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1

If you're 19 move the fuck away from him. Problem solved.
/r/seduction09/01/19 04:11 PM
1

Nice advice. Thanks for the great tip.
/r/seduction05/01/19 08:08 PM
2

Dude this sub used to be like premiere pickup artists preaching about hypergamy and advanced sociasl concepts. Now half the posts are high school kids asking how to get their first kiss. Is there a different sub where the PUAs went and left this one behind?
/r/seduction19/12/18 04:40 AM
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This reads a lot like BECAUSE OF THE IMPLICATION
/r/seduction17/12/18 03:12 AM
46

Let it out buddy. Honestly, your race has very little to do with it. Confidence and strong body language (great posture, slow deliberate movement, solid eye contact) are going to elevate you above most of the other dudes there. Now add in working out and a good sense of style and you should at that point be appealing to women. Beyond that it's honestly just a numbers game. I wouldn't worry about it. Blowouts can happen all the time and yes sometimes repeatedly throughout the same night. You're o…
/r/seduction02/12/18 09:40 AM
6

I'm pretty sure he just Eckhart Tolle'd our asses
/r/seduction01/12/18 04:22 AM
2

For me it's entirely the fact that I met her too late in life and she had already settled into her life before she ever met me. Then I came along and challenged her and enraptured her in a way that she'd never experienced. We fell for each other fast and hard while disregarding the life she chose before she met me. It's a little heartbreaking to think about my situation sometimes, but we should always remind ourselves of the limitless possibilities and endless amounts of women out there just wai…
/r/seduction27/11/18 05:40 AM
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Nice, wow that's quick! Be sure to drop us a line when it launches. I like the raw footage to start with. I think it would be awesome if you showed the entire exchange from beginning to end, then immediately after (during the same video) ran us through everything in a play-by-play format so the people who want to observe things naturally can watch it and move on, and those interested in the breakdown could keep watching. Plus, the repetition of seeing the interaction briefly and then again in-de…
/r/seduction27/11/18 05:32 AM
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Damn man. I'm going through something kind of similar. Started out as friends, started hanging out more, became emotionally attached, and ended up fucking a few times and it has been a really wild ride - the problem is, she was never mine. She's in love with me and I am with her but we know we can never be together. It's tough but hang in there. We're all fighting an uphill battle. It may suck, and I'm sorry that it does, but things tend to have a way of working itself out.
/r/seduction27/11/18 04:27 AM
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That was freaking great. It would be awesome if you could post a lot more of these that show a natural flow of how these conversations typically go. How's the book coming along?
/r/seduction27/11/18 04:20 AM
1

How to be a Cuck 101
/r/seduction25/11/18 07:05 PM
21

Damn man you had a great night out! Good tip on the bit about style. That and confidence goes a long way. Thanks for sharing your insights. Hopefully it helps some people out around here.
/r/seduction25/11/18 06:47 PM
1

If she's your girlfriend and you're talking about random strangers checking to see if your dick still works, then yeah dude, you fucked up.
/r/seduction25/11/18 03:34 PM
2

What happened to this sub? The new queue is filled with mindless trash like this
/r/seduction19/11/18 03:56 AM
2

Wow. That was pretty shocking. Is misandry no longer a thing in 2018?
/r/seduction19/11/18 12:54 AM
2

Sit next to her instead of sitting from across. Make jokes and tell animated stories that prompt you to touch her in a fun and emphatic way. Be flirty and challenging. Push-pull is huge here. Once you've built up some sexual polarization between the two of then you invite her back. If she seems reluctant then promptly schedule another date to build more comfort and attraction and try again.
/r/seduction18/11/18 07:59 PM
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In the book he states he's had over 100 sexual partners so I'd say he's pretty good with women by most people's metrics
/r/seduction13/11/18 01:36 AM
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White guy (blonde hair blue eyes decent fitness) here. I am majorly into thinner Latinas and Asian women. White women don't interest me much despite getting a lot of attention from them. Weird how our brains all work so differently.
/r/seduction06/11/18 03:34 PM
1

I swear I've read this exact same story here about a month ago.
/r/seduction03/11/18 04:46 AM
1

How long did you quit masturbating before you noticed the change? I tried for 3 weeks but didn't notice a substantial difference except I was more frustrated lol
/r/seduction29/10/18 03:37 AM
1

How did you get rid of it?
/r/seduction28/10/18 10:38 PM
1

Can you go into why foreplay is good for men too? Women have to get properly warmed up to be wet and for her vagina to be able to accommodate a penis, but how does foreplay help a man maintain an erection?
/r/seduction28/10/18 10:38 PM
1

Have fun and see where it leads.
/r/seduction28/10/18 10:32 PM
1

Damn dude you're freaking awesome!
/r/seduction27/10/18 04:58 AM
2

I may be honestly thinking of someone else
/r/seduction25/10/18 11:00 PM
0

It did. This dude has a legit YouTube channel and you can see his infield footage where he both picks up girls and gets blown out by 9s and 10s
/r/seduction25/10/18 10:27 PM
5

Models by Mark Manson. Teaches how to be true to who you are, be the best version of yourself while also making yourself vulnerable to people. Incredible book.
/r/seduction25/10/18 09:21 PM
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Are you conflating a lack of game with abstaining from sex for religious reasons? Because those are very different and are hardly relevant to each other. It's not rapey to want sex after two fucking months of hanging out with someone. Clearly the interest and buying temperature of both are pretty high at that point. Most people move on to someone else after a few dates if they're looking for that kind of thing and not getting it. It doesn't mean you fucking rape them if you don't. How you're mak…
/r/seduction24/10/18 08:28 PM
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You clearly know nothing about polarity, sexual dynamics, or hypergamy. These instinctual cues are embedded in our DNA. They are non-negotiable. Nothing dries up a woman's vagina faster than effeminate men being afraid to make the next move. If she doesn't want it she will tell you. If she's been making out with the dude at his place for two months then she's probably expecting more at some point.
/r/seduction24/10/18 07:54 PM
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TwoXChromosome would be a gre- hahaha sorry, sometimes I amuse myself.
/r/seduction24/10/18 07:25 PM
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Buying temperature is how receptive the girl is to the current physical attraction level between the two of you.
/r/seduction24/10/18 07:23 PM
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Lol I can't tell if this is serious or not. Like, yeah, I've been seeing this girl for two months... I really can't wait to get her home tonight and kiss her all over her face
/r/seduction24/10/18 07:12 PM
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Spend time with them. Take them places as if they were just your friend. If the buying temp increases then there's a good chance that some physicality will happen eventually. Once you cross that bridge you assess whether they are long-term GF material. If not, then establish a FWB situation.
/r/seduction24/10/18 06:53 PM
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It has been two months and you haven't gone past kissing with this girl yet?
/r/seduction24/10/18 06:07 PM
10

When you truly love a person, you do not need anything from them in return. Arriving at this realization took me years and was the most painful lesson that I have ever had to learn. There is no such thing as “the one,” but only people who are more or less compatible together. Love is something you build, not something you find. Powerful.
/r/seduction24/10/18 05:58 PM
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go away
/r/seduction24/10/18 02:20 PM
2

I don't recommend this to many people but I think a lot of the virgins in here could benefit from watching RSD Julien/Tyler infield footage. Their confidence is ridiculous and they make talking to women look so simple. It could do wonders just to watch other dudes kill it and emulate their behavior (within reason).
/r/seduction15/10/18 04:10 AM
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lmfao
/r/seduction15/10/18 04:03 AM
1

Whichever one they said liked you. And probably could have got both based on the tone and their playful nature tbh. I know it's not easy but these opportunities where a cute girl fawning over you doesn't happen as often as you think so really enjoy it and be confident next time when cute girls are checking you out!
/r/seduction15/10/18 02:16 AM
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Well you fucked that one up. Try to learn from this and next time (assuming the girl is cute) walk up and talk to her (what's your name, what part of town are you from, what do you do for fun?) and get her phone number before the interaction is over.
/r/seduction15/10/18 01:39 AM
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You're talking about a television show correct?
/r/seduction14/10/18 10:10 PM
5

Concern trolls and SJWs have seriously taken this sub over. There is no one actually discussing game in here or concepts like hypergamy. It's all harassing women and metoo bullshit. This sub is quickly becoming emasculated (as all things on reddit are).
/r/seduction10/10/18 09:14 PM
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Go back 5 years on this sub and the discussion was refined and thought-provoking. The overall quality here has gone down substantially but it's still better than any other pickup sub, which isn't saying much.
/r/seduction10/10/18 03:00 PM
2

Great tips man.
/r/seduction09/10/18 01:48 AM
4

This reaction makes no sense.
/r/seduction07/10/18 11:28 PM
3

Same. I took one for coffee. She was like 30 lbs heavier than her photos. Was insecure the whole date and kept talking about her hypothyroidism. Was super awkward and it made the whole thing feel weird. Haven't wanted to go on a tinder date since
/r/seduction02/10/18 03:25 AM
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It's commonly referred to as increasing buying temperature. You think shit tests aren't fucking games that the girls are playing too? It's all a bullshit verbal dance and men need to know how to plow through them.
/r/seduction01/10/18 05:23 PM
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The more you do it the less you begin to think about it, the more natural it feels, the better your game gets and the more you start successfully pulling girls home.
/r/seduction30/09/18 08:24 AM
1

Ok
/r/seduction29/09/18 05:17 PM
1

Solid advice and so true. As you work on yourself you'll catch girls mirin
/r/seduction29/09/18 05:16 PM
1

Be confident, tease her, push-pull, and move her around. Let it feel like an adventure to be around you. Smile and find reasons to playfully touch her hand, her arm, her shoulder... You need to show her you're interested but do it in a fun confident way and keep things light. Good luck buddy!
/r/seduction29/09/18 05:10 PM
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I would think reading books and changing your "I will never..." mindset would help immensely here. It's not that you won't be, but that you don't know how to be right now. You should seek out a book about being humorous and see what you can learn.
/r/seduction29/09/18 03:42 PM
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Means you need better pictures.
/r/seduction29/09/18 03:37 PM
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You're gaming girls while on acid? Fuck I need to step my game up.
/r/seduction29/09/18 03:29 PM
1

If she says that, smile, point at your chest and say "yeah, me." Maintaining frame and a fun vibe is crucial to passing her shit tests
/r/seduction29/09/18 02:59 PM
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That's because those guys had no game.
/r/seduction29/09/18 04:35 AM
1

Major IOIs there. Don't fuck it up OP
/r/seduction29/09/18 03:34 AM
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Good question actually. This could very easily determine her attitude towards casual sex on the first date and her inclination for an actual relationship with OP
/r/seduction26/09/18 01:02 AM
2

Great story and even better outcome. Thanks for sharing!
/r/seduction25/09/18 02:02 PM
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Same here. Tons of interest. Then I meet them in person and you realize those pics were from five years ago and they're 30 lbs heavier and you have no genuine attraction for them. At least with approaching you're talking to the authentic version of who those women are.
/r/seduction22/09/18 04:16 PM
1

Some companies forbid it
/r/seduction22/09/18 04:14 PM
3

Read She Comes First and take notes. You'll be a natural ladykiller in the sack afterward.
/r/seduction21/09/18 06:33 PM
8

Fuck I need a cigarette after reading this comment.
/r/seduction14/09/18 12:04 AM
4

Bro. You could have had her pussy dripping if you had just been straight up with her like the commenter above discussed. She would have CHASED you. You have to be fair but firm with women.
/r/seduction08/09/18 03:14 AM
1

Nice! I like it!
/r/seduction06/09/18 08:47 PM
1

What's your excuse when she asks where your friends are?
/r/seduction06/09/18 06:44 PM
2

That's pretty brilliant actually! May need to try this soon
/r/seduction06/09/18 06:41 PM
4

Thank you for explaining this to us. Does it change your opinion of the guy if you can tell he's mildly nervous while talking to you, or do you just expect at this point that the man should be confident if he's approaching and that nervousness indicates low social value?
/r/seduction06/09/18 06:35 PM
1

Bro you are panicking. I'm 31 and the women most interested in me are between 24-29 years old. I've also had girls younger than that interested. You need to chill out. Focus on having fun and look at pulling girls videos on YouTube. The key is to demonstrate your physical interest in them as you pick them up. Go and have a great time with them and invite them back to your place for "after party" or movies or some shit. Just be fun and flirty and girls will get the hint. What is happening on your…
/r/seduction05/09/18 12:09 AM
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This is just not a very realistic scenario at all. There are men who've approached thousands of women and this has never happened to them. You're more likely to win the lottery or get struck by lightning than to have something this bizarre happen to you.
/r/seduction04/09/18 10:21 PM
1

I skimmed it. I'll need to re-read it again for context.
/r/seduction04/09/18 12:38 PM
1

Well that was a pretty rough convo from the get go. She's made it clear she's not interested in you sexually. Or maybe she is? The subtext was kind of hard to understand. It just seems like you're having to really work at it to possibly get a business relationship out of her, and even more work for something more. Why do you want to be in business with her anyway?
/r/seduction04/09/18 02:37 AM
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Really? I fucking loved it. Even laughed out loud a few times, and that dudes list at the top is basically me to a T, sadly.
/r/seduction03/09/18 11:28 PM
1

On bumble 6-8 a day and I'm paying for it to see what type of girls are swiping on me. Tinder I only recently started using and I've had only one match so far and she was an oddly angry person so I kinda ghosted her. My pics kinda suck tbh but for some reason I get a lot more interest from Bumble girls.
/r/seduction03/09/18 11:22 PM
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Man thank you so much for answering all my questions! Typically when I ask questions like that people don't want to explain the concepts and steps for AFTER the girl is attracted and on her way home with you. You watch Julien or Max videos and they take the girl home, but then what? Is it just game on right away once they go inside and the camera is off? Is it just a general expectation that the girl will want you to go down on her once things heat up? Is it awkward if she wants to stay the nigh…
/r/seduction03/09/18 05:43 AM
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Weird questions but I'll throw it out there anyway. The girl you pulled from the club, I'm assuming you danced with her, bought her a drink, got to know her then pulled her home. Is that right? When you got her home did you talk or make more drinks or did you immediately just rip her clothes off and go to town? Did you go down on her? Did she stay overnight after? Sorry...I'm kind of new to all this and was curious of how this stuff typically goes.
/r/seduction03/09/18 03:19 AM
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Great chart but how in the hell are we supposed to memorize these 47 steps?
/r/seduction03/09/18 03:16 AM
1

Bro you are getting nothing out of this. Bail.
/r/seduction03/09/18 12:05 AM
1

Eckhart Tolle. The Power of Now. Massive tool to have in your arsenal that has changed millions of lives around the world.
/r/seduction02/09/18 10:18 PM
3

Tried to find that on BFF part of Bumble. Sadly it's just all gay dudes double-gaming the system for extra matches. Seems to be impossible to find a good friend app so you might as well just go join a meetup group or organization and start building your network that way.
/r/seduction02/09/18 10:14 PM
1

Great breakdown and analysis. Could you go into more detail about examples of indirect game?
/r/seduction02/09/18 01:54 AM
1

This dude is trolling hard. Go away.
/r/seduction01/09/18 08:35 PM
1

Great video man. Thanks for sharing!
/r/seduction01/09/18 08:33 PM
1

"RSD Julien infield" on YouTube. His infield videos will change how you see everything. He was a true master of his time before he became married.
/r/seduction28/08/18 09:28 PM
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Not at all. I'm a conservative in a deeply blue major city and I pull girls with very little effort. It's all in your attitude and confidence. Catch their attention (i.e., hook), then play aloof, tease them with negs, if they neg back agree and exaggerate whatever they said, and act like you're not that interested while escalating kino. Most liberal and conservative women LOVE masculinity.
/r/seduction28/08/18 06:35 PM
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Nah fuck that. Girls are like cats. Tease them, play hard to get and keep it short with kind of a dickish tone. Most will chase you forever.
/r/seduction28/08/18 06:27 PM
1

You're not concerned about any risks with doing that? Lots of girls at clubs and bars get around. Obviously it would be a killer go-to to amp up the sex but seems like it could have some pretty unfortunate consequences. Do you have them shower first?
/r/seduction27/08/18 01:22 AM
1

Women are like cats. Show a little interest up front and they run off. Ignore them for a while and they return and fight for your attention.
/r/seduction25/08/18 03:27 AM
2

Look up abundance mentality the game
/r/seduction23/08/18 12:10 PM
1

That's crazy. Trust me when I tell you that tons of guys out there experience serious ED from watching too much porn. The only way to fix it for them is to "reset" which means no porn for 90 days or longer.
/r/seduction21/08/18 12:10 PM
2

I think in this instance we're probably both right. He got in his own head due to his lack of experience and wasn't open with her about it, and his being accustomed to looking at porn too much didn't help the situation either.
/r/seduction20/08/18 02:33 AM
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Porn is definitely a legitimate reason though. You can reset your neural pathways by abstaining from porn, and sensations become heightened and sex feels like being a teenager again. People who go soft during sex, especially those who tend to get in their own head should definitely stop watching porn altogether to remove this problem from their life.
/r/seduction20/08/18 01:39 AM
3

Wow you couldn't have come up with a nicer response than that? Forget learning seduction, you need to head over to r/decenthuman and start there.
/r/seduction19/08/18 02:57 PM
1

That is a pretty damn interesting perspective. Thanks for sharing!
/r/seduction17/08/18 12:08 PM
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Have you tried reading any PUA books? The Game? Mystery Method? Are you confident and interesting and taking care of yourself? Good grooming and fashion? All that shit matters and until you do and feel AMAZING with who you are you're going to keep feeling this way. I'm going to paste something here that woke up something deep within me and helped me understand who I wanted to be and what it would take to get there. Let me know what you think. Neck Up appearance - well groomed and hair style"!! I…
/r/seduction17/08/18 02:19 AM
3

lmao so callous yet accurate
/r/seduction17/08/18 02:11 AM
1

Just curious. Why are there girls here? Assuming you keep your looks up, know how to smile and have a conversation, isn't it significantly easier to find guys to be with or talk to you than it is for dudes who have to actually approach, open, keep things interesting, etc? What do you want to get out of this sub? I hope you didn't take this comment the wrong way. I'm just genuinely curious.
/r/seduction17/08/18 01:58 AM
1

Interesting perspective. Thanks for sharing!
/r/seduction15/08/18 12:38 PM
3

There are literally millions of other women whom are also amazing and cute just walking around out there waiting to be asked out. Don't sweat one tiny insignificant rejection!
/r/seduction15/08/18 12:29 AM
1

What's the boyfriend zone?
/r/seduction15/08/18 12:25 AM
3

But if the guy is interested in you then you'd still prefer that he make his interest clear to you during some point in that conversation right? He should be coming at you as a man with clear intentions while also maintaining that deep conversation. Don't you think?
/r/seduction15/08/18 12:25 AM
2

lmao you got that right
/r/seduction14/08/18 11:33 PM
2

That's because most women on reddit are the geeky type who live with cats, are mildly out of shape, and watch Dr Fucking Who marathons and are not the 8s, 9s and 10s most of us are aspiring to bring home. They're basically your nerdy video game friends but with vaginas trying to give you advice about other women of whom they don't identify with at all. Take their shit advice with a huge grain of salt.
/r/seduction14/08/18 01:13 PM
1

Any great cologne recommendations? The last two designer ones that I've bought have smelled terrible. I would like one that really smells amazing to women.
/r/seduction14/08/18 01:03 PM
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7th grade and you're on a subreddit about seducing women? Fuck me I'm getting old.
/r/seduction12/08/18 03:09 AM
2

real shit. droppin wisdom on these youngins!
/r/seduction10/08/18 01:42 AM
5

I believe that is a woman.
/r/seduction05/08/18 02:59 AM
1

Damn that was an interesting read. That guy played it beautifully.
/r/seduction04/08/18 06:47 PM
3

Is negging still a thing people do?
/r/seduction03/08/18 03:10 AM
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