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| 559 | I can’t tell you guys how many times this has happened to me lmaooooo!When I meet people I like to play a game of how long a person will talk about themselves before they ask about you. I'm a good listener and I'm good at showing interest to people. It's quite telling when you've been talking to someone for a while and they never once ask anything about you. Spoiler alert: it's always men that don't care to show any interest in you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 11:06 AM |
| 17 | TBH, I think I found wokefishing worse than sexual assault.OP your title is extremely problematic and not okay. Sexual assault is serious and the issues are not comparable. Please consider rewording because it is extremely hurtful and disrespectful for SA survivors. 'Wokefishing' can be seen in a larger context of emotional abuse, definitely, and is ironically encased in deeply entrenched misogyny. My ex was liberal and theoretically believed in feminism which he used to undermine his abusive behaviour. Emotionally abusive men is not new they've just ad… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 03:16 AM |
| 7 | Imagine conceiving, birthing, and raising a male only for them to turn into such a pathetic, depraved, disturbed individual as an adult. I’m truly sickened.This is greatly disturbing to me, yet not surprising at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 02:19 AM |
| 4 | Don't Settle - If you ever feel bad about having once been a pickme, don't fret too bad about your past. The HVMs distinguish themselves by having LEARNED from their past and exhibited some self awareness and introspection about the things that felt right and wrong about their lives.Straight up YES. I'm vetting everyone EVERY step of the way. Men ain't shit and as Ali Wong says I have suffered enough. My self-worth is worth more than settling. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 12:29 AM |
| 3 | Thought this belonged here...for the ladies who aim to be the Bigger Person, I see you. But at the same time, stop accommodating another person's bad behavior. It may not always be safe to speak up. But realize the pain only gets internalized. Speak up, when safe! Applies to work, family, dating...I'm sorry you had to go through that. Honestly, those people don't deserve you or your friendship. I know it's difficult to put yourself out there but you will be 100% better of making new friends that see you and treasure you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 05:38 AM |
| 5 | Stop telling men about your trauma or insecurities! They will use it against you eventually.Yep. Exactly. My ex would use my rape story to complain about how I couldn't/wouldn't get out of bed to the women he cheated on me with. He used my rape story to control the narrative that he was a good guy despite not having permission to tell MY story. He often used it against me to control me in retrospect. Which is highly traumatic and I'm not surprised these selfish assholes use it to make it about THEM. Another red flag is openly telling people other people's issues without thought and dis… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 09:15 AM |
| 1 | 40yo women seem to be giving up on dating, 40yo men are getting extra desperate to convince them to change their minds. Can any 40+ FDSers confirm this observation?YES girl, same here :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 05:44 AM |
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