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I bet those sweet bitches in hot tropical paradises may also have a different flavor of dealing with you if you go beta after the initial flush is over. Or branch swing quicker and with as much smiling promise as they gave you right off the street...to the next traveler. Can confirm, I wifed one up. Everything MRP tries to address is the same, regardless of culture/race.
/r/askMRP10/10/18 01:31 PM
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I tried this and let’s just say I no longer have to worry about being alpha because she’ll never leave my side now. 10/10 highly recommended.
/r/askMRP10/10/18 07:58 AM
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For a long time I dismissed and sometimes even made fun of RP. Ever since shit got real for me and I was forced to understand what was happening to me, everything just clicked and I've had a different outlook on TRP. Well I can't really speak for TRP, because I don't buy into everything there, but I think MRP is a subset of TRP and I see less "crazy" here, which I believe is a reason people are quick to judge TRP/MRP in a negative way. It's a shame though, because the other day someone mentioned…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/10/18 03:38 PM
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Did you just meet this girl? She know you from before or spoke to you before this?
/r/askMRP02/10/18 09:10 AM
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I've been reading What Women Want When They Test Men: How to Decode Female Behavior, Pass a Woman’s Tests, and Attract Women Through Authenticity It's not part of the official sidebar, but it's a good read and very RP, sometimes using the same terminology. I recommend this book, it has some good insights and examples of the various different tests women do and what you're experiencing is in that book. It might help you recognise what she's doing and help you be convinced it has nothing to do wit…
/r/askMRP01/10/18 05:45 PM
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If you never cheated and that includes this plate, then you are in a good position. At least internally. I think you're at an advantage there.
/r/askMRP24/09/18 05:26 PM
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Is there anything else owning it should entail? Because the moment he does that, she'll up her guard and scrutinise, get pissed, shit test etc etc... Any advice on how a man should deal with what comes next with owning it?
/r/askMRP24/09/18 05:22 PM
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Have you ever cheated on her in the past?
/r/askMRP24/09/18 05:15 PM
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Fukt.
/r/askMRP24/09/18 05:03 PM
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We had deteriorated into 1 blowjob a month or less. She was completely incapable of orgasm, and was therefore losing interest in sex completely. We would talk about how sex was not pleasurable for her at all, and usually painful. She took to using a vibrating toy on me to help keep me satisfied and prevent her pain. She would still have sex with me about 80% of the times I initiated, just to keep me from drifting away, but it was so bad that it left me extremely unfulfilled. Sometimes she would …
/r/askMRP23/09/18 07:15 PM
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This is about what you want. Sure sure we strive to understand and see through thier behavior to what they mean but I am also here to tell it's bullshit. Do what you want. Been going to NMMNG meetings and I see a lot of people in that group including myself have this problem. What do we want to do? Just used to pleasing others, we don't even know what we want. Fucking annoying cos the only thing we do want is a normal fucking relationship. Anyway, I don't want to victim puke, this is a long proc…
/r/askMRP19/09/18 02:22 PM
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plus my dad kept everyone (especially his children) in submission Perhaps your dad was a narcissist. I think they can show alpha qualities but I don't think that's all they do. Perhaps too much alpha and no oak in sight.
/r/askMRP06/07/18 12:25 PM
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Can you elaborate?
/r/askMRP01/07/18 07:16 AM
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Thank you this hit Home.
/r/askMRP01/07/18 07:16 AM
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No she’s got her own money. I’m not sending any, although I left a bit before I came.
/r/askMRP01/07/18 05:32 AM
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polite with your wife I'm not doing this well right now. I am raging and just made it clear if that's what she wants then I'm ready to burn it to the ground because that's what her and her family basically insinuated and that perhaps I should kill myself if it makes it easier for them to paint me the bad guy. I'm so angry right now.
/r/askMRP30/06/18 02:32 AM
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I like the attitude man. Keep it up. You're not doing anything wrong by acting like this and you're well on your way to improving yourself so that you actually do no wrong by her, so the rest is all up to her and fate. There's no turning back, to turn back is to go back to old ways. Ways, that you know is what got you in this position in the first place. You are being strong and that's the best thing you can do for your daughter. How else are you going to take good care of her? Now I need to shu…
/r/askMRP27/06/18 12:41 PM
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Can someone explain this comment?
/r/askMRP27/06/18 12:24 PM
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So then the answer is to find out. Tell him to stop being a bitch and snoop or else forget about it. Perhaps you can find out how best to snoop without having him fuck it all up.
/r/askMRP27/06/18 12:11 PM
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Good advice. As someone in the same position as you OP, I'd take this advice, makes a lot of sense.
/r/askMRP27/06/18 11:41 AM
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WTF. Wasn't the spanking sexual and supposed to be fun?
/r/askMRP26/06/18 01:20 PM
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Can't tell if humblebrag or "hey guys i fucked up once, do you think i'll fuck up again, I just can't help but wonder, woe is life, but I won't give up, now validate me my online band of brothers".
/r/askMRP26/06/18 01:05 PM
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Gold. Thanks for sharing.
/r/askMRP25/06/18 10:30 PM
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These women in 1st world countries are so god damned entitled Believe me the rest are catching up if not already there in some cases.
/r/askMRP25/06/18 01:36 PM
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Great read. Just a little bit of motivation to keep me on track. Thanks for sharing.
/r/askMRP25/06/18 01:28 PM
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Thanks for the insight. I'm not sure which type of plates they are at the moment, will be looking to see if it's the better one. But sounds like I should just get 20kg plates and then it won't matter. Squats are part of stronglifts 5x5. :)
/r/askMRP25/06/18 01:06 PM
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That’s something I didn’t think about. I’m trying to save money at the moment though. Cardio outdoors and buying the weight set seems to be cheaper.
/r/askMRP25/06/18 12:34 PM
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Going for the 7’.
/r/askMRP25/06/18 12:32 PM
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Thought the main event was when your partner notices a difference in you after you have successfully upped your SMV and she's worried.
/r/askMRP17/06/18 06:37 PM
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Thanks for responding. I'm not being an ass. I'm calling everyday he doesn't want to talk to me but she does show me the baby. I ask her if she's fine, she doesn't respond. I tried to give her comfort but she didn't even let me touch her nor look me in the face. We were really good before the delivery. A week or so after, she became like this. I don't know what to do. Especially when the parents had a go at me, what else am I supposed to do. I want nothing more than to get her with me as fast as…
/r/askMRP13/06/18 07:00 PM
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Damn you're right, nothing else matters. In fact I'm wasting my time here talking about shit that brings me no benefit when I personally have so much left to do.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/06/18 02:08 PM
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Dude, in one post you're like you know you can do better and likely won't stay with her. So why are you saying you want monogamy? I don't get that.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/06/18 02:06 PM
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I see where you're coming from. I guess when I wrote "I responded without thinking too much" in my head it sounded less like an excuse but I can see how that can be construed as one. I guess the real correct thing to do here is to not have got himself into this position in the first place.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/06/18 02:03 PM
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Outcome independence. Since you think it's not something you will likely continue (which brings me to question why you care to post about this in the first place), you should not care what she does. Since you've already responded the way you have, just let it go and let her come back if she wants to.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/06/18 01:55 PM
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How is it DEER if you're not apologising just stating what happened and then when the drama queen comes out (because you know it's going to, no matter what) then you DARE. MRP is not meant to be do whatever you want, my understanding right now is you need both Alpha and Beta qualities and you become the OAK. Part of that means you don't fucking cheat. You can flirt and spin plates but you don't follow through. Or am I wrong? Maybe an approved MRP'r can respond.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/06/18 01:42 PM
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Of course the dram queen will come out, but I'm just saying if all you say is that it sounds like you're trying to tell her to fuck off you will cheat if you want to. If he had sufficient SMV, she would know that already but with no proof it will be the mystery that turns her the fuck on. But getting caught, I'm not so sure it works the same way.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/06/18 01:40 PM
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This is after she has already found out and confronted him right? So if the texts show he was ready to meet this chick wouldn't saying only that and calling it minor not really work out? Can't he give a rational explanation without apologising and then say "You're being a drama queen and if you want to break up a perfect relationship over minor bullshit, then that's up to you. Call me when you want to apologize, otherwise have a good life." ? I guess what I'm trying to say is she might need some…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/06/18 01:28 PM
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Thanks for this post, this was on my mind a lot recently.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/06/18 01:12 PM
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Instead of caving in, is there a right response that's still not giving her the cold shoulder? Since she has found evidence of potential cheating, can't he just say something like "I responded without thinking too much and then I realised what a mistake that would be" or something better?
/r/MarriedRedPill13/06/18 01:07 PM
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Honoured. Bought your book the other day but I'm reading MNSLP first.
/r/askMRP13/06/18 12:23 PM
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Yup. I’m going to let her get in touch with me first to talk about whether we are going to be together or separate and if together where we are going to live. Till then, I only want to see the baby on FaceTime. Thanks for your responses.
/r/askMRP11/06/18 06:23 PM
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Are you the same BP prof on YT?
/r/askMRP11/06/18 06:13 PM
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You’re right.
/r/askMRP11/06/18 06:07 PM
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She’s pissed off i’m not man enough basically. She says I’m a mamas boy cos I got the help of my mother while I was back and suggested we go to my house because her mum had her hands full. She’s also telling her parents when I reacted in anger to her shit tests and said mean things, so they all think I’m some kind of monster. Beyond that, I haven’t been OYS so I know she’s right about that a bit and more than anything I have not known what a shit test is and we always get into arguments because …
/r/askMRP11/06/18 05:09 PM
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Rome wasn’t built in a day as for over posting I’m sort of in a crisis and I am trying hard by reading and i will very soon be lifting.
/r/askMRP11/06/18 04:27 PM
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We didn’t move in with the parents permanently it was supposed I be just for a few months and then when the baby can fly, they both come join me. She wanted to stay at her folks because she wanted her mommy (ironically). You’re right about anticipating. We didn’t plan for a pregnancy and I’ve been lax about budgeting and saving all of which I started to do after we realized she’s pregnant. Right now financially we are ok. I need a bit of a bigger emergency fund, that’s my only concern. Also I’m …
/r/askMRP11/06/18 03:59 PM
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Sorry I haven’t given enough context. I’ve also not been clear enough. I’ll try to post an update soon and make things clearer and not write in a hurry.
/r/askMRP11/06/18 03:52 PM
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Yes! My sister went through a similar thing. There’s not much I can do about that. I know she’s going through a mix of feelings and everything is slightly exaggerated which spilled over to her folks worrying about things too.
/r/askMRP11/06/18 03:50 PM
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Baby was unexpected. We weren’t planning on having one. I make over $100,000 and can certainly provide for bub and Wife, we normally live abroad in a large city. I have avenues to make more by going contracting but I’m not a permanent resident (and becoming one is in the works). The reason we decided to go back for the delivery is because we were too new in the country and insurance has a stay period for things like pregnancy. I got her the best care while she was there but we didn’t want to ris…
/r/askMRP11/06/18 03:48 PM
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Thanks. I think my post wasn’t clear that I’m not moving out of her folks place just that I left for the night and also my wife and I are not permanently moving in with her folks (or at least wasn’t supposed to be permanently, it might happen if she decides to separate). I have to leave her and go back abroad first because of work and a new born baby can’t fly until about 4 to 6 months. So she’s supposed to join me later. So I left that house for a day and went radio silent. When I went back thi…
/r/askMRP11/06/18 03:46 PM
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Man, that’s an important point. When I read your OP I thought you told her to stop in a more stern way. Now it makes more sense how you proceeded to make out with her following that.
/r/askMRP11/06/18 05:01 AM
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Found a few on MRP.
/r/askMRP11/06/18 04:57 AM
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Well, engineer here so you’re probably right.
/r/askMRP10/06/18 07:19 PM
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This is like a eureka moment for me. Holy shit.
/r/askMRP09/06/18 05:23 PM
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Deleted my post because I felt it was low value and unclear. But I’d like to respond to you. Are you saying that they some how know the game? Like I’ve felt some of the shit tests my wife’s doing on me is to almost like force me to change. This is actually the real question I had.
/r/askMRP09/06/18 05:17 PM
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How annoying. Don’t think mine would say it out loud but she won’t believe me I’m sure.
/r/askMRP09/06/18 05:02 PM
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Typo. Win should read with.
/r/askMRP09/06/18 03:40 PM
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That’s a typo. Wrote this on mobile. That’s supposed to be “with”.
/r/askMRP09/06/18 03:39 PM
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I’m like a few days into this whole thing. Getting there. I had purchased NMMNG about a year back, it’s on my kindle. Starting to read it now.
/r/askMRP08/06/18 06:49 PM
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Cold hard truth. :)
/r/askMRP08/06/18 06:48 PM
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Thanks, I’m just reeling right now cos I was shot down minutes of writing my post. As a noob, it’s worth trying the rest cos the frame + OYS I’ve tried so far, I’ve seen results. my sanity returned and so did a reduction of the shittests.
/r/askMRP06/06/18 07:58 PM
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I feel for you man. I’ve been married 2.5 years and just had my first kid and what I received from not just my wife, but also her mom after my son was born, I swallowed the red pill - hard. Because the way she was treating me made no sense. I’m also 5’7” - I’ve lost about 10kg on two or three several occasions. Eat right + cardio like every day and then when I relapsed, I next tried intermittent fasting and keto diet - got the same results, dropped 10kg. My struggle is keeping it down, but inter…
/r/askMRP06/06/18 07:41 PM
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This one was quite informative. He actually starts of by saying lack of info on what exactly frame is, is a gap in current RP/MRP. This helped clarify a bit. Thanks.
/r/askMRP05/06/18 08:59 PM
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This made me really happy. Well done.
/r/askMRP04/06/18 09:48 PM
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No, now you got a challenge to make it happen.
/r/askMRP04/06/18 09:21 PM
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Great thread. Since everyone says you handled it well, I’m learning from your experience. Thanks for sharing.
/r/askMRP04/06/18 09:17 PM
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That was an interesting read and clarifies some of the points made by /u/RPWolf on being overt with your flirtations. Thanks.
/r/askMRP03/06/18 11:06 PM
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Thanks. :)
/r/askMRP03/06/18 09:52 PM
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I see where you’re coming from. It’s one thing to be able to do that on a whim if the worst happens. But another to sort of have another person on the side in hopes it may happen. I don’t think actually having someone on the side is a good tactic. That’s cheating and getting caught will just make things worse. Flirting on the other hand seems effective for both scenarios - make her jealous and give you a good lead in case of the worst case.
/r/askMRP03/06/18 09:34 PM
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