| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 13 | [Advice] Ghosts of ex-boyfriends past… | ADVICE | tirednurse969 | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/10/20 10:26 PM |
| 5 | Types of Guys and Commitment Risk | tirednurse969 | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/10/20 07:00 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | How do I help my husband who is obsessed with his muscles/body?Very good point here! | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/11/23 11:01 AM |
| 1 | How do I stay feminine in a job that wears scrubsAgreed. Use a nice scrunchie/hair elastic with a bow. Eyeliner, mascara, tinted lipgloss. Cute and simple, and then focus on the work itself. :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/09/23 01:20 AM |
| 2 | My Husband (43) of 7 Years Won't Remind me of Things I (43) Said I'd doThis sounds so wholesome. ☺️ | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/08/23 02:45 AM |
| 6 | Or you can choose NOT to appreciate your partner and end up alone or miserable, as your bitter freaking out would suggest.👏 | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 19/12/22 12:30 AM |
| 5 | Worried my boyfriend will burn outI loved this response and truly appreciate you elaborating, u/stripe_throwaway, thank you! Let’s hope that my husbands life will be better for this wise counsel. :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/09/22 08:24 PM |
| 5 | Worried my boyfriend will burn outu/stripe_throwaway, May you elaborate on your response? You got me at the “this is not your cross to bear.” My spouse is so similar to OPs man, and I am not sure how to best support him… but I do get that it is not so much my problem, it’s his balance. Can you share in how to best cope with this/manage without feeling too helpless, either here or in a longer post? Thank you! 🥰 | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/09/22 04:41 PM |
| 50 | Would you care about her pleasure first?And enjoy gardening. 😂 | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 06/09/22 04:02 AM |
| 2 | It's quite quiet in hereThank you!!! 🥰 | /r/RedPillWives | 29/06/22 02:03 PM |
| 5 | It's quite quiet in hereI am getting married next month! I am ready for all the challenges. :) | /r/RedPillWives | 28/06/22 11:05 PM |
| 18 | I got married !You two sound so lovely. Thank you very much for sharing. 💕 | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/06/22 05:15 PM |
| 7 | Lost my virginity to a guy who wont date meAgreed. I would also recommend getting tested for STIs, just in case. Better safe than sorry. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/05/22 08:17 PM |
| 7 | says she's petty and Toxic. but wants someone loyalSmart move. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 16/04/22 03:53 AM |
| 16 | Gentlemen, I bring before you a single mother built like a bus seat and possessing the ultra-rare stán na bod gan teorainn!And that’s why you have a male and female friend review your profile. Wow. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 29/03/22 02:13 AM |
| 9 | I don't understand how single moms think this sounds appealing.That was messed. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 26/03/22 01:20 PM |
| 15 | Fun isn't hard to find but a REAL relationship is. She wants a man who will look after the kids and her, now she's retired.Model with that giant leg tattoo? Not convinced. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 25/03/22 11:22 PM |
| 7 | PSA: Do not pay full car price for a rental.When he does, it will be ugly. Even his own father is getting swindled. What a mess. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 22/03/22 02:56 AM |
| 5 | Looks like na diúlaithe toilfhéithe have finally realised that the mantra of "your past doesn't matter" is a massive crock of shit! At the rate things are degenerating, the only redeeming quality women will offer is knowing how to use a smart phone. Oh, sacred asteroid of death, wherefore art thou?This post should be pinned or added to the archives. Just wow. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 07/03/22 05:15 PM |
| 5 | Don’t you just love it when these portáin bómánta have a checklist a mile long and offer nothing in return? What a deal!Of course. You’ll get to enjoy convocations and long walks on the beach/to your wallet. What’s not to love? 🤣 | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 24/02/22 07:54 PM |
| 4 | Don’t you just love it when these portáin bómánta have a checklist a mile long and offer nothing in return? What a deal!Her plan was for you to have a stroke while in a relationship with her. Thereafter she could take all your money. Too bad you messed up her plan! On to the next branch… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 24/02/22 07:52 PM |
| 38 | Exbf/FWB meets up with her for sex, how can she shift the responsibility for her actions away from herself?No such thing as shame on me… The hamster goes straight to “shame on everyone else but me” | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 08/02/22 08:30 PM |
| 5 | Gentlemen, line up for this absolute QueenFighting the evils of sentence structure… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 08/02/22 04:43 AM |
| 3 | You can't be sexual even though her TCS shows he has had plenty of it.So true! | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 06/02/22 09:49 PM |
| 6 | Lots of negative energy here! Sounds like this ladúsach needs some… Reiki!She sounds like such a gem… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 05/02/22 04:13 PM |
| 2 | How do I find married female friends like y’all in the wild?I would also encourage you to go to a service in person, even and especially if that means going alone. Take your time, join a small group, make friends. If he desires to join eventually, that will come in it’s time. Until then (days/weeks/months/years/decades), be patient with him. Follow your own convictions, and your relationship and personal well-being will greatly benefit. | /r/RedPillWives | 04/02/22 04:05 AM |
| 3 | At age 28, she is done with hook ups and she is ready for real dates. I wonder what changed?I honestly don’t know if that was a typo or not. Flee ASAP! 🤯 | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 03/02/22 06:15 PM |
| 6 | Golem is searching for muh precious... 51 year old woman want's to know wHeRe ArE tHe GoOd MeN aT? I kNoW yOu'Er HeRe SoMeWhErE!1) It’s an old feature that people still talk about (she is 51 after all, who knows how long she’s been trying to find a match). 2) Some guys do text those, but I guess that happens with the help of strong beer goggles. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 02/02/22 07:22 PM |
| 2 | Lavish lady part 2: fiancé finds footing f-ing former flame's friendSpot on. No need to assume that she was telling the truth. Likely exaggerated the fact that they’ve been a dead bedroom for a long time now. Perhaps a generous few times a year at most… what a life! He dodged a huge bullet. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 25/01/22 06:17 AM |
| 2 | Lavish lady part 2: fiancé finds footing f-ing former flame's friendDefinitely does not sound like a devastated, grieving fiancé. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 25/01/22 05:34 AM |
| 2 | Don't worry, her husband is almost deadYou and I both. This woman is wicked. I don’t know who’s their father, but they’ve got quite an unfortunate life ahead of them, being raised by this mother. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 25/01/22 04:46 AM |
| 6 | Lavish lady's liking lounge lizards lets lowkey lover lacerated. "Learnt low libido leads lame life" - lad's logical landing lacks lapses. Lofty long-lasting liaison's liquefaction launches literal liberty, leaving lassie lunatic.Incredible story, and for real, good riddance. Hopefully he never talks to her again. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 19/01/22 08:29 PM |
| 5 | 27 y/o Single Mom has been dating for years and is ready to settle down. Where are all the good men hiding?Your comment is way underrated! Great insights, thank you u/polishknightusa. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 19/01/22 04:42 AM |
| 1 | Single but god fearing mother of 2 fishing for Chad on Tinder. She is beautiful and has a nice smile. Anyone willing to commit?Side photo + photoshop… look at that right arm… 😒 | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 02/12/21 12:30 PM |
| 333 | If you're dating a woman and you aren't sleeping with her I have some bad newsThis is a disaster. A full on alpha widow reunion. Truly destroying their lives. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 29/11/21 05:31 PM |
| 13 | Tatted single mom complains about jerks she dated in the past and seeks relationship "without third party situations." But don't contact her if you're an aquarius, sagittarius, or libra - it just won't work!If the stars align, you may be the lucky one to land this sweetheart… 😒 | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 16/11/21 10:30 PM |
| 22 | Dual mating strategy + damaged goods exampleBest analogy. Smh. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 14/11/21 05:07 AM |
| 15 | There are modern day women out there actually living their lives just like this.“Give your kid their own mom.” Best reply. 😂 Too bad no one cares about logic anymore. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 29/10/21 04:34 PM |
| 45 | She almost seems "entitled to a relationship", the very thing feminist women like her are constantly telling *men* in their exact position (loneliness) that *they* aren'tYou and I both. Can’t talk about him and his reasons, though, because right now, she needs support… 😒 | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 27/10/21 03:55 AM |
| 27 | Post-Wall-Princess struggles to afford $50 dinners and hates how progressive her millionaire bf is. Bonus: Top reply suggests he should lower himself, but she deserves someone more generous. KINGS: YOU deserve better!She got me at “emotional labour,” too. It’s just a conversation. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 24/10/21 08:23 PM |
| 8 | Curvy mom can't deal with what she dishes out.This is the first time I see curvy used as a synonym for pregnant. 😂 | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 20/10/21 03:11 PM |
| 7 | Prison princess prefers profusely philanthropic partner.Damn. Incredible demands, incredible find! Keep these post coming! | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 09/10/21 07:01 PM |
| 18 | Sperm donor needed. You give up all rights and will never see the kid but you still owe 20% of your income in support. Form an orderly lineAnd the 9 likes on the original post. What the heck is this world coming to??! | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 02/09/21 04:56 PM |
| 11 | Purple penis eater prefers picturesque man to pommel her pristine “booty”…. No pudgy pretendersThankfully she is not looking for commitment. #DTF #OnlyChads | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 01/09/21 11:45 AM |
| 1 | How much time are you worth?Save that money, spend it on your anniversary or something, definitely not the early dates. A woman who actually loves you is not trying to make you go broke. Keep up the hard work mate. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 29/08/21 11:55 AM |
| 1 | A typical FDS poster and the proper responseSay you work at a hospital. Then say that we can talk more about my work over coffee. You could be anything from a janitor to the CEO. If she walks away, you just saved your life. If she doesn’t, talk about your work over a 10$ date, and everyone wins. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 29/08/21 11:49 AM |
| 7 | Día dea, she sounds nice...Total sweetheart, for sure… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 29/08/21 02:23 AM |
| 15 | Sex with 37 guys in 6 years, still can't find a good manAll of 2020. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 28/08/21 01:04 PM |
| 5 | Sex with 37 guys in 6 years, still can't find a good manOnly 1-2 dates get turned down for sex a year. That’s something. Once you make it to a date, it’s practically a slam dunk. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 28/08/21 12:55 PM |
| 4 | But we must wife them up after chad loses all interest.Number one requirement/quality in a husband: looking fine. Sure. You do you. Alone. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 27/08/21 04:45 PM |
| 2 | “Separated” Sheila searching for a special single man to mingle, mooch, and manipulate. Seriously tho, not *one* positive in this mess.Truth only here, that’s exactly what it is. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 26/08/21 01:45 PM |
| 1 | Here are her deMANandsI vote 50. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 26/08/21 02:06 AM |
| 1 | “Separated” Sheila searching for a special single man to mingle, mooch, and manipulate. Seriously tho, not *one* positive in this mess.Currently pregnant with a guy who is NOT her ex husband that she is currently living with. This is too much to keep up with. Nuts. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 26/08/21 01:42 AM |
| 2 | Carol takes out her frustrations on a total stranger after getting pumped and dumped.MVP u/Cavannah! Great insights! | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 24/08/21 04:53 PM |
| 3 | Broken gardening tool lamenting about her predicamentFor real. Honest therapy is underrated. Don’t go for what you want to hear. Listen to what you need to hear. She needs all the help she can get. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 19/08/21 01:10 PM |
| 1 | The most expensive Happy Meal you’ll ever buy.“In Chad she desires“… this should be your flare! | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 19/08/21 11:38 AM |
| 2 | Translation: I’m a heavy drinker with poor decision making skills, but you should marry me and deal with it. Oh by the way, here’s a “gift!”Yes. When you think you've seen it all... 😒 | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 18/08/21 07:02 PM |
| 6 | LMAO at this woman's request to join our private sub. Yes single moms, carousel riders, and FDS kweens, even other women recognize the low-value among you.So basic, but totally true. And the truth hurts these days, which is sad. There’s nothing like these posts to remember the importance of going to the gym, eating right, and being kind to my sweetheart. Some of these women are crazy, so you stand out by doing the bare minimum… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 18/08/21 05:51 PM |
| 26 | Hey y'all I'm new to this lifestyle but I tried making simple food for my boyfriend and it was so rewardingThose are the moments that will have me cooking ALL DAY for my man, and with a smile on both of our faces. This is a beautiful story. Enjoy the process darling! Thank you for sharing! 🥰 | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/07/21 01:29 AM |
| 23 | Having Career/Degree is Important to Men“ A lot of men become open to the idea of a SAHM the day their first child is born, and not a moment sooner.” So insightful! | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/06/21 05:36 AM |
| 2 | Birthday During CovidSaving that birthday advent calendar idea! So lovely! | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/01/21 03:06 AM |
| 2 | How much effort do you put into your outfits when going on dates?Please keep looking lovely and feeling great on dates. He will be a good joke to tell a few years from now. It’s not you, it’s definitely him. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/01/21 05:59 AM |
| 12 | Alix's birthday+1 to changing your phone number. If you don’t, he’ll just start calling you from different phone numbers. Been there, done that, it’s awful. When you change the phone number, be sure to only give out your new digits to friends who will respect your breakup. This will sound awful, but be super careful with mutual friends. After a break up, especially if the mutual friends are torn, they may be the ones to give your ex the new digits (because he’s changed; he’s lonely; he didn’t actually cheat; h… | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/01/21 09:14 PM |
| 2 | Difficulty making female friendsAmazing resource! Thank you! | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/01/21 06:20 AM |
| 2 | Difficulty making female friendsu/gabburt, what program/app do you use to send schedules messages? This would be my texting and time management dream! Thank you! | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/01/21 05:50 AM |
| 1 | How to become more “into” cooking.I like a few online websites with tasty recipes. For other recipes, maybe flipping through a cookbook could be inspiring. Vegetarian doesn't mean uninteresting. It can definitely be an exercise to find motivation, but you are asking for help, so you are already a step ahead of the game. Hope some of these help. Enjoy your meals, and good luck! :) The Family Plan (Debbie Koenig): Every week, she sends grocery lists and meal plans by email. So many good ideas, delicious, and takes out the headache… | /r/RedPillWives | 08/01/21 12:52 AM |
| 8 | Depressed about Being TallHi! I’m also tall, and your post makes sense. It’s tricky to navigate, especially if you are not model thin. I am curvy, and I’ve had my struggles feeling bigger than I want to be, but that was especially because of comparing myself to others and to societal expectations. My proportions don’t stop me from being feminine, and neither should yours. Learn to be well with yourself. Do things that make you feel good about how you are. Wear figure flattering clothes. Eat foods that make you feel good/… | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/12/20 09:45 PM |
| 2 | Dealing with isolationThis is adorable! You sound like such a lovely mother! :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/12/20 06:17 PM |
| 0 | Am I wrong for having to be assertive at my job?A megaphone could actually be a good idea. Protect that voice for sure. The last thing that you want is your hollering to turn into a sore throat, and especially in the age of COVID. These suggestions will protect your physical and mental health, especially while working with these guys. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/12/20 10:48 PM |
| 3 | Holiday Baking IdeasDifferent poster, but I've been using the same snickerdoodle recipe for years, and I dream about the day I get to taste them every single December! It also gets rave reviews from my loved ones, so smiles all around! :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/12/20 07:14 PM |
| 2 | In this holiday season, a reminder to RECEIVE RECEIVE RECEIVE (+ mini field report)This is so cute! Thank you so much for sharing this beautiful report u/notpast3! 💕 | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/12/20 09:39 PM |
| 6 | How do you keep yourself looking stylish?“if I can squeeze into the 6, then I will look far better into the 8.” This is a huge thing. Another thing I’ve acceltes with time is that getting things altered is a life saver. It will make sure that the fit is the perfect thing for you. Be it expensive of not, doesn’t matter. Looser is better than tighter for me, and if you aren’t sure, ask the tailor. They’ll do a consultation for free, and they tend to have a keen eye for styles that flatter different figures. For example, I recommend going… | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/11/20 12:05 AM |
| 3 | How can I be a good hostess to my husband's friends and still find time for myself?Seriously. Set snacks, and let the guys have fun. Go take a bath, relax, read a book, and be ready for your husband when the night is over. :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/11/20 01:24 AM |
| 5 | Best Coaching/ YT sites?I am an absolute fan of both Adrienne Everheart & Helena Hart. I don’t listen every day because I am more into reading than watching videos, but these ladies both have a calm, feminine presence to them, and encourage how feminine ways can help a women, and thus, a couple, live in harmony. Whether single or in a relationship, I think that there are a lot of good pearls that can be helpful to improve a relationship, or at very least, present yourself in a more sweet and feminine way. Adrienne has … | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/11/20 07:46 PM |
| 2 | Chase love or go for stability?Invaluable question to ask yourself. Thanks u/ManguZa! | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/11/20 04:56 PM |
| 2 | Finding out about my mother’s infidelity is making me angry and unsure about my values“I hated feeling the combination of alone, horny, unsure, worried and scared that it was somehow stupid to wait until after a marriage license was signed to see how sex was with the man I loved.” Thanks for sharing this! The sentiment remains relevant in 2020, and I thank you for articulating it so clearly. Truly how I feel on most days. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/11/20 10:40 PM |
| 2 | Finding out about my mother’s infidelity is making me angry and unsure about my values“f it's a gift you want to give to someone, then it's a gift, not a trade. If the condition of you giving the gift is to get one back, then it's trade. Do you want trade or you want to follow your values regardless of other people's values“ This is everything! | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/11/20 10:32 PM |
| 1 | My(22F) boyfriend(29M) wants to see me every weekend but I fear he feels pressured to see meI think this is worth sitting and having a chat about, not just for him, but for you also. You are very busy at work, and your night shift break is limited, for eating, and maybe even catching a nap. This is so important, regardless of your role at the hospital. Is there any possibility for you to see each other between shifts? Can he pick you up and drive you Hope in the morning? Can you have a walk together before or after your night shift? When I work Night Shift, I tend to wake up for a dayt… | /r/RedPillWives | 16/11/20 07:39 AM |
| 7 | My mother is uncomfortable with my traditional relationshipYou definitely have a bit of flexibility as to how this is going to be handled. How long have you been together for? When do you planned on getting married? At 26 years old, depending on how you answered the previous questions, this could be a great time to plan for moving forward with your life. You could move into a small apartment solo or with roommates. If you are planning on getting married in a year, then you can grin and bear this for a little bit with encouragement from your SO until you… | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/11/20 03:15 PM |
| 4 | Would you marry a man that didn't make enough to support you?“what is the path to that kind of end goal?” I like the way you phrase this. It’s not judgemental, but path is exactly the question that I want addressed. Thank you! :) | /r/RedPillWives | 14/11/20 02:59 PM |
| 2 | Would you marry a man that didn't make enough to support you?Such good points! What words do you suggest using when having this conversation? I’m not married, but I’m dating, and I’m not sure how to do this without sounding like a gold digger. I’ve asked about his long term plans, but how do I ask about what he would be willing to do if his plan or dream didn’t provide as he anticipated? How do I get an answer to how he plans on providing for his future family? | /r/RedPillWives | 14/11/20 07:11 AM |
| 6 | Dating adviceI agree with the replies already listed. I would also urge you to dwell in the reasons why you did not want to go on more than two dates with him. If those issues were problems then, they are likely still problems now. Yes, by miracle, maybe he’s changed. But your efforts would be best spent working on yourself and looking for the qualities you desire in other men in your vicinity. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/11/20 07:02 AM |
| 1 | How to be sexier?I love Adrienne Everheart's videos, too! And she has such a sweet, soothing, feminine voice! I trust that you’ll learn a lot from her! :) | /r/RedPillWives | 13/11/20 06:21 AM |
| 8 | I've stopped wearing makeup and It's made me feel more beautiful than ever.So glad that this is working well for you! This can definitely have benefits for both the woman and the man! Men like you looking nice, but they LOVE being able to touch you. If you look and feel beautiful make up free, go for it! The best look for me has some how been the “post-shower rushing to answer the door” look. No make up, curly hair, and a smile, and he ends up smiling from ear to ear, too! Sunscreen and skin cream are your friend! Enjoy this for as long as you can girl! Thanks for shar… | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/11/20 05:45 AM |
| 2 | Girly gift idea for MIL?Ditto on the jewelry! She’ll be so happy to receive a thoughtful girly gift! Whatever you do, I hope she enjoys! :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/11/20 05:38 AM |
| 3 | Husband won't live by his own standardsI look forward to learning from you ladies, too. In her shoes, I would be heartbroken. | /r/RedPillWives | 12/11/20 01:06 AM |
| 3 | Looking feminine in dark colorsThis is a pretty thorough website... More info here: https://www.truth-is-beauty.com/color-analysis.html | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/11/20 05:20 AM |
| 3 | How to lead her towards a wall to makeout against?You need to be next to a wall already, which will make it easier and more natural for you if this is new. Kiss her when she comes home, or kiss her when you come home. Close the door and lean her against the wall, and continue making out and enjoying each other. To protect her head, don’t worry about the impact of the wall, or else you’ll be distracted. Focus on caressing her hair, neck, and all that follows. That will keep her safe and happily leaning in. Voilà! Have fun! :) | /r/seduction | 08/11/20 04:14 AM |
| 2 | Examples of extroverted High Value Women.Thank you for elaborating @sweet_ligeia! No reservations at all, just seeking practical tips and qualities that I can personally emulate. These all sound legit. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/11/20 04:32 AM |
| 5 | Examples of extroverted High Value Women.Honestly curious… What makes Chrissy Teigen a high value woman? Thanks in advance for your help. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/11/20 08:54 PM |
| 2 | Can you ladies recommend what things that will help SMV and RMV rise?Great ideas! Saving this, thanks! :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/11/20 04:49 AM |
| 5 | My boyfriend [25m] and I [25F] just broke up after 4 years.Break ups are the worst, good luck dear girl. You are off to a good start. My last break up was a year ago. It took a good 6 months to get over it. It is normal to be in love for a while. It is necessary to give yourself time to fall out of love. Time is truly the best ingredient. Everything else is just icing. I cannot recommend this podcast enough. It is not a RP rec, more so a break up and walk away with dignity rec. I recommend listening to the Heartbreak Podcast (I listened to the whole thi… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/11/20 04:45 AM |
| 2 | Help, high SMV BF of 7 months now wants to open the relationshipYou need to know what you want. It's only been 7 months. If you have a high SMV, as you said, you need to know the terms and conditions that you can work with today. An open relationship is obviously not for you. Better being clear about this now, and making decisions accordingly, rather than 7 years later, when the SMV will drop. The cheapest price to pay is right now. Maybe you two were a match with the SMV. There is a disconnect with the RMV. Either way, both of you need to start talking, and… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/11/20 04:36 AM |
| 23 | My fiancé doesn’t want me to do things for himSometimes stable and safe is definitely just what you need. Not knowing OP, many women are used to relationship with drama, with a problem, and if it is not there, then they go out looking for it. Don’t be that girl… He’s got a job and a home, wants marriage, and wants you to be happy. The only problem is that the house is too clean and everyone is taken care of. So be it! Until there is a problem, there are other ways of helping out. The day will come where he can’t do everything. By this post,… | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/10/20 10:51 PM |
| 71 | My fiancé doesn’t want me to do things for himYou should just fuck the hell out of him every chance you get, express how much you love him, and find some hobbies that make you happy. This. Enjoy your piece of heaven girl. 😍 | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/10/20 10:42 PM |
| 2 | Anyone else grinning and bearing through a career while hoping to be a homemaker one dayThis is a good and difficult question. If the man I am seeing has the same salary as you, and I have 100k annually, by the time kids are in the picture, it will be a tough sell to go down to one salary, regardless of my childhood dreams. This would have been possible when I was 18, but if I have kids in my 30s, the reality of things is truly different. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/10/20 09:29 PM |
| 2 | Anyone else grinning and bearing through a career while hoping to be a homemaker one dayThis is a very refreshing take, thank you so much for sharing! | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/10/20 09:21 PM |
| 1 | Feminine rituals & getting into your feminine energylol! Love it! 🤣 | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/10/20 04:56 PM |
| 5 | One day I hope I can be free from the pain of my past.Agree, and also echo talking about this with a therapist NOW. Your wedding is in December, and you need to take care of that now rather than later. All the positive encouragement of an online community is one thing, but you need to let in the grace and heart transformation now. You are loved. You are cherished. You are wonderfully made. And you can get through this. But somethings need therapy, and your situation is one of them. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/10/20 04:56 PM |
| 5 | Feminine rituals & getting into your feminine energyYou’re so kind! My pleasure! 🤗 | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/10/20 03:47 AM |
| 30 | Feminine rituals & getting into your feminine energyI agree with a lot of the comments. I will also add unwinding on the way to work, and on the way back. My commute is either by bike or by car. On the bike is nice, as it is a 30-minute ride where I can intentionally focus my thoughts elsewhere. I do not race to work, I pedal leisurely, and listen to music or podcasts that I enjoy. Same on my car rides, music and mood is everything. A podcast with a soft, feminine voice or sweet music, or instrumentals will slow me down, and bring me to be the wo… | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/10/20 12:58 AM |
| 1 | Are women capable of loving men?"Love & Respect" by Dr. Emerson Eggerichs This is a good read, I also highly recommend! | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/10/20 12:44 AM |
| 2 | Make up & hair helpCheck out this video, not mine, but I use it when I need encouragement for a fast make up routine. She talks fast, but I figure if I can get more confident with one more thing, it's already a win. Good luck with your husband! :) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gq4K9QtYXI4 | /r/RedPillWives | 21/10/20 03:13 AM |
| 10 | Guy I've been talking with for 3 months isn't talking much after we met for the first time and almost did it.I'll talk to him tomorrow and explain to him about how I feel and that we should stop talking. I don't even believe he needs or deserves a response after how he treated you. I think that block and delete his number should be just fine, and truly what he deserves after such a poor "date." | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/10/20 02:56 AM |
| 1 | [Advice] Ghosts of ex-boyfriends past…Thank you! I am totally happy with the ignore/slow ghost. I just didn't know if that was the RPWly thing to do. I am thankful for your encouragement and kindness. It had been years, and I have no clue why he even still had my number. The one guy that left me stunned was a terrible boyfriend. The last drop for me was when he stood me up for a date when we were meeting right outside his workplace. I could see his office from the restaurant table! He just didn't care, and suddenly he's back? Guys a… | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/10/20 02:53 AM |
| – | Self Care5 things I enjoy Going to the spa. Smelling flowers. Getting massages. Eating chocolate. Hugs. I look forward to indulging. :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/10/20 08:38 PM |
| 1 | Would you shop at fashionnova?Check out ASOS. Also affordable, but screams a lot less fashionnova. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/10/20 10:19 AM |
| 9 | Do you want children, and what age?30F, single, no kids. Thought I'd start at 19, but I want to have kids within marriage. I remain hopeful, and should the opportunity arise, I'll get as many as I can carry, and as many as my future husband will tolerate. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/10/20 10:46 PM |
| 6 | I am in a relationship with an older, married man....It’s time for nun mode. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/10/20 08:05 PM |
| 2 | [Advice] Ghosts of ex-boyfriends past…They know what they're doing. That's what I thought, too, thank you. :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/10/20 05:10 PM |
| 2 | [Advice] Ghosts of ex-boyfriends past…That makes sense, thank you! | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/10/20 12:10 AM |
| 5 | [Advice] Ghosts of ex-boyfriends past…Beautiful. This is encouraging, thank you! :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/10/20 11:16 PM |
| 3 | Is not having social media ruining my life ?Girl, that totally makes sense. I think that people are often surprised by the benefits of vulnerability, especially when it is expressed appropriately. With working from home and social distancing, even the most determined introverts are being stretched in this season. I talk about loneliness to certain friends and coworkers (my username indicates that I am a nurse). Nothing crazy, start small and very kind: it feels so good to be at work today, I was starting to feel lonely during home isolati… | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/10/20 08:45 PM |
| 13 | Is not having social media ruining my life ?That’s fair, I’m [30F] so sorry you’ve been going through this darling. This is by no means a quick thing to answer, so take your time and see what works for you in the long run. You have done amazing, as a teenager off of social media, and into adulthood. Congratulations. I can assure you; you are not missing out. There has been very little improvement on how you feel surfing people’s high reels 5 years ago than you would now, alone at home, during a pandemic, coming into the winter. Think of d… | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/10/20 07:09 PM |
| 30 | Male Friends?There is a balance. 1) You don’t want to have a guy friend who doesn’t like your husband but only likes you (honour and respect your man). 2) You don’t want your husband to have a girlfriend who can’t stand you but hangs out solo with your husband (weird). What you have is now a mutual family friend. If the friend was in category 1 or 2, they would have faded away by now. This guy is friends with both you and your husband. As long as it stays that way, and stays healthy, you are having a reasona… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/10/20 02:50 PM |
| 7 | What‘s your thoughts on first dates in bars?Heed this advice. First date. No one wants to be stuck for hours at dinner on a first date. Your next dates can be nice dinners. First date, drinks or coffee. You can order a virgin drink if you want to, that’s fine. You still get to make decisions according to your values. But don’t get stuck at a horrible 1/2/3 course meal with a guy you never want to sit with again. Your time is valuable, too. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/10/20 02:44 PM |
| 2 | How not to be a typical “nice girl”?This is so good! Thank you! :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/10/20 04:00 PM |
| 13 | I keep thinking about a guy from church I used to knowThe worst that can happen if you message him is that he proves to be uninterested. Turns out to be a best case, permitting you to move on to other potentials faster. Best case scenario is that this turns into a lovely relationship. So really, it’s a win win. :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/10/20 03:44 PM |
| 2 | How to get in the habit of cleaning/cooking when i feel so lazy and have a lack of energy. [Causing relationship issues leading to breakup.]For real. I am really nervous as to how he would treat her if she ever became pregnant, where abuse and violence increase for the woman, and the risk is through the roof for the children. Safety first my dear. Good luck. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/10/20 02:00 AM |
| 3 | how long is too long to wait for sex?This is such precious advice, thank you so much for sharing! I’ll hold onto these questions! :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/10/20 12:39 AM |
| 1 | Advice on where to shop for FEMININE winter fashion onlineModCloth is lovely, our winters can go down to -40°C. Past that, just dress warm, and dress in cute layers. | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/10/20 11:37 PM |
| 2 | Types of Guys and Commitment RiskFair! I would be waiting for faith reasons, so this interpretation makes sense. Thank you for your insight! | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/10/20 10:22 PM |
| – | Monthly GoalsI've been scared to go to the gym since the pandemic started. I am ready to overcome the fear. My goal is to go the the gym in person four times this October. Starting off small, but this goal is measurable and achievable. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/10/20 05:38 PM |
| 5 | Totally clueless when it comes to dating and men...You girls are super helpful. This is not my post, but it is very encouraging to learn from your experiences and insight! Thank you! :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/10/20 01:56 AM |
| 15 | He's a late bloomer with a lot of potential. Should I roll the dice or keep searching?I don't think this man is just looking for a woman that makes bank. This could be lovely. I say you can definitely give it a try. I truly wish you the best! :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/10/20 01:46 AM |
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