tintoretto-di-scalpa Archive

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1	I really think I’ll never find love unless I alter my nose and face via surgery My dear FishMap12, it's never about that kind of thing unless you make it so. People who stay single for their noses are peolpe who choose to let every other person in their life know their nose is a problem and should be treated as one. Then they become the problem themselves when their nose doesn't do it for them, and that is the reason they remain single. It's on their own doing! Please, focus on learning to be kind to yourself and accepting your first and only permanent home, which is your o…	/r/RedPillWomen	08/04/25 09:07 AM
2	Husband told me he is asexual and never wants to have sex. Unsure of what to do? It seems to me you're projecting your past grievances over this case, which might have triggered you, as you're too bent on fitting this story in a one-sided malignant intent case when we don't really have enough information to ascertain that. Given we don't have enough information for that, it's better to be more reasonable and understand this can happen simply because people are in general ignorant and tend to passively let things run their course until that is not possible anymore and somethi…	/r/RedPillWomen	19/03/25 12:57 PM
1	I think we broke up I appreciate your genuine effort in considering both your and his side, and these two comments of yours are commendable. I think you're on the right track. From what I've read in your comments, it seems this is at a stage where it can really go either way, and there's really no telling which one it will be; it's the trying phase of sticking with it for a while and keep assessing how it develops. I think you could benefit from perhaps talking with your therapist about these concerns and maybe get…	/r/RedPillWomen	11/02/25 02:48 PM
13	Where can I meet men who want to get married, have children, and have a traditional relationship? There's no "where". There's simply people you meet in your life, at certain moments, that are not only compatible with you but also living in circumstances that might be compatible with yours. In that case, when you meet each other, are available and there's mutual interest, the "where" happens. Going out of your way to find "wheres" might work in some cases, but more often than not they don't take into account personal circumstances from each side. It might work, yeah, but that "might" is less …	/r/RedPillWomen	20/08/24 08:33 AM
13	Lesson learnt after breakup Men are people just like women. They'll put in the effort when they think their needs will be met by doing that, and won't if they think it won't. Besides that, men and women are fallible beings and some falter more than others in a continuum of examples. Sometimes, people just don't put in the effort because they don't really need what that effort provides specifically, and that might imply that you're not the one for them or they're not at the right moment in their lives to take that step. I d…	/r/RedPillWomen	19/04/24 08:51 PM
1	Why don't men like women who earn more? I think they might be either trying to keep up until they bail, in the best case scenario, or trying to squeeze as much as they can before bailing out while still retaining the reasonable doubt of perhaps having taken a little longer to realise their inability to keep up, in the worst case scenario. In other words, they might be taking what they can from you before they can't reasonably continue with the charade they are fully aware of since the beginning. It could go either way with any of them…	/r/RedPillWomen	18/02/24 08:08 PM
2	Tips on getting husband to want to spend time with me again? It seems to me the main problem might be his absense in sharing the load of caring for the child of both of you. As long as this responsibility isn't shared, everything else will remain in place and feed this endless cycle.	/r/RedPillWomen	18/02/24 03:19 PM
-2	Why don't men like women who earn more? Your situation basically means they are replaceable and you have all the power to at any time walk away from them, as you don't need them. Why? Because nothing is perfect, there will be hard times, and when there is a significant difference in negotiating power, only one will be allowed to make the call. I think you can understand how it might sound if you project this dynamic into a future where people get attached to each other (especially the one who has no negotiating power) and no-one gets …	/r/RedPillWomen	18/02/24 09:43 AM
1	Man knows I am a slut and still wants to be my boyfriend. Do I trust him? Oh, you might have misunderstood my comment. From your post, what strikes me the most is that you don't really like the guy that much. And the worst decision you can make is entering a relationship with someone you're not into, especially if it might have something to do with issues with your self-esteem. So let him go instead of letting yourself go and entering this relationship. From your latest comment, I see you don't have yourself in too high an account. And I'm sure your looks are fine, as…	/r/RedPillWomen	11/02/24 12:45 PM
5	Man knows I am a slut and still wants to be my boyfriend. Do I trust him? Let him go, don't let yourself go.	/r/RedPillWomen	11/02/24 11:25 AM
5	What to do if I didn't like how my boyfriend dressed to the club Let me tell you your comment gave me a good and wholehearted chuckle. Thank you so much for making my day better.	/r/RedPillWomen	08/02/24 04:47 PM
11	I'm ashamed of being "poor" and it's making my dating life hard Considering the other comments have more or less focused on the perspective of your partner, I think I might chime in with a complementary aspect that might be adding to your current situation: do you think you yourself might be a little too judgemental (on an unconscious level) of your parents/background because you'd rather have been wealthy to begin with? If you think about this for a moment, and it is indeed a factor, it might be impacting your own perception of your partner's possible react…	/r/RedPillWomen	07/12/23 03:07 PM
10	A cheap date is disrespectful to us young women. If you are able to secure the type of man you desire, more power to you. It's a question of supply and demand. As long as you keep it real and don't eventually turn/derail this subject into some sort of where are all the good men kind of thing, all is well. Time will tell where your desirability stands. EDIT: After a quick "survey" into your post history... Uh. Yeah. Sure. Whatever floats your boat, I guess.	/r/RedPillWomen	13/10/23 10:03 AM
1	Is marriage inherently emasculating to a man? This reasoning can also be applied to a man. The thing is, nowadays we see both providing for each other and taking care of the other at home as totally reasonable things. What is still not clear is how it should be distributed, although I see all these as contextual and both should do everything equally long-term. So it's really a matter of continuous, mutual investment in each other because they want to be present in each other's lives. How is this that difficult to understand?	/r/RedPillWomen	07/10/23 12:34 PM
2	dating as a med student, how to attract partners that don't treat me like a man? Just focus on being human and finding someone who acts and thinks like a human being as well. The others are automatons in disguise.	/r/RedPillWomen	14/05/23 11:16 AM
2	Single women are now wealthier than single men. The narrative spins this as a bad thing because women shouldn't have to choose between raising a family and wealth, titled the "motherhood penalty." Where did I leave my tiny fiddle? Don't fathers have at least as much of a financial penalty? I totally see your point, and I agree with you. I think all the pervasive discussions around this are a sign that this transition is being made, thankfully. I believe we are now dealing with this because technology has already lifted a great burden from humanity -- which is being able to deal with physical and mental solicitations with aid of more effective tools instead of ourselves directly, and thus having most of our needs met to a basal level. That's when we become able to question all the …	/r/MensRights	05/09/22 01:28 PM
2	Single women are now wealthier than single men. The narrative spins this as a bad thing because women shouldn't have to choose between raising a family and wealth, titled the "motherhood penalty." Where did I leave my tiny fiddle? Don't fathers have at least as much of a financial penalty? You're missing his point. It's not that everything is purely motivated by sex; it's that sex is one of the primary foundations of motivation, and when you take it out of the picture, motivation is severely hindered, just as a house would if instead of properly laying foundations you'd just build it over sand. Of course the house is not just the foundations and you don't even think about them most of the time you're actually using it, but try building one without them and you'll see how it goes. …	/r/MensRights	05/09/22 12:27 PM