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| 1 | By being a woman, you automatically possess a significant amount of social privilege.I was referencing women who are single and open to meeting men. If you're single, at a club, and you find some of the men engaging, fun, etc you're going to flirt. And I'm happy to hear you say that about the 'men don't need all that stuff'...makes me feel happier for my daughter :) But then I'm curious about all the 'tailoring' men think they have to do, that is far more than what women do? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/22 06:02 PM |
| 1 | The dichotomy between “Chad” and “Brad” is falseAmen :) When it comes to THAT stuff, we're all on equal ground here, we all have our strengths, our faults, and we would all do well to be cognizant of those things. Recognize what we bring to the table and where we fall short. Now, if we could get everyone lined up with a common 'human' score...kind of like a credit score, but on how good of a catch we are :) Might boost the confidence of the kind people, and take the ego-maniacs down a few pegs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/22 05:57 PM |
| 1 | By being a woman, you automatically possess a significant amount of social privilege.omg yes...and I get it, it's true in a way, men tend not to be nurturers. That's why you don't see a lot of male day-care providers, nannies, elementary school teachers. And that's fine, but if relationships are important, put in the work. Even just 'some' work will reap rewards. Because people DO know men aren't built that way necessarily. But it doesn't mean you get to sit back and grump about it and demand love, lol. And some men think it's 'easy' for us. It's not. Whether we have more nurtur… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/22 05:54 PM |
| 1 | Women who give sex before marriage, especially if they are virgin, are plain stupid.Again (you are so exhausting when you don't read properly), I'm talking ONLY about when a kid is a kid, UNDER LAW...a minor, who is OWED an upbringing by the parents who CHOSE to bring them into the world. You say your father 'paid for your dad's food and bills when he was a kid'. That's not a 'thing'. It's called parenting. Of course the grandfather paid for his son's food and bills when he was a child. Who is supposed to? The parents. The picture you are painting is delightful...if everyone ju… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/22 05:49 PM |
| 1 | Her education and income matter, and will matter even more in the future.Jesus. The language in this sub is like a different planet. People here define themselves and others to death, this is not real life, it's like fucking latin class. Why talk like this? People here are creating their own society with their own language and hypothetical arguments, it's so weird. Just talk normally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/22 05:35 PM |
| 1 | By being a woman, you automatically possess a significant amount of social privilege.Yeah but that's basic sexual desire stuff. When a man goes out to 'get a woman', it's like they start the second they get to the club. They want to flirt a little, 'bag a woman' and leave. They want sex. When women go out, they want to have a good time, they want to flirt, but sometimes with just the end goal of being flirted with. To feel desirable. Sex, sure, but our ultimate goal is self fulfillment via potential dates, relationships, not just sex. So there will always be a different dynamic.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/22 05:31 PM |
| 2 | The redpill isn't about harming women - it's about saving men from being taken advantage of.I would agree. There is a dangerous game these days of being ok with attributing men with undesirable characteristics, yet there seems to be an unwritten rule that thou shalt not sully a woman's name. I really hope we get past this, and recognize the good and bad in all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/22 05:26 PM |
| 1 | The dichotomy between “Chad” and “Brad” is falseAgree, was just responding to the original commenter here centered around men. And I used females in quotes because that's how many men on these subs tend to label women. 'Why do men strike out when apparently you females want nice guys'? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/22 05:24 PM |
| 0 | By being a woman, you automatically possess a significant amount of social privilege.A woman doesn’t have to tailor herself to be sexually desirable to the same extent that men do. Is that a joke? Do you have any idea how much time we spend on primping and priming for night out, or even just to leave the house? Look at all the products we buy, procedures we undergo, fake hair, nails, boobs, butt, make up tutorials, magazines and articles on how to dress for the man you want, having to make sure we're not wearing the same outfit twice around men, look at all the clothes and shoes… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/22 08:52 PM |
| 6 | By being a woman, you automatically possess a significant amount of social privilege.Let's not forget effort. If women are seen in the caregiver role, it's because they do the caregiver work. Men can't sit back and demand love and attention becuase 'I'm the grandfather'. You need to put in work to reap the rewards. Call your grandkids, spend time with them when they come visit, have conversations iwth them, make them laugh. This is all the stuff undervalued by men, they don't do the work, they let their wives do it, then are surprised/angry/resentful when the women are valued mo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/22 08:44 PM |
| 2 | The redpill isn't about harming women - it's about saving men from being taken advantage of.There's no 'all' or 'none' when you're talking about human beings. Just like you can't say 'all men..' anything, you can't say 'all women...' anything either. I mean, you kind of learn that stuff in life. And if you're listening to your jaded father or online video game buddies, then stop listening. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/22 08:40 PM |
| 4 | The redpill isn't about harming women - it's about saving men from being taken advantage of.So that's just you picking bad women to 'fix them'.... the same thing men tell women... 'stop trying to fix me'. If you pick better women, you will...have better women, lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/22 08:39 PM |
| 2 | CMV: it’s harder for women to be sexually fulfilled in monogamous relationships than men.I would encourage you to join some groups or clubs or even church or something where you can meet women of like-mind/interests and form some friendships. I have a small circle of close friends with whom I can vent, discuss, and uplift each other during tough times. But even just having people touching base with us and seeing how we're doing is an enormous source of support. We all need other people besides our spouse/partner to make us whole. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/22 08:35 PM |
| 4 | CMV: it’s harder for women to be sexually fulfilled in monogamous relationships than men.Nah, you lost me there. I mean, yes, the female orgasm can be elusive, but it's not a guy's fault necessarily. Even the larger than average men cannot bring a woman to orgasm...a lot is how we women learn to move to make it happen. Plus, maybe the guy isn't too small, maybe some women are too 'open'. Anyways, there are aids and toys to help with that. To me, it's more 'how' a guy is in the bedroom...is he confident, does he do the things that turn you on (strong, dominant, gentle, talkative, wha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/22 07:41 PM |
| 5 | CMV: it’s harder for women to be sexually fulfilled in monogamous relationships than men.We women get a GREAT deal of our emotional support from our friends. Some men find it hard to listen/support, because they tend to be great fixers. So they just offer a different kind of support. The reliance we can have on them (going to take care of the noise we heard downstairs, fixing the sink leak, getting us on the side of the road when our cars break down, etc) is just different then straight-up emotional support. For love, comfort, emotional support and sex..I go to my husband. For EXTEN… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/22 07:34 PM |
| 3 | CMV: it’s harder for women to be sexually fulfilled in monogamous relationships than men.I mean, if you're finding a cute way to say women are awesome, then just say it :) But you're saying we just have higher standards, or that our sex drive is that high/specific? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/22 07:30 PM |
| 3 | Her education and income matter, and will matter even more in the future.what the actual hell is a 'post wall woman'?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/22 07:29 PM |
| 1 | The dichotomy between “Chad” and “Brad” is falseFurther clarify...in the market AND ON CERTAIN SUB-REDDITS. Typically...complaining about their lack of luck in the dating world. i.e. very jaded men with potentially plenty wrong with them, looking to blame 'females'. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/22 07:25 PM |
| 7 | Single mothers tend to not see a problem with using their children as a tool in dating.Wow. I mean, I don't think you understand single parenthood. It varies WIDELY depending on how much family support you have, available babysitters, disposable income for things like house keepers to free up your time, etc. You're faulting single parents with having children. That's like faulting a sports car driver for only having two seats. It IS what it IS. It's not a tool, or weapon. It's fact. So accept it, or decide that you don't wish to share your time with their children. Move on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/22 07:23 PM |
| 1 | CMV: it’s harder for women to be sexually fulfilled in monogamous relationships than men.Wow. You're right off the deep end, and making a totally nonsensical argument. let's keep this simple. Women 100% deserve to orgasm and enjoy sex. Fill your boots girl. You specifically asked about whether it's hard to be fulfilled in a monogamous relationship. You're making the assumption monogamous relationships somehow aren't fulfilling (to you at least). So don't enter into one if you aren't sexually satisfied. It's really simple. If you're not sexually satisfied, you either a) haven't found… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/22 07:16 PM |
| 8 | CMV: it’s harder for women to be sexually fulfilled in monogamous relationships than men.So then you don't want to be in a monogamous relationship. What's so hard to understand? If you find 'the person'...you'll know you're ready for one. But if you never do, then don't worry about it, just don't commit. What the f is so hard to understand? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/22 07:12 PM |
| 1 | Women who give sex before marriage, especially if they are virgin, are plain stupid.I honestly don't know how the law works in the case of 'at-fault' divorces...some countries or states/provinces have them, some don't. I totally feel if one spouse cheats, then the marriage is ending because of something THEY did against the vows of marriage and, sure seems fair they should have to pay like, moving out/new apartment/divorce costs because the other spouse may not have wanted a divorce except for the spouse cheating. I think you're mostly referring to marriages where each spouse i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/22 07:07 PM |
| 1 | Women who give sex before marriage, especially if they are virgin, are plain stupid.You are enhancing the argument I made about the drunk driver. Yes, sue him. And you wouldn't be wrong, that's what I 'm saying. You're not 'taking advantage', you're getting what you deserve due to someone else's negligence. Again, not saying lavish lifestyle, but yes, the lifestyle the child would have had if they were still living with you. Let's say your wife did not take the children. You have them 100% of the time. Would you not take them on vacation? Buy them Xmas presents? And I don't mea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/22 06:08 PM |
| 1 | Women who give sex before marriage, especially if they are virgin, are plain stupid.You keep saying 'take advantage of'. If we're talking marriage here, a true marriage that both partners enter into equally, with high hopes of forever after...then the intention here is no one takes advantage, everyone is pulling their weight, work-wise, child-rearing, household-keeping, emotionally supporting, etc. Laws were put there by society, not women. Society thinks it's fair that the children of a couple should be looked after, and that a high-earning spouse cannot legally dump his/her k… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Women who give sex before marriage, especially if they are virgin, are plain stupid.1 - I am only talking about having children when both partners want one. I'm not debating about when just a woman wants a kid. We're talking marriages here, and my firm belief is if there is one partner who does not want a kid, you don't have a kid. 2 - I was talking only about the men who want nothing to do with any kind of resposibility towards the women and children in your life. YOU go live alone, the rest of society will do fine without you. The men and women who recognize partnerships. 3 -… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Women who give sex before marriage, especially if they are virgin, are plain stupid.You missed in a previous post...two actually...where I specifically said, 'I'm not saying we should be forcing a 50/50 split of women firefighters, if they don't want to or are not physically capable of it, nor should we force more men to be primary school teachers if they don't want to be'. My ISSUE is that when there is a pool of qualified, interested candidates, then the hiring should reflect that pool. That may be the FIRST thing we agree on (if you were to have paid attention) that this is … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 06:40 PM |
| 1 | Women who give sex before marriage, especially if they are virgin, are plain stupid.It's called responsibility, and if you don't want it, then don't move to North America because that's the law here. People provide for their families. They don't dupe a partner into a loving marriage, say you want kids, encourage the partner to leave their jobs so they can do 'what's best for the kid', then just leave..throw 'just above poverty level' pennies at them and say 'yeah, I did the right thing by my flesh and blood'. No one says you have to give them trust funds and leave anything to t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 05:23 PM |
| 1 | Women who give sex before marriage, especially if they are virgin, are plain stupid.Hahaha wow. Something in return? you get a child. That's what WE get, so why do you get any more? We aren't 'off work' during pregnancy, we're 'off' so we can, you know, push a baby out of our bodies and FEED a baby and provide SOME degree of nurturing for a few weeks or months., so that you can have a family. And if you don't want children, don't have them. And if you want to work in a male-only world where you don't have to deal with women 'taking' from you then go start a men's only colony. E… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 05:17 PM |
| 1 | Women who give sex before marriage, especially if they are virgin, are plain stupid.Indeed apples and oranges. Women will never be as physically strong, women will always bear children. There. That's huge. And that creates so many inequalities. What we are shooting for is equity. Each person should have what they need to be successful in life. A woman who has no choice but to the be bearer of children (I'm talking generally...not individually) must still have equal access to the workplace and not be unfairly punished for her 'time off' to bring a child into the world. Even then… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 02:38 PM |
| 1 | Women who give sex before marriage, especially if they are virgin, are plain stupid.I'm talking about when you bring up your kids in the home that you own, let's say it's a really nice 4 bedroom home with a pool. This is the home you own, the home you bring your kids up in. You and your wife decide what financial benefits you give them, how many presents they get, clothes, gifts, trips, etc. If you decide to leave the family, and your wife doesn't work, you don't get to pick up and leave, or kick them out of your beautiful home, while your wife gets a part time job and squeezes… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 02:33 PM |
| 1 | Women who give sex before marriage, especially if they are virgin, are plain stupid.Yes, I'm talking about fair representation out of the qualified and 'interested' pool. Like I said earlier, I'm not saying half of firefighters need to be women. If women are not interested in pursuing that career and yes, it could have a lot to do with physicality required for the job, that's fine...but if there is an interested and qualified pool of women who are not getting hired, then there is a problem. And um...yes..women who MUST have babies because men cannot, MUST be protected in the wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 02:26 PM |
| 1 | Women who give sex before marriage, especially if they are virgin, are plain stupid.MEN are given so many advantages. MEN are the 'preferred' gender for families for centuries. Stronger, carry on family name, it's a patriarchy for a reason. For centuries, men have been given the advantages. But you had nothing to complain about then, did you? But you complain now because 'this world we've created, I don't like it anymore, why should I work when my wife doesn't have to'. (Because that's the world you created). So...make things equal, take equal time off work to tend to sick chil… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/22 08:46 PM |
| 1 | Women who give sex before marriage, especially if they are virgin, are plain stupid.You sound awful. YOU brought kids into the world. YOu can't abandon them to live poorly while you live it up. Kids didn't ask to be born and are not 'lucky' you decide to share your money with them. I mean, clearly you don't have kids. If you were a child...and your father earned 200,000$ a year and he left you with your mother to live in a small house with basic food, clothing and bags for school while he travelled the world, had NEW kids, new wife, lavished them with gifts and a big house...th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/22 08:43 PM |
| 1 | Women who give sex before marriage, especially if they are virgin, are plain stupid.For someone who apparently lives in a place so plagued by dog-eat-dog, how is it you can suggest that all people are treated equally already? There is a reason we have a charter of human rights...to ENSURE all people are treated equally because human beings weren't doing it themselves already. 'I've heard about indians...they drink and don't show up for work. I'm not hiring one'. 'Nope, not hiring Jane, she's going to have a few kids in the next 5 years, no way are we going to saddle ourselves w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/22 08:38 PM |
| 1 | Women who give sex before marriage, especially if they are virgin, are plain stupid.Well, you have a very radical frame of reference, so I will chalk up your strong opinion to that of a person who has lived under very distressing and 'not the norm' circumstances from people discussing marital assets and divorce laws. I live in North America, with proper banks, and not many street gangs running around branding people with branding irons stealing your cash. So let's say we are from different worlds, so of course our opinions will be different. I still maintain, if you don't trust… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/22 07:25 PM |
| 1 | Women who give sex before marriage, especially if they are virgin, are plain stupid.omg, lol. Well now you're just straight off the deep end. Have a lovely, masculine, self-pitying day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/22 01:43 PM |
| 1 | Women who give sex before marriage, especially if they are virgin, are plain stupid.The right thing = hiring the qualified person for the job. So many men pass over women because of perceived future problems, not because they're not qualified. Second - yes, giving some marginalized, underrepresented groups a lift up is critical in ensuring we cultivate our talent and give everyone a chance to earn and provide for themselves and their families. How else do you hope to get some kids, who have had poor upbringings and no access to good schools, computers, etc...the chance to break… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/22 01:42 PM |
| 1 | Women who give sex before marriage, especially if they are virgin, are plain stupid.OK, so I think you are so right in a lot of ways...I mean divorce is expensive and I think a lot of the laws were written when dealing with true marriages breaking down and a household divided in two. Not quickie marriages to 'get half his shit'. I think it's appalling for anyone to target a rich partner, decide not to work, have a kid, divorce and take half of everything the other partner ever owned. I mean, that's wrong. But that's what pre-nups are for, and honestly, if you marry someone who … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/22 01:34 PM |
| 1 | Virgins women aren't anywhere near as rare as people on here think - those who say otherwise always misrepresent the statistics.YES! Exactly. They're making it much harder on themselves and you said it exactly right, it's a distraction. Unrelated to this sub, I kind of flipped when I first hear the term 'flexitarian'. It's LITERALLY not a thing. It means, 'I'm trying to eat less meat'. I mean, wtf??? The insatiable need for people to label themselves is crazy. WHY would you EVER need that label? Nobody cares about what you're TRYING to do. When would you EVER need that label? lol. It baffles me. And like you said, it's a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 03:00 PM |
| 1 | Women who give sex before marriage, especially if they are virgin, are plain stupid.I think people who get married have to do so with a true 'partnership' in mind. If a person wants to have kids, raise a family, they 'usually' want a partner. In any partnership, people have to bring value, but it's not always the same value. Here's what I bring, here's what you bring. And it's a blend of money, support, keeping home, home finances/planning, the actual 'raising' of the children, supporting through school, creating well-rounded children, planning/supporting activities, volunteeri… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 02:56 PM |
| 1 | Women who give sex before marriage, especially if they are virgin, are plain stupid.Unfortunately sometimes you have to pay to make the 'right' thing happen. I mean, look at it from a business owner standpoint, aside from it being the 'wrong thing to do', why would I hire a woman of child-bearing years in a top position requiring specific skill-set, etc? If she goes on mat leave twice in a 6 year period, that's a LOT of hassle for me to have to backfill, top up mat leave, etc. Plus women are usually the primary caregiver so there are 'have to go, my kid is sick' things. (Which … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/22 02:50 PM |
| 3 | Women who give sex before marriage, especially if they are virgin, are plain stupid.You're wrong about housework..again. But given your experience, that's not difficult to comprehend. I was wrong about housework until I got married. I too had a single mom, and I too lived alone. It was never as much until you got married and had kids. As for birth control, you said women have much more options. YOu're not wrong, but the options suck. It messes with hormones and causes major side effects and risks. A condom is the easiest, safest, and a decent effectiveness for the lowest risk. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/22 07:23 PM |
| 0 | Women who give sex before marriage, especially if they are virgin, are plain stupid.I don't like the word feminism. Back when we had to pull women out of hte home and into the work world, go to school, etc. I get it...but now, let's call it 'equity for all' or something and stop equating it with pushing for increased women's rights. Can't forget men in all of this. We shouldn't push men down to raise women up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/22 07:16 PM |
| 1 | Virgins women aren't anywhere near as rare as people on here think - those who say otherwise always misrepresent the statistics.So when you say 'men don't want another man's leftovers', you also mean that both ways? Why would you just use it as a slam against women if you truly are remaining a virgin for this altruistic reason? I mean, give yourself some credit for the sacrifices YOU'RE making so your wife isn't dealing with some else's seconds either. You're a hero dude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/22 02:29 PM |
| 2 | Women who give sex before marriage, especially if they are virgin, are plain stupid.Housework isn't difficult. It's neverending. Think of coming home after work and having to pick up kids from daycare, and immediately start making dinner, unpacking lunch boxes, doing dishes, serving dinner, doing more dishes, helping with homework and bath routine before you even put your feet up for one second. THEN there's sweeping, tidying, picking up toys. And that's just the minimum nightly chores. Just picture coming home from work and having people dependant on you to actively do stuff a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/22 02:26 PM |
| 2 | Women who give sex before marriage, especially if they are virgin, are plain stupid.I think the ratio of who initiates divorce is fairly even. Women leave men to be happier. Men leave women if they have another woman lined up. Men cheat more. If a man cheats and a woman leaves, that was his mess up. I've argued this before, if a couple doesn't really want to 'build a life' together then don't get married. keep all finances 50/50 but then sorry, the 'free labour' gets paid for. (if the housewife/husband) earns less and does more. But traditionally, 'old school marriages'..the ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/22 02:11 PM |
| 0 | Women who give sex before marriage, especially if they are virgin, are plain stupid.Sure, maybe. Or they just don't know any better and are fully committed to their vow. That's a 'version' of happy, I don't discount that. maybe it's like that whole 'god said don't eat from the tree of knowledge' thing. The more you know, the more you want, the less happy you'll be.? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/22 02:01 PM |
| 1 | Virgins women aren't anywhere near as rare as people on here think - those who say otherwise always misrepresent the statistics.Imagine admitting you consider a woman who has had sex before you as 'leftovers' like that makes you a prince every virgin wants to marry? lol So let's hear it...YOU'RE a virgin, right? By choice...because it's 'desirable' and you don't want to be leftovers to your future wife? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/22 01:59 PM |
| 2 | Women who give sex before marriage, especially if they are virgin, are plain stupid.It is a big deal if it's not split. If it's not a big deal, you try doing it for a full month. Keep the house clean, dinner on the table after a long day of work, laundry done, kids dressed and lunches made. It's not 'hard', it's just constant, and there's prep involved. Anyway. Done talking about that...idiots know what housework is. And if you don't, then try it. It's a job. Not sure how men are f-cked over unless a) they picked the wrong woman or b) they had grand delusions that aren't up to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/22 02:50 AM |
| 5 | Women who give sex before marriage, especially if they are virgin, are plain stupid.Sure, a housewife has a job, if she's not working, she's doing all the chores. That's fair. I'm talking about women who also have full time jobs and support the family as well. THEN come home and are expected to do all the cooking, cleaning, laundry, child rearing, grocery shopping, helping with homework, while dad gets to put his feet up. Stats show that men's happiness factor increases after marriage...he has someone caring for him, making his dinner, etc. Women's happiness factor goes down as… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/22 02:45 AM |
| 3 | Women who give sex before marriage, especially if they are virgin, are plain stupid.Yeah, I said that wrong. When a man and woman both value this as an agreement of no sex before marriage, it's a shared belief system and it's fantastic for them. What I'm seeing a lot of on here are men who 'don't want another man's leftovers' yet they can have as much sex as they want, so long as 'their woman' hasn't. That's what's disgusting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/22 02:40 AM |
| 1 | Women who give sex before marriage, especially if they are virgin, are plain stupid.The data shows that it's mostly women who find marriage less satisfying if they've had more than 6 partners. For men, it really doesn't dip much lower the more sexual partners THEY've had. But these studies don't take into account (that I could find) religious persuasions,/belief systems. If a couple believes that being virginal until marriage is important, then that's a huge driver of why they believe their marriage will be successful. Also, belief of vows remaining unbroken, divorce =sin, etc.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/22 02:39 AM |
| 3 | Women who give sex before marriage, especially if they are virgin, are plain stupid.Define 'lasting'. Happily ever after? Or submissive women who won't complain and neither would EVER consider divorce because it's a sin. The simple act of 'staying married' does not prove a happy marriage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/22 02:32 AM |
| 4 | Women who give sex before marriage, especially if they are virgin, are plain stupid.Your point is? People will seek out love when people want it and value it. You need two people to fall in love. Virginity is not valued by women. It's only valued by men. Some weirdo possessive 15th century men. If all women joined forces and had a 'ritual coming of age' sexual experience by the time they were 17 there would be an end to this stupid virginity quest by men. Or if science could somehow 'manufacture a hymen' to fool stupid men with ...we could also end this, AND make lots of money … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/22 02:30 AM |
| 6 | Women who give sex before marriage, especially if they are virgin, are plain stupid.Well if men didn't irresponsibly ejaculate inside a woman then he'd have nothing to worry about from these 'parasites', would they? lol Lord help me today, what is with the virginity and anti-marriage men? I feel you're not wrong though, now that more women work and earn VERY good livings, they are questioning the value of getting married at all. Taking on a second job of 'tending home' and raising kids for a man who feels it's not his job? No fucking thank you. (Saying this as a happily married… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/22 02:27 AM |
| 9 | Women who give sex before marriage, especially if they are virgin, are plain stupid.Correction, a legal 'trap' for the one making the most money. It's a god damned second job for women who marry men who refuse to put in the work around the house and raise THEIR children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/22 02:20 AM |
| 2 | Virgins women aren't anywhere near as rare as people on here think - those who say otherwise always misrepresent the statistics.Well that makes sense. I guess the entire world will only then have one sexual partner each. You know, so that god forbid anyone has anyone else's 'leftovers'. Totally doable. But it's ok princess, we'll just keep lying to you and tell you 'oh yes, you're my first, you're amazing, I had no idea sex was going to be this life-changing, where have you been all my life'. Snort. Best of luck to ya. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/22 02:15 AM |
| 3 | Virgins women aren't anywhere near as rare as people on here think - those who say otherwise always misrepresent the statistics.That's great. And I recognize the difference. I'm just noticing a lot of stuff on this sub that makes me cringe and feel sad for people who can't get outside of their own heads. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/22 02:10 AM |
| 3 | Virgins women aren't anywhere near as rare as people on here think - those who say otherwise always misrepresent the statistics.I looked it up. In biology, a pair bond is the strong affinity that develops in some species between a mating pair, often leading to the production and rearing of offspring and potentially a lifelong bond. Pair-bonding is a term coined in the 1940s[1] that is frequently used in sociobiology and evolutionary biology circles. The term often implies either a lifelong socially monogamous relationship or a stage of mating interaction in socially monogamous species. It is sometimes used in reference t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 06:26 PM |
| 3 | Virgins women aren't anywhere near as rare as people on here think - those who say otherwise always misrepresent the statistics.Yeah, the lingo here is super restrictive and just weird. Why apply animal behaviour terms to human behaviour? Why not just say 'the other traits don't matter if she isn't able to build a deep emotional bond with him. Dude is 'likening' humans to animals and therefore talking about mating, and 'favourable traits' and it's going down a path of scientifically trying to define women and relationships rather than just meeting people and seeing if you get along. It's no wonder he's alone and trying t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 06:08 PM |
| 2 | Do people feel that dick is ick due to genetics or due to upbringing?I don't think you're understanding the link here. What I'm saying is that a man can tell women that they are MORE attractive the LESS men they sleep with. So therefore, women want to be attractive to men, so they sleep with less men. With me so far? Therefore men have a hard time finding a woman to sleep with because women are being very selective...because that's the way MEN want it. Funny yet? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 03:55 PM |
| 3 | Virgins women aren't anywhere near as rare as people on here think - those who say otherwise always misrepresent the statistics.Not so much because men write the rules and feel they can demand virginity and some goats or something to drag some poor, beautiful woman from her poor family home and 'provide a better life'. Ugh. Gross. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 03:52 PM |
| 2 | Virgins women aren't anywhere near as rare as people on here think - those who say otherwise always misrepresent the statistics.It's an adventure alright, but it's like when you start the 'game'.. people can take a brief look at the instructions to understand it, then at the sound of the gun, charge off and explore. Or, they can sit there and debate endlessly about the rules, create sub-rules, take one step into the game and find something you don't like, and retreat to 'rule-reading' again, to create another rule so you won't make that wrong step again...rinse and repeat. Just go...like OUT into the world. Try something… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 03:11 PM |
| 3 | Virgins women aren't anywhere near as rare as people on here think - those who say otherwise always misrepresent the statistics.And are you a virgin too? Or is your d%ck in another woman supposed to be ok to her, the pure 'unsullied' virgin? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 03:05 PM |
| 3 | Virgins women aren't anywhere near as rare as people on here think - those who say otherwise always misrepresent the statistics.Where you're both virgins, or just her? Do you have stats for that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 03:04 PM |
| 2 | Virgins women aren't anywhere near as rare as people on here think - those who say otherwise always misrepresent the statistics.I'm going with sad...so much to analyze these days that it's no wonder some of these people never find partners. They've already pre-determined worthiness based on how they've categorized random presumptions about someone and called them 'undatable'. I feel for today's generation. Or maybe, just people on subs like this, spending hours analyzing theories, then unleashing themselves on poor unsuspecting dating pool :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 02:47 PM |
| 5 | Virgins women aren't anywhere near as rare as people on here think - those who say otherwise always misrepresent the statistics.I just feel like there are so many 'factors' at play in today's dating/partnering world that people feel the need to label, overanalyze, and define every single aspect of a partner. It's no wonder people on subs like this have a hard time dating. Body count (back in my day, I'm old, in my 40's) wasn't something you talked about as a 'thing'..it was something that eventually a couple usually discussed as it came up, and then it was done with. Whether you believed them or not was a factor of how m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 02:45 PM |
| 3 | Virgins women aren't anywhere near as rare as people on here think - those who say otherwise always misrepresent the statistics.I'm learning to really hate these subs, lol. Waaayyyy too much over-analysis into relationships. Too much lingo, definitions, categorizations...oh my :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 02:40 PM |
| 3 | Virgins women aren't anywhere near as rare as people on here think - those who say otherwise always misrepresent the statistics.I don't know what a trad-con is, so much lingo to get up to speed with on this sub, lol. Have a lovely day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 02:39 PM |
| 6 | Virgins women aren't anywhere near as rare as people on here think - those who say otherwise always misrepresent the statistics.Wow, so much thought going into selecting 'just' the right woman based on nothing else but maintaining the male ego. And what exactly does this MAN bring to the table? If he can snag the perfect 'demure, virgin' woman who won't cheat...what does she get in return? Will she continue to be 'highly valued' or will this highly motivated man take her for granted, treat her poorly (because she's so 'demure', she won't be one to stand up for herself')and sleep around because her 'demure-ness' (lol) doe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 02:06 PM |
| 2 | Virgins women aren't anywhere near as rare as people on here think - those who say otherwise always misrepresent the statistics.Pair bond? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 02:01 PM |
| 2 | Would You Stay Friends With Someone That is a Cheater?Ah. Gotcha. Thanks :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 01:21 PM |
| 4 | Virgins women aren't anywhere near as rare as people on here think - those who say otherwise always misrepresent the statistics.I still don't understand that you're wiping out 85% of the 'datable' population in favour of a virgin, when if you're looking for a partner, aren't there so many more qualities that should be of greater importance than whether or not she has had sex before? Will she be a great wife? Adore you? Love you? Be a great mother? Help provide for hte family? Love your entire family? Be positive and energetic and driven to help her whole family succeed? So you find this virgin, and she's physically accep… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 01:20 PM |
| 9 | Virgins women aren't anywhere near as rare as people on here think - those who say otherwise always misrepresent the statistics.? Just because she's a virgin doesn't mean she won't cheat. Not sure your logic here. In fact, could be that once she DOES have sex with her now husband, she could find it's not all she hoped it would be and wonder whether she's missing something... could it feel different with someone else...? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 01:15 PM |
| 3 | Would You Stay Friends With Someone That is a Cheater?This is a tricky one because it's an ongoing thing and you're hanging around with them together, while she is cheating on him. First, as a truly close friend, you would care about their overall well-being and encourage them to talk about why they are doing something so out of character for them. You would warn them they are being unkind and this will end badly, etc. Also, you should express that you won't be put into a situation where you have to lie, and it does make you uncomfortable to be aro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 01:09 PM |
| 2 | Would You Stay Friends With Someone That is a Cheater?That's weird, that seems backwards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 01:04 PM |
| 2 | To people who agree with redpill ideas, what real life experience or event in your life convinced you that redpill ideas are true and makes sense?Yeah I think I didn't explain it well, you're using Pete Davidson as an example of someone women may find ugly. I'm assuming you meant compared to other actors. Regardless I still think you're somewhat wrong. Yes, money makes EVERYONE more attractive. Even Ryan Reynolds, if he were a dude working in accounting, and not posing on the cover of magazines and walking around shirtless (I mean would he still have abs with a grueling work schedule and kids to come home to and no nanny?) would he be AS … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 01:02 PM |
| 3 | To people who agree with redpill ideas, what real life experience or event in your life convinced you that redpill ideas are true and makes sense?This is exactly what attracted me to my husband. He's decent looking, so there was at least a 'yeah I could see myself with this guy' attraction. However that gets you maybe a conversation in a bar, nothing more. Once I talked to him that night and he called me a couple days later, I found out his family is NOT rich AT ALL, but he makes no excuses for that, he had a solid career path but nothing to brag about, he liked who he was, he was interested in who I was, and we had fun doing some fun thi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/22 07:58 PM |
| 1 | To people who agree with redpill ideas, what real life experience or event in your life convinced you that redpill ideas are true and makes sense?Pretty sure he meant 'compared to other dudes you might see on TV'. So not Pete Davidson versus your buds from bowling league, but Pete Davidson stacked up against like Ryan Reynolds or Chris Hemsworth, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/22 07:52 PM |
| 1 | Do people feel that dick is ick due to genetics or due to upbringing?Very well said and incredibly accurate. Women often like to go by 'feel'. What feeling do we get when we're with someone, do I feel respected, cared for, etc. Men may try, as you said, logically figuring something out and often, when there is failure, taking it hard and not being introspective but rather pulling up these definitions, and social constructs and gender stereotypes to 'blame'. What's funny is that no one would deny that finding partners you can click with is fairly rare, meaning you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/22 07:28 PM |
| 3 | Do people feel that dick is ick due to genetics or due to upbringing?Ah, body count. got it. Somewhat new in this sub, getting to know the lingo is so irritating. People really like to 'define' shit about themselves, don't they? Like their number on the 'hotness' scale, their body count, I've heard people refer to themselves as a 'high value male' (lol) define according to the kind of 'attachment type' they are, astrological signs, chads, incels...people have themselves so boxed in that they use those labels to define themselves rather than doing their own thing … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/22 06:31 PM |
| 1 | Is women's attraction influenced by other things beside physical attraction, or do women just make exceptions for men with success and money?If a woman is working hard to earn a living for herself, she will NOT want a man who does not pull HIS own weight. Also guys on here talk about 'women don't go for ugly guys'. I mean, what women are you talking about? Are you a 3 and she's a 9? Then no, why would she? Would a 3 date a 0? Likely not. People go for others who are around their 'degree' in the looks department, that's why when you see so many couples out there, they 'make sense'. YOu don't tend to see a huge discrepancy in the attra… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/22 04:56 PM |
| 3 | If men don’t want to be cheated on, they shouldn’t date out of their leagueI don't think you fully know how to define 'good bf'. You're just a lazy picker. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/22 04:49 PM |
| 2 | If men don’t want to be cheated on, they shouldn’t date out of their leagueIf people would just be honest and say they don't want to commit right now, then there'd be way less cheating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/22 04:49 PM |
| 5 | Do people feel that dick is ick due to genetics or due to upbringing?If you're running into women who say that, then you're dating trash and/or messed up women. I mean, who says that? We may not run around saying it's the most beautiful thing we've ever seen but are you telling women their vaginas are beautiful? That said, I think on the whole, women do a lot more to 'enhance their beauty' than men. We buff, shave, wax, moisturize, exfoliate, bleach...all to make 'down there' look more attractive to you. What do you do? Anyway, again, I think you're attributing w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/22 04:43 PM |
| 2 | I hear a lot of people say that women "aren't rocket science" When it comes to dating. I disagree wholeheartedly.I still feel that goes both ways. The trick is trying to NOT attach all kinds of gender assumptions when you meet A person. Focus on THAT person, they could be anywhere on the spectrum of 'what a woman is like' and you don't want to assume she's playing games when she could just be trying to forge her way, like you, into a normal relationship :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/22 02:41 PM |
| 7 | Do people feel that dick is ick due to genetics or due to upbringing?Men complain about not being able to sleep with women Men tell women that they are less attractive if they have slept with many men. this is freaking hilarious. So, no one gets to have 'the sex' and feel happy about it. I'm dying laughing here... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/22 02:36 PM |
| 2 | Do people feel that dick is ick due to genetics or due to upbringing?What is 'N'? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/22 02:30 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Guys should jerk off more if the can't get laid constantlyI think the biggest problems with a lot of sexually frustrated guys is that the longer they go without healthy relationships, the more they blame it on women and their hatred seethes through when meeting new people, thus prolonging the time they go 'partnerless'. I know it's hard to do because sometimes hating someone else feels so good...however it's just hurting you and your chances when you paint all women with the same 'shitty' brush. We're not all shitty. We don't think all men are shitty. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/22 02:29 PM |
| 3 | I hear a lot of people say that women "aren't rocket science" When it comes to dating. I disagree wholeheartedly.I'd honestly argue the same in reverse. Both genders are difficult to understand, when you're the opposite gender, lol. But I get what you're saying. Let me start with the 'tall and muscular' stuff I keep hearing repeated over and over. Sure, women may be initially attracted to that. Just like men with blonde hair and large breasts. No secret there on either side. Physical beauty, attraction is a common thread on both sides. There is Mr. Right, vs Mr. Right Now. Same with dudes. You find a hot w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/22 02:19 PM |
| 6 | Why do you guys care this much about dating or sex or whatever?I can see not understanding the importance or draw of something you've never experienced. I think you need to accept that you can't really judge something until you've been there. Experience it, THEN ask 'what's the big deal'. At least then you'll have a frame of reference. It's like me saying 'what's the big deal with gaming? Like I just don't get it' and have never played a video game except a few in arcades years ago. A gamer will say 'sit down and play this for a few months...THEN we'll talk… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/22 02:09 PM |
| 2 | Why do you guys care this much about dating or sex or whatever?It's not that it's the most important, but you do focus on the things that are absent in your life. Maslow's hierarchy and all. For those who crave closeness, people to share thoughts with, grow with, special moments, feeling true safety/comfort/love with another person who has your back...I mean it's a special feeling. Do you 'need' it? Maybe not always and forever, but to experience it at least once is very impactful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/22 02:05 PM |
| 2 | Why do you guys care this much about dating or sex or whatever?what are these titles you are using to define yourself? Where do they come from? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/22 02:03 PM |
| 6 | People who complain about the pull yourself up by your bootstraps philosophy will still use it for dating.Ohhhh man I'd love to see that reality show!! I'm a Gen X'er and trying hard not to be to my kids like how. But I WILL find myself saying 'just go find the help wanted signs', lol. I would LOVE to see a show where the outdated advice gets put to work by the boomers who swear that's how you'll get ahead. Is there a 'pitch this show' subreddit here? lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/22 01:59 PM |
| 2 | Seriously, why does nobody in the “incel discourse” ever recommend going to bars?I'm sorry you haven't had much luck...but maybe look at who you're picking. So for example, I'm like average looking but I'm pretty funny, and outgoing, however a little socially awkward. Weird combination. If I go for someone much better looking than me who is crazy charismatic and life of the party, I'm not getting that dude. I need to find someone who gets my humour, and maybe notices ME before I notice THEM. But if you look too 'over interested', we sense that...and it turns us off. If every… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 06:28 PM |
| 1 | Women are not wrong in saying that the average guy is an undateable mess. The mistake they make is believing that the average woman is not.It's a start...when someone posts this, and others agree...then isn't that good? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 05:49 PM |
| 1 | Women are not wrong in saying that the average guy is an undateable mess. The mistake they make is believing that the average woman is not.I totally agree. Stuff like this is what serves to put the genders on equal playing fields..we're all human, we all err, we're all messed up in some ways (the older we get the more baggage we carry, the more messy we become). We're all the same, just in different ways :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 05:28 PM |
| 1 | Seriously, why does nobody in the “incel discourse” ever recommend going to bars?I mean, people meet in all ways. I'm not suggesting you join a book club if you wouldn't actually enjoy books. Get out there, socially, in ways where yes, you could meet women. And there's a right way and a wrong way to go about it. Don't jump on her at the first meeting. Meet as normal. Focus on the activity, make light, easy talk. Get to know her...and all the other people. Listen to what they do in their spare time, talk about your work...widen your experiences. If they all talk about a movie… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 05:26 PM |
| 1 | Seriously, why does nobody in the “incel discourse” ever recommend going to bars?Oh really? women are constantly judged for being 'crazy' and 'too emotional' and 'needy' ...you name it. The difference is, if a woman presents as awkward or a little 'too much', many men will overlook this to get a quick hookup. Women don't usually. Whether we've also had problems in the past, or whether it's because we tend to be more at risk physically with a potentially aggressive/angry/unstable person, we may turn down someone who is coming on too strong or clear they just want a hookup. An… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 01:23 PM |
| 2 | What do you think a High Value Man wants from a partner?Sounds like OP considers a 'high value woman' as someone ticks all the same boxes he listed PLUS have a personality deficit and/or low self esteem so as to listen to whatever whiny crap he lays out about how wonderful he is and how women suck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/22 10:05 PM |
| 1 | What do you think a High Value Man wants from a partner?That's just being lazy...everyone wants that. That's why drivethroughs were invented, lol. My guess is you're on here asking this leading question to slam it with a 'gotcha!' that doesn't even hit home, because you're walking around thinking of yourself as such a 'high value man' (lol) with likely an ego you neglected to mention that probably comes out like water from a sieve in your first interaction with a woman. And when they escape out the restaurant bathroom window so they don't have to hea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/22 10:03 PM |
| 1 | Women should not be considered adults until 25The OP isn't concerned one iota with the education of women...just a hint. Nor is he aware that some of the reasons for this disparity in the student loan load is that often parents prioritize their 'male' child and save money for HIM to go to college. Also, some women who erroneously started out being someone's wife and not their own person, decided 'hell no' and pursued education in adulthood. But OP doesn't want you to consider all that :>) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/22 09:48 PM |
| -2 | Seriously, why does nobody in the “incel discourse” ever recommend going to bars?If they have these problems, then why look for a woman who will deal with your personality disorders and issues? Why not work on fixing yourself first. Like don't enter a chess match when you've only ever played checkers, then get mad when you don't win. Silly but picture from Friends...Jon Lovitz played this loser with no social skills on a date with Rachel. I mean...get a grip, don't cry on a date then when it's not going well, ask for sex. Work on being socially normal, don't make others feel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/22 09:40 PM |
| 1 | CMV: it's hypocritical for a woman to criticise men for caring about past sexual history if she herself would not date a man who is a virgin or never had a gf at 30.Is no one going to ask what the heck chotto matte...blah blah means? I mean I know I'm new here but wth?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/22 09:30 PM |
| 1 | Can I get a “prenup” after I’m married.Not assuming anything, I'm just saying that in a legal marriage, it doesn't matter in the courts. If you're married, anything that happens in the marriage is legally 'consented to' unless you leave the marriage. If your wife withdraws a large chunk of money and gambles it away, without your knowlegde, the courts still default to 'a marital decision' so that's a marital loss. If your husband beats you up and you don't press charges, and you stay married, you can't go back 'later' and sue him for … | /r/MensRights | 12/09/22 01:19 PM |
| 3 | Can I get a “prenup” after I’m married.And how could you face your future kids knowing 'I was willing to not even have you so you're lucky your mom signed the papers'. | /r/MensRights | 09/09/22 03:38 PM |
| 2 | Can I get a “prenup” after I’m married.Oh I know that...but let's see your wife bring you a post-nup as she's building her business, knowing she'll be getting rich and feeling wonderful that she won't have to share a penny of it with you 'if' you divorce... I mean, she still loves you, just, she just wants to protect herself from your inevitable assholish-ness. How will that work the day after you sign it, and she's going to be late coming home because work is busy and she's wondering if you're ok to make dinner? Feeling generous? An… | /r/MensRights | 09/09/22 03:28 PM |
| 3 | Can I get a “prenup” after I’m married.They can neither know, or not know this. Within the confines of a marriage, certain things are assumed. And when you 'build a life' with someone, and reap rewards of what you've built, the courts believe that life gets split when the marriage splits. So let's say if one partner starts a business venture, works 14 hour days and the second partner also works full time and they both come home, no dinner made, dirty house, they're exhausted and no one shops or cooks or cleans very much. One partner … | /r/MensRights | 09/09/22 03:22 PM |
| 1 | Calling your child 'Former Son' and refusing to pay Child support.This is exactly it..and because the parent who has to pay, has to pay cash, and not actual diapers, shoes, a utility bill, etc. they get their panties in a bunch that they are 'paying the ex' when it's 'paying the ex to provide half of the bills for the child(ren)'. Some people are so petty they just can't see it. OR, some ex's are so horrible that they do in fact misuse the money. It's a tough situation for sure. | /r/MensRights | 08/09/22 08:58 PM |
| -6 | Can I get a “prenup” after I’m married.If you have a partner, and you grow your business, no court could state unequivocally that your partner did NOT contribute to YOUR ability to grow your business. Giving moral support, holding down the fort, providing you companionship and support, having someone making money that gave you a sense of security to take risks with your business, you can't say you benefit nothing from a supportive partner. So good luck with that. But honestly, from the sounds of it, you are already considering divorc… | /r/MensRights | 08/09/22 08:52 PM |
| 1 | The entire Internet is complaining about how horrific it was to watch/hear a c-section on House of the Dragon. Not one word is mentioned about the man getting his head brutally beaten to a gooey pulp moments before. This actually infuriates me.That's absolutely tragic. Speaks volumes to the health and safety records of varying countries....you'd think when an international event is involved, they'd do whatever they can to ensure 'internationally acceptable' levels of health and safety are applied. I get what you're saying, I do. The FGM versus MGM though is very different. FGM is done specifically to curtail women's sexual pleasure. MGM began as a belief about cleanliness, and is largely being disputed now. I do agree once 'real' stud… | /r/MensRights | 25/08/22 05:28 PM |
| 1 | it's hilarious. when it happens to men. X-post from r/extremelyinfuriatingWhoever is getting mad at 'not all men' are people who shouldn't be listened to. We can't paint genders with the same brush. That's trouble. | /r/MensRights | 25/08/22 03:15 PM |
| 1 | The entire Internet is complaining about how horrific it was to watch/hear a c-section on House of the Dragon. Not one word is mentioned about the man getting his head brutally beaten to a gooey pulp moments before. This actually infuriates me.Well I hope you're wrong. The whole 'wymyn' thing (I had to look it up) is to exclude the word 'men'. Which apparently was co-opted by extreme feminists and I don't think it's helpful (human, man, woman...it's all good :) ) The rest of the world is slower in treating its women fairly. Female genital mutilation, not having rape be a crime if it's against your spouse, not being able to drive, get a job, have a bank account....I mean I'm all for live and let live and if the women in other countries… | /r/MensRights | 25/08/22 03:14 PM |
| 0 | The entire Internet is complaining about how horrific it was to watch/hear a c-section on House of the Dragon. Not one word is mentioned about the man getting his head brutally beaten to a gooey pulp moments before. This actually infuriates me.Well when you're name-calling against one gender, that's divisive, isolating, and hostile. So imagine if everyone, right now, stopped generally using derogatory terms to refer to the opposite sex. I mean, wow. That would be huge, wouldn't it? And yes, it will take decades...I mean the original feminist movement started in what, the 50's? I mean, we were finally recognized as 'persons' under the law in like the early 1900's I think? Women needed a man to co-sign a loan until the late 50s, and in … | /r/MensRights | 24/08/22 09:32 PM |
| 2 | The entire Internet is complaining about how horrific it was to watch/hear a c-section on House of the Dragon. Not one word is mentioned about the man getting his head brutally beaten to a gooey pulp moments before. This actually infuriates me.Back at you :) Have a great day. | /r/MensRights | 24/08/22 06:00 PM |
| 0 | it's hilarious. when it happens to men. X-post from r/extremelyinfuriatingI concede...maybe you're right, that I shouldn't assume it's a 'fringe' group of women who find this funny...but honestly, that original post, to me, if I were to consider if a group of men made jokes about raping a woman, I certainly would consider that a fringe population of men who think that's funny. No men I know would think that's acceptable, joke or not. So maybe I do stand by my 'fringe' comment on how horrible that post was. Your problem is you generalize. 'experience has taught me that… | /r/MensRights | 24/08/22 05:59 PM |
| 3 | The entire Internet is complaining about how horrific it was to watch/hear a c-section on House of the Dragon. Not one word is mentioned about the man getting his head brutally beaten to a gooey pulp moments before. This actually infuriates me.It actually makes me sick that it's ok to talk this way. Women fight for equality then we feel perfectly ok saying stuff like this. It's NOT ok, and the initial 'men are stronger so when they punch a woman it does more damage than if a woman punches a man'...while maybe on the whole, true, doesn't mean it's ok. It's like saying all the small dogs in the neighbourhood should be allowed to bite you, just not the big dogs. Why should anyone hit anyone? I mean, let's talk well about each other and r… | /r/MensRights | 24/08/22 02:14 PM |
| 4 | it's hilarious. when it happens to men. X-post from r/extremelyinfuriatingFair point. | /r/MensRights | 24/08/22 02:06 PM |
| 3 | Why we don’t talk about sexual violence against boys — and why we shouldI'm really sorry for what you've been through. | /r/MensRights | 24/08/22 02:05 PM |
| 0 | The entire Internet is complaining about how horrific it was to watch/hear a c-section on House of the Dragon. Not one word is mentioned about the man getting his head brutally beaten to a gooey pulp moments before. This actually infuriates me.I didn't mean to come across as 'thick' and I realize I was thinking a lot more than what I wrote. There are absolutely problems with how things are portrayed and perceived in media, and the glorifying women being violent against men as some form of something to be congratulated for, is doing the EXACT OPPOSITE of what the initial 'feminism' movement was all about. You don't tear down one, or 'eye for an eye' when the end goal is that we are all respectful of each other as people. So I do have a… | /r/MensRights | 24/08/22 02:04 PM |
| 1 | Why are we still protecting women over men and putting them on a pedestal?Oh for sure, I usually use 'equity' verus 'equality'. Each person gets what they need to achieve a similar outcome. There's that photo of three people of different heights trying to see over a fence. The shortest needs the biggest box to stand on, the tallest needs no box. They all get to see over the fence. And numerical equality is ridiculous. It's assuming an equal number of women WANT to be firefighters, and an equal number of men want to be kindergarten teachers. So long as each gender feel… | /r/MensRights | 24/08/22 01:52 PM |
| 3 | Why are still here floating the area?I stand corrected...and I agree...you're either an advocate of equality or not. Male or female. | /r/MensRights | 24/08/22 01:49 PM |
| 8 | Why are still here floating the area?Well I think the problem is labelling anyone the enemy based on gender. That's how feminism was born in the first place, was trying to 'unseat' men rather than raise up women. To me I kind of wish we could treat each other as apples and oranges :) Both excellent fruits, you can grow them, eat them, cook with them, but they're very different. One needs the skin peeled, the other leaves a core behind. They both need different utensils to cut/peel/eat them, (ok stop me now with analogies) Different… | /r/MensRights | 24/08/22 07:09 AM |
| 2 | Why are we still protecting women over men and putting them on a pedestal?Whatever the reason, it's time to re-evaluate the situation with an eye on the future equivalent respect and rights for all human beings regardless of gender. This should always always be the case. I'm a woman, and an 'equalist'? I hate the word feminist as I think it's incredibly outdated and not accurate to what we're trying to achieve. Equity/equality for all, not 'advancing one gender over another'. We can all be on board with saying we're all down for equality. But we don't need men to call… | /r/MensRights | 24/08/22 06:58 AM |
| -33 | it's hilarious. when it happens to men. X-post from r/extremelyinfuriatingWell that's ridiculous. You're talking way out of touch with reality 'women' here...it's revolting and for sure not indicative of women on the whole. It's like if the same thing were posted with roles reversed, I'd obviously understand this was a very fringe disgusting group making these comments and not associate it with 'men are terrible'. | /r/MensRights | 24/08/22 06:54 AM |
| 0 | Why we don’t talk about sexual violence against boys — and why we shouldWell I mean this is fairly obvious and awful that it hasn't been talked about enough. Just because it doesn't occur as frequently, doesn't mean it should be ignored, and if we women understand how difficult it is to speak about it happening to us, there is a whole other layer of stigma attached to boys and men speaking about/reporting it. It needs to be talked about so any victim of abuse can come forward and understand what happened was wrong and they are not alone. | /r/MensRights | 24/08/22 06:50 AM |
| -6 | The entire Internet is complaining about how horrific it was to watch/hear a c-section on House of the Dragon. Not one word is mentioned about the man getting his head brutally beaten to a gooey pulp moments before. This actually infuriates me.Men-on-men violence has been around since the beginning of time. Men fight for territory, for property, for honour, for sport, for entertainment, for women...I mean think of roman times, fighting in the arenas, against each other, against animals, I don't know the entire psychology around it but testosterone-driven, alpha stuff. So in GOT, this is all 'how things were back in the day', and the barbaric practices are obviously not supposed to be symbolic of what is and is not acceptable today. | /r/MensRights | 24/08/22 06:41 AM |
| -4 | The entire Internet is complaining about how horrific it was to watch/hear a c-section on House of the Dragon. Not one word is mentioned about the man getting his head brutally beaten to a gooey pulp moments before. This actually infuriates me.Yeah but I don't take this as being a man vs woman direct comparison thing. So much gore on tv already exists, even with previous GOT many people were brutally killed, throats split open, heads bashed in, it's something we are used to seeing on tv. I can't think of another movie/tv show where this has been a scene. I think people just weren't used to seeing it. It's not 'oh wow look how horrible for the woman and who cares about the dead guy' situation. I think you're making a direct comparison … | /r/MensRights | 24/08/22 06:32 AM |
| -4 | Guys who go to the gym are pussiesGeez...some people are brutal, who says that? sounds like she got hers though...no one's excusing that sh!t. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 10/08/22 02:11 PM |
| 1 | Book on how to use false allegations to ruin a man’s lifeI 1000% agree. For example, in every school system I've had visibility into, the teachers of elementary grades are predominantly women. Why? I'm guessing they have interest and aptitude. There are men, but very few. Their numbers increase in high school, which tells me men don't dislike being teachers, but they gravitate towards older children. Is this wrong? Absolutely not. If teachers are being given equal opportunities to determine which stream of teaching they want to go into, and we're seei… | /r/MensRights | 15/07/22 12:54 PM |
| 1 | Another example of open misandry on this websiteSooo...we're no better than ....each other? ;) | /r/MensRights | 13/07/22 05:34 PM |
| 1 | Another example of open misandry on this websiteI say the same thing to you about women. You 'keep them around on your terms' You're just as hell bent on changing women to suit you, 'tbh'. So I guess you and I...we're the same, no? ;) | /r/MensRights | 13/07/22 02:53 PM |
| 1 | Another example of open misandry on this websiteWow. So much wrong, and obviously you've met or surrounded yourself with horrible relationships. I honestly understand that once you've been hurt and you look for other examples of that, you find it. I truly wish you all the best but you need to want to see the good in people, because whatever you want to see, you will see. I still don't really know what you want, like in life...how would you suggest men and women co-exist in a truly trusting, peaceful society? Just wondering what it would take … | /r/MensRights | 13/07/22 02:32 PM |
| 1 | Another example of open misandry on this websiteFor the record, I don't think the 'we don't need men' thing was ever right. I think there was pent up anger from some of the more oppressed women who had to fight harder to get what they want. But you are right, we SHOULD be about being on the same team and working together. However...you can't just look at what some feminists said about men, and ignore men's treatment of women over the decades. Not able to vote, work, work in meaningful jobs, be in control of her own money...I mean these were t… | /r/MensRights | 13/07/22 01:11 PM |
| 1 | Book on how to use false allegations to ruin a man’s lifeI largely agree with what you're saying...I don't really know the best 'way' to achieve it is, without making one group or another feel as though they're suffering. I think what we have to remember is that women are being educated now in higher numbers than before so yes, we can expect them to be more present in the colleges/universities/apprenticeships than before. There were huge pushes to convince women to enter into previously male-dominated fields so that all girls in the future see they 'c… | /r/MensRights | 13/07/22 01:06 PM |
| 1 | Another example of open misandry on this websiteWow. A lot of things happened in the past that shouldn't have. If they started the draft process today, I am certain they would not, could not, force men only to serve. You are projecting a lot of incorrect 'stuff'....like I don't know where to begin. How do men pay for me when I work full time and pay taxes, and property taxes...? You can't break down taxes the way you are suggesting...people pay taxes that go towards road improvements but ride bikes. People with no kids still pay school taxes.… | /r/MensRights | 13/07/22 12:49 PM |
| 2 | DfE forgot misandry exists...So why are boys in schools being ordered to apologise to girls on behalf of their male gender? I have never heard of that happening, that is weird...so like all the boys line up and say sorry to all the women for their gender? I feel like there is more to this? Why are male students being taught mandatory consent classes in schools, colleges and universities? I think everyone is being taught about consent. And so they should be. Sexual assault is happening (fact) and often times it's, what I can… | /r/MensRights | 13/07/22 12:42 PM |
| 1 | Book on how to use false allegations to ruin a man’s lifeOk, thanks for the input. Have a great day. :) | /r/MensRights | 12/07/22 10:54 PM |
| 0 | Book on how to use false allegations to ruin a man’s lifehmmm...there is an expectation that men pay for first dates...I don't think that's right...whoever asks should pay. (especially now that women are working moreso...that dated tradition should be pushed to the curb). I get to wear skirts to work instead of stuffy suits. Are you getting at something? I can't think of where I enjoy an imbalance... like are you suggesting if I cry then someone will give in to what I want? That's not a woman thing.....because I can say a man can bully to get what he … | /r/MensRights | 12/07/22 10:52 PM |
| 1 | Another example of open misandry on this websiteWhen I'm talking about getting what you need, I'm saying, people should, in areas of human rights, get what they need. Every child should get the an equal education, each person should have basic health care, even if one person goes more because of asthma and another barely uses it...we all pay so that people get health care (I'm in Canada...so we do that here). As for defending society...you mean like the draft? Has that happened recently? Women do join the military, I don't think anyone is for… | /r/MensRights | 12/07/22 10:49 PM |
| 1 | Book on how to use false allegations to ruin a man’s lifeYikes re your gf's work. I've never heard of that, it's indeed absolutely wildly wrong. I don't know in what capacity your gf has to state or call herself a woman, but she should be able to...that's wild. And bottom line is we CAN prop people up and look after their rights without diminishing the rights of others. There's plenty of equality to be had for all. Giving one person basic human rights does not take anything out of the 'rights bucket' of others. No one should call you names because of … | /r/MensRights | 12/07/22 08:48 PM |
| 1 | Book on how to use false allegations to ruin a man’s lifeActually I think I came across wrong there, it was just addressing how people are allowed to deal in fact when it comes to gender...if women's hair generally takes longer to get cut, we should pay more for hair cuts than the 'general' man. And we do. Never mind that my hair is short...I still pay $60 where the same place charges$28 for men's cuts...doesn't specify short cuts. I choose how long my hair is. I choose how safely I drive. I can't choose whether I'm born with a uterus or not. | /r/MensRights | 12/07/22 08:43 PM |
| 3 | Another example of open misandry on this websiteCan insurance do it? I think they can do what they want...but I really don't think they should do it for either gender nor race..it's just that they are able to state facts and adjust their insurance in a way that decreases their risk...why can't we talk facts and deal with it when it comes to gun violence? What people may need to do though is talk about 'why'. Why are men more predisposed than women to commit gun crimes? Then what can we do to help target that and help the men/boys figure out w… | /r/MensRights | 12/07/22 08:40 PM |
| 2 | Another example of open misandry on this websiteI agree...I don't think it's right, I just think that they're using stats that speak so strongly about a gender and their driving habits that they state it, as fact. So the original post was stating as fact that most mass shooters are men. Fact. But let's look into WHY that might be before we vilify men and call it a 'men's problem. | /r/MensRights | 12/07/22 08:36 PM |
| -2 | DfE forgot misandry exists...Agree....although I don't think anyone is putting all men in a box of being violent, creepy, sexual predators. Most men I know are NOT those things, and I imagine that's true of most women and the men in their lives. | /r/MensRights | 12/07/22 08:34 PM |
| 1 | Another example of open misandry on this websiteI think that's wholly unfair, but let's say I agree. How do we deal with the parts about men being biologically built faster/stronger than women? You can't say 'we should lift boxes at the same weight and speed'. It physically can't happen. That's why there are men's and women's events. We may train or try just as hard but will be limited. And men can't bear children, does that mean they won't make excellent fathers? Just because they didn't carry a baby, they can't take time off to parent their… | /r/MensRights | 12/07/22 08:32 PM |
| 1 | DfE forgot misandry exists...i'm not a men's rights nor a women's rights advocate, but people in general and I think it's very important what you did, to pick up on these things when they get left off. Just because (let's say) misogyny was a more widespread issue, doesn't mean that misandry should be left off the list. If we get used to protecting EVERYONE'S rights, we are more likely to look at people in general, not just fight for one group's set of rights. Like sexual assault, just because it happens more to women doesn'… | /r/MensRights | 12/07/22 07:12 PM |
| 3 | Looking for a specific anti-circumcision lecture (long shot)Should have read comments first before I started looking for it....lol. I sent this exact same link to my sister who had a baby 2 years ago. She was going to circumcise but we didn't many years ago for our son and was looking to send her and her husband something on the topic. I thought it was fascinating. | /r/MensRights | 12/07/22 07:03 PM |
| 1 | Another example of open misandry on this websiteWell, now you're generalizing. I have not met one single woman who hasn't praised their spouse for sharing child rearing responsibilities by sharing the time off needed to bring Junior to a doctor's appointment or volunteer at the science fair. Unfortunately, those events and largely served by women. So if you want us to stay home and take care of your kids, then leave us...what are we supposed to do? We have sacrificed a career to help your career and raise your children....and are left with...… | /r/MensRights | 12/07/22 06:57 PM |
| 0 | Book on how to use false allegations to ruin a man’s lifeI actually agree 100% with what you're saying, but sometimes for something to happen, it has to be mandated. You're not telling one guy he can't have a job because of things he didn't do to people he's never met, you're giving the job to an equally qualified person who 'should' be more visible in the workplace but is not often because of discriminatory hiring practices (I'd rather not hire women, they leave to have kids and it's a huge hassle). I mean, how else can you 'tell' people to be fair i… | /r/MensRights | 12/07/22 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Another example of open misandry on this websiteActually I was just pointing out that as a business, this is how you can look at stats to make informed decisions (risks, etc). Personally, I think that all people should pay the same in insurance unless given a reason to pay more. In government and the basics we pay to have provided for us, not as a business, as a government for the people, we should all get access to health care at an equitable level...I can't help that I'm a woman and have a uterus that may fail one day and need help. That's … | /r/MensRights | 12/07/22 06:25 PM |
| 0 | Another example of open misandry on this websiteNo...because it's what's needed for a healthy society. Healthy men and healthy women. Men have men's issues they go to the doctor for that women don't have....everyone gets equal access to health care so everyone is healthy. | /r/MensRights | 12/07/22 02:46 PM |
| 1 | Another example of open misandry on this websiteIf dads don't take days off to deal with babies it's because they have their wife do it. So the women do the favour of taking the hit for the 'larger bread winner' so he can continue to be a model employee, never taking a day off 'because baby' because his wife is. So his wife takes a day off 'because baby' and now she's the bad one. What if wife said to husband, I can't take the day off, you need to. Is he a bad employee for that? No. You can't penalize a couple for having a baby, if everyone b… | /r/MensRights | 12/07/22 02:43 PM |
| 0 | Another example of open misandry on this websiteYikes. It's the personal choice of the couple, but only the woman should pay with losing her job? I don't really understand that. And yes, on an individual basis, it's my choice to not have a baby while someone else will, but the 'world' can assume that there will be a great many couples who choose to have babies...I mean, the world needs babies right? So you can't be punished for being part of perpetuating the species. What would happen if couples just decided to stop having kids because their … | /r/MensRights | 12/07/22 01:58 PM |
| 0 | Another example of open misandry on this websiteAnd I'm sure you personally can fill more wheelbarrows of dirt that another co-worker, should you make less or is it so long as you can fill 10 per hour, everyone gets the same? Because that's 'doing the job'. And yes, overall we work less hours in our lifetimes because we are the only ones who can have babies and do require some time off to do that. I also feel like you can't alwasy compare 'fair pay' on a large scale, so long as each person is given the same shot for any job...that's equity. L… | /r/MensRights | 12/07/22 12:00 PM |
| 1 | Book on how to use false allegations to ruin a man’s lifeI totally agree...there are equal but different issues facing men than women. It's not a competition, there should be understanding and appreciation on both sides. I don't think it's fair to say if men didn't need to have a career they wouldn't...A career is a way to earn money to support yourself and your family. Every person should have a way to contribute to society...increasingly those are not necesssarily 9-5 jobs, and increasingly there are more men playing the stay at home dad role. But e… | /r/MensRights | 12/07/22 11:54 AM |
| 1 | Book on how to use false allegations to ruin a man’s lifeI don't know really, I just don't think it's fair that kids going to one public school in a city should get such a radically different experience from other kids who may not be as fortunate as to live in a well-to-do area with well-to-do donors. I'm in Canada..so we all go to the same doctors, rich or poor. We have equal access to health care (the basics anyways) and I personally feel kids should be given the same shot regarding education. Maybe if a portion of fundraising was disbursed among a … | /r/MensRights | 12/07/22 11:47 AM |
| 1 | Book on how to use false allegations to ruin a man’s lifeI understand what you're saying and I asked I wondered in one of my comments if women are welcome...and actually I don't consider myself a feminist...only because I don't like the word. Maybe there was a time where feminists were needed...to advance the concerns of women, etc. but today it carries a 'pro women, anti-men' slant and we shouldn't be pitting ourselves against each other. There are men's issues and there are women's issues and we should all want for our fathers, brothers, mothers, an… | /r/MensRights | 12/07/22 11:43 AM |
| 1 | Not sure where to post but this will be the safest placeI hear what you're saying and I'm sorry for the things you deal with on a daily basis. We as humans all are deserving of kindness, fairness, empathy, and love. I also feel some people are built for the fight, and others are built to live, spread love and kindness....in 'support' of the fight. Sometimes I'm a fighter, and sometimes I'm tired of the fight and feel listening, hugging, smiling and being a companion to a sad person is a less stressful, and more fulfilling way to 'fight the good fight… | /r/MensRights | 12/07/22 11:38 AM |
| 1 | Not sure where to post but this will be the safest placeAgain...I think you're seeking to find a gender rule but I truly feel it's bad people using a gender thing to make their argument. No 'real' feminist would tell you your trauma doesn't matter. No good person at all would say that. I'd rather we were all equalists (?) so we're fighting for rights/empathy/fair treatment for all of us, men and women and non binary and all of it. I am sorry for your trauma. If we are to appreciate each other's trauma we can't attach a gender to it as best we can. I … | /r/MensRights | 12/07/22 03:52 AM |
| 2 | Book on how to use false allegations to ruin a man’s lifeSorry if what I was saying came out wrong, I truly didn't come to fight, just trying to find some common ground. Have a good night. | /r/MensRights | 12/07/22 03:40 AM |
| 0 | Book on how to use false allegations to ruin a man’s lifeI actually wasn't talking private versus public, just that how public schools are imbalanced based on what neighbourhoods they happen to be in. More affluent areas have more affluent parents, with more affluent connections for fundraising, etc. They get better computers becuse they fundraise for it, they get better sports jerseys becuase someone's mom donated a bag of money. They get better events because they might have more volunteer stay at home moms to run ski club or after school tech skill… | /r/MensRights | 12/07/22 03:38 AM |
| 6 | Not sure where to post but this will be the safest placeI am so sorry you're experiencing this. As a woman who hopefully am welcomed here...I am upset by the things you say you are hearing,reading, etc. My first bit of advice to you is please please please know that there are terrible people out there. And you should try your very best to avoid them, surround yourself with positive people who embody the virtues you believe are inherently good in people. NOT necessarily look to share with people who will feed any negativity you are feeling. If you loo… | /r/MensRights | 12/07/22 02:43 AM |
| 0 | Book on how to use false allegations to ruin a man’s lifeOk, I agree with a lot of what you're saying...still trying to understand this huge advantages you say women have. That's a head scratcher. But my school example was, if each kid went to the school they wanted, and one kid's school happened to cost more, and the parents decided their goal was getting both kids their education, then it's not like they'd necessarily short the expensive school kid of 20,000 simply to make it 'equal'. What if one kid needed braces and another didn't? you would give … | /r/MensRights | 12/07/22 02:25 AM |
| 0 | Another example of open misandry on this websiteMost of the comments are about what qualifies as a mass shooting. But yes, many are 'men are the more violent sex' with many backing up with stats. I didn't find the comments inherently sexist, it was more sharing what they feel are facts...I mean you could say that high school girls are the largest contributors to bullying (I'm guessing that's the case...high school girls are mean), and there could be many comments about how teenage boys tend to have one fist fight and solve their problems wher… | /r/MensRights | 12/07/22 02:13 AM |
| -1 | Book on how to use false allegations to ruin a man’s lifeBeing pretty isn't a right. If it is, I'd like to speak to the manager. Equality is everyone gets the same thing. Equity is that everyone gets what they need to achieve an equal outcome. But all of this is in regards to the things that matter. No one is owed equity in beauty. You can't regulate who gets born into a rich family, or the kid of a CEO who gets advantages, or the kid of a pro golfer who learns the ropes with an 'unfair advantage'...men who will ALWAYS have the possibility of making a… | /r/MensRights | 12/07/22 02:05 AM |
| 0 | Book on how to use false allegations to ruin a man’s lifeI'm all for rights...everyone's rights. We all need each other and should be wanting each other to be treated fairly. I know it will never be, as men and women will never be the same...and each gender deals with their own issues that often puts them on opposite sides. Nature's cruel joke. ;) 'OK everyone get along, but I've equipped you with fundamental differences which make that pretty much impossible'. :) | /r/MensRights | 12/07/22 01:56 AM |
| 1 | Another example of open misandry on this websiteHow do women work less? Like in hours or in like how many wheelbarrows of dirt they can fill in an hour? | /r/MensRights | 12/07/22 01:52 AM |
| 1 | Another example of open misandry on this websiteI'm not exactly sure how it works here in Canada but after I think 5 years of clean driving if you're a man, you're pretty much on par with what a woman pays. They're out of the danger zone. | /r/MensRights | 12/07/22 01:51 AM |
| -3 | Book on how to use false allegations to ruin a man’s lifeWhile I agree with what you're saying on an individual basis...men having unpleasant experiences with losing jobs to women...how often is that happening versus how often women lost jobs to men? People lose jobs to people. Women have been shut down in the workplace a great deal for many decades and while I don't find it laughable per say, that men are upset about it, I do find it ironic. Where was their outrage on our behalf when women 'of child bearing years' wouldn't be hired? When they wouldn'… | /r/MensRights | 12/07/22 01:49 AM |
| -5 | Book on how to use false allegations to ruin a man’s lifeYou quoted something I did not say. I mean, I said part of it...and yes, one of the earlier posters suggested that this book proves we live in a misandric society (a society that hates men, therefore a woman's world)..I didn't think that was too much of a stretch. | /r/MensRights | 11/07/22 09:34 PM |
| 1 | Book on how to use false allegations to ruin a man’s lifeHow so? | /r/MensRights | 11/07/22 09:31 PM |
| 1 | I was working as a kindergarten educator.Oui, c'était une supposition de ma part. | /r/MensRights | 11/07/22 09:30 PM |
| -6 | Another example of open misandry on this websiteI'm all for equal rights for everyone (woman and men) but some things are just math. | /r/MensRights | 11/07/22 09:21 PM |
| -9 | Another example of open misandry on this websiteOk, so you own an insurance company. You run your stats. You see who claims the most in insurance, and during what age category, or with what kind of cars/motorcycles...you're still going to grant everyone coverage for the same fee? They do this too for medical...if I have a family history of heart issues, I pay more. No fault of my own. At some point, you do have to look at statistics. And it's not punishing just because you're a man, its punishing because of all the men/boys who came before yo… | /r/MensRights | 11/07/22 09:21 PM |
| 1 | Why are Men not protesting about this shitAnd I guess, let's be clear...I disagree with 'anyone' doing this...we know what's fair, and marrying someone when you have $50,000 and they have 5M...divorcing a year later, no kids, and expecting half of the 5M? I mean, what did they do to 'earn' that 2.5M? It was money the other person EARNED or HAD before marriage therefore primarly theirs. Now, if the lower income earner gave up their career to help run the other's business, or run the household and raise kids to free up the main income ear… | /r/MensRights | 11/07/22 09:18 PM |
| 1 | I was working as a kindergarten educator.eh bien, c'est évidemment faux et je vous suggère de retenir les services d'un avocat et de parler à votre syndicat (si vous êtes enseignant au Canada, je suis sûr que vous faites partie d'un syndicat). | /r/MensRights | 11/07/22 09:14 PM |
| 0 | How can Elon Musk afford 9 children?Texas law says the max child support is 2K per year? That has to be wrong. That's not enought to buy food for a kid for a year, let alone anything else.... and law is not set to 'bankrupt men'...it's to protect the lesser income earner from being left holding the bag after contributing to a marriage in the home, not being a main wage earner (raising children, supporting the spouses's business, etc.) | /r/MensRights | 11/07/22 09:09 PM |
| 2 | Why feminists consider that if a man is bigger than a woman its wrong to hit her BACK, but if its about a job its sexist to say its a 'mans job" because they are stronger?Could change the whole thing by saying it's wrong for someone bigger and stronger to hit someone smaller/weaker'. 'Pick on someone your own size' is probably the most un-sexist way to explain that :) That addresses the whole 'the average man's punch has the likelihood of causing more damage than the average woman's. Second - not 'man's work'...can be it's 'hard work'. Or 'hard labour'. Both sexes can do it, and men shouldn't be singled out as the only ones who should be expected to do it. I also… | /r/MensRights | 11/07/22 09:05 PM |
| 13 | I got told I was sexist for liking male singers more than female singers how does this make me sexist?lol...not sexist at all. Voices are different, and what you probably mean is that of all the singers you like, the majority are male. Lots of different reasons, it's kind of more a fact, rather than you turn off a radio if a female singer comes on. My husband likes male singers more, just women have a higher pitch usually and he just ends up liking male artists more. No biggie. | /r/MensRights | 11/07/22 09:00 PM |
| -10 | Another example of open misandry on this websiteWhat is your concern here? That the statistic was shared, or that it was posted as a 'we should hate men because they shoot more people?' I mean, men are also in more car accidents in their first few years of driving, which is why they are charged more for insurance. It's facts, and it's not smart to ignore them. | /r/MensRights | 11/07/22 08:58 PM |
| 2 | I was working as a kindergarten educator.Who are the 'girls in the backyard'? Students? Is the backyard a school yard? It sounds like they're teachers but you're calling them girls? If this is a true story (which sounds way too simple and way to absurd to be true, as told) then that's awful. So when you were fired, did you not tell the principal or whoever, that 'Jane said 'I prefer him, he has the kind of thighs I like'? What did the principal say? Where was your teacher's union in all of this? I don't know where you live but pretty s… | /r/MensRights | 11/07/22 08:55 PM |
| 13 | Have any parents successfully put school staff in their place for letting girls get away with everything?I'm the mom of a son and a daughter. Girls can be soooo mean. Guys deal with their crap usually fairly simply, they tell a guy he's being a jerk, they cool down then they're friends again. Girls hold grudges, they actively seek to hurt others...it's crazy. 'Good girls don't fight' so some of them weaponize their words and they should, I agree, be punished the same. Regardless of the gender. | /r/MensRights | 11/07/22 08:49 PM |
| -3 | Why are Men not protesting about this shitSo I feel this isn't a 'man' thing, it's a 'highest income earner' thing. If a man and woman come in to a relationship, and the divorce, the man doesn't have to give anything he owns, but he can collect alimony from the woman, to keep him living the lifestyle he had become accustomed to...same as when it's the other way around. So I don't feel this is a 'man' issue, but a divorce issue. The laws were made to protect the low wage earner...as decades ago (and still today) the man earned the money,… | /r/MensRights | 11/07/22 08:46 PM |
| 3 | She thinks what she did is okay and that she didn’t SA him 🤬That's straight up awful. In this day and age, no one should be ignoring a person's words. Especially in an intimate relationship. There has to be so much trust there, that this game-playing, manipulation, or straight out ignoring the other person is just wrong. | /r/MensRights | 11/07/22 08:38 PM |
| 0 | Book on how to use false allegations to ruin a man’s lifeI'm a woman and that book is wrong on all levels. We shouldn't be pitting ourselves against the opposite sex, but striving to achieve equity among us all. Equity - in that we all get what we need to live a fulfilling life, all granted some basic freedoms, etc. The hard thing is there are fundamental differences between men and women that will always exist, that you can't make everything exactly the same. men can't have babies. women 'on the whole' are not as fast/strong as men, biologically. I m… | /r/MensRights | 11/07/22 08:34 PM |
| -19 | Book on how to use false allegations to ruin a man’s lifeOK, so that book is awful...I have no idea how it was allowed to be published let alone put out there for the masses (which, happily, it seems the masses are not interested). No one person should be, or be encouraged to, lying to ruin someone's life. But let's not say that one book can prove that 'it's a woman's world'. Because if that were so, women would not have just lost the right to take charge of their own bodies. Make no mistake, we live in a man's world...you're just being asked to give … | /r/MensRights | 11/07/22 08:24 PM |
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