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Learning this method of my identity not being my ideas. I’m trying to treat everyone, even those I disagree with, as a person The guy in this photo doesn’t seem to know an alternative then becoming his ideas/value system. I can somewhat empathize with this guy because he’s small, not particularly masculine in the traditional sense, and it might be easier for him to find a place on the other side.
/r/MGTOW02/05/18 05:08 PM
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2,200 matches over 2 years, in a pretty big west coast city, no idea on the number of dates, but probably 50+. People either take it too seriously, not seriously enough, or just act ridiculous. My first Tinder date broke up with me after date 2 because I didn't want kids... but in general it's fun, if someone rejects you or doesn't respond, it's most likely not because of "you". My ex was on it and got 50-60 messages a day, guys are relentless. It's a lot of competition on there.
/r/seduction19/03/17 07:15 PM
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Its awesome that you recognize that you need to have talents beyond beauty to be "valuable" and I don't doubt at all that in between chatting up girls you are nurturing those skills, which is going to pay dividends for the rest of your life. My sister described it as "The best relationship I will ever have is the one I have with myself".
/r/seduction08/04/15 11:27 PM
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The guys don't come across as misogynistic as much as just incredibly insecure assholes that thrive off control. I have never heard the undertones of so much emotional damage that needs to be directed at women. Or whatever the fuck the problem is. Getting laid and being nice to girls are mutually compatible.
/r/seduction08/04/15 11:22 PM
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Well sir, you and I are classy fuckers and would give the working girls a chance to get their paychecks without beating off guys.
/r/seduction25/12/14 01:52 AM
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I've had some really weird encounters with gay guys trying to pick me up, like standing on the sidewalk looking back at me for a block, waiting to see if I turned around and made eye contact, calling my work and suggesting I should fuck them later, going to the gym is the worst, floppy dick right in front of the locker... If you act like a decent human being and are polite about it, I think there is a possibility of asking a girl out in most situations that would result in either a zero-sum or h…
/r/seduction24/12/14 05:43 PM
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Living in Seattle, its so fucking passive aggressive here people rarely initiate contact. Making new friends and dating in public seems complicated, exacerbated by me being the exact person you are trying to speak to... The ones that are scared of public rejection, and having a conversation with a stranger with the specific intent of asking for a date. Being vulnerable and whatnot. Its that fucking holding pattern some of us get stuck in where our brains are running a circular pattern to talk ou…
/r/seduction24/12/14 05:39 PM
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I think it is lame too, but my experience of seeing my friends do stuff like this is usually been creepy. In most cases, if I get some sort of cue that a girl is interested, I will pursue. Otherwise I figure they are trying to get through their work day and not thinking about who they'd want to hook up with. Granted, if OP is a good looking dude and naturally suave, go for it. I don't have a whole lot of game, most of my sex life is the result of OKC/Tinder and drinking.
/r/seduction23/12/14 10:09 PM
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No its pretty accurate. I wouldn't even say I'm assertive, just socially awkward enough to feel like I should engage with everybody, usually with a novel approach. Ended up going home with a girl because I shared my chorizo quesadilla with her at Rancho Bravo. Its not hard to meet girls here, you just have to be creative. Or wear weird clothes and grow a moustache.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 08:18 PM
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I guess it must have worked in reverse for me. Felt like a 0/1 on Whidbey, now that I'm in the city its like being an 8. Girls don't recoil when I smile, or laugh when I ask them on a date (like high school). All those shitty memories. Seattle has been pretty grand. Although too many damn hipster chicks who's main method of weight loss is cocaine.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 06:45 PM
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Live in Seattle now, grew up on Whidbey. My brother moved back and complains about the options but you can't expect that many good looking girls to stick around a small town in their 20s. Oak Harbor was pretty gross.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 06:26 PM
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How did you manage to escape from your cage and get access to a computer? Damn women folk. I, personally, am glad someone of the opposite sex is on here. And I appreciate your candor.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 03:10 AM
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Hobby Lobby is a great example of people who are 1. Wrong, the morning after pill doesn't cause abortions and 2. Don't care what the science says, they are right anyway. I've met empathetic conservatives, you are probably one of them. The people holding signs saying repent or burn forever are the furthest from tolerant I can imagine. Ditto with anyone pushing the fat acceptance movement.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 11:02 PM
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Hobby Lobby is a great example of people who are 1. Wrong, the morning after pill doesn't cause abortions and 2. Don't care what the science says, they are right anyway. I've met empathetic conservatives, you are probably one of them. The people holding signs saying repent or burn forever are the furthest from tolerant I can imagine. Ditto with anyone pushing the fat acceptance movement.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 11:02 PM
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Well fuck you Europeans for placing a value on higher education and expecting people to think logically. We prefer idealism in this here backwards nation, if its broke, don't you dare try and fix it. The drug war is a prime example of conservative values and puritanical bullshit winning out over common sense. People are going to buy drugs. Why? Cause sometimes its fucking fun. Not all of us get off on watching reality TV and eating potato salad.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 10:55 PM
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This was fucking beautiful to read man, thanks. The guy says they are both vanilla when it comes to sex, but that's assuming a lot about the other person without truly knowing it as a fact. Sometimes people need something you can't give. It sucks, but its also reality. I've left lots of women because of subtle differences between us.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 10:47 PM
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It would have made more sense if she simply said she was interested in a threesome, without a specific person in mind. I've told my SO repeatedly, almost to a mandate, I expect you to vocalize your desires, even if they are strange, I'd rather be exploratory than break up because you aren't being fulfilled in a way you didn't take the time to ask. But this will probably never happen. I also am in the weird category of being into way too much kinky sex acts. Nothing a girl could mention would pha…
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 08:57 PM
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I'd assume you are referring to what I've heard is a biological change after a few years with the same person where the attraction falls off? I haven't been able to find any studies, but if that's your claim, I'd heartily agree with you. I think monogamy is culturally (and religiously) biased to be our baseline. It doesn't mean it functionally works for all people. Its just what we are taught.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 08:37 PM
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For someone who self analyzes, it depends on the source of the anger. My older brother for example, would use my Facebook acct to look up girls he had met. He would see older pictures of them with a random guy, not even romantic, just standing next to each other, and get visibly angry and start making derisive comments. In day to day life, he's a quick tempered egotist. Feels justified in sleeping with random girls but would get violent if he ever discovered his GF had cheated on him. Clearly a …
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 07:24 PM
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This is true with almost everything. You can't be an upscale white preppy kid and hang out with kids living on the streets. Its an oversimplification, but people gravitate towards those that represent their values or represent values we would like to emulate. I do it with my friends, and I can make a pretty good guess at the core qualities or lack of with a girl based on her social circle. However, in this situation, I think one solution that hasn't been addressed is maybe the boyfriend doesn't …
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 05:56 PM
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This is pretty easily apparent with all the embedded racism, talking to an attractive, tall, and educated black girl in my city describing getting followed through most clothing stores because its assumed she is going to shoplift. Racism and homophobia, despite whatever inherent beliefs you might have about it, need to end. We can't really grow as a sex or a species if we are spending any time looking down on others for personality or physical traits they can't control. I certainly don't ever wa…
/r/TheRedPill21/07/14 12:30 AM
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I'll happily pay for nice clothes, good beer, and anything where the money is exchanged for something intangible, like a cool experience. Been building my own PCs since I was 19. Can make incredible food. Its just more rewarding to learn it yourself. Went through something similar with a female friend that needed to replace her brakes on her BMW 325. Lesbian, came from a lot of money, oddly her dad was a jeweler. I offered to help her with the work since brake replacement is an easy job. Initial…
/r/TheRedPill20/07/14 12:35 AM
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I didn't find your voice grating at all. I have always believed since first seeing Shawshank Redemption that Morgan Freeman should provide the voice over for everything, but I don't mind your speaking style one iota. I've watched half, will be watching the other half after work. Well done, good sir. I go back and forth with this with my SO constantly, she is short and curvy. She's been a little more so for a couple months, but I somewhat kindly informed her she let herself get fat, and she fixed…
/r/TheRedPill20/07/14 12:28 AM
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Oregon sunstone is really interesting looking, has me thinking of a unique gift for my SO's upcoming birthday. And would still be less than $100. And one of the people who firmly believes the diamond market exists now because of deceitful practices. But like anything, you just need the generations that remembered things differently to die off, and now its mainstream for people to waste thousands on a lie.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/14 10:26 PM
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Its definitely not invasive as surgery goes. Literally less than 15 minutes, and other than the slight rubber band snap of the aerosolized numbing agent, its pretty much pain free. I can't even find the scar from the incision.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/14 10:09 PM
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I had a similar experience. No scalpel, no needle, was sore the day of surgery only. Girlfriend went with me, went home, watched movies, drank mimosas, slept. Felt winded, and the feeling of your internal tubes being pinched was very uncomfortable, mostly mentally. I was riding my scooter in three days, despite objections. It was also 100% covered by insurance. Not even a co-pay. I am 31, had it down in January of this year, have never had any desire for being a parent. Had a couple of close cal…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/14 10:05 PM
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I've had a dozen of these girlfriends that would quit 1/5th into a 3 mile jog around Greenlake because their side started hurting. A lot of people don't understand that exercise is not supposed to be easy.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/14 06:57 PM
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For me it was literally more of a 'Maybe I should try this out', but I don't ever find myself attracted to dudes. I don't even truly understand what my motivation was, other than perhaps checking something off the list, needing to solidify where I stood on the spectrum of sexuality. Despite our current culture, I can vaguely understand why a typical woman wouldn't idealize intelligence and pursue personal enlightenment. Most guys don't value those aspects in women as a predominate feature. We wa…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/14 06:53 PM
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Right there with you. Its awesome to realize there's people out there just like us, the same fairly unique struggles, makes the world feel less small. From having an abusive mother and a fundamentalist father with emotional detachment from reality, my understanding of women and people was fucked from the get-go. Its taken years to fix, and still trying to get a handle on how to be a person. I know at some level its a aspect of self identifying with the 'intelligentsia' and for that I am somewhat…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/14 06:13 PM
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I've seen something similar with a friend of mine who will open the contact menu on his phone and then hands it to the girl, in some ways bypassing the necessary conversation of whether she's interested and giving this expectation that he already knows she is. In the last couple of years, I've spent way too much time focusing on getting the girl to divulge some aspect of her intellectual capabilities before I even decide is she's worth my time. Almost to the point/age where I can't even get past…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/14 05:25 PM
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Introspection is a really underutilized aspect of men and women. I finally started seeing a great therapist, and its done wonders for my outlook on life and ability to engage and relate to others. Fucking yoga pants on girls are one of the top 5 reasons I love modern times. I'm wearing some at work right now, perks of a laid back job. Although I've rarely seen a circumstance after a yoga class to make any connection with a girl. I can't blame it on exclusively on Seattle, which despite a well de…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/14 04:48 PM
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During this time last year, I was also hitting P90x at home semi-religiously, as well as eating a lot better, and finding more general excuses to work out, so it was a combination of factors but most of my gains would have been from pull ups, the bench press, climbing stairs and push ups. I guess I just felt really good after the classes, hitting a point of having a strong enough core to do a headstand felt like a major accomplishment. If anything, the mind/body connection is something I now hig…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/14 03:59 PM
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I can't help but infer that you haven't tried it. Ya, you sweat, a lot. At least a liter, but the series of practices does fit the definition of static strength training. If you hold a (xx)-lb barbell in front of you for 60 seconds, it'll burn, eventually. People can half-ass it, you can sort of hold the pose but not flex your core, and you lose some of the effect. I definitely saw an increase in lean muscle mass, especially in my arms. Aside from usually being full of really attractive women.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/14 03:31 PM
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I can't relate to this guys situation having never been married and no real intentions of it, but in relationships its been a pass/fail scenario. If the sex is bad, I end it immediately, and if there's no sex, I will generally have a pretty frank (and in person) discussion about my own high sex drive not matching up to theirs, best of luck, but they should go find an ideal partner.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/14 03:05 PM
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Ain't nobody that has been able to make it through 90 minutes of hot yoga without feeling some sort of work out. It might not be the same type of muscular soreness, but it is really great exercise, has some great meditative components.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/14 03:01 PM
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I've had a handful of female friends throughout my 20s that resulted in some pretty cool adventures. Totally platonic in most cases, one of the girls was a lesbian and ended up in a threesome situation with a solid 9 after a snowstorm in Seattle. Granted, I would say my male friends tend to be more upstanding/loyal people.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/14 07:08 AM
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