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| 7 | Onesies all dayits also always the trashiest guys. Like the guys that aren't getting pussy in any fucking universe. I got to be honest if a guy I was dating asked me this, wouldn't be opposed but its always the gross scraggly fuckers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/20 07:26 AM |
| 8 | Why it's never 'just a joke', based on science.yeah compared to most comics he is trash. Also I love stand up comedy like love love stand up comedy, like listening to george carlin, or robin williams, or dave chapelle makes my day. That said if a man's into stand up comedy its a turn off especially if their favorite comic is George Carlin. Not because of any of Carlin's jokes, for the most part he is absolutely hilarious but because they are always the I am very smart kind of guy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 03:57 AM |
| 4 | ...like "Fine Wine", they said.Yeah the other ones are great but Brendan does hit different. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 07:56 PM |
| 5 | 20-minute video where a guy discusses how a man can know instantly how he feels about a woman. "Just being in her presence has been one of the most wonderful things he's experienced in his life"Also I find it hilarious that a person defending a video about how love at first site is real, is calling another person shallow. I can't think of anything more shallow than love at first sight, it is literally the idea that falling in love based on first appearances is romantic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 04:27 AM |
| 1 | Been wondering for some time; how many neurodivergent women are here?I have ADHD. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 04:59 AM |
| 4 | Bi-women don’t want a threesome, you porn-sick loser.AWWW as a bi woman thank you so much for this post! Its honestly so common and genuinely disturbing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 04:55 AM |
| 15 | Saying a man will act right for the “right woman” is deeply misogynist and a huge lie.Thank you so much for this!!!!!!!! If a man is HV he will treat his friends well, his ex well and everyone else well. If he doesn't treat someone well he will have an excellent reason for it. (for example the sweetest guy I know completely shunned someone for being a creep to friends of his). If a man is LV it doesn't matter if your his dream women he will treat you like crap. Date HV always date HV. For example I was dating this girl who did not want to commit to me, but I would say she is prob… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 05:02 PM |
| 4 | Seeing the way men talk about sex workers makes me wanna rip of my body, and the fact that most clients are married or in a relationship scares me so much. How is serving cheating men and acting like an sex robot empowering to women?ok good. The original post about not understanding why women chose to do so is what caused my original comment. Not a belief that most of the women in this sub have an issue with prostitutes. I'm aware that most people in this sub won't hate prostitutes, but I don't think everyone is aware of how evil Johns can be and might think that prostitutes are more complicit then they are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 04:46 PM |
| 4 | Seeing the way men talk about sex workers makes me wanna rip of my body, and the fact that most clients are married or in a relationship scares me so much. How is serving cheating men and acting like an sex robot empowering to women?exactly!!! It makes me sick to my stomach how libfems treat the subject. That movie sounds so sad and its heartbreaking that its a true story. That's one of the many reasons I think johns are evil. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 04:42 PM |
| 32 | Seeing the way men talk about sex workers makes me wanna rip of my body, and the fact that most clients are married or in a relationship scares me so much. How is serving cheating men and acting like an sex robot empowering to women?most women don't choose to. The average age of entrance into prostitution is under fifteen. Johns are disgusting scum of the earth, prostitutes are often extremely hurt women and children. Even the ones who choose to, do so because they have to or because they are addicted to some substance. Hate johns don't hate prostitutes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 12:29 AM |
| 15 | How to Vet STEM MenThis has been the case with the majority of group projects I've been in. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 01:46 AM |
| 7 | How to Vet STEM MenIn my experience guys outside of STEM are just as likely to do this as the ones not in STEM unfortunately. I'm also in Chemical Engineering but I'm lucky in that my department isn't bad in the sexism department. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 01:45 AM |
| 10 | Who told old men young women want them?yeah and there are younger guys who want to date older woman (from my experience as a younger women when talking to friends this is a LOT more common). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 06:03 PM |
| 14 | 🚨 🚨 HVM meet to become more HV (only in Ireland, for now. Hope this idea spreads!) 🚨 🚨this is cute! I love it so much | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 05:53 AM |
| 9 | Bride Ambushes LVM in a Target and Demands Immediate Marriagenot even sure if he is LVM. I mean yes he can't commit but she also ambushed him in target.....during work..... SO's who ambush you with things like this are trash that don't care about you at allllllllllllll. If someone ever ambushed me with something like this I would break down laughing and immediately break down laughing, so I think he handled it ok. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 05:45 PM |
| 7 | Everyone was retweeting this with 'she's so beautiful I hope she dumps him'. I can smell a LVM a mile a way.not only that but he struggled with pronouncing some of the words and had to repeat them twice. Then he has the nerve to make fun of her for pronouncing words in a different way which is still correct | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 08:19 PM |
| 27 | Pickmeshas, assemble! (Seriously, they love their psychotic jail lvms.)I'm fascinated by it from a psychological and safety standpoint ie. the more warning signs I know the safer I am. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 09:40 PM |
| 61 | Pickmeshas, assemble! (Seriously, they love their psychotic jail lvms.)NVM not LVM | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 09:38 PM |
| 3 | If women wrote a list of dating demands like angry men donot realistic the age would be lower like 18-19 lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 10:44 AM |
| 3 | Career woman vs feminine receiver: pick one, or how to blend both?I would absolutely still have a job. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 09:37 PM |
| 2 | Is having a Snapchat a red flag?🚩depends on his age and how much its used. Some people (ie. me) make a snapchat just to talk to friends, or because they like the filters. If they suggest using snapchat to talk then that is a red flag. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 05:04 PM |
| 8 | Have you had a man who was a complete stranger or you barely knew physically assault you or threaten to?I wouldn't count it as violent just extremely annoying but guys in my high school would often push their friends into girls for no reason. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 04:53 PM |
| 10 | Went on my first date and got groped.definitely report him regardless of the power he holds tbh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 08:10 PM |
| 4 | Spread the word lurkers. We know what's upI think that can definitely be friendly. They have a good reason to talk to you, you are coworkers after all. If they start hitting on you/wanting to hang out alone after work to go to a bar or something then they are probably hitting on you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 07:56 PM |
| 4 | Spread the word lurkers. We know what's upI've straight up told male friends I'm not interested in them right away and it's been fine. A lot of that though is because I'm very socially awkward and can't tell who is into me, and they think I might be into them. It's also because I like to hang out one on one with people, so I have to tell them that no I didn't mean for this to be a date, and that I just like them as friends. That being said if a guy keeps on laying on hints that he wants me, I don't hang out with him again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 07:54 PM |
| 11 | I used to be one of these PickMes. And then I did the best thing I could’ve ever done for myself and subscribed to this subreddit 💕honestly I love all those things, but if I have to put up with a man I want more than that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 11:27 PM |
| 3 | How do I deal with my exes treating their new girlfriends better than they treated me?they are still treating their gfs like shit., just because a guy shows you off on social media and takes you to meet his parents does not mean he is treating you well. It means he likes showing you off honestly in my personal opinion it can be a huge red flag. Trust me if a guy treated you badly he'll treat his perfect gf badly as well, I got complimented constantly by my ex and he said I was his dream woman and he talked about me to his parents and his friends and loved showing me off. He also … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 06:46 AM |
| 4 | Reposted to adhere to rules: woman gets proposed to by man drawing ring on her. “We” find the same ring 7 mo later in a thrift shop. Glad you got picked!I could actually see this being quite cute if her fiance was an artist and the ring was a complicated design. And then he made the ring himself but like that's lazy as fuck and requires no talent and no work. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 06:12 AM |
| 5 | While this advice is well intentioned, it misses how women have to vet men ruthlessly because they are users and abusers. This is what pickmes think when they are chasing a man and being “equal” in the relationship. Don’t fall for it ladies.Also please don't call back immediately they might be driving home. (this has happened to me before and I found it really fucking annoying). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 05:12 AM |
| 1 | Could y’all imagine?I mean in american culture it is men who propose. Apparently buying a ring and proposing is the same thing as being dragged off somewhere against his will to be married. We are supposed to understand that she made him marry her and that it totally wasn't the other way around. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 08:19 PM |
| 4 | Thoughts on men calling you adorable?it can be harmless. I mean I've referred to guys and girls I had a crush on as adorable before. I think it depends on the context in my opinion. If they say its adorable when you are talking about your graduate degree that's probably condescending. However if they say your jacket is adorable, or you look adorable I think it's fine. I do agree about it seeming like a neg, I am a petite women and I hate being called adorable, so I try not to call other people adorable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 06:52 AM |
| 2 | Just a mini rant on boundary pushingI agree, honestly it works really well. However, in ops case she needs to throw the whole man away. When it came to the friend I mentioned, I knew I was safe with him and that he wouldn't hurt me or retaliate which is why I did what I did. In the case of a ``friend'' like ops your tactic is much better, but after that its important to get away from them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 06:37 AM |
| 23 | Just a mini rant on boundary pushingSame, straight up I had a friend touch the back of my neck once while patting me on the back (very very physically affectionate guy with all of his friends including the male ones), I immediately twisted his hand around his back and said don't do that again., he didn't even really struggle when I did that just said ow and please stop. From that point forward he didn't get close to touching my neck ever again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 07:40 PM |
| 263 | I laughed so hard too good not to share with you ladies 🤣💯👏please tell me you contacted his wife. lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 01:56 AM |
| 1 | Yet another LVM who will be damned if he allows the woman he claims to love to feel special by having a nice wedding, committing to her officially, and making sure that all their friends and family know it.Personally I don't like weddings. I hate everything about them from the idea of the dress, to the everyone you know is there, to the intense amount of planning that goes into it. Plus I know with my family it will be a mess, I can guarantee that several members of my family will be late, and that at least one of my parents is going to get drunk and angry at some point. But I can understand why other people like them. It is a celebration of love, and when you have a bunch of people you love and c… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 02:53 AM |
| 3 | LVM and OLD: How to spot them so you don’t waste your time [Sleuthing Edition]It is pretty easy for them to lie though. Certain subreddits are pretty famous and well known such as r/aww. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 01:32 AM |
| 6 | Ladies can I have some input please? Why do you think we go for NVM/LVM? Utter useless scrotes , narcissists, cheap, porn sick, cheaters, ghosters? What do I need to work on for myself until I can get therapy?yeah I'd also LVM are easier to get, and easier to get attention from. I honestly think its wanting male attention and not having anything better to do. I currently have a lot going on in my life and it makes dating a LVM less likely because why tf would I?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 03:59 PM |
| 3 | Incels new chart about women.definitely the tomboy lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 03:47 PM |
| 2 | How to get rid of LVM if they try to approach you in public?This is amazing! however a lot of LVM have zero standards at all and will do anything to get in someones pants. So I could see most of them just going along with it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 03:35 PM |
| 33 | Scrote want to have sex with a prostitute because his wife refuses to submit to a painful sex act. DIVORCE HIM.Can't support this enough | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 05:58 AM |
| 10 | Everyone has an irrational fear. What is yours and how does a LVM exacerbate it?don't know if it is irrational but sexual assault, especially sexual assault when sleeping. My NVM ex is the reason that fear exists. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 05:30 AM |
| 6 | Why I've turned down marriage proposals, and you probably will too, when time comes.honestly that was my first thought when reading the post. Everything about it screams TRP, MGTOW and incels. It's really bitter and angry and the idea that it is better to marry young doesn't seem big on this subreddit but it is huge in incel subreddits. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 09:26 PM |
| 29 | homophobic/misogynistic/racist scrote shames me for being attracted to women and preferring female partners on a gay subHe's also wrong about domestic violence stats btw, that study did show that lesbians and bi women who date women mostly, have the highest rate of experiencing domestic violence, but lesbians and bi women are more likely to experience domestic violence from men in relationships than straight women. Most lesbians aren't gold star lesbians so...... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 04:46 PM |
| 2 | I was casually scrolling through tiktok and saw THIShonestly this is a mood lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 01:48 AM |
| 2 | Refers to my last post hereI love the idea that men are supposed to be emotionless. It's like ah yes you are right the gender that got lobotomized and diagnosed for having emotions/displaying them too much is allowed to show so much more emotion than the gender, that will always be seen as logical and rational even if they shoot up a school. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 12:12 AM |
| 2 | I'm just focusing on myself!homo, sex travel and money if homo doesn't count i also saw boobs lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 12:10 AM |
| 6 | The difference between men and women’s dating strategiesI mean I've found one that I feel like that about. Also I don't think he is faking it, he is extremely empathetic and perceptive and I don't think its possible to fake those things. That being said my degree is in engineering so I've met literally hundreds of men, and interacted with them day by day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 08:07 PM |
| 7 | Guys with female friendshistory and coldness is red flag. It's possible to get over crushes, but she's clearly not over him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 11:00 PM |
| 5 | Guys with female friendsI'm really close with a lot of my guy friends and I've even had crushes on some of them so I think it's good for me to talk about this. If she is cold to you and not inclusive then she is probably not supportive of your relationship. That's a bad sign, she should be happy, and enthusiastic to meet you, the fact that she is not means she is probably still into him. I think it largely depends on how long you two have been dating. If it's been longer than a year then he should have ceased talking t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 10:58 PM |
| 6 | Ladies if you feel lonely and miss physical affection, get a puppy/doganother thing you could do if you are not up to the commitment of getting a cat or a dog would be to volunteer at a local shelter. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 10:22 PM |
| 4 | I hope this hasn’t been posted before, seen on Instagram and had to share!see with me I've had men I barely know text me and ask me out on dates, or acquaintances. Usually not even men I've been polite to, often times they are men that I go out of my way to avoid, don't talk to at all, or clearly don't like. Also they are usually dicks to me as well and then they ask me out and try to be all nice about it, like they haven't been a turd the entire time I have known them. Most of my guy friends are nice to me but I don't think any of them are into me, I think it definit… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 10:19 PM |
| 11 | Let’s make sure he’s looking foreverJarvis is great! I love his channel so much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 12:49 AM |
| 11 | Which non-physical, non-material traits do you consider HV/attractive?This can't be stated enough but... EMPATHY!!!! If a guy is unempathetic don't date him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 12:02 AM |
| 14 | What Living With a LVM Looks LikeThe cat liter thing bothers me the most tbh, I mean I have rats and I spot clean their house every day, and I clean their whole cage once a week. I have ADHD and I've always struggled with keeping my room clean, honestly eating three meals a day is extremely difficult most of the time for me. However I make sure to look after my rats every day regardless of my issues. I can't imagine letting cat litter sit for more than one day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 06:38 AM |
| 1 | A common concern among FDS women is the plague of “pornsick” males. What do you think should be done about it?The women in your imaginary scenario is 100% not directly affected by you wanking to her, unless you tell her that you wanked to her in which case she would be justifiably disturbed. When you watch porn you are increasing the demand for porn, and you have probably watched at least one video in which a woman/teenager was raped. You are the demand for that, and probably the reason that rape was able to take place, if its filmed rape outside of a porn studio that was just posted, then you are allow… | /r/askFDS | 26/07/20 02:20 AM |
| 11 | women can’t have meaningful platonic relationships with anyone because they’re women?Have these guys ever talked to another man in their life????? Like all my female friends are crazy protective of me and don't allow anyone to talk crap about me even if its true. The men I know are so catty, especially the more masculine ones. One of my male friends was helping the other with homework (lets call him A). Then friend A went to get coffee and my other friend (the one being helped) immediately started telling me about how he is soooooo much smarter than A. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 04:56 AM |
| 2 | WHYHaha I have the opposite problem. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 04:53 AM |
| 15 | I was told that my ex “only gets better in my head”. That’s such a profound realization.I'm so glad that my ex is absolute trash. The longer I've been without him the happier I've been and every day without him is a gift. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 02:03 AM |
| 7 | Unreal Pickmeisha / LVM comboThat girl standing up for her friend is amazing! I wish I had that confidence and maturity at that age. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 01:40 AM |
| 1 | Is it possible for a LVM to better himself and become a HVM, in order to make himself a suitable match for a HVW?He's a LVM, and he is definitely trying to lock you down so you can't get away. It's what abusers do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 01:37 AM |
| 8 | What's with men constantly calling women bitches?I don't think bitches be like is funny.......on the other hand I do like the idea of saying scrotes be like whenever they pull dumb shit as opposed to men be like. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 08:01 PM |
| 1 | He thinks he’s a real catchhaha same! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 07:41 PM |
| 6 | 🧐🧐 Don’t let yourself or your daughters be involved with a man like this (or your son be one)… pedophiles exploiting the vulnerable minds of young teens via an age gap.NVM things not LVM | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 08:36 PM |
| 2 | This woman saves a drunk girl at the bar and stands up to the man trying to take advantage of her.As a Bi woman, nothing is more attractive than women standing up for other women like she did. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/20 11:12 PM |
| 1 | She says she felt weird about the first meet up, turns out he hit her car on purpose after months of planning and stalking so he could manipulate her into a relationship. Trust yourself! See it as a survival skill if nothing else D:Also the fact that his method of approaching her was hitting her car! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/20 05:17 PM |
| 5 | Gang of women in India who track down & beat abusive husbands with brooms.Seconded. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/20 01:49 AM |
| 12 | Is this a red flag?This is definitely love bombing. If I were you I would run. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 10:37 PM |
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