| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 56 | Breaking the bad habit of sleeping on the first date | FDS SUCCESS! | tita_ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/20 10:15 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 7 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered November 9 2020I was wondering if we should tell men when they are good in bed or should we keep them guessing? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 07:36 PM |
| 10 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 17 2020you are right.. I also quit my antidepressants and when I am not in them I become obsessed with a guy.. I will visit my psychiatrist so he can talk me out of it and also see if I should start medication again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 02:59 PM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 17 2020Lately I have been obsessed with a guy I dated 2 years ago. He broke it off because he couldn't handle my issues (mental things) and he was also leaving the country we were staying at for work. He might also had a girlfriend from his homecountry but it is not confirmed. I am planning to travel to his country when it is safe and I am dying to send him a message to let him know.. I also want to mention that his country is my dream destination to live/work at so maybe that plays a part in my obsess… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 02:23 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 8 2020Lately I have been obsessed with a guy I dated 2 years ago. He broke it off because he couldn't handle my issues (mental things) and he was also leaving the country we were staying at for work. He might also had a girlfriend from his homecountry but it is not confirmed. I am planning to travel to his country when it is safe and I am dying to send him a message to let him know.. I also want to mention that his country is my dream destination to live/work at so maybe that plays a part in my obsess… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 11:59 AM |
| 54 | I found one! HVM stays with and cares for girlfriend of 4 months after her spinal cord injury.I am actually in tears.. he is so sweet and also good looking. I am happy for her. I want a guy like that too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 09:18 PM |
| 11 | Women on r/relationships and r/AITA in a nutshellaM i OvEr rEaCtInG? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/20 03:20 PM |
| 28 | Ladies, save your empathy for...it's so depressing. I don't want to be a bitch but they really do love bitches. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/20 07:49 PM |
| 27 | Ladies, save your empathy for...Same thing happened to me.. he was crazy about me and then I was crazy about him and suddenly he wasn't and he became super cocky. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/20 07:35 PM |
| 22 | Men cannot think nonviolently. Remember ladies, violence is genderedI am starting to believe that women are inherently good while Society is trying to nurture good men but men in their nature are violent and destructive | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/20 06:22 PM |
| 4 | I Love Men: An Open LetterThanks for your words. I should definitely focus on my self-improvement, he has poisoned me for too many years and I should let go of my feelings about him, either positive or negative. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 03:03 PM |
| 7 | I Love Men: An Open Letterthe thing is that there are many pickmeishas orbiting him (he is handsome) and they reinforce his shitty attitude towards women. He just breadcrumbs them and it works for him like a charm. They chase him while he doesn't lift a finger. But you are right, he is not the one for me anyway it's just that I wish that karma would hit him hard. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 01:52 PM |
| 8 | I Love Men: An Open Lettermy low value ex was perfectly content too but the thing is that everything goes amazing in his life and gets tons of women.. Why change? I can't help but feel a little bitter. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 01:16 PM |
| 7 | How do change my outlook on men?I have low-self esteem so when someone treats me like shit I subconsciously feel like I deserve to be treated such and they are right. And when someone treats me good I subconsciously believe that they are stupid. I mean why else would they treat me right? I am not worth it! Therefore they are stupid so I can't respect them. I always end up in abusive situations. I grew up in an abusive home so it is familiar. I will never be happy if I don't break the circle. Feeling worthy and valuable and lov… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/20 10:48 PM |
| 29 | A woman for our timesI got flashbacks from all these mornings I woke up earlier than my cheating ex to go to the bakery and buy him fresh croissants. smh never again | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/20 01:43 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (March 23rd 2020)This is sad. I wouldn't want to end up being grateful for a guy just for having a boner. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 10:46 AM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (March 23rd 2020)Thank you for your reply, I was wondering how does the ego fit in that scenario? Maybe he was trying to blame me for his incompetence to harm my self-esteem? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/20 12:28 PM |
| 12 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (March 23rd 2020)I was seeing a guy, decided to have sex with him because honestly I was bored and horny and he had a very sexy bod aaaand his dick was limp. He couldn't get it up no matter what. It is hard for me not to blame myself when this happens. I start thinking that I am ugly and fat. At first he said he was "anxious" and then he said that he doesn't feel any sexual chemistry with me so it's better to not see each other again. He doesn't seem like the porn sick type of guy (many hobbies and outdoor activ… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/20 10:17 AM |
| 4 | Organically meeting someone doesn't guarantee a different outcomeMy (partnered) friends always tell me not to expect to meet someone serious on OLD. Well guess what, it is not my ideal choice to go out with random men who might be short, boring or uglier in real life. But I don't have opportunities to meet guys in real life rn and having many choices on OLD makes me not clingy. Also, it is a number's game. 1 in 10 guys is not that terrible usually. I don't like being judged for being on OLD, it is not ideal but for some of us is a necessary evil. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/20 12:32 PM |
| 4 | Why do people think it’s so sad when a woman says she may never want a relationship again?Having a partner is supposed to make life easier mainly for practical reasons. There are some mature men out there that do want an equal partner to spend their lives with. I don't know where to find them either though! It's also true that women feel superior to single women when they have a partner because we are conditioned to believe that the purpose of life is having a man. Weird flex but okay. I believe that having a partner is not that bad just don't take them seriously, allow them to make … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/20 09:42 PM |
| 28 | Yet another reason never to “date down”... If you, do they can’t handle it. Never settle."we accept the love we think we deserve" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/20 09:28 PM |
| 25 | He Knows, Sis.Thanks for this post, it's the truth! I was in a fight with my ex, telling him how we never do this or that and he admitted that he knew these things would make me happy but he didn't feel like doing them with me. THEY KNOW | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/20 10:35 AM |
| 15 | Scrote from r/UnpopularOpinion thinks r/femaledatingstrategy is asking for too much and looking for the “most perfect man”.Women ARE superior! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/20 12:03 PM |
| 5 | For those who have a track record of unhealthy relationships, what kept you in those relationships? And what would you do differently now, having learned more about FDS?I was extremely depressed and being next to him made me not so depressed, although he was a lying, cheating, gaslighting POS. Turns out he was a contributing factor to my depression. Life truly got better after he left me (and after I started getting professional help). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/20 04:25 PM |
| 7 | When males give you the creep stare in public, don’t look away. Deliberately give them a complete face and body scan and sneer at them like you’re contemptuously noticing their presence long enough to memorize details about them for a future police sketch.If this happens and I am able to burp, I look at them straight in the eyes with a death stare and burp loudly. They instantly look away. It is such a power move. They hate when you stop being feminine and shy. I have not tried it with farts yet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/20 07:08 PM |
| 4 | “A Woman is Never Complete Alone” THE AUDACITY—I would happily stop being single if I found a decent man who would actually commit. It is NOT that easy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/02/20 12:30 AM |
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