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It's not "only good for sex," it's about casual sex. Some men want casual sex, other men want relationships. There's also an overlap between two groups. Depending on what you want, body count can be good or bad. "Tattoos are a green flag, if you don't care about marriage."
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 09:14 PM
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I'd develop a new personality. Always plant seeds when talking to women. Have a care-free attitude, flirt and don't go into it thinking you're making female friends. Every time you talk to women, keep seduction at the back of your mind. That way, you wont be emotionally invested, you wont have unhealthy attachments and you wont struggle going from "friends" to sex. The trick is to not hold expectations in your mind. Be stoic, have internal locus of control. Emotional distress comes from experien…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 10:00 PM
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The Wall is women's realization that they cannot compete with their younger selves. You can define it as the decline in fertility and sexual appeal between the ages of 30 and 35, or mindset shifts and the epiphany phase, where a woman will start to act differently towards dating. She'll start asking you questions like "Where is this going?"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 08:14 AM
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Yes. Essentially, sexual marketplace has opened up, both sexes have more options and more freedom to choose. Because women are the selectors, men have to compete. I guess it's harder today, but there are no other options than competing harder. Complaining about it wont help.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 07:30 PM
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CMV? Who would disagree with this?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 05:40 PM
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What if you marry your gf you had sex with? What if after you marry and have sex, you find out her vagina smells bad? I think sex before marriage is a must.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 04:13 PM
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I think that for this case it's basically men trying to warn another man of his wife's promiscuity. It's pointless to come up with a thought process, because it's innate. But, the goal wouldn't be fixing all women, it would be something like "I don't want this to happen to me," or "I want to help my buddy."
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 03:58 PM
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I don't think it's that deep. Slut-shaming is just part of intrasexual competition. "Slut-shaming effectively works to arouse suspicion and cause suitors to question the fidelity of these females. Considering this and the high-value that men attach to women who practice chastity, men are less likely to mate with a supposedly promiscuous female due to the fear of becoming a cuckold."
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 03:35 PM
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I literally told you that it's about how to think and you replied with what to think.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 01:20 PM
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I mean, it seems like you're deliberately trying to misunderstand.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 01:10 PM
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No, learn how to think not what to think. "Manosphere" is not a thing, ignore the grifters, and TRP is not about beliefs anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 09:01 AM
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People on the internet can't talk about terms "alpha" and "beta" without their own insecurities spewing out, thinking that somebody is called himself an alpha, or thinking that those terms are prescriptive. I'll keep it simple, an "alpha" lives a life according to his natural and healthy needs and wants, unaffected by an indifferent or hostile culture. He does what he wants, if that thing is monogamy, then yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 08:55 AM
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What if I told you that "happiness", "good mental health" or "misery" have nothing to do with you having children? I'll disagree with you, in a sense, because an average guy probably goes through life on a path laid out for him by society. He thinks his purpose are relationships and kids. But, your purpose, your core mission in life can be anything. And your social connection, which is something you'd want to have, is obtainable without kids as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 08:50 AM
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I mean, I can't argue beliefs. I'll end it here.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 09:34 PM
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It's not. BP is how movies, parents, friends told you intersexual dynamics work. Waking up from that takes work. After that, you're RP-aware. People think that TRP is a set of prescriptions, which they disagree with, but it's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 09:20 PM
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I think you have 3 options: suppress your emotions, date women with little or no experience, or work towards your own experience. If you date around enough you'll build up your confidence, then you'll care less. Don't ask if what you feel is okay, just feel it and work around it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 08:37 PM
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I'm a guy so I'll post under here. But, I wonder how well this sub understands the pills. You can't be BP, PP or RP. You're either RP-aware, or not. PP is a "transitioning phase", where you're beginning to unplug from the lies you've been told, but still hold to your ideals. The whole point of TRP is to figure out what works. "Hey, I've tried this", "Hmm, what about that?", "This is what happened, bro". There is no prescriptions in TRP, which you implied, that makes men act in a certain way.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 08:27 PM
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There is this thing in society where women desperately try to tell men that we're the same as them. I think it has something to do with the blank slate theory. Men will never look at a woman's career in the same way she is. It's just not an innate trait for us. I won't go into evolutionary psychology, but men just don't find career as important than women do. The reason why people of similar socioeconomic statuses pair up, is described with assortative mating.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 08:07 PM
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Just become a software engineer like me, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 01:57 PM
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If you're talking about money as if you're showing your bank balance to a woman, then yes, it probably wont make her wet. Being well-off allows you to live more freely, to pursue the things you want, including women. And again, this doesn't mean you grind it out and not date. Your bottom line is still there, you just work on your fitness and wealth as you date around.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 01:56 PM
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You can build muscle, improve your fashion, live a cooler life that women want to be apart of, etc. Even just proximity, you can leverage that better if you're well-off financially. After 25 years old, people seem to care less about age gaps. Also, this study found that on dating sites men peak around 50, but it's obviously based on "age appropriate" women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 10:53 AM
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First, TRP doesn't "tell" men anything, it's just a toolbox, information, swapping notes etc. SMV for men is a combination of things, not just looks. The idea is you can self-improve and play better, which takes time. Self-improvement is not just about money, so you wouldn't ideally end up a beta bux. Also, people for whatever reason think that you wait until your 30s to date, which you shouldn't do.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 10:00 AM
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Definitely the 21yr old. I don't mind paying, money doesn't mean much to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 09:48 AM
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That's not TRP at all. I don't see why you feel the need to mock it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 08:51 AM
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What do you mean? The idea behind peaking in your 30s is that you're still attractive and good money wise, assuming you're working on it. If you're only looking at # of sexual partners, then maybe the peak is in your college years. But, quality of life, lifestyle, networking, the types of women you can date, etc., peaks later.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 08:32 AM
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"In any relationship, the person with the most power is the one who needs the other the least." The cardinal rule of relationships. I don't think you have to view it in such a negative way, just embrace it and have fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 07:15 AM
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In pure TRP there are no prescriptions, but there is a possible end game: "TRP’s endgame is to live a life according to your natural and healthy needs and wants, unaffected by an indifferent or hostile culture."
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 06:00 AM
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I think it's the opposite. Let's assume initiating a relationship means asking somebody on a date. If a woman initiates, it probably means that the man's relative mate-value is higher than if he took the initiative. A woman will only ask a man out whom she perceives as very attractive. In the TRP, there's often this rule spread around, "date women who show the most interest." or "she has to like you more than you like her." Because men are easier to please, those type of relationships can be bet…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 06:12 PM
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Two ideas that I'm aware of. First is so called Instagram boyfriend. Women using boyfriends as a tool for their Instagram profiles. The second, women wanting to keep their options open, "open hypergamy."
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 11:16 AM
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If you're RP aware, you already know this - Rule Zero. Adapt and keep morality out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 09:36 AM
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Yes, nobody reads anymore. Guys are using the term "red pill" because it sounds cool. Most guys haven't read TRP 101 reading list, they don't know Rule Zero, they're only using it as a virtue signal.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 07:52 AM
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Why does it matter what we'd approve of for our daughters? The question is who we find attractive, to have sex with. Conversations about age gaps are popular, I guess, but individuals need to ask themselves whose approval they need, and if any.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 07:09 PM
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I don't see how your description of BP is antithetical to TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 09:18 AM
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I agree. When going on a date you don't talk about it, you just play the game. Keep RP awareness to yourself, then women won't call you a misogynist.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 09:16 AM
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They should read "The Manipulated Man", which is written by a woman. Also, core TRP is not misogynistic, but guys take it too far.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 09:12 AM
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