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tinderSkillz/r/seduction25/07/16 12:20 AM
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tinderSkillz/r/seduction26/08/16 05:02 AM
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^ this. Also if things go bad it is super awkward seeing the other person around
/r/seduction30/08/16 07:47 PM
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/r/seduction30/08/16 05:34 AM
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Sounds like you are too invested. I get it that she is hot but do not stress about it dude and just talk to your other girls in the meantime. I try to avoid double texting since it can appear to be needy but if you must just wait a few days then hit her up. In general it's best to avoid oneinitis and putting women on pedestals.
/r/seduction30/08/16 12:17 AM
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Like another poster said it was one experience can't let the define night game for you. I love going out at night yeah sometimes you will meet women who are not interested but there are plenty others who like good conversation. Also you are a better man than me I would have went off on her ass. There was no reason for her to put her hands on you. Keep at it man sorry you had such a bad experience.
/r/seduction29/08/16 06:09 PM
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I've just come to terms that it happens sometimes. Just keep it moving what I've decided to do is just continue to talk to other women in the meantime and do not get emotionally invested. Sucks that it has to be this way but the times are changing.
/r/seduction28/08/16 11:39 PM
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I really think all of this is solid advice. I've been in this position recently where I was becoming overly invested in a girl. Will definitely seek to apply this moving forward good stuff dude!
/r/seduction27/08/16 10:21 PM
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I'm very much a thinker so I've definitely spent plenty of time analyzing what went wrong. Also very goal oriented so I put a lot of pressure on myself constantly to achieve expectations. I've been trying to adapt the mindset of just letting it go and living in the moment. I'd like to learn from my mistakes but at the same time I believe all this thinking about what to do has led to me coming off unnatural and not my usual laid back self. After the first few bad dates I shrugged it off after dat…
/r/seduction26/08/16 09:20 PM
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Good work dude keep it up!
/r/seduction26/08/16 10:40 AM
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All solid points thanks man! It's funny that you mentioned dating is exciting because I've really begun to hate going on dates lol. Been using Tinder the last 6-7 weeks and I have gone on 7 dates so far and nothing has ever happened with any of them. My one success is having a milf just come over to have sex. I have another a woman my age coming over this weekend for a hot tub and wine night. Majority of the dates were for coffee because I'm cheap so that could explain why I feel this way though…
/r/seduction26/08/16 09:30 AM
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I agree with this advice you seem like you are trying a bit too hard since you appear to put a lot of thought into each text. Just keep it cool and do not overthink it. Like MindsEvolved suggested match their energy. If you come off as too eager that will probably turn them off.
/r/seduction17/08/16 08:51 PM
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He might just be a little butt hurt that you could not grab dinner with him that time. If he is a sensitive dude I could totally see someone like that being shady if he was really looking forward to seeing you. Or he just wanted to hookup with you and since you are not in town it's not longer worth it to text you as much. Hard to say but like the other poster said be honest with the way you are feeling. If he is still is being distant just cut him off.
/r/seduction15/08/16 06:27 AM
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I'm still trying to figure it out myself. Was out Friday with a friend when I lost him in the bar. I said screw it I'll just approach women by myself and I talked to 3 different sets consisting of 2 women. What I've noticed is that one out of the set will be more focused on you than the others. I'd say focus on her and see where that goes. In your case it was the 9 you wanted. Maybe focus on one of the other friends then follow up with her. This will show her you are not just a guy who only appr…
/r/seduction08/08/16 05:23 PM
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First off just judging from your post I can tell you have some confidence issues. I say work on yourself a bit while you are on Tinder gym, grooming, etc. I was in the same boat as you I had three dates and two of them just ignored me after. It really can mess about your ego if you let it. What really helped me to relax was just realizing that I should not be taking this app that serious. That has helped me land more dates and handle the dates themselves better. Also realize that you have some q…
/r/seduction01/08/16 08:49 PM
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I was a horrible texter during my college years and the key for me to improve was just to practice. If you can find girls to message that is great but if not just text a friend that is good at texting and pickup things from his style and incorporate it into your style. For openers I'm not into puns or memes I just read their bios and examine their pictures for something interesting to talk about. I matched with a girl last night who is from a known party school. She had no bio and her pictures w…
/r/seduction28/07/16 08:22 PM
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I've been trying to not overly invest in my dates. I've been on three dates so far one where I spent $50 on dinner and another where I spent $26 at a bar. It is starting to feel like I am just wasting money smh. I was only really interested in 1 of the 3 but it still is annoying to just get ignored when I text them now. That is why I have been suggesting coffee for all my future dates and have two more lined one for today and another tomorrow. Maybe I have the wrong strategy but I've just been t…
/r/seduction26/07/16 04:46 PM
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I'm curious how she responds could you let me know if she decides to come over or not. I try not to overthink this stuff like ok I need to hold your hand, kiss her at this time, etc because for me it comes off as forced and a bit awkward. However after reading all these replies it is clear that I need to do more than just spark good conversation and hug them before and after the first date. I aiming to schedule two more dates for this week one girl who seems to be a bit conservative like the gir…
/r/seduction25/07/16 11:21 AM
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Sneak was the wrong choice of course I realize you have to build up to that. For me in the past the first date was just to get to know them and see if there is potential for something more. I've always waited to a second date to make any real moves but I suppose I might as well switch it up and be more aggressive depending on what the mood is like. Kissing in a public place like a coffee shop on the first date just seems weird to me. Like I said I may give it a shot but if not will do what feels…
/r/seduction25/07/16 06:23 AM
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Thanks will give this a shot. I'm not sure if I can sneak in a kiss though without it being awkward since my dates are in a public place. I try to get a feel for her interest in me and not move to fast in order to not sabotage my chances of getting laid later.
/r/seduction25/07/16 02:12 AM
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