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Hey y’all so all hope isn’t lost! The judge asked her why she didn’t file to repeal the ENTIRE conservatorship rather than just the financial conservatorship. They couldn’t find evidence that he worked against her best interest financially BUT it looks like the judge can see clear evidence that the entire conservatorship is against her best interest. Brittany then filed to repeal the entire conservatorship
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 12:53 PM
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Isn’t she barely 19 years old? She’s still young and growing and finding herself. This isn’t a scandalous picture by any means and men will jerk off to ankles if we start covering them up. Did y’all see that men were already jerking off to her fully clothed. As women, we’re dammed off we do and dammed if we don’t. As long as she’s finding her own style and happiness, I think it’s fine. We shouldn’t live constantly thinking about how to avoid the male gaze bc it’s literally impossible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 07:24 PM
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It might just be a troll that likes to see people rilled up. Unfortunately, there are many trolls who post for this purpose. But it doesn’t mean that we should stop being vigilant bc at the end of the day men cheat on or leave their partners when they’re ill all the time. It’s not a new concept, but I do this this was a troll. Probably a redpiller that likes to make women feel insecure and angry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 03:20 AM
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It’s definitely a troll. He’s not engaging in any comments and didn’t leave out important details while also trying to redeem himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 02:35 AM
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I honestly feel like this is a troll. I’m not saying men don’t actually think this way bc we all saw the posts on brkngdad (vowels removed bc I’m not sure if I can name the sub) before it went private. But this poster isn’t interacting with anyone and there definitely has been a flux of pregnancy posts on AITA. It also feels obvious that the “male character” ITA. Usually the guy will leave out important details or make themselves look better for validation and you can find the real story by read…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 02:23 AM
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Girl my ex boyfriend swore on his daughter’s life that he never cheated but all the text messages and pictures showed a different story completely. I don’t like to pathologize people I don’t know but I know my ex was a narcissist and I wouldn’t be surprised if this guy is one too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 12:19 AM
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If your partner watching porn and lying about it is a dealbreaker for you, then you shouldn’t be with them. Any addiction cannot be beaten with “sheer will” and that includes porn addictions. FDS is all about finding and enforcing our boundaries with significant others. Honestly, he crossed a boundary for you and no doubt he’ll do it again. You just have to decide if it’s worth it. In the FDS mindset, he’s a LVM so you gotta figure out if that’s good enough for you. Edit: Just to add. I wouldn’t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 07:59 PM
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the whole “I want to die bc I am a man” thing is not even what this subreddit is about and clearly needs unpacking. This isn’t positive. This isn’t high value behavior. He’s just a pick-me looking for validation. He sounds like the type of guy to say “wow I guess I’ll just die because I’m a horrible person” if you ask him why he didn’t unload the dishwasher 🙄. His take was terrible, added nothing to the discussion about misogyny, and makes no sense. 1st why would his response to there are many m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 04:29 AM
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Added it to my list
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 06:42 AM
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I hope you like it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 06:42 AM
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I hope it’s enlightening for you! If you want a deep dive, I know there’s a Psychologist, Dr. Ramani, that makes YouTube videos specifically concerning narcissistic relationships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 06:36 AM
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I hope the person who awarded me silver was someone from FDS who follows the ideology, loves the advice, and is also just passionate about good research 😬. The studies he cites are legitimate and published so if you are interested in learning more about the subject check them out! Also check out other papers that cite those sources. If you have questions about reading research lmk!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 04:43 AM
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I think this is a bit daunting on its own, but it does serve an excellent point to why FDS works in life. First, we set boundaries and expectations for ourselves. Next, we get on the path to achieving our goals in terms of career, personal hobbies, enrichment, and good caring friendships etc. then, once we are in a stable place, we begin seriously dating and only entertaining people who bring value to our lives and seriously care for us just as much as we care for them. If a HVP comes along it’s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 05:08 AM
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Thanks for the Rec! I’ve been looking for a good animated Tv show
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 03:38 AM
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Research is always important, even for things that feel obvious, because it begins the conversation of looking at things as objectively as possible rather than just relying on personal philosophy. I typically keep up with the research shared here as well as talking points with friends too and it’s helped me explain my why my stances on porn, sex work, and relationships differ from other feminists.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 04:59 PM
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Ahh thanks for letting me know! I’ll check it out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 10:27 PM
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What? Sorry I’m out of the loop but when did Obama say this??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 10:03 PM
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Thank you! I commented on that post before it was removed and debating adding a post explaining my point of view but I honestly couldn’t sum it up any better. The only things I want to add are: African American girls are often sexualized at a younger age and more than white girls because for some reason “blackness” itself is sexualized. If we try to add rules to being sexualized, then the same argument can be made against women wearing makeup. Even though women wear makeup to feel beautiful not …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 01:45 AM
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Why does it matter? At one point in history it was fashionable for women to reveal one breast in dresses. It wasn’t inherently sexualized bc it was just fashion. When you sexualized someone it is an active choice on the person who is doing the sexualizing. I’m sure we’ve all seen the statistics showing that men sexualize African-American girls at a much younger age than white girls for the exact same outfits. It doesn’t matter what we do, say or wear if someone wants to sexualized us they will. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 10:10 PM
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This sounds like you want validation for emotionally cheating. Please correct me if I’m off, but if you have a boyfriend, I’m assuming this is a committed relationship and that you have benchwarmer men because you don’t really want to commit. This isn’t high value behavior at all. I don’t feel like you’re giving the full picture here. If you have a fear of committing you should talk to a therapist about it. If you don’t feel like you and your boyfriend are compatible and you don’t want to commit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 06:19 AM
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Here’s the thing. Even without an FDS lens, they are clearly not sexually compatible and there’s nothing inherently wrong with that. Either they accept that and move on or the guy adjusts since she clearly not comfortable with it. Like?? It shouldn’t be that complicated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 03:04 AM
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She specifically said that she likes younger guys because they are inexperienced, which is the same reason that older men cite for wanting younger women. She may look FDS friendly on the surface but the majority of what she preaches is absolutely predatory.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 11:03 PM
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We shouldn’t be promoting her here she often goes for guys half her age and is in constant lying scandals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 07:37 PM
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I think it’s more of a validation thing. They probably want a benchwarmer to come back to after they fuck up their game. They like having a person they feel dependent on to get consistent validation from if they need it. I’ve noticed that these specific fuck boys don’t have any real hobbies other than dating women and they’re in competition with their male friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 12:06 AM
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I have! I really like it. I can’t wait to see what he puts out next
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 07:00 PM
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