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| 12 | Enjoying small talk | to_glory_we_steer | /r/askTRP | 25/06/17 10:12 AM | |
| 9 | Can't cum | to_glory_we_steer | /r/askTRP | 06/05/17 04:27 PM | |
| 7 | Great girl, red flags, what's your read? | to_glory_we_steer | /r/askTRP | 09/05/17 11:24 AM | |
| 6 | How do you deal with mildly sociopathic/low self-esteem men | to_glory_we_steer | /r/askTRP | 04/12/17 05:00 PM | |
| 2 | Next or reset? | to_glory_we_steer | /r/askTRP | 04/03/17 09:26 AM | |
| 2 | Playing it too cool and whether to initiate? | to_glory_we_steer | /r/askTRP | 15/03/17 02:06 PM | |
| 1 | Trust your gut & thanks to the community | to_glory_we_steer | /r/askTRP | 28/06/17 09:13 AM | |
| 1 | Mirroring as an absolute? | to_glory_we_steer | /r/askTRP | 28/04/17 10:57 PM | |
| 0 | Ok stupid question but | to_glory_we_steer | /r/askTRP | 17/03/17 01:40 PM |
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| 2 | I'm a woman who is wondering if I've massively fucked up things with my BF? Friends accused him of cheating.Your friends are idiots... FWB for 7 years and then a relationship, how old are you because that's a weirdly large amount of time to take prior to moving to a relationship, not bad necessarily but it definitely needs both of your ages to put it in context and allow me to refine this answer. And to answer your question, you made a legitimate mistake, based on incorrect information. On the upside, you didn't mess up by flipping and sending him an abusive message. The best option is to play the wai… | /r/askTRP | 06/02/18 03:53 PM |
| 2 | I still have a hard time accepting she is not mine it's just my turnEh, my sister manages it with her boyfriend. And he's a fairly beta guy. Nothing is certain in this world and TRP is just a guideline. a LDR from another country does seem problematic though, keep focused on your mission, grow in value and be stoic... If she stays with you - great, if she leaves you - it's not like she's the only girl you'll ever date | /r/askTRP | 03/01/18 08:50 PM |
| 3 | Branded as fuckboi?We've had the same experience OP, there are various reasons for it. Sometimes it's because they're testing you to see if you really are alpha. Other times it's because you were their stooge/less attractive friend who increased their value/made them feel better about themselves. In my experience you'll lose some friendships from this which is OK as it separates the real friends from the fake ones. As for the women, who gives a flying fuck? With any luck you'll be drowning in pussy shortly and in … | /r/askTRP | 03/01/18 08:43 PM |
| 1 | Living with parents and working a shit job has destroyed me and made me believe I am a born loser. How to overcome?What was your journalistic focus, do you have expertise in a particular subject and do you have any examples of your writing for this? PM me if so, I may be able to help | /r/askTRP | 10/10/17 01:14 PM |
| 7 | Dude got ahead of me and I let it, was I right?The correct response is to stand up straight, stare directly at him and utter: Do not, my friend, become addicted to water. It will take hold of you, and you will resent its absence! If he doesn't leave then start screaming incoherently until you assert dominance | /r/askTRP | 08/09/17 12:21 PM |
| 14 | Im 19 yrs old in the Military and have a LTR. It seems to me my mom is trying to almost "compete" with my girlfriendlol, just ignore it dude. Her behaviour isn't healthy for either of you and responding to her feeds her pathetic need for attention. In all fairness she's right that gf's do come and go but (I hope to god) your mum is not a substitute for a gf | /r/askTRP | 08/09/17 12:16 PM |
| 2 | Relationship-zoned, need adviceHow do you go about doing this without appearing butthurt? I can't imagine doing this and her not saying something like "Are you mad at me?", how do you respond to that? Appear bored or disinterested instead, there are other emotions than anger. She says "are you mad at me", you respond "no, I wanted to do something interesting", essentially saying "you're boring", this will work but only if you can keep your emotions in check and hold frame. So if she asks "Are you disappointed in me?", I shoul… | /r/askTRP | 24/08/17 04:19 PM |
| 3 | Relationship-zoned, need adviceWe get back to my house and she tells me she's on the period, no biggie, make out, I can tell she got really turned on, cuddle a bit then I take her home. This is LMR, just say that doesn't bother you, keep on with the foreplay, tease her, drive her wild and re-escalate or get her to use her mouth. Don't be afraid to be sexual and push a little (within reason). Hit her up 4 days later to hang out 4 days is kinda quick, would have gone radio silent and let her initiate, if she doesn't contact you… | /r/askTRP | 24/08/17 12:09 PM |
| 0 | On Initiating Social shit vs. being invited, how to expand and what to expectMy bad, I should have provided more detail. I hang out with my brother and sister alot, talk to my folks and colleagues on a daily basis. Meet or chat to people from several online communities (gaming [infrequently] and geopolitics [frequently]). However I fundamentally disagree that this is dangerous thinking, it's a red pill tenet to develop yourself and that your happiness will flow from this. In the situation I mentioned these friends spent most of their time playing videogames, getting drun… | /r/askTRP | 16/08/17 03:05 PM |
| 0 | On Initiating Social shit vs. being invited, how to expand and what to expectSimilar situation OP, in the end I felt they weren't worth my time. I largely stopped talking to them and focussed on my mission(s). In all honesty I haven't felt this happy and content in a long time. Your happiness should come from you, not from the people you know and the mechanism to this is development of innate value through self improvement . | /r/askTRP | 16/08/17 08:51 AM |
| 2 | Need some advice to see what I did wrong todayWhile I'm studying, every few minutes she starts up a conversation, or talks about how difficult the work is, etc etc. I realise I'm not getting any work done. After 30 minutes, I grab my stuff, tell her I need to go, and leave. At any point did you tell her you were trying to study and that you could talk afterwards? Seems like you kept your displeasure to yourself then went nuclear Anyways, I go to [library 2] and start studying there. I start feeling horrible. I don't have that many friends t… | /r/askTRP | 15/08/17 09:09 AM |
| 1 | Mood swings does anybody else also suffers from thisSecond the above, perhaps you're someone who needs to accomplish a lot to feel good | /r/askTRP | 25/07/17 02:06 PM |
| 3 | Losing My Inner FireFind a new calling or develop your own. As for spirituality, to me it's just something greater than yourself, doesn't have to be God(s), it can be a lifestyle, an undertaking, a philosophy, an experience, etc. From my experience, spirituality is hitting bottom and seeing the world above you knowing that you can't go lower so there's nothing to fear and drawing strength from that. Spirituality is in the clouds and rain descending upon you in a cacophony of noise and sensation, flooding the mounta… | /r/askTRP | 24/07/17 06:49 PM |
| 1 | How Do I ExistSuffering is an inevitable part of life, if you mean as long as we cause nobody to suffer then that's arguably down to the individual and something dependent on their personality and beliefs. What immoral ways do you mean? | /r/askTRP | 21/07/17 12:51 PM |
| 1 | How to react to LTR making an instagram?She's posting travel pics, not pictures of her asshole, how are you this insecure? Also why do you need 3 options on how to respond? You sound like a 'choose your own adventure book', just keep a casual eye on it, if she mentions it be cool and ask what prompted it, jeez | /r/askTRP | 21/07/17 08:46 AM |
| 3 | Noob Fitness QuestionDude, just cut, eat (non-sweet) vegetables, salad and lean meats. Easy as fuck to cook, just dice the veg, cover in olive oil & herbs/spice do the same to your meat minus dicing it then put it in the oven. Eat a slightly smaller portion of that than you would typically, drink more liquids (only water) to help you feel full then get your fat ass out and do cardio with some lifting. Source, went from having a small belly last year to seeing my 6-pack now | /r/askTRP | 20/07/17 11:52 AM |
| 1 | Plate who was hooked - "we can meet but we're not sleeping together". Shit test?The reason she came back was so she could move the situation into her frame, soft nexting only works if you actually cut contact with the person. | /r/askTRP | 19/07/17 08:38 AM |
| 2 | Skin care?Sure, some alternatives are tuna, chicken, beans and nuts. There are also vegan alternatives such as hemp protein, brown rice protein and pea protein though in the case of the latter 2 they need to be combined for a full amino acid profile | /r/askTRP | 19/07/17 08:34 AM |
| 1 | Skin care?Full disclosure I'm no expert so check what I say. There are natural growth hormones in milk and eggs as well as artificial growth hormones fed to animals, these might actually boost your ability to grow muscle but may also effect your skin. Some plants have high levels of phytoestrogens which are a very weak form of estrogen, while many artificial pesticides effect hormones or have the same effect as estrogen. So yes eating organic produce will help mitigate some of these issues | /r/askTRP | 19/07/17 08:31 AM |
| 1 | Skin care?Are eggs the only source of cheap protein? | /r/askTRP | 18/07/17 09:33 PM |
| 3 | Want to commit suicideNice guys can help people, they just can't be supplicating bitches about it. She's your sister, not a plate; stop applying plate tactics on someone who's more like a dughter to you. Don't feel like you can't help out worthwhile family because of RP; just make sure it's a hand up, not a hand out. This ^ | /r/askTRP | 18/07/17 07:50 PM |
| 2 | Skin care?Yes, cows lay them | /r/askTRP | 18/07/17 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Skin care?Milk and cheese contain hormones and sugar in the form of lactose, eggs also contain hormones. But as you say it's whatever works for you | /r/askTRP | 18/07/17 07:40 PM |
| 1 | How often do you guys text plates?Gym doesn't count, you should be doing that regardless, hanging out with friends is valid though. Sounds like she found someone else or lost interest, just ignore her for a week and let her contact you, also never ever initiate contact. If a girl gives you attitude treat her like your brat sister, tease her or ignore her, of course if she acts like a cunt, next her. Sex and companionship is never worth taking shit from a bitch | /r/askTRP | 18/07/17 07:33 PM |
| 2 | Plate who was hooked - "we can meet but we're not sleeping together". Shit test?Yeah women provoke and test men constantly, taking a step back is a good idea but also don't be afraid to next her is she causes you grief. It's her proving herself to you, not the other way round | /r/askTRP | 18/07/17 07:25 PM |
| 1 | Skin care?This is a really solid point, if people have any other recommendations drop them here. I use birch tar soap because I have dandruff, head and shoulders and T-Gel stank, dried out my scalp and irritated my skin, birch tar soap does none of that. | /r/askTRP | 18/07/17 01:32 PM |
| 3 | Plate who was hooked - "we can meet but we're not sleeping together". Shit test?You dumbass, of course she would have slept with you, what she said was ASD and her trying to set the frame. All you needed to do was reply "lol, I'll see you on xxx" then read the sidebar and apply what you have learnt | /r/askTRP | 18/07/17 01:25 PM |
| 2 | How often do you guys text plates?I think that depends on how long you've known her and whether this is something you've done before, couple of months and it's OK imo. However, it's worth considering that you should have done something in the interim, otherwise you look like you have no social life. Also asking her to meet the next day is putting her on the spot, don't expect her to say yes. And finally, is she just a plate to you and are you spinning others? Sounds like she's the only one and you have some feels | /r/askTRP | 18/07/17 01:15 PM |
| 30 | Skin care?Ok here's what works for me: Washing Don't wash your face with soap don't scrub when you wash your face use warm but not hot water avoid getting shampoo or conditioner on your face when drying pat your skin with a towel rather than rubbing Moisturising and skincare After Showering Use a non-comodogenic moisturiser, I use Cetaphil (get one with sunblock, sounds weird but it'll do wonders for your skin) a couple of minutes later I'll add a layer of retinol cream by Poppy Austin, this hides pores a… | /r/askTRP | 18/07/17 11:55 AM |
| 1 | She wants to "spill her secrets"Nice work, will check the new thread in a bit | /r/askTRP | 10/07/17 08:07 PM |
| 1 | First meet with Tinder girl ends with her saying "we will see"...is there a chance for more or did she mean "fuck off"?then she looked back and stopped but when I started walking again so did she That's because she knew you would follow, if you wan't walk fast that complicates things. I'd tell the next girl about your issue and if she too outpaces you, tease her about being in a rush. Won't pry as to what your injury is but if it's a weight/exercise issue, sort that shit out, otherwise use it to your advantage. Spin a story that paints you as a survivor/hero | /r/askTRP | 08/07/17 09:40 AM |
| 1 | First meet with Tinder girl ends with her saying "we will see"...is there a chance for more or did she mean "fuck off"?Why would you try to keep up? Push and pull, you should have slowed right down, for bonus points stop and start a conversation with an attractive girl along the way. Also if you're not feeling it just say "hey I don't think we're a good fit, good luck with your dating", and leave, make yourself the commodity | /r/askTRP | 07/07/17 05:59 PM |
| 1 | She wants to "spill her secrets"How did it go? | /r/askTRP | 07/07/17 04:54 PM |
| 6 | She wants to "spill her secrets"Honestly, it sounds like you're far too into this girl already and you need to step back from that. Her setting the terms of your next encounter is an attempt to control the frame and the correct response is to ghost her for 3+ days and not reference it when you start talking again. In this case you're meeting tomorrow so you just need to ghost until a few hours before you meet then text "see you at xx". Of course she could also be very different to the image of her that you currently have (dark… | /r/askTRP | 06/07/17 01:18 PM |
| 1 | Pain in Forearm when doing curls with Ez barI had the same, you need to take 1-2 weeks off and ice it every night. EZ curl bars are notorious for this, what can help is switching to dumbells at a slightly lower weight. Don't ever keep going when you feel pain like this, it'll lead to tendonitis and months off of lifting | /r/askTRP | 04/07/17 09:30 AM |
| 2 | Trust your gut & thanks to the communityFully agree, gotta make mistakes to learn from them though | /r/askTRP | 28/06/17 09:50 AM |
| 1 | I'm amazing at bullshitting myself, requesting RP men opnions.Great advice with great delivery | /r/askTRP | 27/06/17 10:48 AM |
| 9 | What the fuck is up with horse girls.I think the psychology has a lot to do with riding and caring for a huge, muscular and mostly pliant animal with a cock that could put the most gifted guy to shame | /r/askTRP | 26/06/17 02:52 PM |
| 3 | Any early-30s guys tired of constant disappointment decide to lower your standards to find an LTR?Mate I briefly plated this 17 yr old, her thing was older guys and she basically let these borderline predators use her, her mum actually encouraged it. In hindsight she was a creepy little fuck, yet stunningly good looking and to meet her you'd think she was the most innocent girl. Women are a fucking mess but society leaves them like that and tbh if guys could get laid with the ease a woman could we'd probably sleep around as much. It's sickening isn't it | /r/askTRP | 25/06/17 07:12 AM |
| 3 | Any early-30s guys tired of constant disappointment decide to lower your standards to find an LTR?Yeah I'm 30 and many women are like this, however I don't see it as a forgone conclusion, more a message that I: A. Need to improve myself and focus on my mission and... B. Change the venues I meet women to ones which are likely to boost the quality I get that it's hard man but you can't give up and settle, you'll always have this nagging doubt about what you could have achieved. Learn to love your self, you are your own best company | /r/askTRP | 24/06/17 11:40 PM |
| 1 | Old bestfriend constantly talking shitSounds like a cunt, get shot of him. Went through something similar, kept the guy around hoping things would return to how they were and occasionally it'd be fun but more often than not it wasn't. IMO second chances/holding out is never worth it, you're just experiencing sunk cost fallacy. | /r/askTRP | 15/06/17 10:17 AM |
| 1 | Opinion on xtc?xtc initially helped me become more comfortable with socialising, cued me in more to focusing on facial cues, body language and the other person. Experiencing it a couple of times is fine, however it easily becomes a social crutch just like alcohol. As for the health effects, at minimum staying up all night is going to be bad for you, to say nothing of serotonin depletion. The trouble with drugs is that people make them a part of their identity, when you drop e on a night out that quickly become… | /r/askTRP | 13/06/17 07:16 PM |
| 2 | Beta backslide and how to regain control of frame?Then what are you worried about you numpty?! Go enjoy your weekend | /r/askTRP | 09/06/17 02:04 PM |
| 1 | Beta backslide and how to regain control of frame?Gets the best of us my friend, what I've found helpful is to write down all the negatives about her. Helps you put things in perspective, kill the feels and have a better interaction with the girl. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/17 01:52 PM |
| 1 | Beta backslide and how to regain control of frame?Sounds like you're not outcome independent on this one and she can tell that you're not willing to walk away at any time. Shit happens, just keep it radio silent and if she contacts you just go from there. In the meantime hookup, live your life, don't focus on regrets. Just to underscore it, if you contact her first you move into her frame and weaken your position immeasurably | /r/askTRP | 09/06/17 01:22 PM |
| 0 | What music puts you into an alpha/chad state of mind?Hatebreed or Hopsin | /r/askTRP | 09/06/17 01:12 PM |
| 1 | how to respond to a command from a friend (disrespect?)Response: only if you say please | /r/askTRP | 08/06/17 11:13 AM |
| 1 | this guy i'm with is god-awful in bed. I get so dry with him and can't orgasm. Should I tell him?Sounds like he watches too much porn, in any case... You don't have to be honest to get what you want, tell him what you like, show him what to do, communication is important at any level. If he doesn't change then it's down to you whether you next him | /r/askTRP | 05/06/17 02:35 PM |
| 1 | Lost girl because I couldn't get hard, anyone else struggeled with this?Had the same, nofap killed my libido, it's recovering now but I found it difficult to get hard (still do kinda) and I find it difficult to cum from PIV (multiple women). Maybe nofap is great if you have 90 days to spare but enforced monk mode isn't really practical for many of us. Try supplementing with ZMA, that's made me horny AF in the past, also get your testosterone levels checked | /r/askTRP | 05/06/17 02:08 PM |
| 1 | Disappointed with the men in my lifeI do some of them solo, I've grown closer to my brother so I do some of those things with him and others I do with lady friends. I'm looking to befriend people but at the same time I'm content on my own most of the time. If you're in the UK drop me a PM and we can hang out sometime | /r/askTRP | 03/06/17 11:34 AM |
| 1 | Disappointed with the men in my lifeI'm in the same situation as you, my oldest friends are somewhat directionless in life. I'd organise events, they'd turn up, usually we'd have fun but after a while I became bored of them and decided to go silent and let them take the initiative. Turns out they had none so I filled my life with exercise, krav maga and started going to all the places and doing all the things that they'd never be bothered to do. You know what, it's liberating and I have to say I miss them very little. Fill your li… | /r/askTRP | 02/06/17 07:31 PM |
| 5 | Cut or bulk?If you're going to bulk, then do a clean bulk, don't use this as an excuse to become fatter, it's a pain in the ass to get thin later. Also running counter to what people usually say I'd do a bit of cardio on your off days, looking lean is probably going to do more for your self esteem and sense of wellbeing | /r/askTRP | 24/05/17 11:20 AM |
| 2 | Raising Smv question: protein shakes and acneHey OP, I've suffered from adult acne for a long time and finally managed to get it under control, what I've learned is below: Soy protein and soya in general is full of phytoestrogen dairy including eggs are full of hormones and a huge trigger for acne eat organic white meat or wild fish where possible, should be antibiotic and growth hormone free though may already be depending on regulations in your country white meat is less inflammatory so should help complexion some nuts and seeds contain … | /r/askTRP | 24/05/17 10:36 AM |
| 1 | Is Masculinity Possible While Being Scrawny?Change it up, keep the cardio but lower it to half an hour and switch to rowing. It's a resistance exercise and works loads of muscles as well as being great for cardio. Eat beforehand so you're not catabolic and make sure you use correct form As for the rest just keep lifting heavy with correct form. As for nutrition, easiest way I've found is to keep lean and eat right. If you gain a little fat cut back on your calories and if you fail to improve in lifts, up your calorie intake. You can also … | /r/askTRP | 23/05/17 09:40 AM |
| 1 | Is Masculinity Possible While Being Scrawny?Depends what your goals are and if you're happy with your build, if it's working for you keep going. However that does sound excessive so if you're having trouble getting bigger I'd limit cardio to 2-3 times a week for no more than 30-40 minutes and up your calorie intake. What's your current routine and what are your goals? | /r/askTRP | 22/05/17 02:58 PM |
| 3 | Is Masculinity Possible While Being Scrawny?Former scrawny guy checking in, being big definitely helps visually signal your masculinity. However it's your mental state and actions that are by far the greatest indicator of your masculinity. Lead a masculine life, it's no good being Hulk Hogan if you act like a simpering beta when people insult you. On the downside you have to capture a woman's attention to demonstrate masculinity through your actions. However this extra effort will be magnified once your strength training pays off As far a… | /r/askTRP | 22/05/17 10:55 AM |
| 0 | Great girl, red flags, what's your read?That's rough, did you marry her or just plate? | /r/askTRP | 09/05/17 03:25 PM |
| -9 | Great girl, red flags, what's your read?I'm not trying to keep her, she's trying to keep me | /r/askTRP | 09/05/17 01:26 PM |
| 1 | Great girl, red flags, what's your read?Sure seems that way, not a bad thing if it makes you aim higher | /r/askTRP | 09/05/17 01:24 PM |
| 1 | Great girl, red flags, what's your read?Sounds bad. I have to say I agree Don't trust her words but her actions. She tells you she has no options but she is on tinder. What would you expect to be more true? She's deleted her Tinder, I checked a while back. But yeah, sound advice | /r/askTRP | 09/05/17 12:24 PM |
| 1 | Great girl, red flags, what's your read?Couple of days a week afaik | /r/askTRP | 09/05/17 12:07 PM |
| -5 | Great girl, red flags, what's your read?Yeah I have horrible preference in women, trouble is the decent ones are so boring | /r/askTRP | 09/05/17 12:03 PM |
| 1 | Great girl, red flags, what's your read?3 | /r/askTRP | 09/05/17 12:01 PM |
| 0 | Great girl, red flags, what's your read?Truly | /r/askTRP | 09/05/17 12:01 PM |
| 1 | Great girl, red flags, what's your read?Not necessarily a red flag for me depending on your/her age. Well she is looking for commitment. You seem to have an aura where such talk is ok in a joking frame. Again this is a matter of age. I'm 30, she's 26, how does this figure to you Depending on your and her age no red flag IMO. If she brags about it I would be concerned. No bragging Probably she is open to the outcome because you are also only one of her options She's literally told me I'm her only option, pessimistically I'd say if I wa… | /r/askTRP | 09/05/17 12:00 PM |
| -5 | Great girl, red flags, what's your read?Despite the axiom on TRP, the issue of single mothers is inspired by a trend in behaviour rather than an absolute rule. I'm well aware that these concerns are rooted in typical experience though so trust me when I say, I'm cautious | /r/askTRP | 09/05/17 11:33 AM |
| 1 | Stumbled on GF's diary - what should I make of it?If you're a natural alpha then in many ways you've developed in absence of the mistakes which many of us made and learned from. For example I have a friend who has a natural alpha personality yet he's pussy whipped by his gf and has recently given way to narcissism and alcoholism. The battle is continuous and he's losing it without even realising he's fighting. You're striving to improve and this is good but be vigilant and assume that in spite of your successes your behaviour and mindset always… | /r/askTRP | 09/05/17 09:51 AM |
| 3 | Stumbled on GF's diary - what should I make of it?Ok, well my serious response is... Another poster mentioned that this diary is where she comes to vent in which case you should be able to cross-reference that with other entries. Assuming this is the case then there are 2 possible considerations: your gf has a point and whether you intend to or not you're acting as a stereotype rather than a natural alpha (lets face it most are here because we're faking it until we make it). In which case look at yourself with a critical light and refine your b… | /r/askTRP | 09/05/17 09:09 AM |
| 8 | Stumbled on GF's diary - what should I make of it?Your gf's diary entry reads like it was written by a guy, the tone is wrong for a woman and many of the terms used are exclusive to TRP community. | /r/askTRP | 09/05/17 08:36 AM |
| 1 | Can't cumFair point, guess I focus too much on their pleasure | /r/askTRP | 06/05/17 08:38 PM |
| 1 | Can't cumPosition wise what I want but I want them to get off so I respond to and provoke their reactions | /r/askTRP | 06/05/17 08:31 PM |
| 2 | Can't cumRow once/twice a week at a decent pace for 20 minutes, 2 hours of Krav Maga and stronglifts | /r/askTRP | 06/05/17 08:07 PM |
| 5 | Can't cumWith her fist or finger? | /r/askTRP | 06/05/17 07:18 PM |
| 1 | Can't cumCould be I prefer slower but they respond better to harder so will try that | /r/askTRP | 06/05/17 07:17 PM |
| 1 | Can't cumNah, I take: Vit B complex Vit C Vit D Calcium Magnesium Zinc And that's it | /r/askTRP | 06/05/17 07:17 PM |
| 4 | Can't cumI think you're right here, any tips on immersing? | /r/askTRP | 06/05/17 05:22 PM |
| 2 | Can't cumhaha yeh I'm hard just can't cum | /r/askTRP | 06/05/17 05:13 PM |
| 2 | Can't cumnothing | /r/askTRP | 06/05/17 05:13 PM |
| 1 | need help it's an emergencyJust leave a comment or start a thread | /r/askTRP | 27/04/17 08:50 AM |
| 1 | need help it's an emergencyOops, try http://boards.4chan.org/g/ good luck | /r/askTRP | 26/04/17 04:05 PM |
| 1 | Advice for my situation 20/MThat's a definite positive, in that case feel free to tell her you love her | /r/askTRP | 26/04/17 03:32 PM |
| 2 | need help it's an emergencyHe's a very skilled hacker, if you go on his website http://boards.4chan.org/g/ and ask around for "4chan the hacker" he should be able to help you out | /r/askTRP | 26/04/17 02:46 PM |
| 3 | Emotional statesYou're on the right path already, get rid of drugs, alcohol and masturbation too if you haven't already. Doesn't have to be overnight but these things damage your reward circuits. You should add cardio to your off days and healthy eating as well, lifting is great but long term happiness for me has come from endurance cardio. Also consider your situation, your place in the world, your relationships with friends, speak aloud and honestly, be critical. Your subconscious will often respond to proble… | /r/askTRP | 26/04/17 01:45 PM |
| 1 | I do want to be a feminine woman, but my mind won't allow me to be because of past trauma. What do I do?iirc many people who've been sexually abused attempt to relive the experience later on in life, in order to gain power over it. Perhaps take time to sound out a dominant person who you can trust to put you in this situation and try your best to work through it. Ultimately your happiness is your own, do you feel this experience is something that causes you pain or unhappiness because of others expectations of you, or your own? Others expectations are an impetus for social cohesion via personal ca… | /r/askTRP | 26/04/17 01:39 PM |
| 3 | Advice for my situation 20/MFirst part sounds solid, she's come to visit you twice so money and investment don't seem to be issues. She said that she "would like to love me" So why doesn't she? Or is that a language difficulty. Watch her actions not her words on this one, has she told you she loves you rather than her intent to? im a "breath of fresh air" in her life Sounds like she may have a shitty life at home and you're her escape, what do you think that reason might be? If she comes to see you is she escaping to your … | /r/askTRP | 26/04/17 01:30 PM |
| 2 | need help it's an emergencyHave you tried that 4chan guy? | /r/askTRP | 26/04/17 01:17 PM |
| 3 | i wrote this on a notepad . i need a little bit of help please .Just assume that everyone is acting out of self interest, excel at those things you're good at because you enjoy being good and don't help people because they're using you. Eventually you'll do well in your career/education which will bring its own confidence and people will become attracted to that rather than what you can do for them. Other than that, read the sidebar and cut friendships with anyone who asks for help/favours frequently. | /r/askTRP | 20/04/17 04:01 PM |
| 1 | Do you ever wonder if trp has made you too cynical about everything?It's all part of the process, accept it. You're probably gonna fuck up in future after you've gotten past this, you'll act BP and damage a relationship then the cycle will return but it'l be shorter and you'll be wiser. All part of the learning process | /r/askTRP | 18/04/17 08:17 AM |
| 3 | askTRP Megathread April 12For cardio it's great, left me pretty exhausted and I row twice a week for 20-30 minutes at a decent pace on top of lifting. They'll usually throw in some conditioning exercises and the moves/sparing alone will turn your core into rock. Just remember to keep lifting in tandem | /r/TheRedPill | 12/04/17 03:05 PM |
| 23 | askTRP Megathread April 12Hey man, I'm in the exact same boat. Some things that have worked for me are: Joining a self defence group, I'd suggest Boxing, Judo or Krav Maga, basically something to improve your confidence and become part of your fitness routine that works well if you ever need to use it, look for a friendly instructor and class Get into reading, it takes time and dedication and can be very rewarding, it lets you live another person's life vicariously, it gives you something to talk about and it educates yo… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/04/17 02:01 PM |
| 10 | Idk how to pass this shit test?2 options: Agree and amplify "Yeah he looks great, I'll go and introduce him to you" get up as if to do so, if she's into you she'll tell you don't worry, if she's not, introduce them and move on Act disinterested, go talk to a hot girl | /r/askTRP | 10/04/17 10:51 AM |
| 1 | drinking and party cultureI don't usually do much on Fridays because I'm tired from the week. I tend to work on a collaborative project creating a publication with friends, or visit my folks to hang with my bro. Though I'm going to put Krav Maga into the mix soon, having done Karate I'd suggest looking at martial arts, it keeps you fit and if the instructor is decent (friendly but expects respect, pushes you but doesn't go too far) then you should have a friendly class to socialise with as well. For Saturdays good option… | /r/askTRP | 29/03/17 08:15 AM |
| 1 | drinking and party cultureI spent a lot of my teens and 20s partying and I'm glad for some of the experiences and the horizon broadening it offered me. But it was an ultimately vapid pursuit that pretty much mandates drug and alcohol consumption and a generally unhealthy or unsustainable lifestyle. Squat parties, fancy clubs, illegal raves, house parties that got out of control and more drugs and alcohol than you could imagine, I've done it all and to be honest I wouldn't do it again. I'm not trying to brag because that'… | /r/askTRP | 28/03/17 12:18 PM |
| 1 | Ok stupid question butThe other guy is correct, put it up as a story for everyone to see. I largely agree on social media, I'm trying different things with different people to see what works. | /r/askTRP | 17/03/17 07:20 PM |
| 1 | We're almost 1/4 of the way into 2017- what have you started doing to up your game?Growing up I had a lot of problems, got expelled from 3 schools, told I'd never amount to anything. So I acted out, got in a lot of trouble, turned to video games and drink & drugs. Fortunately my parents for all their faults stuck by me and pushed me towards a career. Eventually I started working and saw that I could produce some decent work. I had little confidence and self esteem but I was taking my first steps. Flash forwards to 2017 and I don't take drugs, I seldom drink and I've quit video… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/17 12:01 PM |
| 1 | Playing it too cool and whether to initiate?Update: not only were you right but as a result of texting yesterday she chased me down today (yelled out my name in person and ran over). Never had that happen before studying TRP, feelsgoodman | /r/askTRP | 16/03/17 09:40 AM |
| 2 | Playing it too cool and whether to initiate?I think you're right. I'm not bothered so set up a date, she has a legit event (confirmed via 3rd party) but was very keen for an alternate date. I won't rush to set that up... The games we play | /r/askTRP | 15/03/17 09:56 PM |
| 5 | Attempt to be friends?Friendships operate on trust and he has proven he cannot be trusted. Consign to history and move forwards | /r/askTRP | 09/03/17 10:38 AM |
| 1 | Next or reset?Thanks for the advice, put up a couple of snaps showcasing a hike I went on today. Figured that if she views them that's an IOI, is it appropriate to contact her sooner if she does or you recommend just waiting 1-2 months regardless? Tbh everything I've learnt from TRP has produced results so I'll go with your recommendation | /r/askTRP | 04/03/17 11:41 PM |
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