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Conversationtnpersona/r/seduction16/09/21 08:33 PM
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Definitely one and here's why: -You'll at least always have one person in your corner -You'll always have a friend/lover which is very relieving (cause you don't have to constantly be on the look-out for women) -You'll have someone to help tuck the back of your tie under the shirt collar, which can be very annoying to do on your own 😂
/r/seduction12/08/22 01:41 PM
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One: Don't think of yourself as a "kissless virgin". Thinking that alone probably gets you nervous. To answer your question though emotions are contagious, so if you're nervous, people-- not just women-- will feel it too. You are the man! Approach others with that in mind and I bet you feel much different
/r/seduction03/08/22 09:53 PM
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Not in a creepy way, but just tune in to your surroundings. Find a place to sit and just look around. I wouldn't think about girls specifically at this point either. So many guys put them on a pedestal so to speak, which makes them nervous. Look at looks as you would your best guy friend, and it should help with a lot of the anxiety 😎👍
/r/seduction30/07/22 03:01 PM
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I mean, you do need social skills, but "game" infers that you need specific skills and knowledge to get women which you don't. I understand: not everyone likes to read. I'd suggest trying to immerse yourself in situations where you'd be around people then. Just simply observe what's going on and how others are interacting. My favorite place to people watch was at my local mall
/r/seduction30/07/22 02:32 PM
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"Game" is only going to get you a superficial girlfriend who'll bounce the second things get tough. It's definitely not worth it. Sounds like you might need to focus on you a bit. I could recommend you some books that might help build up confidence if you'd like. I'd avoid medication at all costs though
/r/seduction30/07/22 01:01 PM
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Can I taste some of mommy's milk though 😂😂😂 Just kidding. Don't say that lmao
/r/seduction27/07/22 04:05 AM
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Compliment her. Open-ended questions are for interviews. Make it more personal by telling her nice things and just going with the flow. Make sure it's genuine though. People can generally tell if you're BSing them. I wouldn't get sexual either especially not right away.
/r/seduction27/07/22 12:08 AM
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Exactly! You're on the right path my man. Great first experience. I think your brother needs to look up the definition of a simp though 😂
/r/seduction13/01/22 03:26 PM
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That's really good advice man! You're lucky to have her as a friend. I think the solution is both simple and complicated. It sounds to me that you're probably lacking confidence and charisma due to the self-esteem issues. That's a huge issue because people are always going to pick-up on it. You need to find a way to build up that self-esteem. Obviously, there are myriads of different ways you could do this. My way of choice has always been to work on my style. I have several videos about the top…
/r/seduction16/12/21 02:19 PM
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Who cares what anyone else might think? Of course, we all do on some level because it’s human nature, but you should just do what makes you happy.
/r/seduction06/12/21 10:32 PM
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Never apologize for anything you don’t need to be sorry for, first off. By saying sorry you’re positing yourself in a lesser role, which amplifies the pain. The trick to not letting it get to you is to just not let it get to you. Don’t think about it. It’s tough at first, but after awhile it becomes more natural. Oh and most importantly never dwell on anything. Treat each approach like it’s the first time
/r/seduction30/11/21 12:09 AM
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Everybody thinks it’s a big deal until it happens then they realize it’s not 😂 I think most things in life are like that. Our imaginations are much better than reality
/r/seduction28/11/21 03:13 PM
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If you’re wearing something you love it should pretty much negate all nervousness. Works like magic. How would you define snazzy? Something that makes you stand out? I would wear a well-fitted outfit you already love and a pair of oxfords or loafers. Go with a dark color combo as dark colors always look best on men. Most importantly, don’t dress-up for the girl. Dress-up for you. The confidence and charisma you exude from the outfit should be enough to attract the girl.
/r/seduction27/11/21 05:26 PM
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You just know. You’ll feel it
/r/seduction26/11/21 04:10 PM
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Work on yourself. Learn to love yourself. Stop allowing others to determine your worth. Shift your perspective. Girls aren’t everything. You’re everything.
/r/seduction10/11/21 02:58 PM
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Show that you can through your actions. You have to remember: girls should be secondary. Work on yourself and they’ll be able to notice. I had it backwards when I was in high school- prioritizing getting girls, and hence, I didn’t get more than some hugs and a kiss on the cheek. Once I started working on myself though things did a 180.
/r/seduction05/11/21 01:56 PM
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That’s absolutely the case my man. It’s actually human nature— we want what we can’t have or seemingly can’t have. This applies to virtually everything, but in terms of girls, by not reaching out to them or showering them with attention they’ll want you even more because you’re not easily available.
/r/seduction03/11/21 01:50 PM
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Time to move on my friend. If after two months of being together she can’t have an open conversation with you about the way you feel then she’s obviously too immature to be in a healthy relationship.
/r/seduction02/11/21 03:41 PM
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I’d take it as a good sign. But I’ll be real: if I were friends with someone for four years, which is a lot longer than most friendships last, I would have to ask myself if potentially losing that friendship is worth it. Once things become sexual there’s no reverting back to what you had. I’d think about how much you would care if you lost this friend
/r/seduction01/11/21 04:33 PM
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Then you’re probably good. Just wait and see what happens. You’ll be able to tell if she’s interested 😎
/r/seduction01/11/21 01:25 AM
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Just a bit creepy my man. Given her age especially. Young girls these days are strange. How did she sound? That’s the key. I can’t say either way if she’s interested on not based on what you wrote, but you should have some idea.
/r/seduction31/10/21 09:59 PM
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Everybody likes to be approached in public. Just don’t over do it and don’t be creepy.
/r/seduction31/10/21 03:50 PM
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No. Sometimes texts send as SMS if the other person isn’t in an area with great signal. An easy way to see is simply to call, if it’s worrying you that much. When she picks up just say you missed the sound of her voice or something
/r/seduction29/10/21 02:38 PM
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Charisma and confidence- people are drawn to it 😎
/r/seduction25/10/21 09:15 PM
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I think I’ve experienced something similar before. Some girls are just like that- they seem to only know how to flirt. Doesn’t necessarily mean she’s into you, and even if she is, like many others say, don’t get involved. You don’t want to tarnish your reputation by ruining a relationship
/r/seduction23/10/21 02:47 PM
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Personally, I would react with indifference, but since you still care about her, I’d suggest ignoring it. If she broke your heart once she’ll do it again.
/r/seduction22/10/21 04:01 PM
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Thanks man. I definitely will 😎
/r/seduction17/10/21 11:46 PM
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My thoughts exactly lol
/r/seduction16/10/21 03:13 PM
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Subscribed. I like your focus. Seems like useful info for guys looking to up their game
/r/seduction15/10/21 09:03 PM
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It’s basically the equivalent to an “ok” or the thumbs-up emoji. Ask her if it bothers you though. The worst thing you can do is assume anything
/r/seduction11/10/21 04:55 PM
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I agree that you need to talk to her, but it is an odd question to ask. I don’t think there’s anything wrong per say, but maybe she still has childish romantic ideals. Communication is key though, so definitely ask her why she got upset
/r/seduction06/10/21 06:59 PM
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Straight out of the renaissance- this man’s a bard. I think we would all agree, but the way you put it into words is something else. You start telling girls this and you’re good to go my man 😏 Of course, be careful not to go overboard.
/r/seduction04/10/21 02:46 PM
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It might sound funny but have you considered going to church?
/r/seduction02/10/21 10:51 PM
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Welcome to the family. I’m the same way. What’s your goal? You really have two options: -if you want to hook up or just date for the sake of dating you need to lower your expectations. -if you want to find someone to be in a long-term relationship with just be patient.
/r/seduction01/10/21 06:05 PM
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Congrats my man. Rejection is a natural part of life- not just with relationships but professionally as well. Those who fear rejection are doomed to a life of mediocrity. Sounds like you’re on the right path though 😎
/r/seduction30/09/21 07:36 PM
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What do you mean by “too comfortable”? That’s pretty much the ultimate goal in any relationship, so I need to know what you mean before trying to give advice. Since it would hurt you to lose her and the spark isn’t there “right now” I would suggest you try to think of what the pros and cons would be to leaving her and when the last time you felt a spark was. Taking some time a part may help, but I would be inconspicuous about it. Don’t tell her you want to take a break or spend some time apart. …
/r/seduction30/09/21 02:27 PM
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Ironic, I just watched a video about this guy Schopenhauer- very smart person in general- but he said that sometimes in society, in order to connect with people, you must play the fool to an extent (act dumber than you are). His reasoning is that no one likes an overly intelligent person because it makes them feel stupid. For example, consider the person who pretentiously corrects another’s vocabulary on the spot. People don’t like to feel like you’re lecturing them even if you’re just talking. …
/r/seduction29/09/21 02:51 PM
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Hmm sounds to me then like you might be psyching yourself out.
/r/seduction28/09/21 06:14 PM
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I always found that you should listen more than you talk especially when you first meet someone. Observe their appearance. You might notice something you could ask about. It sounds to me like the issue is that you just have trouble talking with people which is natural. How are your conversations with guys?
/r/seduction28/09/21 02:52 PM
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Definitely but it takes effort on our parts. It isn’t magic.
/r/seduction22/09/21 04:15 PM
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It seems that way. This group seems to have some pretty good advice a lot of times, so if they are now they probably won't be for long 😏
/r/seduction19/09/21 05:52 PM
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People dming you about a private issue You: makes a public thread 😂😂
/r/seduction19/09/21 05:46 PM
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I don't think it's that big of a deal, but it depends on how much inexperience we talking about. Sounds like the encounter was still fairly successful for you, so I wouldn't worry too much
/r/seduction19/09/21 05:42 PM
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Say something like “well he’s a very lucky man” or “I hope he realizes how fortunate he is to have a girl like you”. Don’t pursue trying to get with her if she says she’s taken. It’s bad taste
/r/seduction18/09/21 04:44 PM
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Umm i don’t. The gym’s for working-out, not picking-up girls 🤔
/r/seduction18/09/21 12:22 AM
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Ah I see. I don’t know much about life in Argentina, but maybe try hanging around some more sophisticated people. Spending time around people like that is cool occasionally, but if they’re not helping you in anyway, you should find a group of people who will. Just my opinion.
/r/seduction18/09/21 12:20 AM
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You know, believe it or not, girls find proper use of language sexy. Even more so if you have an accent. What are you studying?
/r/seduction17/09/21 01:40 PM
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I got the same vibes while reading it, but unlike Elliot, who did absolutely nothing to better himself, this dude is doing something to better himself. Totally agree that a mindset shift is in order though
/r/seduction17/09/21 02:32 AM
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The optimal word here is “feel”. You don’t feel attractive. You feel it’s too late. Well I can guarantee you it’s not too late and would bet money that you’re above average at least in terms of your physical appearance. What you need is to develop some confidence. There’s many ways to do it. My way was through style and fragrances. I went from feeling like a total dud, probably like you feel now, to the fucking man. I’m not even exaggerating. Trust me, girls don’t matter much in the grand scheme…
/r/seduction17/09/21 12:50 AM
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Confidence is key. Maybe you’re kind of confident, but it sounds to be like there’s still enough doubt. Doubt is akin to cancer. It spreads and infects your healthy thoughts. Here’s my suggestions: -to enhance your confidence I would recommend dressing-up/being more stylish. Maybe buy some nice perfumes, and some new make-up if that’s your thing. You’d be surprised how much just that will help make you feel better. -how a girl, or person in general, carries themself is everything. Confidence att…
/r/seduction16/09/21 02:45 PM
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A few things that should happens Work on your confidence. This can be done in many ways. Personally, I got into style and fragrances. Sometimes a change in attire is that boost you need. Check out my bio if interested in learning more about the topic. Start working-out. Find something you enjoy doing. Like with me, I have two fitness games on the Nintendo Switch and I go on long walks. As part of that try being a bit more aware of what you eat. You don’t have to go overboard with it though. Find…
/r/seduction15/09/21 10:06 PM
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Bro, your first priority should be putting your life together. Start by working on your mindset. Sounds like you might be depressed or at least just completely unconfident. It might take some work but I know you can do it. I’m sending good vibes out 😁😁
/r/seduction15/09/21 09:51 PM
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Don’t overthink it, and don’t think of them as hot girls or attractive women. Those were my two biggest mistakes
/r/seduction12/09/21 10:58 PM
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2 cents? This seems like two dense paragraphs to me. Completely agree though
/r/seduction11/09/21 12:01 AM
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Nicely said. Women don’t usually like needy guys. It’s just a bad look. That includes most, if not all, beta male qualities. I feel every guy should learn a bit about stoicism. It’ll help with women and life in general. Trust me 😎
/r/seduction10/09/21 02:52 PM
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Make up a fictitious women and try to make her jealous 😏
/r/seduction07/09/21 03:26 PM
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Honestly, if you have no social skills you probably won’t hook up with her, but I’d just try talking with her. Notice something she’s wearing, holding, cooking, etc, and just start talking about that
/r/seduction04/09/21 12:46 PM
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You know what to send her 😏
/r/seduction04/09/21 03:17 AM
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True. I meant abrasive. Like skipping the talk and going right to the sex part. Even some girls like that I’m sure; just not from my experience. Thanks for pointing that out!
/r/seduction03/09/21 12:14 PM
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I was the same way man. First thing to do is not to overthink things. Girls are just people so you don’t get all caught up in the “picking-up girls” bull shit. Second, don’t be afraid to get a little deep and to actually listen to what she says. Trust me, don’t want to be treated like pieces of meat. Keep it friendly at first and make sure to listen and actually respond to her. A lot of guys make this mistake. Third, give genuine compliments. Something like “I just noticed but you have very allu…
/r/seduction03/09/21 12:05 PM
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Delete her and move on. Simple as that.
/r/seduction02/09/21 10:11 PM
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You went to a Cowboy restaurant on your second date? How could she possibly stay away? Real talk though 😎 This isn't 90 Day Fiancee where they can be needy af, and still keep getting chances. Being needy is perhaps the most undesirable trait.
/r/seduction02/09/21 05:53 PM
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Nothing wrong with that either haha. Probably going to save you from a lot of unnecessary stress.
/r/seduction02/09/21 01:47 AM
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Nothing wrong with high standards, in my opinion. Trust me, they help
/r/seduction02/09/21 12:11 AM
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I guess the question is why can’t you find anyone that suits you? I can kind of relate though. I was basically single up until I met my wife at 28
/r/seduction01/09/21 10:05 PM
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Maybe they feel it’s easier to give you their number in the moment and decide. How soon after do you reach out to them? Maybe give it a week or so. That way you don’t seem like the average guy.
/r/seduction01/09/21 12:30 PM
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Hahaha you’re right! They tend to be harder to find, but it’s almost always worth it. Plus, to me that’s way more fun— trying to find a specific kind of person among crowds of basic people 😂😂
/r/seduction31/08/21 07:39 PM
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I understand. When I was in my early twenties I felt like I was missing-out too, but in retrospect, the only things I missed-out on were the possible STD and inevitable stress that comes with that kind of behavior lol. Sounds to me that you’re on the right path with that mindset😏
/r/seduction31/08/21 04:51 PM
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Good call. Directly asking is always better than merely speculating. Good luck 😏
/r/seduction31/08/21 01:45 PM
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Glad you knew what I meant haha. Autocorrect can be a real pain sometimes. In that case, it sounds like it could be the age. Younger girls seem to have a harder time deciding things for themselves for some reason. It’s annoying :/
/r/seduction31/08/21 01:19 PM
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I wouldn’t worry about appearing beta, but just the way you wrote that sounds like something either a girl would say or a gay guy. You definitely want to be into a conversation, but choose your wording carefully. From my experience, girls definitely find over enthusiasm unattractive. Maybe watch some Chuck Norris movies to see how it’s done 😎
/r/seduction31/08/21 12:55 PM
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H hi or long is “some time now”? From my experience, sometimes girls lose interest if you take to long to ask them out. It’s essentially being put in the friend zone. It’s somewhat odd that she asked you out and then cancelled. How old is she? A lot of times younger girls can be severely influenced by their friends.
/r/seduction31/08/21 12:38 PM
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I see lol. Both are completely reasonable reasons. What I use to do when I wanted to talk with a girl in class was show up early. That way you can kind of determine the layout of the class. Is she apt to come in early? If so, that might work to your advantage
/r/seduction31/08/21 12:32 PM
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Absolutely. It’s actually great to have standards especially these days. If you’re not 100% into a girl you shouldn’t do anything with her anyway...just in in case. I’m very calculating as well, so I always saw that as an unnecessary risk even if the probability of her getting knocked-up was low.
/r/seduction31/08/21 12:29 PM
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Can’t not bring your wallet!
/r/seduction31/08/21 03:34 AM
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Just makes you seem desperate man. No girl’s worth that. Just remind yourself why you guys broke up on the first place. That should help prevent you feeling like you need to reach out to her.
/r/seduction31/08/21 03:32 AM
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We’ve all been there my man. Any particular reason you didn’t today? For me I use to wait for the perfect moment with stuff like that. If it wasn’t perfect I wouldn’t do it.
/r/seduction31/08/21 03:30 AM
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It’s probably not often successful, but it likely does depend on a lot of other factors like if there’s attraction from the get go
/r/seduction31/08/21 01:17 AM
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I’m 5”7 and my height has literally never impacted my interactions with girls. Only people who really care about height are superficial in my opinion.
/r/seduction30/08/21 11:59 PM
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Height. Comparatively, facial aesthetics are way more important
/r/seduction30/08/21 08:29 PM
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Hmm well you probably heard this already somewhere, but maybe you surprised her with your immediacy which caused her to back off a little. Maybe she needs time to think, but if she was doing all those things then I don't think you misread things. I'd say give it some time.
/r/seduction30/08/21 08:23 PM
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Very well said 🤘🤘
/r/seduction30/08/21 07:39 PM
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I feel you. Are your standards high or are you a morally obligated person? If so, that might be why. Nothing wrong with it either, in my opinion. In fact, the build-up to a sexual encounter can be much more satisfying than the actual encounter.
/r/seduction30/08/21 07:37 PM
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