timjohnbrad11 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	I need more feminine energy Honestly embrace that you’re a leader and pick quieter guys than you. Opposites attract - similar is fun for a night but it doesn’t work long term	/r/seduction	28/09/24 03:01 AM
5	Approaching girls in group class After only - and small talk is enough, just keep it casual as you’ll see them again. Please don’t tell them they’re cute!	/r/seduction	28/09/24 02:58 AM
1	How do you deal with "things" in your life not going so well? Do you just side-step topics that you know are going to be a downer, or just go on lock-down until you are feeling in higher spirits? On the positive side, this experience will show you who your actual friends are. People you feel comfortable seeing are good friends, and the others are not (not to say they’re not friends but likely fair weather friends who you’d rather not be in a position of weakness with). Regarding work, you’re not going to be your best self / put adequate time into finding the right job if you’re overworked in a job you don’t see yourself doing long term. My advice (having been there once at the same age):…	/r/seduction	21/09/24 02:11 AM
1	Men who couldn't get any women to talk to them to getting women to sleep with you, what changed? Learning to be comfortable talking to strangers - literally just talk to everyone and you’ll see it’s not a big deal	/r/seduction	09/09/24 12:56 AM
1	Should I try to get along with ex? No	/r/seduction	09/09/24 12:46 AM
2	When approaching women, is it more cerebral or improvisational? The key is not having the attitude of trying to pick them up - it will seem forced and they’ll notice. Have the attitude of wanting to actually get to know them. It also helps to realise that everyone likes speaking to someone who brings something to the table / is additive. No one likes speaking to someone who makes them feel awkward.	/r/seduction	09/09/24 12:44 AM
1	What's the game plan in a night club? Talk to girls queuing next to you at the bar (or any queue really). It’s non-threatening, usually quieter so you can hear what they’re saying, and has a natural time limit if not going well.	/r/seduction	08/09/24 07:10 PM
1	Mexico City Yeah sorry to clarify, it depends on what you’re after. If you’re just there a few weeks apps and bars / clubs your best bet.	/r/seduction	08/09/24 06:50 PM
2	Need guidance Just talk to her - if you feel the convo dying change the topic, no one minds (it’s better than a 15 pointless deep dive). If you think you should kiss her then kiss her, she’s thinking the same.	/r/seduction	08/09/24 12:07 PM
1	Mexico City Also: Tacos Cariñito (tacos estilo asiático espectaculares) Orinoco (recomendamos taco de chicharron y de postre un buñuelo) Autentico pato manila (tacos de pato) El charco de las ranas Califa (clásica taquerías) Fondas C.o.m.e (fonda japonesa deliciosa) Fonda 115 (fonda gourmet deliciosa en la roma) Buena vida Parnitas Restaurantes Em Maximo Galanga (comida thai delicioso) Hugo (un must para ir a tomar vinos y comer) Contramar Sartoria (italiano con arquitectura cool) Kura (japones delicioso) R…	/r/seduction	08/09/24 12:03 PM
1	How can I start day 1 if I'm an introvert? I had the same worries, the solution as you already know is - 1) talk to anyone day to day (no one cares, just do it) 2) Sit next to someone in a lecture and say hi - they’re just as keen to speak	/r/seduction	08/09/24 12:00 PM
1	Why self improvement won't solve your dating problems As someone who did both toastmasters and improv (including a stage performance), I completely agree. In reality, it is just learning how to be comfortable talking and bringing something to the table. If you’re additive people want you there. Nowadays I’ll walk into an elevator and end up hanging out all night, or tonight a solo girl was playing beer pong and I’ll instantly say I’ll be her partner without any awkwardness. It takes time and you’ll hate the process but you’ll get there.	/r/seduction	08/09/24 11:54 AM
1	Attraction fundamentals In reality confidence builds over time and is correlated to being successful in your chosen field. Everyone can spot an insecure pretender (especially girls). Also accept being a late teen early twenties is terrible for guys. Learn to chat and approach a girl when she makes it easy for you (Ie next to you in a queue for the bar, persistent eyes)	/r/seduction	08/09/24 11:41 AM
1	Mexico City Hit Republica (queue a nightmare even with girls and money), it’s a tough scene to crack until you’re on the inside - most parties are at houses. Girls don’t use apps and hilariously status oriented and not impressed by money. Enjoy!	/r/seduction	08/09/24 11:18 AM
1	I ended a 6 year relationship. Now I want to casually get back in the game, but I feel lost. How should I go about it? My friend has the same situation and feelings. The good thing is being older is half of it and you’re going to laugh at how easy it is. Literally go to bar, if there are girls beside you with open body language it means they are keen and talk to them. If girls look at you and stand near you just say hi and 90% of the work is done. This will be the best thing that ever happened to you.	/r/seduction	08/09/24 11:03 AM
1	How do I stop being a pu**y? Realise they’re humans too and it doesn’t matter if you say something stupid (though it’ll haunt you forever). We all find it awkward talking to strangers but if you want to be successful in any regard you need to learn.	/r/seduction	08/09/24 10:56 AM
1	I fucked up the best opportunity I've ever had Adjust, internalise and move on	/r/seduction	08/09/24 10:53 AM