your mouth smooth … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/23 10:03 AM |
| 0 | "Be her friend first" or "Make your intentions known" - Which is it?It depends on YOUR smv. you should be honest to yourself about it. Try a little flirt in the beginning to measure the openness. If you see that the girl responds it means you can be a devil. If not, it means you have to go the angel way and seduce with personality friendship blablabla, but with no guarantee (aka thirsty orbiter) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/23 07:26 PM |
| 2 | Alpha widow ?I think he knows that unfortunately, it’s about being great and still not being enough… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/23 12:07 AM |
| 1 | I never understood this concept when it comes to sexWomen are judged yes (by men AND women: slut shaming) but number of sexual partners in modern times (and western cultures) is way way way higher for women. I don’t care about body count because I’m not planning to commit, but saying that men have more sexual partners in average than women is delusional. Average men got used to sexual draught. Bandwidth of porn usage is a sufficient proof (there are other proofs of course) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/22 10:46 AM |
| 1 | What do you think about women who have "no ONS" written in their tinder bio?I think bio is completely irrelevant, whether she is saying the truth, lying or wants you to read me tween the lines or any BS. Except mentioning a child, std, or some serious red flag. All that matters to her (and to you probably) are looks. You could be a sociopath and it wouldn’t matter. If course if you are a catch she will want more than a ONS, but again, if you are indeed a catch you don’t want to settle with someone from damn tinder. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/22 04:52 PM |
| 2 | How has your relationship with your own mother changed after discovering the red pill?Lucky you! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/22 08:37 PM |
| 2 | The elephant in the room that women have attempted to get us to ignore: women are not attracted to genuinely nice guysYes, the point is about that "door" , aka sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/22 02:28 AM |
| 1 | The elephant in the room that women have attempted to get us to ignore: women are not attracted to genuinely nice guys"yes, very nice... Now let's see Philosoferking's answer to "be my daddy"" 👀 PS: this epiphany just happened to me some months ago as well. So many lost opportunities... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/22 01:44 AM |
| 8 | You Can't Claim Alpha Fux Beta Bux Isn't Real And At The Same Time Say You Had Sex With A Guy You Didn't Want A Relationship WithI mostly agree but there is a tiny and important detail. Men, unless they are super mega hot, can only discover true sexual activity when older (more money, better frame and personality, more experience, etc) while women get to explore whenever they decide is "good" (16, 18, 22, 25 yo). So by the age of, let's say, 30, most women had already "explored" their sexuality and probably sex is just a nice thing to do from time to time (like having a drink). Whereas men are still hungry as if they were… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/22 06:35 AM |
| 3 | Women are not the romantic gender, men are.I have no resentment in this opinion. It's just my observation and I might be wrong. Again, I'm waiting to be proven wrong and I'm open to discussion. I could say something similar about men (in general) not caring about feelings of their SO for example. I can be a man and observe/comment men's behaviour. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/22 01:48 PM |
| 6 | Women are not the romantic gender, men are.I feel that in general women are rarely passionate about hobbies (if they have any). Traveling, having a good time, partying, meeting friends, shopping etc are not hobbies, or at least they aren't activities that you can base gifts on. It usually comes back to fragrance, flowers, jewelry, etc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/22 12:55 PM |
| 8 | For generations a women’s only worth was her looks. Now it’s mens turn.There are many things that explain the gatekeeping. One that comes to my mind is the fact that, beside VERY handsome men (5% of population or less), you need to be seduced with flirting texting being clean shaven having social status confidence charisma etc. From your POV, you sleep with anyone you are attracted to, but that's a very very small percentage of men. Plus the fact that even if they are attractive you could be turned off by some behaviour. For men, if you are a 3 or 4/10 and you don'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/22 01:18 PM |
| 1 | The average young man is boring, easily manipulated, and desperate, and this is why they can't get a ladyMonkey dance is when you don't know the game and/or are desperate. If you work on your "frame" and on yourself it gives you in the same time pussy (by looking manly and fresh) and independence from it (by getting busy improving yourself) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/22 07:06 PM |
| 1 | The average young man is boring, easily manipulated, and desperate, and this is why they can't get a ladyMy bad then. But I get why it's still confusing or disappointing for women. We are "wired" differently regarding sexual matters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/22 06:49 PM |
| 3 | The average young man is boring, easily manipulated, and desperate, and this is why they can't get a ladyBiology, hormones, thirst, instinct, need for intimacy, whatever. Pick and choose, there is a reason why prostitution is as old as civilization | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/22 06:25 PM |
| 11 | The average young man is boring, easily manipulated, and desperate, and this is why they can't get a ladyHow to get average dick : (1) Tinder : swipe, date, plug & play (2) Go out and ask couple of guys to fk (with condom), end of story. How to get average pussy : As an obligatory start, don't be too ugly, too short, have confidence. Now the game: Look clean and fresh, smile but not too much, impose yourself, show no dependence or pussy thirst, approach smoothly , engage a convo smoothly, don't make it boring, don't seem boring, be interesting, seduce/sexualize the convo, hope that you made no mist… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/22 12:02 PM |
| 7 | Finally got laid, push and pull technique was the best.I see your point. I have 2 questions: What if "genuine best overclocked me" attracts no one ? Am I destined to wait for the "right one", die a virgin or go to prostitutes? Is make up genuine? Push up bra ? Heavy beard ? Implants ? Roids? Wearing classy/revealing clothes for dates ? Perfume ? I'm not getting on my high horse. I'm interested in seeing how one can genuinely seduce, especially if you have more or less repulsive imperfections. If someone's curious (who knows), I'm myself having some … | /r/seduction | 04/05/20 02:40 PM |
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