tjlightbulb Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
11	Being nice or kind doesn't get you far in life honestly Well yeah for every kind person there is there are a good amount of people will take advantage of you. But that’s why being kind is a choice, and you have to be confident in that kindness and be able to walk away from people who take advantage of you.	/r/seduction	04/08/25 10:17 PM
57	Being nice or kind doesn't get you far in life honestly Like others have said- this mindset is trash and is doing you absolutely nothing. It’s not about being kind to get what you want. “Women want nice guys” can be true- but they don’t want someone who is faking it to get in their good graces. They want someone who is naturally kind and is confident in that kindness. If you’re being kind and it isn’t genuine- they can tell. If you’re being kind to someone, and they take advantage of that- do you REALLY want to be with them anyway??	/r/seduction	04/08/25 10:08 PM
1	Date #2 set for 6 days later. When should I text her next? Everyone is different but I would hate to try and be in a relationship with someone I was nervous about texting. If you want to talk to her, text her!	/r/seduction	17/07/25 12:15 PM
2	Out with a chick, go take a piss or buy a drink/leave her alone for a couple secs, another guy comes over to try and pick her up, this always feels like a lose-lose, is there a winning move? details below Interjecting does not make you a pussy or insecure. It’s standing up for yourself. Knowing WHEN to do it is key. Dude puts his arm around her- yes stand up for yourself. Having a random convo about sports or something casual? Who cares? Giving space and trusting that you have that girl is the most confident thing you can do in that situation.	/r/seduction	18/05/24 07:22 PM
2	What's your unpopular opinion about women? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hell on Reddit? Feminism is great- until it isn’t.	/r/seduction	05/08/22 08:55 PM
1	Guys shit test you too! Isn’t this just called Gaslighting?	/r/seduction	15/07/22 05:50 PM
1	Is it normal to get this angry? ...how would I know I have no idea what you look like.	/r/seduction	30/09/20 09:19 PM
1	Is it normal to get this angry? Why do you think girls don’t like you? What are you insecure about?	/r/seduction	30/09/20 09:01 PM
2	Is it normal to get this angry? You are N O T entitled to anything. Not to love, not to sex, not to a job- nothing. You earn everything you get. Some people try harder than others and that’s the difference. It has nothing to do with fair/unfair. Because, and it’s worth repeating, life is not fair. Also, you realize men (us, dudes) do the same exact thing to women. Do you not realize this?? So to be clear, guys are fucking, ladies are fucking, the only one not fucking is you. And that’s is entirely on you. Not the women who don…	/r/seduction	30/09/20 08:51 PM
3	Is it normal to get this angry? So I’m reading the comments you’re making an honestly you should pursue therapy before pursuing a relationship. Hearing how mad you get hearing about people having sex is not normal in the slightest. You think even if a woman got interested in you and you had a fit because she had sex with someone is going to be attractive to her? Why do you think you aren’t having sex?	/r/seduction	30/09/20 08:28 PM
3	Is it normal to get this angry? Life isn’t fair. You sound silly. If you aren’t getting laid that’s on you and you alone. Blaming others for you not being able to get laid is some incel shit lol.	/r/seduction	30/09/20 08:11 PM
2	Is it normal to get this angry? Ok so if you have made a move, and you got rejected, move on to the next one. Nothing is guaranteed to you in life, that includes a mate. There’s zero reason to be bitter tho. Especially at 23, dude. Men talk about sex. Women talk about sex. Sex is great, it shouldn’t piss you off to hear others talk about it.	/r/seduction	30/09/20 07:45 PM
3	Is it normal to get this angry? Then why be bitter (you sound bitter, not judging you)? Flirt. Shoot your shot. It’s not something to be mad about!	/r/seduction	30/09/20 07:09 PM
6	Is it normal to get this angry? No it’s not. Men talk about sex. Women talk about sex. Talking about it is normal. Your reaction sounds like you’re insecure about not being able to flirt with and interact with people you’re into. Why even be mad when literally nothing is stopping you from getting on an app and flirting with women to try and “smash”.	/r/seduction	30/09/20 06:37 PM