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Just let the men have this one. I don’t understand why women fight to be as horny as men, it’s not like not being horny is a bad thing
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 01:04 PM
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I think a lot of women do do that actually but it doesn’t work. They date a guy above or even at their league and put up with loads to keep him but it still doesn’t work out because a pretty face doesn’t mean much when you’re exhausted from childrearing and working and he’s doing the bare minimum
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 07:58 AM
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There is no way you’re in these comments complaining about women judging non college educated men, yet here you are judging non colleges educated women 😭😭 can’t make this up
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 07:43 AM
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Right. But how will women stopping complaining solve any problems for the unsuccessful guys? Women will allegedly still be dating chads, they still won’t be getting none. You really believe they’ll stop having any problems with that because women have shut up?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 07:27 AM
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Bc of your eye area I think you should wear glasses. Thick frames will make the space appear smaller
/r/AllPillDebate18/10/23 02:28 AM
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I can’t believe a real human actually wrote that sentence 😂😂
/r/AllPillDebate18/10/23 02:23 AM
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Do you genuinely believe if all women suddenly shut up about their dating woes, the unsuccessful guys would stop complaining? I totally agree people need to deal with the consequences of their actions, but I don’t believe at all it’s the driving force behind any of this stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 01:20 AM
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A platonic male friend that loves me. Female friends that hate you can be so deranged. Stealing things, sabotaging your relationships, destroying your reputation - no thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 11:38 PM
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Rt rt. if you’re not in the best physical condition you can be (within reason obvs, no steroids or EDs) you’re not allowed to complain
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 11:34 PM
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Sometimes I check the profiles of weird comments on a popular post and it’s a grown man with a family. I’d curl up and die if that was my husband
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 10:57 PM
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you couldn’t waterboard that information out of me!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 10:39 PM
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One of them has taken off his suit and he’s fit as fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 10:01 PM
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I can fix him
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 09:50 PM
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Literally have no idea what these guys look like but the way they’re just walking around so assuredly and the uniforms 😍
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 09:50 PM
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Omg a van exploded on my street. Firefighters are so hot
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 09:46 PM
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I think a large part of why my last relationship ended was he wanted to have sex with other people. We still speak occasionally and he mentioned once how he intends to ‘play the field’. He’s nearly 30, unemployed, lives with his parents, is average looking at best, and doesn’t leave the house. Not to mention he broke up with me because he was ‘bored’. Like honey, the only thing you’re playing is yourself. Sorry but I find it absolutely hilarious when women try and dunk on their ex but don’t real…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 08:36 PM
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My preference, there’s a decent amount of women who agree with me and decent amount who don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 08:25 PM
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In before mr possum replies with a hefty lady
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 08:21 PM
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Sex work is an ick
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 08:17 PM
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He’s iiight, not really my type but I can see his appeal to like artsy girls or something. Strong 6.5 generally, 8 to his niche, 5 to people not into his vibe
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 08:12 PM
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Starter over dessert always
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 07:58 PM
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My man can’t have close female friends sorry. Sure he can and should be friendly with women but respectable boundaries please. Talking to each other every day, telling each other everything is too much for me
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 07:54 PM
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Work in customer service. Preferably a bar/restaurant because customers are happier. You become really good at conversation working as a waiter
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 07:51 PM
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So rude of us
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 07:46 PM
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Is there really much difference between a 5 and a 5.5? Most people are not exactly 5s. Mid is a range imo, 4-6
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 06:56 PM
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Depends. Normally just one in the morning but if I’m dieting I’ll have 3 or 4 as an appetite suppressant
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 03:51 PM
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Meh. Your pictures would have to be really good for me to match with this
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 03:50 PM
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I don’t think Michael cera is average. Having a recessed chin is not average (is it?). The rest of his face is average, but the chin is a big negative. Better to have oddly spaced eyes or a bad nose than a bad chin as a man
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 03:28 PM
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I think there’s too much subjectivity in the mid range for attraction to be objective. Sure most people will agree on the most attractive and unattractive people. But where it gets sticky is a 5.5 to one person can be an 8 to another, or a 7 can be a 5 to someone else. Say some of your friend’s type is blondes with blue eyes and others prefer dark features. There could be a blonde girl who is somewhere between 5-6. Everyone could agree they’re at least okay looking, but you have half the group a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 03:06 PM
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Sorry. I’ll let everyone at the annual Mid Convention know we need to do better.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 02:37 PM
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I feel like it’s different these days because most people (that I hang out with at least) aren’t competing for the same men in their social circle because friendships and dating are more fragmented. So you’re not really competing with the other girl who likes that guy in your social circle, you’re competing with an unknown girl who he met somewhere else/on instagram/another dating app match. So there’s not much going on because you literally don’t know who she is. All you can do is put your best…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 01:10 PM
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Had a local professional athlete come into my sixth form to talk about his porn addiction. At the time I thought it was so random and weird. Now I understand. He blew up his marriage for it. Had to take a long time off work which derailed his career.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 11:52 AM
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It’s so ubiquitous. I read so much stuff on Reddit about wanting to try stuff, explore kinks etc and it annoyingly makes me anxious. I would hate to get married and he eventually wants to try more and more acts he’s seen in porn. What’s wrong with the regular stuff? If that makes me a prude so be it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 11:48 AM
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So many people have older half siblings or their parents/grandparents got married immediately after meeting each other but can’t put the dots together
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 11:27 AM
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I’m from a traditional country so casual sex is veryyy stigmatised and my sister has a different mum because my dad had a hookup when he was 19 before he dated the proper way and married my mum at 25 and she was 20. Casual sex isn’t new
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 11:22 AM
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stepfathers are more feminine and agreeable. Hence why they’re stepdads. Women don’t want them until they need them. This ignores the large amount of stepfathers that already have children of their own. A woman already wanted him before he dated a single mother. The vast majority of people are cohabitating or married when they have their first child. I don’t understand why the manosphere acts like the only pairing is single mother-childless man, when most blended families are single mother-singl…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 10:36 AM
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usually better looking, normally taller, more confident, physically fit, imposing, in better shape with the body I think looks matter as much as the next person but none of this is actually important in a partner, except maybe being physically fit because of health and lifestyle. When you’re in the trenches of life and need support no one gives a flying monkeys how tall their partner is. Someone being good looking doesn’t automatically make them a better partner, nor does it make them a worse on…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 10:30 AM
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Why do you reckon men can have it all but women can’t?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 10:25 AM
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He cheats on her so can’t even say he’s treating her well
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 09:12 AM
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Trp has a point sometimes. Some women make terrible dating choices. Why would you have a baby with that loser
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 09:11 AM
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Fake as hell Side note: do people really offer to pay for people’s dry cleaning in the states after spilling something?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 08:53 AM
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Prefer middle but sometimes the outfit calls for a side
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 08:32 AM
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when I was younger we had a gameboy, psp, Nintendo and wii, it was so much fun. Never distracted me but this was primary school age. I wasn’t rlly interested in consoles after like 11 except the odd game with the family on the wii I think restricting screen time works for not wasting time. My brother wasn’t allowed to keep his Xbox in his room so his screen time was naturally limited by having to share the tv with everybody
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 08:21 AM
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Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 11:16 PM
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I thought that was wack too. It’s socially expected but it also is nice. I’ve also never personally experienced a guy acting like I owe him sexually for it. At most the next date is on me Some people just have to bring their negative vibes everywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 11:16 PM
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Croatia? I’m excited to visit!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 11:01 PM
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Portugal is like a diet Brazil and it’s so lit. I need to experience the uncut version I hope it all works out! Planning it seems like a logistical nightmare though like how can it cover the entire continent? I don’t get how we’re supposed to follow our teams. We’ve just started saving with no plan in place
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 10:35 PM
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How so? I find mine on instagram /recommendations
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 10:25 PM
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I agree that the reaction would be different if genders were switched but I also think masturbation is a private thing especially if he was watching porn. Couldn’t he wait until she left the room Jheez have some decorum
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 09:55 PM
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Unemployed grad aha x
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 09:29 PM
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This is crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 09:24 PM
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I want to rave in Brazil https://spotify.link/feitOvlaXDb but not enough money. Croatia and Barcelona next year and World Cup 2026. How do people afford this 🤬
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 09:18 PM
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Not worth it. A 2/10 is deformed no? I think most people are at least a 3
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 07:47 PM
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Where is that MMA guy when you need him
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 07:36 PM
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Controversial but I don’t think a man smashing if he had the chance doesn’t mean he’s not a friend. If he’s not actively trying to smash, that’s fine. I don’t necessarily think all men that are attracted to their friend are patiently waiting for a chance to get with her. Maybe he’s got a girlfriend he loves, maybe they are incompatible relationship wise, there’s all sorts of reasons why he’s not “waiting for a chance”. I think it’s normal to have a friend that you think is pretty but not want an…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 07:30 PM
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How far down lookswise do I gotta shoot for a guy who will do absolutely everything for me for nothing in return?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 07:20 PM
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I think so. I think attractive women are a dime a dozen, whereas an attractive man is more rare so it’s valued more. Make up can make an average woman appear above average but even naturally beautiful woman are more plentiful (if you go to the right places). I think there are more beautiful women than beautiful men, but the most attractive man is more attractive than the most attractive woman. Take David and Victoria beckham for example. She is pretty, but he is more attractive than her. On pure…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 07:13 PM
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and that’s okay. Not many of us are all that special
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 05:02 PM
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I have a few photos of old bfs
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 04:54 PM
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Dainty ankle tattoos are so hot
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 04:47 PM
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More 5’11 guys for me 💃 Although I feel irl it doesn’t matter as much bc like you say you can barely tell the difference between 5’11 and 6ft. There’s just as much competition for those guys as 6ft
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 04:41 PM
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I think OP has worded it wrong, I don’t believe he’s talking about sex drive at all. Just that sexual attraction (ie finding that person attractive) is near the bottom of his list. He prioritises other things for a romantic relationship, because without other traits it’s just a hook up. I think this is fair?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 04:33 PM
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But even that doesn’t feel like enough sometimes 😭 like can we fuse together into one being please
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 12:41 PM
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I wanna live inside him
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 12:20 PM
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How do you know guys you observe on the street are chronically single? Do you ask them?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 11:37 AM
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Idk in my case I will 100% be taking 11 months off for maternity leave and at that salary I would do 1-1.5 years. I’d be fine if he took the next year or so off, then I would want my 3 year old to be in nursery so he better get back to work after that. I wouldn’t be happy with him being a SAHD when we have school aged children
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 11:31 AM
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Live and let live I say
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 02:19 AM
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No need to feel sorry for us. Not as high as other groups sure but do I need 100 matches instead of 50? No
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 11:28 PM
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If a man demanded money for holding a door open I would laugh and continue laughing all the way to my destination. Did I even ask for him to hold the door open? 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 11:14 PM
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I do regard myself as progressive and think this also. My preferences are not for everyone and i would never want them to be. If others want a house husband I’m happy for them. Not happening in my house tho
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 11:08 PM
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Ain’t no way I’m coming home from work to a man whose been in the house all day baking and cleaning. That’s not masculine to me. But I admit I’m more traditional than others which is fine, what works for me won’t work for others.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 11:06 PM
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Could you give an example of haunting eyes? I’ve never understood what people meant by kind eyes or sparkling eyes unless they were literally just describing eye colour
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 10:47 PM
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Same. I dread to think some of the stuff I might have missed if I didn’t come across the pill spaces. I’m slyly feeding my friends the information I find on here
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 10:40 PM
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I think a warm approach at uni is better. Asking if you can sit with someone in the library or at lunch, making friends with your group mates and friends of friends, parties. But I think people on campus are more open to being approached than randoms on the street. I used to walk around with headphones but I still would’ve stopped and talked to someone How dead is your insta profile? I think you can message people you sort of know like seen around in person when your profile is dead coz they kno…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 10:37 PM
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My serious relationships were 1-2 years, dated a few for shorter amounts of time. Met at work or outings or social media/apps Idk I would guess people with depression are more likely to be shut ins/not social and I date guys who like to be outside. Also I think there’s a difference between having a period of depression, and having the mental disorder. I think lots of gen z have been through a period of depression especially during uni and covid but they’re not actually mentally ill
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 10:35 PM
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I date gen z guys, it’s not that hard
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 05:12 PM
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Where do you want to approach women? I think most places are appropriate to talk to a stranger, it’s not illegal to say hi to someone in the coffee shop and it never will be. At the same time, they don’t have to like it. I don’t think women are “wary” of a man talking to them in the supermarket in public but they may be annoyed at it. That’s the risk you take, but making someone annoyed isn’t the end of the world either Women who think it’s creepy or uncomfortable to talk in public are more misa…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 05:09 PM
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I have no patience for any of this stuff. I know, I know, they’re ill and they can’t help it. I just don’t want to be involved at all
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 04:42 PM
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Lol ok
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 03:21 PM
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no one really believes that 70 year old men and women are as viscerally attracted to each other as two 20 somethings are, but that doesn’t mean they’re not really happy. If you get a good 20,30 years of sexual attraction and it morphs into a more platonic love in your old age, that’s a pretty happy marriage to me. Obviously you deal with cheating husbands (???), but that doesn’t mean ALL husbands are cheating. Sure, they will find other people attractive but so do people in new relationships. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 12:17 PM
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What film is that? No idea what he’s on about
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 11:32 AM
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What are other people doing?! I’m too scared to wax
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 07:01 AM
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Not on the inner flaps it’s more like the hair on the majora grows as close as possible to the minora if you get me
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 07:00 AM
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Big Flaps doesn’t want you to know this industry secret (I can’t believe I just wrote that sentence)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 06:57 AM
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See what I mean? No one talks about it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 09:27 PM
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No one talks about how hard shaving your flaps is. The inside is so hard to get to
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 09:03 PM
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the guy I’m dating is childfree (unfortunately). He is most of those things, I think he has adhd tho. He’s one of 2 people I’ve ever met that have expressed their childfree views to me. I don’t think there’s many of them at all, just a higher population on Reddit. I think most people I know want children
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 09:01 PM
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Maybe not false complimenting ie thinking someone looks terrible and gassing them up, but definitely being excessively complimentary which I think is yasss queening. Girls can find something nice to say about another girl even if overall she looks bad. Stuff like “Your makeup😍😍” or “your outfit looks amazing” even if the girl is overall unattractive. I don’t think they are as common as you think they are I run into them all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 08:19 PM
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they’re everywhere. School/work/friends of friends/bars/festivals/the gym
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 05:52 PM
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wtf does that mean 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 05:11 PM
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Good on middle aged men. If you’re in your 20s a long sleeve polo is more modern
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 03:46 PM
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Idk, I don’t think all of human attraction is as simple as a + b = c, but there are some general trends. Why do people have fetishes for bbws, amputees, elderly women? Some parts aren’t rational or explainable. If I had to guess, again glasses are only a recent phenomenon. I don’t think our subconscious has realised that plastic on the face = poor eyesight yet
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 02:07 PM
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I don’t worry that I’ll be in a dead bedroom, I worry that despite discussing it before, I’ll end up with a husband that doesn’t understand libido waxes and wanes throughout life and that I’ll experience some major physical changes that may mean sex is off the table for a while. Childbirth, menopause, general life issues (eg bereavement) will probably mean I’m not DTF and I need a man who really understands that. Not a man that just says he understands then starts being nasty and petulant when I…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 08:36 AM
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Times are different, but evolution works over millions of years. A woman with narrow hips can give birth safely with modern medicine, but guys are still attracted to women with wider hips because she was more likely to have a safe labour back then. What we’re attracted to hasn’t caught up with societal changes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 08:10 AM
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Can’t date everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 07:10 AM
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Yeah and maybe he should’ve just let that one go. Approaching women at night time in empty car parks is rarely going to end up well. Do you like being approached by men at night time when no one is around?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 10:28 PM
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I don’t think they see it that way https://reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/XqSmo31zf8
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 09:22 PM
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Ew that sounds awful For some reason i thought you were also bri’ish. What is the Flemish rap scene like?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 09:11 PM
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What do they play?? That used to get played all the time in like 2017
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 08:45 PM
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Savage 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 08:18 PM
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I personally wouldn’t pay any other guys attention when I’m there with someone that’s rude af. Dancing with your boo is way more fun
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 08:15 PM
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Mini golf/ping pong/etc isn’t nearly as fun without a couple drinks down you Bottomless brunch is also a great 2nd/3rd date, day drinking is the move
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 07:29 PM
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Not what i meant but whatever works for you!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 07:26 PM
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Do you like ditch them or something? I think it’s a good way to spend more time together that’s not going back to their place, not much is open at 3am except clubs/bars
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 07:25 PM
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It’s not for everyone for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 07:13 PM
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Drinks -> activity -> grab a bite to eat -> end up at the club together (optional) is the best kind of date
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 07:07 PM
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Success to men is sleeping with lots of women so why would we (the commitment minded gender) want that
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 08:10 AM
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Hustla baby
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 09:07 PM
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He was a NARCISSTIC ABUSER who GASLIGHTED me and all men are evil
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 07:39 PM
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I don’t mind if he follows a few but if you can scroll thru his following list and it’s literally all girls that’s an ick
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 06:26 PM
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Ptsd from when my ex said that and silly me believed him
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 06:22 PM
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She better march herself to the abortion clinic
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 05:56 PM
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I think men also have a vested interest in convincing women that they should go for personality not looks
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 04:03 PM
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Was it your first time or something? I suppose seeing the opposite sex’s genitals in that way for the first time is shocking. But no it’s not shocking for us
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 12:00 PM
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That’s funny. It feels the same as a period tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 11:41 AM
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Matt’s character doesn’t want a relationship but is good with the ladies. The show tries to imply David’s character struggles with women but he actually gets a lot of dates, he just always messes it up. He was in Jennifer aniston’s friend zone for a long time but they get together in the end I think most women watch it because it was one of the most popular shows and they’re always playing reruns lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 11:30 AM
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Why would it?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 11:26 AM
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I think you guys just weren’t paying attention https://vm.tiktok.com/ZGJ3sX3NJ/
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 08:23 AM
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Well they’re probably right (I’d still take it though)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 07:46 AM
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Lose weight, grow your hair, braces. Seems like you have an overbite. Right now it’s not great but you could deffo jump up 2 points
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 07:26 AM
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how often do you see average-ugly or obese men rudelt decline the advances of women more attractive than them Not condoning the rudeness but you guys constantly say how men dumpster dive so shouldn’t she reject them? If she rejects him, it’s a problem. If she accepts him, she doesn’t know her place and it’s her fault if she gets pumped and dumped. Just because someone is more attractive than you doesn’t mean you HAVE to accept them
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 07:12 AM
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Is it? Trust me we all know how much young men like sex 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 07:04 AM
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We twinninggg. It doesn’t take the hunger edge off as much as cigs tho
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 08:56 PM
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Do you smoke cigs?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 08:50 PM
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Ah I get you, agreed but some people use not attractive and ugly interchangeably. Someone can be not attractive but not actively ugly. Most people are this
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 08:33 PM
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How is starving yourself going? I’m thinking of doing it lol I’m going nowhere fast trying to do it the hEaLtHy way
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 08:22 PM
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I wish doctors would prescribe ozempic for “vanity pounds”. The first lot is the easiest to lose, literally just halve your portions or stop drinking alcohol or switch to light mayo for a week, boom 2kg down. I don’t see why people with a bmi of 40+ deserve it more than people with a bmi of 20-25. I just want a healthy (19-21)™️ bmi
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 08:18 PM
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I think a lot of people don’t really know the legal benefits of marriage until they’re getting to the engagement stage. More people consider it a relic of religious times than actual security.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 07:58 PM
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Wasn’t expecting that when she said I take pride in my appearance lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 05:04 PM
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I assume jung kook is some kpop star? This is a really random link up
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 03:35 PM
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I think a lot of red pillers think the way they perceive the world is the objective way, and so can’t understand that sexual attraction isn’t on the top of the list for everyone. Or that someone they find attractive isn’t attractive to others. They’ll say it’s cope because they genuinely can’t step outside their box for a moment. It’s like someone whose favourite ice cream flavour is mint chocolate refusing to understand some people prefer vanilla, and that some people don’t like ice cream at al…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 02:55 PM
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Yeah I liked one of my friends in high school on and off for years. It was weird because I think he liked me, we would hold hands at school and hang out just us two but then when I actually confessed he rejected me but then went right back to acting the same. We just pretended it didn’t happen tbh and when school ended we naturally went our separate ways
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 02:01 PM
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Break this one down for me
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 01:48 PM
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Moreso the way they feel on my skin
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 01:46 PM
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Yeah same in the uk. Judges are pretty sympathetic in these situations because you can’t claim someone has done major work on your house without your consent and not look like an idiot 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 09:48 AM
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yes love how strong and hard men are. Calloused hands, scratchy beards. He gotta have soft skin too though lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 09:44 AM
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men with such high social status to the point they are household names I scrolled through a few times and only recognised about 5 people posted and I would say I’m pretty clued in with celeb culture. A lot of the posts are not mainstream actors or men in obscure (to me) bands. Those men are riding on their looks, not their status. I don’t think they’re all that cute either. I’ve seen way better looking regular guys at parties.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 09:11 AM
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Do you think American pie was a film targeted at women?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 08:22 AM
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What romcoms have a not attractive male lead?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 08:21 AM
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Have you ever seen a romcom? Are the leads ever ugly?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 08:21 AM
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This is crazy. “It’s a future girl I haven’t met yet’s fault I’m having sex with so many women!”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 08:07 AM
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The ones I’ve met have been pretty cool 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 06:55 AM
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Europeans on Reddit are so cringe. Just seen someone make fun of a girl for saying “5:30 on a Thursday night” because apparently using a 12 hour clock is only an American thing. So embarrassing
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 10:25 PM
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Watch kids tv in that language. If it’s good enough for native babies to learn from, it’s good enough for you
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 10:24 PM
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Tbf this isn’t a male issue. People in general don’t like being left out, even by people they didn’t want to date in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 10:07 PM
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I’m good friends w my brother but he picked on me lol I didn’t realise siblings out there DIDNT pick on each other
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 08:44 PM
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I think he’s a typical late 30s man. Out of shape, stable job. He does have amazing hair and is tall. I guess he’s a 6. I don’t think 26 is TOO bad to be bald. If it makes you feel better my brother went bald at like 22 and has had girlfriends since. I think he’ll be marrying his current one
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 07:12 PM
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Yeah he just seems like a fun guy. I wouldn’t date him but it seems like he’d be a cool neighbour
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 07:03 PM
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I think 20 year old working parents (in the west) are more mature in terms of responsibility but are usually way more emotionally immature than their agemates, which is what led them to being a 20 year old parent in the first place. I’d expect a 40 year old who’s never worked to regulate his emotions better at least Source: have hella friends who were parents at 20. They support their kids well but their inner worlds are chaos
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 06:16 PM
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Yh I’m not really asking about how well she’d do on tinder but if a woman built like that would be considered top 20%. Idk I don’t think his female equivalent would be all that attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 05:59 PM
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Big fan of long haired men
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 04:48 PM
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If you looked better you’d have the person you want. Make it happen!!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 04:44 PM
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He’s ight. Like he has a nice face but top 20 is crazy to me. Anybody can be top 20 if that’s the case
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 04:44 PM
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Hair and face are most importan
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 04:41 PM
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Do you think a similarly built woman would be top 20% for her age?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 04:41 PM
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Yh I’m not seeing top 20
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 04:40 PM
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I’ve always found the advice on what kind of pictures you should have to be air tbh if you’re attractive and don’t have too many group photos that’s all you need
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 04:40 PM
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He does have fantastic hair
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 04:01 PM
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I had it in my head you were chadsexual
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 04:00 PM
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Yes it’s not illegal to talk to people on the street. It’s also not illegal for them to not like it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 03:44 PM
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Is this guy top 1/5/10/20% ? https://reddit.com/r/Tinder/s/v8eLtxfHo3
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 03:43 PM
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I’m always the planner in my relationships. I just have so many great ideas. As long as they’re opening their wallet I don’t really care
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 03:10 PM
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My brother and cousin translate mannish into womanese for me. When I was young and naive it was very helpful and taught me not to listen to men’s words but rather their actions. They are the first people to say men are trash because they know they are trash lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 03:03 PM
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God forbid we want to know how you spend most of your week
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 01:52 PM
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Uhhh you’re saying that like that’s too old for instagram? I was in high school when insta came out. I know plenty of people your age on insta
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 01:05 PM
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If he dressed cooler he would 100% get more action. He dresses like my dad man i don’t know any 21 year old who wants that. I think having a nerdy personality but looking cool is just fine. Know a guy on my course at uni who was nerdy af engineering, anime all that stuff but he was COOL and he slayed Also Christian conservative 21 year old. My family are big church goers and all the super religious girls i know that age are politically liberal even though they’re socially conservative
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 10:27 AM
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Some people just love the drama. I also think it’s learned behaviour in certain circles. On twitter in my generation toxic love is applauded. Couples like Lil Durk and India are seen as goals, stuff like “if it ain’t toxic I don’t want it” gets thousands of retweets. I’ve fallen victim to it myself, I used to think if we weren’t on again/off again they didn’t really like me. I think when the lows are low the highs are really high and people love that feeling
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 10:11 AM
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Why would women who don’t experience pain during sex say anything? People are more likely to complain, as well as search for answers to their problems. If you believed Reddit, everybody has depression/adhd/anxiety because people who don’t have those issues don’t post about how they don’t. Fwiw even women without issues still experience pain when it’s too dry or it hits from the wrong angle, it’s just not a big deal or a lasting pain because you rectify it immediately by adjusting or changing pos…
/r/AllPillDebate10/10/23 09:40 AM
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chad’s gf is 24/7 wet for him How have you personally witnessed this?
/r/AllPillDebate10/10/23 09:23 AM
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I think our equivalent of this is nandos. It’s not a first date spot but it’s so nice to get to the point where you’re like let’s go for a nandos
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 08:44 AM
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women want a man who makes them feel safe Low bar. I feel safe with most men alone in a lift. Who says we don’t want a man to have good sex with too?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 07:53 AM
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Women will compliment you for compliment’s sake and men will compliment you to get into your knickers. I don’t trust anybody’s compliments at all. The only compliments worth taking stock in is when random people on the street stop you to say something nice about your face (and not just what you’re wearing), because they don’t have any motive to be nice to you, and only if that happens with some regularity. I think deep down everybody knows how attractive they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 07:37 AM
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I thought that about my first boyfriend. Then the next one. I’ll probably feel the same way about the guy I’m currently dating. There’s lots of amazing people out there and you will find love again
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 10:33 PM
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So aggressive for what 😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 06:58 PM
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It’s like a zoo. “hi princess I would like to spoil you write me back”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 06:43 PM
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I need every guy who thinks a good haircut won’t do anything for them to watch queer eye
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 06:35 PM
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a well accessorised man drives me crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 06:34 PM
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Nothing wrong with wanting to look your best. I think deep down everybody hopes being more attractive will attract more suitors even if it’s not the main reason like health or financial stability
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 06:15 PM
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What mindset?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 06:09 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:55 PM
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Idk I think a lot of people just see others as attractive or not or meh. What’s the practical difference between an 8 or a 9? You’re very attracted either way Some of you need to accept that not everybody thinks like you, and it’s not virtue signalling if they do
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:52 PM
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He’s in that weird spot where I wouldn’t spend one of my 8 likes on him but I would match if he liked me. Not bad looking at all tho
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 04:41 PM
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Nah women are more likely to keep on sleeping with someone bad in bed. You’ve already caught the body, may as well try and make it work, whereas body count doesn’t really matter for guys. Women hardly ever orgasm on the first encounter anyway, so surely by going back we’re saying sex is not that important.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 03:22 PM
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Some like that for sure but I also think a lot are just completely delusional and don’t realise they’re the problem
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 01:12 PM
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My issue with twoX posts is that quite a few of posters are like “every man I’ve been involved with has been an abuser/narcissistic/manchild/etc” once it happens… twice okay you’re still learning… but if every. single. man. you’ve dated has been some variation of awful you need to look inwards. My dating history isn’t perfect but I can’t in good conscious say any of them were awful guys. Self centred, not very mindful of my feelings, sure, I’ve done that at times too.. they’re either being crazy…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 12:50 PM
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Treat yourself bro you don’t have to have a girl to get a massage
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 12:16 PM
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Love dancing
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 11:51 AM
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How do you know she would have rejected you 10 years ago? You hadn’t met her!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 11:21 AM
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single people don’t go outside much 😑 Single and partnered women go to the spa in groups definitely
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 06:48 AM
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Lol now when I’m out with a guy I’m going to be wondering if someone is watching us and deciding if we’re looksmatched or not
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 06:46 AM
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Agree to disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 06:05 PM
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No way he’s tall but she is way prettier in the face
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 05:08 PM
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That men think about sex a lot. I mean I kinda knew that already but didn’t realise it was this all consuming obsession
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 04:08 PM
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What area is this where the guys have luxury apartments and high paying jobs? Asking for a friend x
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 11:29 AM
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Some are attractive but not my type, some are just alright and again not my type
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 07:51 AM
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Yes. The fact someone thought that I would like something brings me joy. My family are a “tell me what you want” or just give me money type of people and I don’t like that. I can buy myself stuff, it’s the thought that counts! Trinkets (photo frames/decor), candles, shoes, books, perfume, makeup, mugs/teapots, fancy teas Not particularly special but I thought it was funny, one birthday I received like mugs from like 6 different people. I usually get a couple but everybody must’ve had the same id…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 03:03 AM
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I don’t want someone who has low standards. Like if their ONLY requirement in a woman is a healthy (19-21) bmi™️ then they’re not the kind of guy I’m looking for. I think a lot of women in the looks subs are Chad chasers and you gotta step it up
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 05:11 PM
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it’s guys like you that I have sympathy for, no offence if you don’t want pity. Saying that though, there are very few people SO ugly they can’t find ANYONE, and I doubt you’re one of them and you’re pretty funny
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 03:32 PM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 01:42 PM
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Chill out love
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 01:35 PM
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jam packed weekend sounds super fun! Enjoy yourselves
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 11:11 AM
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Ooo wee look what the money make a bitch do
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 11:08 AM
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I bleach my hair and it’s fine. my hair has the strength of a thousand suns, I couldn’t ruin it if I tried
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 10:26 AM
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omg me too. Looking back it was so obvious we liked each other but we were so nervous. Everybody else knew except us. Used to smoke weed after work and just laugh for hours
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 10:02 AM
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Men complaining about how lonely they are yet simultaneously not doing anything to alleviate their loneliness is akin to women complaining that men are trash yet still picking shitty men. What you’re currently doing isn’t working for you. Do something about it. I have little sympathy for a man who complains no one asks how he’s doing, yet never asks how his friends are doing. You have to give to get. Fulfilling friendships don’t just fall into your lap. Some men claim that they don’t need to ask…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 08:59 AM
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Ahh yes, this so called unconditional love women experience. That ceases to exist when you don’t put out. Seems conditional to me
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 08:38 AM
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Happy for you! Watcha doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 07:14 AM
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That’s the one 🫣 (yes I’m being a dumb dumb)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 07:13 AM
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Oh right. I thought that’s what we were all doing lol. I was imagining someone actually getting the dick in their throat and was wondering if that was possible for everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 11:46 PM
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Can’t wait to see you x
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 11:14 PM
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Haven’t seen bae in 2 weeks finally seeing him tomorrow absolutely buzzing me. Im so excited I could do a backflip
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 11:04 PM
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I wonder if there’s a study comparing the outcomes between people who grew up in actual single mother homes, vs people who have coparents. Surely having two present parents that are caring leads to better outcomes than one parent and a deadbeat. If nothing else, the income levels are different
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 11:03 PM
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But are autistic people not more comfortable causing conflict because they don’t have the social skills to realise they’re causing an issue? Or they’re more self centred (not in a bad way, just that their distress is more pressing than other’s feelings)? Reading the room/letting small things go are social skills
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 11:00 PM
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I think a 28 year old should be mature enough to realise her on/off boyfriend wouldn’t provide the stability she needs to have a child and that the kid’s life will be tumultuous. She’s 28, not menopausal, she can find a new man a 19 year old may not yet have a good grasp on what a healthy relationship is and I’m sympathetic that they could be swept away with thoughts of “but I love him so much, the baby will fix things, it can’t be that hard can it”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 10:48 PM
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Id feel bad for her mostly. She probably didn’t realise exactly what she was getting into. I’d judge a 28 year old in the same situation more harshly
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 10:39 PM
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Depends on the circumstances. Idk when single mum came to mean solely “woman who had a ONS with deadbeat Chad” because most single mums are women who were in serious relationships/marriages that broke down. I checked the stats, most babies are born to married or cohabitating couples so it stands that most single mums just went through a break up. What’s to judge? Maybe they had a mutual break up and are better off as coparents. The dads are still somewhat involved in most of these situations Now…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 10:37 PM
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Are autistic people more agreeable? I thought their whole schtick was they like things in certain, not always rational ways and get distressed when it’s not like that
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 10:20 PM
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wait what is a throat job. Like is that a thing people choose to do and anybody can do it because it seems like a physical limitation that only certain people can manage?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 10:11 PM
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Because some women don’t like it. Others do. The women who don’t like it are more vocal about it. That’s basically it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 08:09 PM
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I don’t think this is settling. Have a list of non-negotiables that are valid and throw everything else out and build from there. Devout Christian (is born again non-negotiable?) is a fair requirement because it covers a lot of similar values Ethnicity - another fair requirement but could it be broadened slightly? Theres not many countries where the people are completely different to the next country over. For eg if you’re Mexican women from other Central American countries will have similar upb…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 07:37 PM
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Dunno probably laughed or something
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 07:14 PM
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Their mafia connections😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 06:14 PM
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I think your best bet is international students or immigrants from conservative cultures. Religious people raised in secular countries often aren’t virgins either - I know a few unmarried hijabis who aren’t virgins
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 03:03 PM
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I think it’s pretty normal most of my friends were 16-18. I think before 16 is too early
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 02:54 PM
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18
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 02:25 PM
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Ngl they make me uncomfortable. Like the way they pull them back is so cringe to me 😣 like you know that feeling you get when someone peels back that lil bit of skin on their fingernail? It looks like it should hurt but they say it doesn’t. Although I do know 2 guys who had to have adult circumcision because their foreskin was too tight so that might be influencing it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 02:13 PM
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Same, just like I did and a billion other girls
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 01:56 PM
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in Spain my flatmate would start cooking dinner at 11 and I was like ???
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 07:49 AM
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idk it’s kinda cringe to constantly be posting on your personal profile about how much you like your guy or about the mundane things you do for them. Like I wouldn’t post that I had a really good first date on insta but I would on here bc who cares Yeah I definitely understand it may not be in the best taste. But I also think if no positive tidbits were shared this sub would just be circlejerking. I also like when guys share their success stories, a few guys on here share things about their girl…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 07:47 PM
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i see what you mean about Sarai but idk who hannagoo is
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 07:43 PM
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i think it depends on the type of lifestyle you want. My sister’s husband supports their family of 4 on one income. I guess the caveat is they bought their house when she was working before their first child, so now he only has to handle the mortgage and bills. He works in IT but isn’t like a big shot tech guy or anything. They don’t have the newest nicest stuff but everyone’s well fed with a roof over their head which is what matters. The oldest starting school means they only have to pay for n…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 07:36 PM
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Ohh I thought you meant days per week not rounds. Well that changes things. 2-3 rounds in a week is nothing but if they’re my favourite person I’ll make do
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 06:53 PM
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Option 2. I thinkkk I’m HL but 6x a week just seems physically impossible. After the third day my shit would be red raw
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 04:05 PM
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year 9 was slag year because that’s the year all the girls started wearing their skirts super short 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 03:59 PM
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What?? At my school g shocks were super popular it was a competition to get the coolest colour
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 03:57 PM
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I know it’s not I was just explaining why women have the idea of incels they do
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 03:42 PM
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Yeah there are definitely a lot of virtue signallers. Im just of the stance that people should be able to love whoever they want to love, it really doesn’t affect anybody else Is it homophobic tho? I don’t fancy effeminate straight men either. It’s the effeminacy that’s the blocker for me
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 12:12 PM
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“if you looked better you’d have the person you really want” keeps me going
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 08:43 AM
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Oooh share baby names!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 06:36 AM
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Would you really want only negative stuff about how people are struggling posted on here? I think the positive stuff is a good break I think a lot of people come here to talk about their partners bc when you’re infatuated you just wanna talk about them 24/7 but your friends and family get sick of that eventually
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 06:32 AM
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If you stay with someone who cheated, you’re just teaching them they can cheat with no consequences. I’ve never known a cheater to not cheat again in the same relationship. They may change for another person, but not the person who has already told them hey you can cheat on me and I won’t do anything about it except cry
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 12:42 AM
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I think it really depends on her build, moreso than shorter women. Shorter women can get away with being badly built but tall women are already imposing and if they don’t have a good shape then they’re even more imposing People imagine someone built like Taylor swift or a vs model but a tall, broad shouldered woman with an average face has it harder than a short woman with the same shape imo
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 12:36 AM
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The context of the posts they’re saying this in usually implies they want a world where women don’t have a choice in who they’re with, not just about the general state of the world. I’ll try to find an example in a bit
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 12:25 AM
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I think some women do play the same game but I’m at a point now where if I like someone I’ll tell them and if I want to text them I’ll text them. When you’ve had a relationship that lets you feel safe enough to do that, you just can’t go back to stupid mind games. I think when two people like each other the same amount the games go out of the window and you just can’t stop texting/calling one of my exes does have a documentary on Netflix about the murder she’s in jail for Bro dropped that in cas…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 09:03 PM
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Fair play my guy. Could you explain the thought process to us? Is it like “I don’t want to be part of a club that would let me be a member”? or it’s just the chase?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 08:36 PM
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I agree. I don’t think many men here are the type or will admit it, but a LOT of people (men and women!) love the chase or are avoidant. A guy could be hounding me down but as soon as I’m like sure let’s go out, his interest wanes. There are a couple guys who have been camped in my DMs for years but I bet as soon as I show them interest, they’ll back off. I don’t think it’s their fault - probably a lot of them had to beg or perform for love and attention from their parents and that’s the dynamic…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 07:59 PM
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Thanks man. You ever been a groomsman?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 07:44 PM
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That’s the worst thing about little transgressions like this. It’s not enough to uproot your entire life over it, but it is deeply troubling and will affect you forever
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 07:27 PM
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Omg ice water was the soundtrack to summer 2019 🥲 happier times
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 07:00 PM
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Thank you for putting me on that been on repeat all day
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:33 PM
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Not to one up you or anything but i recently went for 8 over one night and morning. I was so pleased with myself lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:29 PM
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Lmao are we supposed to be scared of AI girlfriends or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:15 PM
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😂😂 “how dare they want me to be present on their special day???”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:14 PM
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I love a wedding. Everybody’s happy and drunk, dressed up, dancing and dinner on someone else’s dime. What’s not to enjoy!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:04 PM
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Just got my first ever bridesmaid invite 💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿 finally upgraded from flower girl Her fiancé’s best man is really cute and they think we’d suit. Unfortunately he has a girlfriend right now but that may change in a year
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:43 PM
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Maybe they do, but a few guys on this anonymous forum have said they wouldn’t and what a prostitute provides isn’t what they really want
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:07 PM
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women seem to think that it’s a personal attack against them and these men want to sexually enslave women No we don’t just think that. We’ve literally read that. Every time a guy says “i can’t wait for the downfall of society” he is implicitly implying that women will lose their right to have sex with who they want. There was a post literally just yesterday from a guy saying that they should make “brainless women for sexual use”. I know not every guy in here thinks such things. But these are the…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:00 PM
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Women used to have to share lower status guys. Your farmer husband visiting the brothel was expected and you just had to look the other way
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 03:46 PM
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Me neither
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 03:39 PM
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What’s the difference between men and women romantically? Why aren’t you into men romantically? I know attraction is nonsensical but I’d love to hear more about this
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 03:24 PM
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No. I get the same icky feeling men get when they learn a woman is promiscuous. I heard an idea that dick is a polluting agent which makes sense I guess. More specifically I’m not into effeminate men and having sex with a man is effeminate to me even though it’s only two men involved. Weird but it is what it is
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 03:13 PM
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In my area this is probably the most popular way of dating. You see someone around at places, you follow them on insta, dm them. Or maybe you have a lot of followers in common and follow them and pop up to their story at some point. The relationship blossoms
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 03:11 PM
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That’s so interesting. Im going to try to lie next time I do dizz if I can remember. It tracks because I’ve started loads of conversations that I wouldn’t normally even if I was drunk. I think the first time I ever overtly approached a guy I was doing dizz. All I said was I like your style but that was bold for me
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 12:53 PM
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Cooking for sure. Being active in some way
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 12:22 PM
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If you twisted my arm - B. But I wouldn’t be happy about it. B for some friends, A for others Probably A Both have pros and cons. I appreciate B’s dutifulness but tbh I’m too young to marry someone who is already looking after ailing parents. We would have to put OUR life on pause to look after his parents, instead of getting on the property ladder ourselves and having children and having fun together. I also don’t really like B’s lifestyle (outside of looking after his parents). I don’t need th…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 11:19 AM
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I see less than attractive guys who are having fun and picking up girls Some guys on here do not believe it could ever happen but I’ve seen it with my own eyes :/
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 10:40 AM
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This is why I’m not convinced average men have such hard dating lives. I’ve seen the most handsome men, average men and complete uggos pull at parties and clubs and raves. Not saying they’re successful at the same rate but it’s 10000% possible. Also agree about molly. Drunk girls can be unreceptive to advances but girls on dizz will talk to ANYONE. You will make new friends at the very least
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 10:35 AM
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Then why don’t sexless guys just go to prostitutes? Why do johns hide the fact they’ve visited a prostitute?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 07:30 AM
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We all know it’s not the same. That’s why most guys also prefer to wine and dine a woman than just visit a sex worker
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 10:11 PM
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Check out mom.uncharted on TikTok. She discusses child exploitation in social media. A lot of mommy bloggers are literally pimping out their children. I saw this one vid looked at the account analytics for a parent ran account of a preteen and it was like 90% male. What kind of men do you think follow an 11 year old girl? She also had a video on parents making their children do cameos for “fans”. Again what kind of people do you think are paying real money for videos of random children they’ve n…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 10:06 PM
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🎶now I realise that you need love too and I’ll spend my life making it up to you oh girl I forgot to be your lover🎶
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 07:51 PM
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Men don’t beg for their woman back on sampled 60s tracks anymore and we are worse off for it smh https://youtu.be/V3M723634Rc?si=5HGSfHzLGcoW2LuO
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 07:49 PM
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Partial to cranberry myself
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 07:12 PM
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I roasted the potatoes in the fat! Sooo good. Much better than normal roasted potatoes
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 07:12 PM
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Thanks! It was a bit dry but overall went pretty well
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 07:11 PM
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Making roast duck tonight. My first time roasting a whole bird! Practicing for Christmas because I’m in charge of the main this year
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:24 PM
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I’m genuinely so surprised that apparently Brazilian women can’t cook. I find the ethnics™️ can cook better than our Caucasian counterparts because of culture. I had a Venezuelan flatmate who taught me how to make arepas and empanadas. Are you sure it’s not just the women you go for? All my friends can cook
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:17 PM
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Hm I disagree bc I think less attractive but confident guys shoot their shot at anybody. Really Attractive guys asking me out is more rare but it still happens so I’ll take that to be my peak, but I don’t know if you can accurately determine your trough. Literally 70 year old men have asked me out and there’s no way that’s my league. I do agree with the idea that who you can get commitment from is your real league
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:11 PM
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Met my ex at a wedding. Lots of single people at weddings
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 04:44 PM
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It would limit how many matches you have. No reason to have hundreds of matches built up. You gotta unmatch someone to match with someone new 1:1 ratio of men and women. One has got to delete his account before a new man is let in. Lots of men will be waiting for a while but it’ll stop women getting 10x more likes than the attraction she receives IRL. I like hinge’s model of only 8 likes per day. People are more intentional when they’ve only got a handful of likes than a free for all. The matche…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 12:20 PM
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My toxic trait is I’m too horny 💔💔
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 12:11 PM
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I’ve heard some guys say nothing is better than new pussy. I think some people are more home pussy inclined whilst others are new pussy inclined
/r/AllPillDebate03/10/23 09:51 AM
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Nahh too much invested at that point. It’s hard to imagine, maybe I will look at him differently and break up. But I think i would just be weirded out for a while then realise it’s not worth throwing away what we have together
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 09:39 AM
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Gah damn if that’s not an advert to start Botox in your mid 20s I don’t know what is
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 09:02 AM
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I know 😩 but sometimes it really do be purring. When you can feel it’s heartbeat >>>>
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 08:13 AM
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“My kitty is purring” 😭🤢 sounds sooo cringe when you’re not aroused but it worked like a charm
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 06:57 AM
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Have you ever seen some of the men posted on are we dating the same guy? Some real uggos on there.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 06:52 AM
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I don’t care how he treated his exes. I only care how he treats me. Oh he bought his ex a Hermes bag? That’s fine, I have no idea how to style a Hermes bag. I’m happy with just a regular bag. I wouldn’t date a frugal man to begin with anyway so we wouldn’t even get to the point that I’m complaining he doesn’t treat me well compared to his ex How do people even find out how their partner treated his exes? Do you just ask? I wouldn’t ask in the first place lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 06:36 AM
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this was a better high than any drug you’ll ever take Okay I’ll give you the faking injuries.. in their defence they’re literally rewarded for faking an injury
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 09:56 PM
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Plastic surgery sure why not, not if he’s obsessed with it though like always chasing an ideal. But a nose job or jaw surgery or hair transplant? There are worse things in a partner Leg lengthening no. I understand the plight of short men and see why a 5’4 might go to desperate lengths (heh) to fix that. But I don’t want someone that desperate lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 09:35 PM
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It seems like such a self-flagellating activity. There are women much more beautiful than me who will get loads of things I’ll never get based purely on looks. What is the benefit in sitting around and stewing over that? You just gotta make due with what you got
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 09:20 PM
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Because most people don’t view it like that. Do I like him, does he like me? That’s what people care about
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 09:06 PM
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First of all don’t disrespect the beautiful game like that Secondly, it usually is sports they want me to watch or shows that I’m already interested in seeing like house of the dragon or something new on Netflix and we watch it together. The guy I’m dating now is really interested in 9/11 so I’ve watched a couple of documentaries he’s sent me then we discuss
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 08:55 PM
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Yeah we’d sit next to a group of guys we find attractive and try to involve them in our convo. “Hey I’m making a bet with my friend that xyz…” works like a charm
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 08:53 PM
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Well yeah I don’t want attention from someone I don’t find attractive. I won’t call them a creep unless they’re actually being creepy though. Been approached by many an unattractive man in my life time, majority of them weren’t creepy. A lot were quite sweet in fact. IME the actual creeps usually don’t even try to talk to you, they just feel you up and disappear into the night
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 08:51 PM
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There definitely are a lot of people who don’t want to be approached. I don’t speak for all women, but they don’t speak for all women either. They make it out like they do though. I am there to hang with my friends and have a good time, but I’m also open to meeting someone. Walking and chewing gum. Eh, I find women do sometimes go to a bar and are open to being approached. Outgoing women who move to new places alone will go to bars alone to see what the area is like (source: me, moved to another…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 08:50 PM
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I find it crazy that you can’t find women in bars in cities. Trendy bars are FULL of young women after work or on the weekends. Yes we’re in groups but that doesn’t mean we don’t want to be approached
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 05:16 PM
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Yeah I see on amiugly all the time women who are about 5s that could be 6.5s with better make up hair and clothes
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 12:42 PM
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Here ! My school didn’t have a popularity hierarchy. The nerds were as vicious as the sporty people so you couldn’t bully them. Everybody just stuck to their own group and most people got along in general
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 12:35 PM
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You really can’t win. You’re supposed to open your legs to every Chad that graces you with his attention but also don’t sleep with Chad because he’ll pump and dump you. Can someone people tell me exactly what I’m supposed to do
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 12:29 PM
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Are people’s jobs typically also their interests though? Engineering is an outlier because generally engineers find their work cool and engage with it outside of work. But nursing… my sister and mother are nurses and they never talk about work unless they’ve had a particularly tough day, but they’re not reading the nursing journal in their free time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 12:08 PM
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I have stereotypically girly interests but I have never not been able to find common ground with men I’m dating. There’s a lot of stuff that’s gender neutral - music, events, travelling, animals, work, mainstream tv shows, some sports (most people tune in for the World Cup even when they never watch football in their regular life imo) etc. Maybe the girls were into you but were generally self obsessed. A good partner takes some interests in your interests. I would watch rugby with my ex even tho…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 12:06 PM
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Irl people joke about the town bike all the time imo. Being promiscuous is one thing, but being known for being promiscuous is like the worst thing for a girl socially. There was a girl I went to school with who was loose. Her dad was a PE teacher at the school down the road so when our football/netball teams would play each other he would come to our school. Kids would literally shout “your daughter’s a slag” at him when he came up. Tragic
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 11:17 AM
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Deep down I know this 😔😔😔😔
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 10:36 AM
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Yes, a lot. After the first one he got really into Islam and veganism (chicken doesn’t count apparently) and wants to convert (he probably won’t) and ever since then he’s just been a weirdo. In his defence they had kids young and had never lived together before so they didn’t really know each other and people generally change a lot in early 20s. He was 21 when the first was born
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 10:35 AM
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They have 2 kids and life logistics are easier when they’re together and he’s living in her house than when they’re split up. Plus when they’re split up he’s even more of a cunt and it seems like he tries to make her life harder. Takes ages to send money he owes her, is late to pick up/drop off, changes plans last minute. When they’re not together he just lets his mum look after the kids on his days and my friend doesn’t like his mum’s parenting style. I also think she’s really attached to the i…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 10:24 AM
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My friend’s boyfriend is such a cunt man her first time out in like 2 years and he HATES her drinking/having fun/just generally enjoying herself so of course he starts an argument whilst we’re out to ruin her night. When will she leave this loserrrr
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 10:10 AM
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Yeah I don’t expect average and ugly guys to do as well as attractive guys obviously but I’ve seen all sorts of people hooking up with their flatmates or flatmates of friends or girls in their society or friendship group. A guy not having a single girl interested in them throughout their whole degree is an outlier
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 02:24 PM
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I agree people are way more likely to share their negative experiences than any good ones and the bad ones get more exposure anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 01:15 PM
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Nothing stopped average unattractive guys from making friends and going out and meeting girls at my uni 🤷🏾‍♀️ club events are not filled with only attractive guys, plenty of average and unattractive guys having fun where I went
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 12:23 PM
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Long lashes are a sign of that health and fertility you guys go on about. They make everybody more attractive because it enhances neoteny. Older people have thinner and shorter hair all over their body You may not reject a girl because her lashes are short, but you would probably find her more attractive if she had naturally longer lashes. Fake lashes are how people w short lashes compensate The over the top, gaudy lashes are a stylistic choice and not necessarily about making themselves more at…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 12:11 PM
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Is the amount of people using an ai partner significant? When Snapchat bot came out last year people I know were taking the piss out of it, trying to get it to say inappropriate stuff or tell it they were going to kill themselves. Can’t see it being taken seriously by a significant number of people tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 10:51 AM
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Personally have seen many an average guy in a situationship. Did you guys never go to uni or work a casual job?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 10:27 AM
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Yeah they are. Such a weird mentality
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 07:41 PM
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🙏🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 07:40 PM
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My condolences man. This world is crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 07:40 PM
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Never heard of it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 07:38 PM
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I mean even if your man is top tier, if they agreed to monogamy then you’re still gonna be upset when they cheat lol. If he wanted an open relationship he should have said and found someone that agreed with that but I think some guys just get a kick out of the lying specially Also cheating in your marital bed is really taking the piss
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 07:14 PM
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Nose
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 01:57 PM
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Gotta make the most of it fr
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 01:56 PM
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How do you feel?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 01:34 PM
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Ok that one got a little chuckle out of me. Audacious
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 11:41 PM
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Didn’t you grow out of your edgy phase
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 11:25 PM
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True death feels so abstract until it affects someone you know I guess. He was only 19 The highs are high but the lows are low
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 11:23 PM
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Word. It’s a bit of fun but letting pill stuff derail your life instead of enjoying your time with your fam and friends is crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 11:20 PM
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Mine wasn’t one of those tiny cute ones like maybelline models, it was really wide and the little piece of gum was rather pronounced and I got that cut off too. I don’t think little gaps affect much and can be endearing to some people actually
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 11:14 PM
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Life is so fucked. A guy I went to school with’s little brother died in a car crash today. No rhyme or reason to any of this
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 11:11 PM
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I had a gap tooth and after I got braces i got way more interest from guys
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 11:01 PM
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Very true. It’s not all bleak! There’s some cool parts. Just not very passionate about it in general
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 10:29 PM
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I did chem engineering at uni
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 10:27 PM
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Well I’ve got the degree now, I may as well do something with it LOL. Maybe in the future I’ll pursue something else but honestly I’ve been focused on it for so long that I don’t even know what else I like
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 10:11 PM
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It’s so much more aggressive than any other app I’ve been on. If you engage with one video you WILL get more of that. I don’t even like to watch topics I don’t like for too long. Love the app tho icl there’s some funny shit on there marriage does have nice wholesome posts relatively often but there’s also so many deadbedrooms, abusive partners as well. I would like to see more relatively happy couples with mundane problems on there. Marriage is either amazing or the absolute worst on there. Wher…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 10:09 PM
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I love my parents but I wish they would have let me choose my own career. I have negative interest in my field but it makes good money so I guess they were right
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 09:33 PM
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yea super common with immigrants. Have to deal with ur own shit here and pay for people’s schooling and medical bills back home. They think money grows on trees in the west
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 09:24 PM
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There’s a really weird idea floating round that you absolutely must accept any offers from someone above your league, and if you don’t you’re delusional and a stuck up bitch who thinks they can do better. Fuck how you actually feel about them, they could literally be the most incompatible partner for you ever but if they want you, you must be grateful they even looked your way and accept whatever they offer. Ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 09:17 PM
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I never say anything I wouldn’t want my face attached to
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:37 PM
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Because I like to be comfortable
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 05:49 PM
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I’m from a modest background, just not used to really nice things and I guess I’d feel a little insecure in my zara outfit next to people in brunello cucinelli or whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 05:29 PM
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Sometimes it’s not even about “well it’s not worth my time” but more, is this me? I travel, but I travel on a budget. I’ll stay at hostels or split a nice-ish hotel, get the cheapest flight even if it’s a bit inconvenient, use the public transport instead of ubering everywhere. I simply would not be comfortable going out with the type of guy that flies business class, rents a nice car, stays at really nice hotels. Turks and Caicos isn’t in my budget atm 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 05:09 PM
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I love my nieces so much I’m a bit concerned about how much I’ll love my own children. I don’t know if I can handle any more love!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 10:45 AM
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kids are genuinely amazing. It’s so cool to re experience the world from a more innocent point of view. What must they think of this world? I would love to know. It is so interesting watching them slowly become more self aware. But I think you’ve got to be the kind of person that appreciates this in the first place. If not then I can see why that is not a big draw when it comes with sleep deprivation and screaming toddlers and nappies and no freedoms
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 10:44 AM
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I’m still friends with my bff from high school cos I offered her chewing gum in a maths lesson. It’s easy to be friends with women too
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 10:31 AM
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Imo for someone else’s expenses is serious relationship territory and done because the team benefits from it. In the early stages of a relationship you’re two individuals getting to know each other, everybody should be supporting themselves. The cooking and gifts is fine if she’s reciprocating. I get the feeling she’s not though so final decision: simping
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 10:12 AM
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We live in a society that doesn’t shame pre-marital sex. Guys want to have sex. If a guy has been unable to have sex he wants when it’s so freely available must have something up with him. Girl math.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 09:46 AM
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I was just trying to be concise all I meant is you’re not shamed for premarital sex these days
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:59 AM
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Then how do men ever have sex in the first place? They too were a virgin at one point. I don’t disagree that sexual prowess is more valued in men than women but personally i think my answer is the right one. Out of 4 billion women, not a single one wanted to sleep with you by 30? Something wrong with you there. I think it’s the same for men. Yes virginity is valued, but only in younger women imo. I think older female virgins have a stigma against them too. “Why has nobody wanted a serious relati…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 02:40 AM
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I think it depends on the guy. Like if he parties, really sociable, good at flirting and seemed like he was trying to get me into bed then yeah I’d think he was chatting shit. But if he’s a quieter type or religious or seemed more genuine and was wanting to take it slow then I could believe him.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 01:23 AM
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Maybe not sex positive, I just meant that in general you won’t get shamed for premarital sex like in the past Women on this sub say sex is for procreation only daily? Haven’t seen that at all
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 12:36 AM
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20-22? Nah you still got time. I don’t think it is abnormal for a 21 yo to not have had sex. I think you could still use the “I’m waiting for the right one” angle at that age and it would be endearing to some girls
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 12:34 AM
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I don’t disbelieve those women. I do think those women are 100x more likely to come online and complain about it than women in happy relationships. Nobody wants to hear about how great your husband is, everybody is drawn to negative news and stories. The negative feedback loop is so real though especially with the TikTok algorithm. I like one video on a new topic suddenly i get 5 more videos about that topic I’ve never seen before so if you engage in shitty relationship content then you’ll get m…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 09:44 PM
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I think tats is polarising. I like them but know a lot of women that hate them! But agreed popular with girls who like tradies
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 09:01 PM
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The way gaslighting has been morphed into meaning plain old lying is crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 09:00 PM
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Yeah. It’s like “well… why?” in such a secular, sex positive culture, why haven’t you had sex? Between 16-26, you haven’t had one woman be interested in you? Not a short fling or a serious relationship? Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 08:54 PM
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lots of fangirling for those guys over on the love island subreddit
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 08:50 PM
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Moreso that people will diagnose others with it “My husband forgot it was mother’s day” “He may have adhd” Get a grip
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 08:43 PM
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I think they’re different sorts of people but yes I agree more women like muscular men than not, and the popularity of alternative body types is overblown on Reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 08:37 PM
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do your friends for free to practice. My girl started doing builder gel nails during lockdown and used to practice on us. Now she charges £45 for a plain set and is fully booked for weeks. Try it!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 08:35 PM
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Things I no longer believe in due to how overused they are online: narcissism, gaslighting, abuse, bpd, autism, adhd Someone can do ONE cunty thing and be accused of all these things. Sometimes people just do shitty things. It really does not mean they are a gaslighting narcisstic abuser. I’m so sick of these words
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 08:32 PM
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You learn something everyday! Tbf it could be confirmation bias or something? Maybe I just noticed more Chinese women. It was so common to see either a boy and girl Chinese pair or a large group of Chinese girls, but hardly ever a group of Chinese boys. Could always tell they were internationals by their fits lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 08:24 PM
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That’s so high but I thought she was a porn star? Seems low for a porn star
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 08:14 PM
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Not in general, people like what’s familiar to them. It’s when people start spouting off negative stereotypes as a reason for not liking others that it’s thinly veiled racism
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 08:12 PM
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Are rich young immigrants mostly male? I never noticed a gender imbalance in international students. I was an international students and I’m a woman. In fact I would say the Chinese international students at my uni were mostly female
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 07:56 PM
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Being realistic is good, no? Guys constantly go on about how they will sleep with girls they’d never commit to. They’re probably just protecting themselves from pump and dumps I think it’s good for guys too. I think looks can be a toss up because you never know she may actually be attracted to you. But if she’s a high flyer, materialistic, trips to Turks and Caicos kinda gal whereas you live a more modest lifestyle better to not bother
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 07:52 PM
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No, depends on each person. Some women like getting to know you more maybe months or years, some just want to set a time and location straightaway. Sometimes even the women who like to get to know you may be feeling adventurous and be down for drinks that night if you caught them in the right mood. I feel for guys that they don’t know which kind of women is which. On dating apps I like to chat for 2-3 days before setting up a date but I’ve also gone on spontaneous dates because I was bored No. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 07:44 PM
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Like a guy for his job and status - hypergamy Don’t like a guy for his job and status - inferiority complex Can’t win
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 07:27 PM
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I don’t even think my brothers use it I send them stupid AITA and they’re like why r u always sending me these dumb stories lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 06:19 PM
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I googled how to attract men and got Smile. TODAY. ... Don't hide in the corner. Stay away from hiding yourself in the corner, with furniture or plants. ... Ask for his help. ... Talk about your hobbies. ... Don't dress for your girlfriends. ... Look him in the eye. ... Avoid the obvious. ... Go out alone or with one other friend Like these aren’t wrong but doesn’t address what men really want from us.. to be sexy
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 03:42 PM
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Lmaooo fair enough bro 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 09:24 AM
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Sorry are you sleeping with multiple women and using their std status as a way to check your own std status? 🤦🏾‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 08:40 AM
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Yeah I ask about exclusivity on the 3rd/4th date. I’m sure I’ve ran a few guys off with this but I’m not really interested in people who are indecisive like that. It’s not a marriage proposal, all it’s saying is can we focus on each other right now. If you have one date a week, and phone calls and texting through the week, a month is about enough time to decide if you want to see where it goes. If I haven’t won him over with my amazing personality in a month, then I never will. Ta-ra!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 08:24 AM
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I think OF falls into the same murky waters of personal responsibility vs addiction, like drug addiction and gambling. Yes, unfortunate circumstances brought you there and there is an element of biology (some people are more naturally prone to addiction), but ultimately nobody held a gun to your head and made you pay for porn/take drugs/go to a casino. I think where you personally fall on the scale of personal responsibility influences your feelings on the matter a lot. As someone who has taken …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 08:00 AM
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I don’t anybody that uses Reddit except for me. It’s not popular in my demographic. I do sometimes feel like an alien here
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 07:50 AM
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Very easy. I often get into long conversations with strangers on the bus or train. I think I have a face that people can tell their deepest secrets to lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 07:40 AM
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Don’t you see why it’s an issue to be so flippant about a serious matter by reducing it to quips like “she’s not yours it’s just your turn”? Do you actually think abusive men will be in any way moved by that? Those men are broken, damaged people themselves and have way more work to be done than thinking “she’s not yours it’s just your turn” . It’s just not a topic for a silly little internet sub imo
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 06:55 AM
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“It hasn’t happened to me so it can’t be real” there’s no way you can be an adult and be this self absorbed
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 06:51 AM
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I prefer PPD topics about silly things like n count and passport bros because this sub continuously has the worst takes on serious matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 06:49 AM
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Im sorry you folded like that I know what u mean about embarrassing. I am sooo glad I never did that - straight into the notes app!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 06:47 AM
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Ohh I agreed with ur premise but I think trimmed is better
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 06:46 AM
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If you are struggling and she is truly a good partner she should be understanding and take on more of the financial responsibilities, no? this is normal for most men And it shouldn’t be. every single SAHM are spending a minimum while chilling They aren’t earning money so obviously they are spending a minimum. There is no money to spend 😂 sahm/provider dynamics agreed on that dynamic and hopefully it works for them. My sister is a SAHM, she does not have her own income so how can she contribute f…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 08:02 PM
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Anything 4+ is great, probably don’t want too big either though. Tbh I think it’s bottom on my list of priorities for sex. As long as it’s not too small we can get cracking
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 07:39 PM
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I’m ecstatic you never went through with that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 07:25 PM
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Not mad at it, it sounds pretty benign. Never tell anyone that in real life though 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 07:21 PM
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I’m sorry, it feels like abusers and other bad people never get their comeuppance and they’re too delusional to realise they are the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 07:20 PM
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I think we’ve all done that before. The guy I’m dating is really into safari animals… guess who has suddenly become a safari animal expert?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 07:18 PM
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Oh that’s strange. I thought americans had the same primary care provider that they always saw? (Im assuming you’re American). I know the name of the doctor I’m assigned to but we always get whoever is available. my kid’s friends are at the house all the time That’s the worst thing, my friends WERE always at my house and vice versa 😂 she would talk to them not knowing their name.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 05:11 PM
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This is a safe space ya’ll. What’s the most down bad over a guy/girl you’ve ever been? I’ll start. I used to have to pass my ex’s house to get to work. So of course I would peep to see if his car was outside or not. During one of our off periods, one night I finished work really late and his car wasn’t there so I was like where tf is this boy🤔🤔 so I parked up and waited till he got home. I was there for like a couple hours like an idiot. When he pulled up I got out and we had an argument then ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 05:01 PM
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Cmon sitting there not eating anything instead of asking for the right meal is pathetic. And then he’s gonna pay for the meal he didn’t want and didn’t eat? Ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 04:15 PM
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Don’t worry, there are still plenty of low self esteem or toxic women to use push pull game on
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 04:04 PM
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Yeah I think a relationship should be as fair as possible, and you make each other’s lives better as far as you can. Why would you completely ignore dis balance in other areas? The responsibilities all affect each other. For example if both partners work a typical 9-5 but one contributes 70% of the finances I would definitely try to do more domestically. If one partner has a 9-5 and pulls in 70% but the other partner works 12 hour shifts I think the 9-5er should do more domestically. Waiting for…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 04:03 PM
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I won’t yuck your yum! OP said moving together though which would be quite far into the relationship to me
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 03:09 PM
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Fair. It works for you that’s what matters. I personally don’t feel the need to point out other hot guys to guys
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 12:36 PM
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Oh no
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 12:11 PM
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Not knowing their doctor and dentist implies that they never go to their appointments I think friend’s names are less important? I’ve had the same friends for 13 years and my mum only started being able to tell them apart a few years ago. I think she thought we’d grow apart so didn’t bother to learn who they were then when she realised they were sticking around she was like oh better get to know them lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 11:36 AM
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Dance at home. I’m literally always dancing, even to no music. Squat on your tiptoes, whine your waist or bounce or twerk, try different rhythms, just have fun with it. It’s a fun workout!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 11:11 AM
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I mean I like a guy who can handle himself but I’ve never understood the whole bad boy thing. Bad boys are scary or embarrassing. I can look past selling weed on the side while you’re in uni, but being 21+ and still running drugs is soo embarrassing. It’s so easy to make money legally and you’re doing drop offs? Yuck. Having gone to prison is scary and embarrassing. Being addicted to heroin is embarrassing. Face tattoos can be cute but are a sign of poor choices. Why tf are people dating these g…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 11:05 AM
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No. I think expenses should be balanced proportionally. I think it’s sooooo weird for one partner to be spending the majority of their income and struggling whilst the other partner spends a minimum and is chilling. Does the couple stop going out towards the end of the month because one partner can’t afford it, when the other could take both of them out? Does one partner have no savings because they’re spending all their money on bills whilst the other has lots to fall back on? I personally coul…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 08:06 AM
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I’m not white
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 07:38 AM
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Something sporty but preferably football
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 11:54 PM
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Leave your phone round me I’m going through it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 11:04 PM
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A man: pleaseeeeeeeeeee have sex with me The same man when she has sex with him: you dirty whore Insane
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 08:35 PM
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The post about finding pictures online😭😭 true romance, hoping your wife has been a victim of revenge porn
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 08:04 PM
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More power to em. I don’t think the women in these scenarios are as naive and oppressed as some people make them out to be. They’re not stupid. She gets a financially stable guy, he gets a pretty woman. It’s the way the world has always worked
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 08:02 PM
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Toilets in schools are designed for little humans! Simpler locks, shorter toilet bowls and higher cleaning standards (I hope) whereas public bathrooms are for adult women and harder to use for a 4yo. I think it’s better to be safe than sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 07:00 PM
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When have guys calle other guys ugly? In recent memory 2 guys have posted their faces and all of the comments were positive. In fact Im starting to think a lot of guys here are delusional about their appearance but negatively. They think they’re ogres when they’re just regular looking
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 06:57 PM
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It’s not that he’s not attractive or anything I just think there are quite a few guys more attractive than him. His body is one of the ideals for sure but facially I think I often see guys as attractive as him or more in certain places
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 06:50 PM
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I was thinking top 30
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 06:34 PM
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Nahhh I don’t think a 4 year old should bathroom by herself. Toilets are super messy and i don’t really want to bet on a child’s hygiene practices. What if all the toilets need a wipe before using?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 06:24 PM
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Would people say he is top 1/5/10% of men his age?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 06:05 PM
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I see way more attractive men at uni than in porn lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 04:25 PM
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I think it really depends on culture. Caribbean men are well known in the black community for being EXCELLENT cooks and African men are either completely inept in the kitchen or Michelin star chefs. Idk why European and American men tend to be less domestic when they come from a more egalitarian culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 03:16 PM
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That’s interesting. What does the gay man’s gaze entail if you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 02:57 PM
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He sounds lovely, I am so happy for you :) I hope a guy like him is out there waiting for me! I agree that tallying and ensuring an equal 50/50 is not necessarily the goal, but having a partner that has your back and you both improve each other’s lives is. The friends in question don’t really have that. The laundry and dishes would be left waiting for them after they pumped. Or they get both kids ready whilst boyfriend has a lie in every weekend. His gym routine is more important than hers etc. …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 02:56 PM
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he could die after the baby is born and you still will be on your own I think I’d be a bit more understanding of my husband not contributing to family life because he was dead than if he just couldn’t be bothered you may weigh the risks and take them or leave them Of course. I will still discuss it in the meantime.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 02:51 PM
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Haven’t heard of it. In fairness when I do partake I watch women so maybe I don’t know what I’m talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 01:47 PM
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Because I want kids? Is that crazy?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 01:19 PM
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I’ll agree that they’re fit, disagree they’re above average facially and agree about age. A lot of times they don’t even show the man’s face. I just checked the pornhub front page and all the men’s heads were cut off, like that’s supposed to do anything for me. Every girl dreams of having sex with a headless man😍❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 10:29 AM
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I’m ngl logically I know men like you do exist and I’ve met you, but anecdotally it does seem like once children are born the child rearing and homemaking just becomes the mother’s job. Even the partners who WERE super egalitarian to begin with have slowly and slowly let home become the mother’s domain. Bearing in mind all of my friends who are mothers still work and contribute financially (some more than 50/50!). I think when maternity leave ends perhaps couples struggle to go back to a more eq…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 08:13 AM
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It’s not that we think all men are capable of being violent. It’s that you don’t know WHICH ONE IS UNTIL HE DOES IT. If I offered you a plate of cookies but said two or three of them are poisoned, would you still take the chance? Or just avoid eating completely?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 08:06 AM
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Wow you learn something every day. Although they’re also ugly facially do drugs affect that too
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 07:56 AM
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The men in porn are so ugly Omg. It will be the cutest girl and some dusty man
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 01:43 AM
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OK I’m intrigued. I was imagining a warm mayo sauce for the broccoli 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 12:08 AM
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Allll of them? There were 7 of us in this convo. And I wouldn’t say I have a particularly spontaneous desire either I usually initiated after cuddling or something
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 11:58 PM
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Mayo on broccoli 🤔 I am a mayo fiend but I haven’t heard of this one sir
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 11:54 PM
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This but dead serious 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 11:51 PM
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Well they’re in long term relationships and their boyfriends keep initiating so it can’t be all bad 🤷🏾‍♀️ of course I don’t know what their bfs are thinking but I do know people put up with bad behaviour if they find their partner attractive enough. They’re hot enough to get away with never initiating we talk about sex a lot (clearly lmao) and from what they say they’re not passive once it gets started. One of my friend says she is on top 70% of the time which I found wild
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 11:37 PM
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I guess it is a leap of logic but I feel like it’s a factor. I do initiate when I want to the conversation just made me think Reply to edit: nah not that some of them are more degenerate than me lmaoo
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 11:34 PM
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No. I wanted to do it, but for some reason I’m different to other girls I know. I’m just pondering why.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 11:30 PM
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We twinninnngg. I felt so embarrassed saying that I initiate 😶‍🌫️
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 11:20 PM
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chicken in a white wine mushroom sauce with roast or mash potatoes and garlic tenderstem broccoli is my go to romantic meal :)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 11:12 PM
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Sometimes I still feel like a little fat girl inside. I was talking to my friends the other day and they all said they never initiate sex with their boyfriends. I do, sometimes. Little things like that remind me that even tho I’m more attractive now my behaviour is different because I didn’t grow up hot. If I had always been hot I would never have had to initiate
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 11:07 PM
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Fair enough. I truly don’t think the number of men willing to get plastic surgery is significant enough that every woman should tell guys what they really don’t like about them
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 08:52 PM
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Okay but it seems like you already know what women like. So why do you need a girl to tell you you’re not tall enough or muscular enough? Hit the gym
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 08:51 PM
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he didn’t get a chance to be loved despite it Obviously I don’t know the ins and outs of their relationship but you can totally be in love with someone without being sexually satisfied, so he could very well be loved. do you think he would have continued that relationship Probably not but coulda woulda shoulda. He can’t go back 12 years. But for 12 years he’s felt loved (i assume), does that not count because she was unsatisfied in bed (and for all we know he may be great with his tongue and fin…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 08:48 PM
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I get the feeling that you don’t think she can truly be in love with him when she’s not sexually satisfied. Am I understanding right?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 08:36 PM
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What if every girl gives a different answer tho? Are you going to go under the knife based on the whims of a small sample of girls? Can you even afford that? Is it feasible? But fair enough. Personally I don’t need some random guy pointing out my flaws. I know them well myself
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 08:21 PM
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I don’t really see the point. If I don’t like your nose, me telling you that is only going to make you feel shitty. And I’m not the arbitrator of what is attractive, there will be other women who like your nose so what does anybody gain from me saying it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 08:13 PM
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I think if I had a deformity or was hella ugly or something I would be okay that someone loved me despite that. It would definitely hurt to hear and it would SUCK knowing they thought I was hideous. But idk I think being willing to have a life together is more important than being sexually desired. And if I was that ugly who’s to say I would find that again? I don’t think he should do it for the sake of the family, I mean to say sometimes you just have to take what you can get. It sucks but why …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 07:35 PM
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Lol okay good luck trying to sell “we will only have sex to procreate” to anyone. If any woman said that she’d be dumped immediately Like I said, he should stay with her. If what he wants is a relationship where he satisfies her with his penis, that will probably take a long long time to find
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 07:16 PM
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Butterfaces?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 07:05 PM
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In the grand scheme of things it’s trivial but when it comes to Intercourse penis size is quite important, no? The mechanism of sex requires there to be some length and it will be hard to find someone genuinely satisfied vaginally without it. I just googled it and a micropenis is 3.67 inches and under so technically op has a micro which is sad
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 07:03 PM
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But that’s the issue imo. He will probably never find someone who is satisfied by his penis. Even for women who don’t particularly care about size I think 3.5 is rather small and he will probably always have to make up for it in other ways. He has however found a woman who loves him and wants a Life with him. What she said was horrible and she should have taken that to the grave but if she otherwise treats him well then he may as well stay with her. What are the chances he’ll find another woman …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 06:41 PM
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You just stick it up there? Mental
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 05:14 PM
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i always bring my own when I go to mainland Europe for that reason! No applicator is hell especially near the end and it doesn’t go up as easily
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 12:40 PM
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Whenever invented paper applicators hates women and vaginas
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 11:08 AM
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Sports therapists everywhere scratching their heads at this one
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 10:52 AM
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Everything is so calorific if you don’t count you don’t really know how much you’re eating tbh. I can see why people think it’s obsessive because it’s not the norm but if I don’t count I WILL overeat
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 08:21 AM
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Probably
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 07:15 AM
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I love the people with a tag line. (19-21) and godspeed and good luck! are hilarious to me
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 07:05 AM
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I think it’s an issue when alllll of someone’s exes were monsters. Like how can every single person you’ve dated be abusive, narcissistic, red flags etc. You’re either the problem or have a terrible picker and either way I don’t want to be involved
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 06:38 AM
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Are they not referring to the book Why Men Love Bitches? The title is provocative and a bit misleading but the book describes what you’re saying, that men respect someone with boundaries rather than women they can walk all over. It’s not really about bitches in the normal sense - mean, back stabbing, bitchy
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 06:11 AM
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!!!! Thank you. They don’t realise they’re contributing to the fake accounts problem
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 06:45 PM
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Men in relationships not being allowed to go shirtless is news to me 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 06:31 PM
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Only thing I’d tell my daughter to do different is to cut men off quicker than her stupid mama does 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 05:54 PM
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I don’t get it. Some girls see pretty TikTok influencers and cry but it just makes me bust my ass in the gym even harder
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 05:00 PM
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What were the highlights of your king treatment? Always looking for new ideas to make my man feel like the man™️
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 03:17 PM
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once you experience it you really can’t go back to guys treating you regular
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 01:53 PM
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Thats a classic. No need to make fun, just be like “Omg your hands are sooo big/small”.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 12:53 PM
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Yeah I’m an engineer and when I did a placement most of the guys were normal. Sure some were on the on the nerdier/quiet side but it was a nice team, good atmosphere, we had fun. There wasn’t any weirdos imo and all of the senior engineers and managers were married. The guys on placement were also dating or had a girlfriend. I definitely think the incel problem is more concentrated in maths/physics/CS, maybe electrical engineering. Mechanical/chemical/industrial/aerospace engineers do fine in my…
/r/AllPillDebate24/09/23 11:36 AM
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I’d say 5’6 is where its a REAL problem. Handsome and 5’7/5’8 will do well
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 09:04 AM
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I think there are a few reasons. 1) they genuinely don’t think he’s a bad looking guy. I think most people can agree on who is extremely good looking but I think there is SO MUCH variation in opinion in the 4-6 range. Have you ever been with a friend who thinks the ugliest gremlin you’ve seen is “kinda cute”? or had a friend rip into your crush because they think they’re hideous? I dont think it’s impossible that there are people out there who think the guys in question are attractive. That tind…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 08:46 AM
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Yes. Not horribly so but I generally have an ache. I kinda like it though
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 08:20 AM
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Ehh a big hurt never killed anybody 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 07:13 AM
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I know neither of us are trying to change minds but we just really like each other and the incompatibility friggin sucks. Not going to wait to fall in love. Thank you 🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 07:13 AM
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Maybe I’ll just trap him before the vasectomy aha x ( this is a joke)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 11:39 PM
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It’s soooooo overblown on Reddit. “Women don’t want to be approached in the supermarket/bar/gym/coffee shop/park/anywhere outside!” excuse me speak for yourself. They really think they speak for every woman but I suspect a lot of them are more anxious/introverted/reserved than the average woman. Soon they will say dont approach women on dating apps lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 11:09 PM
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He’s a weird one cos he has some good traits but there’s just something off about him which is why he’s so controversial. He looks good in some photos but horrible in others. His eyes are really bad. Objectively a 6 I guess. But not cute to me at all
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 11:06 PM
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tired of men pretending status doesn’t affect them. Amy poehler is widely regarded as not the most attractive of women and annoying but there’s a lot of men that will hate-fuck her BECAUSE she’s Amy poehler. It’s not as intense in men as it is in women but it’s there Anecdotally there’s a girl I went to college with who went on a rap battle show that’s quite popular. Saw her once and said hi congratulated her blah blah and she was telling me how sooo many guys we knew messaged her after she went…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 06:42 PM
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I’m not sure. Do you have any youth-focused churches around you? There was one that recruited at my uni and was very popular. They were a bit cult-y but it was really full the one time I went. A LOT of people my age are converting to Islam. Are other abrahamic faiths a dealbreaker?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 06:36 PM
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You’re right but that SUCKS
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 06:22 PM
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That’s the energy I like!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 03:32 PM
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If I want to go to the cinema and you don’t isn’t it up to me to convince you to go to the cinema? I understand it’s not fair but we’ll have to take that up with Mother Nature
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 11:21 AM
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Deffo don’t think I can change his mind Im not delulu like that and he’s getting a vasectomy anyway he’s just such a gem otherwise I don’t want to let him go. But I have to you’re right :(
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 11:15 AM
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I’ve never met one before!! I am as shocked as you are. Out of alllll the child-wanting men in the world what are the chances i meet a child free man?!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 11:12 AM
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I know I knowwwww. Can’t I just be stupid for a couple more months?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 10:58 AM
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I respect it !
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 10:58 AM
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He’s getting a vasectomy in November so I’m pretty sure he’s firm in his decision 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 10:55 AM
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Hard no :/
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 10:55 AM
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30 :/
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 10:54 AM
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Will do :(
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 10:53 AM
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For me it’s the opposite. Contraception is too high a price to pay for raw sex. It’s nice and all but I haaaate bleeding and everybody I know who went on all types of contraception had fucked up bleeding patterns for months. It’s a no from me
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 10:00 AM
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Ahhhh im so sad. The guy I’m dating who is amazing so far doesn’t want kids. BOOOOOO
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 09:57 AM
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Bloody hell six months?! I’m an advocate for waiting but what do you take me for, a saint??
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 05:56 PM
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I think sexless is masquerading as undesirable in these conversations. A married man who is having sporadic sex after his wife gave birth is sexless by this definition, but surely we’re not talking about that kind of guy right?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 05:51 PM
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Why spend mine when I can spend yours
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 05:58 PM
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No offence but isn’t your man an alcoholic? I don’t think he’s a normal 40 odd year old
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 05:25 PM
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I’d ask them how does that benefit me in any way 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 05:24 PM
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I asked the guy I’m dating and he said he was thinking of it that morning and at least weekly. I find this hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 04:22 PM
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i think expectations of men 15-30 years ago when these women were dating were rock bottom. I don’t think men have been expected to partake in homemaking until the last 10ish years. It was amazing if they did, but it was normal if they didn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 03:58 PM
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Fair enough maybe she got that dawg in her. I would feel extremely self critical if a guy didn’t nut in 45 minutes
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 06:38 AM
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It’s better to not have to go on first dates in the middle of winter and maybe exchange little Christmas gifts and go to the Christmas market together 🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 06:37 AM
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You made her feel like her head game was weak. 45 minutes the first time giving head? No thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 06:22 AM
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My parents always said if he can slap you he can kill you
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 06:16 AM
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Eh. They’ll get over it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 10:12 PM
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It’s cuffing season baby
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 10:05 PM
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many men would care about their daughter in such a relationship. So they do care, just only when it affects them
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 09:08 PM
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The ol’ “my ex is an evil hag who won’t let me see my children”. 9 times out of 10 they don’t even ask to see them
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 07:06 PM
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Everybody I know in real life frets about their weight constantly. People at work are always stopping and starting diets. They may not be doing it right but the desire to lose weight is there somewhere. Even most slim people I know aren’t happy with their body
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 06:37 PM
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Obsessed with them. I used to be shit scared of flying then I binged all the air crash investigation docs and I’m cool now
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 06:28 PM
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My interest in planes I guess? I watch all those airplane crash investigations and listen to ATC recordings but other than that I’m pretty normie
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 06:05 PM
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I don’t understand what you’re saying either hahaha paper abortions would be before a child’s birth But the OP says that abolishing no fault divorce would somehow end the need for paper abortions. I’m not understanding the link between the two.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 01:34 PM
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So husbands would preemptively abandon any future children they agree to? Sorry I’m not following. OP mentions banning no fault divorce being as a solution, which implies that the state of the marriage has any bearing on whether a father should support his child or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 01:25 PM
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This is just my own experience but there have been hundreds of guys I thought were cute and would have been open to talking to but didn’t approach because I don’t like approaching. I do think only the cream of the crop get approached, and only by a subset of women. There are probably a couple of women out there who think you’re cute but won’t say anything ever
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 01:22 PM
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Are the women you’re asking unattractive to you? I assume you want to sleep with them for a reason. Is that reason only valid for you and not women?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 01:16 PM
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Weird. My dad wouldn’t be happy if I was dating a man 10+ years my senior and I’m sure a lot of other fathers wouldn’t either
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 01:10 PM
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also divorce does not force you to abandon your child Exactly!!! Why would a father want paper abortion just because they’re getting divorced? Why is marriage in this conversation at all? I assume most married couples agree on having a child in the first place. You don’t get to abandon your duties to your child just because you’re not with the mother
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 01:09 PM
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Relatable. I made enough yesterday so I don’t have to cook again today. Work smart not hard
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 09:54 AM
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femboy Well yeah, this is atypical. It’s like being confused when men say they like long hair, but they don’t like butch women with long hair I love long hair but not the Viking look. Floppy, longer than average hair like leo dicaprio in titanic. Or braids/twists/locs.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 09:07 AM
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Come over xxx
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 09:03 AM
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I think 2 and 3 happen a lot but obvs from the guy’s perspective it just seems like she used you for dinner and dipped
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 07:00 AM
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I’m sure there’s a couple guys I have dated who would say I’ve done a foodie call, but that is never my intention. We go get dinner, they pay, but I don’t want to see them again. I offer to split but they dont always accept and I’m not going to argue about it. If they don’t accept my second offer then that’s their loss lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 06:59 AM
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Not really. I have a couple of friends whose man pays for everything because he’s rich but not because they wanted a traditional man™️ and none of us have high opinions of sex workers tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 10:45 PM
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Not really. I have a couple of friends whose man pays for everything because he’s rich but not because they wanted a traditional man™️ and none of us have high opinions of sex workers tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 10:43 PM
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Love it wbu? A friend tried teaching me how to make it once but I was never able to recreate it without her there :/
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 09:24 PM
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If he let me completely control what he wears and everything about him, then sure. His actual facial features are pretty nice but they’re wrapped in a nerdy, unsexy package. A makeover, a year in the gym and a different vibe and I would be into him
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 07:33 PM
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They snapped when they made mayo!! You’ll have to pry mayo from my cold dead hands
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 06:33 PM
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Thanks! I hateeee washing up so I do everything I can to reduce the amount of dishes to wash
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 06:26 PM
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Right?! Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 06:14 PM
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Mayo pasta too
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 06:14 PM
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cacio e pepe used to be the go to meal when we were high 😂 Ive never had it witj more stuff sounds really good
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 06:06 PM
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It’s so easy! If you can make bolognaise you can make lasagna. I buy a jar of white sauce tho I wouldn’t attempt making my own hahah
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 06:01 PM
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Broccoli cheddar bake sounds amazing
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 06:00 PM
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What meal today
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 05:55 PM
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Come over I got plenty spare 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 05:55 PM
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Sounds great! Can you make your own lasagna?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 05:54 PM
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I’ll take that
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 05:51 PM
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You never have one pot meals?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 05:51 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/irce9ck619pb1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=f4a8555ae2c22e890c508a66e5d3b8bcc123e2d8 whats for dinner folks? Pretty pleased with myself today 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 05:41 PM
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Oh ok. Would it somehow be better if you knew the guys she slept with were mid too? I don’t necessarily believe that she went for the objective top of the top either. I would bet my left tit that what she considers a 10/10 is not what I consider a 10 and vice versa
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 07:11 PM
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Its weird how they complain about women simultaneously being too picky but also being hoes. She fucked 7 guys, how many is she supposed to sleep with? That’s more than enough for a lifetime already. Even if she swiped right on everyone she saw, she can’t sleep with all of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 06:01 PM
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I need them to prescribe ozempic for vanity pounds. Losing the last 10-15lbs is way harder than being morbidly obese and losing 10lbs
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 05:53 PM
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Spill the tea. Where’s the date? What you wearing?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 09:33 AM
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I’m not gonna tell the guy I like that his singing is crap. If your family and friends are usually honest with you I’d believe them
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 08:38 AM
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Any really. Can’t be bothered dealing with all that tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 07:00 AM
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Tbh tho the girls at the university library are usually the same ones at the club. Most women in uni partied AND studied
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 06:56 AM
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he even names all of his online burner accounts after this woman We all just ignoring this part or…?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 12:40 AM
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That monk drip 😍 https://www.google.com/search?sca_esv=566137046&rlz=1CDGOYI_enGB874GB874&hl=es&sxsrf=AM9HkKmAJaY4pA7L8lXy354USHiiKxap9w:1694991750705&q=monk+hairstyle&tbm=isch&source=lnms&sa=X&ved=2ahUKEwiVr8qp4LKBAxUmcfEDHRS-Bb8Q0pQJegQICxAB&biw=414&bih=720&dpr=2#imgrc=K4jeq2a90vZAaM
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 11:03 PM
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short on the sides longer on top haircut 🤣🤣 in our defence it’s hard to find a guy 18-30 who does NOT have this haircut. It’s the default hairstyle for men
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 11:53 AM
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Can’t believe that we have to screen for that during dating “you’re cute and all but do you truly understand in the event of pregnancy/major surgery my vagina will have to close shop for a while?“
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 08:55 AM
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The deadbedroom sub is in general people actually suffering in a relationship But on the odd occasion there’ll be a poster like “help! Me and my wife used to have sex 4x week and now we haven’t had it in 4 months… btw my wife just gave birth/had a complete hysterectomy/is 65” like c’mon dude
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 10:45 PM
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Where you are maybe. Flights to mainland Europe are like £15 over here. Just found a flight to Gdańsk for £13 and I’m very tempted Also I love airplanes take off and landing are so much fun
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 10:41 PM
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I prefer the term fluffy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 10:30 PM
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Blast from the past, those are sooo good. I’m gonna make them! We call them cornflake cakes but choco crossies is so much more fun
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 09:17 PM
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Lol you think getting violated has anything to do with being attractive? All you need is a hole. The harsh truth is in dangerous times people do awful things. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nanjing_Massacre https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rape_during_the_Soviet_occupation_of_Poland https://www.npr.org/2022/04/30/1093339262/ukraine-russia-rape-war-crimes You don’t even need to be a woman either... Hope you’re confident in your fighting skills if this collapse of society ever happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 12:01 PM
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Not in a LTR but I’d say my last 2 exes were about the same level of attractiveness just in different ways. More attractive than my first boyfriend ha
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 10:14 AM
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I don’t think I know any women that would say no to the love of their life if he came knocking, but not everyone is actively searching for it or expecting it. Most of my friends are in LTR though so they’ve got it. I have 1 friend who has just exited a LTR and is only looking for sex right now. Couple of friends in stupid situationships. 2 friends who are off the back of LTR and aren’t interested in men at all at the moment. So women who are actively looking for love? Maybe like 30%. I think mos…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 09:49 AM
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Got kill ourselves in a catastrophic way so they can’t desecrate our dead bodies either. Terrible to think about.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 09:44 AM
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I was on the wait list for two years 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 09:33 AM
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What are the easiest goodies to start with? I even trip up with cookies :/
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 09:29 AM
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See I prefer cooking cos you can just do what feels right! But you’re right technically baking is easier and they turned out well. I’m going to try making sausage rolls next week
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 08:36 AM
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To be fair I got the idea off red pill women!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 08:34 AM
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I’ll be so real I thought I was just average before now I walk around with a pep in my step
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 08:30 AM
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Nope im a (British) city girl!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 03:17 PM
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Ty!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 03:16 PM
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Girl I used premade puff pastry 😂 I can’t handle dough
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 01:33 PM
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Ooo with some toasted pecans. I went for icing for simplicity though
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 01:32 PM
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Is the point of apps just to get matches or to actually date? If it’s just to get matches sure lie away but if you actually want to be successful at dating showing up 7 inches shorter isn’t the way to do it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 12:34 PM
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Baking cinnamon rolls for the guy I’m seeing tonight. I can’t bake so wish me luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 12:31 PM
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It’s just banter tbh. I don’t think it’s a good idea for anyone to take anything from here serious
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 12:04 PM
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I think you overestimate how much women care about trans people tbh. A lot of trans ally stuff is just virtue signalling and most women don’t actually care either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 08:31 AM
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Do you actually want to do anything or just complain. You’ve shot down nearly every idea in this thread. Is the only acceptable answer plastic surgery to you or what?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 11:34 PM
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Early-mid 20s, for women above 5 for men above 10
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 10:41 PM
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I’ve heard it irl, my brothers and their friends wouldn’t wife somebody ran through, as they put it. However I think the number is not as important as not having the public perception of a being a hoe. Like I think a lot of guys would prefer a girl with higher body count and not know about it, than a girl with a lower one but it’s all guys they know of. A lot of it is social pressure - they don’t wanna be known as the guy that wifed a hoe
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 10:39 PM
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That one day I’ll be old and grey and my husband will like younger biddies more. C’est la vie
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 10:31 PM
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Pros and cons. My ex was the only person I’ve dated from my country. It was great that he just understood all my family quirks that were weird to people not from a similar background. But also I was deeply embarrassed at the thought of meeting his family and not knowing how to make our main traditional food What about geomaxxing to countries near your home country? You look like everyone else but it’s acceptable that you can’t speak the language.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 08:05 PM
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Please don’t say that to anybody 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 07:48 PM
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I like them all tbh. Just not scraggly or long beards
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 07:46 PM
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Personally I’ve seen more male posters say they don’t talk to many women or have female friends than I have female users say they don’t know any men. I don’t think that’s being charitable
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 07:45 PM
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I disagree that I’m throwing respect, it’s just how I feel. I can’t change my feelings on it. My sympathy is capped, but it’s there. I understand what you mean and I’m not out here on the front line defending men’s issues nor am I trying to convince everybody we should do better as a form of solidarity, but that doesn’t stop me from understanding on a personal level. “Aw that’s sad. Anyway” basically
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 06:09 PM
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Eh, just cos they’re weirdos doesn’t mean I have to be the same. I’m not shedding tears for them but I can understand some issues. Saying I understand isn’t really people pleasing or not having a backbone.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 05:51 PM
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You say that as if men don’t have sex with women they find unattractive too. There are plenty of people who will have sex/be in a relationship with someone for reasons other than attractiveness. Physical attractiveness isn’t the be all and end all for some people. As above. Some people genuinely just don’t need someone to be really attractive to them to be in a relationship with them. That may be wrong to you, but that’s how they function. Conversely, the men in that study rated most women as so…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 02:52 PM
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So how would you describe bottom 20-40% if not ugly? Simply “below average” I think if you’re in the bottom 50% then you’re at least unattractive. Therefore, Unattractive men cheat on their partners all the time. Although I think we’re splitting hairs by distinguishing between ugly and unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 02:09 PM
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I get there are single moms who were left by their husbands, but that is a tiny minority of women Source most of them simply stopped taking birth control or using condoms with their boyfriends usually by mutual agreement because the couple both wanted a child kids without a father around When did “single mother” begin to solely mean women who had a child with a dead beat? Single mother includes divorced mothers and mothers who were in a LTR/cohabitating that have now split. Most situations the d…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 01:37 PM
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What is “ugly enough” ? Bottom 10% ? I’m not talking about literally deformed hideous people. But even below average men are in relationships and they cheat too. Go to any low income area. Plenty of unattractive, overweight people cheating on one another there.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 01:24 PM
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Complete nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 12:24 PM
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in defence of TRM they have a specific rating system that many of the commenters agree is not true to life. A lot of comments are like “5.6 based on the scale but subjectively an 8”. Of course they have their issues but it does what it says on the tin. Anybody posting there knows what they’re getting into.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 12:23 PM
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Nah cheating is a dealbreaker. It would be hard of course but I firmly believe if you forgive a cheater once, they know they can do it again with no repercussions. I think most cheaters are serial cheaters. I have never known someone to cheat and change in that same relationship. They may never cheat again on future partners, but they always cheat again on the partner that forgave them. That’s what I’ve seen at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 12:17 PM
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She lost me at texting him from sunrise to sundown. Ain’t no reason to be texting another man all day when you have a husband
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 12:13 PM
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I actually wonder where you guys live that you’ve never seen an ugly man cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 12:05 PM
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Well, I do value good men and want one for my own future husband and father. But if the state of dating is as you describe, then I have the advantage. I get my pick of good men, bad men, good dick etc. Why would I want to give that up? Men having an equal playing field doesn’t actually benefit me
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 12:01 PM
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Have you ever been on a council estate? Ugly poor people fuck all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 10:21 AM
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Not between colleagues but a teacher and teenage students? Only ever the girls as well
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 09:17 AM
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What’s in it for us?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 07:59 AM
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Maybe that’s what people say online but the reality is different ime. Most of the male teachers at my school were cool and no one accused them of anything. There was one teacher who was genuinely inappropriate (would give girls shoulder massages in lessons🥴) but that didn’t make anybody look at the other male teachers different, as far as I saw. There were quite a few male teachers that were well liked. I really don’t think many people care about men becoming high school teachers. Men in nursery…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 02:22 AM
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even if they find women later in life, they will resent those women for choosing them later How are you supposed to choose someone you haven’t met yet?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 02:17 AM
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Chatty, down to earth, expressive, outgoing, interested in the world in whatever capacity. Has a responsible and competent side though Not into inexpressive or cold guys. I’ll just think they hate me
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 02:14 AM
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I’m under the impression body composition is 80% diet 20% exercise. I might be wrong but that’s what most fitness resources say 🤷🏾‍♀️ I do work out regularly but I’m 5’3. I’ve seen a few women on subs like petitefitness share their exercise routine and the women that eat 2000+ calories work out an insane amount, even more than the average active person imo. Lots of muscle mass, hikes/running/climbing/etc every weekend, hours of exercise a day, physically demanding jobs etc. I exercise for fitnes…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 02:06 AM
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At least I’d understand if my man cheated on me with a baddie. If Rihanna puts it on him, I’d be like fair enough mate. But if he cheats on me with a mid hoe that’s just offensive
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 12:06 AM
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Oh god no 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 10:04 PM
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It’s extra weird that Harriet’s father publicly defended Mason and I guess behind the scenes encouraged Harriet to stay with him. Oowee, look what the money make a bitch do
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 09:45 PM
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Yeah I think most people have okay-ish faces. It’s quite rare to meet someone actively ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 09:43 PM
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I think when she first blew up she was well proportioned but definitely well overweight woman but if you’ve seen her recently she lost loads of weight and I think she’s a thicker fit woman now, although I wouldn’t be surprised if her BMI was still in the overweight range
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 09:34 PM
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Probably 1 or 2
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 09:15 PM
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You’re wondering if normal sized sliced bread is a 7 so it seems like you are impressed by it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 09:15 PM
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Not trying to defend it, just explain but it’s so much easier to get fat as a woman. Say you go to a restaurant, portions are large, the meal is 2500kcal. For most men that’s like 100-500kcal more than their daily required intake. For most women that’s 1000kcal more than our daily required intake. Binge eating is very common in this - it’s totally “normal” for one person to eat a sharing bag of crisps in one sitting but this is worse for women because again, it’s a larger percentage of our requi…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 09:13 PM
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You guys say stuff like this then wonder why women think they’re the best thing since sliced bread
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 08:59 PM
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You are around some really terrible relationships. I do think older generations are more likely to be in relationships with people they hate due to marriage being more of a social requirement when they were younger and fewer options, but young men these days have a lot more freedom to pick and choose who to be with. Maybe they don’t have a lot of options, but they don’t HAVE to be with someone they hate. but you got a pussy and that’s all you need to have How can you guys say this and then compl…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 08:57 PM
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I shouldn’t have said nothing in common - I think people can be very happy with someone they don’t have similar hobbies/interests/temperaments with. I really mean enjoy spending time. Most average men (and I mean actually average, not below average masquerading as average) will not seriously date someone they hate spending time with.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 08:54 PM
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It looks better down
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 08:39 PM
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No way he didn’t have other suitors so I assume he’s genuinely into her looks and likes her as a person I’m sure he knew the reaction he’d get from Reddit so posting it was weird. Stick to Facebook and insta
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 08:34 PM
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weird I was just thinking about this today. I want a strapless wedding dress but strapless does not suit me at all. But I hate sleeves and straps on wedding dresses. What a conundrum for future-me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 08:31 PM
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“Open book just ask”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 06:42 PM
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Imagine you worked really hard on a presentation and your manager was like yeah bro that’s cool and everything but this could’ve been an email. It’s not appreciating your efforts. Although I personally don’t take it so negatively. I think it’s just guys trying to be nice in their own clunky way. Nobody looks better with eye bags and an uneven skin tone 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 03:12 PM
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You guys have such low opinions of men. Lets say he doesn’t have many options, that still doesn’t mean he’ll date me. Are most average men really out here dating women they have nothing in common with, have no similar goals, don’t have fun with simply because she’s the only one who has come round recently? He’d date me if I didn’t want children and he did? If I was a nazi sympathiser? I truly don’t believe most average men are desperate enough to seriously date someone they don’t even like. Slee…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 10:32 AM
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You can be a hot soft girl. Ana de armas, Kirsten dunst, Selena Gomez, drew Barrymore. Without all the glitz and glam they are not particularly stunning. As long as u have a really nice body you’re good
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 08:30 AM
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You guys live in a fanciful world where people will be with someone just because they’re on their level, regardless of anything else. Just because I am a 5, does not mean a 5 man will automatically like me. Maybe he doesn’t like my political opinions. Maybe we don’t have the same priorities. Maybe he doesn’t like my voice. Maybe he thinks I’m annoying. He’ll still smash though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 08:07 AM
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It was a weather channel that only had sexy model-looking girls Was it like a soft porn channel or something? Or a reputable news channel? Because most news presenters, especially from less popular channels, are selected for physical attractiveness. I don’t understand the scenario you’re describing, sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 07:40 AM
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He’s not a serious person
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 07:26 AM
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I’d feel normal because that’s my usual routine
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 06:51 AM
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I don’t like breakfast foods or eating in a rush so I’d rather save my calories for meals I’ll actually enjoy. Plus I prefer to sleep in for an extra 15 minutes than get up and have brekkie
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 06:51 AM
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And women wouldn’t? I don’t want a play by play of all the times my man bent other women in half and made their legs shake either 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 06:29 AM
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Then dating is hard for shy, awkward men not heterosexual men in general. It would make sense that someone socially handicapped struggles with dating, a social activity. That is not the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 06:26 AM
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If most of us can make it work so can they
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 09:34 PM
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More attractive people attract more people. Most of us learnt this in high school
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 09:29 PM
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Become prettier
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 09:20 PM
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Thank you kind stranger
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 09:17 PM
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Yeah if a morbidly obese person told you they tried every diet in the world and eat 1200kcal a day and weren’t losing weight you’d conclude they were lying
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 07:44 PM
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Well if this place were to believed it’s impossible and men can’t get attention from even ugly women But when I look at my social circle, that just isn’t happening. Im sure getting casual sex is very hard for them (and even then they succeed) but dating in general? They’re doing just fine, if the volume of women they introduce me to is anything to go by. So idk what to tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 07:39 PM
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But are the women who aren’t into materialism putting a spotlight on themselves? Or are they just trucking along living their life? The people with the biggest reach on social media are the people who live glamorous life because they are more likely to post about it, are more superficial in general and their content gets a lot of engagement. Yes a lot of women do flock to those men, there are 4 billion women after all and if even 1% of women like that kind of guy that’s still 40 million women. B…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 07:28 PM
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Agreed I think we’re all a bit better behaved in mixed company
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 06:49 PM
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There are lots of different types of people. Is it so hard to believe some women are happy with a modest life? They just want to get by, aren’t materialistic and driven by consumerism, so they don’t need or want a man with excessive amounts money. There are other women who love the glitz and glam and want the high life with the fast cars and Michelin star hotels. These women love men with money. They are numerous but aren’t all women by any means. Different people prioritise different things. So…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 06:43 PM
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10+ years has been the best so far That’s the dream :) what do you do to keep the spark alive? Or is that overrated? The sparks are nice but when you feel completely comfortable with someone is even better imo
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 03:51 PM
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For every couple that hooked up on the first date and made it there’s 100 more that ghosted. Why take those chances Although I disagree that women created this culture. If we all stopped giving it up quickly, then guys would just lie more and for longer. Women arent the ones who made men want VaRiAtIoN
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 03:48 PM
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Yeah I think it’s one of those things where - if they like you it’s welcome. If they don’t like you, it’ll turn them off even more
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 03:45 PM
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Excuse you I had to work hard for this beautiful status. I used to be ugly af
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 02:46 PM
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Lol it is cringe but what’s a little cringe between partners! If you can’t be lovey dovey and gross with someone you’re dating then who can you be.. I guess that’s not everyone’s style though which is fair
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 02:37 PM
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Bro i just wanted specifics 😭 chimichurri? Peppercorn sauce? I’m partial to a mushroom sauce for my steak
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 02:08 PM
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maybe 1 or 2 passing thoughts 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 01:22 PM
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Yh yh! What you gonna do to that steak?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 01:11 PM
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He may very well be! It’s only been a few dates so I’m not planning the wedding yet anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 01:11 PM
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Gosh I’m so smitten. Early dating is the best. I got a morning beautiful text and I’ve been on cloud 9 all day. Hope youse are having a good day too🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 12:45 PM
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There’s no point. From dust we came, to dust we return… but you may as well enjoy the decline. Having children with someone you love will give you nice happy feelings and fill your days.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 12:43 PM
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I’m talking about just me tho. I dont have one night stands anyway. Other women may do ONS and be opposed to abortion, so they’d rather he have good genes It’s more about risk:reward ratio. With ONS it’s high risk: probably won’t cum, might get preggo, might get an STD. It’s high risk whether she sleeps with an attractive guy or an average/unattractive guy. There’s less reward in sleeping with an average/unattractive guy than with an attractive one
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 11:12 AM
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Yep !! They’re women after all
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 09:07 AM
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I always wonder about rich guys who can’t date. They must not be selling themselves well. If you’ve got money and can’t date you’re definitely doing something wrong because bitches love money
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 09:02 AM
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Neither option is ideal. I want someone who chooses me because he wants to not because I’m the best he can do ha. It doesn’t matter either way though. If I were to have a one night stand and get pregnant from it, I’d yeet that baby. I wouldn’t enter single motherhood willingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 09:00 AM
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But we have the same issue in the uk and crushing debt isn’t a problem for us. Student finance is more like a tax. You don’t have to pay it back until you earn 21k And the issue is specifically white working class men. Black and asian working class men go to uni and succeed in droves. Idk what it is
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 06:54 AM
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I’ve been to women only events and they’re fun but there’s no one to buy you drinks 🫤
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 06:51 AM
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Definitely need to cut out fizzy drinks :/ the bloat is so bad
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 06:36 AM
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I think it’s so annoying! It’s not actually helpful?! Nobody is walking around with a smile on their face 24/7 so “just smile” doesn’t actually help you look better in your neutral state
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 06:17 AM
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Yeah sure some people are way more objectively attractive than others but in my group of friends we hardly ever like the same guy. We can all agree on 1 or 2 guys being super attractive but we rarely ever fight over a man bc we like different guys
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 06:08 AM
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I like fake toxicity in a healthy relationship. Like starting silly petty arguments so the sex is better toxic, not literally derailing my life toxic
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 06:03 AM
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I can cook! I just do one meal a day which can be a bit tough some days
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 06:01 AM
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That’s what I want. I get that line on the outside after a good month but my tummy is still very soft. I want it to look rock hard like hers
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 10:21 PM
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Mood
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 10:13 PM
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alcohol is also part of the problem !!😫
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 10:07 PM
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But I need 2 cups of tea a day to feel content
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 10:02 PM
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But look how amazing she looks https://www.vogue.com/article/carrie-bradshaw-sex-and-the-city-crop-tops-18th-anniversary
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 10:02 PM
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Haha I’ve contoured my belly to see what it would look like but imagine how embarrassing it’d be if it wiped off halfway through the day
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 09:48 PM
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I got a friend like that. 9 years 2 kids. He had another 2 kids inbetween her first and second. He has a 3rd woman pregnant right now
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 09:35 PM
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I want a six pack but I like food too much 🫤
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 09:27 PM
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I’m dating him because I found him attractive and I found him funny. I’ve found guys below my league or less attractive than me attractive before
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 08:31 PM
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Let guys on here tell it, it is. I’ll try not to let random internet opinions affect my life too much though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 08:25 PM
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Honestly I don’t have patience for people like this. I know it’s not rational but If your anxiety is stopping you from doing normal stuff then get help “Brains are fickle” no you’re mentally ill!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 08:02 PM
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You should go to fauxmoi. They will definitely be having a meltdown over there
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 07:45 PM
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My rule is I don’t check my guy’s insta following. No siree. No point upsetting myself
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 07:29 PM
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That’s so sweet
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 07:26 PM
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My Spanish friends looove British guys I have no idea what they see but that’s what they like. They were huge one direction fans so that’s probably why
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 07:21 PM
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If you’re gonna have unsatisfying sex at the risk of pregnancy and STDs, he has to be hot as fuck at the very least
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 07:03 PM
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Guys they think are good looking, which is not always the same as conventionally attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 06:31 PM
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I think it’s bad for women too. I’m currently dating a guy who I’d say is a tad bit more attractive than me and I’m getting intrusive thoughts that he’s dating below his league, trying to plate me, isn’t taking me seriously etc despite the fact he’s been nothing but kind and gentlemanly to me so far. I fear I might self sabotage because of all this pill stuff. Dating was much easier and more fun when I was ignorant to all this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 06:27 PM
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Right? why would you even say this 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 06:13 PM
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Fuckin hell what a question
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 06:13 PM
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The romantic front is a different beast but friendwise, if your hobbies are solitary and you don’t want to try more social hobbies then I have little sympathy. People want to make friends whilst they sit at home by themselves - it’s just non sensical. I sew (not necessarily as a hobby I just want to get better at altering clothes) but I don’t expect to make friends doing it, because I’m home, alone, sewing. How could I make friends through that? should governments step in and create local sponso…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 08:44 AM
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By picking and choosing what works for my relationships, like most people
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 11:07 PM
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in so many couples you see guys who do drugs like fentanyl, heroine, cocaine and meth Honestly this just says more about the people you hang out with. I literally don’t know a single person that does fentanyl, heroin or meth.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 10:44 PM
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If that’s what you inferred okay but that’s not what I meant
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 10:33 PM
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Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 10:30 PM
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I’m here
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 11:32 AM
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I think everybody picks and chooses when to be traditional and when to not be. I like guys paying for most of our dates, but I also fully expect to be contributing to the household financially. I would like to be proposed to, but I also expect to be doing the majority of the child rearing. It would be great if he can do most of the handy stuff around the house, but I’m going to be the one cooking and cleaning and preparing at parties/Christmas/Easter etc. I’m happy to initiate sex, they just usu…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 10:00 AM
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Tbh I do feel like university educated women are shooting themselves in the foot by requiring a degree for their partner. There are so many ways to have a good career that don’t require a degree. However I do find that blue collar men are very culturally different from white collar men and that is something that puts them off. I have dated guys in trades and they are very “laddish” compared to guys that went to uni and did accounting or whatever. I’d also say there is a bit of social pressure. M…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 09:52 AM
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People just mad they’re excluded from someone else’s dating preferences. Either lower your standards or become your type’s type
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 09:39 AM
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Lol which demographic is a Stella? Latina?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 09:17 PM
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Yeah tends to be older fat white women that men with a stable income wouldn’t touch
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 09:17 PM
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I think discussing it is against the rules of the sub but it’s primarily women of a certain demographic looking for men of another demographic because there are stereotypes about that demographic that they are good in bed and have larger than average penises. These men are willing to have sex with these women for money or other payment, whereas generally US men aren’t (I assume, I’m not from the us but in the uk they aren’t and we’re somewhat culturally similar)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 09:09 PM
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Caribbean men?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 09:01 PM
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Most women aren’t getting 10k likes on a post, you’re thinking of influencers which most women are not
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 08:39 PM
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Lmao I understand the dislike of excessive caked on make up but why would guys hate an even complexion and long lashes?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 06:35 PM
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I specifically said “plenty of guys” which doesnt mean all men so idk where you got that from
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 10:56 AM
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So i believe the most men arent desirable to women thing came from a post on how when women are walking down the street we dont notice most men, whereas allegedly most men take notice of most women and are somewhat attracted to most women they see, or at least deem them fuckable. But the men we date are average because like we’re just average women. Contrary to popular belief, we do not all have hordes of athletes in our dms. Most people date regular people we meet at school work parties the gym…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 10:41 AM
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How do you remember them all?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 10:27 AM
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Where’s the part where you have fun and dance with your bros
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 10:21 AM
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The lyrics to goodies: if youre looking for the goodies keep on looking cos they stay in the jar. The whole song is about how she’s NOT giving it up 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 09:49 AM
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Lot of female sex tourists in the Caribbean and west Africa
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 09:28 AM
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If most guys hate make up on women then why do women get 10x more attention when they’re wearing make up than when they dont? You guys love it, you just wish it was natural
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 09:11 AM
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Need to stay sexy just in case you decide to monkey branch
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 09:40 PM
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Sure most people arent shredded at 40 but I was agreeing with the other comment that motherhood brings the wall™️ sooner than simply getting older. A 27 year old woman without kids looks better than if the same 27 year old woman had a baby
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 08:54 PM
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That strategy is fine for people without kids but if you have kids how does that work? Kids are hungry, oh no you havent been food shopping because you’re waiting for the problem to present itself, have to go out and get food with hangry kids then you get home and there’s no clean dishes to cook in, kids are in an even worse mood and you finally feed them 1-2 hours after they got hungry. You can see why one might want to prepare and avoid that scenario. You might say it’s a choice but to most pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 08:51 PM
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But he’s not doing it. He expects her to do it. That’s the mental load Also … plenty of guys would never notice it and get more https://vm.tiktok.com/ZGJnAc1fp/
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 07:29 PM
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No the way the skin is stretched and wobbly is from pregnancy. Have you ever seen a mother’s stomach? Its not the same as a little extra weight
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 07:27 PM
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Yes. A stranger not caring about you shouldn’t send you spiralling like this. It was rude for him to dismiss her like that but still not worth .. whatever this thought process is. Some people won’t like you, get over it. Also its sad she’s resigned herself to being one of those “living in a bigger body” people. She’s only like 15kg away from having a really nice body
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 07:18 PM
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If she didnt think of what’s for dinner, what date is the kid’s doctor’s appointment, are they running out of toilet paper and soap, when is so and so’s birthday party, who would?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 06:41 PM
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I saw a post about a late 30s woman who said she was starting to think about having children. starting think… Bitch what have you been thinking about instead for the past 15 years??
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 02:59 PM
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That always really confuses me like 35/40/45 year old people who are still on the fence about kids. You’ve been alive for 3 decades and you’re still not sure?! Its one thing to plan to have them late but to still be indecisive at that age?!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 02:21 PM
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My sister had the flattest stomach ever before kids, abs and never stepped foot in a gym, she’s lost the baby weight now but her pooch will probably never go away without surgery
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 02:20 PM
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I would’ve thought childfree women have a tough time at it too. Most people want children
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 01:33 PM
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Does college start at 18? 3 girls before 18 is a lot imo. College here starts at 16, 3 girls before 16 is definitely a lot to me
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 12:49 PM
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Havent you been married like 8 times? Surely your success made you a catch for marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 12:11 PM
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I would be fine with being hit on at all those places mentioned. I may not like them, but im fine with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 12:08 PM
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Our shopping centres arent as big as your malls I think but yeah when I was younger we used to go into town and mooch around
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 12:38 AM
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Honestly I don’t get all the hullabaloo about young models dating old celebrities. They know exactly what they’re doing. If Chris evans was in my DMs there’s no need to worry about me. My eyes are on the prize 💰
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 12:19 AM
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Best motivational speech ive got all year
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 12:15 AM
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Lmaooo. Doesnt your jaw ache? Maybe im doing something wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 02:08 PM
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I hate it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 01:30 PM
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Personally see it more the other way round. I know guys with serious girlfriends and children who never post them but they’ll post their Friday night drinks with the boys 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 01:17 PM
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I like type 3 but with less pronounced traps. Is it just me or do his look swollen or something
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 01:43 AM
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A penny for your thoughts: One thing about the problem with boys in education that I struggle to understand is that boys have always been in education and academia is dominated by men. How/why does the education system favour women when the education system was originally established by men and for young boys? Schools were way, way stricter in the past with even more “sitting down and concentrating” and boys still managed and continue manage to excel. I 100% agree there should be more physical e…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 10:35 PM
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My sister had 2 weddings (same marriage) and they were both awesome tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 09:55 PM
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“My husband proposed to me with a haribo ring if she wont accept that she doesnt value the right things in life” Like its a bad thing to want a nice ring (thats supposed to last your whole life) when you have the money for it!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 09:54 PM
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I just think it’s hard to have empathy for a group you dont think about much. From our perspective most guys we see irl have some sort of relationship and the biggest representation of men who dont have sex and complain about it in the media is Elliot Rodger. I dont think its lack of empathy, more an unwillingness to understand it. Ive browsed the virgin and forever alone subs and im pretty sympathetic to their struggles but how many people even think to do that in tbe first place
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 05:25 PM
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If they’re the top 20% then standards aren’t particularly high. Seems like almost anybody can be top 20%
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 01:55 PM
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I agree that the sub is toxic always automatically paint the guy to be the bad guy but celebs PR teams mean serious business! Everything that’s been released is v calculated and I wouldn’t take anything either of them say at face value
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 12:08 AM
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Sat here with my huge glasses on as we speak. They’re chic ok? How old were you? I thought it was forever but I heard it only lasts like 10 years so better to get it in your 30s
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 09:42 PM
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I suppose. If all it takes is to become above average is a few months of a calorie deficit then no one should be complaining about high standards
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 09:35 PM
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Hey now gen z fashion is just repurposed 80s/90s/00s fashion so technically that’s your gen fashion! I mean she didn’t have the snazziest styling herself so maybe that’s her type lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 09:31 PM
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If he’s 40+ I need his skincare routine immediately. But her age range went to 23 so I think he’s just a young man
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 09:25 PM
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Yeah he is the cutest for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 09:23 PM
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Fuck I’ve been doing this all wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 09:18 PM
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Ohh I’m with you now 😂 they are very polarising indeed! How do you feel about pornstaches?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 09:16 PM
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I see
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 09:15 PM
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I’m sure dating at 40 odd is different. However I’m not convinced of the idea that “all the good ones are taken”. People break up every day and “the good ones” come back on the market all the time, so I don’t think the only people on apps are below average . The average of first divorce is 40 something so there must be new blood getting on the apps. Isn’t it the just world fallacy that all the good people are are happily married forever? I think 7 dates in 2 months is extremely un-picky ! She wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 09:13 PM
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Ok so out of the ones who had her in their filters they are the top 20% of men. That still doesn’t sound believable. I don’t even think you believe it 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 09:03 PM
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It’s one of the top posts on the tinder sub so I figured if people were that interested they could go and find it themselves, my bad https://reddit.com/r/Tinder/s/nzwFiGsa56
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 09:02 PM
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She was 43, greying hair and not fat. Alright/kinda nice face. Outdoorsy kind of person. I’d say she was a 6 for a 43 yo old woman. Nothing special but deffo not hideous
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 08:56 PM
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Prefer clean shaven?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 08:53 PM
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Surely not… average men dont date according to our friends at ppd.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 08:53 PM
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6 is cute. She said (jokingly I think) that her type is “upwardly mobile white trash” so I guess you need a beard for that
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 08:52 PM
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Agreed. Dare I say they are average men? She had her age range 23-63!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 08:51 PM
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I love a beard personally, just a closer cut one like 1 and not as long as 4. I also have 5 extra ear piercings and a tattoo hahaha so we may have different tastes. I wouldn’t say my tat/piercings are excessive tho, just the basic bitch flower on ankle and small studs, it’s not everyone’s cup of tea but I love them 🤩
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 08:50 PM
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She had an age range of 20 above and below. So this is apparently the top 20% of men 23-63.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 08:46 PM
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Leather jacket looks cute I agree but the top one? Maybe like .. top 40%?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 08:44 PM
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43 yo lady on tinder posted her swipe data and the usual breakdown from men in the comments about women swiping on the top 1/5/20% of men. these are the men she dated. Thoughts? Are they top 1/5/20%? People also complaining about how selective women are on dating apps. She went on 7 dates in less than 2 months (and slept with 3 of them). How many people should women date so we’re not seen as too picky?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 08:24 PM
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Yeahhh I think I jumped the gun by telling her how it effects the planet but so many questions lead into another. “Where is the ice going” “what does the water level rising mean” “so will it spill onto the land” stop being so inquisitive god damn it! She is extra motivated to recycle now at least
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 07:18 PM
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It was hard to dance around the topic of animals dying when the animals were dying on the screen 😕 but I did say we need to take care of the planet and she was like “I’m glad we recycle auntie!” Bless her
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 06:57 PM
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Is 5 too young to learn about global warming ? I was watching planet earth and my niece was interested. Asked lots of questions about why walruses were on a tiny island and falling off cliffs and I explained it’s because the ice was melting and that turned into explaining global warming and its effects. Now she is asking when we’re all going to die :/ but doesn’t sound too sad about it? She was like “oh man”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 06:43 PM
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They’re like “I’m average! I never leave the house, I have no idea where to meet women and I have no friends but I’m average!”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 06:01 PM
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It’s normal for me. I’m a big texter
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 05:52 PM
1

Recently: I had a good date on the weekend My brother in law has had two friends die in the last couple weeks and was, wait for it, vulnerable to my sister (his wife)😱 he’s been so supportive to their families like contributing to the funeral funds and stuff. We used to clash but I’ve come to appreciate him My dad is so cute he has bought some chickens and sends pictures of them every day
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 03:36 PM
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I’m confused why single mothers are immediately accused of having a child with a bad guy. Most single mothers were in a long term relationship that broke down and the dad is still somewhat involved at least, or at least that’s what I come across most often
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 03:14 PM
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No but my friends know I’m unemployed and insist on covering the bill when we go out 🥺 best friends ever
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 03:04 PM
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I bet he looks like a toe but she’s just desperate, low self esteem, stupid and also ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 10:51 AM
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Never went on a date with a guy i was certain I wouldn’t like. There’s been a few “ehh might as well” dates
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 08:02 AM
1

basically
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 06:21 AM
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cries in has to wax my chin hairs every week
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 12:28 AM
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A is okay looking, don’t think we’d get on well B is the best looking but i don’t think we’d get on too well from the way he describes himself and I don’t like his drip lol C isn’t attractive to me and too old
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 12:07 AM
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It’s really not that hard to wipe with long nails. You just wrap the paper around your whole hand and wipe at a different angle. Plus I time my poops to be just before I hop in the shower anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 11:35 PM
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100% agree. Pregnancy is inherently unequal so there will never be equality of outcome when one party is starting off on the back foot (or front foot depending on your POV). Someone will always be getting shortchanged. Whether it’s the woman being forced to have an abortion or have the baby or the man being forced to be a father or his partner getting an abortion he didn’t want. It’s not fair but nature isn’t fair
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 11:23 PM
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• you must not be black or Asian. Totally normal to stay at your parents house until you get married and sometimes men move their new family into their parents house • who tf is expecting one man to move a sofa/fridge/heavy furniture by himself? Even delivery men work in pairs… • mama’s boys are specifically men whose mothers mother them as if they were a child, not a grown man. Taking your laundry to your parents’ house is embarrassing for anyone. I agree there are different pressures for boy a…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 07:34 PM
1

Yeah you see some crazy posts then the op drops they don’t have any friends and their ramblings all make sense all of a sudden
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 07:13 PM
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My 20 isn’t the same as other women’s 20
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 06:43 PM
2

then this idea that you are religiously against dating men with children will be called into question. It’s possible, yes. It’s not like men with children are bad people or something. But from my POV there are other rich, hot, high status, high value, tall, sexy good facial hair men without children that I can date instead 🤷🏾‍♀️ you just so happened to learn 1 year into the relationship he may have had a child out of wedlock that he shuns So he’s a deadbeat? Fuck no. It’s not about moral goodnes…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 01:39 PM
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Can’t imagine someone not doing that
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 01:17 PM
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You can’t even dislike another woman without being accused of internalised misogyny on some subs. Reality tv subs are the worst for it. Point out a woman in the wrong or just stating you’re not their biggest fan, boom you’re a misogynist. Newsflash: some women are not good people!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 09:55 AM
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I’m cool with spiders. Slugs and snails on the other hand??? Yeah I need someone else to handle that
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 09:02 AM
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You’ve given me a choice between two men with children when I don’t date men with children. Obviously between the two shitty choices you’ve given me I’ll take the less shitty one but neither is ideal 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 08:59 AM
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You’d think enthusiasm is the easiest part of it all
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 12:33 AM
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Yes I think I am, needed some clarification haha Are people really not making any sounds? Sounds very awkward! I cannot imagine what they’re thinking when they’re not using their hands/kissing/etc
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 12:32 AM
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Q4M: what makes a girl a starfish? I struggle to imagine someone will just lie there completely still but there’s not much you can do with all a man’s weight on top of you other than some kegels and use your hands. What participation are you expecting during missionary? Or does it mean they don’t even get on top as well? Throw it back a lil?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 11:36 PM
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I’m glad I don’t have to deal with all that. Sounds miserable
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 11:18 PM
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A man who had a child out of wedlock is different to a deadbeat. I would be more accepting of the man you describe if he had a child with an ex girlfriend and the relationship broke down for whatever reason and he’s still a good father to his child and is amicable with the mother, than a guy who had a child that he never sees or supports. I would not be okay with someone hiding the fact they had a child till after I fell in love with him.. that’s an egregious lie and yes if I’m in love with him …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 11:12 PM
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plenty of men are OK with sex alone Hm. I wonder what the Venn diagram of these men and the men that complain about loneliness looks like. it would be very selfish to also suggest those people have an obligation to care about us Idk where you’re from but where I’m at it’s very normal to want your friends and family to care about you. I don’t expect my friends with partners and kids to prioritise me the same way we did when we were young with no responsibilities. I do expect them to be there when…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 08:10 PM
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You have no friends or family and you’re here worried about escorts and strip clubs. Brother you have bigger problems
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 02:59 PM
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What? Just know whoever you choose to have something real with eventually will certainly gain and lose and gain and lose 10-12lbs over their lifetime
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 09:42 AM
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I don’t feel like the True Average™️ ie the 39 yo woman and 37 yo man is very relevant in these conversations. Imo most people are talking about 18-30yo people, because most people are in that range here I think. There’s a few older ladies and men but most of them aren’t in the dating pool. So the average we’re discussing is unmarried, makes less than 40-50k and is a bit slimmer than the True Average™️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 08:56 AM
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The advice works for the vast majority of people because autistic people are a minority. You can’t expect general advice to address all the caveats to apply to everybody
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 08:44 AM
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It really does lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 08:38 AM
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Sorry I like being allowed to read and write
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 08:24 AM
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Next time I’ll ask!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 06:08 PM
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It’s the build. You’re on the shorter side and skinny - you can change the skinniness
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 04:28 PM
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Went to the soft play centre with my nieces today. A lottt of average men there with their average girlfriends or wives and their cute babies
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 04:09 PM
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!!! So many people could go up 1-2 points just by better styling. Everybody should watch queer eye if they don’t believe me
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 03:19 PM
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Anybody that agrees with his worldview is being honest, anybody that doesn’t is lying. PPD tale as old as time
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 10:21 AM
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Bro had sex once and has a new outlook on life 🤣 love that for you honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 08:59 AM
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I say this as someone who loves and has piercings, that is genuinely THE WORST piercing you could get. Any of the mouth ones, Madonna/Medusa/monroe/lablet etc. Sooo trashy. Extremely representative of single mum council estate type of women. At least nose piercings transcend class but the mouth ones really don’t. Don’t do it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 08:58 AM
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Could you please tell us which female user fucked studs and settled for Billy and then divorced him? Even better if you can find the multiple women you’re referring to. I have not seen that
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 08:42 AM
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100%, that’s why we should only have sex with guys who care about us
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 08:35 AM
1

I use Shea butter oil it’s amazing I deffo should use a hair cover more. In bed rn with no bonnet to speak of Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 11:33 PM
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Noo I wash it every 2.5 weeks kinky hair gets dry if you wash it too often we have opposite problems I believe y’all’s gets greasy if you don’t wash it enough But even if it’s long will she wear it down?? Hair out is not a popular bridal style
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 11:32 PM
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😂 don’t mind me then! Not many advantages really it’s much more work :/ but straightening your hair all the time gives it heat damage, dries out the strands, burns etc
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 11:17 PM
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permanently straightened like chemical relaxer? No. I used to relax it at as a teen then i did the big chop now I’m au natural babyyy I do get a silk press which is like normal straightening but not permanent
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 11:06 PM
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I struggle to retain length in my fro cos it just takes so much effort to manage and keep hydrated
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 10:53 PM
1

Nah I love men. Big fan of men. Love the work you guys do. 99% of men I encounter on a daily basis are perfectly pleasant. My family members and friends are pretty decent. My exes weren’t perfect but they weren’t bad people nor do I hate them. Look at the bigger picture. If we all hated each other we wouldn’t bother with any of this
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 10:50 PM
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Overrated. I’d rather be in the itty bitty titty committee
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 10:46 PM
1

it’s always as a joke isn’t it… unless you’re down… but if not it’s a joke 😑
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 10:44 PM
1

A PPD bot? Technology has gone too far.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 10:43 PM
1

Ayyyy we all knew you could do it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 10:41 PM
1

How do you dress, what’s your demeanour like, what’s your build like?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 10:35 PM
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id like to see more information on these studies. Was there a clearly defined definition of “lonely”? Is it not seeing a friend or loved one at least once a week? Is it not having a romantic partner? Is it not feeling intimately close with someone (again how would close be defined here) despite seeing that person? Someone can have a hundred friends and feel lonely. Someone else could have one friend and never feel lonely. I’ve seen that loneliness levels are rising, but that is so vague. It’s ki…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 10:33 PM
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making 50/69k a year Surely a guy making this amount of money is around 40 years old in which case he is probably married or in a long term relationship. If you mean a guy 18-30 (which is what I think people are really talking about on this sub) then that’s an above average income for a young man, no? Regardless, an 18-30yo man making an average income for a young man is definitely able to date. If they are average looking, then yes casual sex is an uphill battle and they don’t get as much sex a…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 10:01 PM
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See this is exactly what we’re talking about when we say below average people think they are average. Having a group of friends is COMPLETELY AVERAGE. if you have no or few friends you rarely meet, that is a BELOW AVERAGE SOCIAL LIFE.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 09:55 PM
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Imo the use of female only became prevalent like a couple of years ago. It’s usually used in a negative context. Irl my brothers and male friends only use it when they’re complaining about women and never refer to their actual girlfriend or girls they want to date as female
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 05:33 PM
1

Ayyy preciate that. Maybe I should show my delulu side more
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 05:29 PM
1

Sex and the city is actually kinda red pilled if you think about it. Attractive, high flying middle aged women can have a lot of sex but struggle to lock down a “HVM”. Carrie is chasing an emotionally unavailable man and cheats on the nice guy (aidan) with him. Miranda settles down with a loser (love Steve but beta). It’s like all the RP tropes in one. Charlotte and Samantha kinda go against the narrative. Charlotte locked down her HVM (Trey) but then fell in love with a bald sweaty man. Samanth…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 04:21 PM
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Yes i do think women should take responsibility for their own orgasms but when you grow up watching films where women cum every time from penetration (their first time too!) and in porn there’s a lot of orgasms, you do think that’s just what’s supposed to happen. There’s so much information and sex positivity these days there’s no excuse but dang I feel bad for women coming of age 10+ years ago
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 04:16 PM
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I just feel like if even if they were a self hating woman they would speak in very different terms. Their way of speaking is so male coded
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 02:42 PM
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So we all agree that uglypostwall “woman” is a man trolling right
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 01:15 PM
1

How is sleeping with two guys worse than sleeping with 2 thousand hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 01:13 PM
0

Grinding is where it’s at babyyyy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 11:51 AM
2

Yeah I get that a lot. Maybe one day Ill meet someone who shows me the light haha
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 11:51 AM
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Its a cultural norm, so no. You don’t have to do it. If they keep trying after you say no then yes I would consider that sexual assault. There’s no point trying to compare practices across cultures as some kind of gotcha. Are latin women keen to label their common greeting as sexual assault? Or is that other women in places with different cultural norms? I would be surprised (but not against) a man I meet in the UK giving me a kiss on the cheek as a greeting. I would be expecting it in Spain. Nu…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 11:45 AM
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Im not really talking about situations where someone is dying on the street and your wife wants to go shopping, obviously you would do what’s right there and hopefully you wouldn’t have married such a person in the first place. You put your husband/wife before other people because what you do directly impacts their life and vice versa and you’re a team that needs to make decisions that make the team happy and move towards your goals in life. If the female partner is in the wrong then hopefully s…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 09:20 AM
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Man I’m so jealous. Good for you!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 09:10 AM
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Im not bothered about oral at all tbh. I’d be just fine if I never got it again
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 09:00 AM
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I get what you mean that there are a lot of self absorbed women who want to be number 1 in all circumstances but that’s not possible. Especially when it pertains to their family member or close friends. However I’d say emotional fidelity is important in a monogamous relationship? It’s not just your sexuality that’s supposed to be for one person. Like that quoted part doesn’t come across as narcissistic to me. I think it’s a bit much because they’re younger and should have more well rounded lives…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 08:56 AM
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Used to have to go to these long ass masses, literally like 4/5/6 hours long and I just hated it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 08:43 AM
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Nah I believe both genders can cheat and still love their partner, they just don’t respect or care about them. I think people can feel love for someone but hurt them deeply because people are ungrateful, stupid, mean etc. I think it depends on your definition of love. If love is an action to you then no they can’t but if it’s a feeling then yes they can
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 08:38 AM
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I have no patience for any of that. Having anxious/depressed episodes to life circumstances is fine but diagnosed? No thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 08:33 AM
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He wasn’t hideous at all! Not the best looking but the way he was going on you’d think he was deformed. I wouldn’t even say odd looking? Some flaws like any regular guy
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 11:47 PM
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That’s what I think! It’s like a regular dude cosplaying as an autistic dude. Jonny autism is just way too on the nose
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 11:44 PM
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“So what you do is wear the shortest shorts you can find and drop something, anything, and watch them all come to you” who the hell wants to hear that!! 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 10:19 PM
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I mean yeah he was probably in a tough situation. Not to speak ill of the dead but ol’ girl was a bit manipulative to ask to sleep with him as her dying wish. Either way he’d be getting dumped though
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 10:13 PM
1

This has really tickled me 🤣🤣 what a bizarre situation
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 10:06 PM
1

I wonder if she considered… not dating him
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 10:02 PM
1

Is Fabio the Portuguese Chad? 😂 yep contrary to popular belief on here, average women date average men
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 10:02 PM
1

True who am I to look a gift horse in the face
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 09:42 PM
1

It’s always a little sad when that guy who is talking to himself in your dms finds his self worth and stops messaging you
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 09:39 PM
1

I think he’s a plant. He never interacts with threads but doesn’t get his posts taken down
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 09:37 PM
1

Yeah i wonder what happened to that super rich autistic guy who was convinced he’s hideous
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 09:37 PM
0

This is what I don’t get why men complain so much. Sureee being a young broke guy sucks but you have your whole life to make it happen. A woman only has 10-12 good years before everybody thinks she’s a worthless piece of shit
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 09:13 PM
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I think Reddit tends to attract reclusive geek women who want their male counterpart. These type of women also get lots of upvotes, whilst women who don’t fall in line get downvoted so eventually just stay silent. Liking reclusive geeks is not the mainstream opinion at all
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 09:05 PM
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This is most people’s problems when it comes to dating. They want chad and Stacy treatment without having the minimum requirements
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 08:55 PM
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Men Yes. A lot of men look really good in the 25-28 range. If he’s somewhat muscly then sure No Not wanting my dating pool to be obese men is why I lost weight ha. I don’t particularly want them to be active with me because fitness is a solitary hobby to me, I don’t like going to the gym with others. I just want them to look good and have healthy habits so we can pass them onto our children and we’re alive together in old age.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 08:40 PM
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Eh. Go to East or Southern Africa. A lot of women there have insane bodies. Not 1 in a million over there
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 08:36 PM
2

A lot of babies are born with chlamydia! It csn cause very serious problems in newborns :(
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 08:34 PM
8

I really want to know how this conversation is supposed to go
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 08:31 PM
1

I miss it so much I could cry
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 05:40 PM
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I agree the serial cheaters I know have have their own place or step out then go back to their girlfriend. Unless the guy lives and works in different city, how on earth does he explain being at X’s house for a few days then Y’s house the next few days?! Unless it’s a SZA type situation. 🎶 You take Wednesday, Thursday then just send him my way, think I got it covered for the weekend🎶
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 09:22 AM
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I think people share the “big” good things but are less likely to give a play by play of all the small things a partner does to make their life better. But the bad things are usually big and they want to vent. Then from the other side you only hear they didn’t do xyz, but not all the times they did abc you know? It’s the same phenomenon with reviews. People are more likely to leave a bad review than a good one
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 09:15 AM
1

Classic
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 09:12 AM
1

The LBD is the top contender!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 09:12 AM
3

There’s worse things in the world than to be a 6
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 08:36 AM
1

Fuck me that’s a hard early 30s. I suppose he was some kind of drug addict or run down cop in the wire? His appearance would make sense then
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 11:27 PM
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Yh idk why it’s so hard to admit that dating will be at least a little harder for a shorter man. Is it impossible, no, but definitely not as easy as if they were taller
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 10:28 PM
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Man: https://www.instagram.com/p/CwOJ5p8sIC7/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA== , young leo dicaprio Woman: Megan fox, young Beyoncé
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 10:21 PM
1

I did a zara haul today actually hopefully I find something What is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 10:11 PM
1

You’re right I’m being dramatic. It’s always fine once we actually get started
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 09:54 PM
1

Truee I’ll keep it cute and low-key
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 09:53 PM
1

My confidence is scarce these days 😔 but I’ll look through everything in my wardrobe and remember your advice
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 09:48 PM
1

Got a date on Saturday. Nervy and don’t know what to wear
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 08:43 PM
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I’m not saying it’s easy or hard just that porn use is ubiquitous these days and guys under 25 have been regularly using it since they were like 9/10/11. If it’s not an addiction then they have no reason to stop. Maybe in some circles it’s not very popular but im under the impression every guy I speak to watches porn until proved otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 08:39 PM
1

“dependopatomi” has really tickled me. I would watch the shit out of a reality tv show about military wives based on what you said
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 08:21 PM
1

5’10 would be good with me
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 08:19 PM
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Lol we can tell the difference between 6’3 (a giant) and 5’8 (a regular sized man). It’s the little differences that are harder to tell. I can’t pinpoint when someone is exactly 6ft, or tell the difference between 5’8 and 5’9, but it’s rather obvious when someone is not a giant
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 08:18 PM
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they’re most likely just being friendly. It is not abnormal to end up in conversations your entire journey where I’m from. The other day an old woman on the bus was telling me about how she was a computer programmer in the 60s. It can be fun
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 08:15 PM
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Yeah at my age I’m swerving guys with kids no matter what the sob story is That’s the definition of noble though? “having or showing high moral principles”. Like I’d say the phrase step up is only used in situations where you get more responsibility. What other context could you use step up in?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 08:12 PM
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Wanting a guy who doesn’t watch porn is a higher standard than 6 feet 6 pack and 6 figures
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 08:04 PM
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What is the subculture of military wives like
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 07:49 PM
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Imagine doing your hair and make up really nice and thinking “damnnn I’m looking like a 6.8 today!”. What a mood killer 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 07:27 PM
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Shaved chest and pubes, he doesn’t need to shave his butt though
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 04:30 PM
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A man who raises kids that aren’t his especially in the contexts you described is honourable and has traits that I admire in a man - dutiful, responsible, values family. Deadbeats disgust me on a moral level, and on a practical level it’s a bright neon sign that he will abandon any kids you have with him too. Second and third baby mamas who think they’re going to be different are dumb as rocks.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 02:48 PM
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Also couples who are experience a drop in libido but are working through it because they realise sex drive waxes and wanes are way less likely to complain about it online than those who feel like they’ve been beta buxxed
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 10:53 AM
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Personally my serious relationships have all come from meeting in person. I don’t know why I bother with dating apps tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 08:31 AM
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women often regurgitate the prevailing limited view that orgasm is the end all and be all How convenient the gender that nearly always orgasms thinks orgasms aren’t that important
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 08:23 AM
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Important to remember is that your friends are wayyyyy more likely to only share the bad things with you, and use you to vent and work through their emotions but they will hardly every sit there and list all the sweet stuff they love about their girlfriend that makes all the drama worth it. I go through the same thing with my friend - I’m like why are you even with this idiot but obviously she knows he has positive qualities whereas I only hear about the worst of him.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 08:15 AM
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Erm you booked Radiohead??? That’s so cool
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 07:26 AM
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I’ll look into patches, I thought they were only for smoking. I’ll have a look at gum too my friend had great success with gum. I can’t believe I started vaping to help quit smoking and now i need help with quitting vaping
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 09:53 PM
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A little extra friendly. Not like gushing over each other or touching but say a girl compliments him I wouldn’t be mad if he complimented them back and moved on
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 09:52 PM
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True I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 09:51 PM
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I mean that’s fair people have their own boundaries in a relationship. My “weird” non-boundary is idc if my man flirts with another girl if it stays as just flirting and not in front of me. But dancing is too far for me. Also I couldn’t have people saying “did you see tinasnow dancing with xyz” or vice versa lmao. I was with my friends little brother and his friends yesterday and they were all going in on some girl they knew who was in a relationship but got picked up by like 4 different guys ap…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 08:52 PM
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Thank you I’m cured.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 08:46 PM
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BUT HOW. I say it’s my last one every time but every time it dies before I’m ready to quit
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 08:25 PM
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That’s so sweet Omg, I’ll try not to
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 08:23 PM
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No I literally saw a guy who I know has a girlfriend kiss someone else 🤣 it’s Caribbean culture but not everyone that goes is Caribbean. Personallllyyy I wouldn’t want my man catching a whine from another guy & I wouldn’t do it myself
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 08:22 PM
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I’m not very sexually liberated. I think kink shaming is necessary for a respectable society - I actually don’t want people to be open about their beastiality, raceplay, CNC kinks etc. Be very, very ashamed of that. I don’t particularly care what other people do consensually in their free time, but I don’t believe people can divorce their attitudes to sex to their general thoughts as much as they think. Do people who engage in raceplay really harbour no resentment to other races? Anybody who eng…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 08:20 PM
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It’s so embarrassing init
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 07:58 PM
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Help I’m addicted to vaping
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 07:56 PM
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I’m sure they have in some way but unsure how much you can prescribe to raising standards vs just growing up. When I was a teen I used to really like skinny boys - like stick thin - now I’m much more into healthy looking men lmao. Is that media raising my standards or is that just normal change for a 15 year old to a 24 year old? I still fancy Justin Bieber tho. I do see where men are coming from in terms of women thinking certain builds can be achieved naturally when they’re actually using ster…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 07:54 PM
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I know some people think Jason momoa or Chris Pratt on off season is a dad bod - attractive An actual dad bod being skinny fat or just chubby - meh, not crazy attractive but can work Beer gut - hell no Round faces - I like baby faces so not a problem for me
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 05:03 PM
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It’s not like it’s a one sided leverage? Usually both parties need the other to start a family
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 05:00 PM
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I don’t need a man as in I need someone to pay my bills (dads don’t count) but I want a man. I think most women do want a man, just not at the expense of their current lifestyle. You do need a man if you want a family (I don’t think doing ivf is a viable option for most women)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 04:46 PM
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i see that more when someone makes a post complaining about a type of woman he doesn’t want to date unprovoked. Older women, high n count women, fat women, single mothers: minding their business Some guy: I would never date you! Older women, high n count women, fat women, single mothers: …okay? Did we want to date you anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 04:28 PM
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I mean I see people I know at the dance areas flirting/kissing other people that aren’t their partner
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 03:35 PM
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https://youtu.be/nKdMQqUpA5w?si=QEOQnRiu52uUpM-s
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 03:16 PM
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we have ours in August
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 03:14 PM
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I agree. The independent boss babe persona is annoying and stupid. But I suppose it comes from the idea that women were generally dependent on a romantic partner to get them somewhere in life. I don’t know why people think it’s an achievement in 2023.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 02:59 PM
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A bad date is worse. There’s other things I’d rather be doing than being on a boring date
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 02:47 PM
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I suck at baking. Cooking is easy, but as soon as flour is the main ingredient I fuck it up. Tbh it’s because I don’t like to measure ingredients and learning to bake need more precision than eyeballing it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 02:41 PM
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Carnival is so funny cos you see all the people supposedly in happy relationships cheating smh
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 02:31 PM
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You’re being disingenuous. By your logic nobody is independent
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 02:28 PM
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I’ve asked directly before, because they’ve asked me first, but I tend to try and extrapolate from other conversations. What’s their relationship history like - if they’ve never been in a LTR at my age and they’re cute (usually they are if I like them lol) they’re probably out here in these streets. “what are you looking for” - if they say go with the flow or not looking for something serious then I don’t want to try and change their mind. Gotta check their insta following lol. If they follow he…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 09:25 AM
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I don’t shout my preferences for lower n count men from the rooftops, I don’t curse men with high n counts out of their name, I don’t think they’re worthless etc. Have you seen the way people talk about high n count women? It’s not like many people are saying “I prefer women who prefer sex in a LTR” they’re saying they’ve lost pair bonding abilities they’re sluts “someone’s daughter” they’re disgusting they’re a natural ick etc. Surely you can see why hoes might feel a little miffed at this? I d…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 09:14 AM
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Congrats! Knowing that would make me soooo happy, that’s just me though :)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 09:02 AM
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This seems like a golden child and scapegoat dynamic more than anything. You say your parents aren’t abusive but if cursing out and being physically violent against your parents is accepted in your family then there might be things you’re missing. Don’t mean to armchair diagnose over a little snippet of your life but that’s not normal lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 08:57 AM
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I’d hope you found the majority of women you slept with attractive? Why did none of them work out?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 08:53 AM
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Any woman with sexual desire has felt that way before. She just made the moral sin of admitting it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 08:19 AM
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6
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 07:56 AM
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Well I didn’t get shot so
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 07:46 AM
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Nor I. There’s like 100 of them, and they’re all on this sub. I get that a lot of people in are situationships where multiple girls might think they’re in a relationship, but I sincerely doubt a significant number of men are in multiple committed relationships. There’s just not enough time. Usually you see a partner 1-5 times a week or even live with them, how do you have time to have another partner on top of work and other life stuff? The stories I’ve heard usually involve a guy who works in a…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 12:49 AM
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I don’t tell them the reason often but when I’ve alluded to it they just try to convince me they’ve changed and I’m different and they want to me to be their wife etc
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 12:42 AM
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Only gang members get in trouble. Completely safe for everybody else
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 12:24 AM
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A national public holiday!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 12:21 AM
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Happy bank holiday everyone ! August bank holiday is the best one. Off to the West Indian carnival with my fam
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 03:21 PM
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It’s a mix of all three. Idk why people think that one reason is enough for the disparity. I’m sure the average age gap is actually 3-5 years so a lot of women 27+ will be dating guys in their 30s. There is also women who think they are in a relationship with the guy they’re hooking up with. And there are also women who are dating the same man. The numbers only make sense when all 3 are a factor. Idk how you can seriously believe 30% of young women are dating the same men. Also where I’m from an…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 11:45 AM
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My 18th birthday
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 10:28 AM
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with online dating yeah. I think when you know the guy from elsewhere you’re already more invested than just a stranger online
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 10:00 AM
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Sorry but how is getting fingered as a fuck you to your parents better than getting fingered for lust 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 09:02 AM
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I mean the outcome isn’t different but a lot of guys here struggle with self esteem and their thought process could be why
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 07:04 AM
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I would be fine I think. The fact that he could have any girl he wanted and chose me would give me confidence
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 10:25 PM
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15 year old boys could overpower most women let alone a grown man, no matter how average he is
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 07:52 PM
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I would be happy with my man going to a club, yes. If he’s going there specifically for that then that’s weird but at the same time how would I know
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 05:26 PM
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Everyone’s focusing on women but what about men with high n count ! Admittedly it doesn’t bother me as much as it bothers men but I’ll pass on anything over 10. The logic is similar to why guys don’t want women with high n counts. Those guys want to sow their wild oats and it’s very unlikely you’ll be the one to lock him down. I wouldn’t bet on a guy whose slept with a lot of people to suddenly change for me, unless he’s like 35+ and feeling ready to settle down which is too old for me. Much bet…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 03:51 PM
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I hate to be that person but my flatmate last year was legit 5’1 or 5ft and he had a girlfriend. She also lived in our flat and was like 4’10. They were both south Asian which helped I think. I think he was more attractive than her facially but she was pretty cute too
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 01:25 PM
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It would be very scary
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 11:34 AM
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That account is sus init
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 10:52 AM
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My ex was 21 I was 23
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 10:15 AM
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Yuck. Bodily functions are private. I try my best to not even burp/pass wind in front of other people. Huge ick if my partner were using the bathroom in front of me
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 09:08 AM
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Haha not me but my auntie. She met a guy at a wake last year and they’ve been dating for 6 months now!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 08:51 AM
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They wouldn’t have the choice tho. Only 25% of people are women under 30, yet there would still be all the men 18-99? They would all be killing each other trying to get a taste what incentive would women have to reproduce? If I only got 30 years on this planet I wouldn’t waste 9 months being pregnant, let alone have multiple pregnancies. Then I would abort it if it was girl so she wouldn’t suffer the same fate, so there’d be a supply issue of young women. Although The chances of women having bod…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 08:47 AM
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Lower your standards but also it’s your fault if lowering your standards backfires
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 01:10 AM
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The most I’ll think about an attractive guy is “smash” then move on with my day. Really, really hard to get to “i wanna fuck his brains out” level without some type of emotional or personal investment. Or even without exchanging words
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 10:45 PM
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Sure
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 10:42 PM
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Right? Unattractive is simply neutral! It’s really not a negative thing
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 10:41 PM
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To be clear, I don’t think rejection is easy and I don’t mean to imply that it’s a positive, it’s still rejection at the end of the day I just don’t think it should make you spiral and believe thoughts like I’m so ugly, I’m worthless, I’m not good enough etc. There’s being understandably down about rejection then there’s spiralling
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 10:40 PM
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Lmaoo I do have a way with words
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 10:37 PM
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What happens when I see a Chad Me: going about my day Chad: walks past Me, in my head: he’s cute Me: continues going about my day
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 10:36 PM
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No I think what is bland bread to one person is a burger to others. I was just explaining I think attractive is not the same as ugly. I think most women are generally somewhat excited about their partners. Maybe he’s not a Michelin star meal but he’s a medium rare steak with triple cooked chips and that’s more than enough for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 10:18 PM
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this is what I mean I don’t really view it as I wasn’t good enough or worth their time. That’s not really what people are thinking when they reject you. “We weren’t compatible” or “i wasn’t their type” are much less self-flagellating ways of looking at it. You’ll never be everybody’s cup of tea but that doesn’t mean you’re not “good enough”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 10:14 PM
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How is “I wanna fuck his brains out” the same as not finding him arousing?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 10:07 PM
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Yhhh I agree practically it’s the same result but I think far too many people take rejections to heart and mess with their self esteem
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 08:44 PM
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Unattractive is not the same thing as ugly. It’s like bland. A good burger is tasty (attractive) A piece of bread is bland. Not great but not actively bad (unattractive) Burnt food is nasty (ugly) I rarely see men that are ugly, as in actively unpleasant to look at it. Most guys are just bland in my eyes. You guys really have to stop believing that just because some people don’t like you, it means you are ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 07:58 PM
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Nah, its more like don’t think about him in that way hangs out with him he’s cool and funny “Hmm… wait there’s something about him” hang out some more “his big ears and crooked teeth are actually really cute” more hanging out “I wanna fuck his brains out”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 07:50 PM
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Family too! Hanging out with your siblings’ and cousins’ friends is an easy way to make more acquaintances and meet someone
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 07:03 PM
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Parties, gatherings, festivals, weddings, funerals if you’re brave enough, bars, the races, the gym
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:42 PM
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Good style won’t overcome defects but it will make an average guy more eye catching. A bad dresser will turn me off
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 04:15 PM
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You may be interested in the book all about love by bell hooks. She talks about this idea, that what we say is love goes against what we believe is love
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 12:55 PM
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I have an acquaintance who won’t leave her terrible baby dad because “who’s gonna want her with two kids”. Props for being self aware
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 10:51 AM
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is this the future 😭 https://vm.tiktok.com/ZGJG2qcfj/
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 10:49 AM
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Thank you but I have a boyfriend to a stranger Sorry but I’m not interested in you in that way to a friend
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 09:57 PM
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I don’t have any spare change 😂😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 09:49 PM
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Loool Omg i thought you were going to make a great point about how women sexually harassment men is not taken as seriously but no, you compared sexual harassment to … gold digging. Can’t make this shit up 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 09:28 PM
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It’s important that a man is willing to do it (sign he’s not a selfish partner) but tbh I don’t really care to receive or give. I prefer other forms of foreplay and they are really important to me. Preheat the oven before you put it in Yes. They just look better doing normal things when you know they lay good pipe
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 07:28 PM
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Not everyone can handle a disabled child and he’s not wrong for deciding that but i can’t respect a man who is pro abortion until it suits him and is fine with his disabled child and mother of the child out alone in the world Not Down syndrome but my niece is disabled and her dad is amazing. She is not so disabled that my sister needed to quit work but he works more so my sister can be a SAHM instead of putting her in nursery all week. Men who take their vows seriously >>>
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 07:07 PM
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It was just an analogy that i thought would help you understand better but my bad lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 01:18 PM
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They’re hot. What’s the appeal of big boobs?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 01:14 PM
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they way you see it I’m being overly paranoid Kindly, yes you are. I understand being nervous, unsure etc but I think if you ever go on a date you’ll see just how unfounded some of your concerns are. It’s much easier to read people than you might think online literally telling men to stay the hell away from women. Not violent men, just men I understand that the posters are tad bit vague when you take them at face value but the campaigns are about sexual harassment and should be viewed in that co…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 12:36 PM
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😭 are you two not on the same side
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 04:44 AM
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Well what is considerable risk? Are women calling the police on you for trying to hold their hand? Yelling help when you try to hug them? You might get rejected and offered a hand shake but is that considerable risk? I don’t think it helps to be hyperbolic in this conversation. what I mean is they’re forms of intimacy children are permitted to participate in because they’re not too intrusive Just because children can do them, doesn’t mean they’re not meaningful for adults. Like I said, they’re a…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 04:31 AM
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Nah it’s just women aren’t allowed to ask women questions and men aren’t allowed to ask men. Not sure why but it’s a consistent rule
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 02:14 AM
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Was walking in school uniform with my friend and her little cousin who was like 7. Yuck
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 02:11 AM
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It’s always good to reiterate that different people want different things and is a major source of why there are mixed messages going around. If you probe the same woman, how many of them will give mixed messages on how they like to be approached? Some women are more reserved and prefer not to be touched at all on a first date. Others are more forward and will smash on a first date. So there will never be uniform advice. It’s a minefield to approach and I understand the confusion. signals that t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 02:06 AM
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Please can you define what you mean by strong intimacy hints. I don’t mean a guy has to feel me up, try to kiss me straight away etc to feel he’s interested. But if he’s not holding my hand or touching legs under the table then that’s not a good sign. I would appreciate a guy who isn’t obviously trying to sleep with me, I would think a guy who won’t touch me at all isn’t interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 01:14 AM
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Oh lord
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 12:40 AM
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Where did you learn how to calculate percentages pls. Mathematicians everywhere are dying to know this. I said ~50% Around 50%. 47.5% is around 50%. Unless you have some more new maths to show me
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 12:31 AM
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I really appreciate a well dressed man, it would definitely catch my eye. I wouldn’t have those thoughts you described. People who think that way have their own self esteem issues imo Yes. Love is a verb and all that. There are much more important factors in having a life partner than being soulmates. You can find good partners multiple times. I think love comes with time anyway and you will grow to love who you’re with if you fancy them, have the same goals, values and like their personality. S…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 12:27 AM
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Omg we be arguing with dumbos on here. This sub is killing our braincells
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 12:11 AM
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😭😭😭😭😭😭 This is even funnier because you can’t even do maths either. That’s not how percentages work. Like, at all. 168/354*100 = 47.5% 186/354*100 = 52.5% That’s a 5% difference… You can be a registered doctor and not go into specialist medicine. That would be a general practitioner. What you might call a family doctor I believe. Women are more likely to be GPs. 67,000 men went into the professional field and less than 40,000 also did Do you really believe we only have 107,000 working doctors in…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 12:10 AM
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If you see me start grifting on Tiktok don’t out me 🤭
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 11:53 PM
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I don’t believe you asked this question in good faith. I don’t believe this question is ever asked in good faith. I know the answer you want me to give. Men do most the building, thinking, innovation, blah blah blah etcetera etcetera etcetera. You don’t count childbearing as an advantage. So what is left? Nothing. Women don’t bring anything to the table. You guys would be far better off without us, or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 11:51 PM
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specialist register S p e c i a l i s t register. out of the 354 thousand registered doctors in the United Kingdom, 186 thousand were men and 168 thousand women. registered doctors Spell it out with me, R e g i s t e r e d. The UK medical register only counts real doctors as registered. Not just anybody can register as a doctor. That sounds insane to be frank. Did you pass GCSE English? Do you understand what registered vs specialist means?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 11:47 PM
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Nothing. Absolutely nothing. We are worthless. We contribute nothing to society and you would all be better off without us draining your resources. Please, go forth and be free from the shackles of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 11:37 PM
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The sources quite literally back me up but you don’t agree with them for whatever reason so idk where to go from here
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 11:35 PM
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Erm that’s not quite how it works over here, we’re a bit more stringent on that regard Idk what you want from me bro 😂 call up the gmc yourself if you want
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 11:30 PM
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Are you taking the piss or are you genuinely not understanding what it says? out of the 354 thousand registered doctors in the United Kingdom, 186 thousand were men and 168 thousand women Do you understand that GPs are still doctors, just not specialist doctors ?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 11:18 PM
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A 7 is really good. why wouldn’t I be attracted to that?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 11:11 PM
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https://www.statista.com/statistics/698260/registered-doctors-united-kingdom-uk-by-gender-and-specialty/ Here’s the same source you used hope that helps 👍🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 11:09 PM
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You can find the same numbers on statista, your infallible source (whereas mine, the general medical council’s own words, is made up)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 10:59 PM
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Well you learnt something didn’t you
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 10:50 PM
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https://www.gmc-uk.org/-/media/documents/the-state-of-medical-education-and-practice-in-the-uk---workforce-report_pdf-80449007.pdf female doctors now make up 48% of the workforce. Both Scotland (53% female) and Northern Ireland (51%) have a greater proportion of female doctors in 2019 than England (48%) and Wales (46%). Oh gosh, you guys across the pond really need to catch up The shift in gender balance isn’t because the profession is becoming less attractive to males. Instead, it reflects that…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 10:43 PM
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Why are people leaving this easy career in droves!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 10:39 PM
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Engage at least
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 10:38 PM
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Finding a man patient enough to go through it with you must be a minefield. I hope it works out but it can be a long journey!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 10:37 PM
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But women are the dumb ones hehe
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 10:34 PM
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~50% of doctors happen to be women
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 10:32 PM
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I genuinely think my personality is an 8 or 9 if you vibe with the type of person I am. I’m chatty so if someone prefers quiet types they wouldn’t like me, but i have a whale of a time with similarly extroverted people The guy has to be at least a 7
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 10:27 PM
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Not me but my friend did. Sounds tough. She can have sex fine now but after years of painful sex her drive is quite low. She doesn’t have a lot of sex even though she’s in a relationship. She did the dilator course
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 10:22 PM
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Easy career… nursing..
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 10:20 PM
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Average height and good face. Face over everything for me
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 09:31 PM
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She’s somewhat famous and I assume she makes quite a bit more money than the average person so on that level. I’d guess her male equivalent in terms of wealth and popularity attract a lot of women prettier than her
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 09:30 PM
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I hope that’s a good wow
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 08:58 PM
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She’s not hideous imo. Not a looker by any means but I’ve seen far uglier women than her get hookups I suspect she struggles with one of the problems she accuses successful women of having. Men on her level want badder women than her, but men below her don’t appeal to her
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 08:53 PM
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Alright man
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 08:27 PM
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It uses a normal distribution scale of attractiveness so most people fall between 4-6. I agree objectively speaking a 7 is very attractive, a 6 is quite attractive but like you said colloquially if someone called you a 6 that’s not a big compliment
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 08:26 PM
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You should look at it!! She’s your friend <3
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 08:19 PM
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Join the purple pill Although I wouldn’t say being predatory is necessary but idk how to date as a man. What I do agree with is pushing boundaries respectfully is not always a bad thing. Like obviously if someone says no, stop but going for a kiss without consent isn’t evil
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 08:15 PM
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How often are you moving furniture and getting into fights at the bar bro
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 08:10 PM
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Another woman that smashed on the first date and is shocked it didn’t lead to anything more. Sigh.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 08:09 PM
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The first time I got a mirror and looked at it I literally yelped then didn’t look at it again for a few years
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 08:05 PM
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I see mad potential
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 08:04 PM
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That hasn’t been the case for many dates I’ve been on. You must be dating quite conservative women if putting an arm around them is taboo.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 07:57 PM
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Nope. Apparently our whole existence is coddled like children. The bills I pay don’t feel childlike smh
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 07:29 PM
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Ah, the “please can you help me with this” to him asking you out pipeline. I know it well
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 07:11 PM
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TRP says women are like children but imo men are a little more like children. They want to feel like the most accomplished man in the world with you, just like children when they say “mummy watch me do this!” They have daydreams of slaying the dragon to save the princess just like young boys. Which is fine, it’s not a moral failing or anything like TRP makes it out to be. Make him feel like you’d follow him anywhere and he’s yours
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 07:07 PM
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Oh yeah I deffo agree some of them will have been putting on a facade to get me into bed. But I think the point still stands? A guy who is not affectionate probably doesn’t have interest in me as a person or physically. I feel like the post’s title is a bit hyperbolic using “fawn over you” because I don’t mean he has to try to kiss me or feel me up but if he won’t even hold my hand that’s not a good sign haha Im one of those people. I could have chemistry with a plank of wood. I’ve never had a b…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 07:02 PM
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No. I love my friends social life career etc but it’s not the same as sex. A romantic relationship couldn’t replace my friends, social life, or career either. They all make parts of a whole. I’m happy to go without sex for extended periods of time with the expectation that I’ll find someone eventually. That’s what I do between relationships until I’m ready to date again and I’m happy in those times. But if I knew I would never experience a romantic relationship with sex ever again, I would be ve…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 06:10 PM
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If a guy isn’t receptive to my flirting or touching, doesn’t try to touch me or give me compliments then I will assume he isn’t interested. Doesn’t have to try and fuck on the first date but at least hand holding The women who unmatch after a few hours could just be crazy and want someone’s constant attention or they could have another reason for unmatching still conditioned to believe if a guy isn’t fawning over her then he mustn’t be interested Please understand that 9 out of 10 guys ARE fawni…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 05:50 PM
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The effect of status in action. If he wasn’t an actor he wouldn’t be a chad™️
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 03:09 PM
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I don’t really use the trm scale for my ratings. If you include people like Megan fox then most regular people are 5.5 max which isn’t right either. Like sometimes on trm absolutely gorgeous posters get a 6.5 max because the mods say that’s model level and they have xyz wrong with them. But that model not really useful for conversation I think? Like if you said to your friend “bro I met this baddie she’s a 5.8”, technically that’s quite attractive on the normal distribution scale but your friend…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 02:53 PM
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the og comment said “so pretty” which implies 7 out of 10+ to me I don’t think a lot of posters on that page are 7+
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 02:21 PM
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A little above average. Cute in the face, 5’8+, decent job, treat me well. Not asking for the world
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 11:37 AM
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I don’t think validation is particularly useful from either gender as a woman. As men on here love to tell us, they’ll sleep with anybody even women they don’t find attractive. But women sometimes compliment just to be nice. I wouldn’t worry about outside validation too much, just accept a compliment and keep it stepping
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 10:12 AM
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Well I’d prefer him to be taller but he’d probably prefer me to have a smaller nose so hey. None of us are perfect and you can still be really attractive with some not ideal traits. & my friends wouldnt care or say anything at least Ahh okay I misunderstood then I thought you meant skinny fat. Well a good posture is better subconsciously but I don’t think I would notice if it’s slight tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 08:05 AM
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The rhythm is really important. Don’t want a guy who stops starts constantly or changes strokes every 3 second
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 07:57 AM
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Im glad that works out for you
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 07:45 AM
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a few of my friends are dating guys that slid into their DMs
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 07:42 AM
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Fab analysis about the low self esteem in young women. It’s the same as all the boss babe / I’m perfect / he should be obsessed with me stuff. It’s not cool to be vulnerable and honest so they present themselves as infallible
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 07:41 AM
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I’d tell him get his money up if he wants to date someone :/
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 07:33 AM
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I can’t bake for shit so I’m super impressed when a guy can bake
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 07:26 AM
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If you can dance then you’ll probably be decent at least and she should be able to tell u what she likes. If she doesn’t that’s on her
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 07:24 AM
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I like seeing how much men will do for me because they want to sleep with me, then not sleep with them
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 07:22 AM
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Why
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 11:30 PM
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That is quite literally not the definition of single parent
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 11:23 PM
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