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tinytiril/r/RedPillWomen22/10/21 06:18 AM
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Milena ciciotti (spelling?) is a Christian youtuber lady i love. Very nuclear Family oriented, modest etc.
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/22 09:41 AM
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No advice here, just following for future comments
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/22 10:26 AM
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Go have a full screening, also try a different method of contraception if you are currently on hormones.
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/22 10:01 AM
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Well, the problem is that i feel like im the one always giving and then never recieving in return. Which in time makes me resentful, and then its back to me taking charge instead of feeling like i have to baby a grown man 😬
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/22 09:33 AM
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I am disappointed because he was SO GOOD to me in the first part of our relationship so I know how great of a partner he can be when he wants to. And when I just do things and make an effort, it's obviously going to be out of balance with how much I'm getting back. At least until he catches on.. Thank you so much for the advice, I really appreciate it! Your other posts on here are helpful discussions to read as well ☺️
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/21 08:48 AM
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I have definitely just been demanding things of him because I've been feeling like he doesn't step up to the plate on his own for a long time. But I am looking to really give this another try, and be committed to a long term change of the dynamic. I'm just impatient and disappointed I think 😩 Softening and surrender are not my strongest suit naturally, so it takes real effort for me to remain in my femininity.
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/21 06:46 AM
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He is very protective and loves to provide. He did also show other great masculine qualities in the beginning of the relationship, so I have hope that he can return to that. Thank you for your advice!
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/21 05:50 AM
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Never checked, but he's pretty healthy I think.. no smoking, rarely drinks. But he only recently started working out again, which he hadn't been regularly for the last almost two years.
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/21 07:49 PM
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Thank you so much!! Will read these asap.
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/21 07:19 PM
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After moving in together is definitely when the biggest change happened. He used to be very romantic, going out of his way to please me and make me feel special etc. He used to be alot more assertive, take initiative, chase me sexually. He also spoke about his future plans regarding school -and worklife with confidence, which he then also quit. I did eventually take the role he slacked on, so now there is a vicious cycle. I'm not without blame in this, just trying to make it better somehow!
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/21 05:37 PM
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Thanks for suggesting!
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/21 05:31 PM
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Any points on how to bring it up to my partner in a gentle way ?
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/21 02:49 PM
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I have read alittle bit about Assertiveness training too, and I think that might be worth to bring up, but how ?
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/21 01:11 PM
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Thank you! Will try this, maybe more than a week too, to see if it really has a lasting effect.
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/21 12:49 PM
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Totally understand your question. He was decidedly more masculine, more of a leader, loved taking the initiative and was also more romantic and made me feel super special when we got together. Actually I feel it was us moving in together that made him relax, and maybe a bit too much ? He was living with 4 other guys before moving in with me, and all his other guy friends live in his home town, so maybe that is a factor as well ?
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/21 12:33 PM
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Thank you so much! Very much appreciated. I do understand the importance of praise and to let him do things his way, but in the past when asked to take more initiative etc it only lasts a short while after said request. Not sure how long I can keep patience up while waiting for him to take the lead and initiative when I feel like I could have done it myself 10 times over in the time spent waiting for him to do it last second.
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/21 12:30 PM
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Thank you so much for your reply! Yes, I'm not expecting him to suddenly become a super assertive, high value man. Just looking for ways to encourage what ever masculinity he is capable of.
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/21 11:41 AM
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Well, i am interested in how to be more feminine to help him into more of a masculine role. At least as masculine as he is capable of.
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/21 11:29 AM
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I feel like I can't just leave without at least trying therapy first, since we have a little baby boy together
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/21 11:11 AM
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I do, and the good effect from that lasts for about a day to a couple of weeks at most.
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/21 10:02 AM
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He does naturally fast intermittently, does regular leg workouts (recently started) and we are actually planning to get a butchers crate of red meat! Any tips on how to help him personally?
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/21 06:50 AM
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I watch Milena ciciotti and Delilah loepky. They are both young, Christian married women with children. They don't necessarily make content on how to be feminine etc, but they are good examples.
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/21 02:28 PM
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You don't need to do anything you don't want to to "keep him happy". He should expect you to be inexperienced and new to this because he obviously knows he is marrying a virgin. Take all the time you need before and during penetration, as it can be a process getting comfortable, especially when feeling pressed. Don't be afraid to tell him what you want or don't want, what feels good etc.
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/21 10:07 AM
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I don't think it's shallow at all. Attraction is majorly important in a partnership that you would aim to be life long, no?
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/21 08:59 PM
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Working at the same kindergarten 😊
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/21 07:29 PM
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He does not sound like the captain you deserve. He seems very insecure and unfair.
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/20 05:52 AM
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Check out milena cicciotti on YouTube! Specially her older videos about dressing modest and feminine are good. She also has many videos on faith if youre into that! I find her much more natural and relatable than mrs.midwest.
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/20 07:46 PM
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Fertility awareness method.
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/20 10:06 PM
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Where Are you from ?
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/20 09:03 PM
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Please dont feel weird about him being younger, and still able to teach you something valuable like this. Everyone is different, and he just happens to have a very good perspective and handle on this. And he is obviously willing to talk with you about it and help. Use it for what it's worth!
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/20 09:08 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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