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Just let the men have this one. I don’t understand why women fight to be as horny as men, it’s not like not being horny is a bad thing
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 01:04 PM
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There is no way you’re in these comments complaining about women judging non college educated men, yet here you are judging non colleges educated women 😭😭 can’t make this up
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 07:43 AM
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Right. But how will women stopping complaining solve any problems for the unsuccessful guys? Women will allegedly still be dating chads, they still won’t be getting none. You really believe they’ll stop having any problems with that because women have shut up?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 07:27 AM
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Bc of your eye area I think you should wear glasses. Thick frames will make the space appear smaller
/r/AllPillDebate18/10/23 02:28 AM
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I can’t believe a real human actually wrote that sentence 😂😂
/r/AllPillDebate18/10/23 02:23 AM
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Do you genuinely believe if all women suddenly shut up about their dating woes, the unsuccessful guys would stop complaining? I totally agree people need to deal with the consequences of their actions, but I don’t believe at all it’s the driving force behind any of this stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 01:20 AM
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A platonic male friend that loves me. Female friends that hate you can be so deranged. Stealing things, sabotaging your relationships, destroying your reputation - no thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 11:38 PM
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Rt rt. if you’re not in the best physical condition you can be (within reason obvs, no steroids or EDs) you’re not allowed to complain
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 11:34 PM
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Sometimes I check the profiles of weird comments on a popular post and it’s a grown man with a family. I’d curl up and die if that was my husband
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 10:57 PM
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So rude of us
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 07:46 PM
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Is there really much difference between a 5 and a 5.5? Most people are not exactly 5s. Mid is a range imo, 4-6
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 06:56 PM
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Depends. Normally just one in the morning but if I’m dieting I’ll have 3 or 4 as an appetite suppressant
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 03:51 PM
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Meh. Your pictures would have to be really good for me to match with this
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 03:50 PM
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I don’t think Michael cera is average. Having a recessed chin is not average (is it?). The rest of his face is average, but the chin is a big negative. Better to have oddly spaced eyes or a bad nose than a bad chin as a man
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 03:28 PM
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I think there’s too much subjectivity in the mid range for attraction to be objective. Sure most people will agree on the most attractive and unattractive people. But where it gets sticky is a 5.5 to one person can be an 8 to another, or a 7 can be a 5 to someone else. Say some of your friend’s type is blondes with blue eyes and others prefer dark features. There could be a blonde girl who is somewhere between 5-6. Everyone could agree they’re at least okay looking, but you have half the group a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 03:06 PM
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Sorry. I’ll let everyone at the annual Mid Convention know we need to do better.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 02:37 PM
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I feel like it’s different these days because most people (that I hang out with at least) aren’t competing for the same men in their social circle because friendships and dating are more fragmented. So you’re not really competing with the other girl who likes that guy in your social circle, you’re competing with an unknown girl who he met somewhere else/on instagram/another dating app match. So there’s not much going on because you literally don’t know who she is. All you can do is put your best…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 01:10 PM
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Had a local professional athlete come into my sixth form to talk about his porn addiction. At the time I thought it was so random and weird. Now I understand. He blew up his marriage for it. Had to take a long time off work which derailed his career.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 11:52 AM
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It’s so ubiquitous. I read so much stuff on Reddit about wanting to try stuff, explore kinks etc and it annoyingly makes me anxious. I would hate to get married and he eventually wants to try more and more acts he’s seen in porn. What’s wrong with the regular stuff? If that makes me a prude so be it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 11:48 AM
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So many people have older half siblings or their parents/grandparents got married immediately after meeting each other but can’t put the dots together
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 11:27 AM
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I’m from a traditional country so casual sex is veryyy stigmatised and my sister has a different mum because my dad had a hookup when he was 19 before he dated the proper way and married my mum at 25 and she was 20. Casual sex isn’t new
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 11:22 AM
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stepfathers are more feminine and agreeable. Hence why they’re stepdads. Women don’t want them until they need them. This ignores the large amount of stepfathers that already have children of their own. A woman already wanted him before he dated a single mother. The vast majority of people are cohabitating or married when they have their first child. I don’t understand why the manosphere acts like the only pairing is single mother-childless man, when most blended families are single mother-singl…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 10:36 AM
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usually better looking, normally taller, more confident, physically fit, imposing, in better shape with the body I think looks matter as much as the next person but none of this is actually important in a partner, except maybe being physically fit because of health and lifestyle. When you’re in the trenches of life and need support no one gives a flying monkeys how tall their partner is. Someone being good looking doesn’t automatically make them a better partner, nor does it make them a worse on…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 10:30 AM
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Why do you reckon men can have it all but women can’t?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 10:25 AM
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I agree that the reaction would be different if genders were switched but I also think masturbation is a private thing especially if he was watching porn. Couldn’t he wait until she left the room Jheez have some decorum
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 09:55 PM
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Unemployed grad aha x
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 09:29 PM
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This is crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 09:24 PM
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I want to rave in Brazil https://spotify.link/feitOvlaXDb but not enough money. Croatia and Barcelona next year and World Cup 2026. How do people afford this 🤬
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 09:18 PM
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Not worth it. A 2/10 is deformed no? I think most people are at least a 3
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 07:47 PM
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Where is that MMA guy when you need him
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 07:36 PM
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Controversial but I don’t think a man smashing if he had the chance doesn’t mean he’s not a friend. If he’s not actively trying to smash, that’s fine. I don’t necessarily think all men that are attracted to their friend are patiently waiting for a chance to get with her. Maybe he’s got a girlfriend he loves, maybe they are incompatible relationship wise, there’s all sorts of reasons why he’s not “waiting for a chance”. I think it’s normal to have a friend that you think is pretty but not want an…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 07:30 PM
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How far down lookswise do I gotta shoot for a guy who will do absolutely everything for me for nothing in return?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 07:20 PM
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I think so. I think attractive women are a dime a dozen, whereas an attractive man is more rare so it’s valued more. Make up can make an average woman appear above average but even naturally beautiful woman are more plentiful (if you go to the right places). I think there are more beautiful women than beautiful men, but the most attractive man is more attractive than the most attractive woman. Take David and Victoria beckham for example. She is pretty, but he is more attractive than her. On pure…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 07:13 PM
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I think OP has worded it wrong, I don’t believe he’s talking about sex drive at all. Just that sexual attraction (ie finding that person attractive) is near the bottom of his list. He prioritises other things for a romantic relationship, because without other traits it’s just a hook up. I think this is fair?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 04:33 PM
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How do you know guys you observe on the street are chronically single? Do you ask them?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 11:37 AM
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Idk in my case I will 100% be taking 11 months off for maternity leave and at that salary I would do 1-1.5 years. I’d be fine if he took the next year or so off, then I would want my 3 year old to be in nursery so he better get back to work after that. I wouldn’t be happy with him being a SAHD when we have school aged children
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 11:31 AM
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Live and let live I say
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 02:19 AM
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If a man demanded money for holding a door open I would laugh and continue laughing all the way to my destination. Did I even ask for him to hold the door open? 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 11:14 PM
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I do regard myself as progressive and think this also. My preferences are not for everyone and i would never want them to be. If others want a house husband I’m happy for them. Not happening in my house tho
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 11:08 PM
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Ain’t no way I’m coming home from work to a man whose been in the house all day baking and cleaning. That’s not masculine to me. But I admit I’m more traditional than others which is fine, what works for me won’t work for others.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 11:06 PM
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Could you give an example of haunting eyes? I’ve never understood what people meant by kind eyes or sparkling eyes unless they were literally just describing eye colour
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 10:47 PM
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Same. I dread to think some of the stuff I might have missed if I didn’t come across the pill spaces. I’m slyly feeding my friends the information I find on here
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 10:40 PM
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no one really believes that 70 year old men and women are as viscerally attracted to each other as two 20 somethings are, but that doesn’t mean they’re not really happy. If you get a good 20,30 years of sexual attraction and it morphs into a more platonic love in your old age, that’s a pretty happy marriage to me. Obviously you deal with cheating husbands (???), but that doesn’t mean ALL husbands are cheating. Sure, they will find other people attractive but so do people in new relationships. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 12:17 PM
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What film is that? No idea what he’s on about
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 11:32 AM
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What are other people doing?! I’m too scared to wax
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 07:01 AM
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Not on the inner flaps it’s more like the hair on the majora grows as close as possible to the minora if you get me
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 07:00 AM
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Big Flaps doesn’t want you to know this industry secret (I can’t believe I just wrote that sentence)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 06:57 AM
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See what I mean? No one talks about it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 09:27 PM
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No one talks about how hard shaving your flaps is. The inside is so hard to get to
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 09:03 PM
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the guy I’m dating is childfree (unfortunately). He is most of those things, I think he has adhd tho. He’s one of 2 people I’ve ever met that have expressed their childfree views to me. I don’t think there’s many of them at all, just a higher population on Reddit. I think most people I know want children
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 09:01 PM
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Idk, I don’t think all of human attraction is as simple as a + b = c, but there are some general trends. Why do people have fetishes for bbws, amputees, elderly women? Some parts aren’t rational or explainable. If I had to guess, again glasses are only a recent phenomenon. I don’t think our subconscious has realised that plastic on the face = poor eyesight yet
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 02:07 PM
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I don’t worry that I’ll be in a dead bedroom, I worry that despite discussing it before, I’ll end up with a husband that doesn’t understand libido waxes and wanes throughout life and that I’ll experience some major physical changes that may mean sex is off the table for a while. Childbirth, menopause, general life issues (eg bereavement) will probably mean I’m not DTF and I need a man who really understands that. Not a man that just says he understands then starts being nasty and petulant when I…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 08:36 AM
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Times are different, but evolution works over millions of years. A woman with narrow hips can give birth safely with modern medicine, but guys are still attracted to women with wider hips because she was more likely to have a safe labour back then. What we’re attracted to hasn’t caught up with societal changes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 08:10 AM
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Yeah and maybe he should’ve just let that one go. Approaching women at night time in empty car parks is rarely going to end up well. Do you like being approached by men at night time when no one is around?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 10:28 PM
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Success to men is sleeping with lots of women so why would we (the commitment minded gender) want that
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 08:10 AM
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Hustla baby
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 09:07 PM
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He was a NARCISSTIC ABUSER who GASLIGHTED me and all men are evil
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 07:39 PM
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I don’t mind if he follows a few but if you can scroll thru his following list and it’s literally all girls that’s an ick
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 06:26 PM
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Ptsd from when my ex said that and silly me believed him
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 06:22 PM
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I think men also have a vested interest in convincing women that they should go for personality not looks
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 04:03 PM
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I think you guys just weren’t paying attention https://vm.tiktok.com/ZGJ3sX3NJ/
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 08:23 AM
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how often do you see average-ugly or obese men rudelt decline the advances of women more attractive than them Not condoning the rudeness but you guys constantly say how men dumpster dive so shouldn’t she reject them? If she rejects him, it’s a problem. If she accepts him, she doesn’t know her place and it’s her fault if she gets pumped and dumped. Just because someone is more attractive than you doesn’t mean you HAVE to accept them
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 07:12 AM
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Is it? Trust me we all know how much young men like sex 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 07:04 AM
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We twinninggg. It doesn’t take the hunger edge off as much as cigs tho
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 08:56 PM
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Do you smoke cigs?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 08:50 PM
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How is starving yourself going? I’m thinking of doing it lol I’m going nowhere fast trying to do it the hEaLtHy way
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 08:22 PM
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I wish doctors would prescribe ozempic for “vanity pounds”. The first lot is the easiest to lose, literally just halve your portions or stop drinking alcohol or switch to light mayo for a week, boom 2kg down. I don’t see why people with a bmi of 40+ deserve it more than people with a bmi of 20-25. I just want a healthy (19-21)™️ bmi
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 08:18 PM
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I think a lot of people don’t really know the legal benefits of marriage until they’re getting to the engagement stage. More people consider it a relic of religious times than actual security.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 07:58 PM
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Wasn’t expecting that when she said I take pride in my appearance lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 05:04 PM
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I think a lot of red pillers think the way they perceive the world is the objective way, and so can’t understand that sexual attraction isn’t on the top of the list for everyone. Or that someone they find attractive isn’t attractive to others. They’ll say it’s cope because they genuinely can’t step outside their box for a moment. It’s like someone whose favourite ice cream flavour is mint chocolate refusing to understand some people prefer vanilla, and that some people don’t like ice cream at al…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 02:55 PM
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Yeah I liked one of my friends in high school on and off for years. It was weird because I think he liked me, we would hold hands at school and hang out just us two but then when I actually confessed he rejected me but then went right back to acting the same. We just pretended it didn’t happen tbh and when school ended we naturally went our separate ways
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 02:01 PM
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Do you think American pie was a film targeted at women?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 08:22 AM
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What romcoms have a not attractive male lead?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 08:21 AM
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Have you ever seen a romcom? Are the leads ever ugly?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 08:21 AM
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This is crazy. “It’s a future girl I haven’t met yet’s fault I’m having sex with so many women!”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 08:07 AM
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Tbf this isn’t a male issue. People in general don’t like being left out, even by people they didn’t want to date in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 10:07 PM
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I think he’s a typical late 30s man. Out of shape, stable job. He does have amazing hair and is tall. I guess he’s a 6. I don’t think 26 is TOO bad to be bald. If it makes you feel better my brother went bald at like 22 and has had girlfriends since. I think he’ll be marrying his current one
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 07:12 PM
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Yeah he just seems like a fun guy. I wouldn’t date him but it seems like he’d be a cool neighbour
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 07:03 PM
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I think 20 year old working parents (in the west) are more mature in terms of responsibility but are usually way more emotionally immature than their agemates, which is what led them to being a 20 year old parent in the first place. I’d expect a 40 year old who’s never worked to regulate his emotions better at least Source: have hella friends who were parents at 20. They support their kids well but their inner worlds are chaos
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 06:16 PM
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Yh I’m not really asking about how well she’d do on tinder but if a woman built like that would be considered top 20%. Idk I don’t think his female equivalent would be all that attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 05:59 PM
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Big fan of long haired men
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 04:48 PM
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If you looked better you’d have the person you want. Make it happen!!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 04:44 PM
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He’s ight. Like he has a nice face but top 20 is crazy to me. Anybody can be top 20 if that’s the case
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 04:44 PM
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Hair and face are most importan
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 04:41 PM
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Do you think a similarly built woman would be top 20% for her age?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 04:41 PM
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Yh I’m not seeing top 20
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 04:40 PM
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I’ve always found the advice on what kind of pictures you should have to be air tbh if you’re attractive and don’t have too many group photos that’s all you need
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 04:40 PM
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He does have fantastic hair
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 04:01 PM
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I had it in my head you were chadsexual
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 04:00 PM
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Yes it’s not illegal to talk to people on the street. It’s also not illegal for them to not like it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 03:44 PM
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Is this guy top 1/5/10/20% ? https://reddit.com/r/Tinder/s/v8eLtxfHo3
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 03:43 PM
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My brother and cousin translate mannish into womanese for me. When I was young and naive it was very helpful and taught me not to listen to men’s words but rather their actions. They are the first people to say men are trash because they know they are trash lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 03:03 PM
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God forbid we want to know how you spend most of your week
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 01:52 PM
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Some people just love the drama. I also think it’s learned behaviour in certain circles. On twitter in my generation toxic love is applauded. Couples like Lil Durk and India are seen as goals, stuff like “if it ain’t toxic I don’t want it” gets thousands of retweets. I’ve fallen victim to it myself, I used to think if we weren’t on again/off again they didn’t really like me. I think when the lows are low the highs are really high and people love that feeling
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 10:11 AM
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Why would women who don’t experience pain during sex say anything? People are more likely to complain, as well as search for answers to their problems. If you believed Reddit, everybody has depression/adhd/anxiety because people who don’t have those issues don’t post about how they don’t. Fwiw even women without issues still experience pain when it’s too dry or it hits from the wrong angle, it’s just not a big deal or a lasting pain because you rectify it immediately by adjusting or changing pos…
/r/AllPillDebate10/10/23 09:40 AM
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chad’s gf is 24/7 wet for him How have you personally witnessed this?
/r/AllPillDebate10/10/23 09:23 AM
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Women will compliment you for compliment’s sake and men will compliment you to get into your knickers. I don’t trust anybody’s compliments at all. The only compliments worth taking stock in is when random people on the street stop you to say something nice about your face (and not just what you’re wearing), because they don’t have any motive to be nice to you, and only if that happens with some regularity. I think deep down everybody knows how attractive they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 07:37 AM
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I need every guy who thinks a good haircut won’t do anything for them to watch queer eye
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 06:35 PM
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a well accessorised man drives me crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 06:34 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:55 PM
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Idk I think a lot of people just see others as attractive or not or meh. What’s the practical difference between an 8 or a 9? You’re very attracted either way Some of you need to accept that not everybody thinks like you, and it’s not virtue signalling if they do
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:52 PM
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He’s in that weird spot where I wouldn’t spend one of my 8 likes on him but I would match if he liked me. Not bad looking at all tho
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 04:41 PM
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Nah women are more likely to keep on sleeping with someone bad in bed. You’ve already caught the body, may as well try and make it work, whereas body count doesn’t really matter for guys. Women hardly ever orgasm on the first encounter anyway, so surely by going back we’re saying sex is not that important.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 03:22 PM
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Some like that for sure but I also think a lot are just completely delusional and don’t realise they’re the problem
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 01:12 PM
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My issue with twoX posts is that quite a few of posters are like “every man I’ve been involved with has been an abuser/narcissistic/manchild/etc” once it happens… twice okay you’re still learning… but if every. single. man. you’ve dated has been some variation of awful you need to look inwards. My dating history isn’t perfect but I can’t in good conscious say any of them were awful guys. Self centred, not very mindful of my feelings, sure, I’ve done that at times too.. they’re either being crazy…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 12:50 PM
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Treat yourself bro you don’t have to have a girl to get a massage
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 12:16 PM
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How do you know she would have rejected you 10 years ago? You hadn’t met her!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 11:21 AM
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single people don’t go outside much 😑 Single and partnered women go to the spa in groups definitely
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 06:48 AM
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Lol now when I’m out with a guy I’m going to be wondering if someone is watching us and deciding if we’re looksmatched or not
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 06:46 AM
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That men think about sex a lot. I mean I kinda knew that already but didn’t realise it was this all consuming obsession
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 04:08 PM
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What area is this where the guys have luxury apartments and high paying jobs? Asking for a friend x
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 11:29 AM
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Some are attractive but not my type, some are just alright and again not my type
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 07:51 AM
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jam packed weekend sounds super fun! Enjoy yourselves
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 11:11 AM
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Ooo wee look what the money make a bitch do
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 11:08 AM
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I bleach my hair and it’s fine. my hair has the strength of a thousand suns, I couldn’t ruin it if I tried
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 10:26 AM
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omg me too. Looking back it was so obvious we liked each other but we were so nervous. Everybody else knew except us. Used to smoke weed after work and just laugh for hours
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 10:02 AM
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Men complaining about how lonely they are yet simultaneously not doing anything to alleviate their loneliness is akin to women complaining that men are trash yet still picking shitty men. What you’re currently doing isn’t working for you. Do something about it. I have little sympathy for a man who complains no one asks how he’s doing, yet never asks how his friends are doing. You have to give to get. Fulfilling friendships don’t just fall into your lap. Some men claim that they don’t need to ask…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 08:59 AM
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Ahh yes, this so called unconditional love women experience. That ceases to exist when you don’t put out. Seems conditional to me
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 08:38 AM
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Happy for you! Watcha doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 07:14 AM
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That’s the one 🫣 (yes I’m being a dumb dumb)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 07:13 AM
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Oh right. I thought that’s what we were all doing lol. I was imagining someone actually getting the dick in their throat and was wondering if that was possible for everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 11:46 PM
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Can’t wait to see you x
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 11:14 PM
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Haven’t seen bae in 2 weeks finally seeing him tomorrow absolutely buzzing me. Im so excited I could do a backflip
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 11:04 PM
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I wonder if there’s a study comparing the outcomes between people who grew up in actual single mother homes, vs people who have coparents. Surely having two present parents that are caring leads to better outcomes than one parent and a deadbeat. If nothing else, the income levels are different
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 11:03 PM
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But are autistic people not more comfortable causing conflict because they don’t have the social skills to realise they’re causing an issue? Or they’re more self centred (not in a bad way, just that their distress is more pressing than other’s feelings)? Reading the room/letting small things go are social skills
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 11:00 PM
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I think a 28 year old should be mature enough to realise her on/off boyfriend wouldn’t provide the stability she needs to have a child and that the kid’s life will be tumultuous. She’s 28, not menopausal, she can find a new man a 19 year old may not yet have a good grasp on what a healthy relationship is and I’m sympathetic that they could be swept away with thoughts of “but I love him so much, the baby will fix things, it can’t be that hard can it”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 10:48 PM
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Id feel bad for her mostly. She probably didn’t realise exactly what she was getting into. I’d judge a 28 year old in the same situation more harshly
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 10:39 PM
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Depends on the circumstances. Idk when single mum came to mean solely “woman who had a ONS with deadbeat Chad” because most single mums are women who were in serious relationships/marriages that broke down. I checked the stats, most babies are born to married or cohabitating couples so it stands that most single mums just went through a break up. What’s to judge? Maybe they had a mutual break up and are better off as coparents. The dads are still somewhat involved in most of these situations Now…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 10:37 PM
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Are autistic people more agreeable? I thought their whole schtick was they like things in certain, not always rational ways and get distressed when it’s not like that
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 10:20 PM
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wait what is a throat job. Like is that a thing people choose to do and anybody can do it because it seems like a physical limitation that only certain people can manage?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 10:11 PM
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Because some women don’t like it. Others do. The women who don’t like it are more vocal about it. That’s basically it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 08:09 PM
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Their mafia connections😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 06:14 PM
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Yeah there are definitely a lot of virtue signallers. Im just of the stance that people should be able to love whoever they want to love, it really doesn’t affect anybody else Is it homophobic tho? I don’t fancy effeminate straight men either. It’s the effeminacy that’s the blocker for me
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 12:12 PM
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“if you looked better you’d have the person you really want” keeps me going
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 08:43 AM
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Oooh share baby names!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 06:36 AM
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Would you really want only negative stuff about how people are struggling posted on here? I think the positive stuff is a good break I think a lot of people come here to talk about their partners bc when you’re infatuated you just wanna talk about them 24/7 but your friends and family get sick of that eventually
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 06:32 AM
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The context of the posts they’re saying this in usually implies they want a world where women don’t have a choice in who they’re with, not just about the general state of the world. I’ll try to find an example in a bit
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 12:25 AM
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I think some women do play the same game but I’m at a point now where if I like someone I’ll tell them and if I want to text them I’ll text them. When you’ve had a relationship that lets you feel safe enough to do that, you just can’t go back to stupid mind games. I think when two people like each other the same amount the games go out of the window and you just can’t stop texting/calling one of my exes does have a documentary on Netflix about the murder she’s in jail for Bro dropped that in cas…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 09:03 PM
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Fair play my guy. Could you explain the thought process to us? Is it like “I don’t want to be part of a club that would let me be a member”? or it’s just the chase?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 08:36 PM
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Thanks man. You ever been a groomsman?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 07:44 PM
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That’s the worst thing about little transgressions like this. It’s not enough to uproot your entire life over it, but it is deeply troubling and will affect you forever
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 07:27 PM
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Not to one up you or anything but i recently went for 8 over one night and morning. I was so pleased with myself lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:29 PM
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Lmao are we supposed to be scared of AI girlfriends or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:15 PM
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😂😂 “how dare they want me to be present on their special day???”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:14 PM
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I love a wedding. Everybody’s happy and drunk, dressed up, dancing and dinner on someone else’s dime. What’s not to enjoy!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:04 PM
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Just got my first ever bridesmaid invite 💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿 finally upgraded from flower girl Her fiancé’s best man is really cute and they think we’d suit. Unfortunately he has a girlfriend right now but that may change in a year
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:43 PM
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women seem to think that it’s a personal attack against them and these men want to sexually enslave women No we don’t just think that. We’ve literally read that. Every time a guy says “i can’t wait for the downfall of society” he is implicitly implying that women will lose their right to have sex with who they want. There was a post literally just yesterday from a guy saying that they should make “brainless women for sexual use”. I know not every guy in here thinks such things. But these are the…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:00 PM
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What’s the difference between men and women romantically? Why aren’t you into men romantically? I know attraction is nonsensical but I’d love to hear more about this
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 03:24 PM
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No. I get the same icky feeling men get when they learn a woman is promiscuous. I heard an idea that dick is a polluting agent which makes sense I guess. More specifically I’m not into effeminate men and having sex with a man is effeminate to me even though it’s only two men involved. Weird but it is what it is
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 03:13 PM
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In my area this is probably the most popular way of dating. You see someone around at places, you follow them on insta, dm them. Or maybe you have a lot of followers in common and follow them and pop up to their story at some point. The relationship blossoms
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 03:11 PM
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That’s so interesting. Im going to try to lie next time I do dizz if I can remember. It tracks because I’ve started loads of conversations that I wouldn’t normally even if I was drunk. I think the first time I ever overtly approached a guy I was doing dizz. All I said was I like your style but that was bold for me
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 12:53 PM
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If you twisted my arm - B. But I wouldn’t be happy about it. B for some friends, A for others Probably A Both have pros and cons. I appreciate B’s dutifulness but tbh I’m too young to marry someone who is already looking after ailing parents. We would have to put OUR life on pause to look after his parents, instead of getting on the property ladder ourselves and having children and having fun together. I also don’t really like B’s lifestyle (outside of looking after his parents). I don’t need th…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 11:19 AM
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I see less than attractive guys who are having fun and picking up girls Some guys on here do not believe it could ever happen but I’ve seen it with my own eyes :/
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 10:40 AM
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This is why I’m not convinced average men have such hard dating lives. I’ve seen the most handsome men, average men and complete uggos pull at parties and clubs and raves. Not saying they’re successful at the same rate but it’s 10000% possible. Also agree about molly. Drunk girls can be unreceptive to advances but girls on dizz will talk to ANYONE. You will make new friends at the very least
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 10:35 AM
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Making roast duck tonight. My first time roasting a whole bird! Practicing for Christmas because I’m in charge of the main this year
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:24 PM
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Hm I disagree bc I think less attractive but confident guys shoot their shot at anybody. Really Attractive guys asking me out is more rare but it still happens so I’ll take that to be my peak, but I don’t know if you can accurately determine your trough. Literally 70 year old men have asked me out and there’s no way that’s my league. I do agree with the idea that who you can get commitment from is your real league
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:11 PM
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Met my ex at a wedding. Lots of single people at weddings
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 04:44 PM
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It would limit how many matches you have. No reason to have hundreds of matches built up. You gotta unmatch someone to match with someone new 1:1 ratio of men and women. One has got to delete his account before a new man is let in. Lots of men will be waiting for a while but it’ll stop women getting 10x more likes than the attraction she receives IRL. I like hinge’s model of only 8 likes per day. People are more intentional when they’ve only got a handful of likes than a free for all. The matche…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 12:20 PM
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I’ve heard some guys say nothing is better than new pussy. I think some people are more home pussy inclined whilst others are new pussy inclined
/r/AllPillDebate03/10/23 09:51 AM
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I don’t care how he treated his exes. I only care how he treats me. Oh he bought his ex a Hermes bag? That’s fine, I have no idea how to style a Hermes bag. I’m happy with just a regular bag. I wouldn’t date a frugal man to begin with anyway so we wouldn’t even get to the point that I’m complaining he doesn’t treat me well compared to his ex How do people even find out how their partner treated his exes? Do you just ask? I wouldn’t ask in the first place lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 06:36 AM
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this was a better high than any drug you’ll ever take Okay I’ll give you the faking injuries.. in their defence they’re literally rewarded for faking an injury
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 09:56 PM
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It seems like such a self-flagellating activity. There are women much more beautiful than me who will get loads of things I’ll never get based purely on looks. What is the benefit in sitting around and stewing over that? You just gotta make due with what you got
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 09:20 PM
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Because most people don’t view it like that. Do I like him, does he like me? That’s what people care about
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 09:06 PM
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First of all don’t disrespect the beautiful game like that Secondly, it usually is sports they want me to watch or shows that I’m already interested in seeing like house of the dragon or something new on Netflix and we watch it together. The guy I’m dating now is really interested in 9/11 so I’ve watched a couple of documentaries he’s sent me then we discuss
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 08:55 PM
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Yeah we’d sit next to a group of guys we find attractive and try to involve them in our convo. “Hey I’m making a bet with my friend that xyz…” works like a charm
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 08:53 PM
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Well yeah I don’t want attention from someone I don’t find attractive. I won’t call them a creep unless they’re actually being creepy though. Been approached by many an unattractive man in my life time, majority of them weren’t creepy. A lot were quite sweet in fact. IME the actual creeps usually don’t even try to talk to you, they just feel you up and disappear into the night
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 08:51 PM
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There definitely are a lot of people who don’t want to be approached. I don’t speak for all women, but they don’t speak for all women either. They make it out like they do though. I am there to hang with my friends and have a good time, but I’m also open to meeting someone. Walking and chewing gum. Eh, I find women do sometimes go to a bar and are open to being approached. Outgoing women who move to new places alone will go to bars alone to see what the area is like (source: me, moved to another…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 08:50 PM
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I find it crazy that you can’t find women in bars in cities. Trendy bars are FULL of young women after work or on the weekends. Yes we’re in groups but that doesn’t mean we don’t want to be approached
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 05:16 PM
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Yeah I see on amiugly all the time women who are about 5s that could be 6.5s with better make up hair and clothes
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 12:42 PM
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Here ! My school didn’t have a popularity hierarchy. The nerds were as vicious as the sporty people so you couldn’t bully them. Everybody just stuck to their own group and most people got along in general
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 12:35 PM
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You really can’t win. You’re supposed to open your legs to every Chad that graces you with his attention but also don’t sleep with Chad because he’ll pump and dump you. Can someone people tell me exactly what I’m supposed to do
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 12:29 PM
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Are people’s jobs typically also their interests though? Engineering is an outlier because generally engineers find their work cool and engage with it outside of work. But nursing… my sister and mother are nurses and they never talk about work unless they’ve had a particularly tough day, but they’re not reading the nursing journal in their free time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 12:08 PM
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I have stereotypically girly interests but I have never not been able to find common ground with men I’m dating. There’s a lot of stuff that’s gender neutral - music, events, travelling, animals, work, mainstream tv shows, some sports (most people tune in for the World Cup even when they never watch football in their regular life imo) etc. Maybe the girls were into you but were generally self obsessed. A good partner takes some interests in your interests. I would watch rugby with my ex even tho…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 12:06 PM
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Irl people joke about the town bike all the time imo. Being promiscuous is one thing, but being known for being promiscuous is like the worst thing for a girl socially. There was a girl I went to school with who was loose. Her dad was a PE teacher at the school down the road so when our football/netball teams would play each other he would come to our school. Kids would literally shout “your daughter’s a slag” at him when he came up. Tragic
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 11:17 AM
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Deep down I know this 😔😔😔😔
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 10:36 AM
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Yes, a lot. After the first one he got really into Islam and veganism (chicken doesn’t count apparently) and wants to convert (he probably won’t) and ever since then he’s just been a weirdo. In his defence they had kids young and had never lived together before so they didn’t really know each other and people generally change a lot in early 20s. He was 21 when the first was born
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 10:35 AM
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They have 2 kids and life logistics are easier when they’re together and he’s living in her house than when they’re split up. Plus when they’re split up he’s even more of a cunt and it seems like he tries to make her life harder. Takes ages to send money he owes her, is late to pick up/drop off, changes plans last minute. When they’re not together he just lets his mum look after the kids on his days and my friend doesn’t like his mum’s parenting style. I also think she’s really attached to the i…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 10:24 AM
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My friend’s boyfriend is such a cunt man her first time out in like 2 years and he HATES her drinking/having fun/just generally enjoying herself so of course he starts an argument whilst we’re out to ruin her night. When will she leave this loserrrr
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 10:10 AM
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Yeah I don’t expect average and ugly guys to do as well as attractive guys obviously but I’ve seen all sorts of people hooking up with their flatmates or flatmates of friends or girls in their society or friendship group. A guy not having a single girl interested in them throughout their whole degree is an outlier
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 02:24 PM
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I agree people are way more likely to share their negative experiences than any good ones and the bad ones get more exposure anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 01:15 PM
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Nothing stopped average unattractive guys from making friends and going out and meeting girls at my uni 🤷🏾‍♀️ club events are not filled with only attractive guys, plenty of average and unattractive guys having fun where I went
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 12:23 PM
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Is the amount of people using an ai partner significant? When Snapchat bot came out last year people I know were taking the piss out of it, trying to get it to say inappropriate stuff or tell it they were going to kill themselves. Can’t see it being taken seriously by a significant number of people tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 10:51 AM
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Personally have seen many an average guy in a situationship. Did you guys never go to uni or work a casual job?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 10:27 AM
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Yeah they are. Such a weird mentality
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 07:41 PM
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Nose
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 01:57 PM
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There’s a really weird idea floating round that you absolutely must accept any offers from someone above your league, and if you don’t you’re delusional and a stuck up bitch who thinks they can do better. Fuck how you actually feel about them, they could literally be the most incompatible partner for you ever but if they want you, you must be grateful they even looked your way and accept whatever they offer. Ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 09:17 PM
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I never say anything I wouldn’t want my face attached to
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:37 PM
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Because I like to be comfortable
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 05:49 PM
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I’m from a modest background, just not used to really nice things and I guess I’d feel a little insecure in my zara outfit next to people in brunello cucinelli or whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 05:29 PM
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Sometimes it’s not even about “well it’s not worth my time” but more, is this me? I travel, but I travel on a budget. I’ll stay at hostels or split a nice-ish hotel, get the cheapest flight even if it’s a bit inconvenient, use the public transport instead of ubering everywhere. I simply would not be comfortable going out with the type of guy that flies business class, rents a nice car, stays at really nice hotels. Turks and Caicos isn’t in my budget atm 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 05:09 PM
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We live in a society that doesn’t shame pre-marital sex. Guys want to have sex. If a guy has been unable to have sex he wants when it’s so freely available must have something up with him. Girl math.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 09:46 AM
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I was just trying to be concise all I meant is you’re not shamed for premarital sex these days
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:59 AM
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Then how do men ever have sex in the first place? They too were a virgin at one point. I don’t disagree that sexual prowess is more valued in men than women but personally i think my answer is the right one. Out of 4 billion women, not a single one wanted to sleep with you by 30? Something wrong with you there. I think it’s the same for men. Yes virginity is valued, but only in younger women imo. I think older female virgins have a stigma against them too. “Why has nobody wanted a serious relati…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 02:40 AM
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I think it depends on the guy. Like if he parties, really sociable, good at flirting and seemed like he was trying to get me into bed then yeah I’d think he was chatting shit. But if he’s a quieter type or religious or seemed more genuine and was wanting to take it slow then I could believe him.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 01:23 AM
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Maybe not sex positive, I just meant that in general you won’t get shamed for premarital sex like in the past Women on this sub say sex is for procreation only daily? Haven’t seen that at all
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 12:36 AM
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20-22? Nah you still got time. I don’t think it is abnormal for a 21 yo to not have had sex. I think you could still use the “I’m waiting for the right one” angle at that age and it would be endearing to some girls
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 12:34 AM
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Yeah. It’s like “well… why?” in such a secular, sex positive culture, why haven’t you had sex? Between 16-26, you haven’t had one woman be interested in you? Not a short fling or a serious relationship? Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 08:54 PM
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Being realistic is good, no? Guys constantly go on about how they will sleep with girls they’d never commit to. They’re probably just protecting themselves from pump and dumps I think it’s good for guys too. I think looks can be a toss up because you never know she may actually be attracted to you. But if she’s a high flyer, materialistic, trips to Turks and Caicos kinda gal whereas you live a more modest lifestyle better to not bother
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 07:52 PM
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Like a guy for his job and status - hypergamy Don’t like a guy for his job and status - inferiority complex Can’t win
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 07:27 PM
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I don’t even think my brothers use it I send them stupid AITA and they’re like why r u always sending me these dumb stories lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 06:19 PM
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Lmaooo fair enough bro 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 09:24 AM
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Sorry are you sleeping with multiple women and using their std status as a way to check your own std status? 🤦🏾‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 08:40 AM
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Yeah I ask about exclusivity on the 3rd/4th date. I’m sure I’ve ran a few guys off with this but I’m not really interested in people who are indecisive like that. It’s not a marriage proposal, all it’s saying is can we focus on each other right now. If you have one date a week, and phone calls and texting through the week, a month is about enough time to decide if you want to see where it goes. If I haven’t won him over with my amazing personality in a month, then I never will. Ta-ra!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 08:24 AM
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I think OF falls into the same murky waters of personal responsibility vs addiction, like drug addiction and gambling. Yes, unfortunate circumstances brought you there and there is an element of biology (some people are more naturally prone to addiction), but ultimately nobody held a gun to your head and made you pay for porn/take drugs/go to a casino. I think where you personally fall on the scale of personal responsibility influences your feelings on the matter a lot. As someone who has taken …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 08:00 AM
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I don’t anybody that uses Reddit except for me. It’s not popular in my demographic. I do sometimes feel like an alien here
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 07:50 AM
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Very easy. I often get into long conversations with strangers on the bus or train. I think I have a face that people can tell their deepest secrets to lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 07:40 AM
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Don’t you see why it’s an issue to be so flippant about a serious matter by reducing it to quips like “she’s not yours it’s just your turn”? Do you actually think abusive men will be in any way moved by that? Those men are broken, damaged people themselves and have way more work to be done than thinking “she’s not yours it’s just your turn” . It’s just not a topic for a silly little internet sub imo
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 06:55 AM
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“It hasn’t happened to me so it can’t be real” there’s no way you can be an adult and be this self absorbed
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 06:51 AM
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I prefer PPD topics about silly things like n count and passport bros because this sub continuously has the worst takes on serious matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 06:49 AM
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If you are struggling and she is truly a good partner she should be understanding and take on more of the financial responsibilities, no? this is normal for most men And it shouldn’t be. every single SAHM are spending a minimum while chilling They aren’t earning money so obviously they are spending a minimum. There is no money to spend 😂 sahm/provider dynamics agreed on that dynamic and hopefully it works for them. My sister is a SAHM, she does not have her own income so how can she contribute f…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 08:02 PM
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Anything 4+ is great, probably don’t want too big either though. Tbh I think it’s bottom on my list of priorities for sex. As long as it’s not too small we can get cracking
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 07:39 PM
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Don’t worry, there are still plenty of low self esteem or toxic women to use push pull game on
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 04:04 PM
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Yeah I think a relationship should be as fair as possible, and you make each other’s lives better as far as you can. Why would you completely ignore dis balance in other areas? The responsibilities all affect each other. For example if both partners work a typical 9-5 but one contributes 70% of the finances I would definitely try to do more domestically. If one partner has a 9-5 and pulls in 70% but the other partner works 12 hour shifts I think the 9-5er should do more domestically. Waiting for…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 04:03 PM
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I won’t yuck your yum! OP said moving together though which would be quite far into the relationship to me
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 03:09 PM
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No. I think expenses should be balanced proportionally. I think it’s sooooo weird for one partner to be spending the majority of their income and struggling whilst the other partner spends a minimum and is chilling. Does the couple stop going out towards the end of the month because one partner can’t afford it, when the other could take both of them out? Does one partner have no savings because they’re spending all their money on bills whilst the other has lots to fall back on? I personally coul…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 08:06 AM
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I’m not white
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 07:38 AM
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Something sporty but preferably football
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 11:54 PM
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More power to em. I don’t think the women in these scenarios are as naive and oppressed as some people make them out to be. They’re not stupid. She gets a financially stable guy, he gets a pretty woman. It’s the way the world has always worked
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 08:02 PM
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I see way more attractive men at uni than in porn lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 04:25 PM
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That’s interesting. What does the gay man’s gaze entail if you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 02:57 PM
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He sounds lovely, I am so happy for you :) I hope a guy like him is out there waiting for me! I agree that tallying and ensuring an equal 50/50 is not necessarily the goal, but having a partner that has your back and you both improve each other’s lives is. The friends in question don’t really have that. The laundry and dishes would be left waiting for them after they pumped. Or they get both kids ready whilst boyfriend has a lie in every weekend. His gym routine is more important than hers etc. …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 02:56 PM
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he could die after the baby is born and you still will be on your own I think I’d be a bit more understanding of my husband not contributing to family life because he was dead than if he just couldn’t be bothered you may weigh the risks and take them or leave them Of course. I will still discuss it in the meantime.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 02:51 PM
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Haven’t heard of it. In fairness when I do partake I watch women so maybe I don’t know what I’m talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 01:47 PM
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Because I want kids? Is that crazy?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 01:19 PM
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I’ll agree that they’re fit, disagree they’re above average facially and agree about age. A lot of times they don’t even show the man’s face. I just checked the pornhub front page and all the men’s heads were cut off, like that’s supposed to do anything for me. Every girl dreams of having sex with a headless man😍❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 10:29 AM
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I’m ngl logically I know men like you do exist and I’ve met you, but anecdotally it does seem like once children are born the child rearing and homemaking just becomes the mother’s job. Even the partners who WERE super egalitarian to begin with have slowly and slowly let home become the mother’s domain. Bearing in mind all of my friends who are mothers still work and contribute financially (some more than 50/50!). I think when maternity leave ends perhaps couples struggle to go back to a more eq…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 08:13 AM
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It’s not that we think all men are capable of being violent. It’s that you don’t know WHICH ONE IS UNTIL HE DOES IT. If I offered you a plate of cookies but said two or three of them are poisoned, would you still take the chance? Or just avoid eating completely?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 08:06 AM
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Wow you learn something every day. Although they’re also ugly facially do drugs affect that too
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 07:56 AM
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The men in porn are so ugly Omg. It will be the cutest girl and some dusty man
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 01:43 AM
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OK I’m intrigued. I was imagining a warm mayo sauce for the broccoli 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 12:08 AM
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Allll of them? There were 7 of us in this convo. And I wouldn’t say I have a particularly spontaneous desire either I usually initiated after cuddling or something
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 11:58 PM
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Mayo on broccoli 🤔 I am a mayo fiend but I haven’t heard of this one sir
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 11:54 PM
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This but dead serious 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 11:51 PM
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Well they’re in long term relationships and their boyfriends keep initiating so it can’t be all bad 🤷🏾‍♀️ of course I don’t know what their bfs are thinking but I do know people put up with bad behaviour if they find their partner attractive enough. They’re hot enough to get away with never initiating we talk about sex a lot (clearly lmao) and from what they say they’re not passive once it gets started. One of my friend says she is on top 70% of the time which I found wild
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 11:37 PM
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I guess it is a leap of logic but I feel like it’s a factor. I do initiate when I want to the conversation just made me think Reply to edit: nah not that some of them are more degenerate than me lmaoo
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 11:34 PM
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No. I wanted to do it, but for some reason I’m different to other girls I know. I’m just pondering why.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 11:30 PM
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We twinninnngg. I felt so embarrassed saying that I initiate 😶‍🌫️
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 11:20 PM
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chicken in a white wine mushroom sauce with roast or mash potatoes and garlic tenderstem broccoli is my go to romantic meal :)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 11:12 PM
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Sometimes I still feel like a little fat girl inside. I was talking to my friends the other day and they all said they never initiate sex with their boyfriends. I do, sometimes. Little things like that remind me that even tho I’m more attractive now my behaviour is different because I didn’t grow up hot. If I had always been hot I would never have had to initiate
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 11:07 PM
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I think it’s an issue when alllll of someone’s exes were monsters. Like how can every single person you’ve dated be abusive, narcissistic, red flags etc. You’re either the problem or have a terrible picker and either way I don’t want to be involved
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 06:38 AM
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!!!! Thank you. They don’t realise they’re contributing to the fake accounts problem
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 06:45 PM
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Men in relationships not being allowed to go shirtless is news to me 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 06:31 PM
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Yeah I’m an engineer and when I did a placement most of the guys were normal. Sure some were on the on the nerdier/quiet side but it was a nice team, good atmosphere, we had fun. There wasn’t any weirdos imo and all of the senior engineers and managers were married. The guys on placement were also dating or had a girlfriend. I definitely think the incel problem is more concentrated in maths/physics/CS, maybe electrical engineering. Mechanical/chemical/industrial/aerospace engineers do fine in my…
/r/AllPillDebate24/09/23 11:36 AM
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I’d say 5’6 is where its a REAL problem. Handsome and 5’7/5’8 will do well
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 09:04 AM
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I think there are a few reasons. 1) they genuinely don’t think he’s a bad looking guy. I think most people can agree on who is extremely good looking but I think there is SO MUCH variation in opinion in the 4-6 range. Have you ever been with a friend who thinks the ugliest gremlin you’ve seen is “kinda cute”? or had a friend rip into your crush because they think they’re hideous? I dont think it’s impossible that there are people out there who think the guys in question are attractive. That tind…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 08:46 AM
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tired of men pretending status doesn’t affect them. Amy poehler is widely regarded as not the most attractive of women and annoying but there’s a lot of men that will hate-fuck her BECAUSE she’s Amy poehler. It’s not as intense in men as it is in women but it’s there Anecdotally there’s a girl I went to college with who went on a rap battle show that’s quite popular. Saw her once and said hi congratulated her blah blah and she was telling me how sooo many guys we knew messaged her after she went…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 06:42 PM
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I’m not sure. Do you have any youth-focused churches around you? There was one that recruited at my uni and was very popular. They were a bit cult-y but it was really full the one time I went. A LOT of people my age are converting to Islam. Are other abrahamic faiths a dealbreaker?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 06:36 PM
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Bloody hell six months?! I’m an advocate for waiting but what do you take me for, a saint??
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 05:56 PM
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I think sexless is masquerading as undesirable in these conversations. A married man who is having sporadic sex after his wife gave birth is sexless by this definition, but surely we’re not talking about that kind of guy right?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 05:51 PM
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Why spend mine when I can spend yours
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 05:58 PM
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I’d ask them how does that benefit me in any way 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 05:24 PM
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i think expectations of men 15-30 years ago when these women were dating were rock bottom. I don’t think men have been expected to partake in homemaking until the last 10ish years. It was amazing if they did, but it was normal if they didn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 03:58 PM
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many men would care about their daughter in such a relationship. So they do care, just only when it affects them
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 09:08 PM
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The ol’ “my ex is an evil hag who won’t let me see my children”. 9 times out of 10 they don’t even ask to see them
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 07:06 PM
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My interest in planes I guess? I watch all those airplane crash investigations and listen to ATC recordings but other than that I’m pretty normie
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 06:05 PM
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I don’t understand what you’re saying either hahaha paper abortions would be before a child’s birth But the OP says that abolishing no fault divorce would somehow end the need for paper abortions. I’m not understanding the link between the two.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 01:34 PM
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So husbands would preemptively abandon any future children they agree to? Sorry I’m not following. OP mentions banning no fault divorce being as a solution, which implies that the state of the marriage has any bearing on whether a father should support his child or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 01:25 PM
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Weird. My dad wouldn’t be happy if I was dating a man 10+ years my senior and I’m sure a lot of other fathers wouldn’t either
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 01:10 PM
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also divorce does not force you to abandon your child Exactly!!! Why would a father want paper abortion just because they’re getting divorced? Why is marriage in this conversation at all? I assume most married couples agree on having a child in the first place. You don’t get to abandon your duties to your child just because you’re not with the mother
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 01:09 PM
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femboy Well yeah, this is atypical. It’s like being confused when men say they like long hair, but they don’t like butch women with long hair I love long hair but not the Viking look. Floppy, longer than average hair like leo dicaprio in titanic. Or braids/twists/locs.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 09:07 AM
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I think 2 and 3 happen a lot but obvs from the guy’s perspective it just seems like she used you for dinner and dipped
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 07:00 AM
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I’m sure there’s a couple guys I have dated who would say I’ve done a foodie call, but that is never my intention. We go get dinner, they pay, but I don’t want to see them again. I offer to split but they dont always accept and I’m not going to argue about it. If they don’t accept my second offer then that’s their loss lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 06:59 AM
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I need them to prescribe ozempic for vanity pounds. Losing the last 10-15lbs is way harder than being morbidly obese and losing 10lbs
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 05:53 PM
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Tbh tho the girls at the university library are usually the same ones at the club. Most women in uni partied AND studied
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 06:56 AM
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he even names all of his online burner accounts after this woman We all just ignoring this part or…?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 12:40 AM
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That monk drip 😍 https://www.google.com/search?sca_esv=566137046&rlz=1CDGOYI_enGB874GB874&hl=es&sxsrf=AM9HkKmAJaY4pA7L8lXy354USHiiKxap9w:1694991750705&q=monk+hairstyle&tbm=isch&source=lnms&sa=X&ved=2ahUKEwiVr8qp4LKBAxUmcfEDHRS-Bb8Q0pQJegQICxAB&biw=414&bih=720&dpr=2#imgrc=K4jeq2a90vZAaM
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 11:03 PM
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short on the sides longer on top haircut 🤣🤣 in our defence it’s hard to find a guy 18-30 who does NOT have this haircut. It’s the default hairstyle for men
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 11:53 AM
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Lol you think getting violated has anything to do with being attractive? All you need is a hole. The harsh truth is in dangerous times people do awful things. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nanjing_Massacre https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rape_during_the_Soviet_occupation_of_Poland https://www.npr.org/2022/04/30/1093339262/ukraine-russia-rape-war-crimes You don’t even need to be a woman either... Hope you’re confident in your fighting skills if this collapse of society ever happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 12:01 PM
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Not in a LTR but I’d say my last 2 exes were about the same level of attractiveness just in different ways. More attractive than my first boyfriend ha
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 10:14 AM
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I don’t think I know any women that would say no to the love of their life if he came knocking, but not everyone is actively searching for it or expecting it. Most of my friends are in LTR though so they’ve got it. I have 1 friend who has just exited a LTR and is only looking for sex right now. Couple of friends in stupid situationships. 2 friends who are off the back of LTR and aren’t interested in men at all at the moment. So women who are actively looking for love? Maybe like 30%. I think mos…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 09:49 AM
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Got kill ourselves in a catastrophic way so they can’t desecrate our dead bodies either. Terrible to think about.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 09:44 AM
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I was on the wait list for two years 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 09:33 AM
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It’s just banter tbh. I don’t think it’s a good idea for anyone to take anything from here serious
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 12:04 PM
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I think you overestimate how much women care about trans people tbh. A lot of trans ally stuff is just virtue signalling and most women don’t actually care either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 08:31 AM
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Do you actually want to do anything or just complain. You’ve shot down nearly every idea in this thread. Is the only acceptable answer plastic surgery to you or what?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 11:34 PM
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That one day I’ll be old and grey and my husband will like younger biddies more. C’est la vie
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 10:31 PM
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Pros and cons. My ex was the only person I’ve dated from my country. It was great that he just understood all my family quirks that were weird to people not from a similar background. But also I was deeply embarrassed at the thought of meeting his family and not knowing how to make our main traditional food What about geomaxxing to countries near your home country? You look like everyone else but it’s acceptable that you can’t speak the language.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 08:05 PM
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Please don’t say that to anybody 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 07:48 PM
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I like them all tbh. Just not scraggly or long beards
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 07:46 PM
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Personally I’ve seen more male posters say they don’t talk to many women or have female friends than I have female users say they don’t know any men. I don’t think that’s being charitable
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 07:45 PM
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I disagree that I’m throwing respect, it’s just how I feel. I can’t change my feelings on it. My sympathy is capped, but it’s there. I understand what you mean and I’m not out here on the front line defending men’s issues nor am I trying to convince everybody we should do better as a form of solidarity, but that doesn’t stop me from understanding on a personal level. “Aw that’s sad. Anyway” basically
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 06:09 PM
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Eh, just cos they’re weirdos doesn’t mean I have to be the same. I’m not shedding tears for them but I can understand some issues. Saying I understand isn’t really people pleasing or not having a backbone.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 05:51 PM
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I get there are single moms who were left by their husbands, but that is a tiny minority of women Source most of them simply stopped taking birth control or using condoms with their boyfriends usually by mutual agreement because the couple both wanted a child kids without a father around When did “single mother” begin to solely mean women who had a child with a dead beat? Single mother includes divorced mothers and mothers who were in a LTR/cohabitating that have now split. Most situations the d…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 01:37 PM
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in defence of TRM they have a specific rating system that many of the commenters agree is not true to life. A lot of comments are like “5.6 based on the scale but subjectively an 8”. Of course they have their issues but it does what it says on the tin. Anybody posting there knows what they’re getting into.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 12:23 PM
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Nah cheating is a dealbreaker. It would be hard of course but I firmly believe if you forgive a cheater once, they know they can do it again with no repercussions. I think most cheaters are serial cheaters. I have never known someone to cheat and change in that same relationship. They may never cheat again on future partners, but they always cheat again on the partner that forgave them. That’s what I’ve seen at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 12:17 PM
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Well, I do value good men and want one for my own future husband and father. But if the state of dating is as you describe, then I have the advantage. I get my pick of good men, bad men, good dick etc. Why would I want to give that up? Men having an equal playing field doesn’t actually benefit me
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 12:01 PM
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Have you ever been on a council estate? Ugly poor people fuck all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 10:21 AM
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What’s in it for us?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 07:59 AM
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even if they find women later in life, they will resent those women for choosing them later How are you supposed to choose someone you haven’t met yet?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 02:17 AM
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Chatty, down to earth, expressive, outgoing, interested in the world in whatever capacity. Has a responsible and competent side though Not into inexpressive or cold guys. I’ll just think they hate me
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 02:14 AM
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I’m under the impression body composition is 80% diet 20% exercise. I might be wrong but that’s what most fitness resources say 🤷🏾‍♀️ I do work out regularly but I’m 5’3. I’ve seen a few women on subs like petitefitness share their exercise routine and the women that eat 2000+ calories work out an insane amount, even more than the average active person imo. Lots of muscle mass, hikes/running/climbing/etc every weekend, hours of exercise a day, physically demanding jobs etc. I exercise for fitnes…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 02:06 AM
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At least I’d understand if my man cheated on me with a baddie. If Rihanna puts it on him, I’d be like fair enough mate. But if he cheats on me with a mid hoe that’s just offensive
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 12:06 AM
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Oh god no 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 10:04 PM
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It’s extra weird that Harriet’s father publicly defended Mason and I guess behind the scenes encouraged Harriet to stay with him. Oowee, look what the money make a bitch do
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 09:45 PM
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Yeah I think most people have okay-ish faces. It’s quite rare to meet someone actively ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 09:43 PM
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I think when she first blew up she was well proportioned but definitely well overweight woman but if you’ve seen her recently she lost loads of weight and I think she’s a thicker fit woman now, although I wouldn’t be surprised if her BMI was still in the overweight range
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 09:34 PM
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Probably 1 or 2
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 09:15 PM
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You’re wondering if normal sized sliced bread is a 7 so it seems like you are impressed by it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 09:15 PM
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Not trying to defend it, just explain but it’s so much easier to get fat as a woman. Say you go to a restaurant, portions are large, the meal is 2500kcal. For most men that’s like 100-500kcal more than their daily required intake. For most women that’s 1000kcal more than our daily required intake. Binge eating is very common in this - it’s totally “normal” for one person to eat a sharing bag of crisps in one sitting but this is worse for women because again, it’s a larger percentage of our requi…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 09:13 PM
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You guys say stuff like this then wonder why women think they’re the best thing since sliced bread
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 08:59 PM
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You are around some really terrible relationships. I do think older generations are more likely to be in relationships with people they hate due to marriage being more of a social requirement when they were younger and fewer options, but young men these days have a lot more freedom to pick and choose who to be with. Maybe they don’t have a lot of options, but they don’t HAVE to be with someone they hate. but you got a pussy and that’s all you need to have How can you guys say this and then compl…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 08:57 PM
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I shouldn’t have said nothing in common - I think people can be very happy with someone they don’t have similar hobbies/interests/temperaments with. I really mean enjoy spending time. Most average men (and I mean actually average, not below average masquerading as average) will not seriously date someone they hate spending time with.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 08:54 PM
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It looks better down
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 08:39 PM
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No way he didn’t have other suitors so I assume he’s genuinely into her looks and likes her as a person I’m sure he knew the reaction he’d get from Reddit so posting it was weird. Stick to Facebook and insta
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 08:34 PM
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weird I was just thinking about this today. I want a strapless wedding dress but strapless does not suit me at all. But I hate sleeves and straps on wedding dresses. What a conundrum for future-me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 08:31 PM
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“Open book just ask”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 06:42 PM
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You guys have such low opinions of men. Lets say he doesn’t have many options, that still doesn’t mean he’ll date me. Are most average men really out here dating women they have nothing in common with, have no similar goals, don’t have fun with simply because she’s the only one who has come round recently? He’d date me if I didn’t want children and he did? If I was a nazi sympathiser? I truly don’t believe most average men are desperate enough to seriously date someone they don’t even like. Slee…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 10:32 AM
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You guys live in a fanciful world where people will be with someone just because they’re on their level, regardless of anything else. Just because I am a 5, does not mean a 5 man will automatically like me. Maybe he doesn’t like my political opinions. Maybe we don’t have the same priorities. Maybe he doesn’t like my voice. Maybe he thinks I’m annoying. He’ll still smash though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 08:07 AM
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It was a weather channel that only had sexy model-looking girls Was it like a soft porn channel or something? Or a reputable news channel? Because most news presenters, especially from less popular channels, are selected for physical attractiveness. I don’t understand the scenario you’re describing, sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 07:40 AM
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He’s not a serious person
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 07:26 AM
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And women wouldn’t? I don’t want a play by play of all the times my man bent other women in half and made their legs shake either 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 06:29 AM
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Then dating is hard for shy, awkward men not heterosexual men in general. It would make sense that someone socially handicapped struggles with dating, a social activity. That is not the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 06:26 AM
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More attractive people attract more people. Most of us learnt this in high school
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 09:29 PM
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Become prettier
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 09:20 PM
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Yeah if a morbidly obese person told you they tried every diet in the world and eat 1200kcal a day and weren’t losing weight you’d conclude they were lying
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 07:44 PM
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Well if this place were to believed it’s impossible and men can’t get attention from even ugly women But when I look at my social circle, that just isn’t happening. Im sure getting casual sex is very hard for them (and even then they succeed) but dating in general? They’re doing just fine, if the volume of women they introduce me to is anything to go by. So idk what to tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 07:39 PM
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Agreed I think we’re all a bit better behaved in mixed company
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 06:49 PM
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Yeah sure some people are way more objectively attractive than others but in my group of friends we hardly ever like the same guy. We can all agree on 1 or 2 guys being super attractive but we rarely ever fight over a man bc we like different guys
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 06:08 AM
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I’m dating him because I found him attractive and I found him funny. I’ve found guys below my league or less attractive than me attractive before
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 08:31 PM
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Let guys on here tell it, it is. I’ll try not to let random internet opinions affect my life too much though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 08:25 PM
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My Spanish friends looove British guys I have no idea what they see but that’s what they like. They were huge one direction fans so that’s probably why
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 07:21 PM
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Guys they think are good looking, which is not always the same as conventionally attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 06:31 PM
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I think it’s bad for women too. I’m currently dating a guy who I’d say is a tad bit more attractive than me and I’m getting intrusive thoughts that he’s dating below his league, trying to plate me, isn’t taking me seriously etc despite the fact he’s been nothing but kind and gentlemanly to me so far. I fear I might self sabotage because of all this pill stuff. Dating was much easier and more fun when I was ignorant to all this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 06:27 PM
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Right? why would you even say this 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 06:13 PM
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Fuckin hell what a question
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 06:13 PM
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The romantic front is a different beast but friendwise, if your hobbies are solitary and you don’t want to try more social hobbies then I have little sympathy. People want to make friends whilst they sit at home by themselves - it’s just non sensical. I sew (not necessarily as a hobby I just want to get better at altering clothes) but I don’t expect to make friends doing it, because I’m home, alone, sewing. How could I make friends through that? should governments step in and create local sponso…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 08:44 AM
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By picking and choosing what works for my relationships, like most people
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 11:07 PM
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in so many couples you see guys who do drugs like fentanyl, heroine, cocaine and meth Honestly this just says more about the people you hang out with. I literally don’t know a single person that does fentanyl, heroin or meth.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 10:44 PM
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Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 10:30 PM
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I’m here
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 11:32 AM
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I think everybody picks and chooses when to be traditional and when to not be. I like guys paying for most of our dates, but I also fully expect to be contributing to the household financially. I would like to be proposed to, but I also expect to be doing the majority of the child rearing. It would be great if he can do most of the handy stuff around the house, but I’m going to be the one cooking and cleaning and preparing at parties/Christmas/Easter etc. I’m happy to initiate sex, they just usu…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 10:00 AM
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Tbh I do feel like university educated women are shooting themselves in the foot by requiring a degree for their partner. There are so many ways to have a good career that don’t require a degree. However I do find that blue collar men are very culturally different from white collar men and that is something that puts them off. I have dated guys in trades and they are very “laddish” compared to guys that went to uni and did accounting or whatever. I’d also say there is a bit of social pressure. M…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 09:52 AM
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People just mad they’re excluded from someone else’s dating preferences. Either lower your standards or become your type’s type
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 09:39 AM
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Most women aren’t getting 10k likes on a post, you’re thinking of influencers which most women are not
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 08:39 PM
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Lmao I understand the dislike of excessive caked on make up but why would guys hate an even complexion and long lashes?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 06:35 PM
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The lyrics to goodies: if youre looking for the goodies keep on looking cos they stay in the jar. The whole song is about how she’s NOT giving it up 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 09:49 AM
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If most guys hate make up on women then why do women get 10x more attention when they’re wearing make up than when they dont? You guys love it, you just wish it was natural
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 09:11 AM
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I saw a post about a late 30s woman who said she was starting to think about having children. starting think… Bitch what have you been thinking about instead for the past 15 years??
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 02:59 PM
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That always really confuses me like 35/40/45 year old people who are still on the fence about kids. You’ve been alive for 3 decades and you’re still not sure?! Its one thing to plan to have them late but to still be indecisive at that age?!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 02:21 PM
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I would’ve thought childfree women have a tough time at it too. Most people want children
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 01:33 PM
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Does college start at 18? 3 girls before 18 is a lot imo. College here starts at 16, 3 girls before 16 is definitely a lot to me
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 12:49 PM
3

Havent you been married like 8 times? Surely your success made you a catch for marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 12:11 PM
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I would be fine with being hit on at all those places mentioned. I may not like them, but im fine with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 12:08 PM
2

Honestly I don’t get all the hullabaloo about young models dating old celebrities. They know exactly what they’re doing. If Chris evans was in my DMs there’s no need to worry about me. My eyes are on the prize 💰
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 12:19 AM
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Personally see it more the other way round. I know guys with serious girlfriends and children who never post them but they’ll post their Friday night drinks with the boys 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 01:17 PM
1

I like type 3 but with less pronounced traps. Is it just me or do his look swollen or something
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 01:43 AM
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A penny for your thoughts: One thing about the problem with boys in education that I struggle to understand is that boys have always been in education and academia is dominated by men. How/why does the education system favour women when the education system was originally established by men and for young boys? Schools were way, way stricter in the past with even more “sitting down and concentrating” and boys still managed and continue manage to excel. I 100% agree there should be more physical e…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 10:35 PM
2

My sister had 2 weddings (same marriage) and they were both awesome tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 09:55 PM
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“My husband proposed to me with a haribo ring if she wont accept that she doesnt value the right things in life” Like its a bad thing to want a nice ring (thats supposed to last your whole life) when you have the money for it!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 09:54 PM
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I just think it’s hard to have empathy for a group you dont think about much. From our perspective most guys we see irl have some sort of relationship and the biggest representation of men who dont have sex and complain about it in the media is Elliot Rodger. I dont think its lack of empathy, more an unwillingness to understand it. Ive browsed the virgin and forever alone subs and im pretty sympathetic to their struggles but how many people even think to do that in tbe first place
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 05:25 PM
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Yeahhh I think I jumped the gun by telling her how it effects the planet but so many questions lead into another. “Where is the ice going” “what does the water level rising mean” “so will it spill onto the land” stop being so inquisitive god damn it! She is extra motivated to recycle now at least
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 07:18 PM
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It was hard to dance around the topic of animals dying when the animals were dying on the screen 😕 but I did say we need to take care of the planet and she was like “I’m glad we recycle auntie!” Bless her
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 06:57 PM
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Is 5 too young to learn about global warming ? I was watching planet earth and my niece was interested. Asked lots of questions about why walruses were on a tiny island and falling off cliffs and I explained it’s because the ice was melting and that turned into explaining global warming and its effects. Now she is asking when we’re all going to die :/ but doesn’t sound too sad about it? She was like “oh man”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 06:43 PM
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They’re like “I’m average! I never leave the house, I have no idea where to meet women and I have no friends but I’m average!”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 06:01 PM
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It’s normal for me. I’m a big texter
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 05:52 PM
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I’m confused why single mothers are immediately accused of having a child with a bad guy. Most single mothers were in a long term relationship that broke down and the dad is still somewhat involved at least, or at least that’s what I come across most often
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 03:14 PM
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basically
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 06:21 AM
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cries in has to wax my chin hairs every week
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 12:28 AM
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A is okay looking, don’t think we’d get on well B is the best looking but i don’t think we’d get on too well from the way he describes himself and I don’t like his drip lol C isn’t attractive to me and too old
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 12:07 AM
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• you must not be black or Asian. Totally normal to stay at your parents house until you get married and sometimes men move their new family into their parents house • who tf is expecting one man to move a sofa/fridge/heavy furniture by himself? Even delivery men work in pairs… • mama’s boys are specifically men whose mothers mother them as if they were a child, not a grown man. Taking your laundry to your parents’ house is embarrassing for anyone. I agree there are different pressures for boy a…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 07:34 PM
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then this idea that you are religiously against dating men with children will be called into question. It’s possible, yes. It’s not like men with children are bad people or something. But from my POV there are other rich, hot, high status, high value, tall, sexy good facial hair men without children that I can date instead 🤷🏾‍♀️ you just so happened to learn 1 year into the relationship he may have had a child out of wedlock that he shuns So he’s a deadbeat? Fuck no. It’s not about moral goodnes…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 01:39 PM
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You can’t even dislike another woman without being accused of internalised misogyny on some subs. Reality tv subs are the worst for it. Point out a woman in the wrong or just stating you’re not their biggest fan, boom you’re a misogynist. Newsflash: some women are not good people!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 09:55 AM
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You’ve given me a choice between two men with children when I don’t date men with children. Obviously between the two shitty choices you’ve given me I’ll take the less shitty one but neither is ideal 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 08:59 AM
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I’m glad I don’t have to deal with all that. Sounds miserable
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 11:18 PM
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A man who had a child out of wedlock is different to a deadbeat. I would be more accepting of the man you describe if he had a child with an ex girlfriend and the relationship broke down for whatever reason and he’s still a good father to his child and is amicable with the mother, than a guy who had a child that he never sees or supports. I would not be okay with someone hiding the fact they had a child till after I fell in love with him.. that’s an egregious lie and yes if I’m in love with him …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 11:12 PM
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plenty of men are OK with sex alone Hm. I wonder what the Venn diagram of these men and the men that complain about loneliness looks like. it would be very selfish to also suggest those people have an obligation to care about us Idk where you’re from but where I’m at it’s very normal to want your friends and family to care about you. I don’t expect my friends with partners and kids to prioritise me the same way we did when we were young with no responsibilities. I do expect them to be there when…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 08:10 PM
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You have no friends or family and you’re here worried about escorts and strip clubs. Brother you have bigger problems
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 02:59 PM
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I don’t feel like the True Average™️ ie the 39 yo woman and 37 yo man is very relevant in these conversations. Imo most people are talking about 18-30yo people, because most people are in that range here I think. There’s a few older ladies and men but most of them aren’t in the dating pool. So the average we’re discussing is unmarried, makes less than 40-50k and is a bit slimmer than the True Average™️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 08:56 AM
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The advice works for the vast majority of people because autistic people are a minority. You can’t expect general advice to address all the caveats to apply to everybody
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 08:44 AM
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It really does lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 08:38 AM
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!!! So many people could go up 1-2 points just by better styling. Everybody should watch queer eye if they don’t believe me
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 03:19 PM
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Anybody that agrees with his worldview is being honest, anybody that doesn’t is lying. PPD tale as old as time
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 10:21 AM
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Could you please tell us which female user fucked studs and settled for Billy and then divorced him? Even better if you can find the multiple women you’re referring to. I have not seen that
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 08:42 AM
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it’s always as a joke isn’t it… unless you’re down… but if not it’s a joke 😑
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 10:44 PM
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A PPD bot? Technology has gone too far.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 10:43 PM
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id like to see more information on these studies. Was there a clearly defined definition of “lonely”? Is it not seeing a friend or loved one at least once a week? Is it not having a romantic partner? Is it not feeling intimately close with someone (again how would close be defined here) despite seeing that person? Someone can have a hundred friends and feel lonely. Someone else could have one friend and never feel lonely. I’ve seen that loneliness levels are rising, but that is so vague. It’s ki…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 10:33 PM
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making 50/69k a year Surely a guy making this amount of money is around 40 years old in which case he is probably married or in a long term relationship. If you mean a guy 18-30 (which is what I think people are really talking about on this sub) then that’s an above average income for a young man, no? Regardless, an 18-30yo man making an average income for a young man is definitely able to date. If they are average looking, then yes casual sex is an uphill battle and they don’t get as much sex a…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 10:01 PM
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See this is exactly what we’re talking about when we say below average people think they are average. Having a group of friends is COMPLETELY AVERAGE. if you have no or few friends you rarely meet, that is a BELOW AVERAGE SOCIAL LIFE.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 09:55 PM
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I just feel like if even if they were a self hating woman they would speak in very different terms. Their way of speaking is so male coded
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 02:42 PM
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So we all agree that uglypostwall “woman” is a man trolling right
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 01:15 PM
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How is sleeping with two guys worse than sleeping with 2 thousand hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 01:13 PM
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Its a cultural norm, so no. You don’t have to do it. If they keep trying after you say no then yes I would consider that sexual assault. There’s no point trying to compare practices across cultures as some kind of gotcha. Are latin women keen to label their common greeting as sexual assault? Or is that other women in places with different cultural norms? I would be surprised (but not against) a man I meet in the UK giving me a kiss on the cheek as a greeting. I would be expecting it in Spain. Nu…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 11:45 AM
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“So what you do is wear the shortest shorts you can find and drop something, anything, and watch them all come to you” who the hell wants to hear that!! 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 10:19 PM
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This is what I don’t get why men complain so much. Sureee being a young broke guy sucks but you have your whole life to make it happen. A woman only has 10-12 good years before everybody thinks she’s a worthless piece of shit
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 09:13 PM
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Men Yes. A lot of men look really good in the 25-28 range. If he’s somewhat muscly then sure No Not wanting my dating pool to be obese men is why I lost weight ha. I don’t particularly want them to be active with me because fitness is a solitary hobby to me, I don’t like going to the gym with others. I just want them to look good and have healthy habits so we can pass them onto our children and we’re alive together in old age.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 08:40 PM
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Eh. Go to East or Southern Africa. A lot of women there have insane bodies. Not 1 in a million over there
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 08:36 PM
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I really want to know how this conversation is supposed to go
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 08:31 PM
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I agree the serial cheaters I know have have their own place or step out then go back to their girlfriend. Unless the guy lives and works in different city, how on earth does he explain being at X’s house for a few days then Y’s house the next few days?! Unless it’s a SZA type situation. 🎶 You take Wednesday, Thursday then just send him my way, think I got it covered for the weekend🎶
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 09:22 AM
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I think people share the “big” good things but are less likely to give a play by play of all the small things a partner does to make their life better. But the bad things are usually big and they want to vent. Then from the other side you only hear they didn’t do xyz, but not all the times they did abc you know? It’s the same phenomenon with reviews. People are more likely to leave a bad review than a good one
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 09:15 AM
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There’s worse things in the world than to be a 6
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 08:36 AM
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Fuck me that’s a hard early 30s. I suppose he was some kind of drug addict or run down cop in the wire? His appearance would make sense then
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 11:27 PM
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Yeah at my age I’m swerving guys with kids no matter what the sob story is That’s the definition of noble though? “having or showing high moral principles”. Like I’d say the phrase step up is only used in situations where you get more responsibility. What other context could you use step up in?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 08:12 PM
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Imagine doing your hair and make up really nice and thinking “damnnn I’m looking like a 6.8 today!”. What a mood killer 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 07:27 PM
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A man who raises kids that aren’t his especially in the contexts you described is honourable and has traits that I admire in a man - dutiful, responsible, values family. Deadbeats disgust me on a moral level, and on a practical level it’s a bright neon sign that he will abandon any kids you have with him too. Second and third baby mamas who think they’re going to be different are dumb as rocks.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 02:48 PM
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Also couples who are experience a drop in libido but are working through it because they realise sex drive waxes and wanes are way less likely to complain about it online than those who feel like they’ve been beta buxxed
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 10:53 AM
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Personally my serious relationships have all come from meeting in person. I don’t know why I bother with dating apps tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 08:31 AM
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Important to remember is that your friends are wayyyyy more likely to only share the bad things with you, and use you to vent and work through their emotions but they will hardly every sit there and list all the sweet stuff they love about their girlfriend that makes all the drama worth it. I go through the same thing with my friend - I’m like why are you even with this idiot but obviously she knows he has positive qualities whereas I only hear about the worst of him.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 08:15 AM
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Erm you booked Radiohead??? That’s so cool
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 07:26 AM
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I’m not very sexually liberated. I think kink shaming is necessary for a respectable society - I actually don’t want people to be open about their beastiality, raceplay, CNC kinks etc. Be very, very ashamed of that. I don’t particularly care what other people do consensually in their free time, but I don’t believe people can divorce their attitudes to sex to their general thoughts as much as they think. Do people who engage in raceplay really harbour no resentment to other races? Anybody who eng…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 08:20 PM
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I’m sure they have in some way but unsure how much you can prescribe to raising standards vs just growing up. When I was a teen I used to really like skinny boys - like stick thin - now I’m much more into healthy looking men lmao. Is that media raising my standards or is that just normal change for a 15 year old to a 24 year old? I still fancy Justin Bieber tho. I do see where men are coming from in terms of women thinking certain builds can be achieved naturally when they’re actually using ster…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 07:54 PM
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I agree. The independent boss babe persona is annoying and stupid. But I suppose it comes from the idea that women were generally dependent on a romantic partner to get them somewhere in life. I don’t know why people think it’s an achievement in 2023.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 02:59 PM
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You’re being disingenuous. By your logic nobody is independent
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 02:28 PM
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I’ve asked directly before, because they’ve asked me first, but I tend to try and extrapolate from other conversations. What’s their relationship history like - if they’ve never been in a LTR at my age and they’re cute (usually they are if I like them lol) they’re probably out here in these streets. “what are you looking for” - if they say go with the flow or not looking for something serious then I don’t want to try and change their mind. Gotta check their insta following lol. If they follow he…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 09:25 AM
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I don’t shout my preferences for lower n count men from the rooftops, I don’t curse men with high n counts out of their name, I don’t think they’re worthless etc. Have you seen the way people talk about high n count women? It’s not like many people are saying “I prefer women who prefer sex in a LTR” they’re saying they’ve lost pair bonding abilities they’re sluts “someone’s daughter” they’re disgusting they’re a natural ick etc. Surely you can see why hoes might feel a little miffed at this? I d…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 09:14 AM
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Congrats! Knowing that would make me soooo happy, that’s just me though :)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 09:02 AM
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This seems like a golden child and scapegoat dynamic more than anything. You say your parents aren’t abusive but if cursing out and being physically violent against your parents is accepted in your family then there might be things you’re missing. Don’t mean to armchair diagnose over a little snippet of your life but that’s not normal lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 08:57 AM
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I’d hope you found the majority of women you slept with attractive? Why did none of them work out?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 08:53 AM
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Any woman with sexual desire has felt that way before. She just made the moral sin of admitting it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 08:19 AM
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6
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 07:56 AM
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Nor I. There’s like 100 of them, and they’re all on this sub. I get that a lot of people in are situationships where multiple girls might think they’re in a relationship, but I sincerely doubt a significant number of men are in multiple committed relationships. There’s just not enough time. Usually you see a partner 1-5 times a week or even live with them, how do you have time to have another partner on top of work and other life stuff? The stories I’ve heard usually involve a guy who works in a…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 12:49 AM
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I don’t tell them the reason often but when I’ve alluded to it they just try to convince me they’ve changed and I’m different and they want to me to be their wife etc
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 12:42 AM
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It’s a mix of all three. Idk why people think that one reason is enough for the disparity. I’m sure the average age gap is actually 3-5 years so a lot of women 27+ will be dating guys in their 30s. There is also women who think they are in a relationship with the guy they’re hooking up with. And there are also women who are dating the same man. The numbers only make sense when all 3 are a factor. Idk how you can seriously believe 30% of young women are dating the same men. Also where I’m from an…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 11:45 AM
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My 18th birthday
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 10:28 AM
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with online dating yeah. I think when you know the guy from elsewhere you’re already more invested than just a stranger online
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 10:00 AM
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Sorry but how is getting fingered as a fuck you to your parents better than getting fingered for lust 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 09:02 AM
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I mean the outcome isn’t different but a lot of guys here struggle with self esteem and their thought process could be why
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 07:04 AM
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I would be fine I think. The fact that he could have any girl he wanted and chose me would give me confidence
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 10:25 PM
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15 year old boys could overpower most women let alone a grown man, no matter how average he is
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 07:52 PM
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Everyone’s focusing on women but what about men with high n count ! Admittedly it doesn’t bother me as much as it bothers men but I’ll pass on anything over 10. The logic is similar to why guys don’t want women with high n counts. Those guys want to sow their wild oats and it’s very unlikely you’ll be the one to lock him down. I wouldn’t bet on a guy whose slept with a lot of people to suddenly change for me, unless he’s like 35+ and feeling ready to settle down which is too old for me. Much bet…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 03:51 PM
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It would be very scary
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 11:34 AM
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Yuck. Bodily functions are private. I try my best to not even burp/pass wind in front of other people. Huge ick if my partner were using the bathroom in front of me
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 09:08 AM
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Haha not me but my auntie. She met a guy at a wake last year and they’ve been dating for 6 months now!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 08:51 AM
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They wouldn’t have the choice tho. Only 25% of people are women under 30, yet there would still be all the men 18-99? They would all be killing each other trying to get a taste what incentive would women have to reproduce? If I only got 30 years on this planet I wouldn’t waste 9 months being pregnant, let alone have multiple pregnancies. Then I would abort it if it was girl so she wouldn’t suffer the same fate, so there’d be a supply issue of young women. Although The chances of women having bod…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 08:47 AM
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Lower your standards but also it’s your fault if lowering your standards backfires
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 01:10 AM
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The most I’ll think about an attractive guy is “smash” then move on with my day. Really, really hard to get to “i wanna fuck his brains out” level without some type of emotional or personal investment. Or even without exchanging words
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 10:45 PM
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Sure
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 10:42 PM
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Right? Unattractive is simply neutral! It’s really not a negative thing
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 10:41 PM
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To be clear, I don’t think rejection is easy and I don’t mean to imply that it’s a positive, it’s still rejection at the end of the day I just don’t think it should make you spiral and believe thoughts like I’m so ugly, I’m worthless, I’m not good enough etc. There’s being understandably down about rejection then there’s spiralling
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 10:40 PM
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Lmaoo I do have a way with words
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 10:37 PM
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What happens when I see a Chad Me: going about my day Chad: walks past Me, in my head: he’s cute Me: continues going about my day
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 10:36 PM
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No I think what is bland bread to one person is a burger to others. I was just explaining I think attractive is not the same as ugly. I think most women are generally somewhat excited about their partners. Maybe he’s not a Michelin star meal but he’s a medium rare steak with triple cooked chips and that’s more than enough for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 10:18 PM
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this is what I mean I don’t really view it as I wasn’t good enough or worth their time. That’s not really what people are thinking when they reject you. “We weren’t compatible” or “i wasn’t their type” are much less self-flagellating ways of looking at it. You’ll never be everybody’s cup of tea but that doesn’t mean you’re not “good enough”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 10:14 PM
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How is “I wanna fuck his brains out” the same as not finding him arousing?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 10:07 PM
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Yhhh I agree practically it’s the same result but I think far too many people take rejections to heart and mess with their self esteem
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 08:44 PM
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Unattractive is not the same thing as ugly. It’s like bland. A good burger is tasty (attractive) A piece of bread is bland. Not great but not actively bad (unattractive) Burnt food is nasty (ugly) I rarely see men that are ugly, as in actively unpleasant to look at it. Most guys are just bland in my eyes. You guys really have to stop believing that just because some people don’t like you, it means you are ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 07:58 PM
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Nah, its more like don’t think about him in that way hangs out with him he’s cool and funny “Hmm… wait there’s something about him” hang out some more “his big ears and crooked teeth are actually really cute” more hanging out “I wanna fuck his brains out”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 07:50 PM
5

Parties, gatherings, festivals, weddings, funerals if you’re brave enough, bars, the races, the gym
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:42 PM
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Good style won’t overcome defects but it will make an average guy more eye catching. A bad dresser will turn me off
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 04:15 PM
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Thank you but I have a boyfriend to a stranger Sorry but I’m not interested in you in that way to a friend
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 09:57 PM
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I don’t have any spare change 😂😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 09:49 PM
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Loool Omg i thought you were going to make a great point about how women sexually harassment men is not taken as seriously but no, you compared sexual harassment to … gold digging. Can’t make this shit up 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 09:28 PM
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It’s important that a man is willing to do it (sign he’s not a selfish partner) but tbh I don’t really care to receive or give. I prefer other forms of foreplay and they are really important to me. Preheat the oven before you put it in Yes. They just look better doing normal things when you know they lay good pipe
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 07:28 PM
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It was just an analogy that i thought would help you understand better but my bad lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 01:18 PM
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They’re hot. What’s the appeal of big boobs?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 01:14 PM
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they way you see it I’m being overly paranoid Kindly, yes you are. I understand being nervous, unsure etc but I think if you ever go on a date you’ll see just how unfounded some of your concerns are. It’s much easier to read people than you might think online literally telling men to stay the hell away from women. Not violent men, just men I understand that the posters are tad bit vague when you take them at face value but the campaigns are about sexual harassment and should be viewed in that co…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 12:36 PM
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😭 are you two not on the same side
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 04:44 AM
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Well what is considerable risk? Are women calling the police on you for trying to hold their hand? Yelling help when you try to hug them? You might get rejected and offered a hand shake but is that considerable risk? I don’t think it helps to be hyperbolic in this conversation. what I mean is they’re forms of intimacy children are permitted to participate in because they’re not too intrusive Just because children can do them, doesn’t mean they’re not meaningful for adults. Like I said, they’re a…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 04:31 AM
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Nah it’s just women aren’t allowed to ask women questions and men aren’t allowed to ask men. Not sure why but it’s a consistent rule
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 02:14 AM
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Was walking in school uniform with my friend and her little cousin who was like 7. Yuck
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 02:11 AM
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It’s always good to reiterate that different people want different things and is a major source of why there are mixed messages going around. If you probe the same woman, how many of them will give mixed messages on how they like to be approached? Some women are more reserved and prefer not to be touched at all on a first date. Others are more forward and will smash on a first date. So there will never be uniform advice. It’s a minefield to approach and I understand the confusion. signals that t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 02:06 AM
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Please can you define what you mean by strong intimacy hints. I don’t mean a guy has to feel me up, try to kiss me straight away etc to feel he’s interested. But if he’s not holding my hand or touching legs under the table then that’s not a good sign. I would appreciate a guy who isn’t obviously trying to sleep with me, I would think a guy who won’t touch me at all isn’t interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 01:14 AM
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I really appreciate a well dressed man, it would definitely catch my eye. I wouldn’t have those thoughts you described. People who think that way have their own self esteem issues imo Yes. Love is a verb and all that. There are much more important factors in having a life partner than being soulmates. You can find good partners multiple times. I think love comes with time anyway and you will grow to love who you’re with if you fancy them, have the same goals, values and like their personality. S…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 12:27 AM
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Omg we be arguing with dumbos on here. This sub is killing our braincells
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 12:11 AM
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If you see me start grifting on Tiktok don’t out me 🤭
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 11:53 PM
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I don’t believe you asked this question in good faith. I don’t believe this question is ever asked in good faith. I know the answer you want me to give. Men do most the building, thinking, innovation, blah blah blah etcetera etcetera etcetera. You don’t count childbearing as an advantage. So what is left? Nothing. Women don’t bring anything to the table. You guys would be far better off without us, or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 11:51 PM
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Nothing. Absolutely nothing. We are worthless. We contribute nothing to society and you would all be better off without us draining your resources. Please, go forth and be free from the shackles of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 11:37 PM
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A 7 is really good. why wouldn’t I be attracted to that?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 11:11 PM
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You can find the same numbers on statista, your infallible source (whereas mine, the general medical council’s own words, is made up)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 10:59 PM
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Well you learnt something didn’t you
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 10:50 PM
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https://www.gmc-uk.org/-/media/documents/the-state-of-medical-education-and-practice-in-the-uk---workforce-report_pdf-80449007.pdf female doctors now make up 48% of the workforce. Both Scotland (53% female) and Northern Ireland (51%) have a greater proportion of female doctors in 2019 than England (48%) and Wales (46%). Oh gosh, you guys across the pond really need to catch up The shift in gender balance isn’t because the profession is becoming less attractive to males. Instead, it reflects that…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 10:43 PM
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Why are people leaving this easy career in droves!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 10:39 PM
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Engage at least
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 10:38 PM
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Finding a man patient enough to go through it with you must be a minefield. I hope it works out but it can be a long journey!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 10:37 PM
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But women are the dumb ones hehe
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 10:34 PM
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~50% of doctors happen to be women
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 10:32 PM
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I genuinely think my personality is an 8 or 9 if you vibe with the type of person I am. I’m chatty so if someone prefers quiet types they wouldn’t like me, but i have a whale of a time with similarly extroverted people The guy has to be at least a 7
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 10:27 PM
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Not me but my friend did. Sounds tough. She can have sex fine now but after years of painful sex her drive is quite low. She doesn’t have a lot of sex even though she’s in a relationship. She did the dilator course
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 10:22 PM
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Easy career… nursing..
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 10:20 PM
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Average height and good face. Face over everything for me
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 09:31 PM
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Alright man
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 08:27 PM
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That hasn’t been the case for many dates I’ve been on. You must be dating quite conservative women if putting an arm around them is taboo.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 07:57 PM
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Nope. Apparently our whole existence is coddled like children. The bills I pay don’t feel childlike smh
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 07:29 PM
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Ah, the “please can you help me with this” to him asking you out pipeline. I know it well
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 07:11 PM
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TRP says women are like children but imo men are a little more like children. They want to feel like the most accomplished man in the world with you, just like children when they say “mummy watch me do this!” They have daydreams of slaying the dragon to save the princess just like young boys. Which is fine, it’s not a moral failing or anything like TRP makes it out to be. Make him feel like you’d follow him anywhere and he’s yours
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 07:07 PM
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Oh yeah I deffo agree some of them will have been putting on a facade to get me into bed. But I think the point still stands? A guy who is not affectionate probably doesn’t have interest in me as a person or physically. I feel like the post’s title is a bit hyperbolic using “fawn over you” because I don’t mean he has to try to kiss me or feel me up but if he won’t even hold my hand that’s not a good sign haha Im one of those people. I could have chemistry with a plank of wood. I’ve never had a b…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 07:02 PM
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No. I love my friends social life career etc but it’s not the same as sex. A romantic relationship couldn’t replace my friends, social life, or career either. They all make parts of a whole. I’m happy to go without sex for extended periods of time with the expectation that I’ll find someone eventually. That’s what I do between relationships until I’m ready to date again and I’m happy in those times. But if I knew I would never experience a romantic relationship with sex ever again, I would be ve…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 06:10 PM
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If a guy isn’t receptive to my flirting or touching, doesn’t try to touch me or give me compliments then I will assume he isn’t interested. Doesn’t have to try and fuck on the first date but at least hand holding The women who unmatch after a few hours could just be crazy and want someone’s constant attention or they could have another reason for unmatching still conditioned to believe if a guy isn’t fawning over her then he mustn’t be interested Please understand that 9 out of 10 guys ARE fawni…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 05:50 PM
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That is quite literally not the definition of single parent
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 11:23 PM
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I think pinkpill is like FDS type of women. I’ve only seen 1 poster that’s similar to those beliefs
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 11:18 PM
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2% of millions of people is still thousands of people a man must make wise choices based on his observed patterns of women’s behaviour in order to get dates. …So you agree? That you should find someone who wants the same things as you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 06:42 PM
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She didn’t even imply anything of the sort. Making things up to be angry about isn’t a good use of your time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 06:35 PM
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You can observe patterns but there’s still a sizeable amount of people who don’t follow those patterns so the answer is still find someone who wants you and the same things as you
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 06:29 PM
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I’ll watch that later, thanks! It makes sense, most of them have really good jawlines and great skin
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 02:14 PM
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Watching world athletics championships. Hella attractive people Not long distance runners tho. They really should eat more
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 01:25 PM
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Bruh in their world every single mum got pumped and dumped by a chad after a one night stand. A long term relationship that resulted in children that just broke down for whatever reason never happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 07:01 AM
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this is what most of us are thinking
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 11:44 PM
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Face over everything
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 10:31 PM
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Where is this idolising of relationships with people from broken homes? Is it in the room with us rn? Seriously though I have no idea what you’re talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 09:00 AM
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Women who think still think sex is done to them into adulthood usually come from religious or otherwise sex-negative backgrounds. These cultures don’t tend to discuss sex as a whole and only talk about it in procreation terms so a lot of women don’t even realise sex is something for them to enjoy. But even in modern cultures, sex is absolutely framed as something done to the woman. It’s actually something women complain about a lot? Just look at some of the words done to describe sex: smashed, h…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 08:54 AM
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How would that be a valid offer? They don’t know what OP looks like, where she is in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 08:47 AM
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They will say you’re lying and youre actually a chad chaser who is overlooking the hundreds if not thousands of guys willing to have sex with you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 02:16 AM
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Paying for sex deffo, yuck
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 02:13 AM
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I’m not an animal person so it’s babies in particular for me! I’m less likely to date a guy with a dog actually because I don’t want them to give up their dog ofc but I’m not living with a dog either so we’re incompatible
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 01:53 AM
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For me? I don’t think so. Single dads are firmly in the no dating zone until I reach an age where there are more single dads than not. If there’s one thing I know about single parents under 25, they ARE fucking their baby mama/daddy. I will not be involved!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 01:34 AM
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Is the fat one not 💅🏾 tho
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 12:28 AM
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Or someone else on ppd with the same avatar
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 12:06 AM
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Let me fly u out 💫
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 12:05 AM
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Hiding his name but not his pff I’m pretty sure that’s mr meteor 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 12:02 AM
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Is it any more icky than anything else on your period tho? TMI, I’ve had some grimy scenes in the shower on my period.. period sex is practically sterile compared to that
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 11:57 PM
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Ngl sometimes it’s better
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 11:56 PM
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Understandable!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 11:55 PM
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Brudda how would we even converse. Through text? Entirely? It’s a no from me
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 11:52 PM
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Keeper 🔐
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 11:12 PM
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Same. I think period sex isn’t even that messy? I always put a towel down but more time the towel stays clean
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 11:10 PM
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You got me there I just prefer not to think about it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 11:07 PM
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Ok i can see how that might be traumatising 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 11:00 PM
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Oooh my sympathies over painful periods :( mine aren’t so bad
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 10:59 PM
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Wet pennies ain’t ever killed no one
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 10:58 PM
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Oh right I never realised there was a difference in texture. It feels extra gushy from my side. A shower before getting started helps the smell imo
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 10:49 PM
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Fair! Personally never stopped me
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 10:46 PM
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That’s way too far for me but fair play
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 10:46 PM
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Why!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 10:42 PM
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You’re munching it too? Realest guy on this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 10:42 PM
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Baby are you old enough for this convo 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 10:41 PM
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Why ? I would’ve thought it was better from the male perspective. Slip n slide🏄🏾‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 10:41 PM
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Why don’t you like it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 10:39 PM
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Story time
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 10:36 PM
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Period sex yay or nay
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 10:33 PM
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Well walking is my main form of “exercise” so I like to go to different parks/lakes a few times a week. Concerts, raves, festivals, watching sports somewhere, cinema, karaoke, picnics, an escape room every now and then. In winter ice skating and going to Christmas markets. I’m basic af so I love going for drinks and to restaurants. I hang out with my friends and their kids a lot so we do a lot of kid shit like play centres, fun fairs, trampoline parks. Idk most of the exciting stuff I want to tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 10:23 PM
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Don’t understand how one person can run into sooooo many liars and creeps. Something is going wrong in her picking stage
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 10:09 PM
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Asking if he’s the best you’ve ever had or your sexual history or if you’d want his dick to be bigger
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 10:07 PM
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There’s so much stuff to do outside! Why would I stay in all the time? Not that I can’t enjoy a night in but I like the big wide world
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 10:04 PM
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Introverted, shy and socially awkward are used interchangeably for some reason
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 09:32 PM
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People also like to lump socially awkward in with introversion
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 07:01 PM
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I wasn’t taking digs at people who don’t want to date single parents, I was taking digs at people who constantly go on about how low value single mothers are. Perhaps I wasn’t clear enough but I’m sure you know the type I mean. It’s totally fine to have preferences and you make valid points about why they’re not your preference, I just think it’s bad form to constantly attack people who don’t fit your preference. Childfree people are a minority. Regardless of how many people are deciding not to …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 06:59 PM
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Omg no way. I thought having a new born was exactly like staying up all night for an essay before your comment. Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 06:03 PM
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Lmaoo that would get me good
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 05:04 PM
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Maybe it’s that preselection thingy, idk what exactly goes on in my monke brain. But I guess it “shows” they’re caring, a present father etc, qualities that I’d want in a man. Lol that’s why I hate seeing a cute guy when I’m out with my niece and nephew. I should get a shirt that says “these are not my children!!” Edit: although I do think guys are more friendly/flirty when I’m with a baby that is obviously not mine? Like If I’m out with a friend and her kid and it’s obvious I’m not the mum I fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 04:21 PM
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I think both genders are doing just fine in the real world. Sure it’s a little tougher than if they didn’t have kids, but plenty of people find love again after children. People who don’t have their own children like to kick up a big fuss about single parents online for whatever reason though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 04:10 PM
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A man with a baby is instantly more attractive than he is without one. However he is also instantly undateable bc I’m too young to date a baby dad. I think older women would be into though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 03:26 PM
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All the negative comments she gets and she’s like lalala I’m not listening I’m gonna post again 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 10:05 AM
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How many sleepless nights did I have to write an essay in time? To stay out all night partying? Up until 4am giggling with my friends? A few more for my child is nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 08:33 AM
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My nephew’s laugh is an evil laugh and it’s sooooo funny. Bro sounds like he’s taking over the tristate area but he’s just knocking down some blocks 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 08:30 AM
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If so Her clientele was probably average-above average guys who want to date better. I don’t think she can help guys who can’t even get their foot in the door
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 06:44 AM
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I mean that’s not the actual thought process, I was just answering the question presented to me. I don’t think of it in those exact terms Boob guys exist though? He’s not thinking “I’ll only date women with tits bigger than the women around her” but he’s thinking “wow she’s got huge boobs”. That’s the equivalent of me being like “Damn he’s tall af” Nah it’s not about safety or security for me lol tall guys are just sexy. Luckily guns are highly regulated where I live 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 05:53 AM
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Lol they have though
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 05:46 AM
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Its nothing anyone hasn’t heard before lmao. Her heart’s in the right place I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 10:09 PM
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This lady https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/15whcbs/a_big_bank_account_doesnt_make_you_an_alpha_male/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=2&utm_term=1
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 10:08 PM
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I see you’re a woman of taste too
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 10:06 PM
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More educated as in more educated than women in the past even if they are more educated men still out earn females Well good thing I said more educated and not out earn then
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 10:05 PM
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Im 5’2 nearly everybody is taller than me. it’s relative to other men
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 09:21 PM
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F a full beard gimme a pornstache any day
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 08:59 PM
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They would if they could
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 08:55 PM
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That womenese poster is shouting into the void
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 08:54 PM
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I’ll drop the handkerchief. I won’t brazenly ask a guy out, but I’ll ask him for assistance to put me on his radar so he can ask me out
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 08:13 PM
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Dw I won’t forget to mention they were taller and better in bed
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 09:36 PM
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Fair but the post said divorce rape, not just divorce
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 09:36 PM
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By all means go, but do you even have a passport?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 09:15 PM
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OP is 18 and isn’t even a passport bro 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 09:14 PM
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Does divorce rape not mean taking a man to the cleaners? The judge will have no incentive to give me all his assets if I have my own assets. Spousal maintenance is only awarded when one spouse has no income.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 09:04 PM
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Yep. Saying shit like “I’m done playing games” and “my ex was a narcissist love bomber” is just a huge neon sign that you have a poor picker and drama follows you everywhere, not that you’re an innocent victim
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 08:51 PM
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I’m not physically imposing so they’re safe on that front. To prevent a man thinking I’ll divorce rape him, I’ll have my own income and not be a stay at home mother. I also won’t make things up to make him look bad and if he asks about my dating history i only have positive things to say about my exes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 08:11 PM
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I don’t disagree with you on the most part but right now in the west a woman doesn’t have to depend on men. She can be raised by her parents, get a job and live an independent life. Unless you mean she depends on men for building things, fixing roads, all those male dominated field etc, but then that’s a moot point because we all depend on each other for that. I highly doubt you built your own house.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 08:07 PM
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I’m sorry, I don’t understand what you mean
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 07:07 PM
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I’m purple pilled and if my son asks me for dating advice I’ll give him my honest thoughts. He can take what he needs from it and leave what he doesn’t. Encourage (force) him to be active and social from a young age and encourage him into a successful career. I think well rounded guys like that don’t need to be in the manosphere.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 06:59 PM
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UK is more similar to America in this instance. If I really wanted to have a free night out I could. When we were younger we’d go out with £10 for the taxi there and back and still come home steaming lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 06:40 PM
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have an incentive to have your best interests at heart Is doing a lot of the heavy lifting there. What if he doesn’t have yours at heart? Then you’re in a bit of a sticky situation. At least with an employer who doesn’t have your best interests at heart, youre free to jump ship and find a better employer without repercussion. to earn money to pay for services from men who do not, under a government that definitely does not, run by a beurocracy that definitely does not. What? Is there a time wher…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 03:26 PM
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let the tension build! No one talks about this part!!! Finally ripping each other’s clothes off after dates where you can’t keep your hands off each other >>>
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 03:06 PM
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Except we both know I wasn’t talking about the value men bring to wider society, and I was alluding to husbands financially supporting their wives
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 02:17 PM
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Easy trade for me
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 02:15 PM
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I depend on all people to make this society as wonderful as it is 😊 i am just not dependent on a romantic partner to fund my life, which is what I was obviously talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 02:14 PM
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Yeah I was being a hyperbolic. It’s the ageing population that makes the problem worse
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 02:11 PM
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I find it absolutely fascinating that the human race crumbles when women are more educated. This whole house of cards was built upon basically forcing women to depend on a man. That’s crazy. Although I suspect that’s not all there is to it. When people have more stuff, they don’t want to give up that stuff to raise more children when they’re happy with the 1 or 2 they already have. I think an underrated aspect of the birth rate discussion is families who already have kids, but would have had mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 01:56 PM
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No. It would be a bonus BUT I would be wary that he has some odd thoughts around height or whatever. Like why would you lie about that? 🤔 Tbh i don’t really care about guys lying about height because more time I can’t really tell unless it’s egregious. A while ago I dated someone whose profile said 5’10 but I think he was more like 5’8 but I still thought he was cute so whatever. If he said he was 5’10 and was actually 5’4 then we’d have a problem LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 10:01 AM
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Weird question but whatever. I’m early 20s and I feel like any guy I date is an investment so to speak. I would be fine with dating someone who’s still improving but absolutely not if he’s going to cheat. Spending the best years of my life with someone just for them to cheat when I’m older so I have to start again is a worry of mine
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 09:57 AM
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Agreed. I don’t think women these days fare better physically (also overweight, thinning hair, wrinkles etc) but at least they clean up nice. Middle aged men come from a time where looking good was seen as metrosexual and the average ones barely put any effort into their looks. There’s a reason why all the examples of good looking older men are well dressed and meticulously groomed. Thank god men my age are more into skincare, fashion and lifting
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 01:52 AM
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so you do have to filter a bit and target areas where fit women will be This is a big caveat, no? I assume older, fit women are also high in demand amongst their cohort. Contrary to popular belief, older men are not dating young women en masse and a fit 45 year old is very appealing (for casual sex at least) to men 30-90. To a 60 year old, a 45 year old woman is a younger lady. Surely you’d have to be a decent looking young man to bag an attractive middle aged women
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 12:42 AM
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Oh damn. you tried abroad and still nothing? May I ask, are you like really ugly?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 12:06 AM
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It seems like you don’t like the idea of going to Thailand but idk I think passport bro-ing might be a good idea. There’s a lot of women who will want something from you but I believe that you can still build a loving relationship with them, even it’s based more on practicality than desire. It sounds bad but mutual respect and dedication can make a marriage work. I’ve seen arranged marriages and the love is very real, even if it what people dreamed of
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 11:45 PM
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I get where you’re coming from in the literal definition of words but I think if a transwoman passes well and has a vagina then their partner isn’t attracted to a man at all. Are people realllly thinking about chromosomes when discussing sexuality? I know intersex people are an outlier but if an intersex person was raised as woman with female genitals and is attractive, nobody would call her boyfriend bi because she isn’t XX
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 11:03 PM
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Interesting. The blood rushing does make it a little bigger but it goes back to normal after a day or so. I guess if it was in a constant state of arousal it would always be bigger
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 10:44 PM
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Brudda do you think I’m walking up to girls asking them what their labia is like and saying aww you poor thing if it’s an outie or something wth😂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 10:31 PM
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I’d guess that most promiscuous women are that way because of their mental issues than hormones but idk
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 10:26 PM
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Maybe they think it’s conscious Really? I’m not googling that so I’ll have to find out for myself in 30 years
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 10:23 PM
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Showered is a bit dramatic
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 10:20 PM
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Teaching abstinence is good but at least make them aware of the risks Sex Ed is a vast topic though. Growing up they made it sound like you risk pregnancy any and every time you have sex, but in actuality there’s only a small window of time to get pregnant. I also only found out the morning after pill doesn’t work after ovulation last year 🤦🏾‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 10:19 PM
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What correlation have you noticed
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 10:10 PM
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Damn unc do you want me to buss it open for everyone I date or what?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 10:09 PM
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if they can handle ham sandwich then they can handle my sympathy
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 10:09 PM
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another word that’s lost his meaning. My eyes glaze over when I read narcissistic, gaslighting, incel, misogyny etc on reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 10:07 PM
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I thought so
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 10:04 PM
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Well.. what’s your answer 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 10:04 PM
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I did too, just checking. It makes as much sense as sleeping with too many women will give you a pencil dick
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 10:04 PM
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I think if she’s had the surgery then it’s fair to call it straight. But if there’s two penii involved…..
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 10:02 PM
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😭😭 this place is crazy Does América not have like a nationalised curriculum? Or state curriculum ? Or is the curriculum up to individual schools?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 10:00 PM
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Then we’re not compatible, he should find someone more his speed
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 09:59 PM
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Kinda similar in the way it’s an insult that has nothing to do with the actual anatomy? Lots of confident guys with small dicks and virgins with outies out there
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 09:58 PM
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Fair. So you think 99% of the time it’s just an easy insult? All the poor virgins with outies catching strays
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 09:58 PM
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Yeah once you question the logic it really falls apart Giving birth sounds terrible. They don’t tell you about the adult nappies
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 09:56 PM
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Tbf not many women know the ins and outs of their kitty either. I’ve heard a lot of women who didn’t know you can pee with a tampon in. It’s confusing territory I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 09:53 PM
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Q4M: do you or anyone you’ve known really believe the amount of sexual partners changes the shape of the labia? Like sleeping around will make a woman go from an innie to an outie? Or is that just an easy insult like “small dick energy”. I can’t tell
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 09:42 PM
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A month is no time at all 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 09:40 PM
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Damn just went through his twitter and yeah that’s a lot of guys His point is a bit diluted by just posting pictures of her with random men. She’s a celebrity (I think?). They take pictures together, that’s what they do at events. Just cos she was pictured with lebron James doesn’t mean she slept with him. I like to believe he has been faithful to savannah x
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 09:28 PM
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this happens to me allllll the time. I misplace my glasses, but I can’t see where they are without my glasses
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 09:19 PM
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Don’t sleep with a man for at least a month confirmed
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 09:08 PM
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Lmao the comments on this . Listen people can do what they like but it’s at least a little gay to sleep with a woman with a dick. Like, it’s not 100% straight
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 09:07 PM
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Hours worked + demands of the job matter more. If you earn more at a 9-5 desk job, delegating more chores to a nurse who works 12 hour shifts is bound to cause issues. Also, are you just gonna sit there like bread from the time you get home to the time your partner gets home so they can make dinner? That’s not even practical. Regardless of anything, nobody should be washing another adult’s shit-stained underwear. N o b o d y.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:20 PM
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I think so. Once I’m in bed with a guy I already like him so I’m not gonna be mean and back out at that point. I wouldn’t be ecstatic but I think I could make 3inches work. But if he had a micropenis Id appreciate being told about it earlier and would be put off that he surprised me with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 10:33 AM
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I really wanna know wtf they thought was happening when all the cute guys at school got all the attention or when girls were fawning over Justin Bieber or One direction or backstreet boys or whichever young pop singer was big at the time…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 10:01 AM
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1 (one) person said teachers. The majority of other responses said doctor, lawyer, upper management.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 09:50 AM
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My mum’s boyfriend is a carpenter. God that man is fantastic. He turned our storage cupboard into a walk in shoe-wardrobe, built a pantry, put a new bath in. What a catch. My sister’s husband is in IT but he’s sooo handy around the house as well. Put their new floor in, a new stove, turned the shed into a man cave. A capable man is great.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 09:46 AM
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Justin Bieber was my first crush. If he didn’t look so much like a druggie now I’d still fancy him. Leo dicaprio in titanic. I was watching backstreet boys videos the other day and the one with the curtain bangs is so cute to me 😍
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 09:42 AM
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I don’t understand this train of thought either. Being tall is sexy, that’s it. If I was a short guy I would be a little insecure about it too. You can’t let it ruin your life though. What I do find a turn off is a perfectly average heighted man being insecure. Like a 5’9 guy being like woe is me I’m not 6ft. Look outside and see all the other 5’9 guys in relationships dummy. It’s like when you see a girl with a perfectly normal nose being like “Omg my nose is so huge I hate myself”. Get a grip
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 09:34 AM
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I don’t know the rates but gay dating can be pretty dangerous. There’s was an inquest recently into the case of a gay serial killer who killed 4 young men because the police kinda suspected it but didn’t tackle it properly. There was also a serial rapist who assaulted around 200 men in the 2010s I assume assault in the gay community is extremely underreported. Gay men who don’t want to come out won’t say anything. Also the amount of underage relations is pretty high.. all the gay guys I know sai…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:01 PM
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I would tell the truth but if he’s pestering me for details I’d find that really strange
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 07:51 PM
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You seem to be dedicated to be missing the point
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:15 PM
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What do you watch? I feel like there’s amazing male role models in all kinds of films. The avengers - obviously these movies promote unrealistic body standards for men but there’s still a few good messages in there. Steve rogers always had a heart of gold and was willing to defend his friends when the odds were against him. Tony stark had huge character development from an aloof dickhead to a caring mentor. Thor became humble and lost his hubris and realised he doesn’t automatically deserve ever…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 12:16 PM
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Is that relevant to what I’m saying? I mean I agree but i don’t think that’s the topic at hand? Not me specifically. Lots of women have those kind of opinions. Just like lots of men have opinions on outie labias.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 10:58 AM
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Fair but it’s still a long gradual change from 25 to 35. I’d be very interested to see a woman whose boobs stayed the exact same in those ten years. no, because it’s weird It’s like you’re agreeing me, just not with the way I’m saying it. It’s weird because it’s not how you’re supposed to look.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 10:57 AM
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So it’s part of it then
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 10:53 AM
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I’m purple pill so I agree with a few red pill parts. I agree with some of the thoughts it has on sexual dynamics. Men and women are different (duh). Generally, very generally as in there will be millions of outliers, men like sex, women like resources. Power, status and wealth are attractive to women (and men, but that’s another topic). It’s so obvious and idk why women deny it so much. There are so many celebrities , for eg Jack Black, who are objectively unattractive and wouldn’t get a second…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 10:23 AM
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• drinks • dinner • activity - minigolf/bowling/cinema/escape room/axe throwing/table tennis/arcade/gallery/swimming The best dates are multi-part. Once we went for minigolf and drinks then dinner then more drinks then we ended up at a club. Another time it started as drinks then we played table tennis then went to an arcade then had dinner. These type of dates can cost a lot though. I don’t pay for “main” part of the date but I’ll get a few rounds if we’re drinking. In relationships I get the m…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 07:37 AM
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Women are the oldest teenager in the house vibes. If it works for you, fair enough! I talk too much cos I just talk too much. Teachers used to write “good student but chatty” in my school reports
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 02:49 AM
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Pleaseee tell me you’ve watched fat families
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 02:46 AM
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He can ask me politely to give him time to decompress
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 02:43 AM
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Because I know how I react to disrespect, I prefer to be around well mannered people
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 02:09 AM
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I would simply stop talking to them forever
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 02:05 AM
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Stfu in a sexy teasing way or stfu in a being mean way and they actually want me to shut up? Big difference. Tbh no one’s ever told me to stfu in an argumentative way.. I’d probably cry. But in a teasing way, sure
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 02:00 AM
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Not really. The changes are gradual. You think boobs are perky and hair is full one day then drop and thins out the day you turn 40? It’s a gradual change from 28, 30, 35. Skin quality too but I thought everybody knew that one already. uncanny valley Yeah, because it’s not healthy for a human to have no eyelashes. She looks odd because she looks like something is wrong with her
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 01:40 AM
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“I’m going to leave a legacy!” proceeds to die when the kid is 5 and he’s had no time to actually teach the child anything that will continue the legacy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 12:27 AM
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I mean of course having really nice hair and beautiful lashes isn’t going to distract most people from a busted nose or nasty teeth! I think styling (make up, hair) more affects how approachable someone seems, and eye catching someone is. We’ve all heard of resting bitch face and how men like women who are smiling. In the looksmax spaces there’s an idea of “high trust faces” and “low trust faces”. People like ana de armas and Emma Watson have high trust faces whereas Megan fox and Bella hadid ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 12:10 AM
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He obviously has no plans to actually raise them. Just continue his legacy and leave the mother to deal with the actual parenting part
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 10:58 PM
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Well I would’ve been drunk in a club and a teenager, a demographic exactly known for their empathy skills. Like I said it was a shitty thing to do so no need to remind me how mean it was. It was very unnecessary. Although I remember one specific time a guy grabbed me as I was walking past so the Ew was deserved. It wasn’t all just me being a bitch
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 09:45 PM
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Look at that. 3000 men and women celebrating iftar together. Dare I suggest that at least some of them were zoomer men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 08:41 PM
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yeah fair. It does what sports and level but it’s not like no women are doing sports, ever. I did tennis lessons last summer and whilst we were split by gender, there was mingling at the beginning and end My engineering cohort was 60/40 but I did Chem eng which attracts more women than other types for whatever reason Yes there are some industries that mostly men but of alllllllllll the careers and jobs possible, I’d guess the majority have both genders. At the very least most workplaces. Even in…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 08:35 PM
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Who else would be sitting in class and going to prom except zoomer men? Literally just go to a club bro
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 08:30 PM
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Most men aren’t sitting next to each other, in clubs, playing sports, going to prom, going to parties, working? So who are all these male looking humanoids I’m seeing outside then??? Aliens?!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 08:16 PM
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are going women even around young women enough for this to happen easily? Yes. Go outside and see.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 08:15 PM
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So, you agree, what most men will accept is not their ideal. if she’s worried about strangers on the internet she needs to log off for a while While yes I agree that people shouldn’t take things so personally, is it not reasonable to assume that if a comment get lots of likes, real people agree with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 08:13 PM
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Probably not great. It’s bad behaviour, no justifying it. My only excuse is I was young and rude but that doesn’t justify it either.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 07:20 PM
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Well I did say I’ve made that Ew face because I’m not attracted. But I said Ew doesn’t mean creepy. If a man I found attractive kept persisting after I said no, that would still be harassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 07:04 PM
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This thread has made me realise a lot of men don’t actually realise what they find attractive. PPD men will shout “we like youth and fertility!” from the rooftops because they like younger women but don’t actually understand that individual features contribute to the appearance of youth and fertility. Things “men don’t care about” ITT: • size of their lips - full lips are an indicator of youth because our lips get thinner as we age. Elderly people tend to have paper thin lips • volume of hair an…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 06:58 PM
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I’ve seen some awful stuff saggy boobs (genetic) and women with large or outie labias (genetic). Now I’ll admit not all men think this way but for people with insecurities all it takes is a few comments or a comment getting hundreds of likes to reinforce their thoughts that their bodies are ugly. I also admit if you’re naked with a guy he’s most likely not going to care about that, but it’s still not the ideal. We all know a man would rather have a girl with perky tits than saggy ones, but he’ll…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 06:40 PM
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I’m not a forward person and objectively I’m not everyone’s type so I err on the side of caution, I don’t like to express interest until someone has expressed interest in me An attractive stranger would get the friendly treatment
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 04:19 PM
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They don’t have to be gay, a lil finger up the bum during missionary never killed a man 😈
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 04:17 PM
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Looool guys please 😭😭 you know what I mean!!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 04:15 PM
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You don’t have to be in a relationship if you don’t wanna. If you can’t imagine you finding a woman you enjoy hanging out with outside of sex, people telling you the advantages won’t change your mind
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 04:06 PM
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Lmaoo didn’t even realise. To clarify I meant a hole inside him, for validation or abandonment issues or whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 04:04 PM
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Right. Is this group of people in the room with us right now?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 03:53 PM
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She has said SHE likes it. How is it cognitive dissonance when different people have different opinions?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 03:46 PM
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When a guy I’m not attracted to approaches me in a club, most times I’m not thinking he’s creepy but I’m still not attracted. I’ve probably made a few Ew go away faces in my time 😬 I don’t have a problem with men shooting their shot, it’s only creepy when they persist after I’ve said or implied no. Or it’s something completely inappropriate which attractive men also do. I would find groping creepy regardless of how attractive they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 03:45 PM
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She’s right though. If I see a guy I fancied with another girl I’m not going to intrude. That’s just setting yourself up for embarrassment, especially if you know you’re not as attractive as who they were with
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 03:41 PM
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I’ll be quite sad if I don’t find a partner but I’m very close to my family and I’ll find joy in being the fun auntie.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 03:38 PM
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Idk it depends on the context. If it’s like a stranger asking me for directions I’m friendly to all of them. If it’s like a group conversation at a party I’m more quiet and shy to a guy I find attractive until he shows interest then I’m flirty, but friendly to guys I find unattractive and so-so. My default setting is friendly
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 03:34 PM
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Much like men, i ask myself what does the promiscuity represent. Was he sleeping with lots of people to fill a hole? Did he treat them unkindly? Did he have sex with women he found unattractive just to buss a nut? Could he not sustain a LTR? Did he cheat? Did he use not use protection, left a few abortions in his wake? Those behaviours are unattractive to me. If he demonstrated he’d changed, I would. But idk if I could really trust him that he had. I’d vet him for much longer than i would a guy …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 03:28 PM
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Men who were in bad age gap relationships tend not to speak up because they’ll just get dismissed by other guys. Have you ever seen the comments on an article about a teacher who slept with her students? “I wish I had a teacher like that haha lol”. Not a very safe space for victims. I believe our resident fattie lover mr purple possum said that lots of men he’s represented were abused by an older woman and they have the same problems of any abuse victims - addiction, violence, mental health issu…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 03:01 PM
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It helps when you actually like your girlfriend as a person
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 02:53 PM
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Sounds blissful. What would you say the negatives are? I have a relative in Finland, she’s a nurse. She has an amazing work/life balance and is well compensated. Being a nurse in the uk is paying for the pleasure to be underpaid and overworked
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 02:52 PM
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What’s it like
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 02:02 PM
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We’ll have to take your word for it mate
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 10:18 AM
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All I’m saying is people are different. I would offer to split and they would say it’s fine 🤷🏾‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 09:09 AM
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No, spanish boys in Spain
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 09:03 AM
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This was beautifully written. I would like to be a comforting shade beneath which a man can perch and seek refreshment. I’ll be her one day
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 08:41 AM
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It would actually be more difficult to find a man shorter than me than to find a man over 6ft
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 08:25 AM
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No judgement but anybody that’s slept with more than 100 people obviously has a few screws loose and us normal people can’t speak for them. But I’d guess secretly wanting to embarrass you or lack of emotional intelligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 08:06 AM
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I’m not American but non Americans have such a strange habit of generalising the rest of the entire world just to try and make Americans look bad. “Europe” isn’t a monolith. I’m brit and I’ve travelled a little and men throughout Europe have insisted on paying for dates. Weirdly enough, not everyone thinks like you just because you’re from the same continent. Western, southern and Eastern Europe are all quite different from each other culturally. I’ve never been to Eastern Europe but my Eastern …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 08:00 AM
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I’ve dated Spanish boys and they paid for the date. Have you considered not every European is exactly like you?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 07:50 AM
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Styling is so underrated on PPD. Styling is basically marketing. A woman doesn’t even need to be in tight/skimpy clothes to get attention. Just wearing decent quality, well fitted clothing in your colour season gets you 5x more attention than ill fitting jeans and tops Men will say they don’t care about make up/nails etc and I believe that they don’t think they do but on a subconscious level they notice. A woman with fresh French tips is subconsciously respected more than one with dirty chipped …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 09:30 PM
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I see people doing cartwheels to justify certain behaviours and Im like, dating must be exhausting for you if you’re this easy to fool
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 08:53 PM
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Why fix it if it ain’t broken!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 08:52 PM
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Just to clarify, this is just me. There’s other women in this thread saying they wouldn’t want to be touched on a first date. But imo I think more women think like me than not Yeah I will deffo initiate touch if I’m feeling them and I think they’re feeling me. If we’re walking midway through the date (like changing venues) then I’ll link arms. I have a little move. If they’re wearing rings or a watch I’ll be like “oh I love your rings can I see them” then play with their rings. Then I’m like “Om…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 08:39 PM
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I disagree that that is what most people mean when they say agreeable because why is it a gendered trait? No manopshere types say men should be agreeable, but what you’re describing is a really good quality to have for men and women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 08:31 PM
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I’ve noticed this on mainstream dating advice subs. Someone (a woman usually) will detail a situation where a guy is clearly not into her and all the replies are giving the guy the benefit of the doubt. Oh maybe he’s anxious or busy at work or his granddads dog really did die and he needed to comfort him. I wouldn’t say I’m cynical but if someone’s energy has switched up 9 times out of 10 the simplest answer is the right one
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 08:26 PM
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I don’t really care. They can try all they want, I’ll decide if I reciprocate or not. After all, women are the gatekeepers of sex or whatever the manosphere says. If someone is being too handsy I just tell them to stop. If they keep trying after that, it’s an immediate no. Don’t ever want to be in a lonely situation with a man like that. I don’t really blame men for trying to escalate? Honestly i expect it from a man I’m on a date with. It’s just their nature. But also depends on the touching. L…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 06:58 PM
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Sometimes people just cheat to cheat lol. It is absolutely possible to be the best partner and the other party still wants more
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 06:40 PM
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It’s relative. 40 year old men are below average to me, but my mum would consider most average
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 10:09 AM
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Yeah like if “attractive” to her is being a VS model, then no, none of them are walking down the run way. But they’re still attractive, because it’s a scale and all of them are somewhere in the middle
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 09:41 AM
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Yeah I don’t see why any of them wouldn’t be able to get in happy relationships with other average men
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 09:33 AM
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My male friends would laugh at me if I asked them to buy my dinner 😂 we just split the bill equally, same for Ubers. The most they do is buy me a drink, which I reciprocate next round or next time we go out I’d say in my mixed friendship group, the girls were the ones organising get togethers, hosting, bringing food to the functions and when we went on holiday the girls did the itinerary and the guys just came along for the ride. Ime men’s contribution is monetary but that’s okay with me. I’ve n…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 10:37 PM
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How is going to a party for sex not craving attention? Sex is a type of attention
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 08:21 PM
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Eh that’ll do
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 06:44 PM
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£20 per pic
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 06:28 PM
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I only report scary people but other than that I let people stew in their bad decisions. But if you feel like reporting him that’s valid too. Deffo reportable
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 06:13 PM
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Don’t reply, don’t unmatch. Those guys are looking for a reaction, don’t give it to them. Even unmatching is a win to them. But he’ll feel a little dejected if there is no response
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 05:58 PM
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My mum said boys only want one thing. Don’t think she was particularly wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 05:16 PM
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I was so gassed when I saw the veins on my feet for the first time
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 04:44 PM
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my vag will tingle when Im physically being touched by a guy I fancy or remember past sexual experiences, like a flutter - kind of like when you have butterflies in your tummy but down there. But I’ve never felt this just by looking at someone I find attractive. I think the manosphere tingles more describe the butterflies in your tummy, which I do feel when I’m attracted to someone. Maybe other women are different I need some sort of physical touch to get wet, specifically aroused-wet. I’ve neve…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 04:42 PM
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Idk about other denominations but I know people can’t just waltz into Catholic Churches and get married. Both partners must be baptised and you have to be a member of the parish and go through marriage preparation with the priest. There’s usually a set waiting period, like 6 months or whatever. It’s not a free for all, or at least it’s not supposed to be. Regarding the wearing white thing… it’s simply the norm. I don’t think your analogies work because karate, degrees, medicine are all practical…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 10:44 AM
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How would you begin to love someone if you didn’t spend time with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 09:21 AM
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So it’s not just me! I thought maybe I just had high standards because I actually consider a lot of posters hit in the face. The power of pussy ey.. poor guys. Sometimes I comment on mens posts if I feel like they can really be helped with different styling. It’s easier with women because a little eyeliner here, an eyelash there, you can bump up 1.5 points. Men have to work with what they got.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 01:20 AM
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If we had near-guaranteed orgasms every time I’m sure we’d all be high libido too 😜 Seriously though I think most women with low libidos have artificially low libido either due to bad sexual experiences, sexual repression or due to side effects of medication. I don’t believe as many women have naturally low libidos. Like it’s actually soooo common to have a bad sexual experience and I can see why someone who had one or two particularly violent experiences would have no libido. If sex to you has …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 01:14 AM
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In my head, there is a difference between what I consider as simping and being overbearing. “I got Lori Harvey on my wish list” - meek mill. Bagging an “it girl” is absolutely a flex for men. That’s the concept of a trophy white. Or a trophy influencer in this case
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 11:41 PM
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Hmm okay didn’t realise that was also simping. Personally I like my man simping for me cos ima simp right back. Men want to date/sleep with Lori Harvey for the status aspect too. It’s a “flex” to bag a woman like her
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 11:29 PM
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That’s not fair bro was just in love 😂 isn’t simping going out of your way to give someone attention who doesn’t feel the same way?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 11:17 PM
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How was MBJ a simp? Him and Lori weren’t very public about their relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 11:07 PM
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I’ve never been on contraception so I’d guess my libido is as normal as can be and I still don’t feel attracted to most men I pass on the street. Women just don’t have as much testosterone as men
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 08:15 PM
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Fair. Maybe “ugly to them” would work better? I think men have a greater variance of what they find attractive but there are still some women that they’d find too ugly to be seen with no? Or have I misinterpreted what I’ve seen on ppd
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 06:07 PM
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Yeah I would agree. It seems like men generally find anybody slim actually attractive, and under like 300lbs and not deformed fuckable. There’s a lot of women I see on the amiugly subs that I personally would consider a butterface or just meh but get positive responses because they’re not fat
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 05:28 PM
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It’s like there’s only two types of men in their minds. Shy nerdy introverts who treat women well or drunk belligerent arseholes who treat women awful. Most people are somewhere in the middle and are whole human beings, not American high school movie archetypes. Popular social guys can be kind people. Shy nerdy guys can be horrible. And vice versa. I am quite sociable and like going out so I mesh well with guys like that. They are nice people for the most part, and usually also have some of thei…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 05:21 PM
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Yeah it’s probably people with other issues that are an easier target. I certainly don’t like men my dads age hitting on me, but hey there was deffo girls in school bragging that their boyfriend was older. They’re Not Like Other Girls™️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 03:49 PM
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Younger women are higher in demand but also easily malleable and find attention from older men flattering. No surprise when they use stuff like “you’re so mature for your age”. But sometimes the men who go for younger tend to be bums like don’t have jobs, unkempt aka women their age don’t want them. My anecdote with this is my friend who was 19 when she had a baby with a guy who was 30 at the time I think. He had another child with another woman who he didn’t support and worked at a corner shop …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 03:19 PM
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Seeing as men on here often say guys will sleep with anybody willing, I’d say it’s easier for a woman to be attractive. Although personally I think there’s a difference between fuckable and actually attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 03:07 PM
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I’ve seen men say they have a looks standards for a relationship that is higher than their looks standards for sex. They’ll sleep with a fat ugly girl if they’re horny enough but won’t be seen in public with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 03:04 PM
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I would say nerdy, quiet, reserved types are not my type. But idk why you assume these qualities would automatically make someone a better partner? Sure obnoxious isn’t a good trait, but being extroverted and social doesn’t automatically make one obnoxious
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 01:32 PM
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I don’t know anybody that dirt bikes either. Is that a popular hobby in some places? I suppose people might do it as a one off, experience type of thing, I would too. But like regularly dirt bike? Idek where you could do that in my city.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 01:27 PM
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I think most people are not personally interested in most other people Completely agree with you. If someone isn’t interested in being my friend, I don’t care one way or the other. That’s how I feel about most people. As long as you’re courteous then I don’t care what is going through your head. I suppose it’s dehumanising if they were to explicitly say “oh you won’t have sex with me so I won’t talk to you as a friend anymore” but most people have enough social skills not to verbalise that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 09:39 AM
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Engineer and I can know your sign within seconds of hearing your birthday 🤓
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 09:28 AM
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Entitled basically means “want” in these conversations. God forbid you ever want something, you’re just an entitled little bitch
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 06:30 PM
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I personally saw more progress with low cal diet + cardio than medium cal diet + weight lifting + cardio. On a small deficit the scale just bounced around the same number for 3 months
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 06:05 PM
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1500 maintenance gang 🤘🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 06:03 PM
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I’m staying at my sister’s place and I’ve been making her and my brother in law breakfast and dinner all week. Does that count. I would do it if she wasn’t here too
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 06:00 PM
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I’m bad at playing hard to get. If I want someone I’m not going to jeopardise it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 05:56 PM
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How would a layperson, the partner, be able to evaluate if they are mentally sound?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 04:13 PM
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Notice how the chores “He” does are more infrequent to the chores “She” does. That’s the problem. If you’re making lunch, sweeping and dusting every day, you start to feel resentful because you’re always doing something whereas he seems to be busy once in a blue moon. How often does the plumbing need fixing in your house? We’ve had one plumbing problem all year. And most guys would call someone to fix it because it’s beyond their expertise or they don’t have the tools. How often does a glass bre…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 08:03 AM
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Exactly! It’s nonsensical these days and has been for a long time. The (small) majority of people meet their partners at uni or work anyway. Imagine intentionally limiting yourself to find a man… but missing out on the places to meet men
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 10:30 AM
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Thank. You. If 60 odd% of young men are single, but only 30 odd% of young men haven’t had sex in the last year, doesn’t it sound to reason that the middle 30% simply don’t WANT to be in a relationship?! Where has this idea that young men want to be married off come from? The majority of my male acquaintances would rather be playing the field, not that they’re struggling to get in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 06:44 PM
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Because apparently they will revolt and take down society instead of whatever it is they’re doing now
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 06:32 PM
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Mine but I take requests
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 12:50 PM
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R&b. I have a playlist
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 10:39 AM
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That’s really impressive! When did you start lifting? my pb is 14kg 😂 It’s really strange how gym bros IRL are so supportive yet people online have something negative to stay. I get the feeling a lot of those people don’t actually lift…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 08:45 AM
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Who was performing? I haven’t raved all year 😞
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 08:39 AM
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Right now? My mum. Sorry but I can find another man. In like 30-40 years? My man, my mum will be old enough to go She would tell me to choose my man tho
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 08:34 AM
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Just another way of putting women down. I feel like people cannot view women’s athleticism as it’s own thing, and it must always be compared to men’s to be valid, or usually invalid. Guys bragging that they can outlift women is embarrassing. I friggin hope you can outlift me. And I wish women would stop the “we’re just as strong as men!” shtick too. It’s literally okay that we’re not as strong as men. We don’t need to be. 70kg is crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 08:30 AM
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number he had at the early stage of relationships Well nothing is the same as the early stage of relationships, is it? You don’t even live together, so you have sex every time you see each other. I’ve never lived with a boyfriend but the idea of sex every day sounds painful. I’m sore after a week of holiday sex. The average includes new couples which brings the average up, but also includes established couples who are older or have a house kids and other responsibilities which brings it down. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 08:20 AM
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To be clear I’m not talking about dead bedroom situations or toxic situations like you describe. People shouldn’t be demonising their partner’s sexuality unless it’s an actual problem. Most people aren’t in a dead bedroom, the frequency of sex just naturally tapers off
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 08:10 AM
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That is fun to navigate!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 08:08 AM
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My dad was a granddad at 47. He had my sister at 19 lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 07:56 AM
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Yes I agree. I’m not at all saying that withholding sex should be done in a relationship. But if a guy thinks that stopping all that will make women want more sex, he’s not very in tune with women’s sexuality. But I also understand why he might not be willing to do those things when he’s not sexually satisfied and is feeling upset. They are two pillars and the relationship crumbles without one or the other. For clarity, I’m not talking about dead bedroom situations. It was an article on men in l…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 07:39 AM
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Yeah the new relationship energy wears off and women revert back to their natural state. I disagree because the average couple is having sex once or twice a week which I wouldn’t call the planets aligning. If a man cheats because he doesn’t have sex more than twice a week when there’s life kids and work to handle then he sucks. I think cheating is more about opportunity and feeling the spark with someone else, when all the excitement at home as gone. It would make sense if men didn’t also sleep …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 02:00 AM
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Great point. Most families are dual income and still struggling. Also, idk what people expect young women to do from 18-27 before they get married. Sit here twiddling our thumbs? My parents wouldn’t be very happy about that. Of course I’m gonna get a job you doughnuts
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 01:19 AM
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I do believe men find dating easier in their late 20s than their early 20s. But the revenge fantasy is more about how women will find be cat ladies in their 30s because they were rejecting all the good guys at their peak. Everyone loves to cite the Pew study about how 30% of men 18-29 haven’t had sex in the last year. Imagine my surprise when I found a Pew study that said only 19% of women 30-49 are single! How come no one brings up that when they’re talking about how women are going to be singl…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 01:17 AM
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Eh, I believe that men love women in societies that respect women. Unfortunately in a lot of societies, men view women as inferior and use that to their advantage. I don’t know how you can say that it’s a “notion” that some societies have been engineered to oppress women. There is long documented history of marrying off women for resources, banning them from education, accepting abuse of women etc. These practices still happen around the world, I actually come from such a country so I have seen …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 01:06 AM
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I did give a disclaimer that not all men and women because there’s are so many exceptions to it. There are so many women in the deadbedroom sub and there are definitely women out there who put sex first. Even for women who want a connection too, waiting too long makes us feel like you’re not attracted to us. I suppose it’s because most guys are all over us and the conditioning that “men always want sex”. So if he doesn’t want sex, then he must not be attracted to you. It does put people into box…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 12:41 AM
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So, not every woman then. These same women Have you, yourself, physically seen or reliably heard of the same exact woman do xyz with your friend then make another guy wait? If not, then how are you so sure they will?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 10:25 PM
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Has he been with every woman?Does he have a 100% success rate? You guys notice all the women he sleeps with who back up your idea, and ignore all the women who don’t want anything to do with Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 10:12 PM
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This was an interesting post. I think resentful was a great choice of word here. Obligatory not all men/not all women disclaimer. I read something that struck me a while back. It was about men, sex and love and how often for men, sex is a display of love. This was in the context of marriages and how important sex is to keep love alive. There were answers from real husbands about how they honestly felt about their sex life. It talked about how women can put sex on the back burner because there’s …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 10:01 PM
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10000%. Please don’t think misanthropic women online speak for all of us. As long as you’re respectful it’s fine. It’s not illegal to say hi to someone in public
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 07:03 PM
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You don’t understand, he has to. To avoid the women who want to sleep with him (?)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 05:56 PM
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Man who fucks on the first date lamenting about women who fuck on the first date
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 05:56 PM
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Well it’s not 21
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 12:26 PM
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Younger men
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 11:24 AM
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your second point assumes women find most women visible. I do not. Most people are invisible to me unless they are eye catching in some way. This is easier for women because we tend to self decorate. Even hair is eye catching- long curly hair gets my attention. I also notice men with long hair because it’s different. But the majority of women are also bland. Is everyone noticing most people or am I just really oblivious? This is fascinating honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 10:20 AM
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For me it’s the 2 separate people gaining the exact same amount of weight due to office treats. If you believe that I have a bridge I’d like to sell you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 10:12 AM
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Even in the good relationships with supportive partners I know, I would say the woman is still the “default” parent. I can understand why that responsibility might drive you crazy, but it’s something you should come to terms with before having a child
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 09:47 AM
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Being able to apply information from one subject to another is something they teach you at school actually
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 09:44 AM
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I’m a little confused on the timeline too. She got pregnant but didn’t know then started dating you right away and you dated long enough for you to commit but she’s still early along enough to have an abortion?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 09:25 AM
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Sex tourists have existed for a long time lool
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 09:22 AM
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Do people know they don’t have to date each other 😫 it can be fun to discuss but 2 hours…. Same I’d say I’m purple pilled. Both sides have some good points yet both sides are a little delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 01:33 AM
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I like making a Sunday roast tbf. Lots of work but always worth it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 01:11 AM
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Look at us being reasonable people
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 01:09 AM
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I think both positions are extreme. I personally have never found a correlation between looks and personality. Cheating is absolutely not reserved for attractive men only, I’ve seen some absolute gremlins cheat. I’ve also seen attractive men cheat. I’ve seen both types be good, faithful partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 12:19 AM
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My parents told me boys only want one thing and tbh they were right
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 10:35 PM
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Surely this is the opposite of the just world fantasy they be talking about. “He’s ugly so he must be a nice person”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 10:13 PM
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I can change him 😤
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 10:12 PM
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Like sponsorships or other teams don’t want him? How you get trapped twice🤦🏾‍♀️ you’d think he’d learn his lesson after one
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 06:11 PM
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Apparently smaller than 5’8 is the bottom 35th percentile. I am generally for people letting go of arbitrary standards like taller than 6 foot but by no means will you end up 30 and single because you want a man at least 5’8. That’s 65% of men 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 06:06 PM
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Class is a weird thing, it’s about money but also not about money. Like you can be a rich construction worker and still be working class, then you can be broke but come from an upper middle class family and still be upper middle class. So a big earnings gap is not necessarily a difference in class and I think an engineer and a nurse are the same class because they’re both hold a degree, even though like you say one earns more than the other. I think engineers get a bad rep :( although I’m in che…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 05:10 PM
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I don’t follow basketball how did that affect his career??
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 04:46 PM
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I’m not saying it never happens, it does and relatively often as well. But stats show most people are not marrying up/down across class lines like that. So I think you would be a little bit of an exception. Someone else in this thread pointed out that in 81% of marriages where they had a bachelor’s degree, the other partner also had one. What about your colleagues who are married? What do their wives do? Most girls I know in the beauty industry date tradies (like construction workers or plumbers…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 04:44 PM
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That’s why all our doctors are leaving for the states and Australia 💔 specialty doctors get up 82k and consultants up to 120k…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 03:06 PM
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It’s not strange, but what are the chances that all the people saying it make good money and aren’t just on average incomes like most people? Also I don’t know what salaries are like where you are, but in the uk most doctors/solicitors/accountants make decent money, but not “lift a woman out of poverty” money.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 02:52 PM
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I should’ve said, men on here. I see a lot of guys claiming they’ll date a woman no matter what she does
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 02:27 PM
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Most people marry within their socioeconomic background. As much as men may not care about intelligence, if they are a professional they will probably not marry a hairdresser or retail worker. At the company I did a placement at, all the senior engineers and managers were married to doctors/nurses/solicitors/otherwise educated women. None of them were married to women in low skill jobs. I believe that women’s jobs/intelligence don’t make them more attractive to men, but it’s considered when sizi…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 02:17 PM
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Hahaha no problem!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 12:43 PM
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For every couple that smashed on the first date there’s a million more that were just a one night stand. It’s not a foolproof method, nothing is guaranteed in relationships, but it sure as heck weeds out a whole lot of guys. 100% agree with you, it’s not a smart strategy
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 12:01 PM
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Don’t have sex on the first date
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 12:00 PM
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If a guy ghosts me after sex on the 10th date then at least i can say I gave it my all and he was just that kind of guy. If a guy ghosts you after sex on the first date, you didn’t even try to vet him
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 11:59 AM
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I was replying to the other guy who said it’s a shame that we like hair. Your preferences aren’t unfair or fair, I have similar anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 11:55 AM
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I’m 24 and my age range is 23-31. I do want someone around the same age as me just because I want to do the whole travelling together, buying a first house together, still having mid 20s fun whereas i feel like most people I like in their 30s are a bit more settled down than that. I find guys in their 20s are more attractive than most guys in their 30s. Yes yes there is the occasional attractive 35 year old man but the ratio is like 30:1. My brother in law is 33 and I sometimes hang out with his…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 11:54 AM
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It’s a shame for women that men like youth and fertility because we all get old. Time comes for us all 🤷🏾‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 11:32 AM
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Pretty boy or boyishly handsome (compared to “masculine handsome”), long hair, facial hair (I’m partial to a pornstache and a mullet). Body wise I like lean/fit but also wide in the waist, I’m not a big fan of the upside down Dorito look. Footballer’s bodies are my fave. I really like jewellery on men. A chain? 😍 rings yes please. They genuinely turn me on
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 11:31 AM
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I maintain that IRL women’s standards are much more flexible than what they say, on dating apps especially. Like if a guy they found really cute and was funny and nice approached them, only height queens would say no because he’s not 6’. As long as you’re decently taller then it’s fine for most women. Also a lot of the time from down here, women can’t even tell. For me 5’10 and 6’ may as well be the same until you put them next to each other and I can physically see the difference. I would say h…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 11:21 AM
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Is there a specific type you go for ? Girls with the “baddie” aesthetic likely won’t be interested but “boho” or girls with their natural hair out may be. It’s not an exact science but theres a joke around that you can tell a girl dates white guys based on her hair lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 11:12 AM
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Yeah I agree that more races would be open to dating other races if it was more socially accepted. My second bf was white and despite his family being left on paper, his parents weren’t completely pleased I was black and that’s why we broke up
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 11:06 AM
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I agree. I’ve seen those tinder insights of other women and my match rate wasn’t quite as high. I think I saw like 60% match rate and mine was only around 40% but it was still more than enough so no complaints here. I mostly get black men approaching me in public but in bars it’s a bit more of a mix. At raves way more white men that approach me compared to anywhere else but raves are usually like 80% white so to be expected. On dating apps its more of a mix but the number one thing I get from ot…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 11:05 AM
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Black girls just have a huge ingroup preference. Most of my friends only date black guys. There’s a loud minority online especially reddit that date out but in my experience 8 out of 10 black girls only date black guys. I think it’s kind of changing if I take what I see online as gospel but in my circles, the preference is still there
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 10:53 AM
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That’s a weird mentality. I don’t personally know any East Asian people yet I was still upset when hate crimes against EA people went up during the covid era. You don’t have to be personally acquainted with something to have empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 10:09 AM
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I mean I see a lot of people making distinctions between the American, European, Asian dating markets but say black women when only referring to AA when Afro latinas, AA, Caribbean and African women are quite different from each other 🤷🏾‍♀️ it would just make more sense to be specific
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 11:25 PM
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Yh if I like someone enough I’ll straight up ask if they’re seeing other girls. I’m not giving my heart to someone in the streets
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 11:07 PM
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Why say black when you mean African American then?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 11:00 PM
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Just watched it it was so funny
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 10:51 PM
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Me and my friends were unsure if there was a clear winner but apparently it’s 2. I thought the answers would vary more!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 10:42 PM
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England 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 03:00 PM
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Yep come on lionesses
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 11:35 AM
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I can’t say it’s something that I have an interest in, as in I would ever seek it out myself, but it was still fun. It’s also not something I’m a stranger to, I have a friend who plays rugby and I watch her play sometimes. Being there to support is more important than me liking it. Plus I just like spending time with him, even from afar :)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 11:23 AM
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2 wins
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 09:47 AM
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Seems like 2 is the winner
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 09:47 AM
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How ugly we talking? Only deformed women and maybe not even then should be struggling to date. How does your avoidant dismissive personality prevent you from starting romantic connections? I understand why it might prevent you from forming a long lasting relationship but it shouldn’t be that big of a deal in the early stages. Unless people are approaching you and you literally don’t speak to them
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 09:43 AM
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No I want children
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 09:41 AM
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Lmaooo. I saw a TikTok that was like “what would you do if you were on an island with 100 of the opposite sex” or some other large number and all the men’s comments were super excited and all the women’s comments were like “kill myself” and “kill myself in a way that destroys my body so they can’t desecrate me after death”. Wildly different perspectives.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 09:35 AM
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Nah it’s not even close to Margot robbie’s or Angelina Jolie’s it’s just the cleft chin that’s not the most attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 09:16 AM
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Noted
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 09:15 AM
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100000% but they’ll deny it. status to them isn’t necessarily being a doctor/lawyer/rich like it is to women but famous women absolutely
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 08:56 AM
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She just doesn’t have a great WHR I think you might be the only person who thinks she’s unhealthy & even skinny girls aren’t safe? Baby hairs
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 08:53 AM
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😂 never change man
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 08:50 AM
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I see you’re a fly girl too
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 08:49 AM
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Noted. I’m trying to see if there is a consensus
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 04:24 AM
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Q4A pick one https://www.instagram.com/p/CP6XiBcDrH-/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA== https://www.instagram.com/p/CpXoBQoNQTN/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA== https://www.instagram.com/p/CcBR_vTrXpC/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 04:19 AM
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That is absurd 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 03:56 AM
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Damn I can’t believe all those hours I watched my ex play rugby in the rain when I couldn’t give a flying fuck about rugby was actually me not caring about his hobbies
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 02:23 AM
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Take romance out of it! I L O V E my friends but technically I love them because they’re funny, they care for me, we’ve been friends for years, they hang out with me. If they weren’t any of these things we wouldn’t be friends. They may not provide for me monetarily, but they provide things for me in an abstract way. No love is unconditional, even a parent’s love. If you were just some random guy, would your parents love you like they do? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 02:21 AM
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Yeah lots of women are shy about getting head Hmm maybe there is no true consensus for what is generally accepted then. I view anal as forbidden and I don’t know anybody that’s done it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 01:56 AM
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You’re right that everybody has different definitions but I always feel like people are alluding to more than vanilla sex in these conversations, and wouldn’t The Average Man™️ (in developed countries, in 2023) view oral as vanilla? Like you said it’s really common, and I just have a niggling feeling that’s not what people are talking about when they say “exploring”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 01:36 AM
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I feel like there’s generally accepted sex acts that partners should give a good ol’ college try and then it’s the more niche stuff that people should be able to decline without any exploring. Like not many people will argue that golden showers are something you have to try to know you don’t like it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 01:26 AM
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Idk about you but the idea of something can me make uncomfortable. I am unenthusiastic about washing dishes but the idea of leaving all my dishes to rot for weeks makes me uncomfortable even though i haven’t done that
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 01:03 AM
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I think there’s a huge difference between “not enthusiastic” and “genuinely uncomfortable”. Edit nvm im stupid I misread it as “including” not excluding
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 11:37 PM
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I could only blame myself at that point
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 07:23 PM
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Ime lots of teachers and nurses date working class men
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 05:07 PM
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Well yeah but you said he was a good husband which it doesn’t sound like he was, by his own words
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 04:44 PM
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So easy to have 700 calories in one sitting but not feel full so you eat again later Some foods so more-ish as well. I watched a video and it was talking about how much food companies spend on R&D designing food to have the perfect ratio of salt and fat so people want to keep eating it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 04:01 PM
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F. My ex and I broke up because he moved away. He was the sweetest guy. Handsome too. I would’ve loved to get married to him and have a family but oh well. I would get back with him now if he moved back, we still talk so I think it would work out but I wouldn’t leave a current/future partner for him if I was happy with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 03:53 PM
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An extra cookie here a second helping there boom you’ve gained 5kg in a few months
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 03:45 PM
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If I have to tell a man to brush his teeth then i have massively failed somewhere
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 02:50 PM
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What does he mean “I definitely don’t look the same way as I used to”? He’s only 25. If you look after yourself you should only look better at 25 than 21. I suspect he’s gained relationship weight
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 02:44 PM
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Well yeah, the same way I’m jealous of people who make bank off of being a good singer or an athlete or a business idea they had. Most people are jealous of people making bank in general
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 02:00 PM
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Uhh sis if you want to be a sex worker don’t let us stop you but I don’t think the majority of modern women want that 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 01:06 PM
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I don’t mind it on me but swallowing is a no. It’s like runny lukewarm gravy 🥴🤒😷🤧
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 11:54 AM
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Why would trying a new restaurant or getting a new car cause major upheaval or emotional turmoil in your life? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 11:51 AM
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Did you even read the post you linked? He said he wasn’t a perfect husband himself and made mistakes over 12 years and even nearly cheated???
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 11:31 AM
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30 band size might fit someone better than a 32 band size. Sister sizes aren’t exactly the same. It’s for different fits. Maybe someone likes having a tighter fit whereas someone likes having a looser fit
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 09:44 AM
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I can love someone but still not like the texture and temperature of semen. Have you tried it?? It’s disgusting!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 09:25 AM
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I want a big fancy party icl. But I am generally a big party girl anyway. Once I threw a house party whilst my mum was away and someone let off a firework in the kitchen 🥴 that’s the energy I need for my wedding
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 09:15 AM
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Why wouldn’t my man want me to be economical so I have more money to spend on him? Once I was ordering at the bar and a guy insisted on buying me the drinks even though I said I was out with my bf. He bought us both drinks 🤷🏾‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 09:10 AM
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I find it funny all the fat positive girlies on TikTok go on about how all the fit gym bros wanna date them. What about the plus size brothers sis???
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 09:09 AM
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The number is your band size and the letter is your cup size. If the letter goes up it kiiiind of means the boobies are bigger but it’s relative to the band size because there’s sister sizes. So a 30C is the same as a 32B which is also the same as a 34A. Yeah. None of us completely understand it either. I think the majority of women are picking up a bra and just hoping for the best
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 09:05 AM
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I use some random girl my cousin dated’s Disney account 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 08:57 AM
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Okay you get the Netflix I got the Disney plus bae xx
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 08:56 AM
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I’m happy to take my husband’s last name if it’s nice. If it’s stupid we’ve got a problem. I’m not gonna be Tina Cockwomble or something
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 10:58 PM
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For better or for worse not for sexually available or not. If I’m incapacitated I would tell my husband suck it up buttercup. Yes it would be difficult and sad but that’s a risk you take in marriage. If he wanted to always have a sexual partner he shouldn’t have got married. I would discuss all of this before marriage so he can’t say I blindsided him
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 10:56 PM
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Hmm, you might win this one cos I’m on my mum’s plan 😂 Right? Especially when you hear about the hell you hear other people go through with their dads. Giving my future children a good father is the most important thing to me. Even if our romantic relationship breaks down, as long as he’s there for our children I will be content.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 10:11 PM
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How can your dad be the best dad when mine is the best dad?? We need to have a dad-off
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 09:59 PM
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I think it depends on what specific things you disagree on and how important they are to you. For eg I would be open to someone fiscally conservative or believes in limited government, but I probably wouldn’t date someone socially conservative because that matters more to me. Most people are somewhere in the middle and agree with one side on some issues and the other on other issues. Like you said values matter more, but I find people’s values generally align with their politics anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 07:30 PM
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No problem. Yeah he’s the best dad a girl could ask for
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 07:08 PM
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So you know I’m joking yet you still did this. He calls me his retirement plan, is he shallow? Or do we have a fun father daughter relationship where we can make little jokes? To be clear, I love my dad and I appreciate him wholeheartedly outside of what he does materially for me
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 06:04 PM
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Nothing 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 05:56 PM
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Every now and then but I’m private so idk what they’re basing it off 😂 random follows, often On Reddit, quite a few. Again I don’t get why. What if I’m butters?! Edit: just checked my dms and someone on ppd messaged asking me to help him with his blue balls loool w h y
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 05:49 PM
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What else are dads for
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 05:48 PM
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This just in: women are the only people keeping the mechanic industry alive. Men never hire someone to fix their car apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 05:47 PM
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Mate im clearly dating the wrong guys
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 05:44 PM
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No we’re all chasing the same 20/10/5/1% of men!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 12:14 PM
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I feel like this happens to everyone. As soon as you start to take someone seriously suddenly everybody wants you
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 10:59 AM
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I think you just sort of fall into that situation and sometime’s you’re too goofy to realise that’s what it is. I don’t think most women intend to be a booty call unless they’re specifically looking for a FWB
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 08:20 AM
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Yeah but you can’t in good faith call a handsome man who is broke, cheats and abusive high value just because he’s attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 08:16 AM
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Imo the use of female rose with the whole manosphere stuff. I swear to god NOBODY used to call women females where I am until like 2/3 years ago
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 08:15 AM
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Break up
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 08:14 AM
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Someone that admits men are attracted to status too, thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 08:13 AM
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Omg exact same. We fancied each other from the moment we saw each other but it took 2 years for him to say something. In retrospect it was completely obvious we liked each other, we were just in denial 😂 everyone else at work knew before we did
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 08:05 AM
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He was literally a normal dude in normal clothing when he was scouted on the street walking around by a producer for euphoria!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 08:03 AM
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What does Reddit have against duck lips
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 12:24 AM
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I suppose a 6/7 for an older man. personally a 4
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 10:04 PM
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I gave up at 21kg. Fuck leg curls
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 08:57 PM
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You don’t hear this perspective much! People are more likely to complain than they are to gush about how good something is. If that’s how you feel then that is great and I’m glad your libido works for you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 08:38 PM
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You can have mental fortitude and still tell people it’s unacceptable to insult someone. Where do the children bullying other children learn it from? Their parents and other adults who go around bullying others unchecked. Well good for you. It does not make me feel great when strangers call me the n word and I’m not ashamed of saying that. I can be annoyed about that and still handle the more important stuff in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 06:45 PM
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People who look similar to America ferreira would have seen what people were saying about her and extrapolated that that’s what people think about their body too. I’m glad you’re impervious to people calling you a fat frumpy bitch but not everyone has your mental fortitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 06:19 PM
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I mean America Ferreira was ruthlessly criticised for her weight in the noughties. I feel like if anyone can say society pressured her to be thin, it’s her. There’s a difference between the general pressure by society to be thin and you specifically being called fat on magazine covers and talk shows. I agree with your general point that people need to stop crying about what society tells them to do but it’s hard. It was easy for you, which is great, but not everyone is you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 05:55 PM
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Would that make us want to sleep with more people? It would probably make us even pickier
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 01:27 PM
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Men imply their own libidos are bad. Some of the things they say: they think about sex all day, everything they do is to increase the chance of getting sex, they get depressed when they don’t have sex for a long time. A guy on here told me the other day that if someone gave him a 50/50 chance of having sex or getting shot then he would take it. Idk that’s ridiculous to me. From where I’m standing I think a lot of guys would be chiller if they had a woman’s libido. I don’t mean to say men having …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 01:25 PM
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Everybody would be more mellow if they had women’s libido. I think the craziness would be even worse if women were as turnt up as men 🤷🏾‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 01:05 PM
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Sure buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 11:55 AM
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Omg different women wanting different things? It can’t be
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 11:54 AM
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All our problems would be solved if men were less horny
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 11:52 AM
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Gosh I hate to be that person with the anecdotes but my flatmate is 5’1? I’m not sure but I’m taller than him and I’m 5’2. And he’s dating our other flatmate - she is 4’10. Two of their friends are pretty short like 5’5/5’6 and they both have girlfriends. All quite pretty girls too. The caveat is that they’re all handsome. 6/7s in the face, well built, just short.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 09:21 AM
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How many people are you shopping for??? I spend £40 at Aldi every other week
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 09:18 AM
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100% agree. The difference between a 9 or 10 is personal preference. Margot robbie would be a 9 to someone who prefers dark features whereas Megan fox is a 9 to someone who prefers blondes. There’s no real difference between 8/9/10
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 09:16 AM
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You’re really not ugly as fuck. I’ve seen far worse looking people than you in relationships. My manager at my first job was super nerdy, morbidly obese, ugly glasses but he was engaged to a somewhat attractive woman (I don’t think she was all that but she was thin). Honestly he probably would’ve been a stereotypical neckbeard if he didn’t meet her in school. Really lovely guy tho
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 09:09 AM
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I don’t think greenpill is a good name for this. Sounds too environmental
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 08:49 AM
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I’m not American but you don’t know the third world if you think men there aren’t just as willing to date someone from a developed country as the women are
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 08:47 AM
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Younger guys aren’t particularly interested in marriage so she has to look a little older
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 06:36 AM
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Noo I don’t consider someone to be automatically above average just because they’re a normal weight. You can be below average at a normal weight. There are people who are fat but more attractive than an ugly slim person. I think the rating scale loses its meaning if the average shifts based on the population. Like if 70% of people are overweight then most of them are below average, idc if it doesn’t make mathematical sense - it’s easier for everyone to discuss this way! If someone says “the aver…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 11:09 PM
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I agree with her tbh. I don’t even consider 23 and 31 a big age gap, that’s the same as me and my sister and we’re best buds so I would consider someone around that age. Would prefer mid-late 20s though
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 10:58 PM
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you see a cute guy at the mall and you think about talking to him Same as I do now, I would see a cute guy at the mall and move on with my day cos I would never approach a man like that anyway. Don’t I have places to be?! what if you have a hobby you really like but there are no men around when you practice it and when you talk about it to men they feel bored Same as I do now. I don’t think guys are particularly interested in sewing/tailoring, pilates or hair and makeup. I just talk about those …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 08:05 PM
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Right?? Your cleaning skills are only going to lock down a guy who needs a maid.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 06:05 PM
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I think online dating has changed the landscape. You’re interacting with people who may want casual or a short term relationship or a long term relationship, so you need to filter. Doing all the wifey stuff for a guy who doesn’t want a relationship is just a waste of time. You can’t change somebody’s mind. I’m sure if I made a post saying “this guy told me he didn’t want a relationship so I cooked for him cleaned for him baked him cookies but he still didn’t want to commit to me”, you’d all call…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 11:28 AM
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I think someone who balks at “I’m looking for a serious relationship” is probably not similarly intentioned. Expressing that doesn’t mean you have to force it or get married immediately so I don’t see how it’s awkward
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 11:00 AM
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Because there are just more average guys or..? I personally have never found a link between attractiveness and personality. I’ve met beautiful girls/guys that were lovely people as well as beautiful people that were horrible. I’ve met unattractive people that were lovely and vice versa. Anybody who says otherwise is coping. Being average does not automatically make one nice
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 09:29 AM
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Why is the assumption that average guys are automatically nicer people. Just look around this place to see how nasty average guys can be
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 08:45 AM
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I’d rather date guys who are similarly intentional. If it scares off the guys who want to go with the flow, it’s working
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 08:42 AM
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Can we see that study
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 08:40 AM
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Bad dressers
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 08:36 AM
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it goes to show that women basically want men to accept not getting sex casually Well yeah. If you’re not someone that women want to fuck casually then women don’t want you to lie about it to get it. Is that difficult to understand? I’m sorry you’re not chad but that’s no one else’s problem. You won’t die without casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 08:29 AM
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I was with you until cleaning his place for him whilst he’s at work😭🤚🏾 that is NOT early dating behaviour. Cook a meal or bake for him every now and then, yes but don’t be his maid when you don’t even live with him wth
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 08:26 AM
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As long as we agree it is not unconditional
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 01:14 AM
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Im just saying that it’s not unconditional
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 12:59 AM
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Do men give women rings with no conditions? He wouldn’t be expecting sex at the very least from her? Cleaning, cooking, raising his children? Nothing at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 12:39 AM
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they looked like models, big tits, young, submissive all women are shallow to the bone
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 12:36 AM
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I can’t date a criminal, let alone when that crime is a sex offence
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 12:34 AM
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“If you’re not a virgin sleep with him on the first date!!” “But also don’t be a hoe”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 12:30 AM
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No he’ll just have to suck it up. Wouldnt ruin our finances so he can be tall
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 12:22 AM
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Men in rings >>>>
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 11:12 PM
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Men have awful daddy issues and it’s never spoken about. Emotionally repressed and angry mfs
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 11:08 PM
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Your content has changed a lot. What does ppd do for you in your religious era? Are you tryna be like Jesus preaching at the gambling temple or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 11:06 PM
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Classic. Or the “Omg I love your rings can I see” line
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 10:48 PM
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20+ is a no from me. He can’t pair bond smh
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 10:18 PM
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But guys perceive it as cockblocking, but we know our friend doesn’t want to talk to you
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 06:26 PM
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And you witnessed all this from behind the bar? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 03:54 PM
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Make a dating app with this premise please, I’d love to see how many women sign up
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 09:01 AM
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I feel like Americans are so obsessed with the idea of having a bf or gf in high school??? UK it was completely normal not to have a bf or gf. It wasn’t a big deal if you did or didn’t have one. But Americans go on like your dating life is doomed if you never dated someone between the ages of 11-16
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 08:48 AM
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He was baiting that by making her feel weird about not cumming from penetration with him. He should have just accepted it and kept enjoying the sex they do have. Play stupid games win stupid prizes
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 08:41 AM
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6’6 is when they start to look freakishly long to me. 5’10+ is what I mean when I say tall. 5’10-6’4 is the sweet spot
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 07:40 AM
2

What’s peoples opinions on why she doesn’t have a boyfriend/husband
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 10:43 PM
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What does red pill have to say about the wife of that guy that was cheated on? High school sweethearts, stayed with him whilst he built himself up, just to get cheated on only a year after having his baby. Any rp insights on that?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 10:06 PM
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Because she likes wearing dresses
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 09:29 PM
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I get what you mean but at the same time it’s not “appropriate” for her to sit certain ways in public especially (a lot of the poses she does include legs open, in dresses). Obviously at home or in trousers she can sit however she wants but if you don’t teach her at home she’ll do it in public. I mean I let her make her jokes but I personally don’t like toilet humour nor does her mum so sometimes it’s just a visceral reaction of eww
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 09:18 PM
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All my relationships started with waiting for sex. Different strokes for different folks
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 08:00 PM
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The tension >>> 😍
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 07:59 PM
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You should sleep with every man that wants you straight away but also your body count should be low
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 07:58 PM
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Yeah my niece is 5 and going through this. She likes to sit in strange positions and her parents tell her to sit like a lady. She’s started making a lot of toilet humour jokes and that’s getting stamped out too
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 07:52 PM
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Idk if I agree. You can be good friends without agreeing on major compatibilities such as religion or kids. You can be good friends with someone who annoys you sometimes but that’s okay cos you’re only friends and see each other sometimes, whereas you talk/see each other more in a relationship. You can be good friends with someone who would be an awful partner. I have 2 male friends and they’re fun. One is Muslim and I’m not so we wouldn’t date. The other is a fuckboy and I wouldn’t want him as …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 05:38 PM
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Wanting to bang =! catching feelings. Just because you’re friends with someone doesn’t mean you would be romantically compatible and a lot of guys know this, but would still bang if the opportunity came up as a once off.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 05:02 PM
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I’ve seen some gremlins pull on the strip 🤷🏾‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 11:35 AM
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I completely agree with 2 but I don’t think that’s their fault. The government and media stir up controversy because it strokes up the culture war and gets clicks. Less than 1% of people are trans. 95% of people do not care about trans people, some people have never even met a trans person because they congregate in major cities with large lgbt populations, not villages. Yet there’s a story about them every day. They’re not writing them. Everyone would be happier if we just stopped hearing about…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 09:43 AM
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Are you a troll? There’s actually no way you think you’re lacking. There’s a high chance you’re the biggest d your lovers have encountered. You sound like a 6’3 man complaining that he’s too short
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 08:16 AM
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What the hell are you on about 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 08:04 AM
1

I’ll take that L 🤷🏾‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 06:40 AM
1

Im one of those women. It’s about having fun you don’t need to be good!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 05:20 AM
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1 but inside is best ofc. I’m not swallowing
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 05:17 AM
2

I believe in you big dawg
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 03:57 AM
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Whoever I’m with is the best I’ve ever been with because the love and care for each other is what makes sex amazing, not the actual act itself
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 03:57 AM
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You get a table and invite girls onto your table. If you have no game, girls at clubs love free drinks at least and work from there but you do need game I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 03:34 AM
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people being frigid in Ibiza is crazy 😂 I do think being rich and having a section is key there. But more modest holidays like ayia napa Croatia Crete Kavos malia should be easier. They literally call magaluf shagaluf
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 03:22 AM
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Party holidays usually consist of tourists, not natives. Idk about Western European women being more picky than Americans, I’ve heard the opposite. I haven’t been to the states but the European dating market seems more chill when I’ve visited
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 03:12 AM
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Aren’t you saying the ugliest man in the world could bag me? I thought that was funny
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 02:51 AM
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Yeah that too but I thought it was about being desired or something
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 02:35 AM
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Lol!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 02:35 AM
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Men who struggle with dating should go on a party holiday in Europe. Even the ugliest man on earth could pull there
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 02:11 AM
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I would agree Are lurkers counted in demographic surveys?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 01:54 AM
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In my non scientifically backed up opinion men are more likely to say shit they don’t want their face attached to. But I agree with you that non-egalitarian women are more likely to use twitter or TikTok. I see a lot of women say stuff there that would be downvoted on Reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 01:33 AM
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Do you like… quiz all your dates about their past partners or something? I don’t ask guys about any of their exes and they don’t ask about mine
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 08:52 AM
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My school didn’t have a popular vs unpopular thing and I’m convinced to this day it’s only a thing on American tv shows. The attractive people at my school tended to be lower class whereas all the nerdy people were more middle class so those two groups bullied the fuck out of each other. Like if someone tried getting onto a nerd for being studious they would clap back calling them chavs or tramps lmaooo. I had a big friendship group but it wasn’t my peak
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 08:42 AM
1

Foreign language classes are usually pretty equal if not more women if you’re interested in learning another language
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 08:36 AM
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Honestly end of life care is so grim. Best you can do is stay as fit as possible. There’s a man at my Pilates class and he’s 92!!! I thought he was 70 odd
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 11:16 PM
1

I like the broccoli hair :(
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 10:44 PM
1

I spend £40 on my big shop every 2/3 weeks then around £10 on bits during the week so £3.50 a day
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 10:42 PM
3

I foresee a nursing home in your future
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 10:33 PM
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The disrespect that people show nurses and carers online is disgusting. You’ll get old and frail and a nurse or carer will be there to wipe your arse or feed you when you’ve lost all your dignity. A carer might be the only person there to hold your hand when you’re dying, seeing as most of them take care of people whose family dumped them when they were too hard to care for. It may not be the most exciting or lucrative job but society wouldn’t function without it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 10:23 PM
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F. I go crazy for a good beard. Not a scraggly, wiry neck beard (yuck) but a short, well shaped beard 😍😍 I’m also a fan of pornstaches but that’s a really unpopular opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 10:08 PM
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Do you mean women who body build or women lifting heavy to get the idea feminine shape of big thighs and shapely bum?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 04:45 PM
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Well, you learn something every day. I think those qualities are childlike or juvenile, not feminine. Im a feminine women as I dress femininely and get my nails done but I disagree with the others. Weight lifting is absolutely necessary for women as 1 in 10 women suffer from osteoporosis caused by menopause. If a woman wants to be mobile in her old age, she better lift weights. I don’t think being immobile is very feminine. But you’re allowed to want what you like in people. Hope you find your f…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 04:14 PM
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You lost us at cute plushies and scared of spiders
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 04:06 PM
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Ethnic groups
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 02:17 PM
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Damn bruh all I meant is my mind is preoccupied with things that actually matter to me, not random men off the street. You assigned a whole lot of meaning I didn’t intend, do you often do that? When I’m looking for a man, then I will focus on men in the area.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 01:37 PM
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Ahh okay, a fair
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 01:21 PM
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The male Example 3 is okay but none of them are particularly attractive to me
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 11:40 AM
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Im thinking about if I took the meat out the freezer this morning I don’t have time to evaluate Chris over there’s looks!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 10:48 AM
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Maita basa bro
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 10:13 AM
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what is a carnival to you? Because a bikini to carnival is par for the course where I’m from
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 09:55 AM
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I’ll be so real a lot of women do dress for attention and THATS OKAY. Idk why the typical line is “im dressing for myself”. Obviously there’s a difference between functional dressing like wearing shorts on a hot day. But i definitely get dressed thinking yh my tits look great in this and so do lots of other women
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 09:50 AM
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Is that a bad thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 09:42 AM
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This is obvious to anyone who touches grass
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 08:07 AM
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I don’t think most men are doing that either but some guys on here are insisting they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 07:53 AM
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But that’s what makes it a situationship? Usually both parties AREN’T okay with it; One person wants more but the other doesn’t. Otherwise they would just be in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 07:52 AM
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They don’t want to define it so they can mess around with others and say “why are you mad you’re not my girl anyway”!!😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 07:09 AM
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people are in situationships for like 6+ months and seeing others the whole time that’s a bit much
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 07:07 AM
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Yep. If you don’t say innit at least 10 times a day they take away your citizenship
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 09:17 PM
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I would’ve let him stay at Chelsea :(
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 09:09 PM
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Money and fame aside, he’s cute. Lightskin + green eyes halo, nice beard, good body. What’s not to like? I’d still fancy him if he was regular guy. I don’t follow basketball but I often see him loving on his wife. That’s a good quality
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 09:08 PM
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I was born in the uk but my parents are from gweru and kwekwe so Shona :)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 08:56 PM
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I don’t know the ins and outs of what she’s done but her instagram looks pretty decent? Is “showing yourself on instagram” defined as the occasional beach pic now? This sounds crazy but he probably loves her more than he wants a hotter woman. Also I believe all celebrity relationships are open by default, what changes is how much you hear about it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 08:44 PM
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Yes there is no difference between 19 and 30 year olds
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 08:38 PM
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Are you Shona or Ndebele?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 08:34 PM
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Kids need siblings or at least very close cousins
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 08:27 PM
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Long hair is my niche. If a guy has long hair I automatically notice him and appreciate him being a little different. Good sense of style catches my attention too. Whether it’s a tailored suit or something trendy or maybe something in a “feminine” colour like a pastel pink shirt, I’m looking And if he’s tall ofc, but that doesn’t make him automatically attractive. It’s just hard not to notice a beanstalk
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 08:07 PM
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That sub is soooo bogus if a woman posted with a wonky eye and yellow gap teeth they’d be pummelling her😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 08:03 PM
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girl they won’t listen to us. I don’t particularly find any of my friend’s boyfriends that attractive but they’re crazy over them. One friend’s type is medium ugly but mine is firmly pretty boy!! Give me those doe eyes and full lips 😍 if he looks like a girl I want him
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 07:57 PM
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Oh yeah deffo
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 07:36 PM
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You could make a line up of everyone I passed today and I wouldn’t recognise A single one of them
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 06:46 PM
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Nah I do find strangers attractive but not many of them. I found all my exes attractive from the moment I saw them
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 06:45 PM
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Nope! I don’t take notice of most women either. I do take notice of more women than men because of their outfits or hair or make up. Most people are poorly presented/dressed and fade into background for me
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 06:32 PM
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Wow I never see other zimbos on Reddit hesi
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:58 PM
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UK and I find the dating scene to be awful. People just want to “talk” for months on end. I think that’s more about age than location, situationships seem to be a gen z thing
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:57 PM
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That makes me want to wear a burka honestly. Some days I don’t want to be perceived let alone have people play smash or pass featuring me
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 04:22 PM
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For me, yeah. Like I don’t think most men are ugly or offensive to look at or anything but I just don’t take notice of them. I was shocked to discover men take notice of most women and yes/no them in their head. I thought we were all walking round minding our own business 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 04:09 PM
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I’ve seen that very thing happen
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 02:33 PM
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Yeah I feel like people are conveniently skipping over the casual part
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 10:04 AM
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True nobody in a poor country had ever had a girlfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 09:30 AM
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You’re actually delusional if you think only chads cheat and lie. Broke, ugly men cheat every damn day.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 09:05 AM
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I’m not delusional I would realise he’s dipping below his league and trying to make me a plate
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 08:57 AM
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I think there is some cheating and hookups/fwbs/situationships but most people are still only between 3-8 bodies. The sluttiest girl I know was on 30+ last I heard and ime she’s an extreme outlier and is way higher than any of the other girls I know
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 08:38 AM
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Meh. My dad is the oldest of 6 and my mum has 6 brothers. I couldn’t even recall all my cousins’ names. A successful family to me is one that’s always there for each other, not one which is large for the sake of being large. Smaller families are more likely to stick together because you’re all you have. Large families usually have huge gaps between the oldest and the youngest and it easier to grown apart.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 01:49 AM
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I’ve had people compliment me to the guy I’m on a date with. Huge ego boost ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 08:14 PM
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i said the same thing. Apparently every woman on Reddit loves a short king but that’s not representative of people’s experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 07:38 PM
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If Lisa Bonet is mid I am desperate to see the girls you can pull
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 07:23 PM
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I believe that md affects sodium levels in your body but cos people are usually drinking alcohol and hot and sweaty when taking md they drink more water throwing off the sodium balance off even more. Water intoxication kills! Stick to 1 glass of water an hour and stay safe g
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 05:25 PM
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Not too much water tho
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 05:01 PM
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No I’m brit and men here pay too. It just depends on how people are raised or what circles they hang out in
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 11:13 AM
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Well that can happen regardless of if your parents are still together or not. I was pointing out that OP seems to be idolising long term marriages, but also thinks that the behaviour that leads to divorce is being more successful than the behaviour that leads to long term marriages. Which one is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 09:41 AM
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How is having a high body count an indicator of success in dating? The stats say that people with higher body counts are more likely to divorce, both men and women. The guys with 0-2 are more likely to end up in a long term marriage than the promiscuous guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 09:06 AM
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I dunno I quite like men, when they’re good they’re great. Maybe I would toggle to experience a woman in bed but I don’t think I could legitimately marry one, my community is quite homophobic. So probably just stay straight
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 08:26 AM
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OP addressed that with a source, which had multiple sources within it. Ah, yes, the rigorous methodology of checks notes watching TikTok videos. No one is denying that some men and women have hella sex. Just not the majority. Also, are those TikTok videos not self reported? Why do you trust those self reported stories but not others hm?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 02:05 AM
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I think purple pill is a good stance. Dating is hard and not as easy as the platitudes blue pill speaks but it’s also not as brutal as red/black pill seem to think
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 01:04 AM
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Yeah I don’t expect to know the ins and outs of men’s sex lives. I only know what’s happening in my partners’ and my girlfriends’ relationships and extrapolate from there
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 01:03 AM
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Lmaooo I happen to like the broccoli cut actually 🫣 That’s true but I think that’s even truer for older men. For every one stylish 40 year old man there’s two dozens who wear the standard dad fit - polo and cargos. Even if you dislike certain trends I feel like young men are more likely to dress intentionally, whereas older men wear whatever they have.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 01:02 AM
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Not really, no. But I accept that other people do and that’s fine. We all have different perspectives. I don’t view it as a “monetary incentive” and I don’t think that has any bearing on a connection. My life long friends and I cover each other’s meals/drinks - does that mean our connection isn’t special to us? You can think of someone as an equal human being and have an impressive connection with them and buy them something. That’s a very convoluted thought. It’s much simpler than that: “I real…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 11:49 PM
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She brought the numbers 👏👏 great post. Cannot wait to see how they move the goalposts.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 11:33 PM
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Interesting. Perhaps because my only close male friends are my brother and my cousins so we don’t talk about the ins and outs of their sex lives but my brother has a girlfriend and my cousin is hoeing it up out there. I have a couple of male friends who one is in a relationship but no sex before marriage (Muslim) and the other is again a hoe. I’d say they’re regularly attractive but none of them are the stereotypical chad described on here. None of them are 6ft, most have regular jobs/student so…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 10:55 PM
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I get second hand embarrassment too when black girls cry about WhY aRe We LeSs DeSirAbLe. If someone doesn’t like you keep it moving, there’s plenty that do. You’re scaring away the hoes sis
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 10:07 PM
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She is trolling so hard. If she really lived her raps she would be married. I respect the grift
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 09:41 PM
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I wouldn’t say that a man who can afford prostitutes without affecting his other responsibilities is financially irresponsible, he just has different priorities. If a man couldnt afford prozzies and fucks up his budget for them, then I would say he is less financially responsible. So would you say you enjoy it less now than you did then? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 09:32 PM
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Im a feminist and I do not think that
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 09:17 PM
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Uhhh. Is that a rational metric? Would YOU get yourself killed for sex? If not, then you don’t like sex that much either. Seeing as the bar is “willing to die for it” 😂 Does anybody like anything if they’re not willing to die for it? Maybe I just have more self preservation than men
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 09:04 PM
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I would eat more doughnuts if doughnuts not calling me back the next day didn’t make me upset, if people didn’t call me a slut or say I wasn’t marriage material for eating too many doughnuts, if eating doughnuts didn’t hurt sometimes and if eating too many random doughnuts didn’t give me UTIs. I love doughnuts but the consequences of eating too many or the wrong doughnuts are too great to not just have a special treat every now and then. Men can eat as many doughnuts as they want with half the r…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 07:59 PM
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But WHY is that the metric?? That’s what the OP was saying too. Because men would have sex with more women with less stipulations, women don’t enjoy sex. If someone eats 10 doughnuts but I only eat 1 does that mean I don’t enjoy doughnuts. How much someone else enjoys something doesn’t affect how much I enjoy it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 07:42 PM
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Would he like it? You know him best. Have you actually discussed a timeline or has it been vague in the future talk? When my BIL proposed to my sister they’d been seriously discussing marriage a while and she knew a proposal was coming soon, just not exactly when. I don’t think proposals and marriage have to be romantic like the movies, it’s serious business. Also, what’s your embarrassment level? If he says no, will you be okay? I don’t think a relationship has to end because of a rejected prop…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 07:16 PM
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What? You are the one that brought up sleeping with somebody lol. Are you trying to tell me you werent trying to draw similarities between the two? If not then how is your point relevant? I never said it was fine, I’m just saying paying for something is different to sleeping with somebody. If you find it unacceptable that she put out for Chris evans but is making you wait then you’re well within your rights to not see her again. I can see why that would upset you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 06:11 PM
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I get your point but paying for a date is a little different to having sex, don’t you think? I pay for my friends’ meals all the time lol, it’s not a big ask. You realllly can’t see a difference between paying £7 for someone’s cocktail vs having sex with them? Realllllly? But if that’s your strategy, there’s no complaints from me. Everybody should do what works for them best.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 05:21 PM
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Maybe!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 05:19 PM
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They shouldn’t be expected to pay. But it’s nice and indicative if they do. We’ve all grown up with these gender roles and many still see it as a way to impress a woman. In my opinion, if a man doesn’t want to pay for your meal or drink then he just doesn’t like you that much. Thought experiment: If he had the opportunity to take Scarlett Johansson/Megan Fox/[insert celebrity crush here], would he ask her to split? Hell no. So if he asks me to split then clearly I don’t inspire that passion in h…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 04:48 PM
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Idk bro I’m gen z and i think boys my age are more stylish and on point with their appearance than older generations. A 24 year old guy is more likely to have a skincare routine than a 31 year old imo and break the stereotype that guys don’t care about their looks. Some of them are prettier than me. Older generations are more likely to think that putting effort into your appearance is gay or feminine
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 03:04 PM
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To me the average person showers every day to at least every other day. Anything less is below average. I would say having a skincare routine beyond moisturiser is being above average (for men)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 12:11 PM
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I don’t think the average man IS half of these things. You’re describing a below average man. Or at least I hope so. It’s better for my mental health if I believe that the average man has good hygiene.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 11:39 AM
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