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| – | Women Can't Be "Used" For Sex If They Consented. That's Feminist Victim Mentality Rhetoric.No one would ever do that where I live. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/26 12:05 PM |
| – | Women Can't Be "Used" For Sex If They Consented. That's Feminist Victim Mentality Rhetoric.Oh yes because it's perfectly normal and easy in the year 2026 to ask someone to enter a relationship before becoming intimate, right?! Maybe that's possible only if you live in a very religious country. Are you really failing at communicating is the other person involved is deceiving you, concealing his real intentions, manipulating your perception of the relationship? Y'all should be glad women are simply pissed off and not calling it as it is: sexual coercion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/26 11:23 AM |
| 2 | Women should make the first move, its better for everyone.Never EVER approach a man! I try to teach all my girl friends that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/26 02:48 PM |
| 1 | women dont think about menSure, women may think about men not as much as you'd expect, and think about sex not as much as you do, but it's still something most women care about and miss in their life. Most women do want a relationship. Many women stay in relationships who don't benefit them at all. Why women don't approach first? This is an issue you guys bring up a lot, but it has a very simple explanation. I say that as a woman who is very brave and approached first in the past (I too didn't understand why women couldn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 06:08 AM |
| 1 | Women are lucky that men tend to have low standards and be simps.I can't even imagine what happened in your life to make you think like that, but I'm glad I'll never have to do anything with you irl | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 01:11 PM |
| 3 | Women are lucky that men tend to have low standards and be simps.You aren't "correcting" shit, buddy. Ohhh sure, if it's not for the money then I'm only picking men for their looks (well... Getting picked since I told you they approached me 🤔 but we all know that men don't care about a woman's looks at all /s) Yeah I'm lying to a stranger on the internet to farm Reddit karma. You are totally missing the point on purpose. You don't get to treat someone like shit because you are "above them". For what fucking reason do you think its normal behaviour. If you thi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 07:34 PM |
| 3 | Women are lucky that men tend to have low standards and be simps.You honestly dont deserve an answer but I'll write this for other people who might read this thread in the future. First of all, these men expressed interest first and contacted me first. I didn't go for them bEcAuSe Of HyPeRgAmY. I've met men who were very rich and not rich, and a very rich men was seriously interested, but I refused. Why not accept if all I care about is money? Because money can help but it won't make you an interesting person or a good partner! If men of equal value will valu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 06:46 PM |
| 3 | Women are lucky that men tend to have low standards and be simps.Ok, and if they starts saying "no guy I fancy hits on me"... what kind of problem would this resolve in your opinion? Because you seem to be really bothered by this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 05:37 PM |
| 3 | Women are lucky that men tend to have low standards and be simps.Or she simply didn't like anyone. Why is she obliged to pick someone just because? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 05:35 PM |
| 3 | Women are lucky that men tend to have low standards and be simps.You have zero idea of what I look like, my level of intelligence, my education, my values, the way I show love for my partner but you already decided I was unlucky because I went for men out of my league. Pathetic. Also: just because you are "above the level" (whatever that means) of someone, that doesn't give you the right to ABUSE THEMMMM | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 05:34 PM |
| 9 | Women are lucky that men tend to have low standards and be simps.So I should accept any - hypothetical - man who comes my way, no matter if we dont have the same values, no matter if we have different life goals, no matter if we don't along, no matter if we actually don't find each other attractive, no matter if we hate each others sense of humour... If we aren't compatible then we aren't compatible, and it's "nOt On Me", I have a sad news to deliver that is, people aren't actually interchangeable like some on you actually want to believe and you can't comman… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 03:09 PM |
| 5 | Women are lucky that men tend to have low standards and be simps.I know what I said. I'm asking you an entirely different question, unrelated to my experience. Should a woman accept ANY man who comes her way, even if she doesn't like him? Would you GENUINELY be happy to learn your woman is with you just because you are the only one who asked her out and doesn't even like you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 03:05 PM |
| 11 | Women are lucky that men tend to have low standards and be simps.So you are saying a woman should just accept whoever makes a move towards her, no matter if she doesn't like his appearance, no matter if there is no sparkle, no matter if he is not respectful... Just because HE likes HER? Are you out of your mind? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 02:50 PM |
| 13 | Women are lucky that men tend to have low standards and be simps.No man ever courted me, can we PLEASE stop saying random stuff when we don't know someone? 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 02:07 PM |
| 19 | Women are lucky that men tend to have low standards and be simps.Reading this as a woman who was used and abused by all men in her life is extremely funny. I wish men were simps, but if you show a little bit of consideration and kindness they will take full advantage of it. But yeah, the problem is that you have to pay for her dinner from time to time... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 10:30 AM |
| 1 | I think that women highly value confidence and this puts men at a significant dating disadvantage.But like I just said... For women, they are (to a certain extent) NOT considered a weakness. Quiet and reserved women will be more appreciated that opinionated and loud women. Men who are afraid to talk and are passive will be criticized by other men. It's how thing are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/26 09:32 AM |
| 0 | I think that women highly value confidence and this puts men at a significant dating disadvantage.Because being reserved, quiet, even a bit shy are considered to be good qualities for a woman. On the contrary, a woman who is "dominant" is seen as doing too much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/26 06:23 AM |
| 0 | I think that women highly value confidence and this puts men at a significant dating disadvantage.When I think about my personal love life, there have been men who were clearly very interested in getting to know me, but couldn't do any "move" towards me. They still gravitated towards me, though. At some point the mother of a guy who liked me came up to me and asked me to ask her son out because "he was a very reserved person". This is nuts. Of course the lack of confidence of this guy made me dislike him immediately. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/26 06:07 AM |
| 1 | I think that women highly value confidence and this puts men at a significant dating disadvantage.Many women would like to become mom young and can't find any suitable partner even if they are looking. Although they have a rich personal life, they still suffer from their single status. So what the hell are you talking about? It's more likely that they still prefer not to settle if they can't find any good option, which is good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/26 06:00 AM |
| – | Expecting Men to Pay for First Dates Is EntitlementFine by me too! A man like you, who refuses to do a nice gesture right away is (in my opinion, not saying this in any degrading way, certainly there are women for you) a walking red flag to be avoided at all costs and I'm very glad I dodged a bullet so early on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 05:09 AM |
| – | Expecting Men to Pay for First Dates Is EntitlementI can pay for my food, your food and the next table's food. But then don't be bummed out when you can't get nothing out of me 😊😊 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 11:53 PM |
| – | Expecting Men to Pay for First Dates Is EntitlementIf I have to give you everything and I get nothing in return, where is the equality? And when will you guys learn that is the GESTURE that matters? I can buy dinner for myself for the rest of my life, it's not that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 11:43 PM |
| – | Expecting Men to Pay for First Dates Is EntitlementLots of women (like my wife for one) do it because they don't want you to feel entitled to sex. They feel entitled anyway 🤣 so what's the point in going 50/50? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 09:08 AM |
| – | Expecting Men to Pay for First Dates Is EntitlementThank god it never happened to me (yet... Looking at all the comments 🥲) but it would be a major turn off to reach the end of the date and he says "so, 50/50?" Unless he is a very interesting person there wouldn't be date #2. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 09:06 AM |
| – | How do you know when a man is truly interested?They ask you out. They want to spend time with you (no Netflix and chill) They remember the thing you say, your preferences. They wait till you are ready for sex. They try to teach you things that may be useful to you. They try to make your life easier. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/26 11:47 AM |
| 1 | Red Pill and SheraSeven Content Are More Similar Than DifferentOh, trust me, I learned the hard way why she was right about everything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/26 01:31 PM |
| 0 | Red Pill and SheraSeven Content Are More Similar Than DifferentThe fact that you compare her to Tate is sick 😭😭😭🫢 no, I don't care about how other people amplify her message, I only consume her original content | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/26 11:58 AM |
| 1 | Red Pill and SheraSeven Content Are More Similar Than DifferentSheraSeven is not a misandrist. She stated many times she doesn't hate men, and other women shouldn't either: hate the game, not the player. She teaches how not to get used by men. She teaches that if a man likes you, you will not experience ambiguities, confusion, lack of attention... A man that is interested will pursue you, take you out on dates and try to commit fast. It's completely fair. She even said don't do revenge when done dirty, just move on and glow up and that will work best than a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/26 05:52 AM |
| 1 | If you need to build or raise her interest she doesn’t like youAs a woman, I'm more than happy of being "pushed away" by a man who is doing nothing to keep me there 🤣🤣🤣 it's a blessing actually! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/26 06:19 AM |
| 1 | If you need to build or raise her interest she doesn’t like youIf you approach me, I don't care how many women let you down during the past years, you are either going to court me or you have zero chances. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/26 06:05 AM |
| 2 | Do you believe that straight men and women can actually be fully platonic friends?No. They all made a move at some point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/26 03:03 AM |
| – | Dating market is a reflection of women’s changed behavior and men reacting to itYes but my experience is very limited. I acknowledge that. That's why I'm still open to dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 05:45 AM |
| 9 | Ladies, why do women say “don’t objectify me” while going on to post provocative photos and dress proactively in public? Then get upset when someone comments on it?So, what about me? I've been objectified even though I have a very modest clothing style and I avoid showing too much skin even during summer... It's almost as if... It's not women the problem...... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/26 02:41 AM |
| – | Objectification is a myth.When I was younger I was rather ugly so unknown men/boys insulted me on the streets. I worked on my appearance and now I'm quite pretty. I've experienced catcalling for the first time 2 years ago (26F) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 06:53 PM |
| – | Objectification is a myth.Today I learned I live in a city full of sociopaths. Considering the amount of catcalling I endure in a year, that must be it! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 03:59 PM |
| 2 | Dating market is a reflection of women’s changed behavior and men reacting to itAsk me out a couple of times maybe before starting pressuring me for sex? Remember at least the key information about me that I told you the last time we saw each other? Looking like you actually care a little when we finally meet? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 11:17 AM |
| -2 | If you need to build or raise her interest she doesn’t like youIf you do nothing nice for me, as a woman I'm assuming you don't like me and I'm leaving. Seriously I'd have to wait YEARS in a relationship with you before seeing a nice gesture?! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 10:47 PM |
| 5 | Men must realise women are not thier partners but competitors.Thank god it will all remain a fantasy in your brain | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 04:56 AM |
| 0 | Dating market is a reflection of women’s changed behavior and men reacting to itEw, no. "The era of flowers and love songs is over" yeah, thats exactly why men are struggling with dating. Personally in my last dates I've seen ZERO effort from the guy. I could decide to put 2x effort and find a way to make things work... Or remain single and wait for someone who actually courts me. Of course I prefer to be single and wait! And if I have to be single forever, I accept it. "This is the reality of dating today and it’s never going back to the way it was." I can't speak for ever… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 04:29 AM |
| 5 | Men must realise women are not thier partners but competitors.You are so funny 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 04:22 AM |
| 11 | With the saying "She's not yours, its just your turn". In the end us men is just another option to you right?First of all having options says nothing about the quality of those options. And second of all it goes both ways, I've also seen men who want all the advantages of being single but have a woman by their side to reap all the benefits. And lastly it's my life and I'm going to do want I want. You can only decide to take me or leave me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 04:12 AM |
| 3 | Men must realise women are not thier partners but competitors.Omg I can't wait till the artificial wombs will finally be here, so women will stop dying or damaging their bodies by bringing an useless child into this world. But let me ask... Who is taking care of the baby? Because many dads don't help as much with the baby even if the child is born is a stable "loving" couple already. The bond between the father and the baby is not strong at all. Are you guys just gonna hire nannies? A male nanny? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 02:49 AM |
| 1 | Men have standards just as high as women do. And thinking otherwise is even misandristExcept there was nothing wrong with me, they just were dissatisfied for their own reasons that they had nothing to do with me (which is why they are still begging to come back years later). Most women's "high standards" is "have a job, keep that job, don't be a jerk and be decent physically" which is not high standards? It's a perfectly normal request to have when looking for a serious partner? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/26 06:33 PM |
| 12 | The lower birth rate in places like Sweden is good. Psychologically unhealthy individuals shouldn't have children.Then I'm glad I stopped being an animal and I became a God instead 😊 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/26 06:20 PM |
| 2 | Men have standards just as high as women do. And thinking otherwise is even misandristI've met men who lamented having an hard time finding women interested in them, who still made me jump through fire hoops and were never satisfied with anything I did. It's definitely true they have high standards, but in their case it's pretty unjustified (my personal opinion). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/26 04:29 AM |
| 4 | Leaving a woman is not trying to control a womanYou are leaving because you can't stand your lack of power over her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/26 10:02 AM |
| 3 | Sex is a reward (and men know it)100% and I'll add that if you have sex with them because you like sex they will punish you for it, even if they benefit from it too! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/26 06:03 PM |
| 4 | Orgasm gap is not caused by men, its caused by women because they don’t close the gap of effort gapI've been with a man who didn't care I reached orgasms or not and it was almost dehumanising lol because I felt like an object. Your orgasms are guaranteed and after they are done, some men feel they "accomplished the mission"... Which was their pleasure only. Disgusting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/26 04:40 PM |
| 2 | A Women being unchosen is a much bigger failure than men being unchosen.I've already spent enough time trying to explain to you a very simple concept. Like I said: think what you want :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/26 04:32 PM |
| 2 | A Women being unchosen is a much bigger failure than men being unchosen.It's literally the opposite of what a mature, secure man would do, but think what you want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/26 01:51 PM |
| 3 | A Women being unchosen is a much bigger failure than men being unchosen.They are very insecure :) not having the guts to say what you want because you can't accept being told "no" sounds very weak and insecure to me! If you can't do emotional labour please, stay away from other human beings! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/26 12:20 PM |
| 2 | A Women being unchosen is a much bigger failure than men being unchosen.You can develop your own sense of humour... Besides that, there are very different things people consider funny or boring. I think you can become funnier in you consume the right media. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/26 07:51 AM |
| 1 | A Women being unchosen is a much bigger failure than men being unchosen.First of all, I want to say that some people don't even understand themselves, so understanding other people is just as hard and I don't have the arrogance to think I know everything. However, I've done my share of work and spent lots of time to understand men and their behaviour when it comes to relationship. Although I will admit that I focused on abusive men more, because I wanted to know all the signs and protect myself better, I have a general idea. I don't think I don't understand men at a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/26 07:15 AM |
| 7 | A Women being unchosen is a much bigger failure than men being unchosen.No one said it was easy but it's perfectly doable and I've met many people who got out of disastrous situations with their hard work. And I'm one of them since I was born in a dysfunctional family, I was completely lost, had no morals since my parents really didn't taught me anything, was fat and awkward. I worked hard, spent money, time and other resources and now I've lost weight, I have character and I'm building a future ALL WITH MY OWN HANDS. So let me repeat it again: if you men think all … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/26 04:05 AM |
| 21 | A Women being unchosen is a much bigger failure than men being unchosen.As a woman who has been "unchosen" in the last years despite trying my best, I can say that some men find it oddly satisfying to reject women (maybe a power thing?) but they never rejected me in a complete way, they wanted me there and wanted to do boyfriend-girlfriends things, just with no title. This isn't really being unchosen, this is more like men wanting their cake and eat it too. At first I didn't understand this dynamic but now that I'm older I can see it's caused by the man's lack of co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/26 03:12 AM |
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