tmporae Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
33	[34M] Where am I, and where do I go from here?		tmporae	/r/seduction	28/11/16 06:43 PM

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1	Be careful of subconscious programming-unplugging from the Matrix I need FB to exchange messages with certain people, and for that reason I cannot leave FB completely. I'm now using FB's "Messenger Lite" which does nothing except messaging. Haven't used regular FB in at least one year, so I get what I need from FB and nothing else. If the messaging is holding you back, give it a try.	/r/TheRedPill	24/06/18 02:45 PM
2	Improving your finances - F.A.S.T.E.R Also categorize as "consumer good" or "investment". For example, tickets for a sports event would be the former while a gym membership would be the latter. A book or clothes can be either - it depends on the subject of the book, and the purpose of the clothes.	/r/TheRedPill	21/06/18 09:10 PM
1	I kill people...my last job. It's a variant of the "hitman scam" (see Google for details)	/r/TheRedPill	21/06/18 08:39 AM
2	The subconscious results of lifting. (For beginners) That's odd. I saw my biggest relative strength gains during the first few months and thought that's how it is for most people. Consider asking in a fitness related subreddit, they tend to be quite helpful. Good luck.	/r/TheRedPill	06/06/18 09:21 PM
3	The subconscious results of lifting. (For beginners) Are you tracking your progress?	/r/TheRedPill	06/06/18 07:40 PM
3	TRP is an ace up your sleeve that is not to be shared with others. Correct. The saying "when the student is ready, the teacher will appear" comes to mind.	/r/TheRedPill	15/05/18 10:55 AM
2	Anyone read Fundamentals of Female Dynamics? I have read both, and while FoFD is a good book I felt it's too similar to Models to provide additional insights. It's more concise than Models though, so for somebody who hasn't read Models FoFD should be a valuable read. Ultimately my suggestion is to read either, but not both. Time is limited, thus return on investment (=reading time) must be considered. I prefer reading two good books with different information over reading two good books with the same information.	/r/seduction	24/12/16 10:37 AM
2	[34M] Where am I, and where do I go from here? so as far as they know, you could be a 34 year-old who lives in his mom's basement That really resonated with me. It's a very good point you're making, one that I had never considered. I may not be talking about my career because I don't want to brag, but it may lead people to conclusions that are far worse than being considered a braggart. Similar to when a guy is not escalating physically with the intention of not being pushy, but then the girl thinks he's not interested. This is one of those …	/r/seduction	29/11/16 11:11 PM
1	[34M] Where am I, and where do I go from here? So you're a good talker, but are you good at making friends? How many people do you consider friends? Depends a bit on the definition; there are two (one male, one female) I trust enough to share very personal things with, and vice versa. Then there are around ten more casual friends who, say, stop their cars when they see me to ask if I need a ride. For what it's worth, I'm much better at making female than male friends.	/r/seduction	29/11/16 10:52 PM
2	[34M] Where am I, and where do I go from here? Thanks, and NoFap really helped me with approaching and getting dates, so you weren't too far off anyway!	/r/seduction	29/11/16 10:40 PM
1	[34M] Where am I, and where do I go from here? Sure, no problem. Most importantly, use her name to avoid looking like you're doing mindless copy and paste. Then send a message that is engaging by means of asking a question or making a statement but in a friendly and, more importantly, personal manner. In other words, I don't use the same opener on all women. I always look at profiles and think about what I can open with. To be a bit more specific, I recently noticed a woman who was using the name "Curly" because of her hair. Here's my first …	/r/seduction	29/11/16 10:38 PM
1	[34M] Where am I, and where do I go from here? Ask yourself: When you see a girl on a date are YOU down to fuck? Are YOU horny enough that you want to fuck her? Well, sometimes, it depends on the girl and her behavior. Very interesting point about the instinct! I often think I seem to be lacking this sexual instinct of just "knowing" what to do. I had to read books and guides and practice for at least six years just to get where I am today. My explanation is that humans learn through experience, with positive experiences (such as sex) teachi…	/r/seduction	28/11/16 11:57 PM
2	[34M] Where am I, and where do I go from here? On a scale of 1-10, how would you rate yourself physically? That's a tough one. Five years ago I would have said 3. But now that I'm getting good responses on dating apps where looks are probably more important... 5-6, depending on lighting ;) Average height. I'm physically fit and I do sports or another serious physical activity every day, but I'm more the lean than the muscular type. Maybe you're coming off as needy on your dates? It could be, although I'm not sure whether I can do something a…	/r/seduction	28/11/16 11:39 PM
1	[34M] Where am I, and where do I go from here? What do you do on your dates? How long do they last? I strongly prefer outdoor activities, like taking her on a 2-3 hour walk through the countryside where I know beautiful yet virtually unknown places. Most women later post the photos on Facebook so I guess they like the locations. And I think long walks are a great way to get to know a person, to share who you are and to literally "lead the way". Besides, the physical exercise, fresh air and changing scenery keep the conversation flowing all t…	/r/seduction	28/11/16 11:22 PM
2	[34M] Where am I, and where do I go from here? My concern is that if it "works", it'll make me feel like I had to mention this, whereas most men out there don't. But hey, I'm not arguing. I said I'd try anything, and your reply makes sense. So I'll set up a few more dates, weave it into the conversation and see what happens.	/r/seduction	28/11/16 09:39 PM
5	How to START a conversation with a stranger ? What has always worked well for me is to ask questions that cannot be answered with simple yes/no or factual answers, but questions that are essentially asking for an opinion. i.e. "Do you know a good place for ...". Makes it relatively easy to add a second question, or to at some point get a bit more personal by asking why s/he would pick place A over B, or what's the difference, or explaining why you were asking the first place. Can lead to them divulging their preferences and a bit of persona…	/r/seduction	28/11/16 09:23 PM
6	[34M] Where am I, and where do I go from here? I can imagine you're qualifying a lot to the girl. I understand why you would think so, but no. Come to think of it, quite the opposite! For example, I'm doing reasonably well in my career. If you were to google my name you'd find articles in some of the world's biggest papers, referring to me as an "expert" in my field. I get the occasional fan mail, and people in their late teens and early twenties are asking me for guidance on how to become like me. But I've never mentioned any of that. Partl…	/r/seduction	28/11/16 09:13 PM
7	[34M] Where am I, and where do I go from here? Between 2 and 8 nights before. I've been experimenting with NoFap (if that's why you're asking). The only difference I've noticed is that it makes me approach far more women, collect more numbers and get more dates. I've mentioned a list of 11 women who are willing to meet; they're the result of a recent 22 day streak.	/r/seduction	28/11/16 07:02 PM
1	how do you guys open at night in bars? I know nothing about this stuff but I think the opener is less about the words than about non-verbal communication, i.e. the image, personality and intention you communicate.	/r/seduction	28/11/16 05:46 PM
1	Fear of rejection and therefore fear of destroying self image What you are describing reads like a common reason for procrastination. Most people think it procrastination is simply the result of laziness. However, many procrastinators are subconsciously afraid of doing something "wrong" or reaching a less than perfect result - because that would pop their bubble or artificial confidence. (Some are even afraid of the perfect result because of the changes it may cause.) So they prefer to procrastinate.	/r/seduction	28/11/16 05:43 PM